Make Man Desire

The Impulsive Desire Method | Catherine Ann Kennedy

MMD THE IMPULSIVE DESIRE METHOD

A million times I ask you And then I ask you over again

You only answer Perhaps, perhaps, perhaps

If you can't make your mind up

We'll never get started And I don't wanna wind up

Being parted, broken hearted

Osvaldo Farrés

The Rhythm of Romance Impulsive desire stirs us deeply when we least expect it. At the heart of the word impulsive is the heart itself, beating with a pulse that keeps us alive. The word means “acting or doing according to emotional or involuntary impulses”. Just as the heart beats without us thinking about it, impulsive desire arises almost unknowingly, manifesting suddenly and causing us to act in ways that might go against our refined, mature, adult behavior. Acting impulsively is often associated with danger and negative consequences, but releasing inhibitions once in awhile can be incredibly rewarding.

Dangerous Desire We have all seen the news headlines about crimes committed out of passion when a betrayed lover discovers his or her partner’s infidelities and unleashes red hot rage. There is usually some amount of regret associated with acting on impulse without thinking in advance, especially when the outcome is a destroyed relationship or a prison sentence. After the impulsive act, years may be spent dwelling on how things could have been different if only emotions had not clouded rational thought and sparked an involuntary, immediate response. Passion and Pursuit Fortunately or unfortunately, a fear of shame or embarrassment keeps most people from daring to do what they would really like to do and spontaneously say what they would really like to say to others. When our impulsive desires involve hurting another person with words or deeds, it is always for the best that our instincts be kept in check. But what about the impulse to walk across the room and introduce yourself to a complete stranger whose face stirs an almost animal instinct inside of you? There is no danger in saying hello, right?

The Fine Line Between Pleasure and Pain The answer is no, but the answer is also yes. We are seldom responsible for the type of person with whom we feel sexual chemistry. It is common to be attracted to someone who is “bad” for us or otherwise off limits, perhaps because the pursuit of forbidden fruit is so thrilling. So, the person who is most at risk of being hurt in this scenario may be you, but there is a very good chance that you will enjoy the experience and come away without regrets if you play your cards right.

The Impulsive Desire Method Alex Carter’s breakthrough book How To Make Him Desire You contains secrets from the perspective of a man, which are absolutely unique and unlike any pieces of advice you will find coming from a woman. One of the tips shared by Mr. Carter is the Impulsive Desire Method for attracting and keeping a man. It directly relates to the topic of releasing inhibitions to experience some of the deepest pleasures of life. However, it is not only your impulses involved; women can learn to arouse a man and make him act impulsively too, based on his subconscious desire for you that develops from the steps which make up the method.

Your Yes Our impulses, just like our talents, reveal things about ourselves which we may be afraid to acknowledge. Both exist beyond our control, although we do have the power to choose how we respond to them. A person born with a talent for painting can ignore it and pursue a lucrative, “responsible” career as an accountant, committing to a life of unfulfilled promise, or he can risk poverty but be happy in the knowledge that he is utilizing his divine gifts. It is the same with our instincts. They exist for a reason, and the trick is to know when it is okay not to suppress them, and to say yes once in awhile. By managing our impulses in a way that will be as rewarding as possible, danger is averted and risk is rewarded handsomely -- sometimes with a handsome man.

His Yes When you learn to understand your own instincts and impulses, it will be easier to understand how to influence those of another person. In the case of a man deeply desired by a woman, her job is to observe him and determine how she can get under his skin so that she disturbs him without him knowing what is happening. It can be something as simple as making sure you are in the same place at the same time more often than usual, or as aggressive as planting a seed in his head about what it would be like to spend a night together. Either way, his impulsive desire added to yours will make for an explosive combination.

About the Author

Catherine Ann Kennedy is an American freelance writer who specializes in writing for health, fitness and

relationship blogs. Raised in Boston, her interests include psycholinguistics, travel writing and poetry translation.

When she is not writing or traveling, she is a keen observer of male-female interactions in diverse cultural settings.

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