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HOW TO GET THE WOMEN YOU DESI RE I NTO BED

A Down And Di r t y Gui deTo Dat i ng And Seduct i onFor The Man Who' s Fed UpWi t h Bei ng Mr . Ni ce Guy.

by Ross J ef f r i es

A qui ck recommendat i on. Al l of my work was done based on an onl i ne dat i ng si t e.I t al ked to and associ at ed wi t h mi l l i ons of women on mul t i pl e dat i ng si t es, butI have never seen anythi ng l i ke a si t e cal l ed Bl ackBook. Thi s wasn t noordi nary dat i ng si t e. You woul dn t bel i eve how many horny women f r omyourver y own t own or ci t y ar e on t hi s si t e. The gi r l s ar e l egi t , t her e pr of i l es ar el egi t , al l i n al l , t he websi t e i s 100% l egi t . I ve per sonal l y met and hooked upwi t h many of t he hor ny women f r om Bl ackBook. Take a chance and l ook f or

your sel f , you won t be mi sl eaded. . BlackBook.com

Publ i shed i n t he USA.For mor e i nf or mat i on or f r ee cat al og, cont act :

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DI SCLAI MER

Nei t her t he aut hor nor t he publ i sher assumes any r esponsi bi l i t y f or t he use ormi suse of i nf ormat i on cont ai ned i n t hi s book. The reader i s warned t hat t he useof some or al l of t he t echni ques i n t hi s book may r esul t i n l egal consequences,ci vi l and/ or cr i mi nal .

USE OF THI S BOOK I S DONE AT YOUR OWN RI SK.

"He who wi l l not t ake t he hi nt , must t ake the consequences. "- - Gl enn v. Covey 282 PA 367 ( 1854)



Tabl e Of Contents

HYPERLINK \ l "Introduction" Introduction

HYPERLINK \ l "Chapter_1" Chapter 1

HYPERLINK \ l "Chapt er _2" Chapter 2





HYPERLINK \ l "Chapter_7" Chapter 7 HYPERLINK \ l "Chapter_8" Chapt er 8 HYPERLINK \ l "Chapter_9"

Chapter 9

HYPERLINK \ l "Chapter_10" Chapter 10 HYPERLINK \ l "Chapter_11" Chapter 11



HYPERLINK \ l "Chapt er_14" Chapter 14







HYPERLINK \ l "Appendix_1" Appendix 1





HYPERLI NK \ l "Appendix_6" Appendix 6

HYPERLINK \ l "Original_TOC" Original Table Of Contents



I nt r oducti on

UNFAI R SEDUCTI ONS I N AN UNFAI R WORLD

Many peopl e who read t he rough dr af t of t hi s book were upset by part s of i t .I nvar i abl y, I ' d hear t he same compl ai nt . "These tact i cs you' r e t eachi ng pr obabl ywork r eal l y wel l . We t hought t he par t s on power and conf i dence and on meet i ngwomen were gr eat . But some of t he act ual seduct i on t echni ques are down r i ghtdi shonest and unf ai r . They r eal l y don' t gi ve t he woman any choi ce. Why don' t you

j ust l eave t hemout of t he book? Then no one coul d possi bl y have any obj ect i ons."Ok. Let ' s get t he "unf ai r " charge out of t he way. Yes, some, and I mean SOME oft he seduct i on t act i cs i n t hi s book coul d easi l y be cl assi f i ed as "unf ai r . " And,t r ut h t o t el l , I had some ser i ous moral r eser vat i ons about put t i ng t hem i n t hebook. However , "unf ai r " and "f ai r " ar e r el at i ve terms. I f you and I ar e i n aboxi ng match, and we ar e bot h f i ght i ng by t he r ul es, t hen i t i s t ot al l y unf ai rf or me t o ki ck you i n t he nut s and poke you i n t he eyes. You are f i ght i ng by ther ul es, and so shoul d I .

But , i f YOU st ar t f i ght i ng di r t y, I wi l l f eel under no mor al obl i gat i onwhat soever t o cont i nue t o stand t her e l i ke a f ool and t ake i t . I ' m goi ng t o t oss

out al l t he r ul es and f i ght t o wi n, no mat t er what i t t akes.

Unf or t unat el y, when you deal wi t h women, you may of t en f i nd yoursel f i n t hatt ype of si t uat i on. They expect you t o pl ay by t he r ul es, but t hey f eel per f ect l yf r ee t o do what ever THEY want . For exampl e, l ot s of women are more than happy t ospend your money and t i me, and gener al l y l ead you on, l et t i ng you t hi nk you havea reward ( sexual ) comi ng. They t al k about sex on t he date, t ouch you a l ot , andACT ver y seduct i ve. Then when you make a pass, t hey f r eak out and scr eam aboutwhat ani mal s men are, how we' r e onl y af t er one thi ng. Or t hey l et you have i twi t h t hat f amous l i ne "I ' m j ust not at t r act ed t o you. " Maybe you f i nd out t hatshe was j ust usi ng you as a soci al " spare t i r e" because her boyf r i end was out oft own f or a f ew weeks and she di dn' t want t o si t at home al one and l ook at t hef our wal l s.

Of cour se, i f you real l y want t o be a "gent l eman" you may not f i nd any of t hi sout unt i l t he t hi r d or f our t h date. You don' t want t o behave l i ke an ani mal andmake a pass on t he f i r st date, do you? So you hol d of f awhi l e, and t hen t he sl api n t he f ace hur t s even more.

Now, any chi ck who pul l s t hi s of f DESERVES to be on the recei vi ng end of t hemost unf ai r t act i cs you can use. You ar e under no moral obl i gat i on t o be hervi ct i m, and you ar e a f ool i f you per mi t i t .So, by al l means, pl ay f ai r wi t h a woman unt i l she shows you t hat she i s pl ayi ngunf ai r wi t h you. As soon as she st ar t s t o pul l shi t , t hen ei t her wal k awaycompl et el y or l et her have i t wi t h ever ythi ng you have i n your arsenal .

And whi l e we' r e on t he subj ect of f ai r , i s i t "f ai r " t hat t he good- l ooki ng and

r i ch guys shoul d get al l t he beaut i f ul women whi l e you and I have t o set t l e f ort he dogs? Are you any l ess deser vi ng of compl ete sexual sat i sf act i on t han somepret t y boy who was bl essed by genet i cs and Daddy' s bank account? Why shoul d you

j ust meekl y r ol l over , and accept a si t uat i on t hat SUCKS, good buddy, when youcan be get t i ng your share, and then some!

Somet hi ng el se t o consi der : When i t comes t o sex, women have a massi ve poweradvant age. I t ' s r el at i vel y easy f or even a f at , ugl y tr ol l t o obt ai n sexualsat i sf act i on. Al l she has t o do i s go to any bar or cl ub, act even mi l dl yf l i r t at i ous, and be wi l l i ng t o put out . She' s sur e t o get l ai d, i f not by t he



best l ooki ng guy, t hen at l east by someone. I t ' s much harder f or even a decentl ooki ng guy to get sat i sf acti on, sexual l y.

FOR GUYS, GETTI NG LAI D I S A CHORE.FOR WOMEN, GETTI NG LAI D I S A CHOI CE.

Never f orget t hi s di f f er ence i n t he bal ance of power bet ween the sexes. Thet r i cks and t act i cs you' l l l ear n i n t hi s book wi l l make you one of t hose r ar eguys who i s on t he choi ce si de of t hat power equat i on.

Whi l e we ar e here I bet t er make somethi ng el se cl ear . I do NOT bel i eve that sexi s t he be al l and end al l of r el at i ng t o women. Nor do I bel i eve t hat i t i sal ways necessary or even DESI RABLE t o use t he t act i cs out l i ned i n thi s book,( whet her f ai r or unf ai r ) t o get a woman t o sl eep wi t h you. I t i s cer t ai nl yposs i bl e t hat t he part i cul ar woman you f ancy may be smar t enough and have enoughgood sense t o want you j ust as you ar e, wi t hout any games or bul l shi t on herpart . She may al so be sane and psychol ogi cal l y heal t hy enough t o expr ess t hatdesi r e natur al l y, wi t hout any hang- ups or gui l t games. You mi ght even f i nd -gasp - t hat t he f r i endshi p and i nt i macy you shar e wi t h a l ady ar e more i mport antt o you t han sex. When you f i nd a l ady l i ke t hi s, cher i sh her as the r are

t r easur e she i s. Hang on t i ght , and don' t l et go!

Unf or t unat el y, based on my own exper i ence, and t he exper i ence of hundr eds of menI ' ve i nt er vi ewed, most women do not f i t i nt o t hi s cat egor y. I wi sh t hey di d -t he REALI TY i s t hat t hey do NOT! The real i t y i s t hat you, as a man, are goi ng t obe sexual l y at t r act ed t o many, many women, ver y f ew of whom are goi ng t onatur al l y desi r e you, and who you can al so r espect , l ove and admi r e.

Many of t hese women are goi ng to be hung- up sexual l y, depr essed, suf f er f r om l owsel f - est eem, eat i ng di sor der s, al cohol i sm, et c. Heck, I even br i ef l y dat ed awoman who tur ned out t o be bul i mi c, al cohol i c, and was al so secret l y a hooker !

Top t hat f or a dat i ng di sas t er st or y!

Now, you may deci de, t he heck wi t h i t . I f you can' t at l east l i ke and respect al ady, and i f you have t o resor t t o tacti cs you l ear ned i n a book, t hen i t j usti sn' t wor t h i t , and you wi l l ski p deal i ng wi t h such l oser f emal es al t oget her . Icer t ai nl y can r espect t hat choi ce; i t ' s t he choi ce I event ual l y made mysel f . Butonl y YOU can make t hat choi ce. Even i f you do, t hi s book wi l l st i l l be of gr eatval ue to you, because you wi l l l ear n f ant asti c t echni ques f or i mpr ovi ng yourconf i dence, meet i ng and pi cki ng up women anywher e, any t i me, and how t o qui ckl yr ecogni ze and swi f t l y el i mi nate al l t he nut t y- l oser s BEFORE t hey get t o empt yyour wal l et , bend your br ai n, and ki ck your hear t i n. You' l l be abl e to get r i dof t he di r t , so you can enj oy t he di amonds.

A FEW MORE WORDS BEFORE WE GET ON WI TH THI S BOOK

Ther e' s one bi g mi st ake t hat al l t he so cal l ed "Pi ck- up Chi cks" books seemt o

make. That i s, THEY DON' T TELL YOU HOW TO HAVE THE CONFI DENCE AND POWER TOACTUALLY GO OUT AND USE ALL THEI R GREAT "SEDUCTI ON" SUGGESTI ONS.

Thi s i s a CRI TI CAL mi st ake. Gr eat advi ce does you no good at al l i f you can' tact ual l y go out and APPLY i t . Al l i t r eal l y does i s make you f eel wor se, becausenow you know what t o do but you STI LL can' t do i t . At l east when you werei gnorant you had an excuse.

Thi s book wi l l NOT make t hat mi st ake; i n f act t he whol e f i r st sect i on i sdedi cat ed t o showi ng you how t o have t he conf i dence and power t o be abl e t o



easi l y use and appl y the t act i cs i n t he ot her t wo sect i ons of t he book. We' l lal so show you how t o use your own cr eat i vi t y so you can devel op your ownseduct i on tacti cs t hat per f ect l y f i t your uni que per sonal i t y and ci r cumst ances.

Not bad f or one l i t t l e book, huh?

A FI NAL WORD

Throughout t hi s book, I wi l l be l ayi ng down cer t ai n i deas t hat you woul d do wel lt o memor i ze and use. I suggest you get some 3 x 5 i ndex car ds t o wr i t e thesei deas down so you can go over t hemas you need to. There wi l l al so be exer ci sest o do. I t i s ESSENTI AL t hat you DO THE EXERCI SES. J ust r eadi ng them wi l l get younowher e.

Enough chi t chat . Let ' s go t o bat t l e men.



Chapt er One

THE ONE ATTI TUDE THAT I S THE KEYTO HAVI NG I RRESI STI BLE APPEAL TO WOMENAND GETTI NG LAI D WI TH THE WOMEN OF YOUR DREAMS

Once, one of my super- scor i ng buddi es i nvi t ed me t o go t o a part y wi t h hi m. Nothavi ng much of a soci al l i f e anyway, I accept ed t he i nvi t ati on, and besi des,t hi s guy REALLY knew how t o get l ai d. I sor t of l ooked at mysel f as bei ng one oft hose smal l sucker f i sh t hat at t ach t hemsel ves underneat h a shar k' s mout h andl i ve of f t he bi t s t he shark spi t s out .

Anyway, we were wander i ng around t hi s huge apar t ment compl ex, l ooki ng f or t hepart y. We were wal ki ng down a hal l way when we passed an open door , and t here wasa part y goi ng on, but i t was def i ni t el y NOT the part y we had been i nvi t ed t o.

Thi s was a f or mal af f ai r ; everyone was ver y wel l dressed, and my buddy and Iwere both wear i ng j eans and scr uf f y tenni s shoes.

Through t he doorway I saw a st unni ng bl onde i n a l ow cut dress, sur r ounded byguys t r yi ng to hi t on her . My buddy saw her t oo, l ooked at me, and went r i ght

i nt o act i on. I saw hi m wal k i n t he door , cut t hr ough t he cr owd of guys, saysomethi ng to her t hat I coul dn' t hear , and hand her a car d and a pen. She wr otesomet hi ng down, and out came my buddy, smi l i ng ear t o ear . He had got t en herphone number !

I asked hi m what he sai d, and he tol d me, "I j ust wal ked i n t her e, l ooked ather, and sai d, `Excuse me. I saw you t hr ough the door way, and unl i ke thesegent l emen her e, I don' t have t i me f or smal l t al k. I ' d l i ke t o t ake you out . CanI have your home phone number?'

Now, i t ' s not al ways necessar y to be t hat di r ect . But i t i s necessar y to gr aspand use t he at t i t ude my buddy had, t he super - at t i t ude whi ch wi l l get you l ai dmor e t han any l i ne, t r i ck, good l ooks, f ancy car or f or t une. The at t i t ude i s:

I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESI RES AS A MAN.I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WI THOUT APOLOGY.

Do you r eal l y want t o get l ai d wi t h al l t he women you coul d ever possi bl y want ?Then STOP MAKI NG EXCUSES FOR YOURSELF! Don' t make excuses f or want i ng t o l ook ata beaut i f ul woman. I f you' r e caught l ooki ng, and she asks what you' r e doi ng,t el l her ! ! Tel l her you' r e enj oyi ng st udyi ng j ust what a per f ect l y beaut i f ulbody she has, and t o heck wi t h her i f she' s t oo upt i ght t o appr eci ate a r eal manwho doesn' t apol ogi ze f or knowi ng what he want s!

Stop maki ng excuses f or want i ng t o meet a woman! Stop maki ng excuses f or want i ngt o ask a woman out , and most of al l st op maki ng excuses f or want i ng t o FUCK t he

l i vi ng shi t out of a woman you want ! Thi s ki nd of di r ect , power f ul , go- f or - i t -at t i t ude i s an i ncr edi bl e t ur n on f or women t hat can' t be beaten!

Li st en! I t i sn' t even t he wor ds you use t hat convey thi s at t i t ude! I t ' s yourt one of voi ce, your f aci al expr essi ons, your post ur e, t he speed at whi ch youspeak, ever ythi ng non- ver bal about you wi l l show t hi s at t i t ude f ar more t hanwords.

Thi s doesn' t mean you have t o be ar r ogant , or l ack a sense of humor . You can bewarm and f r i endl y at t he same t i me you are bei ng di r ect and powerf ul . The key i s



f i ndi ng t he bal ance. Once you do you wi l l not be abl e to keep women away f r omyou.

Now, i t ' s easy to t al k and t el l you t hat you shoul d have t hi s att i t ude, but t hatwon' t hel p you to act ual l y get i t . That ' s why t he next coupl e of chapt er s are soi mpor t ant . They wi l l show you how t o i nst al l t hi s at t i t ude i n your sel f so thatyou aut omat i cal l y f i nd your sel f l i vi ng by i t i n your appr oach t o women. Youwon' t even have t o t r y or t o "t hi nk about i t . " I t wi l l j ust happen.

Her e' s t he ot her at t i t ude/ bel i ef you' l l want t o mast er i f you r eal l y want t o bea success at scor i ng wi t h women l i ke a madman.

I DON' T GET RATTLED BY SETBACKSBECAUSE I LEARN FROM MY MI STAKES.

I r emember wat chi ng a TV show wher e t he host was i nt ervi ewi ng a movi est ar / kar at e champ who shal l go namel ess. The host asked hi m what t he secr et ofhi s success was, and the karate guy l ooked at hi m i n that wooden way of hi s andsai d:

"When I f i r st st art ed out compet i ng i n Karat e Tour nament s, I wasn' t t hat good. Igot beat a l ot , but I al ways l ear ned f r ommy mi st akes. I nst ead of cr yi ng over myl osi ng, I j ust st udi ed what I woul d have t o do di f f er ent l y the next t i me, andwhenever I met t he same guy agai n or a di f f erent guy i n t he same si t uat i on, IALWAYS cr eamed ' em. "

Look - unl ess you are unusual l y l ucky, chances ar e you are goi ng t o make a f ewmi st akes as you pr act i ce t he i deas i n thi s book. And, as great as t hese tr i cksare, t hey won' t work ever y si ngl e t i me.Unl ess you know how t o l ear n f r omyour mi st akes and accept and occasi onal l oss,you wi l l get nowhere. The most successf ul guys I know at scor i ng al l have twogr eat st r engt hs: They have t he f i r st power at t i t ude we' ve j ust l ooked at , andt hey al so know how t o accept get t i ng rej ect ed wi t hout i t bother i ng t hem and t hey

l ear n f r om t hei r mi st akes.Ok. As I pr omi sed, l et ' s get on t o t he next coupl e of chapt er s whi ch wi l l showyou how t o act ual l y l i ve t hese at t i t udes i nst ead of j ust r eadi ng about t hem.


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Chapt er Two

HOW TO I NSTALLTHE SUPER GET LAI D ATTI TUDES I N YOURSELFSO YOU USE THEM AUTOMATI CALLY

Ther e i s one smal l poi nt you have t o get bef or e you can use t hi s exerci se. Takea mi nut e t o i magi ne your sel f r i di ng i n a r ol l er coast er . See your sel f si t t i ng i nt he f r ont car , r i di ng up and down.

Now, make another pi ct ur e of a r ol l er coast er , but t hi s t i me, do NOT seeyour sel f i n t he pi ct ur e. See i t as i f you wer e act ual l y l ooki ng out of your owneyes, si t t i ng i n t he r ol l er coaster . Ri de f or a f ew moment s.

Now, whi ch one of t hose f el t more real i n your body? I ' l l bet anythi ng i t wast he second ki nd. An i mage or goal onl y appears r eal t o your mi nd i f i t comes i nt he second f orm, as i f you were seei ng i t t hr ough your own eyes.

THE FAI LURE TO UNDERSTAND THI S SI MPLE DI FFERENCEBETWEEN THE TWO KI NDS OF MENTAL PI CTURES PEOPLE MAKE

I S THE SI NGLE BI GGEST REASON WHY MOST PEOPLENEVER REACH THEI R GOALS.

You coul d i magi ne yoursel f act i ng conf i dent and power f ul unt i l you ar e bl ue i nt he f ace, but unl ess you gi ve your mi nd some cues as t o when i t i s goi ng to t api nt o those pi ct ur es you wi l l get NOWHERE. You wi l l never t ap i nt o al l t hosegr eat r esour ces you' ve been i magi ni ng.

For ease we are goi ng t o cal l t he f i r st ki nd of pi ct ur e, wher e you do seeyour sel f , pi ct ur e type 1, and the second ki nd of pi ct ur e wher e you do not seeyour sel f , pi cture t ype 2.

Ok. Now t hat we have made t hat cl ear , l et ' s get on t o t he exerc i se.

Step One:

Recal l a t i me i n your past when you f el t conf i dent and powerf ul . A t i me wher eyou f ul l y f el t t he way you' d l i ke t o f eel around women. Thi s can be anywhere andabout anyt hi ng - a gr eat gol f shot you made, or an "A" book report you di d i nschool .

Step Two:

Cl ose your eyes, and see your sel f i n t he f i r st ki nd of pi ct ur e, goi ng t hr ought hat exper i ence agai n.

St ep Thr ee:

Now, st ep i nt o the pi ct ur e, and see t he event s as i f you wer e actual l y l ooki ngout f r om your own eyes. See what you saw, hear what you heard, and f eel how goodi t f el t i n your body. When t hose f eel i ngs of conf i dence and power r each t hei rpeak i n your body, r each over wi t h your r i ght hand, and gi ve your l ef t wr i st asqueeze. Run t hrough t hi s t wi ce more, gi vi ng t he same squeeze i n t he same pl ace.

Thi s wi l l t r ai n your mi nd t o r ecal l t hose f eel i ngs of power and conf i dencewhenever you squeeze your wr i st t he way you are doi ng now.



St ep Four :

Thi nk of a si t uat i on or ci r cumst ance where you woul d l i ke t o be mor e power f ulwi t h women or more poi sed or what ever i t i s you' d l i ke.

St ep Fi ve:

Pi ct ur e i t t he second way, as i f i t wer e goi ng on and you wer e seei ng i t t hr oughyour own eyes.

St ep Si x:

As you do so, r each over wi t h your r i ght hand and squeeze your l ef t wr i st ,t r i gger i ng your conf i dence anchor . Thi s wi l l t r ai n your mi nd t o aut omat i cal l ycal l up t he f eel i ngs of conf i dence and power when you are i n a si t uat i on l i ket he one you ar e seei ng t hrough your own eyes. You won' t even have t o t hi nk aboutdoi ng i t , whi ch i s t he advant age. ( And t hat ' s why anchor i ng works where"posi t i ve t hi nki ng" won' t , because of t en by t he t i me you get your sel f t hi nki ngposi t i vel y, i t ' s al ready t oo l at e. )

Now, once you' ve done thi s, I want you t o do i t agai n, but t hi s t i me I want yout o pi ck di f f er ent ci r cumst ances wher e you' d l i ke t o use your "power att i t ude"t hat we t al ked about i n the f i r st chapt er . Make one a si t uat i on wher e you see abeaut i f ul woman you' d l i ke t o tal k t o. Anot her coul d be maki ng a pass at a womanback at your pl ace. Go through t he si t uat i on wi t h t he f i r st ki nd of pi ct ur e,seei ng your sel f i n t he pi ct ur e. Then st ep i nt o t he pi ct ur e, and go t hr ough i t ,f eel i ng what i t woul d f eel l i ke, l ooki ng thr ough your own eyes. Do t he samet hi ng f or t he second "l earni ng f r om your mi st akes" att i t ude. See your sel f maki nga mi st ake, f eel i ng ok about i t , and l ear ni ng what ever l esson you need so you cando i t di f f er ent l y next t i me. Then st ep i nt o t he pi ct ur e and see i t t hr ough yourown eyes.



Chapter Thr ee

BELI EVE I T OR NOT,HOW TO HAVE EVEN MORE CONFI DENCE WI TH WOMEN

A great deal of success and power wi t h women has not hi ng t o do wi t h how you actand f eel about t hem, but a l ot t o do wi t h how you act and f eel about your sel f .What we' r e real l y t al ki ng about her e i s SELF- RESPECT.

Pl ent y of men who woul dn' t t ake a bi t of cr ap f r omanother guy t ur n i nt o downr i ght spi nel ess wi mps when i t comes t o women. Whether t hey ar e rel i vi ng ol ddramas wi t h a mommy t hey coul dn' t pl ease as chi l dren, or are scared f or someother r eason, t hey put t he woman f i r st .

Ot her guys have a sl i ght l y di f f er ent pr obl em. They may not t ake any crap f r omawoman, but get t i ng l ai d i s SO damn i mport ant t o t hem t hat t hey l ose si ght ofot her pr i or i t i es. I n a sense i n l oses al l t he f un aspect s, and get s t o be acompul si on.

Guys l i ke t hi s may wi n t he bat t l es, but t hey ar e def i ni t el y l osi ng t he war .

Women may be ni ce addi t i ons t o your l i f e, and i f you f i nd the r i ght one, youmi ght even chose t o make her part of t he cent er of your s. But a l i f e spent doi ngnothi ng but chasi ng women i s a pr et t y st upi d one.

I f t hat i s your pr obl em, t hen pul l your sel f up shor t f or a mi nut e, and askyour sel f i f you mi ght be mi ssi ng some of t he ot her pl easur es l i f e has t o of f er .

You mi ght be shocked t o l earn t hat a qui et eveni ng at home wi t h a good book canactual l y be more st i mul at i ng than a bor i ng date wi t h a huge br east ed bi mbo wi t ha room t emper at ur e I . Q.

So her e' s a hi nt f or i ncreasi ng your conf i dence wi t h women: STOP NEEDI NG THEM SOMUCH! And a good way t o do t hat i s goi ng out and f i ndi ng a hobby that you canr eal l y enj oy. Somethi ng t hat get s you AWAY f r om women.

Not onl y wi l l t hi s i ncrease your conf i dence as you are on t he pr owl , i t pr ovi desa gr eat escape f or when t hat speci al l ady you are wi t h put s a bi t of st r ess andst r ai n on your br ai n, as t hey so of t en wi l l .

Per sonal l y, I pref er Bi g Mout h Bass Fi shi ng. Most women hat e even t he thought ofsome i cky, sl i my f i sh f l oppi ng al l over t hem, and woul dn' t even consi der aski ngt o go al ong wi t h you. And besi des, I enj oy catchi ng somethi ng wi t h a bi g mout h,and bei ng abl e t o i nst ant l y throw i t away i f I f eel l i ke i t . Women ar e not soeasy.



Chapter Four

STI LL MORE CONFI DENCE AND POWER WI TH WOMEN!

Here i s a magi c word that wi l l br i ng you l oads of success wi t h women, and getyou l ai d l i ke cr azy. I t works wi t h al l women, but t he more beaut i f ul t he woman,t he bet t er i t works. The word i s: NO!

That ' s r i ght . No! The same wor d t hat wi l l keep a puppy f r om wet t i ng t he car petwi l l al so keep a woman f r omshi t t i ng on you!

You must say no t o a woman once i n a whi l e, when i t i s over an i ssue ofi mport ance, and when you mean i t .

No mat t er how gor geous, or great i n t he sack or how ot her wi se wonder f ul she maybe ( and who el se but such a goddess coul d possi bl y begi n t o deser ve t o be i n

YOUR company?) you must be wi l l i ng t o wal k away f r om her i f you can' t deal wi t hher f roma posi t i on of sel f - respect.

And sel f - r espect , my f r i end, i s mostl y a mat t er of what you say no to. I t ' s a

boundary set by what i s not permi t t ed, t ol er ated or al l owed. And whi l e i t may benegat i ve f r om t hi s semant i c sense, i n r eal i t y i t i s t he most power and posi t i vef or ce you have goi ng f or you. When a woman senses i t i n you, she knows she' sf ound somet hi ng she' s i nst i nct i vel y want ed si nce she r eal i zed she' s f emal e: AMAN SHE COULD NEVER HOPE TO CONTROL.

I know t hi s i sn' t easy. I t hur t s, r eal l y hur t s t o have t o wal k away f r om someoneyou r eal l y di g because she i sn' t t r eat i ng you r i ght . But l ove can of t en be l i kea st r eet f i ght , and r emember t he st r eet f i ght er ' s number one r ul e: I gnore t hepai n and car r y out your of f ensi ve wi t h ever ythi ng you' ve got . I f you can pul lt hi s of f , you wi l l wal k wi t h a conf i dence and power t hat women of al l ages wi l lbe abl e to sense. And mor e i mpor t ant l y, you' l l l i ke t he guy who l i ves i nsi deyour ski n.



Chapt er Fi ve

YET MORE CONFI DENCE AND POWER WI TH WOMEN

Geor ge S. Pat t on J r . , t he hel l - f or - l eat her Gener al of Wor l d War I I f ame was onceasked what he t hought of hi s r i val , t he Br i t i sh Fi el d Mar shal l Mont gomer y.Pat t on r epl i ed, "He' s t he best Gener al t he Br i t i sh have. But he' s morei nt er est ed i n not l osi ng t han he i s i n wi nni ng. Unf ort unatel y f or many men,t hat ' s t hei r at t i t ude t oward women. They wal k on egg- shel l s, caut i ous as can be,hopi ng agai nst hope t hat t hey don' t make a mi st ake.

I f you want t o have DYNAMI C power wi t h women, begi n t o f ocus on what you want ,and what you are goi ng t o do, not on what you mi ght l ose or what ' s goi ng t ohappen t o you i f you don' t wi n. Of cour se, gi ve t he ri sks a gl ance. But don' tf ocus on t hem.

Focus on what you desi r e. What wi l l i t be l i ke when you' r e wi t h t hat woman youwant ? What wi l l you see? What wi l l you hear ? What wi l l you f eel i n your body?

These ar e t he ki nds of quest i ons t hat wi l l get you exci t ed about and ai med at

wi nni ng, i nst ead of cr i ngi ng at l osi ng. Even i f you know you have somecompet i t i on you' l l be abl e to gi ve i t your best shot , because your maj or f ocuswi l l be on your out come.

I n short :

GLANCE AT WHAT YOU MI GHT HAVE TO LOSE,BUT FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT TO WI N.



Chapt er Si x

HOW TO FAKE LI KE YOU ARE WARM AND FRI ENDLY

When I was i n col l ege, and st r uggl i ng j ust t o get a dat e, l et al one get l ai dr i ght and l ef t , I knew one guy who ALWAYS had gr eat l ooki ng women around hi m. Heseemed t o know pract i cal l y ever y gi r l on campus, and they' d al ways come up tohi m and gi ve hi m hugs and ki sses. No, he was not a coke deal er or a pi mp. Of al lt hi ngs, he was an evangel i st .

Now, I ' m cer t ai nl y not advocat i ng J esus Fr eaker y as t he way t o get your weeni ewet . But you mi ght t ake a f ew l essons f r om t hi s guy, Chr i s. I ' d wat ch hi m go t owork on women who were absol ute st r angers and wi t hi n a f ew mi nut es, t hey' d bel aughi ng and punchi ng hi m pl ayf ul l y, somet i mes gi vi ng hi m hugs. I f i t wer en' tf or t he Lor d, Chr i s woul d have been t he bi g st ud on campus.

And what was hi s secret , a secr et I hope YOU use to l aunch you on t he way t oget t i ng l ai d l i ke a bandi t ? Hi s af f i ni t y and warmt h made women f eel ADORED. Hedi dn' t come on al l hot and heavy, l i ke a hungr y wol f on t he pr owl . He came onwi t h al l t he f r i endl i ness and f un at hi s di sposal - as i f t hese st r ange women

wer e l ong l ost f r i ends t hat he dear l y l oved.

And they bought i t ! Even the chi cki est woman, who i s very upt i ght about bei ng asex obj ect , want s t o f eel l oved and speci al . And j ust by t he warmt h i n t he toneof hi s voi ce and hi s smi l e he made t hese gi r l s f eel as i f t hey WERE l ong l ostf r i ends.

Look at i t t hi s way: Even t he nast i est per son f i nds i t har d t o r eact f ear f ul l yor angr i l y t o someone who makes t hemf eel l oved and appr eci ated.

I suggest you make t hi s AS I F pr i nci pl e part of your bag of t r i cks. The nextt i me you appr oach a woman who i s maki ng you bur st out of your pants wi t h l ust ,t r y put t i ng asi de t he l ust and t ur ni ng on t he warmt h.

Conveyi ng warmt h and af f i ni t y i sn' t so tough - j ust t hi nk of how you l ook andsound when you see a ni ece or nephew, or even a pet t hat del i ght s you. No, I amnot suggest i ng baby tal k as a way of scori ng babes. I ' m t r yi ng t o gi ve you anexampl e of wher e i t ' s natur al f or you t o behave t he way I ' d l i ke you t o t r ybehavi ng wi t h women.

The i mpor t ant pr i nci pl e t o appl y here i s t hat THE MEANI NG OF YOUR COMMUNI CATI ONI S THE RESPONSE I T GETS. I f you use a t one of voi ce or a f aci al expr essi on t hatmakes women f ear f ul or suspi ci ous, t hen no mat t er how cl ever your words ar e, t hemessage you convey t o her i s t hat she shoul d be af r ai d and suspi ci ous of you.

I f voi ce tone and physi ol ogy (and agai n I don' t mean your appear ance per se, butr ather your post ur e and f aci al expr essi ons) are so cruci al i n how women r eact t o

you, t hen what i s t he key t o pr oduci ng voi ce tone and physi ol ogy? Your bel i efand expect at i on about your out come.

I f you bel i eve you are goi ng t o get r ej ect ed t hen you are ei t her goi ng t o conveyf ear, and make her f earf ul or el se you are goi ng t o t r y t o beat her t o the punchand act so obnoxi ous t hat she r ej ect s you r i ght of f , so you don' t have t o wai tt oo l ong i n suspense f or your negat i ve pr edi ct i on t o come t r ue. You j ust want t oget i t over wi t h qui ckl y so you act ual l y pr oduce t he humi l i at i on t hat youbel i eve you cannot avoi d.



By cont r ast , i f you act as i f you t r ul y were someone who ever yone l i ked andr ecei ved warml y, t hen t hat warmt h i s what your t one and physi ol ogy wi l l convey,and t hat ' s t he response you wi l l get , ni ne ti mes out of t en. I ' m not sayi ngyou' l l get l ai d wi t h ever yone you appr oach, but sel domwi l l you have a nast yexper i ence ei t her . And any woman who doesn' t r espond posi t i vel y t o warmt h andaf f i ni t y i s ser i ousl y si ck and shoul d be avoi ded at al l cost s anyway.

PRACTI CE EXERCI SE: OK, I know t hi s one i s goi ng t o SEEM a l i t t l e si l l y, but i t ' sgoi ng t o hel p you get l ai d l i ke CRAZY, so j ust do i t !

Step One:

Remember t he words t o t he pl edge of al l egi ance. I n case you don' t here they are:( You may st and and put your hand over your hear t i f you so choose. )

I pl edge al l egi ance t o the f l ag of t he Uni t ed St at es of Amer i ca, and t o theRepubl i c f or whi ch i t st ands, one nat i on, under God, i ndi vi si bl e, wi t h l i ber t yand j ust i ce f or al l .

Step Two:

Pract i ce, out l oud, sayi ng t hese words wi t h al l t he warmt h and f r i endl i ness youcan must er .

St ep Thr ee:

Pr act i ce sayi ng t hem out l oud as i f you t hought t hey wer e the f unni est t hi ng i nt he wor l d and you mi ght cr ack up l aughi ng at any moment .

OK, so you f eel a bi t si l l y pr act i ci ng ( and i f someone shoul d catch you t hey mayt hi nk you' ve j oi ned t he J ohn Bi r ch Soci et y) and i t seems wei r d. But j ustr emember -

I T I SN' T SO MUCH WHAT YOU SAY TO A WOMAN,BUT YOUR TONE OF VOI CE WHEN YOU SAY I T! ! ! !



Chapt er Seven

GETTI NG HER ATTENTI ONTHE KEY TO PI CK- UPS WHEREVER YOU ARE

I have a br other who' s i n adver t i si ng - more speci f i cal l y he wr i t es newspaperand magazi ne ad copy. I once wat ched hi m at work, and he sat f or about t hr eehours and t hen wr ot e one sent ence! One sent ence!

I asked hi m why he t ook so l ong on one sentence and hi s answer st uck wi t h me:I t ' s t hat f i r st sent ence t hat det er mi nes whet her t hey even read the r est of t head!

Look at meet i ng women l i ke an ad man who' s wr i t i ng copy f or a newspaper ad.Maybe one out of a hundr ed r eader s i s act i vel y l ooki ng f or t he pr oduct you aret r yi ng t o sel l , and t hey wi l l r ead your whol e ad no matt er what t he headl i nesays.

The r est of t he r eader s coul d car e l ess. They ar e busy f l i ppi ng pages, t r yi ng t oget t o t he comi cs sect i on or t he sport s page. They wi l l onl y st op i f somet hi ng

gr abs t hei r at t ent i on.

So i t i s wi t h t he aver age chi ck. I n a f ew l ucky si t uat i ons, your l ooks al onewi l l snag her . But t he rest of t he t i me you won' t have much chance of sel l i ngyour pr oduct unl ess you gr ab her at t ent i on and gr ab i t f ast . ( I know, you wantt o gr ab somet hi ng el se, but t hat comes l ater . Ani mal . )

Bel ow are some of t he best ways t o gr ab a gi r l ' s at t ent i on. Keep them i n mi nd asyou read the next f ew chapt ers .

HumorAppeal i ng to her cur i osi t yPut t i ng an unusual or unexpect ed t wi st on an ol d, cl i che pi ck- up

Rol e pl ayi ngFaki ng l i ke you al r eady know herAppeal i ng t o her egoShowi ng out r ageous bal l s or gut s



Chapt er Ei ght

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN YOU' VE J UST METFEEL LI KE SHE' S MET THE MAN OF HER DREAMS

The next st ep af t er you' ve got her at t ent i on i s t o i nt r oduce yoursel f and gether name. I hope you are smar t enough t o do that wi t hout my advi ce.

Then you' ve got t o cr eat e t he i l l usi on of r appor t . For t hose of you who don' tknow what r apport means, t he di ct i onar y def i nes i t as: "Accor d, af f i ni t y,r el at i ons marked by har mony. "

The t echni ques you use t o cr eat e r appor t wi l l var y accor di ng t o t he t ype ofpi ck- up you are usi ng. Of cour se, we' ve al r eady gone over t he pr oper way to useyour t one of voi ce.

Here are t wo other very sneaky and powerf ul ways t o cr eat e rappor t wi t h a woman.You shoul d use t hemwhen you' r e act ual l y on a dat e as wel l as when you f i r stmeet a woman. They t ake some pr act i ce t o mast er , but work qui t e wel l .

MI RRORI NG

Ther e once was a ver y power f ul and successf ul hypnot i st by t he name of Mi l t onEri ckson. When you are t hrough wi t h t hi s book you may wel l want t o bui l d ashr i ne to Er i ckson, because t hi s man i s goi ng to hel p get you l ai d more t hanhavi ng a mi l l i on dol l ars cash and a body l i ke Scharwt znegger .

Er i ckson coul d hypnot i ze anyone, even t he most r esi st ant pat i ent or cl i ent . Oneof t he ways he di d thi s was by mi r r or i ng the br eat hi ng of t he person he washypnot i zi ng.

Now, I ' m goi ng to pause f or a mi nut e so you can go t hr ough your "Bul l shi t "r eact i on. But mi r r or i ng someone' s breat hi ng i s a very powerf ul way t o make them

unconsci ousl y f eel i n t une wi t h you. Er i ckson woul d watch t he r ate of hi scl i ent ' s breat hi ng and t hen begi n t o mat ch i t wi t h hi s own br eathi ng, or wi t ht he pace of hi s speaki ng. Or he' d t ap hi s chest wi t h hi s hand i n t i me to theper sons breat hi ng, and t hen begi n t o gr adual l y sl ow t he tappi ng. The per son' sbr eathi ng woul d sl ow i n t i me to t he tappi ng!

Mi r r or i ng works because your unconsci ous pi cks up and i s aware of t hi ngs yourconsci ous mi nd has no knowl edge of . To convi nce your sel f t hat t hi s i s so, t r yt hi s exper i ment :

Get a f r i end of your s and have t hem cl ose t hei r eyes. Ask t hem t o keep t hei reyes cl osed, and guess what you are doi ng.St and i n f r ont of t hem, and begi n speaki ng. As you do so, sway your head f r omsi de t o si de.

Ask t hemwhat you ar e doi ng.

Of cour se, t hey wi l l be abl e to t el l you you are movi ng your head back andf ort h. Now, ask t hem how t hey knew t hey' l l t el l you t hey coul d hear t hedi f f erence i n how you sounded.

Now, t r y i t agai n, but t hi s t i me ask t hem t o keep t hei r eyes open. Ask i f t heycan hear t he di f f er ence now, and of cour se t hey can' t ? Act ual l y, t hey CAN heart he di f f er ence, because t hey st i l l have t he same pai r of ear s - t hey j ust ar en' tCONSCI OUSLY aware of i t . But unconsci ousl y, you bet t hey are!



I n t he same way, i f you mi r r or a chi ck' s br eat hi ng, or her t one of voi ce, orr at e of speaki ng, or even a par t i cul ar gest ur e she uses, on a consci ous l evelshe won' t not i ce. I f she does not i ce on a consci ous l evel , t hen you are bei ngt oo obvi ous and she' s ei t her goi ng t o thi nk you are a wei r do or are maki ng f unof her , and nei t her of t hese wi l l scor e you poi nt s.

But i f you do i t subt l y, t hen al l she wi l l know i s t hat f or some odd r eason shesur e seems t o f eel r i ght down comf ort abl e wi t h you, ol d buddy, as i f she' s l ovedyou f or year s!



Chapter Ni ne

SOME GREAT METHODS AND GREAT PLACESTO PI CK UP MORE WOMENTHAN YOU AND A FRI ENDCOULD POSSI BLY HOPE TO HANDLEI NCLUDI NG THE ONLY TWO PI CK- UP LI NESI N THE WORLD THAT WORK SO WELL

THAT THEY CAN GET YOU LAI D AUTOMATI CALLY

ECOLOGY WARNI NG! ! ! ! ! ! !

You ar e about t o l earn some ver y ef f ect i ve met hods f or meet i ng women. Whi l e al lof t hem are ef f ect i ve, some of t hem mi ght not be r i ght f or you t o use i n anover al l sense. I f , f or exampl e, you need t o work on bei ng more di r ect , t henusi ng some of t he t r i cki er met hods t hat r el y on get t i ng a woman' s at t ent i on vi asome ki nd of pl oy mi ght hur t you i n t he l ong run. Use your own best j udgment andt r y to t hi nk l ong t er m.

Si ngl es Bar s

Even t hough I don' t par t i cul ar l y car e f or si ngl es bar s, I guess I am obl i gat edt o t el l you some ways t o work t hem. Here ar e some t hi ngs t o keep i n mi nd i f youwant t o use si ngl es bars t o pi ck up women:Women i n si ngl es bars are sor t of l i ke mot orcycl e cops. Mot orcycl e cops havehear d ever y st or y i n t he book f r om peopl e t r yi ng t o tal k t hem out of t i cket s.Women i n si ngl es bars have hear d every st ory and l i ne ( i f t hey are hal f waydecent l ooki ng, t hat i s, and i f not , who car es?) t r yi ng t o t al k them out oft hei r pant i es.Si nce you are runni ng agai nst t he odds, you are goi ng t o have t o go t hrough somenumber s bef ore you get a pi ck- up. Unl ess you are a movi e st ar or l ook l i ke aGr eek God, f i gur e about 10 "no' s" ( woul d you bel i eve, "f uck of f ") f or ever y yes,i f you ar e l ucky. So pi ck an appr oach you enj oy doi ng, si nce you are goi ng tohave to use i t a l ot . Per sonal l y, I pr ef er a f unny appr oach, because I l i ke

get t i ng a l augh, enj oy a woman wi t h a sense of humor , and general l y have f unwi t h t hi s angl e of at t ack.Si nce most bars are so l oud, what wi t h hundr eds of peopl e tal ki ng at once, andmore of t en than not , musi c bl ast i ng as wel l , BRI NG A PEN AND SMALL NOTE PAD! ! !

Thi s wi l l save your voi ce and al l ow you t o communi cat e!Keep movi ng, and don' t l et a l ess t han opt i mum r esponse st op you. Thi s i s anumber s game, and i f a part i cul ar gi r l i sn' t gi vi ng you t he r esponse you l i ke,cut bai t and move on t o gr eener past ur es.

OK. Her e i s my f avori t e si ngl es bar met hod. I t i nvol ves usi ng a note pad andpen. What I do i s pi ck out a gi r l t hat i nt er est s me, scri bbl e t hi s not e, andhand i t t o her :

"Hi , " I ' m t aki ng a sur vey on bad l i nes. Ci r cl e whi ch one you t hi nk i s t he wor st .

"1. `Come her e of t en, sugar pant s?'

"2. `Hey, baby. Can we go out i n the col d and hug?'

"3. `Hi . I ' m t aki ng a sur vey on bad l i nes. ' "

Thi s al most al ways gets a l augh. When i t doesn' t , I j ust wal k away, because i ft he chi ck can' t t ake a j oke, t hen t o heck wi t h her . But , as I sai d, t hi s i s a



f un, enj oyabl e appr oach f or me, i t ' s uni que and di f f er ent , and i t ' s a goodopener.

Ther e ar e l ot s of var i at i ons on t he basi c note pad and pen appr oach. You coul dpret end you are wr i t i ng a book f or men and want t o sur vey women on t he best wayst o meet t hem i n bars . But t hi s appr oach mi ght arouse some suspi ci on, and I ki ndof t hi nk i t ' s more common t han you' d bel i eve.

Happy Hour s

Your l ocal r est aurant or bar ' s happy hour i s a great pl ace t o meet women. Theygo t here t o r el ax and unwi nd af t er work, and that means al cohol consumpt i on, andpl ent y of i t . So, you al r eady have one st r i ke i n your f avor , because t hei ri nhi bi t i ons ar e goi ng t o be a l ot l ess t han nor mal .

The " t aki ng a survey met hod" wor ks bet t er i n t hi s set t i ng t han i n a si ngl es bar ,as women ar e, as I sai d, l ess suspi ci ous. You' r e pr obabl y bet t er of f sayi ng t hatyou are wr i t i ng a book f or men and you are worki ng on a chapt er on bad l i nes.Ask t he women you meet t o t el l you t he worst pi ck- up l i nes t hey' ve ever hear d.

They' l l be mor e t han happy t o t el l you- one of t he t hi ngs women do most when

t hey get t oget her f or dri nks i s t o chi ck about men, so you' l l pr obabl y be r i ghton subj ect ! Thi s i s a f un appr oach, t hat adds some humor t o the st al e "best wayst o meet women sur vey" approach. You' l l meet l ot s of women, and some of t hem arebound to go f or you, out of sheer number s al one. Who knows, you mi ght f i nd outt hat some of your f avori t e l i nes ar e act ual l y t he ones women t hi nk of as bei ngt he worst ! That al one woul d make i t wort h your whi l e!Wai t r esses

One of t he t hi ngs I not i ced when I was f i r st t r yi ng out si ngl es bars and happyhour st r ategi es was t hat t he wai t r esses were al most al ways bet t er l ooki ng thanany of t he f emal e cust omers! Take a good l ook next t i me you go t o t hese pl acesand you wi l l see t hat I am r i ght .

I l ove pi cki ng up wai t r esses. Ther e i s f ar l ess pr essur e, t hey have t o tal k t oyou, and you can t ake your t i me. Unl i ke a gi r l you meet i n a bar , who you wi l lmore t han l i kel y never see agai n unl ess you get a dat e, you can pret t y much knowwher e and when the wai t r ess of your dreams wi l l be.

I shoul d poi nt out t hat wi t h wai t r esses, as wel l as sal es cl er ks, and ot her"worki ng women" you have t o deci de on a one st ep or t wo st ep approach. By t hat ,I mean t hat i f t hi ngs seem t o be goi ng r eal l y good on your f i r st meet i ng, youcan ask her out r i ght on t he spot . I f not , you can t r y to bui l d more rapport onl at er vi si t s, bef or e you hi t her f or t he dat e or phone number .

Wai t r ess Bai t

As wi t h any pi ck- up, key f i r st st ep i s t o get your t ar get s att ent i on. Her e ar e

t hr ee good ways t o do t hat :

1. The cl ever l i ne appr oach. Here' s a l i ne t hat I ' ve used t i me and agai n. Godmust have whi sper ed i t i n my ear, t he f i r st t i me I used i t . I t works when youar e i n a si ngl es bar or other bar or r est aur ant t hat has l ot s of f emal ecust omer s, and your t ar get i s busy ser vi ng dr i nks. J ust l ook at her and say,

" I j ust want ed you t o know t hat ni nety- ni ne percent of t he women who wal k i nt hat door woul d ki l l t hei r own mothers t o l ook hal f as good as you do. "



Thi s i s probabl y t he most ef f ect i ve l i ne you wi l l ever use. I t ' s one t hi ng f or abeaut i f ul woman t o hear t hat a man t hi nks she' s good l ooki ng, but i t i sn' tr eal l y t hat bi g a deal t o her . Af t er al l , she al r eady knows i t i s t r ue, and mayeven be t i r ed of hear i ng i t .

But , women bei ng such cat - l i ke cr eat ures, not hi ng pl eases t hemmore than t o knowt hat t hey ar e SO beaut i f ul t hat other women hate t hemf or i t and are i nsanel y

j eal ous! Even t he most j aded, hard- assed woman woul d l ove t o bel i eve t hi s i strue!

2. The di r ect appr oach. Her e, you ar e di r ect , but you al so acknowl edge ther eal i t y t hat you are a st r anger t o her , and t hat you r espect her need t o earnher l i vi ng wi t hout bei ng har assed by pi ck- up art i st s. Wal k up to her and say,

" I don' t mean t o i nt er r upt you whi l e you are worki ng, but I j ust want ed you t oknow t hat I t hi nk you' r e one of t he most at t r act i ve women I ' ve ever seen, andI ' m r eal l y gl ad I worked up t he cour age t o i nt r oduce mysel f t o you. "

Tel l her your name, ask her hers, and t hen l et her get back t o wor k. Chancesar e, she' l l be so i mpr essed, she' l l come over t o t al k to you. Thi s l i ne i s ver y

f l at t er i ng, and what r eal l y makes i t wor k i s t he l ast bi t about "wor ki ng up t hecour age t o meet you. " I t i mpl i es t hat she' s so beaut i f ul t hat you j ust had t oover come al l t hat shyness j ust so you coul d get a chance t o meet her . Women eatt hi s l i ne l i ke candy and i t wi l l get you l ai d by wai t r esses, sal esgi r l s and t hel i ke wi t h st ar t l i ng f r equency.

3. The di r t y, sneaky, f ake l i ke you ar e i n show bi z appr oach. Her e i n L. A. ,99. 999% of t he bet t er l ooki ng wai t r esses are aspi r i ng act r esses, wai t i ng f ort hat bi g br eak. Some of t hese women are so gor geous t hey woul d make you dr ool i nyour pant s, and they are r i pe f or someone who t hey t hi nk can hel p t hemal ong i nt hei r car eer . Now, keepi ng i n mi nd t he ecol ogy warni ng at t he begi nni ng of t hi schapt er, l et me tel l you how I st umbl ed on t o thi s scam and how i t can hel p yout o sl eep wi t h t he most beaut i f ul women around.

At t he t i me I st umbl ed on t hi s appr oach, I had a r oommat e who worked f or a smal laer ospace r esearch company. They had j ust moved i nt o a sui t e of of f i ces t hatpr evi ousl y had been occupi ed by a t al ent agency. Openi ng a cl oset one day, t heydi scover ed a f ew hundr ed pi ct ur es of ver y good l ooki ng act r esses who wereappl yi ng f or a rol e i n a f i l m.

My r oommat e brought about a hundr ed of t hem home, and as I was goi ng throught hem, sl obber i ng al l over mysel f , i t suddenl y occur r ed to me that :Most of t hese gi r l s wer e pr obabl y worki ng as wai t r esses t o support t hemsel ves.What bet t er way t o get f avorabl e at t ent i on f r omsome cut i e pi e wai t r ess than t owal k i nt o a bar or r est aur ant wi t h t hese and j ust st art goi ng t hr ough t hem.

So, t hat ' s what I di d. And sure enough, bef ore l ong, a very gorgeous young f ood

and dr i nk ser vi ce t echni ci an ( bur eaucr atese f or wai t r ess) came by t o see what Iwas doi ng. I t ol d her t hat my si st er r an a company t hat makes movi es f or TV( whi ch happens t o be the t r ut h, but don' t wor r y i f you don' t have a si st er t hatdoes t hat , you can t al k about my si st er i f you f eel gui l t y) and t hat she want edme to go t hrough t hese pi ct ures and sel ect t he ones I t hought were the mostat t r act i ve. Nat ur al l y, t hi s sweet i e pi e was an aspi r i ng f ut ur e Oscar wi nner , andasked i f she coul d get a resume to me. I sai d i t woul d have to be f ast , as mysi st er want ed t o know by t omorr ow. Of cour se, she i nvi t ed me to come back t o herpl ace af t er wor k to get t he pi ct ur e, and wel l , we had a f ew dr i nks and. . . . . . . .



The key t o t hi s met hod i s not t o make i t seeml i ke you ar e bl ackmai l i ng her .Tel l her you woul d be happy t o submi t her pi ct ure and r esume t o t he r i ghtperson. Af t er you have agreed t o that , THEN ask her out . The threat of you notdoi ng i t i f she doesn' t accept hasn' t been made, and ni ce guy that you are, youwoul dn' t even t hi nk of i mpl yi ng i t . But she mi ght be af r ai d of l osi ng your goodwi l l , and so wi l l accept . Tr y to get her t o go out wi t h you on t he spot .

Now, some of you may be wonderi ng, "Wel l , i t sounds great . But what i f I don' thave a r oommat e who happens t o wor k f or an aer ospace r esear ch company t hathappens t o be i n the same of f i ce t hat used t o be used by a t al ent agency?"

Good quest i on. What you do i s put a si mpl e ad i n your l ocal paper al ong thesel i nes:

"Model s want ed! Al l expenses pai d, pl us $500. 00 phot o shoot i n Tahi t i ! Send 8 x10 to: Your Name Pr oduct i ons, Your Addr ess. "

That shoul d get you some ni ce r esponses.

St r eet and Super market Pi ckups

One of t he t oughest pl aces to pi ck- up women i s r i ght on t he st r eet , and t hat ' swhy I l ove i t ; i t ' s a real chal l enge.

Of cour se, one of t he easy ways out i s t he ol d " t aki ng a sur vey" method, butt hat i sn' t near l y as much f un as usi ng l i nes.

The absol ut e key t o st r eet pi ckups i s t o be ver y upbeat , happy, war m andf r i endl y. Do NOT come on heavy on the st r eet . Women are nat ur al l y ( and j ust l y)caut i ous i n t he bi g ci t y.

Her e' s a gr eat st r eet pi ck- up f or you t hat wi l l al so wor k i n a super market . Ical l i t t he compl i ment st r i ng.

Pi ck out your t arget , t hen wal k al ongsi de her . Fi nd one thi ng about her you cangenui nel y compl i ment , t hen say:

" I l i ke your hat . "

She' l l say "Thank you. "

Then say, " I l i ke your wat ch. "

She' l l say "Thank you. "

Then what you do i s pause, sor t of l ook at her si deways f or a moment , and saywi t h as much charm and good humor as you can:

"Come t o t hi nk of i t , I l i ke ever yt hi ng. "

Ni ne t i mes out of t en t hat wi l l get a bi g l augh. I f she doesn' t l augh, she' s aver y upt i ght chi ck and you' d j ust get r ej ect ed i f you st r ai ght asked her outanyway.

Once she' s l aughed you hi t her wi t h t hi s:



"My name' s ___ ___ __ . By what name are you cal l ed, you shi ni ng exampl e of genet i cper f ecti on?"

( I know t hat sounds cor ny but i t wi l l get a bi g l augh. Tr ust me. )

Once she tel l s you, you say,

"You know, I can t el l you' r e woman wi t h f ant ast i c good t ast e. And you know how Iknow t hat ?"

She' l l ask how.

"Because you l augh at al l of my j okes. "

She' l l l augh agai n. Then you hi t her wi t h anot her l augh l i ne.

"Do you bel i eve i n i r r at i onal and sel f - def eat i ng i nf at uat i on at f i r st si ght ?"

She' l l l augh agai n. I f she says yes, t hen you shoul d j oki ngl y l ook heavenwardand say,

"Thank you, God. Woul d you l i ke t o get a cup of cof f ee?" I f she says no ( t o thei nf at uat i on quest i on, not your cof f ee i nvi t at i on) , you say,

"Gr eat . Then I ' m not bei ng i r r at i onal i f I ask you t o have a cup of cof f ee ( orsome f r ozen yogur t , or what ever i s nearby and conveni ent ) .What ever t he response, you want t o t r y t o i nvi t e her t o do somethi ng wi t h you,i n a publ i c pl ace, r i ght t hen and t her e.

I f she says she' d l i ke t o, but i s i n a hur r y to get somewher e, ask her out f ort hat eveni ng, i f i t i s at al l f easi bl e. Say somet hi ng l i ke "I ' d be ver yf l at t er ed i f you' d have di nner wi t h me t oni ght . " Be di r ect , but char mi ng at t hesame t i me, and don' t back down! Your ver y di r ect ness i s part of what makes you

appeal i ng, and when you combi ne i t wi t h charm, a smi l e, and the abi l i t y t o makeher l augh, you ar e real l y goi ng to hi t her har d. And that bi t about bei ng"f l at t er ed. " Wel l , f or some r eason I can' t f i gur e, t hat wor ks ver y wel l . Makesur e you add t hat i n. I t ' s l i ke you' r e sayi ng t hat t he ni cest compl i ment aboutyour sel f woul d be t o be seen i n publ i c wi t h her .

Thi s appr oach wi l l al so wor k wel l i n a supermar ket . I t ' s uni que, di f f erent ,f unny, di r ect , and f un and r omant i c f or you and her . I di scover ed another gr eatsuper mar ket pi ck- up tot al l y by acci dent . I was suf f er i ng through anot her at t ackof hay- f ever dur i ng al l er gy season, so I went t o the l ocal Osco dr ug st or e t oget somet hi ng f or i t . As I was wal ki ng al ong I spi ed an i ncr edi bl e honey weari ngver y t i ght j eans and an equal l y t i ght T- shi r t . As I wal ked by her , I had t osneeze, but t he sneeze woul dn' t come out , so I paused r i ght next t o her as Ist r uggl ed t o sneeze. I not i ced her l ooki ng at me, and i nst ant l y my magni f i cent l y

sl eazy brai n phoni ed up a scam.

Wi t h one f i nger up t o my nose, as i f I wer e about t o sneeze, I sai d t o her ,

"Do me a f avor . Pound me real l y hard on the back. "

She sai d, "Ar e you sur e?"

I sai d, "Yes. "



She gave me a good sl ap, and I sai d, "Wel l , i t di dn' t hel p the sneeze, but It hi nk I j ust f el l i n l ove. What ' s your name?"

Then I hi t her wi t h t he ot her l i nes you' ve al r eady seen. Unf or t unat el y, she wasmar r i ed. Oh wel l . But I ' ve used t he l i ne on ot her occasi ons wi t h success. I t ' s anumber s game, good buddy, a number s game. But you' l l f i nd t hi s " sneeze" l i newor ks wel l i n j ust about any publ i c "non- pi ck- up" set t i ng, such as t he beach,par ks, et c. Tr y i t , and you' l l see i t ' s nothi ng t o sneeze at . Ha ha ha ha ha haha. That ' s what ' s cal l ed an aut hor ' s r i ght t o abuse hi s r eader s.

How To Ask A Woman OutWhen You' r e Bot h I n Front Of Ot her Peopl e

Once I was i n bar ber shop, get t i ng my hai r cut , and an i ncr edi bl y sexy l ady waswai t i ng her t ur n. She was weari ng a ski r t t hat was so short t hat you coul deasi l y see her j ui cy t hi ghs. Her l egs wer e screami ng out t o be mi ne, but whatcoul d I do? Al t hough I was busy chat t i ng wi t h her i n f r ont of t he barber and t heot her peopl e wai t i ng t hei r t ur n, I coul dn' t gr aci ousl y ask her out r i ght t her ei n f r ont of ever yone, coul d I ?

I st art ed r evi ewi ng my ot her opt i ons. I coul d hang around af t er my hai r cut , andwai t f or her t o f i ni sh, and t hen hi t her as she was comi ng out t he door , butt hat woul d be l ame, and ki nd of scary f or her .

Wel l , I di d a l i t t l e ment al exer ci se t hat r eal l y hel ps me when I ' m st umped f orwhat t o say. I made a pi ct ur e i n my mi nd of mysel f , si t t i ng i n t he barber chai r .

Then I saw pi ct ure of mysel f st andi ng a f ew f eet a away, wat chi ng me si t t i ng i nt he bar ber chai r .

Somehow t hi s ki nd of "ment al di st anci ng" mysel f f r oma si t uat i on al ways hel ps.Sur e enough, t he r i ght words came t o mi nd.

I sai d t o my t arget , "Let ' s see. You' r e a knock- out i n the l ooks depar t ment , youhave the gr eat t aste to l augh at al l my j okes, and you' r e al so ver y sweet . Andl i f e i s so unf ai r t hat i t ' s got t o be t he case t hat you' r e ei t her mar r i ed orhave a boyf r i end, or bot h. "

Thi s got a l augh f r om everyone present , most i mport ant l y her . "Act ual l y, Idon' t , " she sai d.

By t hi s t i me, i nst ead of bei ng an embarr assment , i t had t ur ned i nt o gr eatent ert ai nment f or ever yone pr esent , and she was enj oyi ng bei ng t he st ar of t heshow. You coul d have cut t he si l ence i n t hat pl ace wi t h t he bar ber ' s st r ai ghtr azor , as ever yone wai t ed t o see what t he out come woul d be.

"Thank you, God" , I sai d, l ooki ng heavenward, hol di ng my hands t ogether i n mock

pr ayer . Anot her l augh f r omal l assembl ed. Then I l ooked at her , smi l ed, paused,t hen sai d, "I ' d be ver y f l at t er ed i f you' d have di nner wi t h me t oni ght . " Shesai d, " I ' d l ove to. " We set t he t i me, and she gave me her addr ess on a pi ece ofpaper and i t was one of t he most enj oyabl e and romant i c eveni ngs I ' d ever had.And her l egs f el t as good as t hey l ooked.

A Last Di t ch Method That Wi l l Al most Al waysGet You A Dat e Even Af t er A Woman Has Sai d "No" To Goi ng Out Wi t h You



Thi s met hod wi l l wor k 9 t i mes out of 10 and r eal l y knock a woman out . You shoul duse i t onl y af t er she' s ref used your i ni t i al of f er f or a dat e. I ' ve seen i t mel twomen who had no i nt erest i n me what soever and i ni t i al l y r ef used t o go out wi t hme.

I t wor ks l i ke t hi s. Fi nd out when your wai t r ess, or st or e cl er k, or ot herwor ki ng gi r l i s on shi f t . Go t o your l ocal f l or i st and get a ni ce bouquet ofwi l df l owers and such made up. Don' t go f or a dozen r ed r oses; t hat i s way t ooheavy.

Wr i t e on t he card, "To ( Her name) , f r omyour secret admi r er. "

Then have a buddy del i ver i t on or bef or e her shi f t . I f you can' t get a buddy t odo i t , t r y t o t al k a passer by i nt o doi ng i t . Peopl e usual l y enj oy hel pi ng outwhen i t i s a mat t er of l ove. Cor ny, ai n' t i t ?

Wai t a f ew days, bef ore you go f or t he pi ece de resi st ance. Go t o your l ocal T-shi r t st ore, and have t hemmake up a T- shi r t . I t shoul d say, " I AM YOUR SECRETADMI RER. " Put t hi s shi r t on under a but t on up shi r t or j acket , and t hen wal k i non your honey pi e' s shi f t . Wal t z up t o her , t ap her on t he shoul der , and open

your shi r t or j acket .

Now, t hat wi l l make an i mpr essi on. You wer e cl ever , di f f er ent , uni que, and wentt o al l t hat t r oubl e j ust f or her . ( Never mi nd t hat you onl y have t o pay f or t heshi r t once, but can use i t over and over agai n. J ust make sur e i t st ays cl ean,so i t doesn' t l ook used - t hat wi l l r eal l y bl ow i t f or you! ) Af t er she get st hr ough huggi ng you, or even ki ssi ng you, t el l her you' d l i ke t o see her , andyou' r e wi l l i ng t o go to some ef f ort t o do i t , and t hen some. Then ask her out .I f she' s got any smar t s and hear t at al l , she' l l go f or i t . Thi s i s a gr eat , f unmet hod, and i t r eal l y works l i ke a charm!

By t he way, i f you don' t have a l ocal T- shi r t shop, and want t o t r y t hi s, youcan or der a shi r t f r om me. Speci f y Smal l , Medi um, Lar ge, or X- t r a l ar ge, and

whether you want t he gi r l ' s name put on t he shi r t , so t hat she knows f or sur eyou di d i t speci al l y f or her , or whet her you want t he pl ai n, " I AM YOUR SECRETADMI RER" message. I t ' s t went y bucks, t o t he same address and same name you sentyour or i gi nal payment f or t hi s book.



Chapt er Ten

SLASHI NG COMEBACKS FOR SLEAZOI D SLUTS!

Women are not al ways sweet and f r i endl y, dyi ng t o meet you, and eager t o f ul f i l lyour every desi r e as a man. At t i mes t hey can be downr i ght nast y.

Who says you have t o put up wi t h i t , f el l as? Here are some wi cked r epl i es t o herbi t chy put downs, t o l et her know j ust who' s i n charge!

HER: I ' M REALLY NOT I NTERESTED I N MEETI NG YOU.

YOU: One of t hese days you ar e goi ng t o see a man acr oss a r oom and you' r e goi ngt o want t o meet hi m but i t ' s not goi ng to happen because he' s goi ng toi nt ui t i vel y pi ck up on your i ncredi bl e capaci t y f or r ude behavi or .

Al t er nat i ve One:

YOU: Thank you f or showi ng me how war m and f emi ni ne you ar e.

Al t er nat i ve Two:

YOU: You' ve got a l i t t l e pi ece of snot hangi ng out your nose.

Al t er nat i ve Thr ee:

YOU: ( Gazi ng at her upper l i p) Gee. I t ' s amazi ng what t hey can do wi t hel ectr ol ysi s t hese days.

Al t er nat i ve Four :

YOU: ( pul l out a t ampon whi ch you shoul d car r y f or j ust t hi s purpose) Here. I t ' sgot t a be that t i me of t he mont h!

Al t er nat i ve Fi ve:

YOU: I ' m a l onel y person t r yi ng t o overcome my shyness and you' ve j ust sl ammedme back i nt o my shel l f or mont hs. I hope you' r e happy.

Al t ernat i ve Si x:

YOU: Chi l l out , ski r t !



Chapter El even

HOW TO USE THE PERSONALSTO GET HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS OF WOMEN TO DATE!

Here' s how t o use t he personal s t o get hundr eds and hundr eds of r esponses f r omj ust ONE ad! I got over FI VE HUNDRED r esponses t he f i r st t i me I t r i ed i t - youmi ght do even bet t er .

Fi r st , DON' T PLACE A PERSONAL AD! Now, I know I seem l i ke I ' m cont r adi ct i ngmysel f her e, but pl ease bear wi t h me, because I ' m not ! I f you pl ace a per sonalad j ust l i ke ever y ot her guy on the si ngl es page of your l ocal paper , you ar en' tgoi ng t o at t r act t he at t ent i on that you need! Remember , ATTRACTI NG ATTENTI ON I S

THE KEY TO MEETI NG WOMEN!

I nst ead, pl ace a smal l cl assi f i ed ad on t he si ngl es page of your l ocal paper ormagazi ne. Keep i t ver y si mpl e and don' t bot her wi t h ar t work or f ancy t r i mmi ngs.

The paper may do t he l ayout f or you f or a nomi nal f ee - i f not , a graphi c ar t i stcan do i t . I f you r eal l y want t o go cheap, hi r e a ar t st udent f r om your l ocalcol l ege.

Here' s how t he ad shoul d r ead:

WOMEN: How To Fi nd, Wi n and Keep t he Love of Your Li f eI n Thi r t y Days or Less!

For absol ut el y f r ee i nf ormat i on send sel f - addr essed st amped envel ope to:

( YOUR ADDRESS GOES I N HERE, DUMMY! )

You ar e hal f - way home now. I nst ead of a f ew cr ummy r esponses t o a personal , youar e goi ng to get HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS of women wr i t i ng! Run the ad t wo or t hreet i mes, t o convi nce t he skept i cs.

Her e' s t he second st ep. Wr i t e a one t o two page l et t er t hat i s a per sonal ad f oryou, descr i bi ng EXACTLY what you want and don' t want i n a woman. Now of course,I can' t t el l you what t hat i s. But I can t el l you how your l et t er shoul d st ar t .Do i t j us t l i ke thi s :

"Dear Reader ,

" I have some SHOCKI NG news f or you. You may be j ust DAYS away f r om meet i ng THELOVE OF YOUR LI FE.

" I have even MORE shocki ng news f or you. You won' t have t o spend more t han 50cent s t o meet hi m, and i t shoul dn' t t ake more than TEN MI NUTES of your t i me. "

I have STI LL MORE shocki ng news f or you. Even i f t hi s shoul d happen f or you, Iwi l l st i l l owe you a GREAT, BI G, FAT APOLOGY.

"Al l ow me a mi nut e to expl ai n.

"Thi s i s NOT a pi t ch f or a ' sel f - hel p' book. Thi s i s NOT a pi t ch f or a ' dat i ngser vi ce' or one of t hose di sgust i ng ' 976' number s. I t ' s not even a pi t ch f or asemi nar , an i r r esi st i bl e l ove pot i on, or a psychi c ast r ol ogi cal - past l i f e l ovechar t .



"So j ust what t he heck I S t hi s a pi t ch f or t hen?

"Qui t e si mpl y, dear r eader , t hi s i s a pi t ch f or ME!

"OK. Al l ow me ANOTHER mi nut e t o expl ai n.

"My name i s ( your name) and I ' ve gone t o t he absurd ext r eme of pul l i ng a crazyst unt l i ke thi s because I ver y much want t o meet a VERY SPECI AL l ady t o l ove andenj oy and r espect . Who knows? Maybe YOU ar e her .

" I KNOW you are out t her e, somewher e. But I ' ve r ecent l y real i zed t hat I woul dhave to do somethi ng DRASTI C t o get your at t ent i on, whi l e weedi ng out al l t heCRAZI ES, LOSERS, and DUM- DUMS who are keepi ng us f r om meet i ng each other .

"I hope t hat l ast sent ence doesn' t seem over l y negat i ve, but I t hi nk i t ' s apr et t y accurat e descr i pt i on of t he si ngl es scene, f or both men AND women. "

But I di gress . . . .

OK, you get t he poi nt . Then go on t o descr i be your good and bad poi nts, what you

DON' T want i n a woman, and what you do want . Fi nal l y, ask t hemt o send a l et t erand a r ecent f ul l l engt h phot o. I f you l i ke what you see, ar r ange f or a meet i ng.

That ' s t he SMART way t o pl ay t he personal s.



Chapt er Twel ve

BI RDOGGI NG -How To Get A Gi r l When She' s Wi t h Anot her Guy( Or When You' r e Wi t h Another Gi r l )

You' r e at a par t y, and so f ar t he act i on i s sl ow. The cl ass i est gi r l s t here ar et he ones who don' t have cooki e crumbs i n t hei r must aches. You' r e ser i ousl yconsi der i ng goi ng home and t humbi ng t hrough t hat used copy of Ti t and Bum.

And t hen. . . i n she wal ks. A st unni ng r aven hai r ed beaut y, i n t i ght r eveal i ng r eddr ess, her per t br east s st r ai ni ng agai nst t he thi n, cl i ngi ng mat er i al , ni ppl es

j ut t i ng, pout i ng bl ow j ob l i ps part ed ever so i nvi t i ngl y. But you not i ce, t oyour chagr i n, t hat she' s wi t h anot her guy.

What wi l l you do? What wi l l you do???????????????

Her e' s t wo appr oaches f or you t o t r y:

APPROACH NUMBER ONE:

As you f l i t about t he r oom, make casual eye cont act wi t h t he gi r l . Try t o seef r om her r esponse i f she' s i nt er est ed. I f you can' t t el l , MOVE I N ANYWAY. Thi si s a saf e method - he won' t get a chance t o punch you out . I nt r oduce yoursel f ,

TO THE GUY. Be as ni ce and f r i endl y as you can, and above al l KEEP BRI NGI NG THEMBOTH DRI NKS. The nast i er he shoul d get , t he ni cer you shoul d be. Thi s i ncr easesyour st atur e i n her eyes, and decr eases hi s. At some poi nt , Br ui ser Boy i s goi ngt o have t o go pee. That ' s when you make your move. Don' t dawdl e, f or t i me i s oft he essence. Move i n and pi t ch f or t he phone number. Then get out of t here f ast ,bef ore he comes back! I deal l y, your bi r d- dog pi t ches shoul d be t he f i nal ones oft he eveni ng as you don' t want t o be ar ound i f she snubs you and t hen deci des t ot el l hi m. There are some si cko women who enj oy maki ng t hei r boyf r i ends angry and

j eal ous. Don' t wai t t o see i f she' s one of t hem.

APPROACH NUMBER TWO:Hang out by the Bat hroom.

Thi s i s general l y a good par t y appr oach anyway everyone has t o go event ual l y,and you get a gr eat chance t o see what ' s t her e i n t he r oom. Wai t t i l l ei t heryour dreamgi r l or her beau has t o go, and pounce t hen and t her e. One t hi ng youshoul d keep i n mi nd - j ust because a gi r l i s wi t h a guy doesn' t mean she' sREALLY wi t h t he guy. He coul d be her brother , or cousi n, or r oommate. I f he' sr eal l y unl ucky, he' s someone wi t h whom she' s " j ust f r i ends, " whi ch, bei ngt r ansl at ed f r om womanese means, "he t akes me everywher e and pays f or everyt hi ng,but i f he t r i es t o put a f i nger on me he' l l never see me agai n. " Br ut al , ar en' tt hey?



Chapt er Thi r t een

GETTI NG THE DATE

OK, l et ' s say you' ve managed t o pi ck- up a more than passabl e bi mbo. Wher e do yougo f r om t her e?

Basi cal l y, t her e are t wo school s of t hought . One school suggest s get t i ng herhome phone number , wai t i ng a f ew days t o a week, and t hen cal l i ng her f or adat e.

The ot her advocat es t r yi ng t o get her t o go out wi t h you r i ght t hen and t here,t he sooner t he bet t er. I f you can' t get a date wi t h her t hat eveni ng, you make adat e f or anot her t i me, r i ght on t he spot .

I ' ve had both methods work f or me, and t hei r are cert ai nl y advant ages t o each.Per sonal l y I pr ef er t he on t he spot date met hod. Her e' s why.

Lot s of gi r l s who have nothi ng other wi se pl anned wi l l go out wi t h you t hat ni ghti f you make t he pi t ch exci t i ng enough. True, you' d pr obabl y l i ke t o be wi t h a

woman who has more i nterest i n you, but t hen agai n we' r e goi ng t o show yout echni ques t o make one of t hese "got nothi ng bet t er t o do" gi r l s eager t o sackwi t h you r egar dl ess of t hei r or i gi nal i nt ent i ons.

Al so, t here i s somet hi ng ver y exci t i ng about goi ng out wi t h a st r anger t hat youj ust met . I t ' s an ai r of "anythi ng coul d happen" t hat st r ongl y hel ps t o al t er agi r l s mood and make her suscept i bl e t o doi ng t hi ngs she normal l y woul dn' t .

By way of cont r ast i f you get her home number, and wai t sever al days t o cal l ,odds ar e t hat t he l ess i nt er est ed gi r l i s not goi ng t o be wi l l i ng t o squeeze youi n t o her schedul e. And you' ve l ost t he ori gi nal exci t ement of meet i ng ast r anger . So i t ' s up t o you. I f you l i ke t he sel l i ng chal l enge, or j ust t headr enal i ne r ush of spont aneousl y maki ng a date on t he spot , do i t . I f you pr ef er

t o f i ght by a set pl an, go wi t h t he phone number r out e.Ei t her way, t he next t wo chapt ers wi l l show you the wi nni ng techni ques t o pul li t of f . . . . .



Chapter Four t een

GETTI NG THE PHONE NUMBER ROUTE

I f you' ve ever asked a woman f or her phone number , you' ve pr obabl y not i ced ani nt er est i ng phenomena - ver y f ew of t hem say "no" di r ect l y. I nst ead, t hey sayeveryt hi ng BUT "yes. "

Have you ever got t en these r esponses?

"I ' m sor r y, I don' t have a phone. "

How do you communi cat e, chi ck? Smoke si gnal s??? "Why don' t you gi ve me yournumber?"

Ri ght . And as soon as your back i s t ur ned, t hat car d wi t h your number on i t wi l lbe shr edded so f ast t he CI A woul d envy the chi ck' s abi l i t y t o dest r oy document s.DON' T BUY I T! I f a woman t r i es t hi s sl i ck t r i ck on you, j ust nod your head,smi l e, and wal k of f , l eavi ng her secur e i n the knowl edge t hat she met a man t oosmar t f or her t o bamboozl e. "Sur e. I t ' s 555- 1212. "

The ol d wr ong number pl oy. I cky, ar en' t t hey?

My poi nt i s t hi s - i f you get anyt hi ng but her i mmedi ate posi t i ve r esponse whenyou ask f or her number, you are i n bi g t r oubl e, part ner . Gi vi ng out t he homephone number i s a maj or st ep i nt o her pr i vacy, and she usual l y ai n' t about t o doi t unl ess she di gs you on SOME l evel .

What ' s t he best way to ask f or t he number? Try t o be as mat t er of f act andst r ai ght f orwar d as possi bl e. "I ' d l i ke t o take you out somet i me, can I have yourhome phone number ?" wi l l do j ust f i ne. I f you want t o be a l i t t l e sl i cker , handher a pen and a car d and say, "Magi c seven di gi t s, pl ease. " That ' s a bi t morei nvent i ve, and i nvent i veness never hur t s.

I f you do get t he number, get l ost as soon as you can. There' s no poi nt hangi ngaround af t er you' ve cl osed the sal e. Leave her wonder i ng about you and get t hehel l out of t her e bef ore you do or say somethi ng t o make her change her mi nd.

How l ong shoul d you wai t bef ore you cal l ? That depends. I f you sense heri nt er est i n you was pr et t y hi gh, i t ' s saf e t o wai t 5 t o 7 days. She' l l bewonder i ng what happened and why you haven' t cal l ed, and t hat wi l l make youappear more CHALLENGI NG and t her ef ore more at t r act i ve i n her eyes.

I f you sense she wasn' t t hat i nt er est ed, wai t t wo days and then cal l .Tr y t o must er up al l t he cheer f ul ness and f un you can when you make your cal l t opi t ch t he date. You want t o sound car ef r ee, f un, and exci t ed about t he absol ut ebl ast t he t wo of you are goi ng t o have t oget her . Tal k t o her i n t he t one of

voi ce you' d use f or an ol d f r i end who you enj oy bei ng wi t h.

The key poi nt i s t o ask her out FOR A SPECI FI C NI GHT. Don' t say, "Woul d you l i ket o get t oget her t hi s week?" or "What ni ght are you f r ee?" That ' s a weak pi t ch.

You want t o come on st r onger t han t hat .

Tr y "Let ' s have di nner Wednesday ni ght , ei ght o' cl ock. Then we can go danci ng. "Then SHUT YOUR MOUTH AND DO NOT SAY A WORD! ! ! ! !



That br i ef moment of si l ence i s t he aci d t est . I f you hear a l ong hesi t at i onbef ore she answer s, or excuses, or anythi ng but , "Sur e, I ' d l ove t o, " you' ve gota pr obl emon your hands.

I f a woman r eal l y does want t o see you, but has somet hi ng t o do on t he ni ghtyou' ve asked her t o be wi t h you, and j ust can' t cancel t hose pl ans, what wi l lher r esponse be? SHE' LL MAKE A COUNTER- OFFER. Somet hi ng on t he l i nes of , " Ican' t Wednesday, but how about Thursday at 8 o' cl ock?"

Don' t conf use a count er - of f er wi t h an " I ' m busy, but how about another t i me?"That ' s a st one col d REJ ECTI ON. I f she r eal l y want ed t o go out wi t h you anothert i me, she' d t el l you when t hat t i me i s. Take i t f r omsomeone who used t o f al lf or t hi s one al l t he t i me - i t wi l l do not hi ng but gener at e usel ess, t i me-wast i ng wi shf ul t hi nki ng on your par t . Ei t her you get t he dat e, or a speci f i ccount er - of f er , or you FORGET I T!

One f i nal warni ng her e, because women are even t r i cki er t han you can i magi ne.Of t en t i mes you' l l make your pi t ch f or a speci f i c ni ght t o go out ; say aWednesday. And you' l l hear , "That ' s sounds l i ke f un. Sur e I ' l l go. "

Then, t hrobbi ng wi t h t he t hr i l l of vi ct or y, as you ar e about t o hang up youhear , "Oh. Coul d you do me a f avor ? Coul d you cal l back Wednesday about 6 pm t oconf i r m?" Or you mi ght hear , "Cal l me Wednesday around 6 pm and I ' l l gi ve you myaddr ess. "

DON' T GET SUCKERED BY THI S TRI CK! You haven' t got a dat e i n t hi s i nst ance, youhave an opt i on f or a date, whi ch i s about as val uabl e as an I OU f r om one of mygambl i ng buddi es who l i ve at t he r ace t r ack. The chi ck i s wai t i ng t o hear f r omt he guy she' s REALLY i nt erest ed i n, and i f he' s not avai l abl e, t hen you may gett he dat e.

I f a gi r l t r i es t o pul l t hi s on you, say somet hi ng l i ke, "I don' t t hi nk that ' s agood i dea. We' l l t r y another t i me when your schedul e i s l ooser. "

That wi l l put her i n her pl ace ni cel y. You' ve shown her t hat you can' t besucker ed and she can' t cal l t he shots al most cer t ai nl y an unl i kel y and unusualoccur r ence. That wi l l def i ni t el y get her at t ent i on.

Wai t a week and cal l her back. Chances ar e she' l l accept t he dat e wi t hout t he"cal l and conf i r m" bul l shi t . I f she doesn' t , t hen TOSS HER NUMBER AWAY and moveon t o the next adventur e. She' s j ust out t o wast e your t i me anyway.

Once you' ve made your dat e wi t h your l ady, get of f t he phone! Agai n, you mi ghtbl ow i t i f you st ay on and j abber , and you want t o keep her wonderi ng about you.Do your t al ki ng on t he date! I f you hi t i t of f on t he phone, wher e does t hatl eave you? You can' t get l ai d over a phone wi r e, what ever t he 976 number s woul dhave you bel i eve! Save i t f or t he date.

Fi nal l y, nowadays al most ever yone has one of t hose damn phone answer i ngmachi nes! DO NOT LEAVE A MESSAGE ON ONE OF THESE BEFORE YOU' VE HAD A DATE WI TH AWOMAN. Usi ng a phone machi ne as a buf f er bet ween you and t he l ady i s weak, ant i -chal l enge, and put s t he bal l i n her cour t , as you ei t her have t o wai t f or her t ocal l you back or al t er nat i vel y, l ook i mpat i ent and desper ate by cal l i ng her t osee i f she got your message. AVOI D THI S PHONE BLUNDER LI KE THE PLAGUE!

BASI C PHONE PI TCHI NG RULES:



DO TRY TO USE A HAPPY, CAREFREE, EAGER TO HAVE ALL THI S FUN TOGETHER TONE OFVOI CE.ASK HER OUT FOR A SPECI FI C NI GHT.DON' T FALL FOR "OPTI ON DATES. "HANG UP AS SOON AS YOU POLI TELY CAN, ONCE YOU' VE MADE THE DATE.DO NOT UNDER ANY, ANY, ANY, ANY CI RCUMSTANCES WHATSOEVER LEAVE A MESSAGE WI THHER ANSWERI NG MACHI NE OR A ROOMMATE EI THER FOR THAT MATTER. THE FI RST TI ME YOU

TALK TO HER PERSON TO PERSON I S THE FI RST TI ME YOU' VE EVER CALLED, AS FAR AS SHESHOULD KNOW.



Chapt er Fi f t een

MAKI NG THE DATE ON THE SPOT

Thi s i s t he met hod I t hi nk i s t he best . There' s somet hi ng exci t i ng andspontaneous about i t t hat you j ust can' t get usi ng t he phone number method.

The t hi ng t o keep i n mi nd here i s t o t r y t o appear casual . You don' t want i t t ol ook l i ke you are dyi ng t o rush her back to your pl ace and r i p her pant i es of f .

The best i l l ust r at i on of t hi s met hod was gi ven t o me r ecent l y by a f r i end ofmi ne, J i m. Her e' s t he st ory he t ol d me:

"Our r egul ar secr etary at work was goi ng t o be gone f or a f ew days, so we want edt o hi r e someone t emporary, j ust t o answer phones. Someone was schedul ed t o comeby t hat af t er noon, and t he boss was goi ng t o be out of t he of f i ce. He t ol d me i fI l i ked her , I coul d go ahead and hi r e her .

"She was a cute l i t t l e bl onde named Megan. She came i n about 4: 30 i n t heaf t er noon. We t al ked f or a whi l e, and I t ol d her she had t he j ob. Then I i nvi t ed

her t o go next door f or cof f ee.

"Wel l , we t al ked f or about an hour and then I asked her i f she want ed t o havedi nner . We di d, and t hat t urned i nto a movi e. And f r om t her e we went back t o mypl ace and di d al l sort s of wonder f ul l y obscene thi ngs t o each other f or sever alhour s. "

Her e' s t he mai n poi nt : Tr y to st eer t he gi r l you' ve j ust met i nt o a di f f er entenvi r onment . Don' t make i t el aborate anywher e near by wi l l do. The cor ner Yogur tst and f or some f r ozen f er ment ed cow j ui ce; t he l ocal pi zza parl or, even abowl i ng al l ey. You want a chance t o set her down and use t he mood al t er i nghypnot i c t echni ques we' r e goi ng to be showi ng you.

Whatever you do, don' t i nvi t e her back t o your pl ace r i ght away, or do anyt hi ngt hat mi ght scar e her of f . Make i t seem l i ke you j ust want t o spend f i f t eenmi nut es t al ki ng i n a publ i c pl ace. Wi t h what we ar e goi ng to show you, t hat ' sal l you are goi ng t o need.



Chapt er Si xt een

HOW TO HANDLE CHI CKS WHO TRY TO CANCEL DATES

Per haps t he most seri ous of f ense a chi ck can commi t i s t o cancel a date. I ' vehear d al l sor t s of hi l ar i ous excuses, and ni ne t i mes out of t en t hey ar e j ustt hat .

But so what ? Wi t h the pr oper amount of coer ci on and psychol ogi cal pr essur e, youcan get her t o go out wi t h you anyway. Then you can use one of t he qui ck-l ay/ hypnosi s t r i cks we' l l show you so you can st i l l wi nd up scr ewi ng her . Howdare she t r y to wast e t he t i me of a master of Guer i l l a Get Lai d t act i cs? AsBatman woul d say, "Poor del uded gi r l ! "

I t ' s r eal l y qui t e si mpl e. When she cal l s t o cancel wi t h her si l l y excuse, youj ust do t hi s:

HER: Oh, I ' m sor r y, but I can' t make i t t oni ght . I have t o take my f r i end t o theai rport ( Or: "I ' m j ust not f eel i ng wel l , " or what ever l i e she t el l s you) .

YOU: So what you' r e sayi ng i s, you' d l i ke t o go, but due t o a ci r cumst ance youcan' t cont r ol and weren' t expect i ng, you won' t be abl e t o?

HER: Yeah. That ' s r i ght . ( She' s got t o admi t t hi s- she can' t come ri ght out andsay she j ust i sn' t i nt er est ed. That mi ght t ake a l i t t l e gut s. )

YOU: ( Cl osi ng i n f or t he ki l l ) Wel l , si nce you sai d you' d l i ke t o go, whatar r angement s woul d you l i ke to make t o do t hat r i ght now?

Then, you shut up. You have t he si l l y chi ck. She' s backed i nt o a cor ner , andwi l l have t o name a day, or el se r i sk bei ng r eveal ed as t he l i ar she t r ul y i s.

Your ot her opt i on i s t o bl ow t he chi ck of f , but make i t as embarr ass i ng and

uncomf ort abl e f or her as i s humanl y possi bl e.Her e i s a gr eat way t o make her f eel absol ut el y awf ul :

HER: Oh, I can' t make our date because my parr ot i s havi ng an exi st ent i al cr i si sand I want t o see hi m t hr ough i t .

YOU: Hmm. You know, I ' m si t t i ng here, wi t h t he phone i n my hand, l i st eni ng t oyou speak, and I r eal i ze I st i l l don' t under st and what ' s goi ng on. And I al sor eal i ze I can

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