How to Get Married in 10 Easy Steps

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10 Easy StepsASimpleToThePointStrategy GuideForMuslimSingles

How To Get Married In

SharifFaizullah

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Whyarethesestepsimportant?ets face it: nowadays, the process of getting married is too complicated and very confusing for a Muslim single. Whenever we get confused about something or we get stuck on something, the best thing to do is to go back to the basics, always. Thats what this strategy guide promises you: plain, simple, and right to the point basic steps to get married. !" #$%'()#*+,-,#-,*.-#*%%#-/0.1,#2()#$%&34,#-*/11# single, then ask yourself: what basic step(s) did you skip? Hmm...?

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Iwantyou...I want you to take action. But take action with proper knowledge and !"#$%#"&'()*+#)'# (not haphazardly). As you go through this strategy guide, become consciously aware about the steps, so you will know: ,-$'%./&01#"#&/(2&$"#&)(0 ,&what steps youve already taken, and ,&01$%&3%#43&/(2&)##+&%(&%$5# immediately. So, lets go to the next page and start. Bismillah.

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...to be different than most people.

For a long time I have been wondering how would a Muslim man in the U.S., who is practicing +/-#4,1/5/%(6#'()#2#-&/*271,#8/",#/(#2# halal way. So I am looking to learn how to be ready for marriage and how to be a good husband and father, so that I can raise and support a practicing Muslim family. Jazakum Allahu khairan to the founders of Practimate for giving us a practical way to learn more about this important aspect of our deen! - Mohamed, North Carolina, U.S.A.

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!"#$%"&'()'&*+,&)-"&-")%*&'+&./%&*+,-&+'("-&()01Before you do anything else, you MUST make the decision--consciously--that you are ready to '()#$%&4#%*+,4#+21" #2()#5,*#0244/,)9 As simple as it may sound, most singles skip this crucial step and they get confused and lost in the middle of their journey. Tip: Discover Yourself And Your Standard Two important things to discover here: 1. About Yourself ####:#;,21/?@#$%R(*#*%#5,*#0244/,)9 2. About Your Other Half ####:#>?A#24,#$%%%B/(5#"%4C ####:#D&21/*/,-#$%,#8/11/(5#*%#E%0.4%0/-,9 ####:#D&21/*/,-#$%/11#FAG#E%0.4%0/-,#%(9 Just like many discoveries in life, you will realize that this step is not just a one-time thing. As you move forward in your marriage journey, youll have to adjust and tweak your standards and the qualities that are important to you. So, BE ready to compromise. BE ready to tweak your expectations.

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2"'&*+,-&3)-"/'4&$/5+05"%&$/&'("&3-+#"44;/5+*#(%86#$%&34,#/(#%(,#%" #*+,-,#*8%#-/*&2*/%(-H 1. Optimum Situation I,2(/(5H#@%,#AJKF#8/*+#$%&4#.24,(*-# from the very beginning and you tell your parents that you want to get married. (They may %4#02$#(%*#254,,9L#G+,#.%/(*#/-H#$%)/)#FAG# go and do something behind their back. 2. Sticky Situation Whatever situation youre in, you MUST---must, must, must---bring your parents on board. Know this: there is always a way to bring your parents on board, regardless of your parents being liberal (low challenge), traditional (some challenge), or conservative (more challenge). MEN: If you cant talk to your own dad, dont talk to a sister (about marriage). Man up!

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I,2(/(5H#@%+2M,#214,2)$#"%&()#-%0,%(,#%(# your own without the parents knowing and WOMEN:#!" #$%E2(3*#'()#2#82$#*%#5,*#*+/-# then you try to get your parents to approve across to your dad or mom, dont talk to a your choice after-the-fact. In other words: you brother (about marriage). Be smart! went and did something behind their back.

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PrepareyourmarriageresumeSome people call it biodata. An online 4"(*.# has very similar elements. In essence, a marriage resume is a bait to attract the type and the quality of prospects you want. Marriage resume is only for the purpose of get*/(5#0244/,)N#/*#/-#FAG#2#O%7#4,-&0,P !*3-#2#4,.4,-,(*2*/%(#%" #@AQ#%&*#/(#*+,#8%41)# and its one of the best ways to make your availability known to others, quickly. At the same time, do realize that YOU have to become an attractive candidate to the person you want to attract. Plain and simple. If you want to really stand out from the crowd, then you must pay attention to the nuts and 6(.%3&(7 &$)-'#..#)%&8$""9$!#&"#328#: Its fairly easy if you are true to yourself. @%R(*#*%#-+24,#$%&4#0244/25,#8/*+#*+,#R4/5+*S# people, of course. This step is so crucial, weve dedicated an entire program for this. Its super-duper important: www.MarriageResume.com ;,0,07,4H#$%%&1)#82(*#*%#.4,.24,#$%&4# marriage resume mainly for your prospects, but you must also keep their parents in mind.

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6)7"&*+,-&)5)$0)8$0$'*&3,80$#&9:')-'&4")-#($/;+$#$%&34,#5%/(5#U%4#+2M,#5%(,L#*+4%&5+#$%&4# education/degree and how it would contribute to the success of your future marriage :#?%8#0&E+#easy mahr you would ask from him

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=")-/&(+>&'+&?)7"&*+,-&4")-#(&)/%&*+,-&1,',-"&?)--$);"&4,##"441,0&There are two parts to this story: Part one is GETTING married. Part two is STAYING married. As you may already know, getting married does FAG#,V&21#staying married. Go look at any building you like and ask the builder how they worked on the foundation. G+,#*211,4#2()#7,**,4#*+,#7&/1)/(5#/-6#$%&311#'()# out that the foundation for that building is deeper and stronger. The same is true for marriage. So, the foundation for your future marriage must#7,#7&/1*#WAFX#7,"%4,#$%-2$#I do. Amongst many other essential topics, in Finding Your Other Half DVD Program, you will learn: :# Where Do I Start? :# Y0#!#;,2)$#=%4#I244/25,C :# Do I Have To Fall In Love To Find Love? :# ?%8#T%#!#X,*#I$#J24,(*-#!(M%1M,)C :# How Do I Make My First Move? :# ?%8#Z2(#!#X&242(*,,#G+,#[&EE,--#A" #I$# I244/25,C :# Am I Attractive To The Person I Want To Attract? :# ?%8#G%#I2B,#G+,#;/5+*#T,E/-/%(#KM,4$#G/0,

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6)7"&*+,-&.-4'&?+5"&@&A$/%&3-+43"#'4&@&B+/'$/,"&4")-#($/;>+2*#)%,-#R02B/(5#$%&4#'4-*#0%M,S#0,2(C It means: :# Find out important information about the person youre interested in :# Evaluate the information you collected :# Let the other party know that you exist, youre available, and youre interested I2B,#-&4,#*+2*#$%B,#*+,#;!X?G#0%M, I2B/(5#*+,#>;AFX#0%M,#E2(#7,#V&/*, damaging for both parties. Just in case youre wondering: yes, there is a dif",4,(E,#7,*8,,(#02B/(5#$%&4#'4-*#0%M,#%(1/(,# M,4-&-#02B/(5#$%&4#'4-*#0%M,#%(]-/*,6#/(#.,4-%(9 Depending on your situation, you must adopt the proper strategy.

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