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volume 23 no. 3 July, August & September 2019for grandparents raising grandchildren

From the Director’s Desk

by patricia dominguez msw,director of kinship care services

S top and smell the roses. It is a phrase we have each heard a hundred times.

But how many of us are actually doing it? The life of a grandparent raising grandchildren feels fast-paced and complicated. Between school, work, appointments, and extracurricular activities, quiet moments seem rare.

T he truth, however, is that life will always be complicated. Rather

than wait for life to get easier, teach yourself to approach life with a positive

outlook. Begin each day with realistic expectations, and end each day reminding yourself of what went well. Duet invites you to attend our monthly grandparent support groups throughout the Valley. Gather with fellow grandparents to share resources and brainstorm solutions to the many challenges of raising grandchildren. You are not alone in this.

L et the small moments with your grandchildren become lasting

memories. These moments do not need to be big and expensive. They can actually include simple activities like watching movies together at home, walking around your neighborhood, and cooking a meal together. Join Duet for one of our grandfamily outings to Arizona Science

Museum, KTR Gym, or Out of Africa Animal Park. Sometimes, those minutes of one-on-one attention are what you will remember most fondly.

process to gain custody can be complex and overwhelming, Duet is here to help connect you to the appropriate legal support..

W e have partnered with the Children’s Law Center through

Gaining Guardianship of Your Grandchild

G randparents and other relatives who care for children often face

legal issues whether they are dealing with custody or guardianship, or getting medical care for a child. Do you know whether you need to be the legal guardian of your grandchildren? Duet can help answer that question and let you know of options available to you. If you are raising a grandchild or a minor relative in Arizona, you will need formal custody to obtain benefits such as healthcare, or to enroll the child in school. While the legal

Community Legal Services to provide a free clinic to help you complete the proper paperwork. Space is limited and reservations are required. When: Friday, August 9, 2019Time: 3 – 5 p.m. Where: Duet 10000 North 31st Avenue., Suite D200 Phoenix 85051Cost: FreeRSVP: Reservations required. Contact Patricia (602) 274-5022, ext 120

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Group Activities for FamiliesGrandfamily outings are offered to grandparents and the children they are raising. Other family members are welcome to attend outings at the full rate and when availability allows. An RSVP is needed for all grandfamily outings and special events.

L ocated in downtown Phoenix, Arizona Science Center is a hub

for science and discovery. Come face-to-face with the largest collection of mummies ever assembled. The Mummies of the World: The Exhibition features 40 real human and animal mummies and 85 rare artifacts. This special exhibition provides a window into lives from every region of the world including Europe, South America, and ancient Egypt. When:Time:

Where:

Cost:

RSVP:

Arizona Science Center: Mummies of the World

I t’s that time again. Join us at our quarterly movie night featuring

Captain Marvel. Come for a fun-packed, free evening. Bring your family, friends, lawn chairs, and blankets. We’ll provide the rest – pizza, popcorn, snacks, and drinks.

C arol Danvers (Brie Larson) becomes one of the universe’s most powerful

heroes when Earth is caught in the middle of a galactic war between two alien races. Featuring an all-star cast including Samuel Jackson, Jude Law, Annette Bening, and Lee Pace.

When: Friday, August 23, 2019 Time: 6 - 8:30 p.m.Where: Duet 10000 North 31st Avenue Suite D200 Phoenix 85051 Cost: Free (Pizza and popcorn)RSVP: Reservations required by Friday, August 16. Contact Chris at (602) 274-5022, ext. 115 or avery@duetaz.org.

Movie Night: Captain Marvel

J oin us for an evening of energetic fun. At KTR, their goal is simple – to help

kids be kids. The indoor action sports playground serves kids of all ages and abilities, giving them the freedom to explore their passions. Grandfamilies will meet promptly at 5:30 p.m. to check in before our 6 p.m. start time. Grandkids and any kids at heart will enjoy a multitude of activities including tumbling, trampoline, cheerleading, parkour, dodgeball, skateboarding, scootering, and more.

When:Time: Where:

Cost:

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KTR Gym

Saturday July 27, 201910 a.m .- 12 p.m. (Can stay until close) Arizona Science Center 600 East Washington StreetPhoenix 85004$3.00 per person Park at Heritage Garage and validate ticket at front desk. Free for first hour and $1.50 each additional hour. Reservations with payment Friday, July 12.Contact Chris at (602) 274-5022, ext. 115 or avery@duetaz.org.

Friday, August 2, 20195:30-8 p.m.KTR1050 East PecosChandler 85225 FreeThe skate park is available at an additional cost. Bring your own equipment or rent from KTR’s skate shop. Scooter rental is $15, and helmet rental is $5. Helmets are mandatory for 18 and under.Reservations required by Friday, July 26.Contact Chris at (602) 274-5022, ext.115 oravery@duetaz.org.

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Grandparent Ambassadors’ Summit

C ome and experience our one-hour virtual tour and learn more about

the impact Duet has on the lives of the people we serve. Our Discover Duet tours are held on a Friday of each month at noon and we offer a light lunch. Choose a date that works for you, bring a friend, and discover more about Duet.

• Friday, July 19, from noon – 1 p.m.• Friday, August 9, noon – 1 p.m.• Friday, September 6, noon – 1 p.m.

To reserve your place call (602) 274-5022, ext 132, email applebyhoke@duetaz.org, or register online at duetaz.org/Discover Duet.

Discover Duet

T he 2019 Arizona Grandparent Ambassador Summit is coming up.

Here is an opportunity for grandparents from different counties to be heard and be a part of a community voice. Come have lunch and hear Eddie Sission speak. Activities for children 6 months to 15 years old, and swimming for ages 6 years old and up.

When: Saturday September 14, 2019 Time: 9 a.m.- 3:30 p.m. Where: Salvation Army Kroc Center 1375 East Broadway Road Phoenix 85040 Cost: $10 per family Register on June 15, 2019 Sign up early for the cheapest rate RSVP: www.azga.org

D id you know that every upset with your grandchild holds a potential

gift for both of you? Finishing this four-session workshop you will see the power of self-awareness and self-monitoring.

When: Saturdays: July 13 and 20, 2019Time: 10:30 a.m. - 12 p.m. Where: Duet 10000 North 31st Avenue Suite D200 Phoenix 85051 Cost: Free (materials and refreshments included)RSVP: Reserve your spot by Friday, July 5. Contact Chris at (602) 274-5022, ext. 115 or avery@duetaz.org.

Undiscovered Gifts: Sessions 3 and 4

C elebrate National Grandparents Day with an exciting safari at the Out of

Africa Wildlife Park where one sees a variety of animals in the zoo’s Wildlife Preserve. This will be an incredible adventure for both children and adults.

National Grandparents Day

When: Sunday September 8, 2019 Time: 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. (Can stay until close)Where: Out of Africa Wildlife Park 3505 Camp Verde Bridgeport Highway, Camp Verde 86322Cost: $5 per child, $10 per adult (Free for children under 2)Lunch: Park’s cafe, restaurants nearby, or bring your own picnic.RSVP: Reservations with payment required Monday, August 26. Contact Chris at (602) 274- 5022, ext. 115, or avery@duetaz.org

Sharing Groups for Kinship Caregivers: No Groups in July

August 1, Thursday, 6 – 8 p.m.Bethlehem Lutheran Church2745 North 32nd StreetMesa 85213

August 8, Thursday, 9 – 11 a.m.August 22, Thursday, 9 – 11 a.m.Duet10000 North 31st Avenue, Suite D200Phoenix 85051

August 14, Wednesday, 9 – 11 a.m.August 28, Wednesday, 9 – 11 a.m.Mountain View Lutheran Church 11002 South 48th StreetPhoenix 85044

August 24, Saturday, 9 – 11 a.m.Christ Evangelical Lutheran Church918 South Litchfield RoadGoodyear, 85338

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September 5, Thursday, 6 – 8 p.m.Bethlehem Lutheran Church2745 North 32nd StreetMesa 85213

September 11, Wednesday, 9 – 11 a.m. September 25, Wednesday, 9 – 11 a.m.Mountain View Lutheran Church11002 South 48th StreetPhoenix 85044

September 12, Thursday, 9 – 11 a.m.September 26, Thursday, 9 – 11 a.m.Duet10000 North 31st Avenue, Suite D200Phoenix 85051

September 28, Saturday, 9 – 11 a.m.Christ Evangelical Lutheran Church918 South Litchfield RoadGoodyear, 85338

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It’s Summer Time and We Have Funds to Burn!

A re you enrolling your grandchild in an extracurricular activity, or sending them to a summer program? We understand that finances may not always allow you to do these activities that benefit both grandparents and grandchildren. We help them

attend these programs and offer you some time for yourself through our respite care service, which may pay for part or all of the registration fees. We have extra funding, so grab this benefit today. Contact Patricia at (602) 274-5022, ext. 120, for an appointment to see if you qualify.

If you are interested in respite assistance, be prepared to: • Show legal custody of grandchildren such as

guardianship, non-parent custody, etc.• Answer questions about your unique

situation (Takes 30-minutes)• Give the name of the agency that will provide

services; include the provider’s full address, phone number, and the name of a contact person

• Give the start-and-end dates of the program and class frequency. (i.e. every Monday and Wednesday)

• If approved, it takes 10 business days to process the request

Thank You To Our FundersServices for Grandfamilies are made possible through partnerships with:Area Agency on Aging, Region One, Amici Catering, APS, Arizona Community Foundation, Arizona Diamondbacks Cardinals Charities, Desert Financial Credit Union, Fennemore Craig Foundation, John F. Long Foundation, JW Kiechhefer Foundation, Mountain View Lutheran Church, Nina Mason Pulliam Charitable Trust, Phoenix Rotary 100, Salt River Pima-Maricopa Indian Community, Sundt Foundation, The Board of Visitors, The Kemper and Ethel Marley Foundation, The USAA Foundation, Thunderbird Charities, Univision, Wells Fargo Foundation, William L. and Ruth T. Pendelton Memorial Fund and by generous individuals.