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9 Dating Tips For Men: How To Attract Her Without Being A

Jerk Lots of guys get confused about the notion of being "nice." For good reason,

too.

Experts in dating tips for men proclaim the old proverb that "nice guys

finish last."

Women swear that being nice is only way to win a her heart.

Who's right?

I myself remember feeling a distinct obligation to be "nice" to women growing

up. The interesting thing is, I still consider myself the same nice guy I was

before I became successful with women.

Like everything, being nice has its advantages and disadvantages. Here are

some dating tips for men on the do's and don'ts about being "nice" when it

comes to attracting women.

1.) DO express emotional vulnerability. Evidence that you have feelings

communicates to her that she can trust you. We all know that everyone has

some insecurities, and if you don't convey them at all, she'll think you're

putting up a front to impress her.

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2.) DON'T be a wimp. You also need to convey that you are mature enough

to handle your own emotions. It's nice to take care of people and be taken

care of, but at the end of the day the only person responsible for your

emotions is you.

Dating tip for men: Show your vulnerability without being weak by telling a story about an adverse experience you had, and how you were able to make light of the situation.

3.) DO have manners. Women don't want to be seen with a man in low social

standing, and if you're rude in front of her friends, she's obligated to question

you. Hold the door open for her and be a good conversationalist.

4.) DON'T act nice to please her. Don't be afraid to say something that she

might disagree with. The right sorts of disagreements can actually create

attraction, and if you don't apologize for being who you are right from the get-

go, you'll lay the groundwork for an honest relationship.

5.) DO see lots of women. You wouldn't buy the first shirt you saw at the

store before trying others on would you? Dating lots of women has a bad

reputation, but it's crucial in your personal growth and discovery of what type

of woman you really want.

6.) DON'T feel guilty about only wanting a short relationship. Some

women don't want this, but many are actually relieved to have a fun fling with

the right guy once in a while. And not everyone wants the pressure of a long-

term relationship.

7.) DO be open-minded. Being "nice" often means having a kind, non-

judgmental disposition. Although wussy in certain contexts, being opened

minded is a "nice guy trait" that can become your greatest asset. Dating tip

for men

: Women will be down for all kinds of fun with you if they know they will not be judged for it.

8.) DON'T live in the future. "Let's meet every Tuesday, ok?" conveys

weakness. Guys say these out of fear that she will leave them. Routines

should never be set in stone, because relationship dynamics change.

Dating tip for men: Assume that every time you meet her will be the last time you meet her-- this humble affirmation will help you make the most of your time with her in the present-- and not take her for granted.

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9.) DO be honest about what you want. Sometimes this means hurting

people's feelings, but in the end it is better for both parties to be honest.

Dating tip for men: if you want a short-term relationship, be honest about what you want from the start (as early as the first hour you meet her), giving her the opportunity to leave if she wants something different. Be warned that some women agree to a casual relationships hoping that they can "win him over" into something more. If truly all you want is an open or short-term relationship, you need to remind her frequently about this so she is not lead on.

Another dating tip for men: If you want a long-term relationship, make sure you do not compromise your core values in order to keep her. If anything happens that makes you feel uncomfortable, be honest about it. A little confrontation is good for the relationship.

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