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CONT

ENTS

EDIT

OR’S

NOTE

ARE W

E ASH

AMED

OF O

UR H

AIR?

CREA

TIVE

INDU

STRI

ES S

EMIN

AR(+

intr

oduc

tion

to Ca

n Yo

ung

Men

Lead

?)

CAN

WE F

INE L

OVE I

NNA

DANC

E?(fi

nal e

piso

de)

COMM

UNICA

TION

(Are

You

Effe

ctiv

e?)

RELA

TION

SHIP

S W

ho n

eeds

them

?

RED

SNAP

PER

MARA

VAL

(a re

cipe

)

LETT

ERS

TO T

HE E

DITO

R,

“DID

YOU

KNO

W...?

THE B

IBLE

IS

IT R

ELEV

ANT

TODA

Y?

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NICA

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(vs B

road

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nted

by

prin

ting

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on B

edfo

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ire

Dea

r E

dito

r,T

here

is n

o de

nyin

g th

e H

olly

woo

d-T

roja

n-H

orse

eff

ects

on

per-

sons

who

lov

e to

fee

d on

the

con

tent

s flo

win

g th

roug

h th

epi

pelin

es o

fth

e m

edia

.The

re is

als

o no

den

ying

the

des

truc

tive

beha

viou

r,th

ough

t pa

tter

ns a

nd li

fest

yles

whi

ch e

xist

ed b

efor

em

edia

influ

ence

bec

ame

sign

ifica

nt.

In a

ddit

ion,

ther

e is

no

deny

ing

the

valid

ity

ofth

e do

ctri

ne o

fpe

rson

al r

espo

nsib

ility

and

viol

ater

s of

law

s an

d no

rms

cann

ot fo

reve

r bl

ame

tele

visi

onor

ne

wsp

aper

s or

m

ovie

s fo

r th

eir

dest

ruct

ive

beha

viou

rs.

Child

ren

may

be

excu

sed

for

bein

g su

bjec

ted

to t

he in

fluen

ce o

fSe

sam

e St

reet

but

adu

lts

have

no

scap

egoa

ts.T

hey

are

100

per-

cent

res

pons

ible

for

thei

r ac

tion

s an

d sh

ould

be.

Any

one

per

son

ther

efor

e,w

ho d

esir

es t

o im

prov

e th

e liv

es o

fco

mm

unit

ies

whi

ch a

re b

eing

kep

t be

hind

,do

es t

heir

vis

ion

adi

s-se

rvic

e by

poi

ntin

g fin

gers

at

Hol

lyw

ood

and

the

BB

C so

le-

ly a

nd n

ot t

ellin

g ea

ch p

erso

n th

at t

heir

par

ents

and

the

ir o

wn

effo

rts

are

larg

ely

resp

onsi

ble

for

thei

r pr

ogre

ss,

or l

ack

of,

inlif

e.O

nly

wea

k-m

inde

d ig

nora

nt p

erso

ns w

ho a

re i

n lo

ve w

ith

thei

r sl

ave

min

dset

s ar

e co

ntro

lled

by t

he m

edia

.Onc

e th

e ig

no-

rant

bec

omes

kno

wle

dgea

ble

ofth

e po

wer

and

rol

e of

the

med

ia,t

hey

have

all

the

pow

er t

hey

need

to

brea

k th

eir

addi

c-ti

on.T

hose

tha

t lo

ve t

heir

add

icti

on t

houg

h,w

ill n

ever

bre

ak it

.Jo

hn A

ntho

ny,T

roja

n H

orse

,USA

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oo tthh

ee EEddii

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Hello

,

I read

abou

t you

r inn

ovati

ve m

agazine

on

the Ja

maica

ns.co

m we

bsite

.I a

m a

Jamaic

anliving

in Flor

ida and

iden

tify with

your b

urde

n for

the bla

cks t

o be

represe

nted

in a po

s-itiv

e lig

ht.I h

ave

written

a p

oem

to giv

e express

ion to

that

burden

and

am

wond

ering

if you

prese

ntly

accept

artic

les to

plac

e in

your m

agazine

.Th

e po

em is

enti

tled

"Blac

kMa

n Arise

" an

d can

be view

ed fo

r you

r con

sidera

tion

on th

e Jam

aican

s.com

web

site un

der

its p

oem

page.

The

poem

is b

asically a

n ap

peal

for b

lack

men

to ari

se int

o the

ir tru

eide

ntity.

I wrote

it be

cause

I observ

ed th

e bla

ck m

en in

our n

eighb

ourhoo

d an

d some

-ho

w fel

t a

lamen

t in

my sho

uld fo

r the

ir de

stinie

s.Ev

en tho

ugh

you

are in

the

U.K.

Ibe

lieve it

's a un

iversa

l proble

m.I d

o ha

ve a so

n wh

o's 1

4 years

old

and I t

ry to

encour-

age

him n

ot to

be o

ne w

ho fu

lfills

the n

egati

ve ster

eotyp

e of

the b

lack

boy/ma

n in

awh

ite cult

ure.

BBLL

AACC

KK MM

AANN

…… AA

RRIISS

EE!!!!

O blac

k man

… my

broth

er Ar

ise!!!

You a

re no

t who

men

say y

ou ar

eYo

u are

who Y

our C

reator

says

you a

reOn

e fea

rfully

and w

onde

rfully

mad

e No

my b

rothe

r do n

ot be

bent

over

any l

onge

r by t

he op

press

ive li

esGe

t up!

Stand

Up! L

ift yo

ur he

ad; s

tand p

roud

! Stan

d tall

!In

the re

galit

y and

maje

sty of

your

race

, tha

t’s yo

ur in

herit

ance

You a

re of

roya

l line

age;

wear

your

blac

kness

with

hono

r and

pride

Like a

garla

nd gr

acing

your

neck

Rep

lacing

your

chain

s of b

onda

ge.

O blac

k man

my b

rothe

r, wh

y won

’t yo

u aris

e Into

your

true

iden

tity?

Aren

’t yo

u the

warr

ior w

ho kn

ows h

ow to

overc

ome?

Adve

rsity

is no

t a w

hip th

at br

eaks

you

But t

he st

eppin

g ston

e into

your

grea

tness.

You a

re no

t mad

e to C

arry t

he lo

ad of

slave

ry im

posed

upon

you

Cast

it off

and a

rise!

My br

other,

do no

t lim

it yo

ursel

f. No

, do n

ot be

confi

ned…

Do

not p

erfor

m to

men’s

expe

ctatio

n of y

our f

ailur

e.Ris

e up a

nd sh

ow th

em w

ho yo

u rea

lly ar

e -

O blac

k man

… my

broth

er O g

loriou

s one

You m

ust f

ully a

rise

From

slave

ry to

freed

om -

But i

t mus

t beg

in in

your

mind

O Blac

k man

… my

broth

er Do

n’t yo

u kno

wCre

ation

await

s you

r aris

ing? Y

ou m

ust n

ow AR

ISE!! by

Kar

en M

cFar

lane

,Flo

rida

Page 3: December small DND

Myr

na L

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r &

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dito

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ACK

BR

IGH

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w.b

lack

brig

htne

ws.

com

£3.5

0 ea

ch in

cl.p

.p.

(or

£10

subs

crip

tion

incl

.p.p

)

“Why

do

you

look

at

the

spec

k of

saw

dust

in y

our

brot

her’s

eye

and

pay

no a

tten

tion

to t

he p

lank

in y

our

own

eye?

” I

took

tha

tpa

ssag

e to

mea

n:W

hy fi

nd fa

ult

in t

he b

ehav

iour

of o

ther

s,w

hen

in m

y im

med

iate

fam

ily t

here

cou

ld b

e is

sues

tha

t ne

eded

res

olv-

ing?

I f

ound

tha

t ve

rse

in M

atth

ew in

the

New

Tes

tam

ent

of t

heK

ing

Jam

es V

ersi

on o

f th

e Bi

ble.

My

daug

hter

s d

o w

hat

wom

enth

eir

age

do –

the

y w

ork,

look

afte

r th

eir

kid(

s),

shop

,w

atch

TV

/DV

Ds,

go o

ut a

nd o

ccas

iona

lly t

ake

an a

nnua

l va

catio

n,bu

tth

ere

was

som

ethi

ng a

bout

thi

s re

petit

ive

and

rout

ine

exis

tenc

eth

at b

othe

red

me!

H

ow c

ould

I te

ll m

y ad

ult c

hild

ren

to g

et a

way

from

the

TV

scr

een,

find

out

wha

t th

eir

inna

te t

alen

ts w

ere

and

expl

oit t

hem

,whe

n th

ey w

ere

no lo

nger

und

er m

y ju

risd

ictio

n an

das

far

as

they

wer

e co

ncer

ned,

they

had

eno

ugh

on t

heir

pla

tes

alre

ady?

Bes

ides

,If

thei

r re

spec

tive

part

ners

did

n’t

min

d th

emre

war

ding

the

mse

lves

(af

ter

a lo

ng d

ay)

with

vid

eos

and

DV

Ds

nigh

t af

ter

nigh

t,w

ho w

as I

to s

ay t

hat

they

wer

e ca

pabl

e of

muc

hm

ore?

Bu

t I k

new

the

y w

ere!

I w

onde

red

wha

t it

wou

ld t

ake

tom

otiv

ate

them

to

disc

over

the

mse

lves

,and

tho

ught

of a

mag

azin

e.D

ionn

e,on

e of

my

daug

hter

s,ha

d de

cide

d to

tre

at m

e fo

r di

nner

to c

eleb

rate

her

tee

nage

dau

ghte

r’s g

ood

grad

es a

t sc

hool

and

Ius

ed t

his

oppo

rtun

ity t

o ta

lk a

bout

my

idea

to

star

t a

mag

azin

eth

at w

ould

mot

ivat

e pe

ople

,bel

ievi

ng t

hat

just

the

ide

a w

ould

mot

ivat

e he

r.I a

sked

her

if s

he w

ould

pro

of-r

ead

wha

t I h

ad w

rit-

ten

so fa

r,bu

t sh

e to

ld m

e sh

e di

dn’t

like

read

ing.

I tol

d he

r th

at I

had

seen

her

with

mag

azin

es,b

ut s

he s

aid

she

boug

ht th

em fo

r th

epi

ctur

es.

My

daug

hter

was

like

man

y yo

ung

peop

le t

oday

– v

isua

lle

arne

rs.

She

lear

ns f

rom

im

ages

,hen

ce t

he a

ddic

tion

to T

V &

DV

Ds.

Afte

r so

me

prob

ing,

she

adm

itted

to r

eadi

ng s

ome

of th

ear

ticle

s,bu

t th

ey h

ad t

o be

‘int

eres

ting’

.I t

ook

this

to

mea

n,th

atsh

e ha

d to

be

able

to b

enef

it fr

om w

hat s

he w

as r

eadi

ng.

Any

way

,to

cut

a lo

ng s

tory

sho

rt,a

fter

telli

ng m

e sh

e di

dn’t

like

read

ing,

only

like

d th

e pi

ctur

es,c

ould

n’t

wri

te a

nd o

bvio

usly

did

n’t

wan

t to

help

me

with

the

mag

azin

e,w

e ch

ange

d th

e su

bjec

t an

d st

arte

dta

lkin

g ab

out r

elat

ions

hips

and

how

diff

icul

t it w

as to

mai

ntai

n on

e.“H

ey,m

aybe

we

coul

d w

rite

som

ethi

ng a

bout

rel

atio

nshi

ps in

the

mag

azin

e” D

ionn

e ch

irpe

d up

.“W

e?”

I won

dere

d pe

rple

xed.

“Yeh

,an

d m

aybe

you

cou

ld u

se m

y ph

otog

raph

for

the

mag

azin

e” s

heco

ntin

ued.

“Hm

mm

m!”

It

look

ed l

ike

Dio

nne

was

mot

ivat

ed b

yth

e th

ough

t of

rec

ogni

tion

and

invo

lvem

ent

in s

omet

hing

of p

er-

sona

l int

eres

t.I a

gree

d th

at a

rel

atio

nshi

p ar

ticle

wou

ld b

e a

good

star

t,af

ter

all,

ever

yone

was

in s

ome

kind

of r

elat

ions

hip

or o

ther

whe

ther

it

be p

rofe

ssio

nal,

soci

al o

r fa

mily

-ori

ente

d.“Y

eh,a

ndm

aybe

we

coul

d ha

ve a

foru

m a

bout

rel

atio

nshi

ps –

I am

sur

e lo

tsof

peo

ple

wou

ld b

e in

tere

sted

!” s

he c

ontin

ued

enth

usia

stic

ally,

not

wai

ting

for

a re

spon

se.

Was

thi

s th

e sa

me

Dio

nne

who

was

n’t

inte

rest

ed f

ive

min

utes

ago

? I

not

iced

my

daug

hter

’s ey

es w

iden

with

exc

item

ent.

“I d

on’t

min

d w

ritin

g ab

out

rela

tions

hips

” sh

esa

id.

“But

you

just

sai

d yo

u co

uldn

’t w

rite

”,I t

ease

d.Sh

e to

ld m

esh

e w

ould

gi

ve it

a t

ry a

nd s

he d

id.

The

nex

t da

y,an

alm

ost

per-

fect

art

icle

was

tra

nsm

itted

to

me

by e

mai

l and

I fe

lt so

pro

ud o

fhe

r,be

caus

e sh

e ha

d th

e ta

lent

I ha

d su

spec

ted.

So n

ow D

ionn

ew

rite

s fo

r Bl

ackb

righ

t New

s un

der

the

pseu

dony

m:‘

Blac

k C

itize

n’.

Now

,I c

ould

pro

gres

s.T

he ‘p

lank

’ fro

m m

y ey

e ha

d be

en r

emov

ed,

I cou

ld n

ow w

ork

on t

he ‘s

awdu

st’ i

n m

y ‘b

roth

er’s

eye’

,and

tha

t,in

ess

ence

,is

how

Bla

ckbr

ight

tra

nsfo

rmed

fro

m b

eing

an

idea

Iw

oke

up w

ith o

n N

ew y

ears

Eve

200

6,to

the

Aw

ard-

Win

ning

ent

i-ty

it is

tod

a.y.

The

res

t is

his

tory

!

The

Edi

tor

Man

y pe

ople

thi

nk t

hey

know

wha

t bl

ack

peop

le a

re l

ike

and

Blac

kbri

ght

New

s ai

ms

to h

elp

corr

ect

any

mis

conc

eptio

ns t

hey

mig

ht h

ave.

Blac

kbri

ght

New

s w

ill e

nlig

hten

and

em

pow

er i

tsre

ader

s.Bl

ackb

righ

t N

ews

is o

peni

ng th

e ga

tew

ay fo

r yo

ung

Blac

k&

Min

ority

Eth

nics

(BM

Es) s

o th

at th

ey a

re a

war

e of

situ

atio

ns th

atca

n ad

vers

ely

affe

ct t

hem

,and

hav

e ac

cess

to

info

rmat

ion

that

can

bene

fit t

hem

.T

his

trai

ning

too

l is

not

just

for

bla

ck p

eopl

e it

isab

out

them

- a

nd a

way

to

lear

n ab

out

an a

ltern

ativ

e cu

lture

!

Look

wh

o h

elped

wit

h t

he

Dec

ember

iss

ue!

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vers

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the

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repa

ra-

tions

for

the

Bic

ente

nnar

y,is

con

side

ring

iss

uing

"a

stat

emen

t of

reg

ret"

on

25 M

arch

200

7,th

e da

te t

hat

the

Slav

e Tr

ade

Act

was

pas

sed

by P

arlia

men

t,w

rote

Phill

ip Jo

hnst

one,

Hom

e A

ffair

s O

ffice

r.- A

lthou

gh s

uch

a de

clar

atio

n is

sai

d in

Whi

teha

ll to

fall

shor

t of

the

for

mal

apo

logy

dem

ande

d by

som

e ca

m-

paig

ners

,it

wou

ld n

ever

thel

ess

be s

een

as o

ne”.

Sho

uld

the

UK

Gov

ernm

ent a

polo

gise

for B

ritai

n's

role

in th

esl

ave

trade

? T

hat i

s th

e qu

estio

n th

at h

as b

een

aske

d an

dis

w

hat

has

prec

ipita

ted

the

Bic

ente

nnia

l C

eleb

ratio

nssc

hedu

led

for M

arch

200

7, to

mar

k 20

0 ye

ars

sinc

e th

e ab

o-lit

ion

of s

lave

ry.

Ther

e ar

e so

me

grou

ps w

ho f

eel s

trong

ly t

hat

the

gove

rn-

men

ts o

f th

ose

coun

tries

tha

t w

ere

invo

lved

in t

he A

frica

nsl

ave

trade

sho

uld

not o

nly

apol

ogis

e bu

t pay

com

pens

atio

n,w

hile

ther

e ar

e ot

hers

who

, alth

ough

acc

ept t

hat s

lave

ry w

asba

rbar

ic, s

ee li

ttle

or n

o po

int i

n th

e U

K g

over

nmen

t apo

lo-

gisi

ng fo

r act

ions

whi

ch o

ccur

red

over

200

yea

rs a

go!

Mos

t of

us

know

tha

t ab

out

ove

r a

mill

ion

Wes

t A

frica

nsl

aves

wer

e tra

nspo

rted

from

the

UK

to

Am

eric

a an

d th

eC

arib

bean

, an

d th

e pe

rpet

rato

rs t

hriv

ed f

rom

pro

fits

and

som

e in

stitu

tions

th

at b

enef

ited

from

the

sla

ve t

rade

hav

eal

read

y ap

olog

ised

for t

heir

pred

eces

sor’s

invo

lvem

ent

With

rega

rd to

the

antic

pate

d “s

tate

men

t of r

egre

t” fro

m J

ohn

Pre

scot

t, w

e ne

ed to

real

ise

that

the

apol

ogy

will

be

sym

bol-

ic o

nly.

We

cann

ot tu

rn b

ack

the

hand

s of

tim

e bu

t an

apol

-og

y w

ill s

tart

the

heal

ing

proc

ess.

Ack

now

ledg

ing

a m

isde

-m

eano

ur is

the

star

t of a

hea

ling

proc

ess.

The

gov

ernm

ent

are

boun

d to

hav

e re

serv

atio

ns a

bout

ack

now

ledg

ing

thei

rin

volv

emen

t be

caus

e as

far a

s th

ey a

re c

once

rned

, it c

ould

have

far-

reac

hing

fina

ncia

l im

plic

atio

ns.

How

ever

, the

apo

l-og

y w

ould

cre

ate

awar

enes

s in

the

wid

er c

omm

unity

, and

will

sim

ulta

neou

sly

empo

wer

our

you

ng.

A

hear

t fel

t apo

logy

will

ope

n th

e do

or fo

r hea

ling"

. Th

e ap

ol-

ogy

is a

bout

rest

orat

ion

and

forg

iven

ess.

All

blac

ks a

re re

m-

nant

s of

the

slav

e tra

de s

yste

m, a

nd a

s a

resu

lt, m

any

of u

sha

ve a

pro

blem

with

our

ide

ntity

. M

any

of u

s ar

e bo

rn i

n

DD II DD YY OO UU KK NN OO WW

Brit

ain

and

yet B

ritai

n re

sist

s cl

aim

ing

us a

s th

eir o

wn.

The

isla

nds

and

coun

tries

of

our

pare

nts

cann

ot c

laim

us

- s

ow

here

is o

ur h

ome?

The

sla

ve tr

ade

has

take

n ou

r birt

hrig

htan

d p

lace

d m

any

of u

s in

a ‘s

trang

e la

nd’le

avin

g m

any

of u

sto

gra

pple

with

our

sen

se o

f sel

f.

The

follo

win

g po

em e

pit-

omiz

es th

is:

SSPPAACC

EE &&

IIDDEENN

TTIITTYY

My spa

ce.

My id

entity

Creati

ng spa

ce fo

r my

iden

tity..

But wh

at is

my id

entity

withi

n thi

s space?

My p

arents

are

Jamaic

an,

They m

igrate

d to

Great Brita

in,An

d ad

opted

a cult

ure

Whic

h wa

s no

t the

ir ow

n.Th

en I

was bo

rn in

Britain

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had

a Britis

h ed

ucati

on,

but the

n ma

rried

a Ja

maica

nan

d me

rged

two

cultu

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to on

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earned

the

Jama

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custo

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ook

Rice

'n' p

eas an

d chick

en,

A Britis

h-bo

rn Ja

maica

nTh

at is

what

I am!

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Jamaic

a the

y call

me 'f

oreig

n'An

d an

immi

grant

in Brita

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ray tell m

e some

thing

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re do

I be

long?

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ackno

wled

ging

an a

ncest

ryWhic

h rea

lly d

oesn't

belon

g to

me,

Because

Brita

in is

where

I wa

s bo

rnAn

d the

refore

shou

ld be

my

home

.

It is

hop

ed th

at a

n ap

olog

y w

ill in

spire

man

y of

us

to li

ft ou

r-se

lves

up.

W

e ne

ed to

acc

ept t

he p

ast;

it's

over

and

don

ew

ith a

nd w

e ca

n't c

hang

e it,

but

we

can

chan

ge th

e fu

ture

,an

d th

at is

wha

t we

are

abou

t to

do!

Rob

ert L

ee o

f DA

-iPsa

ys:

“Tho

ugh

this

is

a un

ique

opp

ortu

nity

in

look

ing

back

and

reas

sess

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whe

re w

e ha

ve c

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vers

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ista

nan

d th

e 20

th A

nniv

ersa

ry o

f Bla

ck H

isto

ry M

onth

in th

e U

K.

We

wel

com

e an

y co

mm

ents

from

our

read

ers,

rega

rdin

g th

e ap

olo-

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r sla

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del:

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p by

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Artic

le b

y Bl

ack

Citize

n

The

myt

h is

bla

ck w

omen

wea

r w

eave

s,w

igs

or e

xten

-si

ons

beca

use

they

are

unh

appy

or

asha

med

of

thei

rha

ir;b

ecau

se t

heir

hai

r is

rea

lly s

hort

and

‘nap

py’

orbe

caus

e bl

ack

wom

en a

re t

ryin

g to

be

Euro

pean

- b

utw

hat

is t

he r

eal d

eal?

The

rea

l dea

l is

that

som

e bl

ack

wom

en’s

natu

ral h

air

is s

o th

ick

som

etim

es,t

hat g

ettin

ga

com

b th

roug

h it

is v

irtu

ally

im

poss

ible

! C

onve

rsel

y,so

me

blac

k w

omen

’s ha

ir is

so

thin

,you

can

see

the

irsc

alp.

Oth

ers

hair

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o lo

ng it

get

s in

the

way

and

som

eso

sho

rt t

hey

cann

ot d

o an

ythi

ng w

ith it

.Too

cur

ly,to

ost

raig

ht,t

oo lo

ng,t

oo s

hort

,too

thi

ck,t

oo t

hin

and

the

list

goes

on.

I kn

ow it

may

see

m u

ngra

tefu

l,or

eve

n a

tad

fuss

y bu

t le

t’s b

e ho

nest

her

e,it

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wom

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per-

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ive

to c

hang

e he

r m

ind,

so w

hy n

ot c

hang

e he

r ha

irto

sui

t her

war

drob

e? P

ut jo

king

asi

de,t

here

are

man

y-ch

alle

nges

in th

e m

aint

enan

ce o

f bla

ck h

air,

and

to m

en-

tion

a fe

w:T

he R

elax

eris

a c

hem

ical

that

can

thin

and

stra

ight

en t

he h

air,

how

ever

it

does

not

alw

ays

agre

ew

ith e

very

one

and

can

som

etim

es b

urn

the

scal

p.C

urly

per

m(m

akin

g a

com

ebac

k) is

a c

hem

ical

tha

tcu

rls

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hair,

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n it

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ne a

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emed

y de

pend

-in

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hai

r ty

pe.

Thi

ckha

ir t

akes

long

er t

o do

and

can

be v

ery

time-

cons

umin

g.Ju

st a

cou

-pl

e of

the

way

s yo

u ca

nm

anag

e na

tura

l hai

r,bu

tw

ho h

as a

ll th

at ti

me

tosp

end

on

thei

r ha

irth

ese

days

? Fu

rthe

rmor

e m

ost

wom

en c

an’t

affo

rd t

o ha

ve t

heir

hai

r do

ne r

egul

arly.

So t

here

is a

qui

ck fi

x -

a w

eave

,ext

ensi

ons

or a

wig

.In

stan

tly,t

hey

mak

es y

ou lo

ok g

ood

and

feel

goo

d w

hen

done

pro

perl

y.It

is lo

w m

aint

enan

ce,c

an g

o in

pra

cti-

cally

any

hai

r st

yle,

colo

ur a

nd w

hils

t in,

can

prot

ect a

ndm

ake

your

nat

ural

hai

r gr

ow.N

ow y

ou t

ell m

e w

hich

optio

n,as

a

mill

enni

um w

oman

wou

ld y

ou c

hoos

e?I

don’

t th

ink

som

e pe

ople

rea

lise

the

effo

rt t

hat

goes

into

mai

ntai

ning

nat

ural

hai

r an

d w

hile

the

re a

re s

ome

wom

en

wea

ring

w

eave

s,w

igs

orex

tens

ions

bec

ause

the

y do

n’t

like

thei

r na

tura

l ha

ir t

here

are

a l

ot o

fw

omen

wea

ring

it fo

r s

heer

con

ven-

ienc

e.T

his ‘

add-

on’ h

air

is p

ract

ical

lyge

t- u

p an

d go

,and

you

can

exp

eri-

men

t if

you

have

lon

g ha

ir a

nd y

oufa

ncy

a s

hort

hai

rsty

le.W

hy w

ould

ape

rson

opt

to

cut

all

thei

r ha

ir o

ffw

hen

ther

e is

an

alte

rnat

ive

mea

s-ur

e? Y

ou f

ancy

bei

ng a

bru

nett

e or

even

a b

lond

e -

how

long

doe

s th

at d

ye t

ake

to g

row

out

befo

re y

ou c

an e

ven

thin

k of

usi

ng a

noth

er c

olou

r?N

ot t

o m

entio

n th

e da

mag

e it

can

do t

o yo

ur h

air.

Wha

t ab

out

whe

n yo

u go

out

? Sp

endi

ng h

ours

cur

ling,

stra

ight

enin

g an

d st

ylin

g yo

ur h

air,

putt

ing

all t

hat

hair

spra

y to

mak

e it

keep

,the

win

d bl

ows

the

wro

ng w

ay,,

it de

cide

s to

rai

n un

-exp

ecta

ntly,

or a

hot

day

and

you

swea

t,w

hat h

appe

ns to

the

hair

then

? hai

rsty

le is

mas

h-up

all

that

tim

e w

aste

d!!

So y

ou s

ee i

t a

fact

som

ew

omen

are

unh

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with

thei

r ha

ir a

lso

som

e w

omen

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ir is

too

sho

rt a

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ome

may

eve

n be

bal

d in

pla

ces.

but

it is

fic

tion

that

all

wom

en w

ho w

ear

wea

ves

are

unha

ppy

or a

sham

ed o

f the

ir h

air

- fo

r th

e m

ost

part

itis

she

er c

onve

nien

ce!!

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hav

e to

be

true

to

your

self.

As

an a

ctre

ss y

ou d

on’t

have

to

do w

hat

you

have

bee

nto

ld,a

s yo

u ca

n’t

com

prom

ise

wha

t yo

u fe

el.

… O

ften

Dire

ctor

sm

ay t

ell y

ou t

o ac

t ou

t a

scri

pt,I

hav

e be

en t

old

to d

o so

met

hing

that

I do

n’t

wan

t to

and

I ex

pres

s m

ysel

f in

a ge

ntle

way

,exp

lain

-in

g w

hy I

don

’t w

ant

to d

o it.

Whe

n a

blac

k pe

rson

exp

ress

esth

emse

lves

,thi

s ca

n be

mis

unde

rsto

od b

y so

me

peop

le.B

ut y

oum

ust m

aint

ain

your

self

and

not t

ake

on a

fake

per

sona

lity.

You

may

be a

n ou

tsid

er f

or a

whi

le b

ecau

se y

ou a

re d

iffer

ent,

and

have

expr

esse

d a

view

tha

t pe

ople

may

not

agr

ee w

ith b

ut y

ou c

an p

ull

peop

le in

,use

the

lang

uage

of

the

syst

em,a

nd le

t th

em s

ee y

our

beau

ty.I

f you

sta

nd y

our

grou

nd,a

fter

awhi

le,o

nce

peop

le g

et t

okn

ow y

ou,t

hey

war

m t

o yo

u,an

d be

com

e le

ss a

frai

d.”

She

says

“th

e ad

vice

I w

ould

giv

e to

any

one

who

is in

tere

sted

inth

e ar

ts is

tha

t do

n’t

do it

bec

ause

you

wan

t to

be

fam

ous.

If yo

uar

e do

ing

som

ethi

ng b

ecau

se y

ou w

ant

to b

e fa

mou

s an

d yo

uha

ven’

t got

the

stam

ina,

don’

t eve

n go

ther

e.Yo

u ha

ve to

be

able

tota

ke k

ick-

back

s.”

Als

o an

othe

r us

eful

tip

for

all c

aree

r as

pect

s is

net

wor

king

.“Ke

epyo

ur s

oul,

don’

t us

e pe

ople

mak

e re

al f

rien

dshi

ps.K

eep

knoc

king

Writ

ten

by B

ianc

a Ed

ward

s

Page 7: December small DND

on t

he d

oors

;tak

e ev

ery

oppo

rtun

ity a

s it

com

es.C

once

ntra

te o

nm

akin

g yo

urse

lf st

rong

so

that

whe

n pe

ople

clo

se t

he d

oors

on

you,

dem

con

scio

us b

urn.

The

Cho

ong

fam

ily s

hare

d th

eir

tale

nt,a

nd p

erfo

rmed

aca

ppel

la

(whi

ch m

eans

sin

ging

with

out

inst

rum

ents

).T

hey

are

know

n as

ahi

p-ho

p gr

oup,

but

they

als

o sp

it an

d si

ng.G

eoff

Schu

man

n in

ter-

view

ed t

he u

p an

d co

min

g ta

lent

ed C

hoon

g Fa

mily

and

enc

our-

aged

the

m t

o ex

plai

n th

e ne

gativ

ity e

xpre

ssed

in t

heir

mus

ic li

kedr

ugs

and

crac

k.

Geo

ff Sc

hum

ann

said

:“A

s yo

ung

blac

k gu

ys,if

you

talk

abo

ut c

rack

,dr

ugs

with

out g

ivin

g an

und

erst

andi

ng,y

ou’re

no

diffe

rent

from

the

man

tha

t so

ld u

s in

to s

lave

ry.D

on’t

just

sin

g ab

out

it,cr

eate

aro

unde

d un

ders

tand

ing

abou

t w

hy i

t is

hap

peni

ng a

nd h

ow i

t is

affe

ctin

g bl

ack

peop

le.

As

blac

k m

en it

is y

our

resp

onsi

bilit

y to

educ

ate

the

blac

k yo

uths

.”

Whe

n as

ked

by G

eoff

whe

ther

the

re w

as a

ny f

utur

e fo

r th

eC

hoon

g Fa

mily

.The

y sa

id,“

We’

re g

oing

to

keep

on

doin

g w

hat

we’

re d

oing

,if

peop

le li

ke o

ur r

ecor

ds t

hen

they

will

buy

it.

We

hope

tha

t th

ey d

o,w

e ha

ve t

o tr

y.”

Ove

rall

it w

as a

rea

lly s

ucce

ssfu

l nig

ht.

Whe

n th

e ni

ght

was

don

eI

aske

d G

eoff

Schu

man

n w

hat

he h

oped

to

achi

eve.

He

said

:“I

hope

to

give

bla

ck y

outh

s di

rect

ion

in li

fe,m

otiv

atio

n to

ach

ieve

thei

r dr

eam

s.I f

eel t

hat

I was

not

giv

en t

his

chan

ce,a

s a

child

,and

I wan

t to

giv

e th

is c

hanc

e to

oth

ers.”

Yout

hs w

ho c

ame

to t

he s

emin

ar w

ere

posi

tive

abou

t th

e ni

ght,

and

foun

d it

help

ful,e

nter

tain

ing

and

wor

thw

hile

.Eu

gene

Tho

mas

,st

uden

t of

Uni

vers

ity o

f Be

dfor

dshi

re i

n Lu

ton,

stud

ying

Med

iaPr

oduc

tion

said

:“I

thou

ght

it w

as h

elpf

ul,i

t in

spire

d m

e to

do

som

ethi

ng w

ith m

y lif

e.I w

ould

like

to

be a

mus

ic p

rodu

cer,

pro-

duci

ng b

eats

for

song

s be

caus

e I l

ove

mus

ic.

So if

Tony

Bri

scoe

,can

achi

eve,

so c

an I.

A f

ew w

ords

fro

m t

he E

dito

r;Bi

anca

vol

unte

ered

to

be o

urne

w Jo

urna

list

and

this

is h

er fi

rst

artic

le!

Wel

l don

e Bi

anca

.

Inth

e ne

xt is

sue

we

will

be

wri

ting

abou

t “C

an B

lack

Boy

s /o

urYo

ung

Men

Lea

d?”

So

me

of t

he o

lder

folk

s sa

y:“T

hey

don’

tw

ant

to p

ut in

the

wor

k or

the

effo

rt.

The

y w

ant

to p

rofit

from

our

swea

t no

t th

eir

own!

” I

aske

d a

coup

le o

f boy

s (o

ne a

ged

14an

d th

e ot

her

17)

wha

t it

wou

ld t

ake

for

them

be

lead

ers.

The

14

year

old

sai

d:“i

t w

ill t

ake

time”

and

the

16

year

old

sai

d:“k

now

-in

g ho

w t

o do

thi

ngs

bett

er t

han

anyo

ne e

lse”

– I

tra

nsla

ted

the

latt

er t

o m

ean

to b

e ab

le t

o sp

ecia

lise.

Two

key

elem

ents

-

time

and

spec

ialis

atio

n -

are

wha

t th

ese

two

boys

felt

it w

ould

tak

e to

mak

e th

em in

to le

ader

s.W

e ar

e go

ing

to in

vest

igat

e fu

rthe

r ov

erth

e ne

xt c

oupl

e of

mon

ths

and

prod

uce

the

outc

ome

to b

e pu

b-lis

hed

in o

ur s

peci

al B

icen

tenn

ial i

ssue

due

to

com

e ou

t in

May

!

CA

N W

E F

INE

LO

VE

inn

a d

an

ce?

It’s

me,

Mar

i sai

d ne

rvou

sly.

The

re w

as a

mom

ent

ofsi

lenc

e.M

ari w

as w

onde

ring

wha

t th

e si

lenc

e w

as in

dica

tive

of.

Was

he

tryi

ng t

ore

mem

ber

who

she

was

? H

e co

uldn

’t b

e,it

was

onl

yla

st n

ight

.Sh

e de

cide

d to

jog

his

mem

ory

and

brok

eth

e si

lenc

e.“I

’m t

he w

oman

you

met

at

the

club

last

nig

ht?”

“Of

cour

se I

kno

w w

ho it

is –

I w

as ju

st t

hrow

n of

f,I

didn

’t e

xpec

t yo

u to

cal

l”he

sai

d in

a fr

ustr

ated

ton

e.“W

hat

do y

ou m

ean?

”“W

ell,

I w

as g

oing

to

call

you

but

I th

ough

t th

at y

oum

ight

be

busy

.”“B

usy…

? B

ut y

ou s

aid

you

wou

ld c

all.”

“I w

as g

oing

to

but,

I di

dn’t

kno

w w

heth

er t

o or

not

.”“W

hy d

id y

ou s

ay y

ou w

ould

cal

l and

the

n no

t ca

ll?”

“Wel

l,ev

eryt

hing

hap

pene

d so

qui

ckly

,I ju

st t

houg

htth

at m

aybe

it w

as a

mis

take

and

wer

en’t

rea

lly in

ter-

este

d..”

“Not

inte

rest

ed?”

Mar

i was

con

fuse

d.“Y

eh,I

mea

n..I

did

n’t

thin

k I

was

any

one

spec

ial”

“Not

spec

ial?

”M

ari w

as ta

ken

abac

k.“D

o yo

u th

ink

I w

ould

hav

e go

ne h

ome

wit

h yo

u la

st n

ight

if

you

wer

e no

t sp

ecia

l?“L

ike

I sa

id,

Dw

inny

con

tinu

ed,

ever

ythi

ng h

ap-

pene

d so

qui

ckly

.”

By N

ancy

Nod

er

Page 8: December small DND

“But

I h

ave

been

wai

ting

all

day

for

your

cal

l.I

thou

ght

som

ethi

ng h

ad h

appe

ned

to y

ou.”

“Rea

lly?”

Dw

inny

sou

nded

sur

pris

ed.

Mar

i was

exc

epti

onal

ly g

ood

look

ing

and

had

a go

odjo

b.D

win

ny w

as w

orki

ng a

s a

secu

rity

gua

rd f

or a

smal

l co

nstr

ucti

on f

irm

and

he

felt

tha

t on

ce s

hefo

und

out

that

he

was

n’t

wor

king

in a

n of

fice

or d

id-

n’t

have

a h

igh

paid

job

,sh

e w

ould

n’t

be i

nter

este

d,an

d so

to

save

face

he

resi

sted

from

cal

ling

her.

“Yes

,I

have

wai

ted

for

your

cal

l al

l da

y!”,

Mar

ire

peat

ed,

feel

ing

mor

e at

eas

e an

d co

nfid

ent.

“We

had

such

a n

ice

even

ing,

I w

as l

ooki

ng f

orw

ard

tohe

arin

g fr

om y

ou a

nd s

eein

g yo

u ag

ain.

”“R

eally

?”th

at w

as a

ll D

win

ny c

ould

say

at

the

tim

e.H

e st

arte

d to

fee

l a

bit

mor

e co

mfo

rtab

le w

ith

the

way

the

con

vers

atio

n w

as g

oing

.D

win

ny k

new

tha

tat

the

nig

ht c

lub

he w

as p

layi

ng a

par

t,bu

t M

arie

didn

’t k

now

tha

t.H

e w

asn’

t re

ally

thi

s ov

er-c

onfid

ent

bois

tero

us p

erso

n at

all.

It w

as a

ll an

act

.T

he c

lubs

wer

e us

ually

dar

k,th

e w

omen

(as

far

as

he w

as c

on-

cern

ed),

wer

e ea

sy p

icki

ngs,

he c

ould

get

a g

irl

easy

wit

h th

e us

ual

chat

up

lines

and

tha

t w

as a

ll it

was

abou

t.P

ullin

g a

girl

,get

ting

her

‘dig

its’

,he

had

n’t

real

ly e

xpec

t an

ythi

ng t

o de

velo

p af

ter

that

.In

fact

,he

was

n’t

even

look

ing

for

a gi

rlfr

iend

bec

ause

he

had

now

here

to

take

her

.“Y

es,

Rea

lly!”

Mar

i sa

id w

ith

a sm

ile D

win

ny c

ould

not

see.

So c

an w

e se

e ea

ch o

ther

aga

in?

Mar

i ask

ed.

“Yeh

,sur

e.B

ut it

will

hav

e to

be

your

pla

ce b

ecau

seI

live

wit

h m

y si

ster

and

she

doe

sn’t

like

me

brin

ging

wom

en o

ver.”

Oh!

so

that

was

his

sis

ter,

Mar

i sai

d to

her

self.

“Wel

l you

can

alw

ays

com

e to

my

plac

e ag

ain,

ifyo

ulik

e.I

will

coo

k us

a n

ice

mea

l.W

hat

kind

of

food

do

you

like.

.?

“I

like

anyt

hing

”D

win

ny

said

,fe

elin

g hu

ngry

alre

ady

“Any

thin

g?”

Mar

i gig

gled

…“B

arri

ng a

few

exc

epti

ons”

Dw

inny

sai

d la

ughi

ng.

Wel

l co

me

over

at

arou

nd 8

:30

and

I w

ill h

ave

som

eR

ed S

napp

er M

arav

al w

aiti

ng fo

r yo

u.“W

aaah

,you

can

coo

k?”

Dw

inny

tea

sed.

“OK

,and

Iw

ill b

ring

a b

ottl

e of

win

e..W

hat k

ind

ofw

ine

do y

oulik

e?”

he c

onti

nued

.“M

ateu

s R

ose”

“Wel

l,M

ateu

s R

ose

it w

ill b

e,se

eyo

u at

8.3

0 pr

ompt

.T

hey

repl

aced

the

rec

eive

r si

mul

-ta

neou

sly.

Bot

h sm

iling

in

thei

row

n se

para

te s

pace

s.B

oth

havi

ngsi

mila

r th

ough

ts a

nd b

oth

feel

ing

ther

e w

ere

man

y un

answ

ered

ques

tion

s,an

d bo

th

feel

ing

very

ex

cite

d at

th

epr

ospe

ctof

seei

ng e

ach

othe

r ag

ain.

TH

E E

ND

.

EY

E F

OR

CO

LO

UR

(If

you

wan

t th

e w

ork

done

qui

ckly

,cal

lso

meo

ne e

lse,

ifyo

u w

ant

it d

one

prop

erly

call:

0793

1 89

5 97

1)

The

Cam

pbel

ls,

colle

ctiv

ely

know

nas

“E

ye f

or C

olou

r”,

will

be

usin

gar

tist

ic t

alen

t an

d Ca

ribb

ean

flair

to r

egen

erat

e yo

ur h

ome.

Wit

h ey

efo

r det

ail a

nd a

n ey

e fo

r col

our,

they

clai

m t

o ha

ve t

he a

bilit

y to

dec

o-ra

te s

o th

at r

oom

s lo

ok li

ke n

ew.

Ifyo

u w

ant

to s

ee p

revi

ous

wor

k,m

ake

an a

ppoi

ntm

ent

so y

ou c

anfe

el s

ecur

e in

the

kno

wle

dge

that

you

will

be

able

to

see

the

qual

ity

ofth

e w

ork

for

your

self

befo

re c

om-

mis

sion

ing

to h

ave

the

wor

k do

ne!

Page 9: December small DND

CO

MM

UN

ICA

TIO

N(W

hat

does

it

tak

e to

be

effe

ctiv

e?)

I re

mem

ber

whe

n I

was

at

scho

ol,

I w

as u

sele

ss a

tH

isto

ry a

nd G

eogr

aphy

,get

ting

5 ou

t of

100

for

bot

hsu

bjec

ts,b

ut I

alw

ays

got 1

00 o

ut o

f 100

for

Spel

ling

and

A’s

in E

nglis

h Li

tera

ture

and

A+

in E

nglis

h la

ngua

ge.

Igu

ess

it w

as b

ecau

se I

lov

ed w

ords

and

the

way

the

yco

uld

be m

anip

ulat

ed a

ccor

ding

to

the

situ

atio

n or

tone

des

ired.

Bein

g ra

ised

in

an e

ra w

here

chi

ldre

n w

ere

seen

but

not

hear

d,w

ritin

g w

as t

he o

nly

way

I co

uld

expr

ess

my

feel

ings

acc

urat

ely,

and

poet

ry w

as a

lso

a w

ay t

hat

Ico

uld

tell

the

‘trut

h’ a

nd g

et a

way

with

it.

Back

in t

he d

ay,i

t w

as n

atur

al fo

r pe

ople

to

hand

wri

tele

tter

s.T

he t

elep

hone

was

exp

ensi

ve a

nd w

e di

d no

tha

ve t

he t

echn

olog

y w

e do

now

,so

emai

l an

d te

xts

wer

e no

t av

aila

ble

as a

ltern

ativ

e m

etho

ds o

f com

mun

i-ca

tion.

Han

dwri

ting

repr

esen

ted

who

we

wer

e,an

d so

we

wou

ld t

ake

prid

e in

the

way

we

wro

te.

I rem

embe

rho

w p

roud

I w

as,t

he fi

rst t

ime

I was

taug

ht a

nd a

llow

edto

wri

te in

“jo

in-u

ps”.

Join

-ups

was

whe

re le

tter

s w

ere

join

ed t

oget

her

and

even

tho

ugh

we

had

to w

rite

exac

tly o

n th

e lin

e,th

e em

phas

is o

n th

e lo

opin

g an

djo

inin

g m

ade

me

feel

like

an

adul

t.To

day,

exce

pt fo

r th

e M

etro

polit

an P

olic

e w

hen

wri

ting

stat

emen

ts,

phys

icia

ns a

nd o

ther

s of

tha

t ilk

,pe

ople

hard

ly h

and-

wri

te l

ette

rs,a

nd e

mai

ls e

ncou

rage

poo

rgr

amm

ar a

nd s

pelli

ng.

Pron

unci

atio

n in

man

y of

our

you

ng s

eem

s to

hav

ede

teri

orat

ed.

Why

is th

at?

Cou

ld it

be

beca

use

yout

hs

tend

to

wri

te d

own

wha

t th

ey h

ear?

If

the

way

the

yta

lk is

not

“pr

oper

” En

glis

h,it

is li

kely

to

tran

slat

e in

topo

or s

pelli

ng a

nd b

ad g

ram

mar

.M

any

youn

g pe

ople

hid

e be

hind

em

ails

and

tex

ts a

ndbe

caus

e of

its

info

rmal

ity,t

hey

are

allo

wed

to

abbr

evi-

ate

to s

uch

an e

xten

t,it

is n

o lo

nger

a w

ord.

Emai

ls a

ndte

xts

have

rep

lace

d ve

rbal

com

mun

icat

ion

in a

lot

of

case

s,so

whe

n yo

u fin

ally

mee

t fac

e to

face

,no-

one

has

anyt

hing

to

say!

W

hat i

s sp

eaki

ng p

rope

rly?

His

tori

cally

,spe

akin

g ‘pr

op-

erly

’ m

eans

pro

noun

cing

‘t’s,

elim

inat

ing

“ahh

s,um

ms

and

“I’m

like

...” (f

or e

xam

ple)

from

con

vers

atio

ns.M

any

of t

he t

radi

tiona

l mid

dle

and

uppe

r cl

asse

s [if

the

def

i-ni

tion

still

app

lies!

] cr

inge

at

bad

gram

mar

,esp

ecia

llyw

hen

its in

the

form

of p

atoi

s or

‘str

eet

lang

uage

’.It

isa

sham

e th

at w

hat

bind

s us

am

ongs

t ou

rsel

ves,

can

alie

ntat

e us

from

oth

ers

and

wha

t id

entif

ies

us c

an a

lso

stig

mat

ise

us.

Nat

han

– w

ho is

a c

olle

ague

of m

ine,

says

:“I

alw

ays

adm

ire h

ow t

he A

fric

ans

use

thei

r la

ngua

gew

ith e

ach

othe

r,th

e C

hine

se d

o th

e sa

me

and

also

the

Asi

ans.

But

as J

amai

cans

we

are

som

etim

es a

frai

d to

use

our

own

mot

her

tong

ue w

ith e

ach

othe

r.”If

teen

ager

s to

day

find

‘pro

per

Engl

ish’

alie

natin

g an

d‘p

rope

r En

glis

h’ is

the

lang

uage

of t

he e

duca

tors

,wha

tef

fect

can

tha

t ha

ve o

n th

eir

lear

ning

abi

lity?

Peop

le w

ho c

once

ntra

te o

n de

liver

ing

spee

ch p

reci

se-

ly c

an c

ome

over

as

cond

esce

ndin

g,fo

rmal

,thr

eate

ning

by H

elen

Hend

erso

n

Page 10: December small DND

and/

or s

tilte

d to

som

eone

who

doe

s no

t sp

eak

the

sam

e w

ay.

Youn

g pe

ople

who

spe

ak ‘e

boni

cally

’ see

m o

bliv

ious

of

the

adve

rse

impa

ct i

t ha

s in

cer

tain

situ

atio

ns.

It is

impo

rtan

t th

at o

ur y

oung

are

mad

e aw

are

of t

he e

ffect

the

way

the

y sp

eak

has

on t

hose

lis

teni

ng,e

spec

ially

whe

n th

ose

liste

ning

are

not

the

ir p

eers

.For

exa

mpl

e,in

an

inte

rvie

w s

ituat

ion

(or

othe

r hi

erar

chal

situ

atio

n)w

here

col

loqu

ialis

m e

nter

s th

e co

nver

satio

n,it

can

adve

rsel

y af

fect

the

out

com

e.Ta

lkin

g ‘s

tree

t’ is

ofte

n us

ed ‘l

ight

-hea

rted

ly’ l

ike

pato

is,

and

not

all

blac

k pe

ople

spe

ak t

his

way

.M

any

of t

heol

der

gene

ratio

n fr

own

on it

s us

e an

d fin

d it

degr

adin

g,w

hile

man

y yo

ung

peop

le f

eel

that

thi

s ve

rbal

cul

ture

bond

s th

em w

ith t

heir

pee

rs.

Ebon

ics,

stre

et la

ngua

gean

d/or

pat

ois

are

ofte

n re

gard

ed a

s im

prop

er s

peec

hby

‘old

-sch

ool’

lect

urer

s an

d th

e lik

e.T

his

is p

roba

bly

beca

use

this

lang

uage

see

ms

to la

ck s

truc

ture

.Fo

r ye

ars

the

Briti

sh p

ride

d th

emse

lves

with

the

irkn

owle

dge

of t

he E

nglis

h la

ngua

ge.

Acq

uiri

ng ‘A

’ lev

els

in E

nglis

h Li

tera

ture

and

Lan

guag

e w

as h

ighl

y re

gard

edan

d st

udie

d by

man

y of

us

born

in B

rita

in,s

o it

is n

ow

onde

r th

at th

e ne

w g

ener

atio

n ar

e vi

ctim

ised

,rec

eive

prej

udic

ial

com

men

ts,

are

disr

egar

ded

or

pena

lised

whe

n it

com

es t

o co

mm

unic

atin

g in

com

petit

ive

situ

a-tio

ns.T

hey

are

not

view

ed a

s co

mm

unic

atin

g ef

fect

ive-

ly –

bec

ause

the

y ar

e ta

lkin

g a

‘min

ority

lang

uage

’.“S

peak

ing

prop

er”

has

its p

lace

and

the

re i

s no

poi

ntsp

eaki

ng p

rope

rly

if al

iena

tes

the

peop

le y

ou a

re s

peak

-in

g to

or

with

.Si

nce

effe

ctiv

e co

mm

unic

atio

n is

the

key

to p

ositi

ve c

hang

e,if

thos

e in

tera

ctin

g ar

e se

en a

s ha

v-in

g no

thin

g in

com

mon

with

the

peop

le th

ey a

re s

peak

-in

g w

ith,s

ituat

ions

and

peo

ple

will

rem

ain

the

sam

e.Si

mila

rly,

an e

ffort

to in

terc

ede

and

help

BM

Es a

dvan

ce-

can

carr

y no

wei

ght

if fo

rms

are

com

plic

ated

and

proc

esse

s co

mpl

ex.

Enco

urag

ing

our

youn

g to

sp

eak

‘pro

perl

y’

is

not

beca

use,

as g

uide

s,w

e w

ant t

o ne

gate

thei

r id

entit

y,cu

l-tu

re,a

ccen

t,or

sen

se o

f sel

f,bu

t bec

ause

we

sens

e ho

wim

port

ant

it is

to

com

mun

icat

e w

ell

in o

rder

to

beta

ken

seri

ously

.Sp

eaki

ng is

par

t of

the

ove

rall

pres

en-

tatio

n of

an

indi

vidu

al.

No

poin

t pu

ttin

g on

a s

uit

and

a tie

,or

dres

sing

up

corp

orat

ely

for

an in

terv

iew

onl

yto

res

pond

whe

n be

ing

aske

d:

“Wha

t m

akes

you

thi

nk y

ou a

re s

uite

d to

thi

s po

sitio

n?“I

’ve

done

fing

s lik

e th

is b

efor

e..”

Bad

habi

ts d

ie h

ard

and

unle

ss b

ad g

ram

mar

or

pron

un-

ciat

ion

is n

ippe

d in

the

bud

and

cor

rect

ed,y

oung

peo

-pl

e w

ill c

ontin

ue th

e le

gacy

of “

was

sup?

and

“I’m

like

…”

and

othe

r co

lloqu

ial s

peec

h pa

tter

ns.

Our

you

ng a

re c

hang

ing

the

way

the

y sp

eak

with

the

times

,ar

e dr

essi

ng a

ccor

ding

to

wha

t th

ey l

ike

and

wha

t th

ey

see

on

the

TV.

Mea

nwhi

le

the

corp

orat

e/m

anag

emen

t w

orld

rem

ains

the

sam

e.T

he c

orpo

rate

wor

kpla

ce d

oes

not

acco

mm

odat

e ne

wfa

ds,‘

slop

py’

spee

ch a

nd l

ack

of f

ines

se,h

owev

er,t

hem

oney

-mak

ing

mus

ic w

orld

doe

s -

so m

ixed

mes

sage

sar

e be

ing

sent

out

to

our

youn

g.T

here

fore

,un

less

teen

ager

s ar

e in

a p

ositi

on t

o m

ake

deci

sion

s,ta

ke fu

llco

ntro

l of t

heir

live

s an

d ha

ve t

he s

uppo

rt m

echa

nism

sin

pla

ce t

o su

ccee

d,th

ey w

ill n

eed

to a

dapt

and

adj

ust

in o

rder

to b

e re

spec

ted

and

trea

ted

fair

ly in

the

wor

k-pl

ace

(whi

ch a

pplie

s to

the

maj

ority

).A

que

stio

n fo

r ou

r te

enag

e re

ader

s:W

here

do

you

see

your

self

in 5

yea

rs t

ime?

Do

you

wan

t to

be

take

n se

riou

sly?

Wel

l rat

her

than

sco

ff at

thos

e w

ho s

peak

art

icul

atel

y,tr

y to

ens

ure

that

the

yar

e no

t th

e on

es w

ho w

ill b

e in

terv

iew

ing

you

five

year

s do

wn

the

line

just

be

caus

e yo

u co

uldn

't be

bovv

ered

!!St

uden

ts o

f all

ages

can

find

pro

nunc

iatio

n le

sson

s st

im-

ulat

ing

and

valu

able

.How

ever

,the

y ne

ed t

ime

and

con-

fiden

ce i

n or

der

to i

ncor

pora

te t

he c

hara

cter

istic

s of

conn

ecte

d sp

eech

and

mak

e th

em th

eir

own.

Res

earc

hdo

es s

ugge

st th

at b

y si

mpl

y dr

awin

g st

uden

ts’ a

tten

tion

to g

ram

mat

ical

err

ors

in a

non

-acc

usat

ory

way

,yo

u ar

egi

ving

the

m c

onsi

dera

ble

help

tow

ards

mak

ing

sens

e of

the

lang

uage

the

y he

ar.

Reg

ardl

ess

of w

hat

era

we

are

in,w

here

we

are

from

,or

wha

t lan

guag

e w

e us

e (b

e it

verb

al o

r bo

dy la

ngua

ge)

whe

n co

mm

unic

atio

n is

the

key

to

over

all u

nder

stan

d-in

g,us

ing

wor

ds o

r ex

pres

sion

s th

at c

an b

e un

ders

tood

is o

f par

amou

nt im

port

ance

.WW

ell-

Wel

l-W

ritt

en W

ritt

en W

ords

Com

man

d R

espe

ct a

nd G

etor

ds C

omm

and

Res

pect

and

Get

ssR

esul

tR

esul

t s -

em

ail a

rtow

ngal

lery

@ao

l - f

or d

ets

- em

ail a

rtow

ngal

lery

@ao

l - f

or d

etai

ls.

ails

.

DID

YO

U K

NO

WB

LA

CKB

RIG

HT

WO

N A

BB

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AR

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usine

ssIni

tiativ

e(BBI)

pre-

sented

Myrn

a Loy

(who

was

also

nomi

nated

for

Busin

ess In

novatio

naw

ard) with

anaw

ard

in the

Cultu

re &He

ritag

ecateg

ory,

forBla

ckbrigh

t Ne

ws’

bene

fit to

thecomm

unity

.

Page 11: December small DND

Rela

Rela

tion

ship

s!ti

on

ship

s!(w

ho n

eeds

them

?)By

Bla

ck Ci

tizen

I gue

ss th

at’s

wha

t we

thin

k w

hen

we

are

at th

e en

d of

our t

ethe

r in

a re

latio

nshi

p. W

e qu

estio

n if

this

is so

me-

thin

g w

e re

ally

wan

t or e

ven

need

? We

ques

tion

why

we

ente

red

in th

is r

elat

ions

hip

in th

e fir

st p

lace

and

wha

tw

e ar

e ge

tting

out

of i

t. R

elat

ions

hips

can

be

diffi

cult

attim

es a

nd le

t’s fa

ce it

ove

r the

yea

rs w

e ap

pear

to h

ave

grow

n m

ore

impa

tient

and

less

tole

rant

. So

wha

t’s re

al-

ly g

oing

on

here

? C

onfid

ence

is

bein

g lo

st,

trust

is

som

ethi

ng y

ou n

ow h

ave

to e

arn

and

a lo

t of

peo

ple

appe

ar to

be

hidi

ng th

eir t

rue

iden

titie

s or e

ven

deve

lop-

ing

a ne

w p

erso

na. S

o w

hy d

o w

e ev

en b

othe

r with

rela

-tio

nshi

ps a

t al

l? C

ould

it

be f

or c

ompa

nion

ship

?Su

ppor

t, re

liabi

lity

and

the

feel

ing

of b

eing

love

d th

at in

som

e w

eird

way

mak

es it

all

seem

wor

th it

! R

elat

ions

hips

ar

e be

com

ing

incr

easi

ngly

har

der,

to th

e po

int

whe

re s

ome

peop

le a

re n

owch

oosi

ng i

nter

net

datin

g w

here

they

hav

e cr

iteria

’s o

f wha

t the

yw

ant.

Is f

indi

ng a

com

patib

lem

ate

beco

min

g m

ore

diffi

cult?

Peop

le h

ave

such

bus

y lif

esty

les

and

less

tim

e fo

r so

cial

izin

g so

you

hard

ly s

ee y

our

hous

e pa

r-tie

s th

ese

days

. N

ight

club

s ar

ebe

com

ing

a pl

ace

for

the

muc

hyo

unge

r gen

erat

ion

or a

pla

ce w

here

you

can

be

pick

edup

, but

not

rea

lly a

pla

ce to

attr

act t

he ‘

right

’per

son.

The

ques

tion

I am

con

tinuo

usly

ask

ed is

how

can

I m

eet

‘dec

ent’

mem

bers

of t

he o

ppos

ite s

ex?

We

all h

ave

tryin

g tim

es w

ithin

our

live

s, tim

es w

hen

we

wan

t to

be le

ft to

our

ow

n de

vice

s; ti

mes

whe

n w

efe

el v

ulne

rabl

e, w

hen

we

are

scar

ed -

so m

any

emot

ions

in o

ur li

fe’s

jour

ney,

so y

ou c

an im

agin

e w

hen

ther

e ar

etw

o pa

rties

inv

olve

d? I

thi

nk s

omet

imes

, w

e ge

t so

caug

ht u

p in

wha

t has

hap

pen

in th

e pa

st, w

e fo

rget

toco

ncen

trate

on

the

futu

re. W

e ig

nore

wha

t is

rig

ht i

nfr

ont o

f us

and

beco

me

less

will

ing

to tr

y.Le

t’s f

ace

it; l

ife a

t th

e m

omen

t ha

s its

diff

icul

ties.

How

ever

we

all d

eser

ve so

me

sort

of jo

y ou

t of i

t, do

n’t

we?

Rel

atio

nshi

ps w

here

one

per

son

is tr

ying

to c

ontro

lth

e ot

her b

ecau

se o

f fea

r or i

nsec

uriti

es d

on’t

last

. You

cann

ot c

ontro

l som

eone

els

e’s l

ife. S

omet

imes

you

hav

eto

bel

ieve

in y

ours

elf t

hat y

ou a

re e

noug

h fo

r tha

t per

-so

n to

be

fulfi

lled.

Afr

iend

onc

e sa

id t

o m

e: “

If y

ouha

ve a

bird

let i

t roa

m fr

ee if

it c

omes

bac

k, it

is y

ours

,an

d if

it ge

ts l

ost

it w

as n

ever

you

rs t

o be

gin

with

.”R

elat

ions

hips

app

ear

to b

e m

ore

dem

andi

ng, b

ut l

et’s

face

it, a

s a

soci

ety

we

have

bec

ome

mor

e de

man

ding

,le

ss u

nder

stan

ding

and

som

e of

us

have

los

t ou

r ol

dfa

shio

n va

lues

. I u

nder

stan

d th

at w

e w

ant t

o m

ove

with

the

times

but

at

wha

t co

st a

nd w

hat

exac

tly i

s be

ing

achi

eved

? T

hink

abo

ut it

for a

mom

ent?

So h

ow d

o w

e m

eet

dece

nt m

embe

rs o

f th

e op

posi

tese

x? I

wou

ld su

gges

t bei

ng fr

iend

lier t

o th

ose

you

know

arou

nd y

ou. H

e or

she

mig

ht h

ave

a rin

g on

thei

r fin

ger

but t

hey

mig

ht n

ot b

e at

tach

ed o

r m

ay k

now

som

eone

who

is u

natta

ched

. Onc

e in

the

rela

tions

hip

I wou

ld sa

yto

thin

k ab

out h

ow y

ou li

ke to

be

treat

ed a

nd tr

eat o

th-

ers a

ccor

ding

ly. I

t’s n

ot g

oing

to b

e ea

sy b

ut w

e ha

ve to

star

t som

ewhe

re -

why

not

at h

ome

with

our

love

one

s?R

emem

ber

indi

vidu

alis

m -

we

are

all

God

’s c

hild

ren

uniq

ue! L

ove

one

anot

her.

Thin

k ab

out w

hat i

t mea

nsto

tru

ly l

ove

som

eone

and

the

sac

rific

es i

t ta

kes.

Res

pect

als

o go

es a

long

way

, and

last

ly, c

omm

unic

a-tio

n. S

omet

imes

we

feel

our

par

tner

’s s

houl

d kn

oww

hat w

e ar

e go

ing

thro

ugh

or h

ow w

e ar

e fe

elin

g an

dw

e fo

rget

they

are

not

min

d re

ader

s or

bod

y la

ngua

gesp

ecia

lists

. So

rel

atio

nshi

ps -

who

nee

d’s

them

? Th

erig

ht o

ne?

We

all d

o!!

Page 12: December small DND

RE

D

SN

AP

PE

RM

AVA

RA

L

(A r

ecip

e)O

RIG

INA

TIN

GF

RO

M

TR

INID

AD

&B

AR

BA

DO

S

1 W

hole

fis

h ab

out

4lbs

Gar

lic 1

.5 c

love

s, f

inel

y m

ince

dS

alt

– 1

tsp

to t

aste

Pep

per

(whi

te)

to t

aste

Rum

– T

rinid

ad o

r B

arba

dos

(1 f

luid

oz)

Mar

aval

her

bs:

(chi

ves,

thy

me,

cel

ery)

Par

sley

–I

bunc

h m

ixed

Larg

e pa

n to

hol

d fis

hS

easo

n th

e fis

h w

ith g

arlic

, sa

lt ,

pepp

er,

rum

and

hal

f of

the

min

ced

herb

s an

d m

arin

ate

for

one

hour

.

SSaauu

ccee ff

oorr RR

eedd SS

nnaapppp

eerr MM

aarraavv

aall

Oni

on:

11/4

cup

s m

ince

dB

utte

:3

tabl

espo

ons

Win

e:

1 cu

p w

hite

Sug

ar:

2 te

aspo

ons

Lem

on J

uice

: fr

om 1

pee

led

lime

Cor

nsta

rch

: 1

teas

poon

Sal

t: to

tas

teF

lour

Dra

in t

he s

easo

ned

fish,

dus

t in

flo

ur a

nd f

ry f

or 8

to

10 m

in-

utes

in h

ot o

il un

til s

kin

is c

risp.

R

emov

e an

d dr

ain

fish

bypl

acin

g on

pap

er t

owel

s.

Sau

té t

he o

ther

hal

f of

the

her

bsan

d on

ions

in b

utte

r fo

r 8

to 1

0 m

inut

es o

n a

low

hea

t un

tilon

ions

are

ten

der

and

tran

spar

ent.

The

n ad

d w

ine,

sug

ar,

salt

and

½ c

up o

f w

ater

. P

lace

fis

h in

the

pan

with

the

sauc

e, c

over

and

coo

k on

low

fla

me

for

10 m

inut

es.

Gen

tlytu

rn t

he f

ish

on t

o th

e ot

her

side

, co

ver

and

cook

aga

in f

oran

othe

r 10

min

utes

. R

emov

e fis

h an

d pl

ace

on s

ervi

ng d

ish.

Sau

ce w

ill t

hen

be le

ft in

the

pan

. T

hick

en t

his

sauc

e w

ithco

rnst

arch

dis

solv

ed in

abo

ut 1

tab

lesp

oon

of w

ater

. P

our

thic

kene

d sa

uce

over

fis

h an

d se

rve

hot.

DID

YO

U K

NO

W...?

If yo

u sh

ould

eve

r be

for

ced

by a

rob

ber

to w

ithdr

awm

oney

from

an

AT

M m

achi

ne, y

ou c

an n

otify

the

polic

e by

ente

ring

your

pin

num

ber

in r

ever

se.

For

exa

mpl

e if

your

pin

num

ber

is 1

234

then

you

wou

ld p

ut in

432

1.

The

AT

Mre

cogn

izes

tha

t yo

ur p

in n

umbe

r is

bac

kwar

ds f

rom

the

AT

M c

ard

you

plac

ed in

the

mac

hine

. The

mac

hine

will

stil

lgi

ve y

ou t

he m

oney

you

req

uest

ed,

but

unkn

own

to t

hero

bber

, th

e po

lice

will

be

imm

edia

tely

dis

patc

hed

to h

elp

you.

Thi

s in

form

atio

n w

as r

ecen

tly b

road

cast

ed o

n T

V a

nd i

tst

ates

that

it is

sel

dom

use

d be

caus

e pe

ople

don

't kn

ow it

exis

ts.

[Not

sur

e of

the

val

idity

ofth

e so

urce

by

hey!

]

Page 13: December small DND

TH

E H

OLY

BIB

LE

(is

it r

elev

an

t to

day?

)

On

list

enin

g to

th

e ra

dio

one

mor

nin

g, I

hea

rd t

he

pre-

sen

ter

say

that

th

e B

ible

has

bee

n a

bes

t se

ller

for

over

300

yea

rs!

I w

onde

red

how

th

at c

ould

be

wh

enso

man

y pe

ople

say

th

at t

he

Bib

le is

irre

leva

nt

toda

y.I

won

dere

d if

it w

as b

ecau

se w

hen

ever

we

feel

pai

n o

rso

met

hin

g go

es w

ron

g, w

e in

stin

ctiv

ely

say

“Oh

my

God

” or

“G

od h

elp

me!

” (

Eve

n a

thei

sts

hav

e be

enkn

own

to

cry

out

“God

’s n

ame

inst

inct

ivel

y) a

nd

it i

sw

hat

man

y of

us

do w

hen

we

are

un

der

pres

sure

or

feel

ing

pain

. M

any

of u

s to

day

are

un

der

ceas

eles

spr

essu

re.

For

som

e of

us,

it

is t

he

pres

sure

of

tryi

ng

to k

eep

our

jobs

wh

en fa

cin

g re

dun

dan

cies

, for

oth

ers

it i

s ex

peri

enci

ng

oth

er e

con

omic

pre

ssu

res.

Fo

r ou

ryo

un

g, it

is p

ress

ure

at

sch

ool –

pre

ssu

re t

o co

nfo

rm.

“Ou

r m

ates

are

sw

eari

ng,

dri

nki

ng

taki

ng

dru

gs,

sow

e ou

ght

to jo

in in

, ot

her

wis

e w

e st

and

out”

. F

or t

he

olde

r ge

ner

atio

n i

t is

cal

led

“kee

pin

g u

p w

ith

th

eJo

nes

”, f

or o

ur

you

ng

it i

s ca

lled

“pee

r pr

essu

re”.

Bot

h h

ave

diffe

ren

t le

vels

of p

ress

ure

bu

t bo

th ju

st a

sde

trim

enta

l an

d fr

igh

ten

ing.

Fo

r th

ose

wh

o w

ant

toke

ep u

p w

ith

th

e Jo

nes

, it

usu

ally

an

eco

nom

ic c

hoi

ceth

ey m

ake.

Th

ey w

ant

to h

ave

wh

atth

eir

nei

ghbo

urs

hav

e. a

nd

will

‘di

e’tr

yin

g. F

or t

he

you

ng

it i

s ye

arn

ing

for

a fe

elin

g to

bel

ong;

to

feel

par

t of

a gr

oup

- to

pre

ven

t a

feel

ing

of a

lien

-at

ion

.Th

e th

ing

is, w

het

her

it is

kee

pin

g u

pw

ith

th

e Jo

nes

or

peer

pre

ssu

re –

it

take

s m

oney

; so

th

en t

her

e is

th

enth

e pr

essu

re t

o ge

t m

oney

. Th

e ol

der

folk

wan

t to

get

mon

ey t

o go

on

aw

orld

cru

ise,

bu

y n

ew w

indo

ws,

new

furn

itu

re,

or a

new

car

so

they

re-

mor

tgag

e th

eir

hom

e, o

r th

ey u

se t

hei

r cr

edit

car

ds,

or t

hey

bor

row

from

a f

rien

d.

Som

e ke

ep t

akin

g ou

t lo

ans,

so

that

wh

en t

hei

r ap

plic

atio

ns

are

refu

sed

from

hig

h s

tree

tba

nke

rs,

they

hav

e to

go

to s

omeo

ne

wh

o w

ill g

ive

them

th

e lo

an b

ut

will

ch

arge

th

em r

idic

ulo

us

inte

rest

rate

s.

The

you

ng

are

un

der

sim

ilar

econ

omic

pre

s-

sure

. T

hey

wan

t to

hav

e w

hat

th

eir

mat

es h

ave,

so

they

wan

t m

oney

to

buy

the

late

st s

nea

kers

, m

obile

phon

e, D

VD

s, m

usi

c vi

deos

or

clot

hes

. I

f th

eir

par-

ents

can

’t af

ford

or

won

’t bu

y it

for

them

, how

do

they

acqu

ire

it?

Do

they

dec

ide

to w

ork

to g

et t

he

mon

ey –

or d

o th

ey li

sten

to

voic

es?

W

ith

mos

t fo

rms

of p

ress

ure

, th

ere

is a

n a

udi

ble

orin

ner

voi

ce t

hat

goa

ds u

s.

You

kn

ow w

hic

h v

oice

s I

am t

alki

ng

abou

t, t

he

voic

es t

ell

them

th

ere

is a

“ge

tri

ch q

uic

k sc

hem

e” (i

.e.

the

Lott

o) o

r an

eas

ier

way

to

get

wh

at t

hey

wan

t, w

her

e th

ey w

on’t

hav

e to

pay

?B

oth

gro

ups

are

lis

ten

ing

to v

oice

s w

hic

h e

nco

ura

geth

em t

o liv

e be

yon

d th

eir

mea

ns

wh

ich

res

ult

s in

deb

t.

“You

are

goi

ng

to f

eel

real

ly d

epri

ved

if yo

u d

on’t

get

that

….”

Yo

ur

hou

se w

ill s

tan

d ou

t lik

e a

sore

th

um

bif

you

do

n’t…

. ““

Eve

ryon

e is

bu

yin

g th

eir

clot

hes

from

….

“; “

you

’re

lam

e if

you

don

’t…”

“yo

u’r

e a

ciss

ybe

cau

se…

.!”

“don

’t le

t h

im g

et a

way

wit

h t

hat

….”

“I

bet

you

cou

ldn

’t…”

I

bet

you

wou

ldn

’t….”

“Y

ou’ll

alw

ays

be a

fai

lure

…”

“W

hat

is

the

poin

t in

try

ing

…yo

u w

ill n

ever

mak

e it

...”

“Th

at p

ain

you

are

feel

ing.

..it

is

prob

ably

can

cer…

” H

e h

urt

you

, so

hu

rt h

imba

ck...

” “

I kn

ow h

ow y

ou c

an g

et s

omet

hin

g fo

r n

oth

-in

g…”

“D

on’t

forg

ive…

” Th

ese

are

the

hau

nti

ng

voic

es t

hat

you

hea

r an

d w

hat

usu

ally

mak

e yo

u d

o so

met

hin

g yo

u h

ad r

eally

not

plan

ned

on

doi

ng.

M

any

of u

s ar

e ju

st t

oo fr

igh

ten

edto

sta

nd

up

to t

he

chal

len

ge o

f to

rmen

t an

d fo

rgiv

e-

nes

s is

a d

ecis

ion

, n

ot a

n e

mot

ion

so

it i

s u

p to

you

wh

eth

er y

ou c

hoo

se t

o fo

rgiv

e. T

ry n

ot t

o lis

ten

to

the

voic

es,

but

inst

ead

subm

it y

ours

elf

to g

ood

and

resi

stth

e te

mpt

atio

n t

o lis

ten

to

voic

es t

hat

mea

n y

ou n

oth

-in

g bu

t h

arm

.W

hat

has

all

this

got

to

do w

ith

wh

eth

er t

he

Bib

le i

sre

leva

nt

or n

ot?

Wel

l in

Job

Ch

apte

r 3,

vs.

25

it s

tate

s“F

or t

he

thin

g w

hic

h I

grea

tly

fear

ed is

com

e u

pon

me,

and

that

wh

ich

I w

as a

frai

d of

is c

ome

un

to m

e”

E

ven

bac

k in

th

e da

y,

Job

was

su

fferi

ng

the

sam

eki

nd

of p

ress

ure

s w

e ar

e to

day,

an

d h

ad t

he

sam

efe

ars

and

ther

e ar

e m

any

exam

ples

of

peop

le i

n t

he

Bib

le w

ho

hav

e ex

peri

ence

d w

hat

we

are

expe

rien

cin

gto

day,

wh

ich

is

prob

ably

wh

y th

e B

ible

is

a be

st s

ell-

er a

nd

wh

y it

is

still

rel

evan

t to

day.

Pe

ople

, w

het

her

they

go

to c

hu

rch

or

not

, ar

e C

hri

stia

ns

or n

ot,

can

iden

tify

wit

h m

any

of t

he

pass

ages

an

d ch

apte

rs i

nth

e B

ible

, an

d u

sual

ly,

wh

en y

ou c

an i

den

tify

wit

h a

cert

ain

sit

uat

ion

, yo

u t

end

not

to

feel

alo

ne.

Th

at i

sw

hy

the

Bib

le a

nd

man

y ot

her

‘re

ligio

us’

scr

iptu

res

are

rele

van

t to

day,

so

that

you

nee

d n

ever

wal

k al

one.

(Nam

e su

pplie

d,bu

t w

ithh

eld)

Page 14: December small DND

TE

CH

NIC

AL

CO

MP

ET

EN

CE

(Wh

at

is t

hat?

)If

you

wer

e to

ld t

hat

you

lack

ed t

echn

ical

com

pe-

tenc

e, h

ow w

ould

tha

t m

ake

you

feel

? W

hen

Ihe

ard

thos

e w

ords

Ife

lt de

mor

alis

ed a

nd i

nade

-qu

ate,

pr

obab

ly b

ecau

se I

did

n’t

know

wha

t th

ete

rm m

eant

.

Tak

ing

any

criti

cism

as

a nu

dge

to i

mpr

ove,

Ide

lved

into

the

dic

tiona

ry t

o fin

d ou

t th

e m

eani

ngbu

t it

did

not

tell

me

wha

t th

e co

mbi

ned

wor

dsm

eant

, so

I m

ade

a se

arch

on

the

web

site

. I

am

glad

I d

id,

beca

use

on f

indi

ng t

he d

efin

ition

, I

nolo

nger

fel

t de

mor

alis

ed o

r in

adeq

uate

. L

ack

ofte

chni

cal c

ompe

tenc

e, a

s I

read

it,

mea

nt d

riftin

gto

war

ds g

ener

alis

atio

n an

d aw

ay fr

om s

peci

alis

a-tio

n, a

nd i

f th

is w

as t

he c

ase,

I w

as g

uilty

as

char

ged!

B

eing

mul

ti-fa

cete

d m

eans

we

fail

to s

peci

alis

e. I

am n

ot m

akin

g ex

cuse

s, b

ut a

s w

omen

, w

e ha

vea

tend

ency

to

try

and

fulfi

l man

y ro

les

and

know

-in

g w

here

to p

riorit

ise

or w

hat a

rea

to s

peci

alis

e in

is d

iffic

ult.

We

try

to ra

nk e

ach

area

the

sam

e a

ndas

res

ult,

som

e ar

eas

are

ina

dver

tent

ly c

ompr

o-m

ised

at

the

expe

nse

of o

ther

s.

Som

e ch

ildre

n kn

ew w

hat

area

the

y w

ante

d to

spec

ialis

e in

whe

n th

ey g

rew

up:

“I

wan

t to

be

ado

ctor

, a

law

yer,

a t

each

er,

a ha

irdre

sser

, a

film

star

, a s

inge

r, a

mod

el”

the

list g

oes

on.

I rem

em-

ber

I w

ante

d to

be

“a f

ashi

on d

esig

ner

and

an a

irho

stes

s, n

one

of w

hich

I s

peci

alis

ed in

and

non

eof

whi

ch I

am n

ow.

Inst

ead,

I ch

ose

to b

e an

art

ist,

a w

riter

, a

poet

, a

mag

azin

e ed

itor,

grap

hic

desi

gner

, a

publ

ishe

r,an

d an

aut

hor

but

didn

’tpl

an o

n be

ing

a fu

ll-tim

e em

ploy

ee,

a m

othe

r, a

daug

hter

, a

frie

nd,

a sp

ouse

, a

men

tor

at t

hesa

me

time,

so

wha

t ga

ve?

Fro

m t

he c

omm

ent

“you

la

ck

tech

nica

l co

mpe

tenc

e”,

it lo

oks

asth

ough

my

job

was

com

prom

ised

.I w

as a

sec

reta

ry b

y da

y, a

nd e

very

thin

g el

se d

ur-

ing

unso

cial

hou

rs. I

did

n’t r

ealis

e th

at a

s a

secr

e-ta

ry th

ere

was

a n

eed

to s

peci

alis

e, a

s fa

r as

I was

conc

erne

d, b

eing

a s

ecre

tary

was

eas

y!

But

was

it?

Bei

ng a

sec

reta

ry w

as n

ot j

ust

abou

t ty

ping

wor

k, g

ivin

g it

to th

e bo

ss, f

iling

and

ans

wer

ing

the

By M

yrna

Loy

Page 15: December small DND

tele

phon

e -

tech

nica

l com

pete

nce

mea

nt k

now

ing

all t

he r

elev

ant r

ules

and

pro

cedu

res;

bei

ng a

war

eof

clie

nts

‘ nee

ds; t

hink

ing

(to

a ce

rtai

n ex

tent

, and

at a

leve

l to

be a

gree

d) fo

r you

r sup

ervi

sor;

adj

ust-

ing

to

chan

ge

effic

ient

ly

and

effe

ctiv

ely;

be

ing

fam

iliar

with

you

r su

perv

isor

’s f

iles,

sp

ell-c

heck

-in

g th

e w

ork

befo

re g

ivin

g it

out f

or s

igna

ture

, and

stuf

f lik

e th

at.

“Int

elle

ctua

l dev

elop

men

t wal

ks h

and

in h

and

with

tech

nica

l m

aste

ry”

says

Gen

eral

Mon

tgom

ery

CM

eig

s in

h

is

art

icle

“G

en

era

lsh

ip,

Qu

alit

ies,

Inst

inct

s an

d C

hara

cter

” in

Par

amet

ers

(Sum

mer

Issu

e).

It is

the

refo

re i

mpo

rtan

t fo

r em

ploy

ees

tode

velo

p th

emse

lves

reg

ardl

ess

of w

heth

er th

e jo

bth

ey a

re d

oing

is m

anua

l or

tech

nica

l.

Tec

hnic

al c

ompe

tenc

e w

hen

wor

king

in fa

st-f

oods

mea

ns t

hat

you

ensu

re t

hat

the

area

you

wor

k in

is c

lean

, tha

t you

hav

e th

e co

rrec

t pro

tect

ive

clot

h-in

g, t

hat

you

ensu

re t

he p

roce

ss o

f pr

epar

ing

and

deliv

erin

g fo

od i

s hy

gien

ic a

nd c

onsi

sten

t w

ithF

ood

& H

ygie

ne s

tand

ards

.

So

whi

le y

ou m

ight

be s

tudy

ing

for

an M

A in

Acc

ount

ancy

but

wor

king

in a

fast

-foo

d in

dust

ry in

you

r sp

are

time,

you

can

still

lack

tec

hnic

al c

ompe

tenc

e if

you

do n

ot s

pe-

cial

ise

in t

he jo

b at

han

d!A

hi

ghly

in

telli

gent

/edu

cate

d pe

rson

co

uld

beac

cuse

d of

not

hav

ing

any

com

mon

sen

se, i

f he

orsh

e la

cks

tech

nica

l com

pete

nce.

How

man

y pe

o-pl

e w

ho w

ork

in t

he f

ast-

food

indu

stry

can

dis

play

tech

nica

l pr

ofic

ienc

y, l

et a

lone

mas

tery

in

thei

rro

le?

M

any

succ

essf

ul l

eade

rs o

f th

e pa

st a

nd p

rese

ntw

ere

tech

nica

l ex

pert

s in

the

ir pa

rtic

ular

fie

lds

whe

n th

ey w

ere

youn

g an

d th

ey c

ontin

ued

thei

rpr

ofes

sion

al t

echn

ical

stu

dies

as

they

mat

ured

.T

echn

ical

co

mpe

tenc

e w

as

achi

eved

th

roug

hst

udy

and

know

ledg

e of

tec

hnic

al m

anua

ls.

So

wha

t is

the

diff

eren

ce t

oday

? T

he b

read

th o

fkn

owle

dge

requ

ired

to s

ucce

ed is

gre

ater

tha

n in

the

past

, bu

t th

e de

pth

of t

he k

now

ledg

e re

quire

dis

le

ss.

A

s a

resu

lt,

tech

nica

l sp

ecia

lisat

ion

seem

s to

be

decl

inin

g.

So

wha

t is

the

ans

wer

? D

o w

e ac

quire

ove

rall

know

ledg

e an

d be

com

e a

“Jac

k of

All

Tra

des”

, or

do w

e sp

ecia

lise

and

beco

me

an e

xper

t? “

One

man

can

’t se

rve

two

mas

ters

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