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Is Technology Eroding Our Relationships? Image by: Stephan Geyer By: Dayna Hill

Is Technology Eroding Our Relationships? By: Dayna Hill

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Is Technology Eroding Our Relationships?

Image  by:  Stephan  Geyer  

By: Dayna Hill !

In the digital age, technology isn't killing courtship. But for many young couples,

it's redefining what romance looks like.

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These days we often text instead of speak…

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…use FaceTime instead of having face-to-face discussions…

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Image  by:  Adam  Kuban  

x  …and zip through online dating profiles with the same speed it takes to order a pizza.

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"The text is the pygmy of

communication methods.

It's a Post-it note, a P.S.

It's minimum investment,

minimum effort.”

– Mandy Appleyeard

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Human relationships are rich, and they're messy and they're demanding,

and we clean them up with technology.

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“We sacrifice conversation…

…for mere connection.”

– Sherry Turkle

Image  by:  Marit  &  Toomas  Hinnosaar  

Facebook is the most useful tool for dating since the invention of the box of chocolates. !

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It may also be the most dangerous threat to dating since

bad breath.!

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Social networking has created an array of new dating rules. !

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“A letterman's jacket or a class ring —those kinds of social courtship scripts

don’t exist on Facebook.” -Galena Rhoades

Image  by:  Stephan  Geyer  

We talk about liquid courage, but what about

screen courage? For many people the

screen dissolves inhibitions.

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It has leveled the playing field, so that everyone has a chance to be outgoing and engaging.

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Is social media eliminating elements of intrigue and mystery?

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Brushing up on someone's background

pre-date means you could skip over some of those foundational moments

of discovery in person.

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Goodbye butterflies and excitement…

…I already know everything about you.

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How people displayed

their relationships on Facebook

were associated with differing

levels of commitment.

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Those that displayed their significant other in their profile picture and were

listed as “in a relationship”…

…were more likely to stay together.!

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People feel more pressure from friends and family to stay together when they have their partner

in their profile picture and relationship status.

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Despite the many pitfalls of dating in the age of social networking, the most contentious use of technology comes after two people break up.!

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“1 in 10 people have been dumped via text.” - Digital Journal

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Once you finally manage to sever offline ties, there’s really no way to avoid virtual run-ins with your ex.

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Remaining Facebook friends with an ex delayed emotional recovery and led to greater distress over

the breakup, negative feelings, sexual desire and longing for the ex-partner.

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The simple fact is that ever since the Internet arrived, our sexual and romantic lives have become

more and more digitized!!

All images are licenced under a !Creative Commons agreement and

sourced from flickr!

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