West ridge academy's advice on how you can reinforce the confidence in your children

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If your child is shy, it's time to help. Taking actions is the most important thing when it comes to your kids future, if you ask West Ridge Academy professionals.

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  • 1. West Ridge Academys Advice On How You Can ReinforceThe Confidence In Your ChildrenWest Ridge Academy states that its just natural for kids to be shy up to a certain age. But afterreaching a particular age, he should have already overcome his shyness otherwise you mayhave a cause to be alarmed.Children aged two or three years old are often shy under social situations. Most of themovercome this initial shyness rather easily though, once they get the hang of things and theyfind other kids to play with.Children over the age of three or four that still remain painfully shy may have to be given moreattention. There will always be naturally shy people but most of them manage to overcome thisdefault behavior if they are called to voice out or air their side on certain issues and concerns.Shyness can become a burden however once a person allows it to win and he retreats in fearwhen faced with a social situation, thus effectively stifling your creativity or your chance atmaking acquaintances.West Ridge Academy says that to ensure that your child will not fall prey to this debilitatingsocial impediment and live his life to the fullest extent possible, you need to take note of thefollowing factors:Acceptance: Do not pressure your child into becoming something that he is not. As alreadymentioned above, shyness should not really be taken as a negative especially if its a personsnatural characteristic, but he must be able to control this and conquer it if and when necessary.Avoid attacks his shyness directly as a fault, as he may lose his self-esteem even more and thisis the exact opposite of what you want to happen. It is important that you focus on his positiveattributes and emphasize to him the need for voicing his opinion if necessary.Stay away from labels: Never attach labels. If you use labels frequently enough, kids will buyinto the idea and will eventually accept that its really who they are even though they could havebeen able to overcome it initially. Worse, he may even use this as an excuse in order to bail outon uncomfortable or difficult situations which he doesnt feel like taking on.Encouragement: Do not push him into social situations. Rather, be creative in trying to comeup with ways to cajole him into joining the group with his own intention. One very powerful toolthat can help him control his shyness would be to hold his hand while you approach a group ofplaying children. It is not good to compare him with the other children because he might feelinferior and he will lose his self-esteem even more.Practice: According to West Ridge Academy, you can build up his confidence by engaging insome role-play using toys or characters that he is familiar with. It will give him ideas on how toapproach a play group on his own, essentially solving the problem on his own. For instance, youcould ask your child to play his favorite action figure and then ask him for his ideas on how hewould handle certain awkward situations. Subconsciously, he will be able to absorb thesestrategies himself and apply it to actual situations.