How to Deal with an

Mother

Bearing

Over

1.She has her reasons

2.Work on setting boundaries

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3.Practice this phrase:“I love you but…”

How’s the Weather? [hous] [stressed thee; unstressed before a consonant thuh] [weth-er] phrase

A phrase used by teenage girls to secretly inform each other that their tops are too low.

girl 1: Hey Claire, how’s the weather?girl 2: Crap, its fine now I think

4.Consider writing a letter

5.Thank your mother for the suggestions

6.Strive to seek self approval

7.Opt for caller ID

8.Try to call her back within a day

9.Be appreciative

10.

Refrain from guilt

! Ignore the gnawing suspicion that your mother is trying to live her life through you. Even if she is, the urge to control is her baggage, not yours.

! If your mother persists in knocking down your boundaries, consider seeking family therapy. The relationship may improve in more ways than one.