And hath made of service unto you whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth;

And hath made of service unto you whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is in the earth; it is all from Him. Lo! herein verily are portents for people who reflect. (45:13. Al-Quran)

Psychological Philosophyof

Evolving Human ExcellenceDr. Javed Iqbal

Realization & Channelization

The Role of IQ, EQ &CQIn

The Career Making Dr. Javed Iqbal

Sequence of Presentation

Psychological Philosophy of evolving Human Excellence

Conceptual and Operational meaning of IQ, EQ &CQ

Pragmatism /Struggle for survival(people feel they are wise then Allah)

( tactics/diplomacy)حکمت احتیاط(cautious )مصلحت(vested interest )

Ethical culture developed

( truthfulness) سچای گی (seriousness /commitment) سنجید (Guardianship/sense of responsibility)امانت درست کا ( Faith / belief /ideology, ideational)عقیدہ ( Hit and hurt the criminals/No sympathy)عدل If you have a top class hardware but software is

corrupt. surely out put will be not praiseworthy. Result will be garbage in and garbage out

Knowledge with custody Knowledge without

custody

Knowledge Honesty

Planning

Efficiency

Productivity

Judicious use of resources

Composition of Human Beings

Human being Body States Nafs

(Ammara,Luwamia &Muthmina

Soul

1-Fire (proud)2-Air(Fame)3-Mud(Miser)4-Water (Jealousy)

Highest stage of Nafs

Lowest stage of Nafs

STATES OF NAFS

Aozubillah

Types of Kalub

Kalub-e- shaheed

nafs is in thekhabees state

nafs is at the state of Laeen

nafs is in the Rajeem state

nafs is in the Luwama state

nafs is in the Motamina state

Personality Physical (Visible form) Appearance Physique Dress Smartness CleanlinessMental Mental Alertness IQ CreativitySocial Group interaction Conflict resolution Organizing ability Interpersonal relationshipEthical Telling truth Honour the promises Fairness and justice Respect the human being

Man and Mathematical Relationship

(100+100)0

200 x 0=0

(Knowledge x Skill) Attitude(50+50) 50

100 x50=5000

Body Sign Mind Quantity

3 +(Add) 5 8 :zero

3 X(Multiply) 5 15

3 power 5 243: Hero

Psychological problems of new service entrants Self- centeredness Possessiveness( power needs, affiliation,

achievement ) Lack of assertiveness Impatience Confusion Rashness Distortion in self perception and ideal self Sexual disorder Lack of emotional labor Lack of Interpersonal skills

IQ

Intelligence behaviour must know what, why (what is doing &why he is doing this

Intelligence behaviour must meaningful and purposeful.

Intelligence behaviour must rational . intelligence must cultural values

IQ (Intelligence Quotient ) Comprehension Reasoning ability Judgment Assessment of IQ:

1. Note sheet/ corresponding2. Response (Logic with reference ) & paraphrase (CAR:

creative, accurate and result oriented ) .Focus approach

3. Decision (Mostly decision merit base, not obliged others )

(Emotional Intelligence )Daniel Goldman The term encompasses the following five characteristics and

abilities: Self awareness-knowing your emotions, recognizing feelings

as they occur and discriminating between them Mood Management-handling feelings so they’re relevant to

the current situation and you react appropriately. Self motivation-gather up” your feelings and directing

yourself towards a goal, despite self doubt, inertia and impulsiveness.

Empathy- recognizing feelings in others and tuning into their verbal and nonverbal cues; putting yourself in their shoes

Managing relationships-handling interpersonal interaction, conflict resolution, and negotiations.

EQ (Emotional Quotient ) General intelligence is Gene Link and Social

Intelligence is Acquired Identifying emotions of self and others,Self regulation,

self organization ,self awareness, social skill, coping stress

Self control, self managing emotions of self and others expression of emotion, Tolerance, Flexibility and

Emotional depth (unconditional love)

Assessment of Emotional Intelligence

Respect Listening Social relationship Violent use of rule and regulation Hot buttons

Example : Hundred Nail in the wall put nail in the wall, on every episode of angry. On self control take it out nail from the wall

Causes

When a human being becomes detached from religion it makes him worthless.

Greed and material gain becomes all-important goal of one’s life in the world.

Ignorance and deviation from God Weak belief system Hypocrisy Hub-e-ja Hub-e-mal Riyya

Spiritual diseases

False pride ,Arrogance (Takabbur) Greed (Hirs) Jealousy (Hasad) Lust (Shahwah) Backbiting (Gheebah) Stinginess (Bokhl) Malice (Keena) Anger Hippocracy Riyya

Prophet Muhammad says:

Your greatest enemy is your (evil) self that resides within you.

"He is a real king who can have full control over his self"

Relationship of Psyche and Soma

Psyche mind

Body (Soma)Gas, Palpitation/tremors, aches/Pains, Loss of weight etc, Burden on Head/ Heart

Overt Behavior Overt Behavior Aggressive/Hostile, Aggressive/Hostile, Withdrawn neglectful Withdrawn neglectful

Emotions Emotions Irritable/ Irritable/ Anxious/Depress Anxious/Depress

Feelings Feelings Negative Feeling about Negative Feeling about self, Negative self self, Negative self

image, ideas of image, ideas of worthlessness worthlessness

Thoughts Thoughts Conviction of suffering Conviction of suffering from, a dreadful, from, a dreadful,

disease (heart) fully disease (heart) fully convinced that he is convinced that he is being persecuted being persecuted

Perception Perception Hearing Voices, seeing Hearing Voices, seeing things things

SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS AND EXPECTED

PSYCOLOGICAL PROBLEMS HASAD:(Jealousy)

Hasad means to be unsatisfied by the distribution of Allah. Those who have the attribute of jealousy will always remain uncomfortable on the inside and will never be happy by others achievements.

Rasulullah (saws) said: “Do not be jealous among yourselves

Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders or Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder and Paranoid Personality Disorder

BUGHAZ( MALICE ): People who fall a prey to bughaz

wants other people to suffer. Confrontation may be religious and worldly matter.Kulb such people is

not purified . People with the attribute of keena tend to keep the grudges. They forgive the other verbally but are always looking for ways to get

back at the person who caused them pain

Such people are never internally satisfied as they burn in the fire of

jealousy

Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Narcissistic Personality

Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Depression Borderline Personality Disorder Paranoid Personality Disorder

ANAD They know truth

but not accept truth .Such people who fall a prey to

anad lose their ability to forgive and are always

trying to hurt their enemy.

Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Narcissistic Personality

Disorder, Histrionic Personality

Disorder, Borderline Personality

Disorder Paranoid Personality

Disorder

GAROOR/ Takabbur (False pride, Arrogance)

Garoor is like an illusion. The

people who have the attribute of

garoor they believe that their achievement is of their own by

no help of Allah.

Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Narcissistic Personality

Disorder, Histrionic Personality

Disorder, Borderline Personality

Disorder

FAKHAR People do accept

that whatever they have is given by

Allah but they feel that their

achievement is on their own efforts and not by any

involvement of the supernatural

power.

Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Narcissistic Personality

Disorder, Histrionic Personality

Disorder, Borderline Personality

Disorder Paranoid Personality

Disorder

TOHMAT

To falsely accuse someone of any bad act without knowing the truth

Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Narcissistic Personality

Disorder, Histrionic Personality

Disorder, Borderline Personality

Disorder Paranoid Personality

Disorder

TELLING LIES

To know about the real facts but hiding them

Lust (Shahwah)

Sleep disorder, Mood Disorders or Depression, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Boderline Personality Disorder andParanoid Personality Disorder

Components of Treatment Psycho education: nature, cause and maintenance of

the disorder. Cognitive restructuring/acceptance model Emotional distress management Exposure Problem solving Assertion training Activity scheduling Goal setting

Psychological Attributes (Who is a normal officer) Innovative& Creative ( lock out instead of lock on).

Spontaneous Response(practical ability &insight ) Constructively rebellious (never use harsh words

, nor short temper and some times do not exercise the rules &regulations religiously).

Does not use fashionable words in expressing thoughts(critical, solution oriented with sound strategy).

Has ability of emotional labor (high interpersonal skills).

Non status conscious (he knows that he has power and uses it only when needed. (to maintain discipline )self realization –unnecessary exercise of power, ).

Domain of Human beingMental, Emotional, Social & Physical

Psychological Philosophy of Excellence

Baby Doll Barbie Doll:(Oxford Dictionary: Noun;

Australia/New Zealand ; An attractive but characterless or

unintelligent young women) (Gentle Lady: Knowledge + Values)

Panadol:(Narcissist (self love , this is my right, Psychosomatic (pretend

they are ill) Projectionists, self- angritize ( I can do every things,I am the best .

IQ

IQ

Cognitive Domain:thought processes and intellectual abilities including attention, memory, problem solving, imagination, creativity, academic and everyday knowledge, metacognition, and language.

Domains of Development

Development is described in three domains, but growth

in one domain influences the other domains. Physical Domain:

body size, body proportions, appearance, brain development, motor development, perception capacities, physical health.

Cognitive Domain: thought processes and intellectual abilities including attention,

memory, problem solving, imagination, creativity, academic and everyday knowledge, metacognition, and language.

Social/Emotional Domain: self-knowledge (self-esteem, metacognition, sexual identity,

ethnic identity), moral reasoning, understanding and expression of emotions, self-regulation, temperament, understanding others, interpersonal skills, and friendships.

Mental Domain

Judgmental ability, comprehension &reasoning Well adjusted Accommodative Optimistic thoughts Mental maturity Intellectual rational For decades, a lot of emphasis has been put on certain aspects of intelligence such as

logical reasoning, math skills, spatial skills, understanding analogies, verbal skills etc.

Definitions of Intelligence

Intelligence is “adjustment or adaptation of the individual to his total environment,” “the ability to learn,” “and the ability to carry on abstract thinking” (Freeman, 1955).

The ability “to resolve genuine problems or difficulties as they are encountered” (Gardner, 1983).

“Mental activities involved in purposive adaptation to, shaping of , and selection of real-world environments relevant to one’s life” (Sternberg, 1986)

Different Models of Intelligence

T. R. Taylor (1994) identified three independent research traditions that have been employed to study the nature of human intelligence.

1. The psychometric approach

2. Information Processing approach

3. Cognitive approach

Robert Sternberg - Triarchic Theory of Intelligence

While he agreed with Gardner that intelligence is much broader than a single, general ability, he instead suggested some of Gardner's intelligences are better viewed as individual talents. Sternberg proposed what he refers to as 'successful intelligence,' which is comprised of three different factors:

Analytical intelligence: This component refers to problem-solving abilities.

Creative intelligence: This aspect of intelligence involves the ability to deal with new

situations using past experiences and current skills. Practical intelligence:

This element refers to the ability to adapt to a changing environment.

Emotional intelligence means the ability to use your emotions in a positive and constructive way in relationship with others or

“ Knowing how you and others feel and what to do about It.”

EQ Ikhlaq (Self Actualization) (Roger) 1-Tahamul (tolerance, forbearance,

patience,endurance) 2-Husn-e- takhatib (politeness in

manners ,civility and affability) 3-Khair Khawahi (well-wishing,

solicitude) low EQ level ( emotional instability ,

inferiority feelings, depressiveness, anxiety, obsessiveness, dependence , hypochondrias and guilt.)

Over/under expression of emotions Emotions Affection, Anger, Annoyance, Angst,

Apathy, Anxiety, Awe, Boredom, Compassion, Contempt, curiosity, depression, despair, disappointment, disgust, ecstasy, Empathy, Envy, Embarrassment, Euphoria, Fear, Frustration, Gratitude, Grief, Guilt, Happiness, Hatred, Hope, Horror, Hostility, Hysteria, jealousy, Loathing, Love, Lust, Misery, Pity, Pride, Range, Regret, Remorse, Sadness,suffering, surprise, wonder, worry

Emotional Intelligence Emotional stability Intrapersonal adjustment Interpersonal adjustment Mood change is temporary pneumonia Emotion continuous emotional disturbance ,

personality trait Upper class grandiosity , supersity Middle infority , low self esteem , depression

Emotional domain

Love, joy, anger, aggression Over/ under presentation of emotions Internal form of feeling--- behavior Outburst of emotion Situational reaction / not responde Many experts now feel that EIQ is a better predictor of

success than traditional IQ tests. See how you stack up with this test.

Social domain

Interpersonal relationship We are not expressive , use sign language (I love

you) Emotional imbalance Interaction balance

Educational system= schizophrenic and psychopath

Lack of assertiveness in culture Lack of objectivity in education Memorization base examination system Children are not independent Basic needs are not fulfill Adaption of individual / profession as teacher is not

by choice but by chance Curriculum moral and rational

CQ

CQ(Common Quotient) A set of principles of good

conduct Telling truth Honour the promises Fairness and justice Respect the human being

The journey of life is travelled only once!so, make TAUBA for past, SHUKAR for present &DUA for the future Because DUA is the only element that changes TAQDEER everything is Pre-Written .!But , with Prayers it can be Re written .!so live the best and leave the rest to Allah

Wives of king Edward & ShahJahan bothdied of Polycystic Syndrome. Both kings immensely loved their wives but both had a different way of expressing it. Shahjahan spent billions to make Taj Mahal in memory of his beloved wife.King Edward built the University for research proclaiming that none else should die of disease which had snatched his beloved wife .such differences of thinking determine that causes of that rise or fall of nations

Meta Cognition

Meta Cognition (Those has high EQ they will have high ability of introspection

E Q low

Family social set up Neglect, authority Lack of confidence Revenged aggression

Capitalism

Socialism

RuhIslamic Values

Bloom taxonomy

Cognitive domain Affective domain Psychomotor domain

Creation (Higher order thinking) Cognition has effect on our emotion , EQ formation

All people has different skills running waking talking, but champion develop his skills , the become champion

Evaluation

Syntheses

Analysis

Application (lower order thinking )

Understanding

Remembering