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Breakthrough Comfort
Step # 1
Conveying Your
Passion
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The You-Her-Us Model
When Applying Breakthrough Comfort itsimportant to understand that each phase is also
governed by a distinction.
This distinction is whether the tactics and techniquesapply to you(the reader), her(the lovely young
woman) or us(You and said lovely and morally
upstanding woman).
The first step Conveying your passion is all aboutyou.
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Conveying Your Passion
Intro To Breakthrough Comfort Step # 1 of 7 Passion is the key emotion
involved in Love and thus forms
the basis of Breakthrough
Comfort.
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The Meta-Frame
When using Breakthrough Comfort it is important tonote the overall Meta-Frame.
Meta-Frame: The overall frame of the entireinteraction.
The Breakthrough Comfort Meta-Frame is I wish Icould quit you.
The difference between being needy and desperate orfalling in love, lies in the meta-frame
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What is Passion Anyway?
Passion Defined: Passion can be expressed as a
feeling of unusual excitement,enthusiasm or compelling emotiontowards a subject, idea, person, orobject. A person is said to have apassion for something when he hasa strong positive affinity for it. Alove for something and a passion forsomething are often usedsynonymously.
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Finding Your Passion
What is Important toyou?
What do you want tospend the majority ofyour time doing?
If you could beanything in the Worldwith no chance offailure what would it
be?
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Formula For Speaking
Passionately
You can be passionate about anything if you knowhow to speak passionately.
Speaking passionately is easy, in fact there is asimple formula.
Subject+ Enthusiasm + Emotional Expression =Speaking Passionately
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The 5 Tools For
Demonstrating Your Passion
Grounding Stories Specific Qualification Themes and Subjects Commitment Ideas Explanations and
Teaching her.
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Grounding Stories
Grounding is how we explain whowe are and how we are going to
behave. These stories allow us toconvey our personality.
In BC we want to focus ourGrounding through our passion.
An old school grounding routineMystery Method style can be veryuseful here to explain how yourpassion has driven you throughoutyour life to achieve great things.
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Grounding Cont
One particularly powerfulgrounding technique is to
take a weakness orvulnerability you have and
connect it to a personal
strength you have.
Example: Polarizing/Honest
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Grounding Cont
You can use grounding early on in the interactionafter youve gotten attraction as your base.
When you dont know what to do in comfort, usegrounding to fill in the empty canvas of your life.
Example: Self Expression Story
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Specific Qualification
In Breakthrough Comfort youcan also use your passion to
narrow down your qualifiers.
Tools Of Qualification: BHRRR Compliment-SOI-Release WILKYs
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Qualification Cont
Qualification is a mechanism which means that it can beused without any of the tactics or techniques.
When a woman is doing something you like, and youreward her for it, you are qualifying her.
Dont be afraid to overcompliment when usingBreakthrough Comfort. Its better to be needy than aloofusing these tactics
Example: How do you express yourself? BHRRR
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Themes and Subjects
Themes are broadoverarching ideas about
which conversations can behad.
Subjects are the smallerpieces of conversation that
make up themes.
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Themes Cont
Example Theme: Art
Example Subjects: Painting, Drawing, PerformanceArt, Modern Art, Classic Art, Sculpture, Your Artistic
preferences, her artistic preferences, etc
Example Theme: Traveling Example Subjects: Place youve been, places you wantto go, things you learned on trips, things you saw,
things you did, reasons you went places, reasons you
want to go places, why you like traveling, etc..
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Commitment Ideas
Commitment ideas are agreat way to demonstrate
passion and provideproof.
Commitment Ideas areanything that gets a
woman to commit tohelping you with your
passion.
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Commitment Cont
Commitment Idea Examples: Having a Woman give you aride to a passion event Inviting a woman to a
passioncentric date.
Getting her to commit time toyour passion
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Explanations and Teaching
Sharing things you arepassionate about with a
woman is one of the fastestways to build an emotional
connection.
Explaining, teaching orintroducing a girl to newthings creates love.
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Explanations Cont
Focus on explaining orteaching women things in a
very emotion focused way.
Avoid overly logical detailsand descriptions.
Make your passion as relatableto her life as you can.
Dont patronize when youteach her things.
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Re-Cap
Passion is The basis of Breakthrough Comfort, The fuel for the fire so to speak. You must convey that you are passionate about something besides her BEFORE you
can be passionate about her.
The 5 tools for conveying your passion are: Grounding Stories Specific Qualification Commitment Ideas Explanations and Teaching Themes and Subjects
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Exercise # 1: Find Your
Passion!
Make a list of the 10 things you VALUE most in life.
Now rank these values against each other until youfigure out which value is most important to you.
Finally ask yourself what activities, jobs, andsituations in life give you the most of that core value.
These activities, jobs and situations are yourpassions.
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Exercise # 2
Create a weakness to strength grounding story.
My weakness is__________________________
My strength is ___________________________ Now connect them in a story below: ________________________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________
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