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Get R.E.A.L.: Ask & Love The third & fourth steps to ask without fear! Marc A. Pitman, The Fundraising Coach, www.fundraisingcoach.com

Ask Without Fear Expanded: Step 3 Ask & Step 4 Love

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Get R.E.A.L.: Ask & LoveThe third & fourth steps to

ask without fear!

Marc A. Pitman, The Fundraising Coach, www.fundraisingcoach.com

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This Session’s Goals The most important

step

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This Session’s Goals The most important

step

Different communication styles

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This Session’s Goals The most important

step

Different communication styles

3 incredibly effective steps for crafting your message

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Fundraising is an extreme sport!

Like putting a plug into a live socket

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Let's Get R.E.A.L.!

1. Research

2. Engage

3. Ask

4. Love/Like/Live

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Ask#1 Reason people

don't give?

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Ask#1 Reason people

don't give?

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Ask#1 Reason people

don't give?

Find a connection and put the plug into the outlet!

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Ask#1 Reason people

don't give?

Find a connection and put the plug into the outlet!

Make It Easy

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7 Frequent Fundraising Faux Pas’

#7: The “My Way or the Highway” Mistreatment

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Avoiding

the “My Way or the Highway” Mistake

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Avoiding

the “My Way or the Highway” Mistake

– Dominant– Inspiring– Steady– Calculating

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Avoiding

the “My Way or the Highway” Mistake

– Dominant– Inspiring– Steady– Calculating

Remember: speak to the head & the heart

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Avoiding

the “My Way or the Highway” Mistake

– Dominant– Inspiring– Steady– Calculating

Therefore, speak to the head and the heart

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Outgoing

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Reserved

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Task-

focused

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:People-focused

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Dominant

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:

Inspiring

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:

Steady

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:

Calculating

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Different Strokes for Different Folks:Dominant

Inspiring

Steady

Calculating

Therefore, speak to the head & the heart

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Make It Easy Phraseology

– Make Your Own Gift First!

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Make It Easy Phraseology

– Make Your Own Gift First!– "I can appreciate that"

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Make It Easy Phraseology

– Make Your Own Gift First!– "I can appreciate that“

Ask for a specific $ amount

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Make It Easy Props

– Renderings– Gift Charts

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Gift Range Calculatorhttp://blackbaud.com/resources/giftrange/giftcalc.aspx

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Gift Pyramid

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Make It Easy Be honest when making

the appointment– I’d like to get together to

talk about your involvement in the project

– …your participation in the campaign…

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© The Suddes Group | Check out: www.ForImpact.org

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Make It Easy Be honest when making

the appointment– I’d like to get together to

talk about your involvement in the project

– …your participation in the campaign…

Options: Arrows in your quiver– monthly giving options– Maybe: good, better, best

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Tangibilitize your askHeifer.org gives all sorts of gift

ranges represented by different animals:

a $500 gift is symbolized as a gift of a heifer,

$120 a gift of a pig, $60 a trio of rabbits, $20 a gift of chickens. A $5000 gift is “a gift of an ark”!

The prices in this catalog represent the complete livestock gift of a quality animal, technical assistance and training. Each purchase is symbolic and represents a contribution to the entire mission of Heifer International. Donations will be used where needed most to help struggling people.

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Tangibilitize your askWhat can you quantify?

Cost to run a day?– “Day sponsors”– Show sponsors

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Tangibilitize your askWhat can you quantify?

Cost to run a day?– “Day sponsors”– Show sponsors

How much food?

How many kids?

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Tangibilitize your askHeifer.org gives all sorts of gift ranges represented by

different animals: a $500 gift is symbolized as a gift of a heifer, $120 a gift of a pig, $60 a trio of rabbits, $20 a gift of chickens. A $5000 gift is “a gift of an ark”!

The prices in this catalog represent the complete livestock gift of a quality animal, technical assistance and training. Each purchase is symbolic and represents a contribution to the entire mission of Heifer International. Donations will be used where needed most to help struggling people.

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Handling Objections What are common ones?

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Handling Objections What are common ones?

Don't have the money

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Handling Objections What are common ones?

Don't have the money– when might you?– when may I come back?

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Handling Objections What are common ones?

Don't have the money– when might you?– when may I come back?

Giving elsewhere

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Handling Objections What are common ones?

Don't have the money– when might you?– when may I come back?

Giving elsewhere– best objection

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Handling Objections What are common ones?

Don't have the money– when might you?– when may I come back?

Giving elsewhere– best objection– "how could we get in your

top 10 giving priorities?“

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Handling Objections What are common ones?

Don't have the money– when might you?– when may I come back?

Giving elsewhere– best objection– "how could we get in your

top 10 giving priorities?“

Not interested– Are they comatose?

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Let's Get R.E.A.L.!

1. Research

2. Engage

3. Ask

4. Love/Like/Live

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Love/Like/LiveLove/Like the person

anyway—they're more important than the gift

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Love/Like/LiveLove/Like the person

anyway—they're more important than the gift– This business is ALL

about relationships

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Love/Like/LiveLove/Like the person

anyway—they're more important than the gift– This business is ALL

about relationships

Live with their response!– You don't always have to

like the response but keep on loving the person

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Dealing with F.E.A.R.

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Dealing with F.E.A.R.

False

Evidence

Appearing

Real

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Dealing with F.E.A.R.

False Evidence

Appearing Real

Asking for money or helping change a kid’s life?

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Dealing with F.E.A.R.

False Evidence

Appearing Real

Asking for money or helping change a kid’s life?

Rejecting YOU or the cause?

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Dealing with F.E.A.R.

False Evidence

Appearing Real

Asking for money or helping change a kid’s life?

Rejecting YOU or the cause?

This isn't life or death!

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