10 Things You Must Do When Youre SingleCommunication
Relationships by Kyle Robbins So youre single? Whether you just got
out of a relationship or have lived the single life for a prolonged
period of time, being single has its advantages and disadvantages.
But no matter what youre feeling on your single status, one thing
remains true: you are free. And if you are like most people, it
means that you will, one day, find love again. So while youre on
your journey, here are 10 things you must do when youre single.Agan
menjomblo? Atau bagi yang rada jaim mungkin nyebutnya single
:ngakak. Mungkin agan menjomblo karena baru putus atau memang sudah
lama memutuskan untuk hidup sendiri, walau melajang itu punya
keuntungan dan kerugiannya tersendiri. Tapi tanpa menghiraukan
gimana perasaan agan sesungguhnya saat jomblo ini, ada SATU hal
yang pasti bener: KITA BEBAS GANN! Dan jika kita mudah bergaul
suatu saat pasti kita akan menemukan cinta lagi kok. Jadi saat di
perjalanan menjomblo ini, ada 10 hal yang MESTI kita lakukan saat
JOMBLO.
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1. Stay single for three months. Saat baru putus, single dulu 3
bulan.This is mostly for the newly single, but take your time. If
you just got out of a relationship, learn to enjoy life on your
own. Find the things that make you happy, do things that youve
wanted to do, and spend time without a significant other. Date if
you want, but do so casually. Learn what you like and dislike and
give yourself a hard, firm timeline to stay single. Youll find that
when you are content with being single, youll be less likely to
jump into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
Dikhususkan untuk Agan-agan yang baru putus, harap BERSABAR.
Kenapa mesti gan? Supaya agan mempelajari dulu arti hidup jika
sendirian. Cari hal-hal yang membuat anda bahagia, lakukan hal yang
anda tidak bisa lakukan saat anda sedang berpacaran dulu.
2. Take a trip with your best friend.Reconnect with your
friends. Take a long weekend trip to visit your hometown, visit a
new city with old friends, or hit up the beach with your best
friend. Spend time doing the things you love doing with the people
who know you best.3. Spend a weekend with a married couple.Find
some friends with a great relationship who are around your age and
hang out with them. See what they do well and get a view of your
struggles. Its easy to romanticize relationships and focus solely
on the honeymoon stage, but take time to see what a true, long-term
commitment should be based on.4. Travel. Visit a foreign country by
yourself.Be bold. Being in a relationship can be great, but the
logistics of taking a major trip can be a nightmare. Do it while
youre single! Visit Europe, backpack through Central America,
explore Australia, or visit the pyramids in Egypt. Youll find it
liberating and adventurous: a true, once in a lifetime opportunity.
And youll have great, interesting stories to tell on that first
date.5. Be picky. Dont fall too fast.Learn to say no. Its much too
easy to jump right back into a relationship if youre just out of
one, or jump too quickly at the first sign of sparks when youve
been single for a long period. Dont do it! Take the opportunity to
find someone who truly complements you, whom you have a deep
connection with, and whom you find attractive.6. Find yourself.The
easiest path to a happy, healthy relationship is understanding what
you like and what makes you happy. Take the time to find yourself
while youre single. Learn what you love, discover your goals and
ambitions, and write down your priorities. Make sure any
relationship going forward allows you the opportunity to be
yourself and reach your goals. Theres always give and take, but
make sure you have a firm understanding of where to draw the
line.7. Reconnect with old friends.Relationships, particularly
difficult ones, can be very hard on friendships. While youre
single, reconnect with old friends and create a meaningful, lasting
connection that can continue no matter what the relationship
status. Dont use friends as a crutch to fill the void of your lost
relationship, rather find ways to ensure that your friends and
family can stay part of any new relationship.8. Get in shape.When
youre single, you want to look and feel your best. Hit the gym and
get in shape! Youll feel better, have more confidence, and get your
next relationship off on the right foot. Find unique ways to get in
shape. Play tennis, golf, basketball, etc. You may find that you
meet someone who has the same interests.9. Actively meet new
people.Meet new people every day, or at least learn more about the
people you know. Its easy to sulk and feel isolated when you dont
have that special someone in your life. Dont be scared of online
dating and use all the tools available to you to meet people on
your terms. But dont stop there. Talking to people at your office,
at the store, at the gym, etc. is a great way to stay social with
no pressure. Its not just about finding someone new, rather its a
chance to become a more social, engaging person.10. Enjoy it.Being
single can be fun. Take it as a challenge. Learn about yourself.
Take chances. Go on trips. Being single doesnt have to be lonely or
filled with late nights in bars. Its a chance to discover what you
like, learn more about others, and take your time to find the
person of your dreams. So enjoy it.
