Let Go and Get Ready to Fly:

How to let go of a lifestyle that will never set you

free

Bad things are going to happen; this book will

show you how to get the good out of them.

In this book you will learn:

How to unleash your greatest ideas (start doing what you always wanted to do successfully, today. Live your dream lifestyle even when you face hard times.)

How to position yourself in life to win even if you thought you lost.

How hope, love, and faith can save your life, business, and relationship, and take you to a whole other level.

How to listen to the inner you How taking action, even when scared to death,

can set you free.

In this book, you will also learn all that you need to

know to be able to let go of who you were, embrace

the person insidewho keeps talking to you, and find your destiny. You will learn to listen to the

inner you and plan your best moves.

Most importantly, you will learn to let go and get

ready to fly.

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Published 2015 & 2016 Under Title: Let Go And Get Ready To Fly

ISBN 978-1511768542

Copyright 2015, 2016, 2019 & 2020 by Ouggo.

All rights reserved.

Dedication

I dedicate this book to my unborn child. When you

read this book not only will you learn more about

your father, but you will also learn about life, how

to make it great, and how to become awesome. I

also dedicate this book to all my readers, fans, and

new and long-term supporters. I thank you, every

little bit you did or are doing means a lot, and is

possibly why I have the time and the know how to

write this book for you.

I thank God for all of his spiritual guidance, and I

also want to thank my dear mother for always being

there for me. Another thank you goes to fellow

associates Windys Faro Monge, Tomas Hercule, and Marlon Smeins, men I know who are not afraid

to let go and get ready to fly.

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Table of Contents

Introduction5

About Author.5

Jeff Calixte Bio.12

Chapter 1: Hope, Love, and Faith15

Hope.15

Love.20

Faith.25

Chapter 2: Spiritual, Physical, and Financial

..28

Spiritual28

Physical34

Financial..38

Chapter 3: Find your true purpose in life....57

Chapter 4: How to fail better so you can win

.....63

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Chapter 5: How to raise money to unleash your

greatest

ideas.......67

Chapter 6: Let me show you how to sell anything to

anyone85

The process of

selling86

Chapter 7: The voices you will

hear....99

Chapter 8: How I stay away from depression

.103

Chapter 9: You are ready to fly, but you need a push

.........................................................................111

Chapter 10: What does it take to become a winner?

........................................................................114

Chapter 11: How to let go of a poor persons habits

.122

Chapter 12: Can forgiveness really help you

succeed?...........................................................136

Chapter 13: Will your life ever get easier or better?

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.........................................................................138

Chapter 14: How to love, but let

go?....................................................................140

Chapter 15: How to focus on one thing at a time

..146

Chapter 16: Emotions and

Generosity149

Emotions..149

Generosity150

Chapter 17: How to let go of what's not working

.152

Chapter 18: You need to hire people right now

.159

Chapter 19: How to find a

mentor.163

Asking for

help.164

Chapter 20: Road map to

success........167

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You need a destination and

guidance..167

Coming up with a good

plan..168

Chapter 21: Dont waste your money..171

Chapter 22: Dont be discouraged..173

Chapter 23: Take

action...174

Daily Quotes and

Resources.....175

Resources.....175

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Introduction

About Author

Jeff Calixte a.k.a Tblazz Soloz was born February, 9, 1987 at 8:45 a.m, Tuesday morning at a nearby hospital. He lived in a farm in the south of Haiti, in a town called Aquin from the age of two weeks to twelve years old. When he was born, he was sick, and almost died until a friend of his momsLila, his dads older sistercame and helped the twenty-one-year-old inexperienced mother save Jeffs life. His dad was not present since the age of three months.

The dad who married Jeffs mother, when he was thirty-two years old, had to leave the city: Due to the job he was holding at that time, he learned that if he didnt leave they were going to come and kill him and everyone else he loved. Jeffs mom lived in constant fear, until she had the chance to flee the country, leaving the young boy to survive by living with his grandma and grandpa. At that time, his grandpa was not working due to back and eye injuries, so they both had to live off his grandmaa great sales woman and the owner of the biggest shop in the neighborhood. Jeff didnt remember what his dad and mom looked like anymore he was living with his grandma and grandpa since the age of two, by then, the only people who he

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called mom and dad were his grandma and grandpa. He felt happy with themthere was a large farm, a shop, friends, and customers who would stop by to tell stories like Romeo and Juliet; plus there were a few other cousins living in the same household. It was perfect.

He learned of his mom at the age of seven, when she came back from her hiding placewhere ever that wasthough she had to come in secret, as they didnt want the local authorities to find out. Of course after a few days, his mom had to leave, and he can still remember running away from the lady they said was his motherthough at the age of seven all she was to him was a stranger who brought a few gifts that smelled and looked good.

When he was twelve years old, he found out that he had to leave his grandparents place, and he ended up in another country with his mom, where the Island people spoke English, Creole, and Spanish. There he learned of his brother and his little sisters, met his real dad for the first time, and lived with him for about three months before he had to leave againthis time using a boat that almost killed his mom, his little sister, his brother, and him. Luckily, they made it to St. Thomasa US Virgin Islandalive.

There, Jeffs mom filed for US work permits, and asked to stay for a while. There his mom also assured him that they were safeno more running from the authorities. Yes, they were safe, but they were also hungry. There was no one to blame for the hungerdad was not around and he had no job where he was at. Mom was on her own with three kids to feed, clothe, and provide

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shelter for, and even today Jeff still didnt know how she did it.

Luckily, his mom's older brother was there, so that helped a littlegiving them a living room for all four of them to stay in, while he took the small room in the back of the broke-down one-bedroom apartment. His moms brother did all he could for themthat one bedroom apartment was all he could afford, but he was sick and he only had a few months to live. During his last few days, he was bleeding to death, and they could no longer hide his condition from Jeff. It was a really unfortunate moment in his lifethe only person who could help them was now about to die. They also had to move out that same week without knowing where they were going to gowhen his uncles condition was getting worse, Jeffs mom was worried and didnt want any of the kids to get sick or watch their uncle die. In his last days, Jeffs uncle vomited blood and died a painful death. At the time, Jeff was the oldest, and though his mom didnt want him to know what had happened, he later found out that his uncle was dead, and had to help clean up the apartment blood was everywhere. Little twelve-years-old Jeff also had to grow up and help with the kids, while his mom worked two jobs she didnt like.

Later on, Jeff went to school, but couldnt understand what the teachers were teaching; however, he got through it with his one friend Volmar Christon, and things started to get good again. Jeff and his friend, who was living on the Island at that time, played soccer for the local school, and he enjoyed it, but he found out that sports werent really his thing; making money was more of his thing, especially after a few kids teased him

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for not having the proper clothes to wear when coming to school.

After that moment, he really wanted to be rich. He believed he was going to do everything in his power to never feel poor again, and he was determined that he was going to be rich one day. When he saw the kids who teased him at school, he looked at them and said in his head, One day Im going to be richer than you, your whole family, and your whole generation ever was.After that day, Jeff decided to start his first small business and make some real cash. He closed his first business deal with his moms landlord.

The landlord had a big place that was not looked after well, and Jeff could see opportunity everywhere. The tenants were complaining about the place being trashy all the time, so Jeff made a deal with the landlord to get paid $40 dollars a month to look after the yard. It was his first job, but not without issues. Doing the job with no equipment of his own, Jeff couldnt get any more moneyeven if he tried to squeeze it out of the landlords wallet. At twelve years old, Jeff was no match for a guy who has been doing business transactions for years, so he basically gave Jeff whatever he wanted to give, and $40 a month was the reward.

Eventually, Jeff had to leave his yard cleaning business after doing it for a few months. He realized that without his own equipment, it made it harder for him to expand the yard cleaning businessplus at twelve years old, everybody else he approached was more interested in seeing him go to school than in giving him a contract to cut their grass, including his mom. They all told him to quit his business, and to focus on school. All he heard

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was, If you focus on school you will get a good job, the job of your life even. However, he later found out, after high school, that a job was never going to make him rich: He needed to go back to business.

One year and four months later, fourteen-year-old Jeff got accepted to come to the United States of America, and left St. Thomas. In the US, he did a few months of his 8th Grade class, made some friends, and went on to Fort Myers, Florida High School. At the age of fifteen to sixteen, Jeff taught himself how to read and write in English, and by the age of sixteen to seventeen his ESL teacher Mrs. Karen M. Rubin taught him how to get a job. He found himself a job working at Publix, and by the age of seventeen, he bought his own cara really nice Blue Ford Taurus Gland was the only one with his own car, bought with his own money, amongst his peers. By the age of eighteen, he was working, running track on the FMSH track and field team, doing bodybuilding, and learning video production. He also cut his first rap mix tape when he was 18, and all his friends started calling on him when they needed a good rapper.

By his senior year of high school, he got nominated and won $500 dollars for being the most improved out of over 2,500 students: he did the most and learned the fastest. After high school, however; his job became a dead end. The money was not enough anymore, and his dreams to become a top rapper were fading. However, Jeff still saw himself as someone big and great, and knew he had to do something about the situation of not earning enough money to do what he wanted to do and to be who he wanted to be. His hope and focus was on music, but he soon found out that making it in the

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music industry was not that easy. He says, Damm, it was harder than I thought. I couldnt get rich, even after Id cut two albums. To search for other ways of succeeding, he began his research on how he could get a product for sale at Walmart, and he learned he might have to invent something .

Since then, he says, I have been working on one of my many great ideas, and perfecting that idea for almost 7 years. I have many ideas ready to go, and that one is in the negotiation stage for a worldwide license agreement with a very popular electronic company located in the US. He adds, It has cost a lot of money to get my ideas to the level that theyre currently at, but nothing was going to stop me in my quest to become rich. Hopefully a few years from now, I will have my first innovated Idea live on the shelves of Wal-Mart.

Today, Jeff also has his own book, his own major corporation, and his own company with many investors, and he says, That is only the beginning. He plans to write more books and unleash all his product ideas in order to become rich and help other people around him become rich. He says, Im on a mission and I will never give up. I ask God for clarity and guidance as I prove to myself and to the people who think that its impossible that it isnt. I say nothing is impossible; impossible is nothing.

At the time of this book, which is now his second book, Jeff has decided to retire from music to become a success coach, and says,Though I might still do music on the side, a success coach is where my heart is at. His next goal as a success coach is to help create over 250 millionaires, while also turning himself into a

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millionaire. He says,I cannot stand on the side while the world tells me I will not achieve my goals or become who I want to be. I have to start figuring that out: what exactly my life means by the time I have to leave this planet earth, what will I leave behind, and who will remember my name and for what.He continues, I want my life to mean wealth, happiness, and laughter to many homes and lives, and I want businesses to strive because they knew and heard my message.

Jeff also takes the time to compete with himself, to discipline himself, and to love and help others. He says, I want to be my biggest competitor, and I want to be my first creditor when completing a piece of work. He admits to making more mistakes than he can count and losing money and time, just like everybody else, but says I lose so much, it makes me a winner, and if someones able to fool me and take my money, I will congratulate him for being clever. Now that I know where the winning line is, I want to get there first. If you get there with me, I will also congratulate you for being the winner of life.

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Jeff Calixte Bio

Jeff is an entertainer, innovator, author, entrepreneur, and a success coach. Hes written two albums and has one more planned to come out after his music retirement. Hes put some major events together, his first book is called Smart Music Income, and hes taught himself online marketinghis first money making business was a web design company called NextWebPRO. He chose to do music as a hobby because he wanted to make money doing what he loved. It was not long after, that he realized making money with what he loved wasnt going to be easy. He did his first album alone, booked himself some shows, and failed terribly. He says, The business side of things were not handled properly. He wanted to learn more and work harder because he didnt want to give up, and he looked for ways to educate himself about the industry by finding books on what he wanted to learn online and at music stores. He plugged himself into learning more and he gave it all he had with passion and determination, and four years later he was able to gain a lot of knowledge and use it.

He says, Early on, I didnt know what I was doing and I wasted a lot of time and money, but Im grateful for the experience because of the amount of knowledge it offered me. I know what it feels like to fall and get back up quickly, to be poor then have what Ive always wanted, to live in one room with a full family then rent and have my own apartment, and to have friends laughing at my ideas and saying I cant do them then actually proving them wrong. After his experiences, he thought he would write this book and many more to

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come to help motivate anyone who has dreams and aspirations that seems impossible to achieve. He wants you to know that to face impossibleall you have to do is let go of your fears, and then you can also get ready to fly.

Over the years, he has had many people say to him, You are very smart my brother, how are you doing all of this with little or no money? I wish I was more like you, all from people who have watched him go through the bad and good times. I am not perfect, far from it, he says, The only thing Im doing that most people are not doing is materializing my ideas. I dont care if I become broke in the process, or if people laugh at me or ridicule me. Whatever I have in mind, I go for it. Who cares if I fail or make it?

He adds, I also learned how to control my emotional state. When something bad happens to me, I only take the positive lessons out of it or the lesson it taught me. Because it doesnt matter if the situation is good or bad, he manages to focus on the prize and think of the future or the lesson he learned from trying something. He controls where his money goesgenerally he doesnt spend money on what he doesnt need or what will not make him a profit. He has also taken control of his emotional state by never letting his emotions control his decisions. That means hes able to control the noise of the outside world and allow the peace within him to flow, control the anger, control the love, and control himself from doing something stupid in the heat of the moment. Times along the way, he does think he has some spiritual help: that something supernatural is helping him while hes going through it all.

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He says,Everybody was born with their own spiritual help, but you can only hear it if you are calm and open-minded to their ideas.

He also had to learn to control the noises. What are the noises, you ask? Jeff explains, The biggest noises to overcome are fear and others opinions of you. You sometimes have to not drive the car or wear the best shoes in order to raise money to do what you really need to do for your life to be better. So stop trying to be so cool and be smart and figure that out.

Jeff also had to overcome the emotions that had him bouncing off the walls: emotions such as love, anger, and jealousy. In this book, he will tell you exactly how he was able, with little or no money, to do it. And how you can get up and make your dreams come true, and achieve happiness by letting go of your past fears. He says, Do you feel like you are living in the shadow of the real you? Find your destiny, create your fate, live your passion, and learn to listen to yourself to get to your dream destination. Learn to see no competition, while you let go and get ready to fly. Let this book help guide you right now to your true destination.

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Chapter 1: Hope, Love, and Faith

Hope

Hi, my name is Jeff Calixte. Ok, Im not the most spiritual guy in the world, but I do know what faith, love, and hope can do in someones life, and Im pretty sure you do too. If you dont, I will explain to you what faith, love, and hope can do for you. When Im done, you can decide if you need these three things in your life or not.

First of all, if you dont have hope, you are pretty much dead. Yes, thats right. If you have no hope, you are pretty much dead. So, lets take a look at what hope is and why you need it in your life for you to feel alive.

Heres an example: My mom left Haiti with nothing to eat, no one to help her, and she took us on a boat that nearly killed all four of us so she could make it to the United States. Why do you think she did that? The reason is because she had hope that things were going to get better, only if she could make it to the US. Now, she took action knowing that she could have died. People can only take such a risk if their hopes are bigger than their fears. Most people who travelled that way did die and get eaten by sharks before making it to US. Some of them got arrested and sent back to their country where they got beaten, or even tortured, by the same authorities they were trying to flee from. That alone is enough to have someone never take action or ever dare to try to flee their country.

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Its a pretty scary thing to do knowing all the facts. I asked myself over and over again, why did she do that? My little brother was only one-year-old at the time, and none of us could swim. Even if we could swim, nothing could have saved us other than a miracle from God if anything were to happen to that little water boat.

After analyzing the situation we were in for years, I can finally see why my mom would do such a thing. The answer again was hope. Hope that a better life was on the way; a better life was coming. And she was right. Because if she never took that risk, you would not be reading this book right now, and lots of the things her kids have had the opportunity to do would never have happenedso I thank her.

Later, I figured out that my mother and I share similar personalities. Im always hopeful no matter how bad things seem to get. Im never without hope. I always know, through my vision, life will get better, and as a result, it always does. Even when I face hard times, the future always seems to shine brighter. And with a little bit of scary action, I always make it to the other side. When I think of all the things that we have accomplished because of hope, faith, fear, and actions, I realize one can train his or her self to become fearless. We all were built to hope, and we all were built to dream and set goals, but sometimes we let fear of failure stop us from trying to make it to the other side.

Without hope, you are pretty much dead, and it can be depressing. How do you fix that and become more hopeful? You have to try harder and you need to have faith it will happen for you. If you work like youre supposed to work on your dreams and aspirations

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every day of every year, every hour of every day, and every second of every minute, you will become more hopeful that sometime, somewhere, or someday, your life will be better and greater than it is now; your life will become like you always dreamed. That is hope. You already have it within you, you just need to apply faith and action without fear, and let go of whats holding you back, so you can fly to your destiny.

You should be planning your way out; the only way to get there is through hope, faith, action, and determination without fear. Was my mom scared that we all might die on that boat? Yes, but she didnt let her fears stop her. Because it was the idea of death that scared her the most. She could have gotten killed anyway for staying in Haiti during that time, while those men went after my father for whatever reason. Through it all, times were hard, but at the end of it all, my mom was right about making it to the US (now Canada). Because she was hopeful, it paid off big time. See, you can either accept life the way it is, or you can work hard and take risky actions, while you let hope guide you to a better lifestyle.

Who said it was going to be easy and not scary to hope there is a better life somewhere out there? Sometimes it takes the willingness to die for things to really change. People who are not afraid to die are those who will work hard and take action without fear to stop them, so their dreams can come true. Our greatest fears are death, pain, and suffuring. As long as youre willing to be comfortableand impress people while you at it you will never succeed. If you want your life to be easy, it will not be better, and if you want your life to better, it will not be easy.

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In life, its not about impressing others, its about impressing yourself. Other people may be impressed, but are you? The truth is within. In order to impress yourself, its going to be harder than you think. You have to let go of the outside world and focus on the inner you; face your reality. You have to make a real change in your mindset; how you think of life is your reality, if you dont like it, fix it. You are the only one with the power to change your situation. In order to do that, you must understand the possibilities of death, while making a real change for the better in your life and in the lives of those around you. Hope is not fearful. Hope is life, as pain and death are a part of life. If hope is not life itself, then it is pretty damn close. You already can never skip pain or death, so if life is going to be hard anyway, why not make it hard for a better reason than to stay hungry; a better reason than just take it as it is?

Even after you can earn everything on this planet, what else is left? You have nothing if you dont have the hope of a better life, somehow, somewhere, or one day. The only thing thats here to make a difference and give all of us a better future is hope.

Even though billionaires are supposed to have hope so that they can become better, poor people desperately need hope more than anything else. Even the person on his or her death bed is supposed to have hope. If they truly want to enjoy their last day on earth smiling, they better create a faithful hope: Hoping that the life after death will be better than the life they lived on earth. A dying person without hope is already dead, and will spend their last days on earth depressed if they see no future of a better life than the life they are currently dying from.

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You see, hope isnt just a part of life, it is life. Hope is what makes us want to live. If you dont have the hope of a better life, then you will simply not want to live. Its simple: all you have to do is work for what you want and have faith that it will happen. Do everything in your power to see it come true. Start your mission impossible today. Dont give up, unless giving up means youre finding something else that can change your life faster and for the better.

Hope is part of what make you want to be alive. Hope can be made up of things and places you absolutely have to get to before you die, or after you die. Hope just never stops. Either way, hope is for the living. You have those who are scared of death, and its because they have no hope of a better life after death. And if you are working for it and believing in it, and have faith it will happen for you. You will feel alive.

For people who fear they might die before their dreams comes true, think about this: how many heroes have died before their dreams came true? More than one, I bet. You see, because they had a dreambecause of the hope of changing their lives or others livesthey were not afraid to die. They knew some way, somehow, they would live a better life, even if they died, because they believed God would have mercy on their soul. With hope of life even after life, you are literally unstoppable. If our heroes never had hoped and took life-changing opportunities, they couldntand wouldnthave fought so hard.

In hope of a better life, you also need to understand that better does not mean easier. You will get up, even when you feel like you cant. Your heart will be filled

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with fear, love, hope, and joy, while you work to make your dreams come true in the hope that your life will be better one day.

You see, if you ever want fans or followers, you need a vision. When you can help other people dream and hope, they will love you forever because with dreams and hope, you can ease their pain.

Hope is not selfish; one can help a million people hope and fight for the same goals. And because a vision is powerful enough to create hope, others will follow you. Because when they follow you, their dreams will also come true.

Love

Many people say If you love me, then you will never leave me.

In the passing years, I have been studding love and the people who love. It seems like the more someone loves, the more quiet they become. Love is silence. The person who is always so quick to say what they think is not really doing any sacrificing. You see, when a woman loves her husband, she will know when its time to be quiet, especially when he is not in a good mood. Even if she wants to talk very badly, she will leave him alone when she realizes what shes about to say will hurt him or piss him off more. She wont say anything at all. Love is quiet. A man who loves will also be quite at times if he knows saying what he really wants to say will hurt his woman.

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Lovers hide, while quietly suffering. Someone who is in love, and is loving the right way, will always stay quiet about the situation, even though they should be talking. Thats why love is dangerous at times. The person who is in love can let someone else who is not in love hurt them. Because the person who doesnt love will not be quiet, the person who does love will get hurt. The person who doesnt love will say what they want to sayand sometimes they will say it to hurt, and sometimes they will do it to fight back because the last thing they heard from you was hurtful. If you want love to last, then learn when its time to be quiet, and when you are talking, learn to say the right things; the things that will sweeten your lovers heart and make them happy. Because if you really say what you want to say, sometimes, it will hurt them, and sometimes it will start something that didnt need to be started.

When a man loves a woman with all his heart, he would rather let another man take her if hes not in a position to help that woman when she really needs it. A man who loves, but can see her suffer would say, I had to let her go because I didnt want her to suffer with me. Quietly, he would leave the relationship alone if he cannot love her right at that time.

Sometimes a man will work four jobs if he has to; quietly doing it in pain and never telling his woman or his kids to get a job if he knows they cant work. Working that hard must hurt, but he will suffer in silence, being careful to never make his wife or kids feel hurt because he loves them so much. A woman who loves would also do the same for her family.

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The person who is so quick to use words as their sharp knife to hurt others or to protect themselves is not really doing any sacrificing. When someone lets you love them, you must do it right, and the best way to love is to know when to be quiet. Because if you cannot control your mouth around your loved ones, it will backfire on you. If you dont know when to be quiet, you will mess it all up.

Do not use words that hurt if you dont want words that hurts to be used on you. Do not say things that will hurt if you dont want to hear things that will hurt you. Dont let people abuse you either. Always let them know you are staying quiet because you dont want to say things to them that will hurt and mess up your relationship. And if you dont say anything, its not because you cant, its because you love them and you dont want to hurt them, and you ask them to do the same for you because you dont want to have to fight them with words that will hurt them and you. When you hear something that hurts you, you will use words to fight back because you want to protect yourself. But always remember: its always better to lead by example and explain why you are leading by that example.

Ask the person who is not being considerate to stop, especially if you both cannot stand the outcome. If you learn when to be quiet, teach the person you love to be quiet.

Always explain why you are staying quiet because you dont want the person who doesnt know when to be quiet to take this as an advantage, and a chance to hurt you even more.

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The same thing goes for Gods love for us: he asks us to follow some simple rules. However, most of us act like he doesnt exist and his rules dont matter, until we hurt ourselves badly. Im sure, sometimes, God must feel hurt by this, but he remains quiet, still waiting for the right time to talk. He is silent, but he speaks to us without the noise. You almost cannot hear God speak if you dont pay attention.

Lets take a look at Jesus for example. Jesus had the power to stand and fight anybody who beat him, but instead, he chose to stay quiet, leading by example. Why, you ask? Well, love is quiet because fighting back is NOT LOVE. More fights will always start more fights; more love will always build on more love. In your relationship life, whatever habits are acceptable in your eyes are the one you will continue to do for a long time. So, if you accept an abusive relationship, it is harder for you to not be in one. Thats why it is good to follow and pick up good habits from the start. That is the only way you can grow and keep moving in a positive direction.

If you are truly ready to love, you must learn to be quiet sometimes, and only talk when the time is right. You need to think of what you are saying based on the outcome you want. Love does not defend, because by defending you might hurt the one you love.

When the one you love feels hurt, they will usually fight back. It takes a wise lover to know when its time to stay quiet, and then later explain why they stayed quiet. It takes a wiser lover to know when someone loves them enough to sacrifice for them. Staying quiet sometimes in a relationship is a sacrifice.

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Love is natural. It is only painful when you are dealing with someone who does not know how to love, which means someone who talks too quickly or is too fast to defend.

Love is quiet, love is defenseless, and love is not painful. A man who loves would rather suffer alone, then put the one he loves in pain. A woman who loves would rather let a man beat on her, before calling the police. Lets be careful now! Thats why the best love is self-love. Unlike hope, love can be a bit selfish, and should be sometimes.

If you love yourself, you will not need to love anyone else to the point where they are capable of hurting you to the last limit. If you are in an abusive relationship, let go and get ready to fly. Find help!

You will need hope and faith that you will be better off when you leave an abusive relationship, but you have to love yourself first. If you are living with someone who does not love you, you are in trouble. There is no such things as saying something harmful for it to be helpful. If it hurts, it hurts. One rule in love, that always remains the same, is silence. If you love yourself enough, never let the abuser know your plan of escape. Hope is the only thing that will get you out of an abusive relationship. Knowing that somewhere, somehow, you will have a better relationship that enhances your lifestylebetter than the one you are currently in.

Act today quietly. Leave an abusive relationship fast by quietly planning your escape, and make sure you have a back up plan. Let go of the idea you have to step your foot down when you are in a relationship. If you do

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what you are supposed to do, your foot is down, and if a relationship is too much for you, leave. Its called love, not suffering or pain or being stupid for years. Dont get it confused. Love is love. Love is supposed to love and that is it.

Faith

I dont really have much to say about faith, but I just want you to know that no dreams come true without faith. You cannot get out of a country when your life is in dangerlike my mom did with my siblings and me if you do not have faith that your hope for a better life is real.

You cannot leave an abusive relationship if you dont have faith that when you do decide to leave, your plans will work and you wont have to go back to the abuser. Faith is what you need to let go and get ready to fly. You cant make anything work without faith.

Fear is the enemy of faith and hope.

Fear will always come after your faith and ask you to doubt yourself. The moment you doubt yourself is the moment you will drown under fear. Fear is not your friend. Fear is your enemy. Anybody who uses fear to make you do something you are not supposed to do is not your friend. Fear is the only chain there is for a free-minded individual. If you really want to be free, you must learn to face your fears. Fears of more pain will keep people from wanting to experience even a little pain, and fear of death will keep people from fighting for their rights. Some people dont mind a lot of pain, as long as its not death. Fear is the enemy of faith.

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Let me tell you this, everything you ever hoped for is hidden behind your greatest fear. You have to let go of your fear if you are ready to fly.

To fight for what you want, you must not be afraid of pain or death. Every day we are in a battle for change and to have a better life. In order to believe that its going to happen, you need faith. In order to not be afraid of pain and death in the process, you need hope that someday, somehow, somewhere, you will have a better life because of what you are doing. Some people did have the courage to fight even when they knew it would result in death. Why you ask? Its because of the hope of a better life after death, and faith that their hard work would not go unknown and that change would come. Even if they died in the process, they believed change would come because of their bravery to fight for a better life.

Hope and faith have the power to not only help you change your life, but also the world. The universe will give you ways to get what you want, when you want it. You will tap into the God-sent energy to work, get up early in the morning, and get things done on a daily basis. To do all that and more, you need hope, love, and faith. A hopeless person is a depressed person. If you ever felt down or a lack of energy, its because you have no hope of a better life through your current actions. You simply have to make some changes, start doing things that will give you hope of a better life.

Even rich people need hope of a better life, somewhere, somehow, and faith that it will happen. If they want to feel alive, they must work on it on a daily basis. Take action without fear. PAD (passion, action, and

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determination): have passion, take action, and be determined.

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