I Am In Love with My Boss

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Question: • I am a medical doctor • I report to a more senior doctor

who has been my mentor since we were students

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• He is very critical of me • He once said he will never date

another doctor • He is involved with an architect

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• I have feelings for him • How do I control my feelings in

his presence?

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Answer: • You find the balance to control

your feelings. • He is not interested in you as a

woman, but he does notice you as a colleague

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• It is quite OK to like him • Find a good trait for every bad

trait that you see in him, and the other way round

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• Because you focus on his good traits you put him on a pedestal

• Find the downside of his good traits and you will feel different about his criticism

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• Once you have found balance, you will be in a better position to decide whether his criticism is valid

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• Where he does have a point, you will be able to take his advice

• Where he is feeding his own ego, you will be able to give his criticism right back to him without feeling embarrassed.

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