29
Preserving Preserving Relationshi Relationshi ps ps Lesson 2 Lesson 2

02 preserving relationships

Embed Size (px)

DESCRIPTION

 

Citation preview

Page 1: 02 preserving relationships

Preserving Preserving RelationshipsRelationships

Preserving Preserving RelationshipsRelationships

Lesson 2Lesson 2

Page 2: 02 preserving relationships

Key Text: Key Text:

““For what is our hope, or joy, or For what is our hope, or joy, or crown of rejoicing? Is it not even you crown of rejoicing? Is it not even you in the presence of our Lord Jesus in the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ at His coming? For you are our Christ at His coming? For you are our glory and joy” glory and joy” (1 Thessalonians2:19, 20, NKJV).(1 Thessalonians2:19, 20, NKJV).

Key Thought: Key Thought: True evangelism leads to relationships True evangelism leads to relationships that can stand the test of time and last for eternity.that can stand the test of time and last for eternity.Key Thought: Key Thought: True evangelism leads to relationships True evangelism leads to relationships that can stand the test of time and last for eternity.that can stand the test of time and last for eternity.

Page 3: 02 preserving relationships

INTRODUCTION:INTRODUCTION:

Paul held a three-week series of Paul held a three-week series of evangelistic meetings in Thessa-evangelistic meetings in Thessa-lonica. It was a very exciting series, lonica. It was a very exciting series, but it incited opposition from localbut it incited opposition from localreligious leaders and from a gang religious leaders and from a gang of thugs. of thugs. Paul was finally expelled Paul was finally expelled by the city council, which also by the city council, which also sought to prevent his return.sought to prevent his return.

This lesson covers the aftermath of Paul’s attempt to evangelizeThis lesson covers the aftermath of Paul’s attempt to evangelizeThessalonica. It would have been easy after such an experience Thessalonica. It would have been easy after such an experience for Paul to focus on the opposition and on other obstacles along for Paul to focus on the opposition and on other obstacles along the way. the way. Instead, Paul’s mind was focused primarily on the Instead, Paul’s mind was focused primarily on the relationships that he had developed with members of the new relationships that he had developed with members of the new Christian community in Thessalonica.Christian community in Thessalonica.

Page 4: 02 preserving relationships

Paul was heartbroken that he Paul was heartbroken that he wasn’t able to spend more time wasn’t able to spend more time with the believers. with the believers. He knew that He knew that the short time he had been with the short time he had been with them would leave them vulnera-them would leave them vulnera-ble to discouragement and ble to discouragement and negative influences. negative influences. Not being Not being able to be there in person, he able to be there in person, he was inspired by the Holy Spirit to was inspired by the Holy Spirit to write letters to them instead. write letters to them instead. Those letters make up theThose letters make up thebooks in the New Testament books in the New Testament known as known as “Thessalonians.”“Thessalonians.”

Page 5: 02 preserving relationships

11. Opposition in Thessalonica

Read Read Acts 17:5–9Acts 17:5–9. According . According to this passage, what was the to this passage, what was the primary motivation for the primary motivation for the opposition to Paul’ message? opposition to Paul’ message? What statements did his What statements did his opponents make to get the opponents make to get the city authorities interested in city authorities interested in the case? How did those the case? How did those authorities respond?authorities respond?

When someone preaches new teachings and people get excited, theWhen someone preaches new teachings and people get excited, theleaders and teachers of other religious groups may become jealous.leaders and teachers of other religious groups may become jealous.Attention that was once placed upon them is now directed to others.Attention that was once placed upon them is now directed to others.As a result, they may behave in irrational ways in order to try toAs a result, they may behave in irrational ways in order to try toreduce the influence of the new teacher.reduce the influence of the new teacher.

When someone preaches new teachings and people get excited, theWhen someone preaches new teachings and people get excited, theleaders and teachers of other religious groups may become jealous.leaders and teachers of other religious groups may become jealous.Attention that was once placed upon them is now directed to others.Attention that was once placed upon them is now directed to others.As a result, they may behave in irrational ways in order to try toAs a result, they may behave in irrational ways in order to try toreduce the influence of the new teacher.reduce the influence of the new teacher.

Page 6: 02 preserving relationships

According to the Roman histo-According to the Roman histo-rian Suetonius, shortly before rian Suetonius, shortly before the events described in the events described in Acts 17Acts 17, , conflict arose among the Jews conflict arose among the Jews of Rome over a man Suetonius of Rome over a man Suetonius calls calls “Chrestus.” “Chrestus.” This term pro-This term pro-bably reflects a Roman misun-bably reflects a Roman misun-derstanding of the Jewish con-derstanding of the Jewish con-cept of the Messiah or, in Greek, cept of the Messiah or, in Greek, “the Christ.” “the Christ.” Apparently some-Apparently some-one’s preaching of the gospel one’s preaching of the gospel had just split the Jewish had just split the Jewish community of Rome.community of Rome.

According to the Roman histo-According to the Roman histo-rian Suetonius, shortly before rian Suetonius, shortly before the events described in the events described in Acts 17Acts 17, , conflict arose among the Jews conflict arose among the Jews of Rome over a man Suetonius of Rome over a man Suetonius calls calls “Chrestus.” “Chrestus.” This term pro-This term pro-bably reflects a Roman misun-bably reflects a Roman misun-derstanding of the Jewish con-derstanding of the Jewish con-cept of the Messiah or, in Greek, cept of the Messiah or, in Greek, “the Christ.” “the Christ.” Apparently some-Apparently some-one’s preaching of the gospel one’s preaching of the gospel had just split the Jewish had just split the Jewish community of Rome.community of Rome.

To Roman officials, debate over the Messiah sounded like To Roman officials, debate over the Messiah sounded like preparationpreparation

for the installation of a new king on the throne of Rome for the installation of a new king on the throne of Rome (see Acts(see Acts17:7).17:7). Probably for that reason the emperor expelled all Jews fromProbably for that reason the emperor expelled all Jews from

his capital city his capital city (Acts 18:2). (Acts 18:2). Some of these exiles settled in or passedSome of these exiles settled in or passedthrough Thessalonica, bringing knowledge of these events to the city.through Thessalonica, bringing knowledge of these events to the city.

Because the gospel had turned the world of Rome’s Jews upsideBecause the gospel had turned the world of Rome’s Jews upsidedown, religious leaders in Thessalonica were determined to preventdown, religious leaders in Thessalonica were determined to prevent

something similar from happening there.something similar from happening there.

To Roman officials, debate over the Messiah sounded like To Roman officials, debate over the Messiah sounded like preparationpreparation

for the installation of a new king on the throne of Rome for the installation of a new king on the throne of Rome (see Acts(see Acts17:7).17:7). Probably for that reason the emperor expelled all Jews fromProbably for that reason the emperor expelled all Jews from

his capital city his capital city (Acts 18:2). (Acts 18:2). Some of these exiles settled in or passedSome of these exiles settled in or passedthrough Thessalonica, bringing knowledge of these events to the city.through Thessalonica, bringing knowledge of these events to the city.

Because the gospel had turned the world of Rome’s Jews upsideBecause the gospel had turned the world of Rome’s Jews upsidedown, religious leaders in Thessalonica were determined to preventdown, religious leaders in Thessalonica were determined to prevent

something similar from happening there.something similar from happening there.

Page 7: 02 preserving relationships

To Roman officials, debate To Roman officials, debate over the Messiah sounded over the Messiah sounded like preparation for the ins-like preparation for the ins-tallation of a new king on the tallation of a new king on the throne of Rome throne of Rome (see (see ActsActs17:7). 17:7). Probably for that rea-Probably for that rea-son the emperor expelled son the emperor expelled all Jews from his capital city all Jews from his capital city (Acts 18:2). (Acts 18:2). Some of these Some of these exiles settled in or passedexiles settled in or passedthrough Thessalonica, brin-through Thessalonica, brin-ging knowledge of these ging knowledge of these events to the city.events to the city.

Because the gospel had turned the world of Rome’s Jews Because the gospel had turned the world of Rome’s Jews upside down, religious leaders in Thessalonica were deter-upside down, religious leaders in Thessalonica were deter-mined to prevent something similar from happening there.mined to prevent something similar from happening there.

To Roman officials, debate To Roman officials, debate over the Messiah sounded over the Messiah sounded like preparation for the ins-like preparation for the ins-tallation of a new king on the tallation of a new king on the throne of Rome throne of Rome (see (see ActsActs17:7). 17:7). Probably for that rea-Probably for that rea-son the emperor expelled son the emperor expelled all Jews from his capital city all Jews from his capital city (Acts 18:2). (Acts 18:2). Some of these Some of these exiles settled in or passedexiles settled in or passedthrough Thessalonica, brin-through Thessalonica, brin-ging knowledge of these ging knowledge of these events to the city.events to the city.

Because the gospel had turned the world of Rome’s Jews Because the gospel had turned the world of Rome’s Jews upside down, religious leaders in Thessalonica were deter-upside down, religious leaders in Thessalonica were deter-mined to prevent something similar from happening there.mined to prevent something similar from happening there.

Page 8: 02 preserving relationships

Thessalonica itself was Thessalonica itself was ruled by a city council of ruled by a city council of perhaps five or six “mayors” perhaps five or six “mayors” who made decisions as a who made decisions as a group. group. This arrangement This arrangement Allowed for a considerable Allowed for a considerable amount of independence amount of independence from Rome, which theyfrom Rome, which theywould be loath to give up. would be loath to give up.

So, the behavior of the city officials in this matter was quite So, the behavior of the city officials in this matter was quite impressive under the circumstances. The similarity to impressive under the circumstances. The similarity to recent events in Rome could have led to severe physical recent events in Rome could have led to severe physical punish-ment for the new Christians. Instead, the city leaders punish-ment for the new Christians. Instead, the city leaders responded even-handedly responded even-handedly (contrast Acts 16:22–40). (contrast Acts 16:22–40). They They took a significant amount of took a significant amount of money from the new Christians money from the new Christians as security so that they would not be the cause of further as security so that they would not be the cause of further disturbances. Then the leaders let everyone go.disturbances. Then the leaders let everyone go.

Page 9: 02 preserving relationships

Jealousy and envy can destroy us. Jealousy and envy can destroy us. What can we learn from the life and What can we learn from the life and

teachings of Jesus that can help us to teachings of Jesus that can help us to gain victory over these deadly gain victory over these deadly

sentiments?sentiments?

REFLECTION:REFLECTION:

Page 10: 02 preserving relationships

2. The Episode in Berea2. The Episode in Berea2. The Episode in Berea2. The Episode in Berea

Persecution can be a two-way street. Persecution can be a two-way street. It is often provoked by malicious It is often provoked by malicious slander against those who have done nothing wrong. But it can also be slander against those who have done nothing wrong. But it can also be provoked by inappropriate actions on the part of believers provoked by inappropriate actions on the part of believers (1 Pet. 3:13–(1 Pet. 3:13–16, 4:12–16). 16, 4:12–16). It is very likely that the disturbance in Thessalonica was It is very likely that the disturbance in Thessalonica was

prompted not only by the jealousy of Paul’s opponents but also by the prompted not only by the jealousy of Paul’s opponents but also by the inappropriate actions of the new believers. inappropriate actions of the new believers. The two letters to the The two letters to the

Thessalonians reveal that Paul had major concerns about the lack of Thessalonians reveal that Paul had major concerns about the lack of appropriate public behavior by some in the church.appropriate public behavior by some in the church.

Persecution can be a two-way street. Persecution can be a two-way street. It is often provoked by malicious It is often provoked by malicious slander against those who have done nothing wrong. But it can also be slander against those who have done nothing wrong. But it can also be provoked by inappropriate actions on the part of believers provoked by inappropriate actions on the part of believers (1 Pet. 3:13–(1 Pet. 3:13–16, 4:12–16). 16, 4:12–16). It is very likely that the disturbance in Thessalonica was It is very likely that the disturbance in Thessalonica was

prompted not only by the jealousy of Paul’s opponents but also by the prompted not only by the jealousy of Paul’s opponents but also by the inappropriate actions of the new believers. inappropriate actions of the new believers. The two letters to the The two letters to the

Thessalonians reveal that Paul had major concerns about the lack of Thessalonians reveal that Paul had major concerns about the lack of appropriate public behavior by some in the church.appropriate public behavior by some in the church.

Page 11: 02 preserving relationships

Paul urges the Thessalonian Christians to live quiet lives and behave Paul urges the Thessalonian Christians to live quiet lives and behave properly among their Gentile neighbors properly among their Gentile neighbors (1 Thess. 4:11, 12).(1 Thess. 4:11, 12).He admoni-He admoni-shes the unruly among them shes the unruly among them (1 Thess. 5:14). (1 Thess. 5:14). He commands He commands them to them to

avoid those in the community who are disorderly avoid those in the community who are disorderly (2 Thess. 3:6, 7).(2 Thess. 3:6, 7). And And he notes that some members of the church are not only disorderly and he notes that some members of the church are not only disorderly and idle but have become idle but have become “busybodies” “busybodies” (2 Thess. 3:11). (2 Thess. 3:11). Thus, some mem-Thus, some mem-bers were not only troublesome to the church but also to the wider so-bers were not only troublesome to the church but also to the wider so-

ciety. The persecution in Thessalonica was malicious, but there was ciety. The persecution in Thessalonica was malicious, but there was blameworthy behavior among some new Christians, as well.blameworthy behavior among some new Christians, as well.

Page 12: 02 preserving relationships

How was Paul’s How was Paul’s experience in experience in Berea different Berea different from that infrom that inThessalonica? Thessalonica? See Acts 17:10–See Acts 17:10–15. 15. What’s the What’s the message for us message for us inin that that difference?difference?

How was Paul’s How was Paul’s experience in experience in Berea different Berea different from that infrom that inThessalonica? Thessalonica? See Acts 17:10–See Acts 17:10–15. 15. What’s the What’s the message for us message for us inin that that difference?difference?

The Bereans were eager to know more about God and to better understand their Bibles. But while they liste-ned with much openness, they also tested everything they heard from the apostles on the basis of what they found in their own study of the Old Testament.

The Bereans were eager to know more about God and to better understand their Bibles. But while they liste-ned with much openness, they also tested everything they heard from the apostles on the basis of what they found in their own study of the Old Testament.

Page 13: 02 preserving relationships

This is an example for us. This is an example for us. We can We can be open to new ideas, but we be open to new ideas, but we must always test these ideas on must always test these ideas on the basis of the teachings of the the basis of the teachings of the Bible. Bible. We have many things to We have many things to learn and many to unlearn. At the learn and many to unlearn. At the same time, we must be careful to same time, we must be careful to avoid error, as it will lead us away avoid error, as it will lead us away from truth. from truth. While troublemakers While troublemakers from Thessalonica soon inserted from Thessalonica soon inserted themselves into the Berean themselves into the Berean situation, the Jews there did not situation, the Jews there did not close their minds to the new close their minds to the new message; indeed, message; indeed, “many of the “many of the Jews believed” Jews believed” (vs. 12). (vs. 12). WhileWhile it it was thought expedient for Paul to was thought expedient for Paul to move on to Athens, Silas andmove on to Athens, Silas andTimothy were allowed to remain Timothy were allowed to remain in Berea in order to encourage in Berea in order to encourage and strengthen the new believers.and strengthen the new believers.

Page 14: 02 preserving relationships

What are some examples of the Christian What are some examples of the Christian church acting in ways that were clearly in church acting in ways that were clearly in

the wrong? What lessons can we learn the wrong? What lessons can we learn from those mistakes? Bring your answers from those mistakes? Bring your answers

to class on Sabbath.to class on Sabbath.

REFLECTION:REFLECTION:

Page 15: 02 preserving relationships

3. 3. Interlude in Athens

According to According to Acts 17:14–16Acts 17:14–16, , Silas and Timothy stayed in Berea while Silas and Timothy stayed in Berea while Paul was escorted to Athens.Paul was escorted to Athens. Paul instructed his escorts to have Silas Paul instructed his escorts to have Silas and Timothy join him in Athens, but there is no mention of their doing and Timothy join him in Athens, but there is no mention of their doing

so. so. On the other hand, in On the other hand, in 1 Thessalonians 3:1, 21 Thessalonians 3:1, 2, we learn that Paul , we learn that Paul sent Timothy back to Thessalonica from Athens. So, Timothy, at least, sent Timothy back to Thessalonica from Athens. So, Timothy, at least,

seems to have joined him there for a short time.seems to have joined him there for a short time.

According to According to Acts 17:14–16Acts 17:14–16, , Silas and Timothy stayed in Berea while Silas and Timothy stayed in Berea while Paul was escorted to Athens.Paul was escorted to Athens. Paul instructed his escorts to have Silas Paul instructed his escorts to have Silas and Timothy join him in Athens, but there is no mention of their doing and Timothy join him in Athens, but there is no mention of their doing

so. so. On the other hand, in On the other hand, in 1 Thessalonians 3:1, 21 Thessalonians 3:1, 2, we learn that Paul , we learn that Paul sent Timothy back to Thessalonica from Athens. So, Timothy, at least, sent Timothy back to Thessalonica from Athens. So, Timothy, at least,

seems to have joined him there for a short time.seems to have joined him there for a short time.

Page 16: 02 preserving relationships

When speaking to Jews in Acts 17:2, 3Acts 17:2, 3, Paul begins with the theme of the Messiah in the Old Testament. When speaking to the pagan philosophers of Athens (Acts (Acts 17:16–34), 17:16–34), where does hebegin? What can we learn from these different approaches?

Paul does not simply enter Athens, march up to the Areopagus (known Paul does not simply enter Athens, march up to the Areopagus (known also as Mars’ Hill), and engage the philosophers there. He begins by also as Mars’ Hill), and engage the philosophers there. He begins by spending some time walking around and making his own observations. spending some time walking around and making his own observations. He also engages the Jews of Athens and some of the Greeks in the He also engages the Jews of Athens and some of the Greeks in the synagogue there. Besides evangelizing to them in his customary way synagogue there. Besides evangelizing to them in his customary way (see Acts 17:2, 3), (see Acts 17:2, 3), he also would have been learning about the dominant he also would have been learning about the dominant culture in the city. culture in the city. The first step in any missionary effort is to listen and The first step in any missionary effort is to listen and learn about the faith and worldviews of the people you are trying to learn about the faith and worldviews of the people you are trying to reach.reach.

Page 17: 02 preserving relationships

Paul also spent time in the mar-Paul also spent time in the mar-ketplace of Athensketplace of Athens (which was (which wasbelow and within sight of the below and within sight of the Areopagus, or Mars’ Hill), Areopagus, or Mars’ Hill), reaso-reaso-Ning with anyone willing to talk Ning with anyone willing to talk with him. with him. In the process he pro-In the process he pro-Voked the curiosity of some Epi-Voked the curiosity of some Epi-curean and Stoic philosophers, curean and Stoic philosophers, Who invited him to address Who invited him to address them them in the traditional place for such in the traditional place for such discussions.discussions.He began his address to the intellectuals of Athens with observationsHe began his address to the intellectuals of Athens with observationsabout their city and religions. His theological beginning point was about their city and religions. His theological beginning point was Creation, a topic in which both he and they were interested. Creation, a topic in which both he and they were interested. In con-In con-trast with his approach in the synagogue, he did not argue his case trast with his approach in the synagogue, he did not argue his case from Scripture but from writings with which they would have been from Scripture but from writings with which they would have been familiar familiar (Acts 17:27, 28 (Acts 17:27, 28 both echo and quote Greek writers).both echo and quote Greek writers).

Page 18: 02 preserving relationships

But when he But when he stepped into stepped into territory that territory that went beyond went beyond the boundaries the boundaries of topics where of topics where they were intellectually comfortable, the philosophers they were intellectually comfortable, the philosophers seemed to have abruptly ended the discussion. A few seemed to have abruptly ended the discussion. A few individuals, however, continued to talk with Paul and individuals, however, continued to talk with Paul and became believers.became believers.

Page 19: 02 preserving relationships

How well do we understand the How well do we understand the worldviews and religious beliefsworldviews and religious beliefs

of those around us? Why is it important of those around us? Why is it important for us to have at least some knowledge for us to have at least some knowledge of these things as we seek to witness?of these things as we seek to witness?

REFLECTION:REFLECTION:

Page 20: 02 preserving relationships

4. Arrival in Corinth4. Arrival in Corinth

Acts 18:1–18 Acts 18:1–18 contains contains two major intersections two major intersections with secular history. with secular history. The first is the expulsion The first is the expulsion of the Jews from Rome of the Jews from Rome during the reign during the reign Of ClaudiusOf Claudius (Acts 18:2). (Acts 18:2).

Information from extra Information from extra biblical sources locatesbiblical sources locatesthis event in a.d. 49. The this event in a.d. 49. The other major intersection other major intersection is the mention of the proconsul is the mention of the proconsul Gallio Gallio (Acts 18:12). (Acts 18:12). Because procon-Because procon-suls in Corinth were appointed for one-year terms, information from suls in Corinth were appointed for one-year terms, information from inscriptions and other data accurately dates Gallio’s term of office to inscriptions and other data accurately dates Gallio’s term of office to a.d. 50–51. Critical scholars often doubt the historicity of the book of a.d. 50–51. Critical scholars often doubt the historicity of the book of Acts, but there are many casual references such as these that confirm Acts, but there are many casual references such as these that confirm its portrayal of history.its portrayal of history.

Page 21: 02 preserving relationships

Timothy must have trave-Timothy must have trave-led from Thessalonica to led from Thessalonica to Berea with Paul and Silas Berea with Paul and Silas (Acts 17:10, 14, 15) (Acts 17:10, 14, 15) after after their expulsion from Thes-their expulsion from Thes-salonica.salonica. He then briefly He then briefly joined Paul in Athens and joined Paul in Athens and was sent from there towas sent from there toThessalonica Thessalonica (1 Thess. 3:(1 Thess. 3:1, 2). 1, 2). There he joined up There he joined up with Silas with Silas (Acts 18:5)(Acts 18:5)and eventually journeyed and eventually journeyed to meet Paul in Corinth. to meet Paul in Corinth.

First Thessalonians must have been written from Corinth shortly after First Thessalonians must have been written from Corinth shortly after Timothy’s arrival. Paul knew what people were thinking in Achaia, Timothy’s arrival. Paul knew what people were thinking in Achaia, where Corinth was located where Corinth was located (1 Thess. 1:7, 8), (1 Thess. 1:7, 8), and in and in 1 Thessalonians 1 Thessalonians he he was responding to information brought to him by Timothy was responding to information brought to him by Timothy (1 Thess. (1 Thess. 3:5, 6).3:5, 6).

Page 22: 02 preserving relationships

ReadRead 1 Corinthians 1 Corinthians 1:18–2:2. 1:18–2:2. What’s Paul’s What’s Paul’s main point in this main point in this passage? What do we passage? What do we learn from these verses learn from these verses about Paul’s missio-about Paul’s missio-nary strategies in nary strategies in Athens and Corinth?Athens and Corinth?

ReadRead 1 Corinthians 1 Corinthians 1:18–2:2. 1:18–2:2. What’s Paul’s What’s Paul’s main point in this main point in this passage? What do we passage? What do we learn from these verses learn from these verses about Paul’s missio-about Paul’s missio-nary strategies in nary strategies in Athens and Corinth?Athens and Corinth?

Paul must not have been satisfied with the outcome of his encounterPaul must not have been satisfied with the outcome of his encounterwith the philosophers of Athens, for in Corinth he decides to take a with the philosophers of Athens, for in Corinth he decides to take a

more direct approach to the Greek mind. In doing so, he does not reject more direct approach to the Greek mind. In doing so, he does not reject the idea of the idea of “meeting people where they are,” “meeting people where they are,” for he clearly promotes for he clearly promotes

such an approach in the same letter such an approach in the same letter (1 Cor. 9:19–23). (1 Cor. 9:19–23). What What he he demonstrates in Athens and Corinth is that the process of meeting demonstrates in Athens and Corinth is that the process of meeting people where they are is not an exact science; it requires constant people where they are is not an exact science; it requires constant

learning and adjustment. Paul did not take the same approach in every learning and adjustment. Paul did not take the same approach in every city. He was very sensitive to changing times, cultures, and city. He was very sensitive to changing times, cultures, and

circumstances.circumstances.

Paul must not have been satisfied with the outcome of his encounterPaul must not have been satisfied with the outcome of his encounterwith the philosophers of Athens, for in Corinth he decides to take a with the philosophers of Athens, for in Corinth he decides to take a

more direct approach to the Greek mind. In doing so, he does not reject more direct approach to the Greek mind. In doing so, he does not reject the idea of the idea of “meeting people where they are,” “meeting people where they are,” for he clearly promotes for he clearly promotes

such an approach in the same letter such an approach in the same letter (1 Cor. 9:19–23). (1 Cor. 9:19–23). What What he he demonstrates in Athens and Corinth is that the process of meeting demonstrates in Athens and Corinth is that the process of meeting people where they are is not an exact science; it requires constant people where they are is not an exact science; it requires constant

learning and adjustment. Paul did not take the same approach in every learning and adjustment. Paul did not take the same approach in every city. He was very sensitive to changing times, cultures, and city. He was very sensitive to changing times, cultures, and

circumstances.circumstances.

Page 23: 02 preserving relationships

Read again the passages for today. How Read again the passages for today. How is the main message there relevant for us is the main message there relevant for us

today, when the today, when the “wisdom” “wisdom” of the world of the world soso

often clashes with the often clashes with the “foolishness” “foolishness” of of the Cross?the Cross?

REFLECTIONREFLECTION

Page 24: 02 preserving relationships

5. 5. Paul Reveals His Heart

Read Read 1 Thessalonians 2:17–1 Thessalonians 2:17–3:10.3:10. What does this passa-What does this passa-ge tell us about Paul’s emo-ge tell us about Paul’s emo-tional attachment and rela-tional attachment and rela-tionship to these believers?tionship to these believers?What can we learn from it What can we learn from it regarding the ways in which regarding the ways in which we should relate with those we should relate with those to whom we minister?to whom we minister?

Paul’s depth of thought and confrontational tone Paul’s depth of thought and confrontational tone (see, for example,(see, for example,Gal. 1:6, 7; 3:1–4; 4:9–11Gal. 1:6, 7; 3:1–4; 4:9–11) ) sometimes make him appear dismissivesometimes make him appear dismissiveof feelings and personal relationships. But this delightful interlude inof feelings and personal relationships. But this delightful interlude in1 Thessalonians 1 Thessalonians shows otherwise. shows otherwise. He was an intensely relationalHe was an intensely relationalevangelist along the lines of the Great Commission, which placesevangelist along the lines of the Great Commission, which placesprimary emphasis on the making of disciples primary emphasis on the making of disciples (Matt. 28:19, 20).(Matt. 28:19, 20).

Page 25: 02 preserving relationships

In the above passage In the above passage Paul reveals his inner Paul reveals his inner emotions. He misses emotions. He misses the Thessalonian be-the Thessalonian be-lievers with lievers with “intense “intense longing.”longing.” When Jesus When Jesus comes, Paul intends comes, Paul intends to present the Thes-to present the Thes-salonian believers to salonian believers to Jesus as examples of Jesus as examples of his ministry. his ministry.

Paul is not content merely to be saved at the end of time; he wants Paul is not content merely to be saved at the end of time; he wants evidence that his life made a permanent difference for the evidence that his life made a permanent difference for the kingdom of Godkingdom of God. When Paul can . When Paul can “no longer endure” “no longer endure” his intense his intense longing for the Thessalonians, he sends a mutual friend to learn longing for the Thessalonians, he sends a mutual friend to learn how they are doing. how they are doing. Paul is afraid that somehow Satan might lure Paul is afraid that somehow Satan might lure them away from their original convictions. But he is comforted them away from their original convictions. But he is comforted tremendously when Timothy reports that they are standing firm in tremendously when Timothy reports that they are standing firm in the faith.the faith.

In the above passage In the above passage Paul reveals his inner Paul reveals his inner emotions. He misses emotions. He misses the Thessalonian be-the Thessalonian be-lievers with lievers with “intense “intense longing.”longing.” When Jesus When Jesus comes, Paul intends comes, Paul intends to present the Thes-to present the Thes-salonian believers to salonian believers to Jesus as examples of Jesus as examples of his ministry. his ministry.

Paul is not content merely to be saved at the end of time; he wants Paul is not content merely to be saved at the end of time; he wants evidence that his life made a permanent difference for the evidence that his life made a permanent difference for the kingdom of Godkingdom of God. When Paul can . When Paul can “no longer endure” “no longer endure” his intense his intense longing for the Thessalonians, he sends a mutual friend to learn longing for the Thessalonians, he sends a mutual friend to learn how they are doing. how they are doing. Paul is afraid that somehow Satan might lure Paul is afraid that somehow Satan might lure them away from their original convictions. But he is comforted them away from their original convictions. But he is comforted tremendously when Timothy reports that they are standing firm in tremendously when Timothy reports that they are standing firm in the faith.the faith.

Page 26: 02 preserving relationships

In the above passage Paul In the above passage Paul reveals his inner emotions. reveals his inner emotions. He misses the Thessalonian He misses the Thessalonian believers with believers with “intense longing.”“intense longing.” When Jesus comes, Paul When Jesus comes, Paul intends to present the Thes-intends to present the Thes-salonian believers to Jesus as salonian believers to Jesus as examples of his ministry. Paul examples of his ministry. Paul is not content merely to be sa-is not content merely to be sa-ved at the end of time; he wants ved at the end of time; he wants evidence that his life made a evidence that his life made a permanent difference for the permanent difference for the kingdom of God.kingdom of God.

When Paul can When Paul can “no longer endure” “no longer endure” his intense longing for thehis intense longing for theThessalonians, he sends a mutual friend to learn how they are doing.Thessalonians, he sends a mutual friend to learn how they are doing.Paul is afraid that somehow Satan might lure them away from theirPaul is afraid that somehow Satan might lure them away from theiroriginal convictions. But he is comforted tremendously when Timothyoriginal convictions. But he is comforted tremendously when Timothyreports that they are standing firm in the faith.reports that they are standing firm in the faith.

Page 27: 02 preserving relationships

Further Study:: “If we would humble ourselves before God, and “If we would humble ourselves before God, andbe kind and courteous and tenderhearted be kind and courteous and tenderhearted and pitiful, there would be one hundred and pitiful, there would be one hundred conversions to the truth where now conversions to the truth where now there is only one. But, though there is only one. But, though professing to be converted, we professing to be converted, we carry around with us a bundle carry around with us a bundle of self that we regard as alto-of self that we regard as alto-gether too precious to be given gether too precious to be given up. It is our privilege to lay this up. It is our privilege to lay this burden at the feet of Christ and burden at the feet of Christ and in its place take the character in its place take the character and similitude of Christ. The and similitude of Christ. The Saviour is waiting forus to do Saviour is waiting forus to do this.”—this.”—Ellen G. White, Ellen G. White, Testimonies for the Church, vol. 9,Testimonies for the Church, vol. 9,pp. 189, 190, emphasis added.pp. 189, 190, emphasis added.

Further Study:: “If we would humble ourselves before God, and “If we would humble ourselves before God, andbe kind and courteous and tenderhearted be kind and courteous and tenderhearted and pitiful, there would be one hundred and pitiful, there would be one hundred conversions to the truth where now conversions to the truth where now there is only one. But, though there is only one. But, though professing to be converted, we professing to be converted, we carry around with us a bundle carry around with us a bundle of self that we regard as alto-of self that we regard as alto-gether too precious to be given gether too precious to be given up. It is our privilege to lay this up. It is our privilege to lay this burden at the feet of Christ and burden at the feet of Christ and in its place take the character in its place take the character and similitude of Christ. The and similitude of Christ. The Saviour is waiting forus to do Saviour is waiting forus to do this.”—this.”—Ellen G. White, Ellen G. White, Testimonies for the Church, vol. 9,Testimonies for the Church, vol. 9,pp. 189, 190, emphasis added.pp. 189, 190, emphasis added.

Page 28: 02 preserving relationships

““During His ministry, Jesus had kept constantly before the disciplesDuring His ministry, Jesus had kept constantly before the disciplesthe fact that they were to be one with Him in His work for thethe fact that they were to be one with Him in His work for therecovery of the world from the slavery of sin. . . . In all His work Herecovery of the world from the slavery of sin. . . . In all His work Hewas training them for individual labor, to be extended as their was training them for individual labor, to be extended as their numbers increased, and eventually to reach to the uttermost parts of numbers increased, and eventually to reach to the uttermost parts of the earth.” the earth.” —Ellen G. White, The Acts of the Apostles, p. 32.—Ellen G. White, The Acts of the Apostles, p. 32.

““During His ministry, Jesus had kept constantly before the disciplesDuring His ministry, Jesus had kept constantly before the disciplesthe fact that they were to be one with Him in His work for thethe fact that they were to be one with Him in His work for therecovery of the world from the slavery of sin. . . . In all His work Herecovery of the world from the slavery of sin. . . . In all His work Hewas training them for individual labor, to be extended as their was training them for individual labor, to be extended as their numbers increased, and eventually to reach to the uttermost parts of numbers increased, and eventually to reach to the uttermost parts of the earth.” the earth.” —Ellen G. White, The Acts of the Apostles, p. 32.—Ellen G. White, The Acts of the Apostles, p. 32.

Page 29: 02 preserving relationships

ASSOCIATE truth – Why should I study this lesson?DISCOVER truth – What does the Bible say about this truth?APPLY truth – How can this truth affect my life today?PLAN using the truth – How can I use this truth today?TRANSFER truth to life – What changes do I need in my life?

ADAPT it! Teaching Approach

Effective for SMALL

GROUPS

Slideshare.net/chucho1943

We invite you to download and study each one of the 13 lessons about

“Thessalonians”