Feng Shui For Romance

Feng Shui for Romance

DeAnna Radaj

Bante Design LLC

www.bantedesign.com

"For it was not into my ear

you whispered, but into my heart. It was

not my lips you kissed, but my

soul."--Judy Garland

Definition of Romance ro·mance (r -m ns , r m ns ) n. 1. a. A love affair.b. Ardent emotional attachment or

involvement between people; love: They kept the romance alive in their marriage for 35 years.c. A strong, sometimes short-lived attachment, fascination, or enthusiasm for something: a childhood romance with the sea.

2. A mysterious or fascinating quality or appeal, as of something adventurous, heroic, or strangely beautiful: "These fine old guns often have a romance clinging to them" Richard Jeffries.

Why is Romance Important?

Romance is the creation of an atmosphere where you feel unconditional love and appreciation

Romance doesn't have to be expensive or perfect-it only requires thought and effort!

Romance makes you feel loved, happy, confident and lighter.

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Romance & Feng Shui Use FS to bring

romance in your life if single or in an existing relationship

Find the Relationship area and activate it w/color and items that inspire romantic thoughts

The Bedroom The Bedroom is for

only 2 things-rest and romance!

Remove anything that doesn’t support the above activities.

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Bedroom No-No’s Pictures of your

family, in-laws, friends and children

Exercise equipment (i.e. clothes hanger)

Television Computer Anything w/a violent

connotation

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Relationship Colors Use RED if in a

serious, legally binding relationship

Use PINK if single and looking

Use CORAL if single, want to stay that way and looking for a no-strings relationship

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The Romance of Accessories

Think of scenes, places and things that are romantic to you (i.e. beach scenes, sunsets, roses…)

Things should be displayed in pairs

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Romantic Numbers 1-signifies individual, solo, single 2-signifies pair, couples 3-signifies a third person/thing coming

in between you and your partner

***Display things in pairs if you want to attract, keep or re-energize your relationship***

Romance and the Single Person

Remove any item that does not convey romance to you

Make sure you can enter the bed from either side Have matching tables/nightstand on either side of the bed

Remove clutter from under the bed, in the closet and dresser drawers to allow room for another to enter your life

Have some romantic “date” clothes in your closet so you have something appropriate to wear

More Romance in an Existing Relationship

Only display items of the 2 of you-no friends, kids or other family members

The Bedroom is your sanctuary from the rest of the world, make it that way!

Happy Feng Shui-ing!

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