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Malou Roth Human Resources Consultant. Managing Up Making the most of your relationship with your boss. Managing Up -- Topics. First, take care of yourself Nobody likes a surprise Size up your boss Prepare first – then talk Watch for communication traps “How am I doing”. Managing Up. - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
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Managing UpMaking the most of your relationship with your boss
Malou RothHuman Resources Consultant
Managing Up -- Topics
First, take care of yourself Nobody likes a surprise Size up your boss Prepare first – then talk Watch for communication traps “How am I doing”
Managing Up
First – Take care of yourself!!
Why??
First, take care of yourself Job description/outline – keep it updated
Resume – keep it current; you never know!
Goals Set Document Monitor Report progress
First, take care of yourself Joint projects/ helping out/working on teams
– it’s all good. Just keep track of it. What did the team accomplish and what was your role
“Extra-curricular activities” - join & enjoy but keep track of what you accomplish, skills you develop
Networking list – keep that rolodex up to date
Managing Up - Topics
First, take care of yourself !
Nobody likes a surprise
Nobody likes a surprise
I never met a boss who liked hearing
Guess What ?
Nobody likes a surprise
The popular belief is the boss knows what I am working on and accomplishing
The reality is that most bosses “sort of” know what you are working on but are always
somewhat surprised when they see the long list of stuff you have done.
Don’t think your boss knows what you are up to. Be sure he/she does!!
Nobody likes a surprise
You need to do regular updates… but how to do it?
Ask your boss directly – How do you want me to keep you
informed of what I am doing?
Even if your boss says…”Oh, don’t worry – nothing formal” – you still need some way to keep him/her informed
Medium & Message
Medium Message E mail -- Full report of all activities Voice mail -- Outline of activities In person talk -- Progress against goals Written report -- Highlights only/skip the routine work
Don’t guess… ask. What is the best way to keep you informed about what going on?
There is no point spending time on these updates if the boss is not going to pay attention to them. They have to be in a format the boss likes.
Managing Up - Topics
First, take care of yourself Nobody likes a surprise
Size up your boss
Size up your boss
Why is this important ?
Size up your boss
Styles of Thinking
the way we process information what we consider important how we think about data, values how we make decisions All Styles have pros and cons A perfect TEAM will have all styles
represented
Size up your boss
The Art of Thinking (paperback) Styles of Thinking (hardback)
Authors –Robert Bramson * Allen Harrison
He wrote Coping with Difficult People
Size up your boss
What is your boss’ STYLE OF THINKING
--Idealist --Analyst--Realist --Pragmatist
For that matter……what is yours?
Styles of Thinking
Idealist ASKS - What is our overall, long range goal
Focus on process and relationships Good at articulating goals Talks about the big picture; takes the long view Believe disagreements can be assimilated and
harmonized May screen out hard data May try too hard for “perfect solutions” May overlook details in quest for long term view
Styles of Thinking
Pragmatist ASKS -- How can we get this done
Seeks shortest route to payoff Good at identifying impacts Points out tactics and strategies Good at adapting and being flexible to find a
solution May screen out long range solutions/discussions May rush too quickly to a payoff or what “works” May be too interested in the short term fix
Styles of Thinking
Analyst ASKS - What does the data tell us
Seeks one best way Focus on method and plan Points out detail and DATA May screen out values/human side May over-plan, over-analyze May try too hard for predictability May want to gather too much data which
delays making a decision
Styles of Thinking
Realist ASKS -- What facts do we know
Seeks solutions that meet current needs Focus on facts and results Points out realities; can sound pessimistic Good at simplifying and “cutting through” May screen out disagreement May rush to oversimplifying solutions May over-relate to his/her own experiences
Managing Up - Topics
First, take care of yourself Nobody likes a surprise Size up your boss
First prepare – then talk
Managing Up
First socks…then shoes
First prepare….then talk
First prepare – then talkFormats and why they work Formats force you to write your thoughts Writing out your thoughts --- helps to organize them; provides a logical
sequence --- helps you to see strengths and weaknesses in
your approach so you can edit --- gives you something to “role play or practice”
with someone else prior to the Big Boss
Session --- acts as a guide when you talk to your boss --- easily turns into a written document if needed
Three useful formats
Communicating complicated issues
Communicating important issues when you find yourself in the middle
Selling your ideas
Three Useful Formats
You can’t just look at formats. You need to fill them out
They are WORKSHEETS. Retype and insert space to fill in your remarks
Take the completed format to the meeting with your boss and use it as a discussion guide
Communicating Complicated IssuesThe issue isBe concise. In one or two sentences, get to the point. It is significant becauseWhat is at stake? How does this affect people, services, clients, the future
or other relevant factors. What is the future impact is this is not solved? The relevant background information isSummarize with bulleted points…how, when, where and why did the issue
start? Who are the key players? What is the current status? ( Edit yourself… keep it brief, hit the highlights)
What I have done up to this point isOutline what you have doneWhat I would like to do now isWhat specific plan do I have, actions will I take? The help I want from my manager/supervisor isSay clearly what you want and make sure you get a clear answer.
Communicating Important Issues when you are in the Middle
The issue isBe concise. State the key points in one or two sentencesThe relevant background information isSummarize with bullet points. How, when, why did the issue surfaceWho are the key playersBriefly state the viewpoint/opinion of each of the key players. Stay
objective.Who else is affectedBriefly describe how the issue or conflicting viewpoints affect others
involvedWhat I would like to do now isHighlight what you think needs to happen and by when to resolve the
impasseWhat assistance do I need and from whomOutline specifically what you need and from whom
Selling your Ideas
1. Write a statement of what you want2. Write a statement of the need you are filling or
problem you are solving3. What are the benefits to your supervisor/your
department/the organization. List as many as you can.
4. What are the benefits to you. List as many as you can.
Stop here. Let your supervisor react. Sometimes he/she says…good idea…go for it.
Selling your Ideas
5. List all the objections to your idea. Think hard and be realistic about what your supervisor may say. (Time and money are two objections to almost any idea)
6. Develop a response that addresses or overcomes each objection. (If you cant come up with a plan to overcome a serious objection, your idea is probably not going to sell. Keep working on it but it is too soon to sell it)
Stop here. Your boss may be convinced. Don’t offer objections he/she has not raised!! Say thanks and leave!!
Selling your Ideas
7. List all the possible acceptable alternatives to your original idea. Be flexible. Maybe you can get part of the idea approved or maybe a trial period to try it out.
8. At the conclusion of the meeting, what should you leave with the boss. Have it ready to make it easy in case he/she has to confer with others.
First, take care of yourself Nobody likes a surprise Size up your boss Prepare first – then talk
Watch for communication traps
Watch for communication traps
Loaded languageUses emotionally charged languageUses positive or negative terms to influence the listener
LoadedThe marketing department throws money at projects.
UnloadedThe marketing department spent more than budgeted on that
project.
Watch for communication trapsExaggerated language Uses words which deliberately overstate the
situation; use overly dramatic descriptions
ExaggerationThe entire file system is a complete mess. No one can find anything.
RealityThere is a backlog of filing that needs to be done.
Morale stinks. Everyone is looking for another job.Some people aren’t happy with the recent decisions.
Watch for communication trapsLimited choice
Either – Or dichotomy limits thinking and discussing alternatives
We either have to hire a new staff member or we won’t be able to fulfill the grant.
Presenting solutions as THE ONLY ONEThe only solution is…..
Note: There is always more than ONE solution.
Watch for communication traps
Sweeping generalizations
Using statements that cover whole classes of people, ideas or situations
Using the words… all and none
Watch for communication traps
Using anecdotes as proof Presenting a specific instance as convincing proof
We shouldn’t hire staff from private practice law firms. We hired that guy last winter and he wasn’t willing to roll up his sleeves and do the work.
Watch for communication trapsUnclear words (weasel words)
Using might, could, possibly, tryThese words are often unclear for a reason. Don’t assume
the best case scenario. Be alert. Ask what the speaker means.
We might be ready to get started fairly soon on the new project.
That’s good news. When you say “might be ready” what does that mean?
Watch for communication trapsClarifiers
When dealing with negative remarks, unclear or incomplete statements, criticism, get clarification BEFORE YOU RESPOND. Don’t start explaining or trying to convince prematurely.
Your timetable is too slow.“Too slow” meaning…..
I think this problem needs to be settled.When you say “settled” you mean…..
Watch for communication trapsReverses
Don’t get trapped by a confrontational or unexpected question; Ask a question in response
Begin the “reverse” with a softening statement and remember to use neutral non verbals
What happens if we implement this new software and the staff won’t use it or it doesn’t work
I can imagine that might be a concern. What makes you think the staff would reject it?
Managing Up – Topics
First, take care of yourself Nobody likes a surprise Size up your boss Prepare first – then talk Watch for communication traps
“How am I doing ?”
How am I doing?
Part of Managing UP is helping your boss give YOU feedback on your performance.
Regular, clear and relevant feedback is so valuable
How am I doing?
Smart employees ask for feedback on a regular basis.
Once a year is not enough. Appraisals are often poorly done or are inadequate to give you the type of feedback you need
Ask your boss for time for you to get some informal feedback. Don’t do a pop and plop. It isn’t smart or fair.
How am I doing ? Ask a couple questions in advance
What do you see as my key strengths What could I be doing differently to improve What could I do MORE OF….or LESS OF
Make it easy for your boss. Don’t argue but make sure you understand the feedback.
Make the meeting short and to the point. Don’t let it drag on. 20 minutes is plenty.
Thank him/her
Summary
Take care of yourself first. Keep your personal Personnel File updated.
Bosses hate surprises. Keep your boss informed.
Size up your boss. How does he/she think. Try to appeal to his/her style.
First prepare – then talk. Use formats as guides
Watch for communication traps “How am I doing” Ask to find out.
Managing Up
Thanks
And when you get to be a boss…be a good one!