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Spiraling Upward! The 5 Co-Creative Powers for Women on the Rise

P r o f e s s i o n a l B u s i n e s s W o m e n o f C a l i f o r n i a p r e s e n t s

w e n d y @ s p i r a l u p . c o m

@ W e n d y W a l l b r i d g e | # s p i r a l u p

w w w . s p i r a l u p . c o m

R e a d y t o R I S E !7-25-16 Watermark

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D o y o u fi n d y o u r s e l f d w e l l i n g o n p e r c e i v e d “ f a i l u r e s ” m o r e t h a n y o u c e l e b ra t e y o u r s u c c e s s e s ?

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D o y o u o v e r - p r e p a r e f o r m e e ti n g s o r t e n d t o w a r d s p e r fe c ti o n i s m ?

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D o y o u fe e l u n d e ra p p r e c i a t e d ?

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D o y o u t h i n k y o u r w o r k s h o u l d s p e a k f o r i t s e l f a n d p r e fe r n o t t o h a v e t o t a l k a b o u t y o u r a c h i e v e m e n t s ?

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D o y o u t h i n k y o u r w o r k s h o u l d s p e a k f o r i t s e l f a n d p r e fe r n o t t o h a v e t o t a l k a b o u t y o u r a c h i e v e m e n t s ?

A r e y o u m u c h h a r d e r o n y o u r s e l f t h a n y o u w o u l d e v e r b e t o a f r i e n d ?

C h e c k i n g i n


A m b i ti o n a n d C o n fi d e n c e


L a c k o f C o n fi d e n c e


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I t ’ s a n i n s i d e o u t a p p r o a c h

T h e S p i r a l U p P a t h ™


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I t ’ s a n i n s i d e o u t a p p r o a c h

T h e S p i r a l U p P a t h ™


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C h a n g e s n e e d e d o n t h e O U T S I D E

R e - e n g i n e e r s y s t e m s a n d s t r u c t u r e s t o r e c o g n i z e a n d r e w a r d w o m e n ’s s t r e n g t h s a n d c o n t r i b u ti o n s


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S u r f a c e a n d a d d r e s s u n c o n s c i o u s b i a s


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F l e x i b i l i t y o f w o r k fl o w


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I n c r e a s e s p o n s o r s h i p a n d m e n t o r s


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E q u a l p a y


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E q u a l p a y

H o s p i t a b l e c u l t u r e s ( c r e a t e s a f e s e tti n g s — c o a c h i n g r e l a ti o n s h i p s , w o m e n ’s l e a d e r s h i p p r o g r a m s , a s u p p o r t g r o u p o f p e e r s . )


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R i s e = R a i s e


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A m a s s y o u r k u d o s fi l e

R i s e = R a i s e


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Kn o w h o w t o a r ti c u l a te y o u r va l u e

R i s e = R a i s e


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Kn o w h o w t o a r ti c u l a te y o u r va l u e

D o t h e j o b y o u w a n t to h av e

R i s e = R a i s e


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C h a n g e s n e e d e d o n t h e I N S I D E


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W h a t s t o p s u s f r o m R I S I N G ?


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P re e m p ti ve l y d i s q u a l i f y i n g o u rs e l v e s



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Ta k i n g t h i n g s p e rs o n a l l y



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N o t a s k i n g fo r w h a t w e w a n t



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H o l d i n g o n t o fl a w s a n d fa i l u re s



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N o t i n t e r n a l i z i n g t h e s u c c e s s w e ’ve a l re a d y

a c h i e v e d



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N o t i n t e r n a l i z i n g t h e s u c c e s s w e ’ve a l re a d y

a c h i e v e d

G i v i n g a w ay o u r p o w e r



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W h a t w o u l d b e p o s s i b l e i f y o u t o o k b a c k y o u r p o w e r ?


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HORIZONTAL Realm


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades

Diploma


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades

Diploma

Good job


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades

Diploma

Good job

Life partner


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades

Diploma

Good job

Life partner

Nice house


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades

Diploma

Good job

Life partner

Nice house

Accolades


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades

Diploma

Good job

Life partner

Nice house

Accolades

Acquisitions


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades

Diploma

Good job

Life partner

Nice house

Accolades

Acquisitions

Achievements


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HORIZONTAL Realm

Good grades

Diploma

Good job

Life partner

Nice house

Accolades

Acquisitions

Achievements

Approval


HORIZONTAL Re a l m ( m a s c u l i n e )

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V I P


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Not thriving.


Inner Resume Exercise

R e c a l l a n i n t e n s e l y c h a l l e n g i n g e x p e r i e n c e t h a t y o u s u c c e s s f u l l y o v e r c a m e .




1) W h a t w a s t h e a d v e r s i t y ?




1) W h a t w a s t h e a d v e r s i t y ?

2 ) W h a t s t r e n g t h s e m e r g e d ?


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M A S C U L I N E


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FE

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NE

M A S C U L I N E


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FE

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M A S C U L I N E


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W h at i s t h e s i n g l e fa c t o r p e o p l e m o st c o r re l a t e d w i t h 2 1 s t c e n t u r y l e a d e rs h i p ?

M o d e r n L e a d e r s h i p


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W h at i s t h e s i n g l e fa c t o r p e o p l e m o st c o r re l a t e d w i t h 2 1 s t c e n t u r y l e a d e rs h i p ?

B e i n g a u t h e n ti c a l l y ex p r e s s i v e . H av i n g t h e c o u ra g e t o p u t y o u rs e l f a n d y o u r i d e a s o u t t h e re .

M o d e r n L e a d e r s h i p


A NEW KIND OF POWER arises when you know who you are,



what you stand for,



what you stand for,

and are wi l l ing to g ive voice and take actions on behalf of that!


a u t h e n ti c i t y










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W h e n y o u ’ r e a u t h e n ti c , y o u ’ r e H A P P Y


62From Harvard Review of Business

C re a ti v i t y t r i p l e s





I n t e l l i g e n c e r i s e s






P ro d u c ti v i t y i m p r o v e s b y 3 1 %






P ro d u c ti v i t y i m p r o v e s b y 3 1 %

4 0 % m o re l i ke l y t o b e p ro m o t e d



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T h e 5 C o - C r e a ti v e P o w e r s t h a t P r o p e l W o m e n t o R i s e


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W h a t a r e y o u r a d i a t i n g o u t w i t h y o u r m o o d o r e n e r g y ?


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Reactive, moody, lethargic

U n c o n s c i o u s


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Reactive, moody, lethargic


Present in the moment, riveted by life.

D e l i b e r a t e


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A r e y o u t h i n k i n g a b o u t w h a t y o u w a n t o r a r e y o u t h i n k i n g a b o u t t h e l a c k o f i t ?


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Negative self-talk, complaining, worrying



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Negative self-talk, complaining, worrying


Notice what’s working, focus on what you want, tune into Divine Headquarters!

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C a n y o u l i s t e n t o y o u r l o n g i n g s a n d l e t t h e m i n f o r m y o u r c h o i c e s a n d d i r e c t i o n ?


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Compulsive recycling of negative emotion



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Compulsive recycling of negative emotion


Embrace your feelings, be a witness, let them move through you.

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C a n y o u s p e a k f r o m “ s u f f i c i e n c y ” ?


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Complaining, gossip, disclaimers, speaking from lack, belittling self or others



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Complaining, gossip, disclaimers, speaking from lack, belittling self or others


Articulate your value, make powerful requests / declines, self-appreciation, voice boundaries to protect personal time.

D e l i b e r a t e


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W h a t ’ s t h e n e x t “ r i g h t ” t h i n g f o r y o u !


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Automatic, doing only what is familiar and comfortable.



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Automatic, doing only what is familiar and comfortable.


Take steps towards what you really want, act “as if”, provide what you seek, give your gifts

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C o - C r e a ti v e P O W E R M O V E S


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C a l m D o w n t o P o w e r U p !



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S t o p b e l i e v i n g n e g a ti v e t h o u g h t s a n d f o c u s o n t h e g o o d .

S a v o r y o u r a c h i e v e m e n t s t o i n t e r n a l i z e s u c c e s s .



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L e t g o o f p a s t “ f a i l u r e s .” M o v e o n .



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B e o n t h e h u n t f o r y o u r b u d d y ’s g i ft s a n d g r a n t e a c h o t h e r B r a g g i n g R i g h t s !



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B e o n t h e h u n t f o r y o u r b u d d y ’s g i ft s a n d g r a n t e a c h o t h e r B r a g g i n g R i g h t s !

S t o p d o i n g e v e r y t h i n g . J u s t d o t h e n e x t R I G H T t h i n g .

Ta k e o n e s m a l l r i s k a d a y.



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