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    T)is as a (ar;eous, ins7irin4 od5sse5 s)ared b5 (ot)er &to-be-born dau4)ter! )eat) +oods +or t)eir bodies, artisticcreati;it5 +or t)eir (inds, & see7in4 s7ectru(s o+e=7ressions +or t)eir e(otions. Nine (ont)s o+ sou ee;atin4re)earsas & *)ire5 4reeted )er +irst a77reciati;e audience.

    T)ree 5ears ater, itte *)ire5, s7an4ed it) t)e on4 bond curs en;isioned b5 )er (ot)er endeared )erse+ to (o;ie4oers as a sin4in4, dancin4 arc)et57e o+ c)id actin4 taent. *)ire5

    Te(7e as a (e4astar in t)e (o;ies. /n 193$, s)e saied TheGood Ship Lollipopinto t)e )earts & (inds o+ 7eo7e a o;ert)e ord it) a t)e taent, art & creati;it5 Gertrude )adi;ed & breat)ed into )er +or o;er nine (ont)s

    /n 19$9, / as brosin4 t)rou4) t)e (osaic o+ 7a7erbacks on t)e e+t a o+ W.B.*(it)As Nesa4ents in t)e 4reat be5 o+ >ictoria Rai *tation in London. 05 attentionas dran to ne reeases. E c)idAs +ace ea7ed out o+ t)e (onta4e. / kne t)at+ace... t)e tite +ocused... CHILD STAR An Autobiography by Shirley Temple Black.

    8;er t)e 5ears )ad / e(beis)ed )er stor5 to 7ro;e (5 case +or conscious conce7tion& creati;e5 en)anced 7re4nanc5 T)is as (5 c)ance to +ind out. nder Bin t)e/nde= t)ere ere istin4s +or Babe !n Broad"ay, Baby Burlek# Baby $eggy & BabyTake A Bo"# a *)ire5As (o;ies. Birth re+erred to BIRTH !% A &ATI!&- D.W. Gri++it)AsCi;i War Cassic. T)en b5 7ure c)ance under Black, Shirley Temple (5 e5e cau4)tbirth o'# p()2.

    Reie+ /n *)ire5 Te(7eAs on ords as basica5 t)e stor5 / )ad +irst )eard at acon+erence in Ne Hork Cit5 o;er @ 5ears a4o & been retein4! )o )er (ot)erGertrudeAs +ir(5 )ed beie+ t)at *)ire5As +e(ae se= as e as artistic interests (ustbe estabis)ed on4 be+ore s)e as to be4in )er i+e run. /t as )er on saturation intocoor, +or(, & aest)etics )ic) oud be t)e ke5s to )er dau4)terAs creati;e +uture.

    *)ire5As (ot)er as actin4 out e=act5 )at )er Teutonic in)eritance )ad tau4)t )er!t)at an5 nobe t)ou4)ts s)e as ins7ired it), an5 beauti+u si4)ts s)e 7ercei;ed, an57easant e=7ressions o+ sounds beca(e in so(e (5sterious a5 direct5 i(7rinted in)er c)id. Bere as direct conte(7orar5 testi(on5 o+ a beie+, a knoin4 )ic)(ot)ers in (an5 cutures )a;e )ed t)rou4)out )u(an )istor5. /t is aso a 7rinci7e)ic) 7renata & 7erinata 7s5c)oo45 )as been dedicated to teac)in4 to 7arents & tot)e (edica 7ro+ession t)e ast )a+ o+ t)e 2t)Centur5. T)at 7rinci7e can be stated(an5 a5s. We ike

    WHATEVER MOTHER IS E#PERIENCING DURING PREGNANCY$A$Y WILL $E%3

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    /t as Gertrude Te(7eAs dedication to t)is 7rinci7e!** 33 "r "01"r'"nc"(, *o!*(, 2"('r"(, "/o*'on(,r"c*'on(, cr"*'" '( & 3o+( ro/ 5"or" conc"1*'on

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    +"r" *" "(("n*'3 c* o "r /o*"roo2 r"(1on('5'3'*y.

    T)e instant at )ic) t)e s7er( & e44 (er4ed into oneness or )en *)ire5 oud take)er +irst breat) )ere on5 t)e ine;itabe 7)5sica resuts o+ t)e indo(itabe s7irit o+GertrudeAs intentions. Ber desire & co((it(ent aoed Gertrude to conscious5concei;e, conscious5 initiate, nurture, enric) & en)ance one o+ t)e 2t) centur5As

    (ost taented & 4i+ted o(en. For *)ire5 Te(7e as not ust an accai(ed c)idactor but a o(en )o co(7etent5 re7resented t)e nited *tates o+ E(erica asE(bassador to t)e nited Nations & to se;era ot)er countries in )er on4 &distin4uis)ed career o+ 7ubic ser;ice. Woud it be reasonabe to is) t)at )er 7rebirt)e4end (a5 outs)ine *)ire5 Te(7e ackAs (ost endurin4 t)eatrica & 7oiticasuccesses because it o++ers suc) an ins7irin4, u7i+tin4 & en)ancin4 (ode to (ot)ers& +at)ers +or a +uture W)oe-C)idren

    IIIII

    GROWING & DEVELOPING

    For @ 5ears, e )a;e been teac)in4 t)e i(7ortance o+ conscious conce7tion,7re4nanc5, birt) & c)id 4roin4.

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    de;eo7(ent. Es Co-directors o+ t)e /nstitute +or W)oe-*e+ Disco;er5 & De;eo7(ent,/nc., Tro5a & /, as e as W)oe-*e+ T)era7ists scattered in ;arious 7aces around t)e4obe, s7end (ost o+ our ti(e )e7in4 aduts disco;er & baance t)e cause o+ t)eiri+eon4 7)5sica, (enta, e(otiona e;en s7iritua c)aen4es or 7robe(s. For o;er a)undred 5ears (edicine & 7s5c)oo45 )a;e )ed t)at )o & )o e are is based soe5on t)e e=7eriences i;ed t)rou4) & +itered t)rou4) our bodies a+ter birt). T)anks to

    t)e ne disco;eries in researc), e are bein4 reeased +ro( t)ose restrictin4 binders./n +act, our on W)oe-*e+

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    Russian rouette. 0ost 7eo7e kno Russian rouette as s7innin4 a barre o+ a si= buetre;o;er it) one buet in t)e barre. W)at i+ t)ere are +i;e buets & on5 one e(7t5c)a(ber /s it sti Russian rouette

    Fro( GertrudeAs e=a(7e, it is eas5 to see t)at bein4 conscious o+ concei;in4 ac)id oud e++ect in an en)ancin4 a5 t)e +uture reations)i7M t)e coseness beteen5ou as 7arents & 5our c)id & )er or )is 7ace in t)e ord. ut, )at about t)e non-

    consciousness in one or bot) t)e 7arents T)is non-consciousness +or creatin4 a c)id is+ar (ore i(7ortant t)an (i4)t be i(a4ined.

    We kno a (an )ose s7er( 7artici7ated in t)e conce7tion o+ +i;e babies. Forso(e t)irt5 5ears at t)e dinner tabe t)ere as ots o+ ani(ated con;ersation in +ronto+ )i(. Bis c)idren taked around )i(, e;en )en )e tried to 7artici7ate, as t)ou4))e as not t)ere. 8ne da5 so(eone asked )i( i+ rhythm birth controlorked. Bise=uberant res7onse, Ebsoute5 not We )ad +i;e babies Bis i+e c)i(ed in, 8n t)econtrar5, r)5t)( orks 7er+ect5 T)e (an reai?ed t)at )e )ad 7rett5 (uc) sto77eda77roac)in4 )is i+e +or inti(ac5 because s)e oud usua5 sa5, We canAt or /A 4et7re4nant T)e (an did so(e uick cacuations. ';en t)ou4) t)e5 on5 )ad se=(ini(a5 in t)e sa+e ti(es, e;er5 to 5ears s)e oud co(e to )i( & sa5, /A(7re4nant Bo coud t)at be, )e oud ask rea5 con+used. *)e )ad ne;er tod )i(

    t)e trut). 'ac) o+ t)e c)idren as born to 5ears a7art in 7er+ect r)5t)(.Later, )en )e asked )is i+e about it, s)e ad(itted t)at s)e )ad used rhythm

    not to 7re;ent conce7tions but to s7ace t)e( e;er5 to 5ears e=act5 as s)e anted./ aa5s intended to )a;e ots o+ c)idren & / kne 5ou 7robab5 oudnAt. *o / tookc)ar4e o+ )en / oud be 7re4nant W)at s)e )ad not reai?ed as t)at since )er)usband )ad not 7artici7ated conscious5 in t)e conce7tions - since )e )ad not beenintentionally 7resent in t)eircreation, t)eir c)idren si(75 did not e=7erience )i( asbein4 7resent in t)eir i;es. For decades bot) )e as a orka)oic & )is c)idren non-conscious5 7a5ed roes & i;ed i+est5es )ic) su77orted bot) t)eir not bein4 abe tosee eac) ot)er. No t)at t)e ;ae o+ in;isibiit5 as i+tin4 )e does not )a;e to +eereected at not bein4 ;isibe in t)eir i;es. Be ust o;es & res7ects t)e( as i;in4 outt)e 7atterns )ic) t)e5 ca(e into i+e to ork on b5 )a;in4 )i( as a +at)er & t)e5 are

    be4innin4 to see eac) ot)er.:eannine

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    (enta attitudes or 7reudices, t)e consciousness or sou is ocked into t)ose 7atternsunti t)e5 are reeased t)rou4) e=7erience & understandin4. ecause t)e 7atternsere ocked in ea;in4 a i+eti(e t)e5 can on5 be reeased b5 bein4 acti;ated a4ain int)is ord. *o, bab5 (a5 be ener4etica5, non-conscious5, ust as read5 to be born as5ou (i4)t be to )a;e a bab5 in 5our i+e.

    >=E second ste7 in t)e 7arent - c)id diao4ue coud be to be4in takin4 it)5our 7artner, s)arin4 5our t)ou4)ts, desires & drea(s it) eac) ot)er. DonAt +or4et as5ou do an5t)in4, bab5 as 7art o+ 5our consciousness, is aso e=7eriencin4 a 5ou aree=7eriencin4. T)ese s)arin4s (a5 sti(uate (an5 dee75 buried orries & +ears about7arentin4 )ic) need to e=7ored & reeasedM )at it (eans to concei;e, birt) & 4roit) 5our c)id. T)is is )ere t)e W)oe-*e+ ern5, 0.D.aut)or o+ The Secret Li'e o' the /nborn +ounded t)e

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    5our instincts. *o(eti(es (edica inter;ention is necessar5 +or t)e )eat) & securit5o+ 5ou & 5our bab5. ut, 7rebirt) bondin4 aso )e7s 5ou +ind t)e coura4e 5ou need tore+use entrenc)ed, io4ica & unnecessar5 (edica 7rocedures suc) as routine utrascans, caesareans, unneeded anest)esias, e7isioto(ies, etc. )ic) de7ri;e 5ou o+e=7eriencin4 5our bab5As birt) b5 (akin4 (edica iness out o+ t)e (ost natura acto(en can creati;e5 e=7ress. "7.22#

    A33 5on2'n c*''*'"( r" "@!33y 5"n"'c'3*o *" 1r"n* '"r( ( +"33 ( 55y r"c"'"r(.

    ondin4 is not ust +or bab5 but +or (ot)er & +at)er as e. esides ookin4 dee75into eac) ot)ers e5es in an e++ort to disco;er 5our beo;edAs sou resonance )ic)i4nites a s5ner45 o+ o;eM s)arin4 (utua as e as di;erse interestsM bondin4 canco(e t)rou4) intentiona en)ance(ent & enric)(ent be+ore & durin4 7re4nanc5.

    IIII

    LIVING WITH VISION

    /n )er book, Li0ing -ith 1iion, Linda 0arks97aid Tro5a & (e a o;e5 tribute )en

    s)e said t)at )ie a )eat)5 reations)i7 nouris)es & su77orts to 7eo7e, it asoser;es be5ond ust 7ersona 4rot) & +u+i(ent. T)e co((on ;aues & ;ision t)atbrin4 5ou & 5our 7artner to4et)er sustain reations)i7s & 7ro;ide t)e +oundation +orde+inin4 a co((on 7ur7ose +or an5 reations)i7. Hou can see t)is (utuai?in4 in t)e;ision 5ou bot) create about 5ourse;es as 7arents & )o 5our bab5 i be e;en )ie)e or s)e is sti ust a tinke in bot) 5our e5es. Linda, a (aster o+ )eartork,beie;es t)at )u(an bein4s b5 nature ant to contribute to a better ord. W)en eare o;ed & )oe, as in a )eat)5 reations)i7, antin4 to s7read t)at o;e & ener45is natura. *7readin4 be5ond indi;iduait5 in coaboration it) anot)er 7ersonsti(uates ;i4or & e=cite(ent. Linda describes reations)i7 as an incubator +or ser;iceto ot)ers & uti(ate5 to a i+e.Es 5ou & 5our 7artner dra coser to4et)er in 5our reations)i7, 5our o;in4 ;ibrations

    attract a bab5 it) )i4)er ;ibrationa consciousness to 5ou eeks, or so(eti(es(ont)s, or e;en 5ears be+ore conce7tion. Bere is an interestin4 idea. /t )as beenassu(ed b5 +unda(entaists t)at t)e (o(ent o+ conce7tion is )en t)e consciousnesso+ bab5 is created or 4enerated inside (ot)erKs bod5. 8ur W)oe-*e+ researc)su44ests t)at it is t)e bab5As consciousness attracted to & t)en attac)ed to (ot)erAsconsciousness or aura )ic) sets t)e 7ossibiit5 +or conce7tion to occur on t)e 7)5sicae;e. Coseness b5 5ou "7# (odes coseness & inti(ac5 to 5our bab5 )o i aso be(ore o;in4 & co-o7erati;e toard 5ou as s)e or )e 4ros, de;eo7s, (atures &e;o;es t)rou4) a o;in4 +a(i5 (ode. T)is i be because as described b5 84aGouni, 5our bab5 i +ee as a eco(e 4uest & t)ere+ore i +ee sa+er bein4 -H!L2in TH2 -!RLD( T)e o77osite is aso sad5 true.The bare fact is that a better worldtruly depends on babies being not ust being wanted but welco!ed"

    Reations)i7 & bondin4 are to as7ects o+ a (uc) (ore essentia 7art o+ bein4)u(an. T)e5 are ust to 7rocesses b5 )ic) our (enta & e(otiona structure co(esinto & can sta5 in baance. ab5 i +ee a eco(e 4uest & t)ere+ore i +ee sa+eco((ittin4 to a ne i+e. End, t)ese eco(e & sa+e +eein4s are s)ared b5 bot)in+ants & 7arents. /n +act, t)e5 can usua5 on5 be e=7erienced b5 bab5 i+ t)e5 are+irst a 7art o+ (ot)erAs & +at)erAs ord ;ie.

    III

    LENGTH OF LIFE

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    Tro5a )as been t)inkin4 about t)e +act t)at 7eo7e are d5in4 ater & bein4 bornearier. Bu(an i+e is astin4 on4er. End t)e t)res)od o+ conscious birt), )ase=tended back +ro( si= (ont)s a+ter birt) as doctors beie;ed, to birt), toconce7tion, to be+ore conce7tion. *)e o;es t)e sense t)at reco4ni?in4 & bondin4 t)ene bab5As consciousness +ro( be+ore conce7tion o++ers t)e o77ortunit5 +or bab5 to be

    (ore conscious o+ )a;in4 started a ne i+e c5ce. T)e resut is t)at )en bab5 be4insi+e it) aareness s)e or )e can re(ain (ore conscious t)rou4)out i+e. T)is is ustone (ore a5 to )e7 )u(anit5 into )oe consciousness.

    T)e i(7act o+ bondin4 on our c)idren sustains t)e( into adut)ood. T)e bondo+ o;e & t)e bond o+ ord are t)e sa(e. W)en one betra5s t)ese bonds it)in )erse+or )i(se+, )ate;er t)e reason, one (ust be de+eated. En a(a?in4 octo4enarian,Enne Leon W)ite1)ods )i4) t)e torc) t)at a bond o+ )onor is t)e +oundation o+ a i+ei;ed it)out se+-betra5a.

    $on2'n 3"2( *o *r!(* & "nnc"2 ("3-+r"n"((& con(c'o!(n"((+'c cn 5" c33"2 'n*"r'*y.

    IIIII

    LIFE WITHOUT FATHER

    *o(e 5ears a4o, a +riend in;ited (e to dine one e;enin4. *)e as success+u & )i4)5res7ected in )er 7ro+ession. E+ter dinner s)e s)ared it) (e )er 7robe( - )erbioo4ica cock as indin4 don. *)e as ur4ent5 antin4 to concei;e a c)id & bea (ot)er & ti(e as s)ort. *)e said s)e )ad 4i;en it a 4reat dea o+ t)ou4)t & t)ats)e oud ike (e to +at)er )er c)id. No +urt)er co((it(ents oud be in;o;ed ass)e )ad su++icient inco(e to raise )er c)id. / )ad dee7 res7ect +or )er but decinedbecause / +et t)at i+ / 7artici7ated in t)e c)idAs conce7tion / oud ant to beres7onsibe +or itAs 4rot) & de;eo7(ent. *)e understood. *o(e (ont)s ater s)ein+or(ed (e t)at s)e )ad +ound a s7er( donor & as 7re4nant. Tro5a & / sti recei;e

    7)oto4ra7)s & etters & e +ee ike s7iritua aunt & unce to )er 4i+ted son o+ )o(s)e is ust5 7roud & o;in4. T)ere is increasin4 concern 7er)a7s e;en aar( in so(e circes about t)enu(ber o+ o(en it)out co((itted 7artners )o are c)oosin4 to (iti4ate t)eirunreentin4 bioo4ica re7roducti;e cocks to (ot)er b5 intentiona5 concei;in4it)out co((itted 7artners. Certain5, t)e increase in di;orce )as created a s)ar7escaation in sin4e 7arent +a(iies. T)ere is stron4 7ositionin4 t)at t)e absence o++at)ers is eadin4 to a deterioration o+ societ5. ut is t)is rea5 an5 di++erent +ro( t)eeras since Word War // durin4 )ic) +at)ers ere o;erseas +i4)tin4 +or t)eir +a(iies &countr5 & a+terards orkin4 on4 )ours ea;in4 )o(e be+ore c)idren 4ot u7 &arri;in4 back on4 a+ter t)eir bedti(e T)e absence o+ +at)ers in +a(iies (a5 be ade+initi;e +actor but not being "anted . "elcomed is +ar (ore de;astatin4 to t)e

    c)id & uti(ate5 to societ5. T)e crucia +actor in sin4e +a(i5 7arentin4 is t)ebondin4 beteen t)e (ature e(otiona5 baanced (ot)er & t)e c)id s)e rea5ants & i raise res7onsib5 +or t)e ne=t tent5 5ears.

    We are neit)er +or nor a4ainst sin4e (ot)erin4 & e do not ant to be )ars))ere but e need to be res7onsibe b5 7ointin4 out t)ree i(7ortant reasons )ereconcei;in4 a c)id under )or(one ur4enc5 can be )ar(+u to bot) a sin4e (ot)er &c)id. We (ust sa5 t)at e(otiona5 (ature )ere e=cudes ust ca7ituatin4 it) t)e)or(ona cock & sudden5 bein4 tra77ed at a ti(e )en 4reater +reedo( isa77ro7riateM neurotic e(otiona 7atterns )ic) are di++icut enou4) to dea it)

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    aoneM or )a;in4 a c)id in an atte(7t to sa;e a +aterin4 reations)i7 or (arria4e.Hou )a;e no idea )o (an5 7eo7e e see )o ere concei;ed on a ni4)t o+reconciiation or (akin4 u7 a+ter an ar4u(ent or se7aration. *erious counsein4 ort)era75 (ust be considered b5 o(en cau4)t in t)e tick o+ t)e bioo4ica cock notust +or )er on 7eace o+ (ind but +or t)e sake o+ t)e e(otiona 7atterns )ic) )erc)id i in)erit.

    IIII

    COMMITTED CONCEPTION

    ';en as e rite t)is, e are bein4 ;isited b5 Wina+red ake Lucas a +ore(ost LosEn4ees 7s5c)oo4ist )o rote t)e and(ark Regreion Therapy3 A Handbook 'or$ro'eional11& )er 4randson Doron ake. Doron is t)e +irst bo5 born +ro( t)e Nobe

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    *ince (ost +a(iies +or( a trinit5, be+ore t)e t)ree o+ 5ou e=7erience birt) as natureintended, 5ou need to kno & trust t)at eac) o+ 5ou are in eac) ot)erAs o;in4, carin4& understandin4 )ands. /+ 5ou te a 7re4nant +at)er t)at )is unborn c)id )ears )is;oice or senses )is o;e, )e (i4)t be a itte ske7tica. Het, it is a(a?in4 t)at i+ t)e+at)er is in t)e roo( )ere bab5 is born & s7eaks, t)e ne born i turn into t)edirection )ere )e is. Dr. T)o(as R. >ern51%beie;es t)at i+ 5ou te a 7re4nant

    (ot)er t)at )er bab5 )ears )er ;oice & senses )er o;e s)e is bound to a4ree because(ot)ers intuiti;e5 kno )at scientists are be4innin4 to ad(it! unborn babies aredee75 sensiti;e indi;iduas )o +or( 7oer+u reations)i7s it) t)eir 7arents & t)eoutside ord be+ore birt)161O. T)e ne=t breakt)rou4) in t)is re4ard is t)e disco;er5(ade in W)oe-*e+

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    /n anot)er e=7eri(ent t)e >an de CarrAs )a;e set u7 an in4enious 5et e++ecti;eco((unication s5ste( beteen 7arents & bab5Ks bod5 in )ic) t)e5 in;ite t)e bab5to kick in be)a;iora res7onse to ords & ta77in4 +irst on one side t)an t)e ot)er sideo+ (ot)erAs abdo(en. Hou can tr5 t)e e=7eri(ent. /+ 5ou are aread5 +eein4 t)oseitte J/s an5one out t)ereA kicks sa5 to bab5 J7us)A or JkickA se;era ti(es as 5ou 7ress5our )and on one side o+ 5our abdo(en. W)en bab5As bod5 7us)es or kicks back sitc)

    to t)e ot)er side. Re(e(ber, bab5Ks consciousness in 5our consciousness, so it (a5take a +e da5s +or 5our bod5 to beco(e acci(ated to t)e reuested res7onse. ut5ou i e=7erience, as i bab5 in 5our consciousness, an incredibe o5 )en t)ediao4ue 4a(e is +oin4. T)e >an de CarrAs as a and(ark conce7t )ic) 7ro;ed t)atto a5 co((unication t)rou4) (ot)erAs bod5 is 7ossibe & does take 7ace.

    Li;e concerts & recorded (usic o++er o7enin4s to rest+u & 7easurabe(o(ents (ont)s be+ore conce7tion. Re4uar ti(es can )e7 to estabis) a r)5t)( or7ace o+ rea=ed i;in4 )ic) can be )eat)+u to (ot)er, +at)er & bab5 durin4 & a+ter7re4nanc5 & birt)19. Dr. 0arie Caire us)ne2, )as studied t)e 7ioneerin4 7rebirt))earin4 ork o+ Dr. E+red E. To(atis21in

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    does t)e sa(e it) 7re4nant (ot)ers at )is

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    PREGNANT PAUSES; MEDITATING TO MOTHERHOOD

    0editation is 7robab5 t)e (ost e++ecti;e a5 +or co((unicatin4 it) t)econsciousness o+ bab5 as s)e or )e +oats around 5our aura. T)ere are (an5 di++erenttec)niues. *o(e are tota5 7assi;e & rece7ti;e. 8t)ers (ake use o+ )at is caed

    4uided i(a4er5. We )a;e recei;ed dei4)ted re7orts about a si(7e W)oe-*e+(editation it) )ic) babies resonate beauti+u5. We oud ike to s)are it it) 5ou./t can be 7racticed it) t)e bab5 or b5 a 7eo7e +or dai5 se+-baancin4. /+ 5ou )a;ea 7artner 5ou can aternate sa5in4 it out oud, record it 5ourse+ or contact us +or a7re-recorded ta7e or cd o+ it & ot)er (ediations in se;era. /t si(75 +ocuses attentionon di++erent 7arts o+ 5our bod5 & re7eats t)e sentence. /t takes about 1% (inutesdai5.

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    / et t)is baancin4 Radiance +o into (5 +ore)ead area& / et t)e consciousness o+ a t)e ces in (5 +ore)eadrecei;e t)is baancin4 Radiance as a 4i+t +or 4i;in4 (e

    7er+ect inner ;ision ... 7er+ect insi4)t ... 7er+ect intuition.T)is is o+ten e=7erienced as a 7)5sica +eein4.

    /t is ike a tin4in4 or 7usin4 in t)e center o+ (5 +ore)eadas (5 inner ;ision 4ente o7ens & stren4t)ens.

    No / et t)is baancin4 Radiance +o t)rou4) (5 e5es & (5 o7tic ner;es t)rou4) (5 nostris & sinuses ... (5 ears ... (5 (out) ... (5 t)roat.

    / et t)e consciousness o+ a t)e sense or4ans in (5 )eadrecei;e t)is baancin4 Radiance as a 4i+t +or +unctionin4 7er+ect5.

    No / et t)is baancin4 Radiance +o don (5 ar(sinto (5 o7en recei;in4 )ands "87en t)e( 7a(s u7 7ease.#

    / et t)e consciousness o+ a t)e ces in (5 )andsrecei;e t)is baancin4 Radiance as a 4i+t +or 4i;in4 (e a 7er+ect touc) ...

    a 7er+ect stren4t) ...a 7er+ect creati;it5an5 o+ )ic) / can use )ene;er / c)oose.

    T)is is o+ten e=7erienced as a 7)5sica +eein4 aso.

    / reai?e t)at / a( )odin4 a ;ibrant, s)i((erin4 bao+ o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 cr5sta Radiance

    in t)e 7a(s & +in4erti7s o+ (5 )ands.End, as / can +ee t)is Radiant ener45 in (5 )ands,

    / kno / )a;e brou4)t t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radianceto t)e consciousness o+ e;er5 ce in (5 bod5 ...

    /t is si(75 t)at as (5 )ands are connected to (5 sense o+ touc)/ can +ee it ;er5 cear5.

    END N8W, / 8FF'R TB/* L8>/NG CRH*TEL CL'ER ELENC/NG RED/ENC'T8 TB' C8N*C/8*N'** 8F TB' EH WB/CB /*

    C80/NG T8 "8R /* /N# 8R C8N*C/8*N'**.

    "Take as (uc) ti(e as 5ou is) to co((unicate it) bab5./+ 5ou )a;e aread5 seected a na(e use it as 5ou s7eak it) bab5.

    For non-7re4nanc5 ea;e out t)e abo;e sentence.#

    No / o++er t)is )eain4, baancin4 Radianceto e;er5one / kno )o )as e;er asked (e +or )e7 or )eain4.

    / t)ink o+ eac) 7ersonAs na(e or brie+5 ;isuai?e t)eir +aces."Take as (uc) ti(e as 5ou need.#

    End, / o++er t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radianceto e;er5one / kno )o )as asked +or )e7 or )eain4

    )ose na(es do not co(e to (e at t)is (o(ent.

    No, / o++er t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radianceto e;er5one / kno )o )as died or is near deat).

    / t)ink o+ eac) 7ersonAs na(e or brie+5 ;isuai?e t)eir +aces.

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    End, / o++er t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radianceto e;er5one / kno )o )as died or is near deat)

    )ose na(es do not co(e to (e a t)is (o(ent.

    No / o++er t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radiance to e;er5one)o( / )a;e o;ed in t)e 7ast, o;e no, or e;er i o;e.

    / t)ink o+ eac) o+ t)eir na(es or brie+5 ;isuai?e eac) o+ t)eir +aces.End, / o++er t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radiance to e;er5one

    / )a;e o;ed, o;e no or e;er i o;e)ose na(es do not co(e to (e at t)is (o(ent.

    No / o++er t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radiance into (5 on )eart centeras a 4i+t +or 4i;in4 (e 7er+ect unconditiona se+-o;e ...

    7er+ect unconditiona o;e o+ (5se+.

    End, / +ee o5 in (5 )eart knoin4 t)at / )a;e (er4ed backit) a source o+ (5 on bein4 ...

    t)at / a( no on4er aone but connected it) t)at source.

    End, / t)ank (5 )eart +or 7u(7in4 t)e i+e bood t)rou4) (5 bod5 ...& it) eac) beat o+ (5 )eart not on5 is it 7u(7in4 t)e bood

    but it is 7u(7in4 t)is baancin4 Radiance as e.

    End, no / et t)is cr5sta baancin4 Radiance +o t)rou4) (5 un4s ...(5 breasts & adoinin4 5(7)atic s5ste( ... (5 t)5roid 4and ...

    (5 soar 7e=us ... (5 abdo(en.

    / et t)e consciousness o+ a t)e ces o+ a t)e or4ans, t)e 4ands,t)e s5ste(s, t)e (usces, t)e bones, t)e skin, t)e )air o+ (5 bod5

    recei;e t)is riiant Radiance as a 4i+t +or +unctionin4 7er+ect5.

    / es7ecia5 et t)e consciousness o+ a (5 s5ste(s)ic) are creatin4 & su77ortin4 t)e )eat)5 bod5

    bab5 "na(e# i in)abit +ro( birt) recei;e t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radiance +or de;eo7in4 7er+ect5.

    No / et t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radiance +o don o;er (5 )ead& (5 +ace ... (5 s)ouders ... (5 back ... (5 ar(s ... (5 c)est.

    / reai?e t)at bab5 & / are sittin4 in a cascade o+ o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radiance+oin4 in t)rou4) & around our W)oe-*e;es.

    End no, / et t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radiance +o don o;er(5 soar 7e=us ... (5 abdo(en ... (5 )i7s & t)i4)s ... (5 knees ...

    (5 s)ins & ca;es ... (5 ankes ... (5 +eet ... (5 toes.

    End, knoin4 t)at bab5 & / can rene t)is o;in4, )eain4, baancin4 Radiance)ene;er e ant, / can cose t)e itte o7enin4 at t)e to7 o+ (5 )ead.

    End, because / )a;e been ;er5 conscious & ;er5 ide aake)en / ant / can 4ent5 o7en (5 e5es.

    IIII

    THINING CAN MAE IT SO

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    T)at is one o+ t)e secrets o+ t)e book The Secret T)e tite o+ (5 +irst ectures in t)e196s as $oiti0e 2nergy !n The $ath To Higher Concioune.

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    i(7ortance o+ drea(s as co((unications +ro( t)e non-conscious to t)e conscious(ind.

    *tane5 ri77ner

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    )ad dran o+ t)eir conditions, o+ t)e treat(ent )e o++ers & a t)ird 7icture o+ )o t)attreat(ent i ork. Drain4s are a onder+u a5 to diao4ue it) bab5. Tr5 drain4at east one 7icture a eek & 5ouA )a;e a o;e5 art book o+ 5our 7re4nanc5.

    IIITAP YOUR TOES

    We (entioned t)e bene+its o+ sin4in4 or (akin4 (usic. Dancin4 is a 4reat bod5 toner &stren4t)ener. /+ t)at see(s too strenuous a )a+ )our dai5 ak buids 5our bod5 in a4ente 7ro4ressi;e a5M & 5ou see & breat)e a t)e onders o+ nature besides.*)arin4 (assa4e beteen 5ou & 5our 7artner is a ;er5 7easurabe & rea=in4 a5 tobe in contact it) a t)e a(a?in4 c)an4es )a77enin4 to 5our bod5 as it (or7)s intoone o+ natureAs (ost (iracuous creatures - a (ot)er. Es 5ou e=c)an4e tendertouc)in4 5ou dra coser to4et)er as a tea( estabis)in4 non-;erba co((unicationbeteen t)e t)ree o+ 5ou. End, donAt +or4et to (ake (assa4e 7art o+ bab5As 7a5ti(e.Tro5a & / )a;e bot) taken Dr. Rut) RiceAs course in bab5 (assa4e. Dr. Rice as t)ecoura4eous 7ioneer )o +ou4)t +or (assa4in4 7re(ature babies in Neonata /ntensi;eCare nits3)en )os7itas a o;er t)e *E re+used )er 7er(ission to do a stud5.

    *o(e e;en accused )er o+ tr5in4 to cause babiesA deat)s. /n trut), )er ;ision sa;ed(an5 babies & at t)e ;er5 east stren4t)ened t)e( to 4o )o(e earier it) t)eir+a(iies.

    III

    A WHIFF OF LIFE

    Re4ardin4 (usic one o+ t)e 4reat sadnesses o+ i+e o+ten associated it) t)e (usicscene are t)e e=cessi;e use o+ ci4arettes, dru4s & aco)o. *o, it is e to 7ut in aitte e s)at nots +or about to beco(e 7re4nant 7arents. T)e 4reat nu(bers o+babies bein4 born addicted to dru4s is a serious 7robe( in societ5. ut e ant to(ention t)at t)e 4reatest tra4ed5 co(es to +a(iies )en t)e (ot)er is usin4 t)eseaddicti;e substances it)out reai?in4 s)e is 7re4nant. /t is durin4 t)e ear5 eeks o+t)e +irst tri(ester )en t)ere are a )oe seuence o+ bod5 s5ste(s t)at are startin4u7 & )ic) can be da(a4ed b5 addicti;e substances resutin4 in tra4ic birt) de+ects.

    T)e sin4e (ost i(7ortant risk +actor to babies is s(okin4 b5 7re4nant (ot)ersaccordin4 to Dr. Nei Gibson31o+ Gas4oAs Ro5a Bos7ita +or *ick C)idren in *cotand.T)ere is a 7ossibe correation beteen ast)(a in c)idren )ic) )as reac)ed serious7ro7ortions & (ot)ersA s(okin4. 0arked da(a4e can be seen in t)e +irst eeks o+ i+ein c)idren )ose (ot)erAs s(oked durin4 7re4nanc5. ';en (ot)er t)inkin4 abouti4)tin4 a ci4arette causes a re;usi;e contraction to )er +eta c)id. Reeasin4 s(okin4as +ar be+ore conce7tion as 7ossibe is )eat) insurance +or bab5. *to77in4 s(okin4 isessentia b5 bot) 7artners because s(okin4 oers bab5As birt) ei4)t - a si4ni+icant+actor in bab5As i+t o++ into eness & )oness. E stud5 o+ )a+ a (iion birt)s b5o(en )o s(oked s)oed t)at babies a;era4ed 2 4ra(s ess t)an +or o(en )odid not s(oke. ';en e=7osure to secondar5 s(oke +ro( )er 7artner or ot)ers canreduce bab5As birt) ei4)t b5 as (uc) as a uarter o+ a 7ound 32. /n our W)oe-*e+

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    Let us uote +ro( a etter e rote to Terri )en s)e in+or(ed us t)at s)e &Russe )ere read5 to start t)eir +a(i5.

    We are so 4ad t)at Russe is 4i;in4 u7 s(okin4 in 7re7aration. *tudiess)o babiesA e=tre(e distress & trau(a resutin4 in oer birt) ei4)t& breat)in4 & aer45 conditions a+ter birt). For 5ou re+rainin4 +ro( e;en

    t)e s(aest a(ount o+ aco)o is essentia t)rou4)out 5our 7re4nanc5,but (ost i(7ortant5 durin4 t)e ear5 (ont)s )en (ost o+ bab5As s5ste(sare startin4 to de;eo7. Hou )a;e to be ;er5 stron4 to not beie;e 7eo7e)o sa5, AE itte si7 onAt )urt 5ouA or e;en A/tAs 4ood +or bab5A T)e trut)is aco)o does )ar( t)e de;eo7in4 bab5 bod5. Et)ou4) t)ere as a bi4+uror because to doctors )a;e said a itte ine eac) da5 is )e7+u,scienti+ic studies s)o t)at e;en a s(a a(ount o+ aco)o (a5 )a;e ade;astatin4 e++ect on bab5As de;eo7(ent. *o(e 5ears a4o, a aiter in*an Francisco as +ired because )e re+used to ser;e a 7re4nant o(ana 4ass o+ ine. Be s)oud )a;e 4otten a Ani4)t /n *)inin4 Er(or EardA.T)at said, as (ost o(en are not aare t)at t)e5 ere 7re4nant it is;er5 i(7ortant not to +ee 4uit5 +or so(e drinkin4 as t)e 4uit coud

    7ossib5 )a;e (ore ne4ati;e a++ect on bab5 t)an t)e drinkin4.IIII

    THE SMOE SCREEN

    Tro5a sa5s t)at s(okin4 is a s(oke screen tr5in4 to )ide a secret. *(oke is a coud, a+irea. En e++ecti;e a5 to reease s(okin4 is to disco;er t)rou4) t)era75 )atsecret 5ou are tr5in4 to )ide & t)e coud can be4in to dissi7ate. Enot)er )int e cano++er is to not be a4ainst s(okin4 or an5 addiction. Resistance ust stren4t)ens itsi(7risonin4 7oer o;er 5ou b5 tri44erin4 t)e LA- !% !$$!SITI!&!

    W#$T%&%' I $( O))O*%D TOI #$&% TO %+)%'I%NC%

    /t is +ar better to rein+orce t)e onder+u bene+its )ic) 5ou & 5our +a(i5 recei;e ina s(oke & dru4 +ree )eat) 7ro(otin4 )o(e. W)en s(okin4 is bein4 reeased e=tracarin4 & 4enteness are i(7ortant. We are not tr5in4 to (ake 7eo7e +ee 4uit5 butt)e 7roo+s o+ t)e )ar(+u e++ects o+ s(okin4 & ot)er addictions are t)ere.

    SMOING & PREGNANCY ARE ANATHEMA

    *o(e (ot)erAs sto7 durin4 t)e 7re4nanc5 & t)an start a4ain a+ter t)e dei;er5. *tudiesur4e abstinence not ust be+ore 7re4nanc5 & birt) but a t)rou4) t)e c)idAs 4roin4 &de;eo7(enta 5ears. E4ain, )e7 is a;aiabe to su77ort cearin4 s(oke +ro( 5ourbodies & 5our i;es.

    Yo! +'33 5r"* (' o r"3'" 4no+'n yo!r 55y '( 5r"*'n 5"**"r.

    IIII

    $A$Y IS MORE THAN $IOLOGY

    8ne o+ t)e 4reat tra4edies o+ (edica birt)in4 is t)at o;er a )undred 5ears a4o, )endoctors (edicai?ed birt)in4, t)e (isconce7tion as 7ro(u4ated t)at re7roductionas a 7)5sica. T)e s7iritua di(ension )ic) )ad been obser;ed b5 (ot)ers & t)eirtrusted bab5 catc)ers t)rou4)out )istor5 as (ade obsoete. nderstandin4 t)ebioo4ica (ec)anics as e as s7iritua di(ensions o+ conce7tion, 7re4nanc5 & birt)

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    are i(7ortant +acets in knoin4 )o 0ot)er Nature trans+or(s a o(an & a (an intoa (ot)er & +at)er. Re(e(ber )o GertrudeAs ideas about conce7tion & birt) ca(e+ro( )er Teutonic )erita4e. 8ur attention )ere no is toard to ;er5 co(7ein4in+uences on t)e birt)in4 7rocess. T)ese are t)e (enta & e(otiona reaities - t)ebeie+s about abor & birt) o+ 5ou & 5our 7artner conscious5 & non-conscious5 carried+ro( 5our +a(i5As birt)in4 )istories. W)at are t)e non-conscious as e as conscious

    t)ou4)ts & +eein4s o+ eac) o+ 5ou about beco(in4 7arentsIIII

    DOES $IRTH HAVE TO $E TRAUMATIC8

    Ba;e 5ou been )57noti?ed b5 t)e constant5 rein+orced beie+ t)at birt) )as to be7ain+u & e;en trau(ati?in4 W)at is t)e trut) about t)e sa+et5 o+ (idi+er5 & )o(ebirt) /n ter(s o+ di(inis)in4 (odein4, did 5ou e;er see a Bo5ood (o;ie )ic)7resented a birt) it)out a (ot)erAs a4on5 or deat) T)e trut) is t)at t)e ide5encoded beie+ t)at birt) is aa5s trau(atic is a (isconce7tion. /t )as beco(e+as)ionabe to s7eak o+ a birt) as bein4 trau(atic. T)e Jtrau(a o+ birt)A is ba(ed+or ust about e;er5 7robe( )u(anit5 (ust endure. T)ere is no doubt t)at t)ere can

    be trau(atic birt)s )ere t)ere are (edica crises. ut to sa5 t)at e;er5one is borntrau(atica5 is si(75 not true. /t is a cul de acin estern )u(an consciousness.:uie Gerand at *ur5o(a in France is a +ore(ost aut)orit5 on 7ain +ree B57noirt)in4.W)ere t)ere is 7ain+u trau(a it is (ost o+ten caused b5 irrational& ill+concei0edrues & regulationsuc) as co(7ein4 (ot)er ie on )er back.

    STANDING UP FOR $IRTH

    Et t)e Essociation +or Nationa

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    sub(issi;e5 acce7ted in )er +irst dei;er5. innie earned to do or4as(ic birt) it))er second c)id in t)e sa(e )os7ita, it) t)e sa(e doctor & t)e sa(e )usband. T)isti(e t)e e=7erience as dru4 +ree, 7ainess, ;er5 real ork & an or4as( )en Robert7resented.K Robert, as a babies, as 7rotected t)rou4) )is 4estation t)rou4) t)eondrous (ediu( o+ ater.

    IIII

    THE WATERS OF LIFE

    /n recent decades t)ere )as been a s(a 5et increasin4 nu(ber o+ 7arents c)oosin4 to4i;e birt) in )at e ike to ca a su77ortin4 ater o(b. T)e (5stic o+ ater itse+& its connection it) our ori4ins is ric) in )e7in4 us to understand dee7 & 7oer+u+orces it)in )u(an consciousness. 0ic)e 8dent, 0.D.3%)o 7ioneered (edicaacce7tance o+ underater birt)in4 4i+ts us a transcendenta (eanin4 to ater & birt)it) t)e uestion,

    -hen "e are eeking an oceanic 'eeling# a ene o' unity "ith the como + in*tthe origin o' uch 'eeling o' our uni0ere "hen "e "ere 'etue in amniotic 'luid5

    Dr. 8dent su44ests t)is (a5 be )o t)e rei4ious sense ori4inatedM t)at our uni;ersarei4ious instinct corres7onds to a ;ision o+ t)e uni;erse t)at is inscribed onto our7ri(iti;e brain, t)e brain t)at is aread5 de;eo7ed durin4 +eta i+e.

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    EFRE/DA *)e beie;es t)at +or t)e +irst ti(e in t)e )istor5 o+ )u(an e;oution e )a;et)e tec)noo45 o+ consciousness t)at aos us to 7eer into t)e ;er5 t)reads o+recorded i(7rints )ic) cause our irrationa or bodi5 +ears o+ 7re4nanc5 t)at )a;ebeen )anded don to us. We donAt )a;e to 4i;e birt) in ater to )ea t)ese no on4er7roducti;e 7atterns. E e need is conscious intention "re(e(ber consciousness,intention - co((it(ent#. We can reease +ear b5 si(75 sitc)in4 our attention to

    t)e +eein4s, si4)ts & ses t)e ces o+ our bod5 )a;e recorded o+ eas5, natura birt)st)at are it)in our on (uti-incarnationa re7ertoire. T)rou4) consciousness,intention & co((it(ent our )u(an +a(i5 cannot )e7 but co(e ai;e to our naturarei4ious or s7iritua senses.

    IIII

    DESIRE COUNTS

    T)e +at)er o+ t)ose +i;e c)idren (entioned abo;e (a5 )a;e been non-conscious o+t)eir conce7tions but )e did not )a;e to ait on4 +or t)eir birt)s. W)en t)e (ot)er o+t)ose +i;e c)idren said /tAs ti(e to dri;e to t)e )os7ita )er )usband oud ea;e )erat t)e )os7ita entrance. 5 t)e ti(e )e )ad 7arked t)e car & returned to t)e aitin4

    roo( s)e as aread5 in t)e dei;er5 roo(. Be )ard5 )ad an5 ait at a. W)5 *)eanted babies *)e anted t)e (ost intense roe & 7ur7ose in )er i+e to be +u+ied.*)e anted to (ot)er

    IIII

    FAMILY $IRTHING $ELIEFS

    T)e +irst ste7 in conscious, intentiona & co((itted )oistic c)idin4 is t)e resonanceo+ attraction beteen 5ou & 5our 7artner. T)e second is t)e incusion o+ bab5 in t)ebondin4 7rocess. T)e t)ird is to e=7ore t)e 7)5sica 7rocess in t)e de;eo7(ent o+7re4nanc5. E4ain t)is is co;ered e in ot)er books. 8ur +ocus is on consciousness,intention & co((it(ent. T)e +ourt) +actor (a5 actua5 be t)e (ost i(7ortant

    because it (a5 )a;e t)e 4reatest i(7act on 5our actua abor & birt).T)is +ourt) ee(ent is t)e conscious & non-conscious e(otiona beie+s &

    a4endas around birt) in bot) 5ourse+ & 5our 7artner & bot) 5our +a(iies. /+ t)ere aredi(inis)in4, dire +ears o+ 7ain & 7ossib5 e;en +ear o+ deat) +a(i5 beie+s surroundin47re4nanc5 & birt), )ear a4ain C)risA 4ente & o;in4 )is7er in 5our ears. D8 N8T 'EFRE/D /4norin4, den5in4, resistin4, bur5in4, o77osin4 a t)ose conscious & non-conscious +ears, e;en terrors & 7anics eads to on5 one 7ossibiit5! a so(eti(es on4unnecessar5 7ain+u & 7rotracted abor & birt).

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    /t is +as)ionabe in so(e birt) t)era7ies to ba(e on4 abors on bab5Asuniin4ness to be born. T)at (a5 be a nice (eta7)or to e(otiona5 act out. ut itis si(75 not so *o(e sa5 t)at bab5 is resistin4 birt) because s)e or )e re(e(bers7re;ious 7ain+u birt) or deat)s. W)en cos(ic a(nesia ocks in, bab5 cannotre(e(ber birt)s & deat)s but can resonate t)ose +eein4s it) t)e +eein4s o+resistance )ic) (ot)er is re4isterin4 t)rou4) )erse+ to )er c)id. T)is is 7art o+ t)e

    +oundation o+ e(otions & attitudes )ic) bab5 co(es into i+e su77orted it) asesson 7atterns to be acti;ated in i+e. ab5 is )ere to c)an4e or disso;e re7eatin4t)ose 7atterns. Re(e(ber s)e or )e (er4ed it) 5our consciousness s7eci+ica5 to beborn t)rou4) 5ou.

    IIII

    WHERE DO EMOTIONS COME FROM8

    Li+e is a about e(otions. En5 one )o )as s)ared in t)e birt) i te 5ou t)at babiescan be born e=7ressin4 stron4 e(otions on t)eir +aces. W)ere can t)ose e(otionsco(e +ro( W)oe-*e+

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    (ot)er is 4roin4 +or bab5 to use a+ter birt). T)e consciousness or sou o+ bab5 is ins5(biosis it) (ot)erKs consciousness, bein4 educated in )er (ind & )er e(otions.

    IIII

    TROYA6S STORY3O

    Es a senior 7s5c)iatric & socia nurse / )ad been de;eo7in4 treat(ent7ro4ra(s +or o(en it) anore6ia& bulimia ner0oaeatin4 disorders.Ectua5, / a4reed it) t)ose o(en. Hou can i(a4ine (5 s)ock )en/ reai?ed it as because +or 12 5ears / )ad t)ose sa(e secret eatin4be)a;iors. / kne t)at t)e cinica treat(ents did not ork. *o, /t)ou4)t / oud tr5 to (editate back to (5 birt) to see i+ / couddisco;er t)e reason +or (5 7assi;e suicide. To (5 sur7rise, instead o+ seein4 (e as a ust born bab5, / sa (57re4nant (ot)er sittin4 in )er doctorAs o++ice. *)e )ad been unabe toto 4et 7re4nant because o+ a ti77ed uterus. E+ter an o7eration s)e aso5ous to recei;e t)e nes t)at no s)e as 7re4nant. T)en / )eard)i( sa5, J';en t)ou4) 5ou are no 7re4nant be aare t)at a+ter suc)

    an o7eration t)is +irst bab5 coud be born deadA /nstant5, / asoreco4ni?ed (ot)erAs +eein4 o+ )a77iness bein4 das)ed into +ear,terror, 7anic & disaster. / aso reai?ed / as e=7ected to be deadt)us (5 suicida strate45 it) +ood. 0ost startin4 as t)e reai?ationo+ t)e source o+ (5 se+-sabota4e )en so(et)in4 4ood as about to)a77en in (5 i+e. / )ad to sto7 (5 )a77iness be+ore so(eonesnatc)ed it aa5 +ro( (e.

    Ten 5ears ater, )en / (et :o)n-Ric)ard "no :on RG# )e asked(e i+ / )ad e;er discussed (5 ;ision it) (5 7arents. *ince / )ad not,on our ne=t ;isit, / tod (5 7arents )at / )ad earned. Fat)er au4)in45denied it. 0ot)er ca(5 asked, JBo did 5ou +ind out )at t)e doctortod (e / ne;er e;en tod 5our +at)er )at t)e doctor said.A / aso

    reai?ed t)at as t)e ke5 to (5 sient su++erin4 - not be abe to takabout (5 +eein4.T)e non-conscious t)ou4)t )ic) )ad created (5 disease & (ot)erAs

    reactions to t)ose see(in45 7ro7)etic ords )ad been ocked into (ebe+ore / as born. /n t)e 7rocess o+ )eain4 (5 eatin4 disorders, /created "non-conscious5# a (eano(a cancer in )ic) / as 4i;en esst)an si= (ont)s to i;e i+ / took c)e(ot)era75. Ba;in4 ust o;erco(e;o(itin4 ei4)t to ten ti(es a da5 +or te;e 5ears, / re+used c)e(obecause / did not ant to s7end )ate;er ti(e / (i4)t )a;e ;o(itin4.*e;era ti(es / 7roected into (5 7rebirt) 7eriod & (ade (an5 (oreconnections & correations )ic) aoed (e to understand (5 (edicac)aen4es & so been abe to i;e t)e ast 3% (ore 5ear 5ears cancer +ree.

    W)at Tro5a )ad disco;ered in )er inner 7rebirt) ourne5 as a true aakenin4 +ro()er W)oe-*e+ to understand )er i+e. *)e coud be +ree +ro( t)e o;er)e(in4e;idence t)at s)e as bad or sick +or usin4 +ood as a ea7on to assert )er ri4)t to bein t)e ord. T)ere as absoute5 no ba(e toard )er (ot)er. Ber (ot)er )adreacted 7er+ect5 nor(a5 to suc) tra4ic nes. End, t)e in+or(ation s)e recei;ed+ro( )er W)oe-*e+ +ueed Tro5aAs e=cite(ent to ant to s)are t)is ne a5 o+)e7in4 7eo7e to )ea t)e(se;es. Reco4ni?in4 )er innate5 encoded 7atterns beca(et)e (eans b5 )ic) Tro5a coud e=7ore )er non-conscious se+ & to beco(e an

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    ins7iration to t)ose su++erin4 +ro( eatin4 disorders & ot)er ter(ina inesses so t)att)ose 7ersons coud o;erco(e t)eir non-conscious 7ro4ra(s to be dead.

    IIII

    CLEARING FAMILY FEARS

    ';en i+ 5ou are not aare o+ an5 7robe(s in;esti4ate 5our +a(i5 birt) )istories. T)e+ears need not be acted out. W)en +ears are +aced t)e5 disso;e. Look at t)e( & i+t)ere are +ears reease t)e(. T)is is done b5 s)inin4 t)e i4)t o+ consciousness &aareness u7on t)e( as bri4)t5 as 7ossibe. /+ aters s5(boi?e e(otions, break t)eaters o+ 5our a(niotic +ears. E t)e abo;e acti;ities can )e7. Hou can start takin4it) 5our 7artner, bot) sets o+ 5our 7arents & reati;es about eac) o+ 5our birt)s ase as ot)er 7re4nancies in bot) 5our +a(iies & +riends. Re(e(ber t)ose )istoriesare a (odes to di(inis) or en)ance 5our consciousness, intention & co((it(ent.End, as C)ris su44ests +ocus on t)e en)ancin4 birt)s as (odes.

    Hour ;erba )istor5 researc) takin4 it) reati;es (a5 be su++icient to reeaseod +a(i5 birt)in4 7atterns. *o(eti(es t)ere is no +a(i5 it) )o( to tak.Reati;es (a5 not re(e(ber )at as )a77enin4 t)at +ar back. 8r, t)e subect (a5

    be too 7ain+u, t)reatenin4 or buried to be discussed. For e=a(7e, in E(ericaAs sad5,e;en 7at)oo4ica5, se=ua5 re7ressed societ5, so(e 7eo7e can not e(otiona5)ande t)e trut) t)at t)eir (ot)er & +at)er )ad intercourse at a. 8+ten a (ore+or(a 7rebirt) t)era75 suc) as t)e W)oe-*e+ ern5, 0.D. +ounded t)e

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    & *"r r" r"3"("2 ro/ 2'/'n'('n 1**"rn(. & /o(* '/1or*n*3y,55y +'33 'n"r'* *" /"((" ** no* on3y '( '* (", 5!* '* '(, 'n c*,"0*r"/"3y 5"n"'c'3 *o (""4 & *o r"c"'" "/o*'on3B/"n*3 (!11or*.

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    IIII

    PAIN COMES FROM RESISTANCE

    /n our W)oe-*e+

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    t)e(se;es +orce+u5, e=)ibit 7re+erences & be4in in+uencin4 7eo7e +ro( t)e start.T)is is because in+ants are ca7abe o+ inte4ratin4 co(7e= in+or(ation +ro( (an5sources & Ait) a itte )e7 +ro( t)eir +riendsA are abe to re4uate t)e(se;es & t)eiren;iron(ent.

    ';en ritin4 t)ese ords, Tro5a & / can )ear )is care+u, 4rand+at)er5intonations as )e )as s7oken t)ese t)ou4)ts at 7ro+essiona (eetin4s. End, e )a;e to

    ad(it t)at t)ere is a )eart i+tin4 (o(ent )en Dr. C)a(berain 7roud5 7rocai(sbabies are ne )u(an bein4s...e sa5 Ne Boistic Bu(an ein4s

    IIII

    SYNTHESIS TO WHOLENESS

    W)oe-*e+

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    (orbidit5 & (ortait5 can be reducedM )ere a decent start in i+e can be 4i;en, &+ina5 )ere t)e +unda(enta )u(anitarian ;aues t)rou4) ear5 bondin4 o+ c)id &t)e (ot)er & +at)er can be +aciitated.

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    cause suc) 7anic reaction. / asked *5;ia i+ an5one cose to )er )ad died durin4 t)e7re4nanc5 or i+ s)e )ad +eared an5one d5in4 durin4 )er 7re4nanc5. *)e i((ediate5res7onded ANoA T)is as a ;er5 nor(a res7onse.

    /n W)oe-*e+

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    7at)oo45 as 7anted durin4 4estation. /t 4er(inated durin4 birt) to be s7routed &bosso(ed durin4 i+e.

    III

    A PRE$IRTH E#PERIMENT

    T)ese +irst uestions are directed toard readers )o aread5 )a;e c)idren. /+ 5ou)a;e not 5et beco(e 7arents e i incude 5ou s)ort5.

    T)ink o+ 5our odest c)id & 7articuar traits or reaction in situations.Can 5ou see an5 cear5 ob;ious 7atterns, reactions, be)a;iors

    No 7ease ao 5our W)oe-*e+ to et 5ou e=7erience so(et)in45ou ere stron45 e=7eriencin4, +eein4 or reactin4 to durin4 5our7re4nanc5 it) t)at c)id. "Cose e5es +or anser.#

    Does t)at c)id )a;e t)ose sa(e reactions or traits

    /+ 5ou )a;e (ore t)an one c)id re7eat t)e uestions +or eac) one.

    /+ 5our anser is cear5 JH'*A no 5ou kno )ere t)ose 7atterns )a;e co(e +ro(.

    Hour c)id )as been borroin4 5our +eein4 & reaction 7atterns +ro( t)ose s7eci+ice;ents. *o(eti(es t)ere as not a de+inite trau(atic incident. T)ere (a5 )a;e beenc)ronic, 7er;asi;e, continuin4 circu(stances & +eein4s t)rou4) so(e or a o+ t)e7re4nanc5 suc) as e=tre(e 7arenta o77osition, )ostiit5, )atred or 7reudice, )un4er,7o;ert5, +ear o+ ar, terroris( )ic) can be as i(7act+u, i+ not (ore so, t)an atrau(atic incident.

    Ba;in4 aoed t)is in+or(ation to co(e to 5ou, in )ate;er a5 5ou recei;edit, 5ou )a;e disco;ered t)e source o+ o+ten re7eated e(otiona 7atterns & be)a;iorsin 5our c)id or c)idren. Hou i )a;e disco;ered t)at eac) c)id is re-+eein4 or re-actin4 t)e a5 one or bot) o+ 5ou ere +eein4 & reactin4 to a sudden trau(a or

    continuin4 di(inis)in4 circu(stance. Es e 7ointed out be+ore, so(eti(es t)ere is notrau(a but a continuin4, c)ronic or 7er;asi;e circu(stance durin4 so(e or a o+ t)e7re4nanc5 o+ t)at c)id.

    Es it) (ost 7eo7e 5ou are 7robab5 dei4)ted to reai?e t)at t)ere is not)in4bad or ron4 it) 5our c)id but t)at 5our c)id is si(75 co75in4, re7icatin4 or re-actin4 out e(otiona reactions +ro( 5ou. /n e++ect, t)e disco;er5 is (ade t)at 5ourc)idren )a;e borroed 5our c)ar4ed (entae(otiona 7atterns. 'ac) c)id does t)isnot to kee7 re7eatin4 t)ese 7atterns a t)rou4) i+e but in order to e=7erience t)e+eein4s, earn +ro( & 4ro t)rou4) t)ose 7atterns. /+ t)e 4rot) & (aturit5 does nottake 7ace, t)e c)id is said to be actin4 in an in+antie or c)idis) a5.

    *ince on a non-conscious e;e 5our c)id )as been i;in4 & reactin4 to 5oure=7erience as i+ it as actua5 5our c)idAs on e=7erience, e re7eat a4ain a ;er5

    e++ecti;e a5 to )e7 5our c)id to be +ree o+ t)at innate 7attern is b5 sittin4 don &takin4 to4et)er about )at )ad )a77ened to 5ou be+ore s)e or )e as born. "T)is canaso be done +or 5our ne bab5 b5 takin4 about 7ast trau(as to 5ourse+ or 5our7artner durin4 5our 7re4nanc5.# Hour c)idAs reaction can ran4e an5)ere +ro( sienceto a be)a;ior o+ an4er i+ +eein4s co(e u7 )ic) s)e or )e )as not earned to reco4ni?eas sa+e. /n an5 case, 5ou )a;e s)on t)at it is sa+e to tak about 7ain+u e;ents &+eein4s. 8nce 5ou )a;e s)on t)e c)id t)at it as 5our reaction not )er or )is, it)ina +e da5s 5our c)idAs be)a;ior can c)an4e as t)e detac)(ent takes 7ace.

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    *o(eti(es 5ou (a5 be s)ocked or e;en beie;e 5ou are +eein4 an4r5 becausee are accusin4 5ou o+ doin4 so(et)in4 bad to 5our c)id. Hou (a5 be e=7eriencin4 abe)a;ior o+ an4er to co;er u7 +eein4 4uit or +ear b5 )at 5ou beie;e 5ou )a;edisco;ered. Hou (a5 e;en beie;e t)at e are accusin4 5ou o+ )a;in4 done so(eterribe t)in4 to 5our c)id. We i sa5 t)is ;er5 cear5. T)at is absoute5 not true /tis not true because 5ou did not c)oose 5our c)id to do t)ose e(otiona t)in4s to )i(

    or )er. Hour c)id as attracted to 5ou 7recise5 because o+ t)ose e(otiona(enta7atterns )ic) 5ou ere 4oin4 t)rou4) durin4 t)at 7re4nanc5. Be or s)e needed t)ose7atterns in i+e in order 4ro t)rou4) t)e(. Durin4 5our 7re4nanc5 t)ose 7atternsere on5 7otentia +or 5our c)id. /t is on5 a+ter birt) t)at t)e 7otentia 7atternscoud be acti;ated in order to be orked on in 5our c)idAs i+e.

    *o )o does t)is a reate to conscious consciousness, intention &co((it(ent Es )as been s)on be+ore bab5 is not born a tabala raa(*)e or )e ist)e accu(uation o+ a t)e e(otions 5our & 5our 7artner )a;e or are e=7eriencin4.T)e abo;e ets 5ou kno s7eci+ics about )o it orks. 8ne t)in4 is +or sure. We trustt)at 5ou can take )ate;er ste7s are necessar5 to cear as (uc) c)ar4ed e(otiona7atterns +ro( 5ourse;es to dra to 5ourse+ as )i4)er e;o;ed sou as 5ou can. T)at(akes t)e ord a itte better & bri4)ter.

    IIII

    HOW MY PERSONALITY WORS

    sua5, )en asked uestions direct5 (ost 7eo7e sa5, A/ donAt knoA T)at anser isco(in4 +ro( t)eir 7ersonait5. *o(e (i4)t sa5 it is co(in4 +ro( t)e (ind not t)e)eart. Es 5ou kno t)at is sti an a;oidance. We )a;e touc)ed on t)is be+ore but it isso i(7ortant e oud ike to 4o into it a4ain in t)e +irst 7erson.

    8ne o+ t)e basic +unctions o+ (5 7ersonait5 is to kee7 (e +ro( re(e(berin4an5t)in4 )ic) it beie;es (i4)t 4i;e (e 7ain. W)en t)e e;ent took 7ace / ent intoa trance state. / kee7 i;in4 t)e reacti;e +eein4s in t)at trance ti / a( iin4 to ookat it a4ain. 05 non-conscious is actin4 in t)e beie+ t)at on so(e e;e, in so(e a5,t)e trau(atic e;ent or circu(stance is so(e)o sti )a77enin4 to (e at t)is (o(ent.05 7ersonait5 does not see( to reai?e t)at )et)er / a( conscious o+ t)e 7ain+ue;ent or non-conscious o+ it / a( sti e=7eriencin4 t)e a++ect or 7ain o+ t)e trau(a.05 7ersonait5 kee7s (e +ro( seein4re7a5in4 t)e dra(a in t)e beie+ t)at it i be7ain+u +or (e to see it. T)e trut) is t)at / a( in constant 7ain non-conscious5 an5a5+ro( bockin4 seein4 it. End, su77ressin4 t)e (e(or5 takes (uc) (ore ener45 t)anseein4, acknoed4in4 & reeasin4 t)e (e(or5. T)e (ore ener45 / 7ut into resistin4re(e(berin4, t)e (ore / aste (5 i+e +orce. T)at is )5 (ost ana5sis t57e t)era7iestake so on4. / oud need to ear don & trick (5 7ersonait5 to t)e 7oint ere it4i;es u7 t)ereb5 aoin4 t)e (e(ories to co(e into (5 7resent aareness. /t is on5b5 brin4in4 t)e e;ent into ;ie, re-;iein4 t)rou4) tota aareness & t)era7eutica5reso;in4 it t)at / can )ea (5se+. *eein4 & understandin4 are needed in order to(ake t)e necessar5 (ind-bod5-s7irit connection or correation +ro( t)e trance stateinduced b5 t)e e;ent or circu(stance. T)rou4) (5 W)oe-*e+, / 4et t)e in+or(ationi((ediate5. End, t)rou4) t)is re(e(brance / can ao a s)i+t t)rou4) reeasedener45 & into (ore consciousness.

    IIII

    MY WHOLE SELF

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    e aare o+ a nu(ber or nu(bers )ic) (a5 )a;e 7o77ed out./+ a nu(ber 7o77ed out 7ease ao 5our W)oe-*e+

    to take 5ou to t)at (ont) & t)e 7ace ere (ot)er isust be+ore t)at trau(a or circu(stance strikes.

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    acknoed4es )is 7arents +or t)eir 4reat 4i+t to )i(. Bo i babies stuti+ied &battered b5 )ea;5 (eta (usic, )ic) studies s)o are e=tre(e5 disturbin4 to unbornbabies, +ee & react toard t)eir 7arents Es it) Gertrude Te(7e, )en t)ere is abeacon o+ i4)t, so to s7eak, o+ 5our conscious aareness, desire & intention to drato 5ourse;es & eco(e t)e best 7ossibe bab5, 5ou i attract a ;er5 i4)t-+u c)id- a )oe c)id. L!r U13'n"ro++ers us a +uer ran4e!

    0an5 scenarios are 7ossibeM t)e5 ran4e +ro( t)e cou7e )o conscious57re7ares to attract a certain kind o+ sou co(in4 on eart) it) a )i4)er7ur7ose, to t)e cou7e )o ust )a;e se= unaare o+ t)e uni;ersa Lao+ Corres7ondence. True, as a (ot)er / donKt c)oose (5 c)id, but /yener45 e;e & t)e ener45 e;e o+ /y7artner i attract a sou inresonance it) )o e are.

    End re(e(ber, t)at )oe c)id (a5 incude )at t)e ord (i4)t decare a)andica77ed c)id. T)at )oe c)id co(es to o;e 5ou & ser;e 5ou 7er+ect5 to o7en adi(ension o+ o;e in 5ourse+ 5ou coud ne;er )a;e i(a4ined 7ossibe. W)et)erconscious or non-conscious 5ou & 5our 7artnerAs e=7eriences, t)ou4)ts, e(otions,

    reactions, se+-ud4(ents, decisions & actions are (odein4 to 5our c)id (enta &e(otiona 7atterns )ic) t)e c)id i i;e out. En d, t)is, 7s5c)o-s7irituain)eritance or '(otiona DNEPor 'DNEPbeco(es a bue7rint or (atri= b5 )ic) 5ourc)id i ater e=7ress )erse+ or )i(se+ u7on enterin4 & i;in4 in t)e ord.

    *)ire5 Te(7e ackAs stor5 is onder+u to te si(75 because it is true & s)eis )i4)5 ;isibe. ut eac) one o+ us )as an eua5 7ro+ound cos(ic 7rebirt) stor5. T)e7robe( is t)at (ost o+ our 7arents did not kno t)at t)e5 )ere 7roducin4 an5t)in4(ore t)an our 7)5sica bodies. We trust t)at 5ou as ne 7arents are be4innin4 toreco4ni?e a (uc) (ore Boistic ;ie o+ 5our roe in c)idin4M to acknoed4e t)at 5ouare co-creatin4 an a(a?in4 bein4 co(7osed o+ a 7)5sica, (enta, e(otiona &s7iritua di(ensions! a )oe c)id.

    Tro5a & / inde7endent5 de;eo7ed a 7)ioso7)5 o+ i+e )ic) sa5s!I DO NOT COME INTO LIFE TO DO WHAT I NOW I CAN DO%

    I COME INTO LIFE TO DO WHAT I NOW I CANNOT DO%

    IIIII

    THE AUTHORS

    :on RG "+or(er5 :o)n-Ric)ard# & Tro5a Turner are Co-Directors o+ t)e /nstitute +orW)oe-*e+ Disco;er5 & De;eo7(ent, /nc. /nternationa +ounded in *anta Fe, Ne0e=ico & are based at t)e /nstitute in Grootebroek, T)e Net)erands. T)e5 tra;ee=tensi;e5 ecturin4 & 7resentin4 orks)o7s, doin4 broadcastin4 & ournais( in 2%

    countries around t)e ord. :on RG 4raduated +ro( t)e Coe4e o+ t)e Bo5 Cross inWorcester, 0assac)usetts it) a E in Greek'n4is). E+ter a success+u career inco((unications, )e 7ioneered W)oe-*e+

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    Tro5a as a )ead o+ de7art(ent as a

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