7 Easy Ways to Keep or Reconnect with Soul Mate Love

When it comes to love, everyone is looking for that soul mate connection, whether they admit it or

not. Even the most aloof and down to Earth people on the planet that don’t believe in angels,

spirits, or Tarot, or anything like that, are looking for that one soul mate love. And yes, even

players are looking for that one person to make them think differently about commitment.

Everybody wants it, even the people that say they don’t. We’ve previously looked at the 5 ways to

attract soul mate love this summer, but there is so much more to soul mate love than that.

Attraction is only one step of the entire equation! Many of you have already met your soul mates

and are saying, now what, or, now they’re gone! What do I do now? Today we are going to

answer that question with 7 easy ways to keep or reconnect with soul mate love.

1. Remember the law of unconditional love.

A true soul mate love is an unconditional love. It is not a “being in love” high feeling, it is a love

that is there all of the time, no matter what, even when you are feeling hurt by someone. If you

can remember this law of unconditional love in your soul mate relationships, you will find your

soul mate experiences are more deeper and more profound. We know this in our head, but it’s not

enough to just think it. We have to feel it, and act on those feelings of unconditional love…no

matter what. And if we can’t with someone that we think is our soul mate, chances are, they aren’t

your soul mate. Your soul mate is someone whose relationship is based on unconditional love.

Approach all experiences with your soul mate with unconditional love, even if you are really angry,

jealous, hurt, sad, frustrated, confused, or any other negative emotion. That is what your soul

mate recognizes in you, your love. When that disappears, so will your soul mate. That’s why this

step is so important in keeping that soul mate connection close.

2. Use your past as a tool in strengthening your bond.

Unlike new loves, with a soul mate love you have a history. That might be this lifetime, it might be

another lifetime. But you can use that to deepen and strengthen your relationship with your soul

mate, even if you two aren’t together right now. Past history has a different vibration in soul mate

relationships than it does in non soul mate relationships, and that is the vibration of this magic of

unconditional love.

When you remind your soul mate of past memories, connections, dreams, and experiences, they

go back to that vibration of unconditional love and feel closer to you. So, even if you haven’t

talked to your soul mate in years, an email with a funny picture of something that reminds them of

you and a shared experience can be very powerful. Use it wisely, and don’t forget about the

unconditional love!

3. Love yourself unconditionally first.

A lot of time our soul mates leave us, or take a long time coming back to us because they see or

they feel in our soul that we are hurting, or that we do not find ourselves worthy. Universe sees

this as well. So if you have been hurt by a soul mate, or did some hurting yourself and are now

apart from your soul mate, you need to let this go and forgive yourself, or love yourself

unconditionally first. It is human to err, and divine to forgive, and that does not always apply to

others. Sometimes it applies to our Selves. Forgive and love yourself as greatly as you possibly

can, especially when your soul mate is not near, and that vibration can not go anywhere but out

into the world. Universe also wants you to have faith in your Self that you deserve the returned gift

of unconditional love.

If you aren’t manifesting that faith, through taking care of yourself, taking care of your career,

taking care of your life and loving every minute of it, Universe will hold back on when it sends your

soul mate back. Respect and love and forgive your Self, and your soul mate will too. They will

also see and sense and feel that unconditional love, in the event that they need the forgiveness,

and will be more inclined to come back into your current lifetime experience.

4. Look for and ask for signs.

People get confused by this. They think signs have to be big and bold experiences that come out

of nowhere and hit us like thunderbolts. The universe can work that way sometimes, but not

always. A sign from your soul mate could be something as simple as a feather dropping on your

desk out of nowhere. When it comes to signs, asking for them will help to increase their

frequency, as it registers with the Universe your faith in soul mate love. Ask the Universe, your

angels and guides, whatever you believe in, to send you signs that you are on the right path.

Remember this is your life, your love, your soul mate, so you are entitled to be as specific as you

want with the Universe. I’ve been known to ask my angels for “17” when I need a little faith

reminder that all things are good. And I get it. Sometimes it’s on a license plate, sometimes it’s on

a street number, sometimes it’s just a time on my phone. But if you ask for a specific sign, and

believe that you will get the answer, then you will.

You may not get the sign you want now, keep that in mind. Let’s say you ask for a sign with the

number 17 as a message that you are getting closer to a reunion with your soul mate, and you

don’t get it. That’s information as well. Maybe not the information you wanted, but it’s still useful

information. So in those events, keep asking and ask for those signs to manifest when it will

happen. And it will. Soul mate love is destined love, so even if it does not feel like it is ever going

to happen again, it will, you just have to pay attention to how and when it will happen again. When

you get the signs you want, use that information as peace and hope and stop obsessing about it.

If you don’t get the signs that you want, you need to do the same thing, which brings us to our

next point.

5. Stop obsessing.

Remember, soul love is a divine love that can be felt by the other person. In twin flame

experiences, the twin can feel almost everything that you do. The same goes for soul mate love,

but it is a more empathy feeling than a direct vibration. If you are obsessing about a soul mate

who is exploring other options right now, they can sense that. And the Universe knows that as

well, and you don’t want to send that message to Universe. Nobody wants to be around someone

that is obsessing about them, it makes them feel controlled and restricted and makes them want

to run. So, back to, love yourself and live your life and let the Universe send you the love when

you are ready to accept it. If you are obsessing about it, you are not ready to accept it. You are

putting human egos before unconditional love by saying, but I want this now. You have to accept

divine timing for soul mate love, or it will go all wrong.

Even if someone does stay with you or come back to you in an obsessive relationship, that vibe

will kill it faster than you can say obsessive. Unconditional love is about allowing your soul mates

to exercise their free will in the ways that will bring them happiness, even if that means parting

from you momentarily. That is their lesson to learn. Yours might be to stop thinking about it every

30 seconds of the day. If you are obsessing about being completed by someone, you have not

done the work to love your Self unconditionally, and the Universe will patiently wait to send you

your soul mate back until you do.

6. Be grateful.

Gratitude is an act of unconditional love, and so if your soul mate is not around right now, the

more you put out the more you get in return. If your soul mate is around right now, the more you

put out the more you get in return. Be grateful, always be grateful. When you ask for signs and

get them, don’t take them for granted, thank the angels, or God, or Universe, or whoever you

asked for that sign and just enjoy the moment. Don’t waste time trying to figure out what it means,

just…be grateful. You asked for a sign or a message and you got one, say thank you, be happy,

don’t think about it.

It’s like getting a Christmas present from someone you love, and it’s an extravagant unexpected

gift, and your first thought is, whoa, what does this mean?? That is not a response that comes

from unconditional love. The unconditional love response is, “wow, thank you, I am so blessed to

know someone that loves me this much.” Remember? Always love. When you exercise gratitude,

that is the manifested act of unconditional love. Thank you. When you get those signs and

messages, or get little acts of love from your partner, or even hear from your soul mate after

weeks, months, or years, just take a minute to say thank you and nothing else. That little token of

gratitude will start a spiral of unconditional love that can go much farther than you ever expected it

to.

7. Always speak the truth.

When you are dealing with Universe, the truth will set you free. It’s not cliché, it’s the truth. If you

have been playing games or acting a little manipulative in your relationships, you probably don’t

need me to tell you that this just isn’t going to work at the long term level, and especially not with

soul mate love. And hey, we have all been there where we were not our own authentic Selves in

love, the lesson from those experiences is to learn from it and grow to the most successful

relationships possible. If you are still engaging in this kind of thing though, especially if your soul

mate is not near, you will be waiting a long time for them to return.

Always speak the truth, because your soul mate can feel it if you aren’t anyway, just like your

spidey senses go up when they aren’t speaking the truth to you. The truth in soul mate love is

another act of unconditional love. It says, I trust you and love you enough to share this

information with you, even though it might hurt you. And, if you have to tell a painful truth, start off

with that sentence alone. “I trust you and love you enough to share this information with you, even

though it might hurt you.” Anytime you start the truth with that sentence, you soften the blow.

In fact, if there is true unconditional love between you, there won’t be a blow at all. There will just

be an honest conversation that, may suck, but at least it is honest. Lies and games in soul mate

love can not continue a cycle of unconditional love, because lies and games say to your soul

mate, “I do not love you enough to be honest with you.” Always speak the truth, this act of

unconditional love along with being grateful, genuinely grateful, are the two acts that work the

quickest when keeping or reuniting soul mate love.

What are your questions about soul mate love? Are you reunited with your soul mate? Are you in

a waiting period? What tips have you used in your life to attract, keep, or reunite with a soul mate

love? I can’t wait to find out!

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