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    Creating Effective Goals - Jim Estil

    Give me a stock clerk with a goal and I'll give you a man who will makehistory. Give me a man with no goals and I'll give you a stock clerk. J.C.

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    TABLEOF CONTENTSIts time to replace your clock with a compass so you can head out in the right direction......3

    Why is it important to set goals?.............................................................................................3

    Setting Effective Goals............................................................................................................3

    Setting your Goals...............................................................................................................4

    A 60-Minute Goal Setting Exercise that can save you 100 hours in the next month5

    Here is the same exercise; it has been expanded on to help you get started.........................6

    Your Four Pages......................................................................................................................6

    1. Values...............................................................................................................................6

    2. Lifetime...........................................................................................................................19

    3. Six Months to Live.........................................................................................................20

    4. One Year Goals..............................................................................................................20

    Congratulations on completing these goal sheets!...............................................................20

    Choosing your Top Four or Five Goals............................................................................20

    You can use any of these tools in conjunction with each other.............................................21

    Habits..................................................................................................................................21

    Some Final Notes on Goals...............................................................................................22

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    Do you have effective and clear goals?

    What direction do you want to go in?

    Its time to replace your clock with a compass so you can head out in the right direction.

    Why is it important to set goals?

    Goals are important because you will get what you strive for. By actively thinking aboutwhat you intend to accomplish, you will work on achieving those accomplishments. Any

    area of your life which you focus on will improve, simply because you take the time to

    assess your habits.

    Setting Effective Goals

    When you set goals, you need to take many questions into account: what, when, why,

    and how. What are you going to accomplish? Be sure to be concrete about your answer.

    When are you going to complete the task, or achieve your goal? Why is this important to

    you? How are you going to realize your goal; what is your strategy?

    There is an easy acronym to help you create effective goals:

    S - Specific

    M - Measurable

    A - Attainable

    R - Realistic

    T - Timed

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    You need to create specific goals. The goal I want to become a better swimmer is almost

    impossible to judge because it is not specific enough. A better goal would be I want to earn

    my bronze medallion by next June or I want to swim 10 laps of the pool twice a week.

    The reason that I want to earn my bronze medallion by next June is a more effective goal

    is that it is measurable. There is a clear marker of achievement that you can earn.

    Goals need to be attainable. It is not only unproductive to say I want to lose 40 pounds by

    next week, it is also counter-productive. Unattainable goals are counter-productive

    because when you make a goal that you do not achieve, you experience an emotional let-

    down. It is not wise or healthy to get your heart set on something that is out of reach.

    However, keep in mind that goals should also be a stretch.

    This is not to say that your goals cannot be large: they can! But your goals also need to be

    realistic. If you set a goal that is unrealistic and attempt to work towards it, you will

    exhaust yourself and your resources. Rather than setting one large goal in a short time-

    frame, instead, create smaller goals that will lead you to accomplishing your long-term goal.

    Breaking your goals into smaller chunks helps you create goals that are more specific, often

    more measurable, more attainable, more realistic, while creating a time-line for your larger

    goal. Having mini-goals is one of the keys of successful goal setting.

    The idea of creating smaller goals leads us to the idea that goals need to be timed. Putting

    a timeframe on your goal ensures that it will not drop down to the bottom of your prioritylist. It also makes measuring your goal easier. Saying I will sell $500 before 5 oclock this

    afternoon means that at 5:00 you will stop to check your progress.

    When you create smaller goals in order to achieve your larger goals, be sure that they are

    on a timeline as well. If your large goal is to find a better job at Company X by next

    Christmas, your smaller goals could be on a weekly basis. For your first week, you would

    create a contact at Company X and attempt to establish if there are any openings. Week

    two, you could update your resume and cover-letter. Week three, you would make a follow-

    up phone call. Your smaller goals would function as milestones that are attainable and

    realistic, while still being specific, measurable, and timed.

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    One of my favourite quotes is We tend to overestimate what we can do in a day and

    underestimate what we can do in a year. I see this time and time again. Great things can

    be accomplished over long periods if we keep heading in the right direction.

    Because goals are so important, when you begin to create your workbook, we will focus on

    how best to express your goals in your workbook.

    Setting your Goals

    The best goal setting exercise that I know takes only 40 minutes. Take this time to establish

    your goals now.

    In order to achieve goals that are SMART (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and

    timed), it is important to make sure that your goals are focused on many aspects of your

    life.

    I take into account 11 major areas when I establish my goals:

    1. Career

    2. Earnings

    3. Personal relationships

    4. Family

    5. Health

    6. Spiritual

    7. Personal appearance

    8. Education/learning

    9. Free time/hobby

    10. Vacation

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    11. Improve your home

    Consider having goals in each of these 11 areas. Add new areas if there is something

    important to you that you feel is not covered.

    A 60-Minute Goal Setting Exercise that can save you 100 hours in the next month

    I think that most people would agree that the people who have goals are more successful

    than those who do not have any.

    I often talk about leadership and management. Leadership is about doing the right things

    while management is about doing things right. Often when we study time management, we

    study efficiency (doing things right) and make the assumption that we have theeffectiveness (leadership) solved.

    The first step in any time management system should be to work on goals and as such, I use

    the following 60 Minute Goal Setting Exercise.

    Step 1: at the top of a blank piece of paper write down "values" and then spend 10 to 15

    minutes writing down everything that you value. There is a great website:

    www.stevepavlina.com/ that has a list of several hundred values to start your mind thinking

    in the right direction. After the time is up, stop doing this and move to Step 2.

    Step 2: at the top of a blank piece of paper write down "lifetime goals". This is where youcan dream; for example, what places would you like to visit; what experiences would you

    like to have; what would you like to accomplish within your lifetime. This might include

    traveling to Australia; getting a university degree; living in an X square foot house, etc.

    There are no rules to this brainstorming - simply make a list.

    I have done this goal setting exercise many times and I tend to use the same list of lifetime

    goals and add to the list each time I do the exercise.

    Step 3: at the top of a blank piece of paper write down what you would do if you had six

    months to live. This part of the exercise really came home to me this week when one of my

    close friends died at 36 years old. Some of us may have only six months to live; however,

    we may not know it yet. List everything that you would do if you had only six months to live.

    Part of the purpose of this exercise that I found works well for me is that it brings the truly

    important into focus. Often I find things that I would do if I had only six months to live that

    are not listed on my life time goals.

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    Step 4: at the top of a blank piece of paper write down your goals for this year. After doing

    the first three steps, you will find this step much easier than the others. These are the goals

    to focus on NOW.

    This total exercise will only take an hour. An hour spent clarifying your goals can save you

    hundreds of hours.

    Here is the same exercise; it has been expanded on to help you get started.

    Your Four Pages

    Take four blank pages, and label each one at the top: Values, Lifetime, Six Months to

    Live, and One Year Goals. You will spend ten minutes (and only ten minutes) to fill outeach sheet to describe you and your goals.

    1. Values

    On this page, list your values.

    The following list of values from Steve Pavlina might stimulate your thought:

    1. Abundance

    2. Acceptance

    3. Accessibility

    4. Accomplishment

    5. Accuracy

    6. Achievement

    7. Acknowledgement

    8. Activeness

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    9. Adaptability

    10. Adoration

    11. Adroitness

    12. Adventure

    13. Affection

    14. Affluence

    15. Aggressiveness

    16. Agility

    17. Alertness

    18. Altruism

    19. Ambition

    20. Amusement

    21. Anticipation

    22. Appreciation

    23. Approachability

    24. Articulacy

    25. Assertiveness

    26. Assurance

    27. Attentiveness

    28. Attractiveness

    29. Audacity

    30. Availability

    31. Awareness

    32. Awe

    33. Balance

    34. Beauty

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    35. Being the best

    36. Belonging

    37. Benevolence

    38. Bliss

    39. Boldness

    40. Bravery

    41. Brilliance

    42. Buoyancy

    43. Calmness

    44. Camaraderie

    45. Candor

    46. Capability

    47. Care

    48. Carefulness

    49. Celebrity

    50. Certainty

    51. Challenge

    52. Charity

    53. Charm

    54. Chastity

    55. Cheerfulness

    56. Clarity

    57. Cleanliness

    58. Clear-mindedness

    59. Cleverness

    60. Closeness

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    61. Comfort

    62. Commitment

    63. Compassion

    64. Completion

    65. Composure

    66. Concentration

    67. Confidence

    68. Conformity

    69. Congruency

    70. Connection

    71. Consciousness

    72. Consistency

    73. Contentment

    74. Continuity

    75. Contribution

    76. Control

    77. Conviction

    78. Conviviality

    79. Coolness

    80. Cooperation

    81. Cordiality

    82. Correctness

    83. Courage

    84. Courtesy

    85. Craftiness

    86. Creativity

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    87. Credibility

    88. Cunning

    89. Curiosity

    90. Daring

    91. Decisiveness

    92. Decorum

    93. Deference

    94. Delight

    95. Dependability

    96. Depth

    97. Desire

    98. Determination

    99. Devotion

    100. Devoutness

    101. Dexterity

    102. Dignity

    103. Diligence

    104. Direction

    105. Directness

    106. Discipline

    107. Discovery

    108. Discretion

    109. Diversity

    110. Dominance

    111. Dreaming

    112. Drive

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    113. Duty

    114. Dynamism

    115. Eagerness

    116. Economy

    117. Ecstasy

    118. Education

    119. Effectiveness

    120. Efficiency

    121. Elation

    122. Elegance

    123. Empathy

    124. Encouragement

    125. Endurance

    126. Energy

    127. Enjoyment

    128. Entertainment

    129. Enthusiasm

    130. Excellence

    131. Excitement

    132. Exhilaration

    133. Expectancy

    134. Expediency

    135. Experience

    136. Expertise

    137. Exploration

    138. Expressiveness

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    139. Extravagance

    140. Extroversion

    141. Exuberance

    142. Fairness

    143. Faith

    144. Fame

    145. Family

    146. Fascination

    147. Fashion

    148. Fearlessness

    149. Ferocity

    150. Fidelity

    151. Fierceness

    152. Financial independence

    153. Firmness

    154. Fitness

    155. Flexibility

    156. Flow

    157. Fluency

    158. Focus

    159. Fortitude

    160. Frankness

    161. Freedom

    162. Friendliness

    163. Frugality

    164. Fun

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    165. Gallantry

    166. Generosity

    167. Gentility

    168. Giving

    169. Grace

    170. Gratitude

    171. Gregariousness

    172. Growth

    173. Guidance

    174. Happiness

    175. Harmony

    176. Health

    177. Heart

    178. Helpfulness

    179. Heroism

    180. Holiness

    181. Honesty

    182. Honor

    183. Hopefulness

    184. Hospitality

    185. Humility

    186. Humor

    187. Hygiene

    188. Imagination

    189. Impact

    190. Impartiality

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    191. Independence

    192. Industry

    193. Ingenuity

    194. Inquisitiveness

    195. Insightfulness

    196. Inspiration

    197. Integrity

    198. Intelligence

    199. Intensity

    200. Intimacy

    201. Intrepidness

    202. Introversion

    203. Intuition

    204. Intuitiveness

    205. Inventiveness

    206. Investing

    207. Joy

    208. Judiciousness

    209. Justice

    210. Keenness

    211. Kindness

    212. Knowledge

    213. Leadership

    214. Learning

    215. Liberation

    216. Liberty

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    217. Liveliness

    218. Logic

    219. Longevity

    220. Love

    221. Loyalty

    222. Majesty

    223. Making a difference

    224. Mastery

    225. Maturity

    226. Meekness

    227. Mellowness

    228. Meticulousness

    229. Mindfulness

    230. Modesty

    231. Motivation

    232. Mysteriousness

    233. Neatness

    234. Nerve

    235. Obedience

    236. Open-mindedness

    237. Openness

    238. Optimism

    239. Order

    240. Organization

    241. Originality

    242. Outlandishness

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    243. Outrageousness

    244. Passion

    245. Peace

    246. Perceptiveness

    247. Perfection

    248. Perkiness

    249. Perseverance

    250. Persistence

    251. Persuasiveness

    252. Philanthropy

    253. Piety

    254. Playfulness

    255. Pleasantness

    256. Pleasure

    257. Poise

    258. Polish

    259. Popularity

    260. Potency

    261. Power

    262. Practicality

    263. Pragmatism

    264. Precision

    265. Preparedness

    266. Presence

    267. Privacy

    268. Proactivity

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    269. Professionalism

    270. Prosperity

    271. Prudence

    272. Punctuality

    273. Purity

    274. Realism

    275. Reason

    276. Reasonableness

    277. Recognition

    278. Recreation

    279. Refinement

    280. Reflection

    281. Relaxation

    282. Reliability

    283. Religiousness

    284. Resilience

    285. Resolution

    286. Resolve

    287. Resourcefulness

    288. Respect

    289. Rest

    290. Restraint

    291. Reverence

    292. Richness

    293. Rigor

    294. Sacredness

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    295. Sacrifice

    296. Sagacity

    297. Saintliness

    298. Sanguinity

    299. Satisfaction

    300. Security

    301. Self-control

    302. Selflessness

    303. Self-reliance

    304. Sensitivity

    305. Sensuality

    306. Serenity

    307. Service

    308. Sexuality

    309. Sharing

    310. Shrewdness

    311. Significance

    312. Silence

    313. Silliness

    314. Simplicity

    315. Sincerity

    316. Skillfulness

    317. Solidarity

    318. Solitude

    319. Soundness

    320. Speed

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    321. Spirit

    322. Spirituality

    323. Spontaneity

    324. Spunk

    325. Stability

    326. Stealth

    327. Stillness

    328. Strength

    329. Structure

    330. Success

    331. Support

    332. Supremacy

    333. Surprise

    334. Sympathy

    335. Synergy

    336. Teamwork

    337. Temperance

    338. Thankfulness

    339. Thoroughness

    340. Thoughtfulness

    341. Thrift

    342. Tidiness

    343. Timeliness

    344. Traditionalism

    345. Tranquility

    346. Transcendence

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    347. Trust

    348. Trustworthiness

    349. Truth

    350. Understanding

    351. Unflappability

    352. Uniqueness

    353. Unity

    354. Usefulness

    355. Utility

    356. Valor

    357. Variety

    358. Victory

    359. Vigor

    360. Virtue

    361. Vision

    362. Vitality

    363. Vivacity

    364. Warmth

    365. Watchfulness

    366. Wealth

    367. Willfulness

    368. Willingness

    369. Winning

    370. Wisdom

    371. Wittiness

    372. Wonder

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    373. Youthfulness

    374. Zeal

    You dont have to choose values from this list; you can make up your own. This list is just to

    get you thinking.

    2. Lifetime

    On your second page, list what you want to accomplish, experience, or become in the

    course of your lifetime.

    This list is one that you can add to at any time. I have moved my lifetime goal list to my

    workbook. Whenever I see something that looks really cool, I can add that to my list. In my

    workbook, my lifetime goal list keeps on growing and growing until I have pages filled with

    things that I would like to accomplish, experience, or be.

    3. Six Months to Live

    On your third page you write down all the things that you would want to do if you had six

    months to live.

    The benefit of this page is that it helps you refocus. I find that when I write this list, it is

    often very different from the lifetime goal list, and it gives me a new perspective on my

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    goals. If I had only six months to live, maybe I would spend more time with my family.

    Maybe I would want to travel, and swim with the dolphins in New Zealand. These goals are

    often different than lifetime goals and are also important to keep in mind while planning

    your life.

    4. One Year Goals

    For this final page, you can look at your other pages to create a list of goals that you would

    like to accomplish this year. Be sure to take some goals from your list of lifetime goals, and

    plan to achieve them in the next year. Remember that these are goals, and so must be

    SMART: specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and timed. Define your goals carefully.

    If you have not already done so, take ten minutes to complete each goal sheet:

    Values, Lifetime, Six Months to Live, and One Year Goals.

    Congratulations on completing these goal sheets!

    You have taken the first step to a more productive lifestyle in which you will be able to

    accomplish your goals.

    Choosing your Top Four or Five Goals

    Once you have completed these four sheets, you assess what you have written and you

    choose your top goals for to work on for that month. For my top goals, I only choose goals

    on which I am willing to work an hour a week. If you are not willing to spend one hour a

    week on each of your top goals, then clearly these goals are not that important to you at

    this time.

    Now that you have selected your top goals, you have a couple of options on how you want

    to proceed that are outlined below.

    When I complete these four sheets, I then take a business card and I write down my top

    goals. I dont write the entire goal out; I just write a brief note that reminds me what my

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    goal is. For instance, if my goal is to have tomatoes grow in my garden this summer, I might

    just write Garden. Then, every day for the month, I look at my business card once in the

    morning. I put a copy of the business card on my To Do list so that I see it many times

    during the day.

    Another approach to your top four goals is to write them out a certain number of times

    every day. You can also say them aloud every day. Some people record their goals on

    tape and listen to them every day while doing other activities, such as exercising, driving,

    or falling asleep in bed at night.

    You can tell other people what your goals are to get support. It is best to tell other people

    your stop goals, because people will definitely want to tell you to stop detrimental habits.

    Dont tell people your get goals because you might be ridiculed, or they might be envious

    of your high aspirations. Using other people to help achieve your goals is a valuable tool,but it depends on the people around you and how supportive their attitudes are.

    Another useful tool is visualization. Imagine how things will be when you accomplish the

    goal. The more vivid your imagination, the more effective your visualization will be. How

    will people treat you? What will it feel like? Where will you be? What time of day is it?

    You can use any of these tools in conjunction with each other.

    Habits

    Frequently, my goals are something that I want to become a habit. Once I have achieved

    my goal and created a new habit, I can take it off my top goals list. For example, I like to

    eat right. If I have slipped into poor eating habits lately, then eating a balanced diet could

    be on my top goals. When healthy eating is once more a positive habit in my life, then I can

    take it off my list.

    Speaking of habits, I want to reiterate that this really is the key to success. We are the

    result of what we repeatedly do. So I spend a lot of time figuring out what my habits should

    be. I call them success habits. For me, this is as important as goal setting.

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    I redo my top goals (that I keep on business cards in strategic locations) every month or

    every six weeks. Be sure to keep your top four goals up to date: but dont change them until

    you have accomplished your goal or formed your new habit.

    Some Final Notes on Goals

    Make sure that every action in your life supports your goals. Use your workbook to track

    your progress on your goals.

    Some goals that I have are too big or too daunting. For these, I break them down into

    smaller parts. One big goal becomes a series of smaller subgoals. A side benefit of this is

    often the subgoals can be done simultaneously or the subgoals are different enough that I

    can spend more combined time on them than I would one any one single goal (This is a time

    trick variety helps sometimes).

    I also like to break big goals down into smaller time blocks since I can often do something in

    a short time. If I have 5 minutes, it is better to be working on a subgoal for a top priority

    project than unimportant busywork that is not moving me towards my larger goal.

    Start writing here.

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