How to Get Back With Your Ex: 6 Tips For Love Again

So, things didn't quite pan out as you first thought after the split and you now want to get back with your ex right? Your special relationship has come and gone but now, after some soul-searching, the realisation has hit home that they were right for you and you want it all back just like before.

Well, listen up. If you've gone down deep into that secret place inside your heart and soul and you are certain your ex partner is the real deal for you, then here are six (6) useful tips that when applied with care and thoughtfulness, will help you win back your ex:

1: Think carefully about the reasons (or excuses) that caused you to break up in the first place.

Do you want to get back together just because you feel that you can't have them anymore? Or are you missing having a relationship with anyone rather than with your ex? Was one of you abusive or possessive? Or was infidelity a factor in the break up? If any of this is the case then think long and hard about whether you really want to get back into that kind of relationship. If you're absolutely certain you do then read on.

2.- Do not beg!

If your ex-partner is refusing to get back with you there is always the temptation to try to make them feel sorry for you and this can prove to be a successful tactic in the short-term. However, it is a big mistake to trade-off your self-pride and lose your dignity as you cannot help but become much less attractive to your ex overall.

Communicate your wish to rekindle the relationship in a cool, calm and adult manner. Hysterics, demands and childishness are definite no nos.

3.- Don't play games.

Pretending to be dating someone else is a childish game which can seriously backfire even if it works temporarily. Don't use other people as pawns in a game to serve you ends - they have feelings and don't crave to be used and abused by you. Again, behave like an adult and leave the game playing behind

4.- Show them you have changed.

Saying that you have changed is not enough. Vague promises will have been made before and broken. Look at what the problems were, understand the impact of your actions and make a firm commitment to change them.

If you didn't listen enough then make sure you are listening now, if you were insecure and sending texts every five minutes show that you have changed by resisting temptation and not doing that anymore.

5.- Don't be strangers.

If your relationship drifted and you both let it slide to the point it felt like you were strangers sharing a life, then recognise and acknowledge this. If you took each other for granted admit to it.

This can be solved. Commit to keeping those date nights every week, talking to each other more and being more involved in each other's lives.

6.- Try some romance.

Send genuine love letters, written with feelings from the heart. Remind them of the wonderful times you had together in the past.

Don't focus on the negative things that happened. Let thoughts of the good times help move you forward.

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