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These slides support the LIS Coffee Morning held on April 17, 2013, titled Cyber Safety: A Guide to Facebook for Parents.

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  • 1. and Your Child Luanda International SchoolAli Shebani - Secondary Guidance CounselorElni Thomaidis da Silva - Child PsychologistKaty Vance - Secondary Librarian

2. You know youre living in the 21st Century when...1. You accidentally enter your password on themicrowave.2. You havent played solitaire with real cards in years.3. You have a list of 15 phone numbers to reach yourfamily of three.4. You e-mail your mate who works at the desk next toyou.5. Your reason for not staying in touch with friends isthat they do not have e-mail addresses 3. Outline of the Morning Teens, the Net & Social Networking Positive Aspects of Facebook Concerns with Facebook & Students Understanding Facebook settings Blocking, Reporting, Privacy Settings Advice for Parents 4. You think of technology as a tool We think of it as a foundation; it underlies everything we do.Mark Prensky- Our Brains Extended Photo by Flickr User ~C4Chaos under CC BY-NC-SA 2.0 5. Teens and Computers93% of teens have a computer or access to onePhoto by Flickr User: Enokson under a CC BY 2.0 license 6. Teens & Cell Phones78% of teens have a cell phonePhoto by Flickr User: JR_Paris under a CC BY-NC-ND 2.0 license 7. Social Media SitesNearly 73% of Online Teens use Social Networking Sites.Photo by Flickr User: DigitalRalph under a CC BY 2.0 license 8. Chart from Pew Research Report Teens, Kindness and Cruelty on Social Network Sites 9. Tug Of WarPhoto by Flickr User: ILRI under a CC BY-NC-SA 2.0 license 9 10. This can be a good thing!Photo by Flickr User: Robert S. Donovan under a CC BY 2.0 license 11. Study GroupsResearch Support 12. Health and WellnessNews Resources 13. Community Connections 14. Concerns for Parents Bullying Safety & Privacy 14 15. Facebook, Feelings and FightingChart from Pew Research Report Teens, Kindness and Cruelty on Social Network Sites 16. What are theissues? 17. Its not all good, all the time.Photo by Flickr user Amanda Gravel under CC BY-NC-SA 2.0 license 18. 15% experienced crueltySocial Networks = Unkind Places1 in 3 (33%) Younger Teen Girls9% of Younger Teen Boys18% of Older Teen BoysPhoto by Flickr user Amanda Gravel under CC BY-NC-SA 2.0 license 19. Keyboard HeroesPhoto used for educational purposes only. Fromhttp://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/picturegalleries/howaboutthat/7892000/Eskil-Ronningsbakken-the-daredevil-who-balances-on-the-edge-of-1000ft-cliffs-in-Norw 20. Turn to Your Neighbor20 21. Facts and Figures Of teens with an online profile, 32% have receivedsome type of harassment online. 15% have had private info forwarded without their permission 13% received threatening messages 13% said someone spread a rumor about them online 6% had someone post an embarrassing picture of them online without permission Source: Pew Internet Research, 2009 21 22. How Much Are You Revealing? TextAnd Who is Checking You Out? 23. Popularity Contest 24. The Facebook Experiment 25. "Sexy" or Inappropriate PhotosImages by Laura Reyome, who illustrated the article this drawing is from: Applying to College? Twelve Facebook Photos you should delete now http://collegeapps.about.com/od/theartofgettingaccepted/ss/bad-facebook-photos.htm Used for educational purposes only. 26. Tag, Youre It! Photo (used for educational purposes only) from Cult of Mac blog post: 26http://www.cultofmac.com/157641/this-creepy-app-isnt-just-stalking-women-without-their-knowledge-its-a-wake-up-call-about-facebook-privacy/ 27. Facebook Settings 28. Parenting StrategiesPhoto by DeviantArt user Loor101 under a CC BY-SA 3.0 license 30 29. Facts and Figures cont. 2 in 5 teens tell their parents nothing about whatthey do online. 1 in 4 teens who have restrictions online can find away around them. 44% of parents do not limit what their children doonline whatsoever. Source: Cox Communications, 2009 50% of all teens have a computer in their bedroom.Source: University of Toronto, 2009National Crime Prevention Councilwww.ncpc.org 30. Get On FacebookThe screenshot of this status update (and other LOL-tastic classics) is from http://myparentsjoinedfacebook.com/. 32 31. Turn to Your Neighbor33 32. Facebook SettingsYou need to know How to set your privacy settingsappropriately (not at the default level). How to block someone. How to report someone. How to deactivate your account. When in doubt, just log out. 34 33. Understanding Facebook Settings 34. Review Important SettingsTogether 36 35. Empower Your Teen37 36. Encourage Teens to Self-Reflect Before they Self-Reveal* adapted from Presentation:Facebook for Parents of teens http://www.iteachithink.com/2012/09/presentation-facebook-for-parents-of.html38 37. Talk to your Teen about their Friends 39 38. Dont Believe Everything You See Drawing by DeviantArt user ~xHybridus under a CC BY-SA 3.0 license 40 39. Discuss Page and SettingsFrequently Photo from Flickr User damon.garrett under a CC BY 2.0Even When They Dont Want To41 40. Monitor Internet Use & Time Online Meme from Lolhappens user bites85: http://www.lolhappens.com/75670/sleeps-late-every-night-regrets-it-every-morning/42 41. Its a Balancing Act CC BY-SA 3.0Photo from Wikimedia Commons User Usien under a CC BY-SA 3.0 license 43 42. Learn More About Facebook & Teens Facebooks Parents Page 44 43. Are you ready for this? Photo from Flickr User Tanzen80 under a CC BY-SA 2.0 45 44. Videos and Further Resources Facebook Privacy Shortcuts Tutorial 2013:http://youtu.be/NI92-AcJweA Very Short Facebook Settings Tutorial:http://youtu.be/-dJz_5pd33w Common Sense Media:http://www.commonsensemedia.org/ Facebook Parents Page:http://www.facebook.com/safety/groups/parents/ 45. BibliographyBrookhouser, Kevin. "Presentation: Facebook for Parents of Teens." Web log post. I Teach. I Think. N.p., 19 Sept.2012. Web. 17 Apr. 2013. .Brownlee, John. "This Creepy App Isnt Just Stalking Women Without Their Knowledge, Its A Wake-Up CallAbout Facebook Privacy [Update]." Cult of Mac. Cultomedia Corp, 30 Mar. 2012. Web. 17 Apr. 2013.."Facebook for Parents." Common Sense Media, 3 Oct. 2011. Web. 17 Apr. 2013.."Global Digital Communication: Texting, Social Networking Popular Worldwide." Pew Global Attitudes Project.Pew Research, 29 Feb. 2012. Web. 15 Apr. 2013. http://www.pewglobal.org/2011/12/20/global-digital-communication-texting-social-networking-popular-worldwide/.Prensky, Marc. "Our Brains Extended." Educational Leadership 70.6 (2013): 22-27.Educational Leadership.ASCD, Mar. 2013. Web. 15 Apr. 2013."Social Networking Tips." Common Sense Media. N.p., 17 Oct. 2011. Web. 17 Apr. 2013.."Teens, Kindness and Cruelty on Social Network Sites." Facebook Dominates Teen Social Media Usage. PewResearch, 9 Nov. 2011. Web. 15 Apr. 2013. .