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Training for Self-Help Group Leaders: Mood & Cognition Part II Rosalind Kalb, PhD September 22, 2010

Starting with a Brief Review – Grieving is Healthy

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Page 1: Starting with a Brief Review  – Grieving is Healthy

Training for Self-Help Group Leaders:

Mood & CognitionPart II

Rosalind Kalb, PhDSeptember 22, 2010

Page 2: Starting with a Brief Review  – Grieving is Healthy

Starting with a Brief Review – Grieving is Healthy

Page 3: Starting with a Brief Review  – Grieving is Healthy

Depression is Not Healthy

• The risk of major depression in MS is 50 percent—higher than in the general population or in other chronic diseases.

• Depression is a symptom of MS as well as a reaction to its challenges.

• It may appear as irritability, loss of interest, sadness, behavior change.

• Depression is under-diagnosed and under-treated in MS. • Depression is a treatable with medication,

psychotherapy, and exercise.• Depression affects cognition!

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What We Know about Suicide in MS

• The suicide risk in MS is much higher than in the general population.

• The risk factors for suicide include: Depression Social isolation Recent loss of function Moderate disability Alcohol abuse

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Anxiety Plays a Role Too

• Anxiety affects at least a quarter of people with MS.• It may lead to an increase in physical complaints,

suicidal thinking, and alcohol consumption.• Anxiety is related to the unpredictability and

uncertainty of MS symptoms, course, and outcomes.

• It responds well to emotional support, active problem-

solving, and medication, if needed.

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Other Mood Changes Also Occur

• Moderate to severe shifts in mood may occur, including ups, downs, and a short fuse.

• Uncontrollable laughing and/or crying (pseudobulbar affect) occurs in about 10% of people.

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Cognitive Changes are an Additional Challenge

• More that 50% of people with MS experience cognitive changes.

• Changes can occur at any point in the disease course, even as a first symptom.

• While many functions can be affected, some are more likely to be affected than others.

Recent memory, attention/concentration, information processing are the most common.

• Compensatory strategies are essential.

• Adequately treating depression may improve cognitive functioning.

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The Role of the Self-Help Group

The self-help group is a place to:• Share helpful information and coping strategies• Give and receive emotional support • Engender hope• Develop personal insights• Feel less isolated – create personal connections• Feel more empowered

The support group cannot provide psychotherapy or take the place of professional help

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Optimizing Your Role as a SHG Leader

• Take care of yourself—helping yourself is the first step to helping others.

• Remember that you’re a member as well as a leader of the group.

• Work with a co-leader whenever possible.• Know your limits/maintain your boundaries.• Use the information in your SHGL manual.• Engage chapter staff for help with problem situations.

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Some Challenges You Identified

• Dealing with negativity• Stopping the non-stop talker• Giving and getting support in the group• Staying positive when you’re feeling negative• Providing extra support to someone in need• Dealing with depression and suicidal feelings—

someone else’s or your own• Dealing with cognitive challenges• Avoiding burnout

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What They All Have in Common

• Figuring out how to balance needs that sometimes conflict: Your own The needs of the group The needs of an individual

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Addressing Your Own Needs:

• Isn’t selfish!• Is the first step to being a productive group member

AND an effective group leader• Requires some important steps:

Acknowledging your feelings and needs to yourself and others;

Recognizing your own limitations Making sure that you’re tapping the resources

you need Working with a partner

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The Needs You Identified

• Support related to your own symptoms and challenges (physical, cognitive, emotional)

• Someone to step in when you’re feeling overwhelmed by your own stuff

• Ideas about how to provide more to your group members than you feel able to manage

• Help with your own feelings: grief, guilt, anxiety• Strategies for keeping the group upbeat

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Some Practical Tips

• Remember the flight attendant’s message. Pay attention to you own feelings. Check your gas tank (energy, emotional reserves) Get professional help if you need it.

• Take time to be a group member as well as a group leader. The group is for you too.

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Some Practical Tips

• Work with a co-leader to: Share the work Help manage the difficult group members Give each other breaks when needed

• Bring in a speaker to address a particular topic Local clinician to talk about a particular

symptom Chapter staff person to talk about local

resources

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Addressing the Needs of the Group

• Requires acknowledgement that over time, the needs of the group are “bigger” than the needs of any single individual

• Depends upon a mutually-agreed upon group culture and procedures

• Involves limit-setting and reinforcement• Requires being able to exclude someone from a

group if necessary

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The Needs You Identified

• Tips for dealing with members who negatively impact the group experience for others The non-stop talker The boring repeater The endless complainer The perpetually angry person The severely depressed person The person who’s always out of synch The person who ignores/refuses help

• Keeping the group upbeat and positive

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Some Practical Tips

• Work with group members to establish group norms: Culture of the group Format for group meetings Expectations for group members’ behavior Time limits and mechanism for monitoring them

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Some Practical Tips, cont’d

• Identify strategies to enforce the norms Group feedback to the individual Private conversations to reinforce the norms and

engage the person in solving the problem Recognition of underlying problem: depression?

cognitive problems? difficult personality? Assistance from Chapter staff

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Some Practical Tips, cont’d

• Encourage the group to develop a strategy for maintaining positive vibes Encourage open expression of feelings—positive

and negative (no Pollyannas allowed) Encourage each person to leave with at least one

action plan (no matter how small) to be implemented before the next meeting• Sometimes a buddy system can be helpful

Celebrate each and every positive step taken by group members

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Addressing the Needs of the Individual

• Providing individuals with opportunities to help develop/maintain/enhance/ the group’s culture

• Ensuring that each person has time to speak and share

• Creating a climate in which each person feels heard• Providing opportunities for people to gain

information/insight/resources/hope• Recognizing individuals who might be in need of

support/assistance that is beyond the scope of the group Resistance to norms Inability/unwillingness to follow through Constant belittling of everything and everybody

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The Needs You Identified

• Finding ways to prevent any single person from dominating the group

• Supporting someone with extra stresses (e.g., a dual diagnosis, a crisis at home, a new loss of function, a job loss)

• Helping the very angry or sad person to get to a more comfortable place

• Identifying the at-risk person• Wanting people to leave the group feeling

hopeful

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Some Practical Tips

• Establish/maintain group norms.• If necessary, get group buy-in to spend extra time on

one person’s issues at a given meeting.• Brainstorm about ways that the group can provide

extra support for those going through a difficult time (it’s not all on you!).

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Some Practical Tips, cont’d

• Remember that it often takes just one new resource, one new idea, one new strategy, to make things better.

• Remember that it’s OK for group members to be sad and angry; the important thing is to use that energy in a positive way.

• Be on the lookout for someone who can’t seem to make use of any helpful, supportive input.