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““Equally Yoked Couples”Equally Yoked Couples”

…those dyadics who share the same of very similar ‘civil identities’1,2

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DisclaimerDisclaimerThis material may be quoted for educational projects –

i.e., graduate students, clinical researchers, and post-doctorate professionals

All quotations here within are actually either direct or paraphrased quotes from personal interviews, public lectures, or: formal clinical research journals or mass media publications.

So therefore, the use of any quotations here within is understood and therefore may be used for educational purposes in: counseling practicums, social psychology research, supervised clinical psychiatry and psychotherapy.

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An Example of “Equally-yoked”An Example of “Equally-yoked”

• Ethnicity• Political Party• Race• Color• Religion• Age• Disability• Sex (Female)• Marital Status

• Ethnicity• Political Party• Race• Color• Religion• Age• Disability• Sex (Male)• Marital Status

Sexual (pleasure preference) orientation Sexual (pleasure preference) orientation

Civil Identity #1 Civil Identity #2

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A Modern SocietyA Modern Society

“Right now, we are living in the midst of an ‘equallyokedtarian’ holocaust - ‘Equally Yoked’ couples are experiencing unremarkable rates of the threat of extinction by wars, malnutrition or starvation, lustful immorality, and corporate backed catastrophic financial disasters. And this demise of humanity is largely of our own human brand of making.” 3

Dr. ….……….PhD

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Multicultural FriendlyMulticultural Friendly

“In a multicultural-friendly society numerous equally yoked couples are on the brink of extinction. The number of unusual coupleships is astonishing.” 1, 4

Dr. ………. M.D.,Psychiatry

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Contemporary SocietyContemporary Society

“We are systematically by ‘leftist’ secularization polluting the minds of massive individuals and their families; illegal immigration, invasive occupation of foreign countries, rape and date rape-childbearing, and so, so, so, much more - introducing new combinations of ‘civil identities’ that out competes the indigenous ones; and moving unequallyoked couples from one place to another without regard for equallyokedtarians.” 3

Dr. …….…….DrPsySocial

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In a Multicultural SocietyIn a Multicultural Society

“The loss of the ‘equally yoked couple’ in a multicultural society is adversely affecting humanity, such that its is largely responsible for over-secularization.” 2

Dr. …………. PhD

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““..being socially secure…”..being socially secure…”

“Equally yoked Coupleships are about feeling the best one can be about intimacy, sex.. Being ‘equally yoked’ is about being socially secure in ‘who you are – as a couple’.”

Republic of Korea, 2012

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Feelings Speaks for…

“I feel more comfortable among family and friends.”

2001, an Equally-yokedtarian

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A Few Statements… USAA Few Statements… USA“All it is – is ‘equally yoked’ – simple.”

NY, 2000“It’s just perfectly natural to be ‘equally yoked’ ”

CO, 2002“Well, I feel better in an ‘equally yoked’ coupleship.”

CA, 2012“It’s a comfortable feeling to be ‘equally yoked’ ”.

TX, 2017“It feels more solid, more free to be ‘equally yoked’ ”

WDC, 2005

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““On the Street”On the Street”A few statements taken by interviews out on the street:

“Equally yoked has to do with love, a healthy mind and healthy relationship.”

“I adore (giggle) seeing the equally yoked Couples.”“Whatever the age - ‘equally yoked’ applies.”“Hey, I was born to be ‘equally yoked’.”“Yeah, I like being ‘equally yoked’.”“Indeed, I love and cherish my ‘equally yoked help meet’”“It was just how I was raised, …to be ‘equally yoked’.”“It’s (being equally yoked) for me.”

New York, 2001Psychology Student

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No one has a “perfect” coupleshipNo one has a “perfect” coupleship

“The time spent out in society acquiring a realistic perspective on ‘normal’ relationships can be a challenge. The more aware of our relationships, e.g., our coupleship archetecture, the more likely we are to care about it. No one has a “perfect” coupleship and couples come in a variety of different and diverse ‘civil identities’ matched and mismatched.”

South Africa, 2001

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“…“…true coupleship values…”true coupleship values…”

“An “Equally yoked” Coupleship embraces a philosophy that encourages all romantic couples to ‘couple up’ by the same ‘civil identity’ and learn more about what a ‘true’ coupleship values are really is about.”

Italy, 2001

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““...the cultural typology…”...the cultural typology…”

“There is certain deep subconscious shame, public criticism, and social consequences of the cultural typology in the unequally yoked.”

Russia, 2016

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……out on College Campuses:out on College Campuses:“All it is – is ‘equally yoked’ – simple.” “It’s perfectly natural to be ‘equally yoked’.”“It feels really good to be ‘equally yoked’.”“I’m comfortable to be’ equally yoked’.”“It feels exuberating to be ‘equally yoked’.” “I actually feel more comfortable among family and friends.”“I feel a sense of freedom in America being ‘equally yoked’.”“I feel God created the ‘equally yoked’ relationship in the

beginning just for us.“Well, God meant for us to be ‘equally yoked’, I feel.“Equally yoked? It means true happiness.”

USA, UK, Canada, AustraiiaPsychology Project

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“…“…comfortable…”comfortable…”

“Equally yoked couples who are comfortable about being just that - ‘equally yoked’ are readying themselves for personal and public success as a ‘couple’.”

Brazil, 1991

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“…“…best examples…”best examples…”

“Out in public nobody cares about your ‘civil identity’ - or so that’s what secularism demands. Because those who are ‘equally yoked’ together are societies’ best examples in a multi-culturalism.”

Indonesia, 1999

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“…“…welcomed…”welcomed…”

“Almost anywhere you go in the community, as an ‘equally yoked’ couple you will be welcomed.”

Canada 2006

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“…“…a wholesome way of life.”a wholesome way of life.”

“The ‘equally yoked’ couple was God’s creation for human kind (and a lot of mammals as well). Being in an equally yoked coupleship is a wholesome (psychosocial) way of life.”

Japan, 2004

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““A Fact of Life”A Fact of Life”

“As humans, it is a fact of life, that not all couples are ‘equally yoked’, in fact there are mounting numbers of unequally yoked’.” “…Old philosophers asserted that it is because of the unequally yoked that there are so many ‘wars’ around the world. It is just a fact of life – unchanged.”

Argentina, 1998

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““..a friendly kind.”..a friendly kind.”

“People who are ‘equally yoked’ are usually found to be of a friendly kind.”

China, 2000

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Scientists and AmateursScientists and Amateurs“Scientists (of the social sciences) have identified

‘equally yoked’ couples as a ‘more perfect union.’”Australia, 2000

“Whatever the species of mammal here on earth, whether it’s human or animal - pairing off as ‘equally yoked’ can be readily identified, even by amateurs.

Hawaii, 2001

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““..teach their values..”..teach their values..”

“Many people who partake of ‘equally yoked’ coupleships extend their values into family. It is not uncommon for an ‘equally yoked’ couple to teach their values to their children. Rightly so.”

France, 2003

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““Societies’ Best”Societies’ Best”

“Children should be taught that being ‘unequally yoked’ isn’t uncool, horrible, or utterly deplorable, but it is a mistaken choice by those of poor family values. By being comfortable around ‘equally yoked’ couples in any situations that arises can be simple pointed out as societies best.”

Germany, 2005Social

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Equally Yoked FamiliesEqually Yoked Families

“Some ‘equally yoked’ couples have ‘family ties’ to other family members who are too – equallyokedtarians. Children should be taught of the nominclature - ‘equally yoked’ meaning when a romantic couple pair off that they should be of the same of similar ‘civil identity’ for life.”

India, 1999

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“…“…right doing…”right doing…”

“Children should learn to associate ‘equally yoked’ coupleships’ with ‘right doing’ and ‘unequally yoked coupleships’ are ‘simply not the best’ or of ‘wrong’ social mores.”

Australia,1999

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““Equally Yoked Couples”Equally Yoked Couples”

…those dyadics who share the same of very similar ‘civil identities’1,2

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DisclaimerDisclaimerThis material may be quoted for educational projects –

i.e., graduate students, clinical researchers, and post-doctorate professionals

All quotations here within are actually either direct or paraphrased quotes from personal interviews, public lectures, or: formal clinical research journals or mass media publications.

So therefore, the use of any quotations here within is understood and therefore may be used for educational purposes in: counseling practicums, social psychology research, supervised clinical psychiatry and psychotherapy.

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““Equally Yoked Couples”Equally Yoked Couples”

…those dyadics who share the same or very similar ‘civil identities’1,2

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