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Discipline as Self Control Thomas Gordon Sarah ChamberlinEnglish Education Kirstin Stangel Music Education

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Discipline  as  Self  Control  Thomas  Gordon  Sarah  Chamberlin-­‐English  Education  Kirstin  Stangel-­‐  Music  Education  

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*  Gordon  developed  the  discipline  as  self  control  model  *  There  are  three  types  of  models:  *  Parent  Effectiveness  Training  *  Teacher  Effectiveness  Training  *  Leadership  Effectiveness  Training  *  Recommends  plan  be  followed  at  home  and  at  school  *  Emphasizes  use  of  I-­‐messages,  no  lose  conflict  resolution,  and  the  6  step  problem  solving  process  

Introduction  

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*  We  use  I-­‐messages  to  express  how  the  speaker  feels  about  a  problem  without  placing  blame.  *  Emphasizes  no  loss  conflict  resolution.  This  means  that  both  sides  walk  away  feeling  like  “winners.”    *  Teachers  should  always  engage  in  active  listening.  

Big  Ideas  

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*  Emphasizes  ways  to  modify  the  classroom  environment  to  enhance  student  learning.  “This  means  confronting  the  physical  and  psychological  characteristics  of  the  classroom,  rather  than  the  student”  (Gordon  156).  *  Students  learn  how  to  resolve  

their  own  conflicts,  and  are  a  part  of  the  conflict  resolution  process.  

Big  Ideas  

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Gordon,  Thomas,  and  Noel  Burch.  T.E.T.,  Teacher  Effectiveness  Training.  New  York:  P.H.  Wyden,  1974.  Print.  

*  You  teach  4  year  old  kindergarten.  Mira  and  Kelly  are  girls  in  your  class.  You  have  a  box  of  small  rewards  on  your  desk,  including  candy,  stickers,  and  colorful  erasers.  While  you're  across  the  room  helping  Kelly,  you  see  Mira  take  something  from  the  box.  What  do  you  do?  

Practice  Challenge  2  

*  This  version  of  classroom  management  would  not  use  rewards.  *  Gordon  feels  rewards  undermine  the  causes  of  good  behavior,  and  students  focus  on  the  reward.  Taking  away  rewards  causes  further  misbehavior.  

How  Gordon  Would  Respond  

*  Teacher  would  take  Mira  aside.  *  1.  Ask  Mira  why  she  did  what  she  did.  

Using  active  listening  and  repeating  back  Mira’s  response.  Then  teacher  explains,  using  I-­‐messages,  why  they  are  upset.  

*  2.  Ask  Mira  generate  possible  solutions,  teacher  also  includes  any  they  may  have.  

*  3.  Together  evaluate  the  possible  solutions.  

*  4.  Decide  on  the  best  solution  together  

*  5.  Decide  how  to  implement  that  solution.  

*  6.  Then  assess  how  the  solution  solved  the  problem.  

Use  the  6  Step  Process  

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*  You  teach  9th  grade  math.  Brayden  is  a  boy  in  your  class.  You've  provided  time  in  class  for  students  to  work  on  an  assignment  from  the  book.  While  you're  walking  around,  you  see  Brayden  using  his  cellphone  in  his  lap,  under  his  desk.  What  do  you  do?  

Practice  Challenge  4  

*  First,  follow  the  six  step  process  with  Brayden  as  modeled  in  the  previous  situation.  *  Then  we  would  address  the  problem  as  a  class,  to  prevent  further  issues.  

How  to  handle…  

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*  1.  Teacher  explains  to  the  class  how  students  using  time  dedicated  to  working  on  assignment  inappropriately  makes  them  feel.  *  2.  Teacher  offers  possible  solutions  

to  the  problem  and  writes  them  on  the  board.  Then  asks  students  for  their  recommendations  for  resolution.  *  3.  Teacher  eliminates  solutions  that  

they  do  not  feel  will  work.  Then  discusses  pros  and  cons  of  other  solutions  with  class.    

Use  the  6  Step  Process  

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*  4.  As  a  class  decide  on  the  best  solution  to  solve  any  future  instances  of  this  problem.  *  5.  Decide  on  the  best  way  to  implement  the  solution.  *  6.  Later,  assess  how  well  the  solution  is  working,  and  if  it  is  not,  repeat  the  6  step  process  to  develop  a  new  solution.  

Use  the  6  Step  Process    

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* Active  Listening  * 6  Step  Problem  Solving  Process  * Always  use  I-­‐messages  * No  loss  solutions  * Use  at  home  and  school    

Takeaways  

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*  When  one  person  tries  to  control  another,  you  can  always  expect  some  kind  of  reaction  from  the  controlee.  The  use  of  power  involves  two  people  in  a  special  kind  of  relationship  -­‐  one  wielding  power,  and  the  other  reacting  to  it.    

 

Quote  From  Gordon’s  Essay  on  “How  Children  Really  React  to  Control”  

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*  Go  to:  www.gordontraining.com  *  Gordon,  Thomas,  and  Noel  Burch.  T.E.T.,  Teacher  

 Effectiveness  Training.  New  York:  P.H.  Wyden,    1974.  Print.  

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