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Online Dating Advice for Men - 8 Top Tips
Online dating can be an effective way to meet the woman you are meant to be with;
your soul mate. On a smaller scale it can be a way for you to simply find someone
you can spend your time with, a companion, a friend. Whatever your reasons for
joining an online dating site, there are some useful tips available to make your time
spent more useful and safe. Not everyone on these sites is as innocent or honest as
they appear. Taking some advice never hurts anyone, especially in the world of
online dating.
1. Make a Killer Profile
Your profile is what draws a woman to you initially. The first thing you need to begin
with is the intro. You need to catch a woman's attention. So, leave the bland, "I'm
single and looking for love," behind. Isn't this the reason most men are on the site?
Set yourself apart! Go with something like, "I'm vertically challenged and I love it"
This tells her something about you and shows you have a sense of humor too.
As you move further into your profile you want to focus on what is unique about you.
The everyday, "I enjoy life and live it to its fullest," means nothing. What is this
saying about you? If you have lived each of the fifty states, say so. If you have
conquered Mount Everest then by God tell them.
2. The Length
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Women want you to be straight and to the point, yet they also want to know
something about you. So how do you conquer this feat? Separate your profile into
three paragraphs. The first is about you and what you like to do, the second is a
description of your pet peeves and anything that gets under your skin while the last
tells her what you are doing now. Tell her about any of the latest movies you
watched or any books you read. Talk about any activities you currently participated
in. The key here is not to tell women what you think they want to hear, it is to be
honest.
3. The Photos
You must put them up, though, or women are going to wonder why you haven't. The
first rule is to make sure they have been taken within at least six months. Accuracy is
everything. Only post two to four photos. It does not matter if the site allows 30;
picture overload is a big no-no. The last rule is the most important on. Do not ever
post pictures you have with a friend in it. Some women may think your friend is cuter
and completely ignore you.
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4. Handling Responses
When you first post your profile you will be inundated with responses. This is good; it
gives you the opportunity to read profiles and look at photos. You can now sift
through women who are interested in you and decide who may be the right choice
for you. Do not narrow it down to one person just yet. Have patience and take your
time. Get to know more than one woman through the site before making a hasty
decision. Have fun with this.
5. Sending Messages
The whole point of online dating is to communicate safely with other women. If you
are a man with low self-esteem, do not deem it as rejection if you do not get a
response from a woman you have sent a message to. Maybe she has not had the
chance to read your message and respond, or perhaps she is already talking to
another man on a more serious level.
When you do get a response, ask open-ended questions that will keep a
conversation going between the two of you. Put your best foot forward and get in it to
win it if you really like what you see. However, do not give out any personal
information at this point. If she asks for your address or phone number, tell her you
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want to take things slowly at first and are not ready to share this with her. Get to
know her before giving her too many details.
6. Begin E-mailing
Once you have it narrowed down to one particular woman you have been talking to
for quite some time, you need to get her e-mail address. This shows you trust her
and want to move things up a notch. It's like saying, "Hey, why don't we move away
from this feeding frenzy of online dating and do our own thing?"
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7. It Is Time for the Phone Number
At this point, after you have been e-mailing for a little while, you need to begin talking
on the phone. Only you can judge when you are ready for this. However, taking
things at the slower pace you have been taking them has enabled you both to build a
strong foundation of trust and friendship that only an online dating site can provide.
8. The First Date
It is time for you to meet your online dating site sweetheart. You have been honest,
posted accurate pictures and taken all the right steps since then. You should still
meet in a public place for your date simply to ensure safety. Again, you never know.
At this point the reins are in your hands completely.
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