How to Find Love or Find Your Soulmate WE all want to love and be loved. Deep down, even those people who appear angry and hurt, decided they'll never love again, or just show no interest in finding a soulmate or love, truly need it and want it. They just don’t want the pain, sadness and upset that seems to go hand in hand with it. The question is how do you find a special love? And once you’ve found it, how do you hold onto it? It all begins with YOU and the image you see of YOUR-self. Having self-confidence goes a long way to seeing yourself as someone special, someone who is smart and generally happy. Every time you feel positive about you, you draw the positive from others. So likewise loving you, for you, immediately draws love from others to you. When you feel good about who you are, you immediately carry yourself different, with an air of confidence that immediately will draw likeminded people to you. If you walk, skulking, sad or generally just feeling down about yourself, you repel the beautiful folk from you and attract those negative people who will ultimately drag you down further. The saying "like for
1. How to Find Love or Find Your SoulmateWE all want to love
and be loved. Deep down, even those people who appearangry and
hurt, decided theyll never love again, or just show no interest in
findinga soulmate or love, truly need it and want it. They just
dont want the pain, sadnessand upset that seems to go hand in hand
with it.The question is how do you find a special love? And once
youve found it, how doyou hold onto it? It all begins with YOU and
the image you see of YOUR-self.Having self-confidence goes a long
way to seeing yourself as someone special,someone who is smart and
generally happy. Every time you feel positive aboutyou, you draw
the positive from others. So likewise loving you, for
you,immediately draws love from others to you.When you feel good
about who you are, you immediately carry yourself different,with an
air of confidence that immediately will draw likeminded people to
you. Ifyou walk, skulking, sad or generally just feeling down about
yourself, you repel thebeautiful folk from you and attract those
negative people who will ultimately dragyou down further. The
saying "like for like" is never more relevant than how youperceive
yourself everyday, especially when looking for that special
someone!Up your speak and thoughts!
2. How many times have you thought or said to a friend or
family member "Ill nevermeet anyone, theres no one out there for
me", "no one ever asks me out" or "allthe good ones are taken"?
Putting energy into a negative thought or saying willgive you much
more of the same, because ultimately you send out the self
samemessage as you think. You might as well be walking around with
a placard tied toyou stating "dont ask me out, because no one ever
has"... off putting to say theleast!Up your speak and thoughts by
thinking / saying / doing the following:Look in a mirror and say...
I am filled with the power of love and attraction and I give thanks
for all the love in my life; and/or I am confident, self-assured,
and special. People are attracted to me. I am loved and
appreciated. There is no fear of rejection around me; and/or I
invite my soul mate to come into my life now. I am ready to embrace
you with an open heart, mind, body and soul and I am thankful for
your presence and love.
3. Keep a Rhodochrosite crystal by your bedside. Each night and
morning, hold the crystal to your heart and say the following: "I
wish to openly receive love from someone special or my soulmate; As
I give love so shall I receive love... This is my wish and I am
forever grateful". Keeping a Rose Quartz tumble stone in your
pocket, bag or anywhere it feels comfortable continues your
affirmation during your day. Hold it regularly throughout the day,
reminding your-self why its there. Say to yourself each time you
hold it "I love myself, I am loved by all and I draw on those who
love me to come forward in love".
4. Know that Gratitude plays an enormous part in drawing what
we need to us. Youare loved always in many ways and by showing
gratitude for such love will keeplove flowing to you.Falling in
love or having someone very special in ones life can transform our
verybeing and, believe it or not, loving your-self is the biggest
transformation, startingyou on a journey to finding your true love
or soulmate.All relationships, positive or negative, are gifts and
should be viewed as such.Each and every one of us possesses unique
gifts that, when shared, help us allgrow spiritually. Never believe
in coincidence, everyone you meet has a purposein your life, some
more than others, but all others, serving nonetheless.Your love or
soulmate is definitely out there waiting for you. Its just a matter
offinding him/her. So start with loving yourself first and
foremost, this in turn willbring a more confident you into the
world and your aura will generate the glow thatwill attract that
special person to you. You may still need "to kiss a few frogs
beforeyou get the Prince" metaphorically speaking, but once youve
mastered lovingyourself, the rest will just happen
naturally!Through our lives, people will come and go. Some touch
our lives more thanothers. There will be great loves of life as
well as those who cause heartache.There will be some never, ever
forgotten and others we would never wish to let go.Love DOES change
ones life. Accept Love as a gift. It is the best gift you can
givesomeone, including yourself, and the greatest you can
receive!Be Blessed Forever in LOVE
