Mentoring Another Christian TRAINING WELCOME TO:

Mentoring

Another Christian

TRAINING

WELCOME TO:WELCOME TO:

INTRODUCTIONINTRODUCTION

INTRODUCTORY

CONCEPTS:

DEFINITIONDEFINITION

Mentor: ONE WHO BINDS HIMSELF TO ANSWER FOR ANOTHER; ONE WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ANOTHER’S DEFAULT

BIBLICAL BASISBIBLICAL BASIS

Ephesians 4:16 “From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.”

MENTOR/PROTEGE RELATIONSHIP MENTOR/PROTEGE RELATIONSHIP

Each one equips,after being equipped by one!

THE CRITICAL PATH . . .THE CRITICAL PATH . . .

1. We feel there must be more participation by every Cell Member in equipping others.

2. The Mentor/ Protégé system is effective to bond the new Cell Member to the Cell and to one special helping person.

JESUS’ CELL GROUPJESUS’ CELL GROUP

The group was impacted by:His modelingMutual sharingTeachable momentsMutual learning from one another

ACCOUNTABLE & RESPONSIBLEACCOUNTABLE & RESPONSIBLE

ACCOUNTABLE TO..

RESPONSIBLE FOR..

Not solving his problems

Not making decisions for him

But loving support

STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITYSTAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY

1.GET-ACQUAINTED

STAGE

STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITYSTAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY

2. CONFLICT

STAGE

STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITYSTAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY

3. COMMUNITY

STAGE

STAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITYSTAGES IN ACCOUNTABILITY

4. MINISTRY &

OUTREACH

STAGE

LET’S TALK ABOUT IT-LET’S TALK ABOUT IT-

What is your view about becoming responsible and accountable?

What are the positives?What challenges will you face?

THE MENTOR’S TASKTHE MENTOR’S TASK

THE TASKS

OF A

MENTOR:

SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES

1. A MENTOR

LISTENS

SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES

2. A MENTOR

INTERCEDES

SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES

3. A MENTOR

MODELS

SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES

4. A MENTOR

TEACHES

SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES

5. A MENTOR

SETS THE PACE

SIX THINGS A MENTOR DOESSIX THINGS A MENTOR DOES

6. A MENTOR INVOLVES THE PROTÉGÉ WITH OTHER CHRISTIANS

MENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENTMENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENT

Telephone calls?Day and time of weekly meeting?

MENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENTMENTOR/ PROTÉGÉ AGREEMENT

Cell leader to know in confidence about personal mattersScripture memory will be given highest priority

PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETINGPLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING

Pray for your Protégé Write down your plansCarefully read the weekly Mentor’s guides

Keep a record of your weekly meetings

PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETINGPLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING

MINUTES ACTIVITY15

SHARE

5 REVIEW SCRIPTURE MEMORY VERSES20 DISCUSS MATERIALS

PLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETINGPLAN YOUR WEEKLY MEETING

MINUTES ACTIVITY10

APPLY TRUTHS LEARNED

10 INTERCEDE FOR ONE ANOTHER AND

UNSAVED FRIENDS

PROTÉGÉ’S OIKOSPROTÉGÉ’S OIKOS

HAVE YOU MET THE OIKOS OF YOUR PROTÉGÉ?

LET’S TALK ABOUT IT-LET’S TALK ABOUT IT-

TALK ABOUT SPECIFIC MEMBERS OF YOUR OIKOS THAT YOU WANT TO INTRODUCE TO YOUR MENTOR

PRINCIPLESPRINCIPLES

THEPRINCIPLES

OFMENTORING:

PRINCIPLES IN MENTORINGPRINCIPLES IN MENTORING

1. Remember the “hula hoop” principle

2. Don’t solve the protégé’s problems

3. Never give or loan money directly to the protégé

PRINCIPLES IN MENTORINGPRINCIPLES IN MENTORING

4. Help the protégé make final decisions alone

5. Remind the protégé that walking in victory is a choice

6. Explain that “you never fail until you quit”

THE EQUIPPING TRACKTHE EQUIPPING TRACK

THE

EQUIPPING

JOURNEY:

THE JOURNEY STARTSTHE JOURNEY STARTS

A new convert or a believer visits the cell group

The person commits to become a cell member

THE JOURNEY STARTSTHE JOURNEY STARTSThe cell leader presents him or her with a copy of the Journey Guide

The new cell member prayerfully completes the Journey Guide on his own

THE CELL LEADER VISITSTHE CELL LEADER VISITS

The new cell member is visited by the cell leader and a

Mentor,

Prayerfully selected from the cell.

THE CELL LEADER VISITSTHE CELL LEADER VISITS

A “Journey Map” is prepared. The Mentor will help the new member get started on this

Equipping Journey.

If the protégé is a new believer:

Present the Beginning the Journey booklet

Schedule 5 weekly visitsUse the Mentor’s Guide found in the back of Beginning the Journey

EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY

• New cell member  attends “Spiritual Formation Weekend”• New believer is then baptized

EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY

Protégé obtains a copy of the Arrival Kit

Schedule 11 weekly visitsMentor uses mentor’s guide at the back of the Arrival Kit

EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY

Protégé now becomes a Mentor of an incoming person

Mentoring Another Christian is obtained and worked through

EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY

The Mentor and Protégé now team up as partners to attend the Touching Hearts

Training

EQUIPPING JOURNEYEQUIPPING JOURNEY

WRAP UPWRAP UP

ANY

QUESTIONS

?