Chapter 2 Relationships & Choosing AbstinenceLesson 1 Relationships & CommunicationAwwbaby Clinton Bullock! What a looker!
Youll learn toEvaluate the effects of family relationships on physical, mental/emotional, and social healthEvaluate the positive & negative effects of relationships with peersDemonstrate communication skills that build & maintain healthy relationships
Functions of a healthy family
Families help provide basic physical needs. Ex. food, shelter, care when ill.Families provide emotional support.Families provide structure for our lives. Ex. organize activities and schedule times. (families look out for your best interest).
Clinton Bullock & Family
Family & FriendsFamily is the basic unit of society.Besides ensuring food, clothing, and shelter, family provides guidance to help children learn to function in society. Families teach us our values.
Harley Monk & Brothers
ValuesValues- the beliefs & standards of conduct that are important to a personValues are also instilled through cultural heritage, religious beliefs, and family traditionsYou apply your values to the decisions that you make everyday.Joe Ewald at GCITs 10 year Reunion
FriendsAs we mature we meet people outside our families & we make friends Friends who share your interests and values can be a source of positive peer pressureHogan, Ewald, Monk & BullockBFFs with matching mullets!
Relationships in Adolescent YearsForming mature relationships with your peers is important for your social healthBeing involved in a variety of school, religious, and community activities can promote your mental/emotional and social growth.
Peer PressureAs you develop relationships (individual/groups) you probably experience peer pressure.Peer pressure is the influence that people your age may have on youPeer pressure can be positive or negative
Peer pressure continuedPeer pressure is especially influential for adolescents with low self-esteem.In order to feel a sense of belonging, they may engage in high-risk behaviors or activities that go against their values.
Dating Considered an important social activityGroup dates offer teens opportunities to interact with a variety of people, they may feel less nervous.Steady dating is when two people date each other exclusively.
CommunicationThe process through which you send messages to and receive messages from othersis essential to any relationshipGood communication skills will help you keep relationships healthy and mature
Good Communication SkillsMeans clearly expressing your feelings, thoughts, ideas, and expectations.Use I messages to avoid placing blame.Maintain a polite tone in your voice.Speak directly to the person.Provide a clear, organized message that states the situation.Body language should match your words.
Good Listening SkillsGood listening skills means listening to what others say. Guidelines for being a good listener:Give your full attention to the person speaking.Focus on the speakers message.Indicate your interest.Remember what the speaker had said.Use positive body language.
ConflictAny disagreement, struggle, or fight. Most common reasons for a conflict include a lack of communicationWhen conflicts or disagreements occur relying on T.A.L.K strategy will help reach a peaceful resolution.
T.A.L.KT- Take time outA- Allow each person to express his/her opinion uninterruptedL- Let each person take turns to ask questions and clarify any statementsK- Keep brainstorming to find a good solution
Conflict & DatingBecoming skilled at choosing your battles, or deciding when it is worthwhile to take, can help you avoid unnecessary conflict.Good communication is especially important in dating relationships.Express yourselves honestly and listen to what the other person is saying.
Review QuestionsEvaluate ways your parents, guardians, and other family members contribute to physical and mental/emotional health and help you establish healthy relationships.Define the term peer pressure and evaluate the positive & negative effects of relationships with peers.
Review Questions continued3. List three benefits of dating.4. Explain & demonstrate the importance of using good communication skills in building & maintaining healthy relationships. Give two examples.5. Make a list of positive ways you can develop healthy relationships with your peers. Describe specific actions you can take to become a good friend.