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Pastors think people come to church to hear sermons. They don’t; they come to… Pray and to learn to pray.

Pastors think people come to church to hear sermons. They dont; they come to… Pray and to learn to pray

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Pastors think people come to church to hear sermons. They don’t; they come to…

Pray and to learn to pray.

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Just Next Door .................................

She doesn't live here anymoreIn that small white bungalowNot fifty yards north, just next door.The lights have been lit for two nights now,The car is still alone in the drive.No one's at home and we're left wonderingIf there's something that could have been done.

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Some word of friendship, some neighbourly wavePerhaps, some fudge brownies or an invite to dinner.Who knows? She never really spoke to usSo we - we never really spoke to her.And no one really ever saw her.And no one in our house saw the cop cars comeAnd no one in our house saw them cut her down

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And no one in our house saw the ambulanceDriving slowly, all too slowly, on its way back to town.And now.She doesn't live here anymoreIn that small white bungalowNot fifty yards north, just next door.

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To be a prayer centred and prayer led church

To have a prayer centred and prayer led life.

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Language 1

Intimacy and relationship

Names and petnames

The basic language for love

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Language 2

Information

Recognising the world

The basic language of school

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Language 3

Persuasion and motivation

It makes things happen

The basic language of politics and advertising

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“We are well schooled in language that describes the world in which we live. We are well trained in language that moves people to buy and join and vote. Meanwhile, Language 1, the language of intimacy, the language that develops relationships of trust and hope and understanding, languishes. Once we are clear of the cradle, we find less and less occasion to use it.”

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“There are short-lived recoveries of Language 1 in adolescence when we fall in love and spend endless hours on the telephone using words that eavesdroppers would characterise as gibberish. In romantic love, we find that it is the only language adequate to the reality of our passions. When we are new parents, we relearn the basic language and use it for a while. A few people never quit using it – a few lovers, some poets, the saints – but most let it slide.”

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Prayer is Language 1. It is not language about

God or the faith; it is not language in the service

of God and the faith; it is language to and with God

in faith.”

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Help

Here I am

I love you

Touch me

I need you

Abba! Father!

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Prayer is keeping company with God.

Clement of Alexandria

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Prayer is best when it is a waste of time

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As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. 2 My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God? 3 My tears have been my food day and night, while men say to me all day long, "Where is your God?"

Prayer starts with desire

Desire can be uncomfortable

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Speak your own language

– pour out your soul

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5 Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Saviour and 6 my God.

Prayer is a discipline

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Mark 132 That evening after sunset the people brought to Jesus all the sick and demon-possessed. 33The whole town gathered at the door, 34and Jesus healed many who had various diseases. He also drove out many demons, but he would not let the demons speak because they knew who he was.

35Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.

Prayer is the root of our strength

But it needs to be deliberate

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Different strategies

PCC – general life of the church

Homegroups

Teaching

Personal response

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You don’t have to be clever.

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You don’t have to be ordained

A monk

Or a nun

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You don’t have to an

extravert “charismatic

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You don’t have to be intravert and “contemplative”

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You don’t have to be able to play guitar

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Language 1

Abba! Father!

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Open my eyes that I may see

The Presence that is all about me.

Open my ears that I may hear

The voice that is quiet yet ever near.

Open my heart that I may feel

The love of God close and real.

Open each sense, make me aware of the

Power and peace always there.