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A dyadic approach tothe study of romanticattachment, dyadicempathy, andpsychological partneraggression

Katherine Peloquin1, Marie-France Lafontaine1, andAudrey Brassard2

AbstractThis study examined the intrapersonal, dyadic, and mediational relationships underlyingromantic attachment (Experiences in Close Relationships), dyadic empathy (InterpersonalReactivity Index for Couples), and psychological partner aggression (Revised Conflict TacticsScales) in 193 community-based couples. In women, attachment insecurity predicted lowerdyadic empathy and greater psychological aggression. In men, attachment insecurity predictedlower perspective taking, higher empathic concern, and greater psychological aggression.Partner effects were found for men, with their attachment predicting their female partner’sdyadic empathy and psychological aggression. In women, low perspective taking mediated therelationship between: (1) their anxiety over abandonment and their psychological aggression;and (2) their avoidance of intimacy and their psychological aggression. Findings are consistentwith the attachment theory and clinical implications are discussed.

Keywordscouples, dyadic analyses, dyadic empathy, psychological partner aggression, romanticattachment

1 University of Ottawa, Canada2 University of Sherbrooke, Canada

Corresponding author:

Katherine Peloquin, School of Psychology, University of Ottawa, 136 Jean Jacques Lussier, Pavillon Vanier,

Ottawa, On, K1N 6N5

Email: [email protected]

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For many, the use of psychological aggression against a loved one is incomprehensible

and unconceivable. Yet, it is most regrettably part of many couples’ lives. Results from

the 2004 General Social Survey revealed that 17% of Canadian men and women reported

being a victim of emotional or financial abuse from a partner in the five years preceding

the survey (Beauchamp, 2007). Other studies reported at least one incident of psycho-

logical aggression in the past year in 51–80% of Canadian and American men and

women (Jose & O’Leary, 2009; Lafontaine, Brassard, & Lussier, 2006; Lafontaine &

Lussier, 2005).

The alarming rates of psychological aggression in couples reported across studies

have led researchers to seek to better understand the phenomenon through the study of

various psychosocial factors. Among the theoretical perspectives examined, the

attachment theory (Bowlby 1969/1982, 1973, 1980) has proven to be a fruitful avenue to

understand relationships in which intimacy and love coexist with abuse and aggression.

The mechanisms by which attachment relates to psychological aggression between

partners, however, need to be explored and understood further (Bartholomew & Allison,

2006; Gosselin, Lafontaine, & Belanger, 2005). The current study sought to investigate

one such mechanism: mainly, the mediating role that dyadic empathy might play in the

relationship linking romantic attachment and psychological partner aggression.

Psychological partner aggression

Several terms have been used interchangeably to refer to psychological aggression,

including verbal aggression (Straus & Sweet, 1992), emotional abuse (Beauchamp,

2007), and psychological violence (Statistics Canada, 2000), all of which typically refer

to verbal or non-verbal behaviors aimed at inflicting emotional pain to the partner (Straus

& Sweet, 1992), and involve behaviors intended to belittle (Loring, 1994), socially iso-

late (Baldry, 2003), control, or coerce the partner (Lipsky & Caetano, 2009). Examples

of such behaviors include, but are not limited to, name calling, destroying the partner’s

property, monitoring the partner’s activities and social network, threats of physical vio-

lence, slamming doors, and stonewalling. Within the general community, psychological

aggression occurs on a continuum, from the occasional conflict occurring in most rela-

tionships to more severe and frequent use of aggression.

Attachment and partner aggression

From a theoretical standpoint, the attachment system serves to protect individuals in

times of stress and adversity through proximity-seeking behaviors toward caring and

supporting others. In childhood, attachment figures’ availability and care consistency

promote the development of a sense of attachment security, leading to positive expecta-

tions of the world and a sense of self-efficacy in children. Conversely, attachment

figures’ prolonged care inconsistency and negligence promote attachment uncertainty

and mistrust, leading to a negative view of others and a sense of unworthiness in chil-

dren. With time, early attachment experiences generalize and are consolidated into inter-

nal working models of self and others. Through these models, relationship patterns are

reinforced and maintained over time, and thus tend to become resistant to dramatic

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change in adulthood (Bowlby, 1979). These models then operate as cognitive filters and

serve to regulate, interpret, and predict attachment-related behaviors, thoughts, and feel-

ings about both attachment figures and others in general, as well as the self (Bretherton &

Munholland, 1999; Collins & Read, 1994). In adulthood, the attachment system is par-

ticularly important in the context of romantic relationships, in which partners become

each other’s primary attachment figure (Hazan & Shaver, 1987).

From an attachment perspective, anger and aggression occurring within romantic

relationships have been conceptualized as an adult parallel to infants’ angry protests

resulting from unmet attachment needs (Dutton, Saunders, Starzomski, & Bartholomew,

1994; Lafontaine & Lussier, 2005). In this later context, anger is functional and serves to

promote proximity with the caregiver and restore a sense of security in the child.

Functional anger, however, may translate into aggressive behaviors in children whose

attachment needs are chronically frustrated (Greenberg, DeKlyen, Speltz, & Endriga,

1997). In a very similar manner, adults who are insecurely attached to their partner may

use dysfunctional anger, translating into psychological aggression and physical violence

toward their partner, when they perceive the relationship to be threatened and ultimately,

to restore their sense of security in the relationship (Mayseless, 1991). In particular,

insecure adult attachment is manifested through anxiety over abandonment and avoid-

ance of intimacy (Brennan, Clark, & Shaver, 1998). These two dimensions are believed

to be distinctively related to partner aggression, however. Specifically, highly anxious

individuals (preoccupied and fearful attachment styles) desire complete intimacy with

their romantic partner. Because they are concerned with issues of self-worth and lovabil-

ity (negative model of self), however, they have a chronic fear of abandonment. Conse-

quently, they may be more likely to blame and criticize (psychological aggression) and

use physical aggression toward their partner to signal unmet needs of closeness in the

relationship (Bowlby, 1988). Conversely, avoidant individuals (dismissing and fearful

attachment styles) are less likely to overtly express anger (Mayseless, 1991), but they

may become aggressive to keep the partner at distance and avoid intimacy, because they

have learned that closeness means being hurt and rejected (negative model of others).

Consistent with the theory, past research has demonstrated an association between

insecure adult and romantic attachment and the use of both psychological aggression and

physical violence toward a romantic partner (Bartholomew & Allison, 2006; Gosselin

et al., 2005). Psychological aggression being the focus of the current study, only research

pertaining to this type of aggression will be reviewed here. Specifically, studies revealed

that an insecure attachment style, particularly the preoccupied and fearful attachment

styles, predicts men’s use of psychological aggression toward their partner (Dutton et al.,

1994; Henderson, Bartholomew, Trinke, & Kwong, 2005). Avoidance of intimacy and

anxiety over abandonment were also found to relate to men’s use of psychological

aggression (Lafontaine & Lussier, 2005; Lawson, 2008). Although fewer studies have

investigated female aggression, similar results were observed for women. That is,

anxiety over abandonment and a preoccupied style were both found to predict their use

of psychological aggression (Henderson et al., 2005; Lafontaine & Lussier, 2005).

Overall, these results are important evidence for the relationship between insecure adult

and romantic attachment, particularly anxiety over abandonment, and the use of psy-

chological partner aggression in both men and women.

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Attachment and empathy

As described previously, the attachment theory has proven useful to explain how early

attachment figures’ responses to individuals’ needs shape their expectations of others’

responsiveness and availability for support in the future. Attachment theory, however,

can also provide a framework to understand and explain individuals’ reactions to others’

needs and distress. Mainly, the caregiving system, believed to be complementary to the

attachment system (Bowlby, 1969), serves to alleviate distress, provide protection, and

promote a sense of security in individuals who are either chronically dependant (e.g., a

child) or temporarily in need (e.g., a romantic partner). This system is particularly

important in the context of adult romantic relationships, as partners both turn to each

other for comfort and security in times of stress and both provide each other with support

and protection when needed. According to Bowlby (1969), the attachment system would

exert a strong influence on the caregiving system and would inhibit this later system in

times of stress and when one needs protection from others. In such circumstances, more

egoistic motives would cause people to turn to others, first hoping to restore their own

sense of security, before they can effectively attend to others’ distress and need for

comfort. In this view, it is only when a sense of security is restored, or when one already

possesses sufficient attachment security, that the caregiving system may be activated

when witnessing distressed others (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2005a).

Empathy, defined as one’s ability to understand (cognitive component) and share in

another’s emotional experience (emotional component; Cohen & Strayer, 1996), would be

part of the caregiving system and would serve as a mechanism through which distress and

needs in others can be recognized and attended to (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2005a). As a

person feels empathy for someone else, the likelihood of providing help and comfort to

that other person increases (Batson & Shaw, 1991; Eisenberg & Fabes, 1990). Just as the

overall caregiving system, however, empathic responses can be altered or suppressed by

attachment insecurity (Feeney & Collins, 2001; Gillath et al., 2005). On the one hand,

highly anxious individuals tend to be overly preoccupied with their own attachment needs

and distress due to their chronic fear of rejection (Collins & Read, 1994). This may leave

them with little cognitive resources to emotionally share their partner’s distress or attend

to their needs, eventually preventing them from providing effective caregiving

(Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007; Mikulincer et al., 2001). On the other hand, highly avoidant

individuals constantly doubt that others will be there to support them in times of need. As a

result, they may be less likely to perceive their partner as deserving their help, to express

empathy, and to reciprocate supportive behaviors (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007;

Mikulincer et al., 2001). For these individuals, a lack of empathy may also serve to keep

their partner at distance, preventing them from becoming too intimate and precluding

future dependency. Conversely, securely attached individuals are not preoccupied with

issues of self-worth, which may free resources to attend to their partner’s need for security,

and lead to more empathic responses toward them. They also perceive their partner to be

available when needed and as such, may be more likely to believe that their partner also

deserves their compassion and help (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007; Mikulincer et al., 2001).

Although several studies provided support for the relationship between attachment

and caregiving behaviors (e.g., Feeney & Collins, 2001; Kunce & Shaver, 1994;

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Simpson, Rholes, & Nelligan, 1992), only a few studies have specifically investigated

the relationship between attachment and empathy in adults. That is, as theory suggests,

attachment security was found to be positively related to dispositional empathy, whereas

avoidance of intimacy and anxiety over abandonment were found to be negatively

associated with dispositional empathy (e.g., Britton & Fuendeling, 2005; Joireman,

Needham, & Cummings, 2001; Trusty, Ng, & Watts, 2005). High avoidance was also

found to be negatively related to empathy for the bereaved following the September 11th

attacks, whereas a curvilinear relationship was uncovered between anxious attachment

and empathy, with people scoring in the middle of the attachment anxiety continuum

reporting greater empathy for the bereaved than those scoring at the lower or higher ends

(Wayment, 2006). Finally, dispositional (low anxiety and low avoidance) and experi-

mentally enhanced (through priming procedures) attachment security predicted both

compassionate feelings following the reading of a story about a student’s misfortune

(Mikulincer et al., 2001) and empathy and helping in an experimental situation involving

a confederate in distress (Mikulincer, Shaver, Gillath, & Nitzberg, 2005). In sum, these

studies support the relevance of studying empathy from an attachment perspective. To

our knowledge, however, no study has examined whether attachment influences

empathic disposition in the context of romantic relationships.

Gender differences in the relationship linking attachment and empathic responding

are not expected based on attachment theory. Very few studies have actually verified this

premise, however, and results to this effect remain inconclusive. Whereas one study

observed a positive relationship between emotional empathy and both secure and anx-

ious attachment in women, but not in men (Goldstein & Higgins-D’Alessandro, 2001),

another study found no such gender effect (Joireman et al., 2001).

Empathy and aggression

Even though several studies established the relationship between empathy and prosocial

and altruistic behaviors (e.g., Batson, Elklund, Chermok, Hoyt, & Ortiz, 2007; Eisenberg

& Fabes, 1990; Graziano, Habashi, Sheese, & Tobin, 2007), another body of research

investigated the association between empathy (lack of) and interpersonal aggression and

antisocial behavior. Most notably, this research tradition led to the publication of two

meta-analyses supporting the view that low dispositional empathy is related to externa-

lizing, aggressive, and antisocial behavior in older children, adolescents, and adults

(Miller & Eisenberg, 1988), as well as offending (Jolliffe & Farrington, 2004). Other

authors also demonstrated that cognitive empathy (i.e., perspective taking) inhibited

interpersonal aggression in an experimental setting (Richardson, Hammock, Smith,

Gardner, & Signo, 1994) and found evidence that low empathy is related to dating vio-

lence and sexual aggression in samples of adolescents and male college students

(Christopher, Owens, & Stecker, 2006; McCloskey & Lichter, 2003). Overall, based

on previous literature, evidence for the relationship between low empathy and aggression

is strong. Whether an equally strong relationship exists between empathy and psycholo-

gical partner aggression requires further exploration, however, as only two studies

related empathy to dating violence (physical and emotional combined) or sexual partner

aggression (Christopher et al., 2006; McCloskey & Lichter, 2003), and no study

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investigated the relationship between empathy and psychological aggression in samples

of couples or in women.

Although there is some evidence to suggest that gender does not moderate the rela-

tionship between empathy and aggression (Miller & Eisenberg, 1988), whether empathy

predicts relationship aggression differently in men and women remains unclear at this

point, as the link between empathy and aggression has primarily been investigated in

men (e.g., prison inmates, perpetrators of severe violent crimes, externalizing behavior

in male adolescents) or in children. Nonetheless, findings from the marital violence

literature indicate that similar variables are generally associated with the perpetration

and receipt of partner aggression in both men and women (Ehrensaft, 2009).

Dyadic context of relational behaviors

Provided that romantic partners function within a couple system, the understanding of

partners’ relational behaviors (such as partner aggression), is only truly possible through

the study of the complex relationships between each partner’s behavior within this

couple system (Bartholomew & Allison, 2006). Research to this date, however, has

primarily focused on examining the impact that individual differences in attachment

have on individuals’ psychosocial development and functioning (Bartholomew &

Allison, 2006). The study of the impact of an individual’s attachment representations on

their partner’s functioning is thus far less common.

A dyadic approach would examine the impact of an individual’s variables onto their

partner’s outcome, or the interaction of both partners’ variables onto the individual’s

outcome. Findings from the very few studies that have used such an approach to their

examination of attachment and partner aggression suggest that partners’ inability to meet

personal and relational attachment needs would be at the basis of their use of violence

and aggression against one another (Bartholomew & Allison, 2006). To our knowledge,

only one study used a dyadic approach to examine the relationship between attachment

and psychological partner aggression (Landolt & Dutton, 1997). Findings revealed that

both self and partner anxious romantic attachment predicted individuals’ use of psy-

chological aggression. This study was conducted in a sample of male same-sex couples

and as such, solely examined male violence. The literature on physical partner violence

in samples of heterosexual couples, however, also provides support for the dyadic rela-

tionships between attachment and partner aggression, with both partners’ attachment

representations (anxiety and avoidance dimensions) contributing to individuals’ use of

physical violence in their intimate relationships (e.g., Godbout, Dutton, Lussier, &

Sabourin, 2009; Roberts & Noller, 1998; Rogers, Bidwell, & Wilson, 2005).

Now turning to empathy, as far as we know, no study adopted a dyadic approach to

explore the relationship between: (1) empathy and any form of partner aggression; and

(2) attachment and empathy. Although these hypotheses are in need of empirical support,

one may speculate that individuals’ low empathy would be related to their partner’s use

of psychological aggression. That is, low empathy in an individual may translate into

their partner’s feeling misunderstood or invalidated, which may increase the likelihood

that their partner will use psychological aggression (e.g., swearing, yelling, name call-

ing) out of frustration and discontentment, or in a desperate effort to increase their

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partner’s awareness of their reality. In addition, individuals’ level of empathy towards

their partners may also vary as a function of their partners’ attachment. Mainly, indi-

viduals whose partners are anxiously attached may have difficulty empathizing with

their partners, as anxious individuals are known to be demanding, clinging, critical, and

at times hostile when they perceive their attachment needs to be unmet in the relationship

(Mikulincer & Shaver, 2005b). Similarly, individuals whose partners are avoidant may

also have difficulty empathizing with their partners, as avoidant individuals are known to

be cold, detached, and to lack empathy and forgiveness themselves (Mikulincer &

Shaver, 2005b).

The current study

The previous literature suggests a theoretical link between adult attachment, empathy,

and partner aggression, but no study attempted to verify a more complex model, which

includes the examination of both the direct and indirect relationships among these

variables. Several other limitations can be identified from the previous review. Firstly,

the majority of studies focused their investigation on male aggression despite evidence

indicating that men and women in the general community use comparable rates of

psychological aggression against each other (Jose & O’Leary, 2009; Lafontaine &

Lussier, 2005; Straus & Sweet, 1992) and that aggressive behavior is often reciprocal in

couples from the community (Straus, 2009; Straus & Ramirez, 2007). Secondly, only a

minority of studies explored the relationship between attachment and psychological

aggression in couples (e.g., Dutton et al., 1994; Henderson et al., 2005; Lafontaine &

Lussier, 2005; Lawson, 2008), with most studies focusing on physical aggression. Yet,

psychological aggression is more prevalent than physical aggression (Dutton &

Starzomski, 1993; Straus, Gelles, & Steinmetz, 1980), is often a precursor of physical

aggression (Walker, 1984), may be more harmful than physical aggression (Follingstad,

Rutledge, Berg, Hause, & Polek, 1990; Walker, 1984), and has different consequences

on the victims’ well-being (Arias & Pape, 1999; Baldry, 2003). Thirdly, most studies

failed to examine partner aggression from a dyadic perspective. That is, behaviors and

attributes from both partners most likely contribute to the development of aggression

in a relationship and a comprehensive model of partner aggression should consider the

contribution of both partners (Bartholomew & Allison, 2006). Fourthly, studies examin-

ing adult attachment and empathy all used measures of general empathic disposition, but

none looked at empathy expressed toward the partner specifically (i.e., dyadic empathy)

in samples of couples. Previous studies demonstrated that general empathic disposition

and dyadic empathy are not entirely overlapping and relate differently to relationship

outcomes (Long & Andrews, 1990; Peloquin & Lafontaine, 2010; Rusbult, Verette,

Whitney, Slovik, & Lipkus, 1991).

In an effort to complement findings from past literature, the present study examined

the mediating role that dyadic empathy (cognitive and emotional) might play in the

relationship linking romantic attachment and men and women’s use of psychological

aggression in a sample of couples recruited in the general community. Furthermore, both

intrapersonal (actor effect) and dyadic (partner effect) relationships between these

variables were explored. We hypothesized that: (1) individuals’ attachment insecurity

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(high anxiety over abandonment, high avoidance of intimacy) would be related to both

their own (actor effect) and their partners’ (partner effect) low levels of dyadic empathy

(cognitive and emotional components); (2) individuals’ attachment insecurity would also

be related to their own (actor effect) and their partners’ (partner effect) use of psycho-

logical partner aggression in the past year; (3) individuals’ low dyadic empathy would be

related to both their own (actor effect) and their partners’ (partner effect) use of

aggression; and (4) individuals’ and partners’ level of dyadic empathy would mediate the

relationship between attachment insecurity and psychological aggression. The effect of

gender on these empirical relationships was also examined, although no specific

hypotheses were put forward a priori. That is, although a few studies identified distinct

models of intimate violence in men and women (Lafontaine & Lussier, 2005; Roberts &

Noller, 1998), findings generally suggest that predictors of violence and factors asso-

ciated with risk profiles are similar in men and women (Bartholomew & Allison, 2006;

Ehrensaft, 2009).

Method

Participants

The sample included 193 English-speaking heterosexual couples (386 individuals)

recruited in the general community based on the following criteria: (a) be 18 years old

or older; (b) having been involved in the current relationship for at least 12 months; and

(c) having been cohabitating for at least six months. The cohabitation criterion served to

ensure that couples were representative of close and stable couples in the general com-

munity. On average, partners had been involved in the current relationship for six years

(ranging from one to 59 years) and cohabiting for four years (ranging from six months to

54 years). Twenty-five percent were married and 27% had children (mean number of

children ¼ 1.6). Partners’ mean age was 31 years (ranging from 18 to 78 years). They

were primarily Caucasian (84%), had a university degree (60%), and their individual

average annual income was $38,000 (Canadian dollars).

Procedures

Couples were recruited through local newspapers, posters around town, and community

events to participate in a large study on relationship functioning. They were invited to

take part in a 2½-hour testing session during which they completed questionnaires. The

questionnaires relevant to the present study were included in the questionnaire package

and required approximately 30 minutes to complete. The order of questionnaires was

counterbalanced to control for the potential effect of previously administered measures

(that were not part of this study).

Before their visit to the lab, partners were informed about the purpose of the study, the

procedures, and confidentiality issues. During the session, partners completed the

questionnaire package individually. Each couple was compensated $40 for their

participation.

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Measures

Demographic information. Participants were asked to provide personal (e.g., age, gender,

ethnicity/racial background, and years of education) and relationship demographic

information (e.g., duration of the relationship, number of children).

Interpersonal Reactivity Index for Couples. The Interpersonal Reactivity Index for Couples

(IRIC; Peloquin & Lafontaine, 2010) is a 13-item measure that assesses both cognitive

and emotional components of dyadic empathy. Items are evaluated on a five-point Likert

scale (0 ¼ does not describe me well and 4 ¼ describes me very well) and yield two

scales: dyadic perspective taking (tendency to spontaneously adopt the psychological

point of view of the partner; ‘‘I try to look at my partner’s side of a disagreement before

I make a decision’’) and dyadic empathic concern (other-oriented feelings of sympathy

and concern for the partner; ‘‘I often have tender, concerned feelings for my partner

when he/she is less fortunate than me’’). Items in each scale are summed in order to

obtain the scale score (ranging from 0 to 24 for dyadic perspective taking and from 0

to 28 for dyadic empathic concern). Higher scores are indicative of greater dyadic per-

spective taking and dyadic empathic concern. The IRIC demonstrated satisfactory inter-

nal consistency and adequate convergent, concurrent, and predictive validity in various

samples of couples (Peloquin & Lafontaine, 2010). Alpha coefficients for the current

sample were .78 for dyadic perspective taking and .67 for dyadic empathic concern.

Experiences in Close Relationships. Experiences in Close Relationships (ECR; Brennan

et al., 1998) is a 36-item questionnaire measuring romantic attachment in individuals’

relationships in general. It comprises two scales: anxiety over abandonment (e.g.,

‘‘I need a lot of reassurance that I am loved by my partner’’) and avoidance of intimacy

(e.g., ‘‘I try to avoid getting too close to my partner’’). Each scale includes 18 items that

are rated on a seven-point Likert-type scale (1¼ ‘‘Strongly disagree’’ and 7¼ ‘‘Strongly

agree’’). Items on each scale are summed and used as indexes of anxiety over abandon-

ment and avoidance of intimacy (score range: 18–126) and higher scores are indicative

of higher levels of attachment anxiety and avoidance, respectively. Excellent reliability

coefficients were previously reported for both scales and a comparison study concluded

that, compared to three other well-known attachment questionnaires, the ECR question-

naire demonstrated superior psychometric data (Fraley, Waller, & Brennan, 2000).

Alpha coefficients for the current sample were .91 for anxiety and .88 for avoidance.

Revised Conflict Tactics Scales. The Revised Conflict Tactics Scales (CTS2; Straus,

Hamby, Boney-McCoy, & Sugarman, 1996) is a 72-item questionnaire assessing the

presence and frequency of psychological aggression and physical violence, as well as

sexual coercion, used by both the self and the partner in the past 12 months and in the

lifetime. It also includes scales measuring negotiation strategies and physical injury sus-

tained. On an eight-point scale, participants report how often they used each behavior in

the past 12 months (‘‘This has never happened’’, ‘‘Once’’, ‘‘Twice’’, ‘‘3–5 times’’, ‘‘6–10

times’’, ‘‘11–20 times’’, ‘‘21 or more times’’, and ‘‘Not in the past year, but this has hap-

pened before’’). Using the same scale, they also report how often their partner used these

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behaviors. Each response category is than recoded at the midpoint (0, 1, 2, 4, 8, 15, and

25, respectively). The category ‘‘Not in the past year, but this has happened before’’ is

given a value of 0 to obtain the annual prevalence of each type of behavior. The current

study included data on psychological aggression used by the self and the partner. The

report of the partner’s aggression was used to account for the possible under-reporting

of aggression by participants. Arias and Beach (1987) demonstrated that social desirabil-

ity is related to individuals’ self-report of violence, whereas such relationship is not

found for their willingness to report their partners’ violence. The total psychological

aggression score ranges from 0 to 200, with higher scores indicating more severe psycho-

logical aggression used by the self or the partner. Examples of items include ‘‘I [my part-

ner] called my partner [me] fat or ugly’’ and ‘‘I [my partner] destroyed something

belonging to my partner [me]’’. The self-reported psychological aggression and report

of partner psychological aggression scales initially demonstrated good internal consis-

tency (Straus et al., 1996) and yielded alpha coefficients of .71 and .68, respectively,

in the current sample. This is consistent with coefficients generally reported in the liter-

ature (Straus, 2007).

Results

Preliminary analyses

Prior to conducting the main analyses, data were screened for missing data, multivariate

outliers, and normality. Because of its ability to maximize power and its advantage over

more traditional methods (e.g., case deletion, mean substitution, and regression;

Widaman, 2006), single imputation (using the expectation-maximization algorithm in

SPSS 17.0 software) was used to replace missing data (less than 1% of the dataset, miss-

ing at random). Seven multivariate outliers were identified using the Mahalanobis dis-

tance and an index of influence (DFFIT). Upon examination, these participants were

extreme due to reporting higher levels of aggression. Because the primary focus of this

study was to investigate the occurrence and predictors of psychological aggression in a

range of couples recruited in the general community, and also because the statistical

approach taken to conduct analyses would require eliminating both the outlier participant

and their partner (hence doubling the number of participants to be eliminated), it was

decided that these outliers would be kept in our main analyses1. All variables were found

to have an acceptable normality index.

Descriptive statistics and preliminary correlations

Findings revealed similar rates of psychological aggression used by both men and

women in our sample. Mainly, 83.5% of men and 89.2% of women reported using

psychological aggression toward their partner at least once in the past year. On average,

men perpetrated 13.8 acts of aggression in the past 12 months, whereas women perpe-

trated 19.4 acts of aggression in the same period. This difference was revealed to be

statistically significant by a paired-sample t-test (t(193)¼ 3.383, p < .001). With respect

to the aggression individuals reported receiving from their partner, 85.1% of men and

86.6% of women reported sustaining psychological aggression from their partner at least

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once in the past year. On average, men sustained 15.8 acts of aggression in the past

12 months, whereas women sustained 15.9 acts of aggression in the same period. This

difference was not statistically significant (t(193)¼ .096, p¼ .923). Means and standard

deviations for all study variables are displayed in Table 1.

Preliminary correlations were computed in order to ensure that the variables were

minimally correlated (also shown in Table 1). Small to strong correlations were found

between men’s and women’s attachment dimensions, as well as between their report of

psychological aggression (perpetration and victimization), suggesting that the dyadic

data were non-independent. The moderate correlation observed between partners’ use of

psychological aggression (r¼ .38) and the strong correlation observed between partners’

victimization (r ¼ .57) are also indicators of aggression bi-directionality in couples. No

significant correlation was found between men’s and women’s dyadic empathy vari-

ables, however. These correlational analyses also revealed preliminary relationships

among variables generally supporting our hypotheses. In particular, attachment insecur-

ity in women (anxiety and avoidance) was significantly and negatively associated with

their empathy (empathic concern and perspective taking) and their aggression and victi-

mization. Women’s empathy (empathic concern and perspective taking) was also nega-

tively associated with their aggression and victimization. Men’s anxiety was positively

related to their empathic concern, aggression, and victimization, whereas their avoidance

was negatively related to their empathy (empathic concern and perspective taking), but

not significantly associated with their aggression or victimization. Men’s perspective

taking was negatively correlated with their aggression, but not associated with their vic-

timization. With respect to partner effects, men’s attachment insecurity (anxiety and

avoidance) was related to women’s level of empathic concern, use of aggression, and

victimization. Women’s attachment insecurity (anxiety and avoidance) was also related

to men’s victimization.

Structural equation modeling

Structural equation modeling (SEM) was used to examine the role that empathy toward

the partner might play in the dyadic relationships linking romantic attachment and

psychological aggression. This statistical approach was chosen because it holds several

advantages: (1) it addresses the non-independence of dyadic data; (2) it integrates both

actor effects (i.e., the effect of an individual’s independent variable onto their own out-

come variable) and partner effects (i.e., the effect of an individual’s independent variable

onto their partner’s outcome variable) in the same analysis; and 3) it estimates both the

direct and indirect effects required for the verification of mediation relationships

(Kenny, Kashy, & Cook, 2006). The mediating effects of dyadic perspective taking and

dyadic empathic concern were tested in two separate structural equation models (using

the maximum-likelihood method in AMOS software, Arbuckle, 1999).

Model specifications. Latent indicators of measures of attachment anxiety and avoidance

were assessed using three randomly selected parcels of items for each ECR scale (see

Little, Cunningham, Shahar, & Widaman, 2002). Similarly, latent indicators of measures

of dyadic empathic concern and dyadic perspective taking were assessed using two

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randomly selected parcels of items for each IRIC scale. The woman’s latent

psychological aggression variable consisted of two indicators: (1) the number of

aggressive acts she reported perpetrating against her partner in the last year; and (2) the

number of aggressive acts her male partner reported receiving in the last year. Similarly,

the man’s latent psychological aggression variable consisted of: (1) the number of

aggressive acts he reported perpetrating against his partner; and (2) the number of

aggressive acts his female partner reported receiving. Factor loadings of all indicators

were then constrained to be equal for men and women to increase the likelihood that the

same concepts were assessed and to account for the non-independence of dyadic data

(see Kenny et al., 2006). This constrained measurement model was then compared to

an unconstrained model (i.e., freely estimated measurement model) by calculating a

chi-square difference. Non-significant chi-square differences indicated factorial invar-

iance across gender for both the dyadic empathic concern model (Dw2 (8, N ¼ 194),

¼ 14.639, p ¼ .069) and dyadic perspective taking model (Dw2 (8, N ¼ 194), ¼8.326, p ¼ .402).

Prior to testing the models, additional preliminary specifications were made. First,

because indicators of each latent variable were duplicated (i.e., for men and women),

each observed variable’s unique variance (i.e., the combination of reliable specific

variance and random error) was allowed to correlate within couples (e.g., a correlation

was specified between men’s first parcel of avoidance items and women’s corresponding

parcel of items). Both partners’ attachment variables were included in a single couple

model, allowing all possible correlational paths between these four variables. Second,

because psychological aggression reported by men and women was correlated and also

because aggression is often bi-directional in couples, the residuals of the two endogenous

latent aggression variables (as perpetrated by men and women) were allowed to corre-

late. Residuals of men’s and women’s empathy latent variables were also allowed to cor-

relate. Although alternative models were tested, only final models (found to adequately

fit the data) are presented below. All possible direct paths between partners’ attachment,

dyadic empathy, and psychological aggression were tested. For ease of readability, how-

ever, only significant paths are shown in Figures 1 and 2.

Dyadic empathic concern. Figure 1 shows the final model examining the mediational role

of empathic concern [w2/df ¼ 1.470, RMSEA ¼ 0.049, CFI ¼ 0.975]. In women (upper

half of Figure 1), attachment avoidance predicted lower empathic concern, which in turn,

negatively predicted their use of psychological aggression. The direct path between

women’s attachment avoidance and their aggression was not significant (p ¼ .441). In

contrast, only the positive and direct link between women’s attachment anxiety and their

psychological aggression remained significant after other variables were considered.

A different pattern of results was observed in men (lower half of Figure 1). Although

attachment avoidance negatively predicted their report of empathic concern, their level

of anxiety was positively linked to their empathic concern. Moreover, men’s level of

empathic concern (p ¼ .865) and romantic attachment did not significantly predict their

use of psychological aggression.

Turning to the dyadic aspects of the model, men’s avoidance and anxiety were both

negatively associated with their partners’ empathic concern, but no such partner effects

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were found in women. Finally, as shown in the preliminary analyses, the correlation

between the residuals of both partners’ level of empathic concern was not significant

(r ¼ .148, p ¼ .369).

Dyadic perspective taking. Figure 2 shows the final model for the mediational role of

perspective taking [w2/df¼ 1.383, RMSEA¼ 0.045, CFI¼ 0.980]. In women (upper half

of Figure 2), both anxiety and avoidance predicted lower perspective taking, which in

turn predicted greater use of psychological aggression. The direct path between women’s

attachment avoidance and their psychological aggression was not significant (p ¼ .102),

whereas the direct and positive link between women’s attachment anxiety and aggres-

sion remained significant.

In men (lower half of Figure 2), a similar pattern was found for their attachment

avoidance, which predicted their use of psychological aggression through their low

perspective taking. The previous preliminary correlation analyses (Table 1), however,

revealed a non-significant relationship between avoidance and aggression (p ¼ .993),

hence precluding a possible mediation relationship between these variables. In contrast,

a direct and positive relationship was observed between men’s anxiety and their use of

psychological aggression.

Turning to the dyadic aspects of the model, only one partner effect was found in the

model. Men’s report of anxiety directly and positively predicted their partners’ use of

psychological aggression. No partner effect was observed for women’s variables. In

addition, as was the case in the first model, a strong correlation was observed between

the residuals of partners’ psychological aggression, whereas the residuals of dyadic

perspective taking were not significantly associated (r ¼ .010, p ¼ .917).

Indirect effects. In order to examine the presence of mediation mechanisms in each model,

tests of indirect effects were performed. Using bootstrapping estimates (see Preacher &

Hayes, 2008), every possible indirect effect was tested for significance and decomposed

into an actor effect (running through participants’ own empathy) and a partner effect

(running through participants’ partners’ empathy). Almost all indirect effects were non-

significant, but support for two mediation processes was found. That is, both women’s

attachment anxiety (significant actor effect; B ¼ .118, SE ¼ .063, p ¼ .017) and avoid-

ance (statistical trend for the actor effect; B ¼ .084, SE ¼ .065, p ¼ .080) indirectly pre-

dicted their use of psychological aggression through their own low levels of perspective

taking. The link between anxiety and aggression was partially mediated, as a direct rela-

tionship between these two variables remained significant after controlling for perspec-

tive taking. The link between avoidance and aggression (trend), however, suggested full

mediation, as no significant direct relationship between the two variables was observed

after entering perspective taking in the model. Despite this later relationship being a sta-

tistical trend, this finding is nevertheless noteworthy, as it is possible to believe that sta-

tistical significance might be reached with a larger sample (i.e., SEM typically requires

large samples: the ratio of the number of cases to the number of free parameters is rec-

ommended to be 20:1, hence ideally requiring a sample of 320 couples in the current

study; Kline, 2005).

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Discussion

This study examined theoretical models proposing romantic attachment and dyadic

empathy as predictors of psychological partner aggression in a sample of couples

recruited in the general community. These models combined intrapersonal (actor effect),

and dyadic (partner effect), as well as mediational (indirect effect) approaches to study

the context in which psychological partner aggression occurs.

Prevalence and reciprocity of psychological partner aggression

The extremely high prevalence of psychological aggression reported by men and women

validates the findings that the use of this type of aggression (at least occasionally)

appears to be the norm rather than the exception in community populations (Jose &

O’Leary, 2009). Gender differences were obtained in the perpetration, but not in the

victimization, of psychological partner aggression. In particular, women in our sample

reported using more psychological aggression than their male partners, both in terms of

the percentage of women who reported using aggression and the average number of acts

reported by women in the past year. Moreover, a moderate relation was observed

between male and female psychological aggression, whereas a strong relation was

observed between male and female victimization, suggesting reciprocity of aggression in

couples. Overall, these results are consistent with prior research demonstrating that

partner aggression and violence are not a purely male phenomenon and are very often

mutual in couples (Archer, 2000; Jose & O’Leary, 2009; Straus & Ramirez, 2007). These

findings also re-emphasize the importance of considering both male and female aggres-

sion when examining correlates and theoretical models of partner aggression.

Actor effects

Romantic attachment and dyadic empathy. Current findings replicate prior research

demonstrating a link between adult and romantic attachment representations and general

empathic responding (e.g., Britton & Fuendeling, 2005; Corcoran & Mallinckrodt, 2000;

Joireman et al., 2001; Trusty et al., 2005). This study extends past research, however, by

demonstrating an association between individuals’ romantic attachment and the

empathy they express toward their partner specifically, a relationship that had not been

previously examined in couples. Mainly, consistent with hypotheses, results revealed

that highly avoidant men and women are less likely to consider their partner’s per-

spective when a disagreement occurs in their relationship or to feel sympathy and

express concern for their partner. This highlights avoidant individuals’ lack of emotional

closeness with their partners, their cognitive distancing from distress-related cues, and

overall emotion regulation deactivation style (Mikulincer & Florian, 2001).

Attachment anxiety, however, predicted dyadic empathy differently in men and

women. Whereas anxiety was negatively associated with perspective taking in women

(supporting our prediction), it was unexpectedly positively associated with empathic

concern in men. This finding suggests that anxious attachment may present itself as

qualitatively different among men and women.

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The relationship between high anxiety and low perspective taking in women appears

more in line with the ‘‘classical’’ understanding of attachment anxiety. That is, self-

centered worries interfere with anxious individuals’ ability to pay genuine attention and

appropriately respond to their partners’ distress (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007). In partic-

ular, anxious individuals are more likely to become emotionally overwhelmed and

flooded with negative emotions when witnessing distress in others (Mikulincer et al.,

2001). Such emotional hyperactivation is likely to consume mental capacity, hence leav-

ing little cognitive resources to fully process and consider their partner’s perspective

(Mikulincer & Shaver, 2005b). As such, attachment anxiety would be more maladaptive

in women.

Conversely, men who are preoccupied with their relationship and hypervigilant about

their partners’ availability are in some ways violating a traditional male social role (in

which men are socialized to be independent and maintain their personal freedom,

Hatfield, 1983). As such, anxiously attached men may actually represent a more con-

structive segment of the male population when it comes to relationship maintenance and

behavior, whereas women who score high on this dimension may represent a more

extreme segment of the female population (i.e., women are more ‘‘naturally’’ concerned

with relationship maintenance, Acitelli & Antonucci, 1994).

Another reason anxiously attached men might score higher on empathic concern,

(instead of lower as hypothesized) is that they may be responding to their own self-

centered motives for being cared for. Mainly, although anxious individuals may possess

some skills allowing them to care for others, self-focused worries and goals are often at

the basis of their caring behaviors (Collins, Guichard, Ford, & Feeney, 2006). As such,

anxious men’s compassion in our study may have been motivated by self-centered

motives related to their desire for acceptance and love by their partner. That is, showing

empathy is likely to increase their closeness and intimacy with their partner. Some evi-

dence suggests that the expression of empathy in men may be related to relationship

maintenance and stability, and may be particularly valued by their female partners,

whereas empathy in women does not appear to be as valued by their male partners (Long

& Andrews, 1990; Waldinger, Schulz, Hauser, Allen, & Crowell, 2004). Hence,

although women’s perception of their partner’s empathic concern was not assessed in the

current study, we may speculate that anxious men’s compassion and emotional concern

for their partners was linked to their desire to be appreciated by their female partners

(who particularly value their male partners’ empathic concern) and to maintain closeness

with them over time. Certainly, the fact that anxious men reported more empathic con-

cern toward their partner, while also using psychological aggression in their relationship

(as will be discussed below), underscores the ambivalence that characterizes attachment

anxiety, and highlights anxious individuals’ desperate efforts to maintain their relation-

ship (through the use of both appropriate and inappropriate behaviors).

The gender difference observed in the relation between anxiety and empathy nev-

ertheless remains difficult to explain and caution is warranted at this point. These

speculations need to be empirically verified before their validity can be ascertained.

Future examination of the motives for and functions of compassion in insecurely

attached individuals may help identify the context in which empathy toward the partner

is more likely to occur in anxious men and women.

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Romantic attachment and psychological aggression. Another important result of this study

concerns the expected positive association found between romantic insecure attachment

and psychological partner aggression. Highly anxious men and women in our sample

reported being more psychologically aggressive toward their partner. This finding is

unsurprising and corroborates results from numerous studies revealing a positive asso-

ciation between both psychological and physical aggression expressed toward the

partner and anxiety over abandonment (e.g., Bookwala, 2002; Henderson et al., 2005;

Lafontaine & Lussier, 2005).

The expected relationship between avoidance of intimacy and use of psychological

aggression, however, was not as strongly supported by our findings. That is, avoidance

was indirectly related to aggression in women, but failed to predict aggression in men.

This lack of a strong relationship between avoidance and partner aggression could be

foreseen, however, as avoidant individuals are more likely to use passive–aggressive

behavior (Mayseless, 1991), control their anger (Mikulincer, 1998), and withdraw from

conflict situations to deactivate their attachment system (Bartholomew & Allison, 2006)

rather than use overt expression of aggression (although violent behavior is not

impossible in these individuals). Accordingly, far fewer studies demonstrated a strong

and consistent association between avoidance of intimacy and psychological aggression

(e.g., Lafontaine & Lussier, 2005). Our findings are thus in line with previous research.

Dyadic empathy and psychological aggression. A significant contribution to the current

literature was the exploration of the link between dyadic empathy and partner aggres-

sion. Supporting our hypotheses, dyadic empathy was found to be negatively associated

with the use of psychological partner aggression perpetrated by men and women. This

finding is particularly important because, despite an impressive body of research

showing a relationship between low empathy and general interpersonal aggression and

criminal offending (for reviews, see Jolliffe & Farrington, 2004; Miller & Eisenberg,

1988), prior research largely overlooked the relationship between empathy and partner

aggression specifically. Supporting past research, present results indicated that partners’

ability to understand each others’ point of view and to feel compassion for each others’

distress and misfortune was inversely associated with their use of psychological

aggression.

Partner effects

Prior studies have highlighted the importance of examining the relationship between

attachment in one partner and use of aggression by the other partner (see Bartholomew &

Allison, 2006, for a full discussion). We also posited that a contextual assessment of

dyadic empathy would necessitate the examination of both partners’ attachment. Our

findings revealed that men’s attachment representations were related to both their female

partners’ empathy and aggression. Women’s attachment, however, was not associated

with their male partners’ outcome variables. Firstly, partially supporting our prediction,

insecure attachment in men, as demonstrated by high anxiety or high avoidance, pre-

dicted low empathic concern in their female partners, suggesting that women with an

insecurely attached partner would have more difficulty experiencing sympathy and

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expressing concern in relation to their partner’s distress and misfortune. Secondly, men’s

romantic attachment in the form of anxiety over abandonment predicted greater use of

psychological aggression in their female partners. This is consistent with prior research

(Godbout et al., 2009).

Overall, these partner effects may reflect findings that women, more than men, tend to

define themselves by their interpersonal relationships, attach greater meaning to their

relationships (Acitelli, Rogers, & Knee, 1999), and tend to be the barometer of a rela-

tionship (Bentler & Newcomb, 1978; Doss, Atkins, & Christensen, 2003). Similarly,

emotionally supportive behavior is also known to matter more to women’s well-being in

the relationship than to men’s (e.g., Acitelli & Antonucci, 1994; Levenson, Carstensen,

& Gottman, 1993).

Contrary to our hypotheses, however, individuals’ low dyadic empathy did not seem

to be a good predictor of their partners’ use of aggression in the relationship (i.e., no

partner effect). It is possible that individuals’ perception of their partners’ empathy

towards them (which may or may not correspond to their partners’ actual level of

empathy) may be a better predictor of their use of aggression toward their partners. In

other words, whether one feels understood and emotionally validated by one’s partner

may bear a stronger relationship with one’s aggressive behavior than the level of

empathy one’s partner reports. As such, a previous study only found a moderate cor-

relation between individuals’ self-report of empathy and their spouses’ perception of

these individuals’ level of empathy (Long, 1993a). Future studies might look at the con-

gruence between partners’ self and partner perception of dyadic empathy and explore

how this may relate to the use of aggression within the relationship.

Overall, without diminishing the importance of exploring both partners’ variables in

order to obtain a comprehensive understanding of the couple functioning, our findings

support the common sense that would suggest that men’s and women’s dyadic func-

tioning would be more strongly related to their own emotions, thoughts, and behaviors

than that of their partners (i.e., more actor effects than partner effects). These results are

congruent with previous studies that used self-report measures of couple functioning,

including adult attachment and partner aggression (e.g., Godbout et al., 2009; Simpson,

1990).

Mediation effects

Findings revealed that romantic attachment insecurity, in the forms of anxiety over

abandonment or avoidance of intimacy (trend), relates to psychological aggression

through a mediational process involving low perspective taking in women. This is

consistent with our prediction and supports the literature on empathy and interpersonal

aggression, which suggests that low empathy would facilitate offending and aggression.

That is, individuals with poor empathic abilities fail to recognize, appreciate, and relate

to others’ emotional experiences, and as such, they are not as sensitive to the distress

their actions may cause to others (Blackburn, 1993; Farrington, 1998). In the current

study, insecurely attached women’s inability to consider their partners’ point of view

would result in poor sensitivity toward their partners’ experiences, and would likely lead

to an overall misunderstanding of their male partner. In turn, this lack of understanding

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and sensitivity would facilitate the use of overt psychological aggression toward their

partner, such as harsh criticism, humiliation, threats, or insults. This mediation model

contributes to our understanding of the intricate relationship that exists between

attachment and partner aggression in women.

Unexpectedly, however, no mediational process was observed in men. This suggests

that, although dyadic empathy was directly related to both attachment representations

and psychological aggression in men, the relationship between romantic attachment

insecurity and psychological aggression in men would not be explained by their empathy

level and may be better explained by factors other than dyadic empathy. For instance,

previous studies demonstrated evidence that anger and relationship adjustment are both

strong predictors of psychological aggression in men (Lafontaine & Lussier, 2005; Taft

et al., 2006). Other potential mediators of this relationship may include communication

style or jealousy, considering their strong theoretical and empirical relationships with

both attachment (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007), and partner aggression (Ehrensaft, 2009;

O’Leary, Smith-Slep, & O’Leary, 2007).

Limitations

Several methodological strengths characterize the current investigation, for instance the

examination of both male and female aggression, the study of psychological aggression in

couples, and the examination of actor, partner, and mediational effects. Yet, some lim-

itations need to be addressed. First, the correlational nature of the study prevents us from

inferring causation between variables, despite the hypothesized theoretical directionality

between romantic attachment, dyadic empathy, and partner aggression. Prospective

designs would be needed to determine the temporal relationships between these variables.

Second, it is possible that the strength of the association between the study variables

may have been inflated due to shared method variance (i.e., all variables were assessed

using self-report measures). A multi-method approach, which would include both self-

reports and behavioral observations (Specific Affect Coding System, Gottman, McCoy,

Coan, & Collier, 1996) or physiological indexes of empathy (Eisenberg & Fabes, 1990)

may further inform the nature of the relationship between dyadic empathy and both

romantic attachment and psychological aggression in couples.

Third, due to the complexity of conducting such analyses, the interaction between

attachment dimensions in the prediction of dyadic empathy and psychological aggres-

sion were not examined. This remains an issue to be addressed in future studies.

Fourth, dyadic empathy was assessed globally and as a general disposition of the

individuals in their relationship. Therefore, although a link between low empathy and

partner psychological aggression was found, it is unknown whether poor empathic

responding is a situational determinant of partner aggression in specific instances of such

aggression. Some authors have urged researchers to examine the context in which acts of

intimate aggression occur, including the antecedents, triggers, functions, and outcomes

specific to violent episodes, to further our understanding of the precursor, correlates, and

consequences of aggression in couples (Cascardi & Vivian, 1995; Wilkinson &

Hamerschlag, 2005). A contextual study of partner aggression, in which partners are

asked to recall a past incident of aggression, would be needed to assess the precise nature

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of the relationship between empathy and aggression in the romantic context, and to see

whether the lack of empathy during a specific conflict with the partner increases the

likelihood of using aggression against the partner at that precise moment.

Finally, findings from the current study are only relevant in the context of the psy-

chological aggression reported by couples recruited in the general community. Most of

the participants included in this study reported high relationship satisfaction. Examining

the current theoretical models in distressed couples would provide extra evidence for the

validity of this model for explaining partner psychological aggression in a wider range of

couples. Different relationships may be observed between study variables in different

populations. For instance, individuals reporting severe attachment insecurity may report

lower levels of empathy and higher levels of partner psychological aggression than what

was reported by current participants. Relationships between variables may thus be

strengthened.

Clinical implications and conclusion

Overall, our findings are congruent with previous literature on attachment and car-

egiving behaviors in couples and highlight the importance of attachment security for

interpersonal sensitivity and the adequate provision of care to loved ones. It is only when

one possesses a sense of security, characterized by self-control, self-efficacy, and trust in

others, that individuals can effectively attend to their partners, empathize with their

experience, and competently respond to their needs and distress (Collins et al., 2006;

Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007). Conversely, attachment insecurity appears to interfere with

individuals’ empathic responses toward their partners. Unfortunately, this study suggests

that a lack of sensitivity toward one’s partner may translate into adverse behaviors, such

as partner psychological aggression. Ultimately, a prolonged lack of empathy from one’s

partner is perhaps likely to bear negative consequences for the relationship as a whole, as

indicated by previous research showing an association between poor dyadic empathy and

relationship dissatisfaction, divorce contemplation, and relationship dissolution (Long,

1993a,b; Waldinger et al., 2004).

From a clinical standpoint, interventions targeting the attachment system and pro-

moting the expression of empathy in partners would be a suitable avenue for couples who

occasionally resort to aggression to resolve relationship problems. In particular,

Emotion-Focused Couple Therapy (EFT; Greenberg & Johnson, 1988; Johnson, 2004)

aims to restructure the attachment system through the promotion of partners’ empathic

understanding of each others’ emotional experiences and attachment needs. As partners

learn to empathically respond to each others’ emotional experiences and attachment

needs, a sense of safety develops in the relationship and more secure attachment bonds

are created between partners. The use of EFT, however, is counter-indicated when

aggression is chronic and severe (Johnson & Sims, 2000). That is, EFT requires partners

to explore unavowed attachment needs and emotions, which puts them in a state of great

vulnerability and could endanger their safety in the context of severe aggression. In such

circumstances, it is recommended that partners work on attachment issues and anger-

control management on an individual basis before undergoing couples therapy with their

partner.

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Acknowledgements

Partial results were presented at the biannual meeting of the International Attachment Conference,

Braga, Portugal, 2007 and the 12th Ontario Symposium: The Science of the Couple, London,

Ontario, Canada, 2009.

Conflict of interest statement

The author(s) declared no conflicts of interest with respect to the authorship and/or publication of

this article.

Funding

This work was supported by the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council of Canada

[grant number 410-2004-0100].

Note

1. No difference in results was found when conducting the analyses while excluding the seven

outlier participants and their partner.

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