Upload
gateway-gazette
View
229
Download
3
Tags:
Embed Size (px)
DESCRIPTION
Bringing the "Good" of your community to you. The Gateway Gazette is your Good News newspaper serving the communities of the Foothills.
Citation preview
Wedding supplement - March 2011
B G B
F G
F W Fl
M
ridal owns, ridesmaids,
lower irls,
resh edding owers
and o uch ore!S M
2 Elma Street
Okotoks
403-869-6167
Bridal & Special Occasions Boutique
www.thelilypadinc.com
“Your voice, Your choice,Your ceremony”
Shauna M Way
403-933-4225
Marriage Commissioner
WEDDINGS
Wh
n
at
a
you canW
e.
nvision.. e c create...
Wh
n
at
a
you canW
e.
nvision.. e c create...
Ph: 403-933-2471 Cell: 403-510-5739
Email: [email protected]
Rental Decor, Centerpieces,Decorating Services
(includes setup & takedown),Floral Services
Rental Decor, Centerpieces,Decorating Services
(includes setup & takedown),Floral Services
Serving Calgary and area
Marriage Licenses Available Here
Call us for all
your Registries
& Licensing Needs
Diamond ValleyRegistries & Licensing
REGISTRIES
AuthorizedAgent for Turner Valley
403-933-4422
Turner Valley
403-933-4422
Turner Valley
403-933-4422
& all the “wise”
a special wine
something old,something new
western “spirits”
receiving line demystified
sing a sweet tune
5 possible problems
step by step guide
ceremony, reception & contract considerations
and some advice
wedding day peace of mind - priceless
Plan thePerfect Wedding
2011
2 wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011
D’Arcy Ranch
www.darcyranchgolf.com
Winter months in the Dining Room
seats 120 peopledance floor
beautiful mountain view
Summer Months in the banquet roomseats 180 people
403-938-5522Place Your Reception in our Hands
D’ArcyRanch Golf
ClubOkotoks
Music is an integral part of both the
wedding ceremony and the reception.
Music often conveys emotions that are
difficult to put into words. Additionally,
songs and music help us to remember
certain key moments more easily.
That's why we often associate rites of
passage with the sound track of that
time in our lives.
Consider the following:
Can you picture the bride and her
attendants walking down the aisle
without any music? Many couples give
careful consideration to the reception
music and leave the ceremony music to
chance - not a good idea.
While traditionally brides enter to
"Here Comes the Bride," stricter houses
of worship may not allow this tune or
brides simply may prefer something
else. Just keep in mind the tempo and
length of the song so that it will match
the gait and size of the wedding party.
If your house of worship provides the
musician(s), arrange to sit down with
this individual to talk about styles.
Perhaps you can arrange to hear the
selections. Also arrange to have
payment or a tip provided for his or her
services.
You will likely have more wiggle
room with your choices at the
reception, depending on the venue.
Brides and grooms usually use live
performers or DJs who play pre-
recorded music. Some performers offer
a combination of both.
Consider the style of your wedding.
Will it be formal or informal?
Traditional or contemporary? Aim for
music that suits the style or theme of
the wedding.
When you are choosing music,
consider your tastes, but the tastes of
your guests as well. While you won't be
able to please each and every person,
the wider the range of music you have
available, the greater the chance of
people getting up to dance and enjoying
themselves.
Once you decide on your ceremony
and reception musicians, it's important
to sign a contract and work out
payment agreements. Having the
information in writing protects you in
case the musicians don't deliver what
was expected. Here are some points
that should be covered in the contracts.
* Price, deposit amount, additional
charges (travel, food requirements,
etc.) and overtime rates.
* The number of musicians who
will be attending and what instruments
they play, in the case of a wedding
band.
* Names of specific people you
want, such as DJ, lead vocalist, emcee,
and what compensation will be made if
these people are not available.
* Date and hours they'll be
working.
* Additional services, such as
dramatic lighting, dancers or party
favours.
* Number of breaks and how the
break time will be covered, such as with
recorded music.
* Style of dress or costumes.
* Specific music requests and list
of your wedding attendants so they'll
h a v e t h e r i g h t n a m e s i f
announcements are being made.
Be sure to ask friends, relatives and
others for musician recommendations.
When you attend weddings, take the
cards of performers you enjoyed.
Contact prospective performers early
on to ensure your wedding date is
available.
The Ceremony
The Reception
Contracts
Sing a Sweet Tune With Wedding Music
Whether it be
weddings, just a
ride or maybe a
back drop for a
photo shoot ~
We can do it.
Call Kimand Sandi
for more details403-938-4254
Horse, buggy and driver for rent!
FOOTHILLS WELCOME WAGON
Bridal ShowcaseBridal ShowcaseCalling AllCalling AllCalling AllCalling All Brides!Brides!
THURSDAY, March 24th, 2011 at 5:30pmOKOTOKS FOOTHILLS CENTENNIAL CENTRE
for your InvitationAdele at 403-938-2532 or Linda at 403-370-5386
or register online at FREEwww.welcomewagon.ca
First sixty five brides will receive a gift bag and be enteredinto a draw for a weekend get-away at a Banff Boutique Inn
Door Prizes from all Sponsors • Fashion Show
Grand Door Prize: Wedding Package Extravaganza
Bridal Passport Door Prize:One night in the Jacuzzi Suite at Lakeview Inns & Suites (Okotoks)
Full Ceremony • Cocktail Music • Dinner & Dance MusicValue of $1500 from Wild Bill’s DJ Service (Calgary) (out of town costs will apply)
3wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011
MC Limo
Extensive line of cosmeticsand accessories
Come in for a freeconsultation with ourcosmetician
Unique gifts for thenew couple...
124 Centre Ave WestBlack DiamondLocally Owned and Operated403-933-7979 Black Diamond
Full Day Limo Service * Late Night Pick Up * Airport Service
Guest Shuttle Service * Bachelor/Bachelorette * Parties
Anniversaries * Graduations * Any Occasion * All New Fleet
403-269-LIMO (5466)
3. The Testy Bridesmaid
The Problem: "I love my maid of honour,
but getting her in a dress that wasn't black
or covered every inch of her was a task. If
we found a colour or a print, she would tell
me that she didn't want to take attention
away from the bride.”
If one of your bridesmaids is a
little nervous about showing some skin or
wearing a bold colour, it's better to find her
an alternate option than to force her into
something she's not comfortable with. For
a modest maid of honour, make a strapless
dress more conservative by incorporating a
wrap, a fun cardigan or a vintage bolero
jacket in a complementing shade. Or play
up your colour palette in a subtler way with
jewellery or hair fascinators. Look at the
bright side - compromising now will give
you a little leverage when you serve as a
maid in her wedding.
The Advice:
1. The Wedding Know-It-All
The Problem: "My future sister-in-law is telling me I shouldn't wear a white
dress because it would be too harsh with my skin tone, wants to register for
gifts with me (as well as tell me what to register for) and is suggesting where
we honeymoon!”
When wedding suggestions cross the line from helpful to aggra-
vating, it's time to redirect that input so that you don't end up arguing over
something that might not seem so significant a few years down the line.
Assign specific tasks to keep her busy but still involved, like helping you con-
firm orders with vendors or assembling favours.
The Advice:
4. The Over-Eager Wedding Guest
The Problem: "A woman my mother works
with wants to do my ceremony music and a
customer of my mother's always volun-
teers to help and acts like she is family. I
hardly know her!”
You know that expression
about too many cooks in the kitchen? Meet
its wedding equivalent. Having a lot of peo-
ple offer to help you plan sounds like a
blessing, but when assistance comes from
left field, it can feel like more of a hin-
drance. If you feel like someone's eager-
ness is a bit more than you need, let her
know how grateful you are for the offer, but
that you're in great shape, planning-wise,
and that if anything comes up that she
could help with, you'll be sure to call.
The Advice:
2. The Doesn't-Know-Her-Place Wedding Guest
The Problem: "One of our guests keeps insisting that we invite
everyone on her 'party guest list' to our destination wedding - I
even found an open invite on her MySpace page!"
Some wedding guests take it upon themselves to
suggest a few invitees and then some guests invite everyone on
the Internet. Unless you want Tom from MySpace raising a
glass to toast your union, make sure it's clear that there's only
one guest list for your wedding. Luckily, rationalizing a small
guest list is a lot easier when you have a destination wedding -
just explain that you're having an intimate wedding with close
friends and family only (she should feel honoured that she's
one of them!)
The Advice:
5. The Children-Or-Bust Wedding Guest
The Problem: "My husband-to-be has a
niece and nephew (both under five) and
his sister, her husband and his parents
said they would refuse to come if the chil-
dren aren't allowed."
A lot of couples choose not to
invite kids to their wedding, but if you risk
a boycott by some VIPs, find a way to
soothe the situation. Offer to hire a
babysitter and set up a private area with
games, colouring books and a few comfy
pillows for little ones to crash on if the
reception runs past their bedtimes. Your
relatives might even offer to chip in once
they see how accommodating you're
being, but if they don't, the extra expense
will be worth bypassing the drama of a
fight with your new family.
The Advice:
Wedding IssuesWedding Issues5 Possible Problems And Some Advice
See your
as you always
pictured it
Wedding Day
403-719-4591
www.myphoenixphoto.com
501 - 3545 32 Ave NE Calgary
Alberta T1Y 6M6
4 5wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011 wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011
403-652-3990317 Macleod Tr. SW
High River
Personalize yourWedding with
own wine &custom labels that
celebrate your special day!
your
Wine & beer makingequipment & supplies
B&B, Weekend Retreats, Wedding Accommodation Needson 11 acres in the Heart of the Foothills
403 933-5755www.DiamondWillowArtisanRetreat.com
HOURS OF OPERATIONSun - Thurs 10am - 10pm
Fri & Sat 10am - 11pm
403-933-2757
101 Centre AveBlack Diamond(Beside the Esso)
Black Diamond Liquor Store
Come see our extensive range ofwines, spirits & beers to make your
Special Day Sparkle!
Come see our extensive range ofwines, spirits & beers to make your
Special Day Sparkle!
Come see our extensive range ofwines, spirits & beers to make your
Special Day Sparkle!
One onOneStudio
Let our beauty experts put you in picture-perfect shape foryour wedding and honeymoon.
Isn’t She Lovely?
403-933-4840110 - 1st Street SW, Black Diamond, AB
• Your FamilyHair Salon
• Total Body Care
Be this year’s bridal envy
Microderma facials with resurfacing of all skin types & area's.
Perfectly manicured & pedicured, offering pedique& gel nails.
All waxing & Beyond White teeth whiteningFull salon & spa capable of handling your
whole wedding party
403-601-2886609 Center St., High River
A bride to be starts the pampering now!
We make you glow on your wedding day from head to toe.
Twelve months before the Wedding
Nine months before the Wedding
Six months before the Wedding
Three months before the Wedding
Six to eight weeks before the Wedding
10 - 14 Days before the Wedding
One week before the Wedding
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
Get yourself a binder with paper and dividing tabs.
Discuss with your fiancé and his/her families, plus
your own, to determine a budget.
Decide on your wedding theme e.g. Christmas, Fall,
Snowflakes, Black and White, etc.
Select a wedding date with your fiancé and families.
Decide on your wedding attendants.
Book a ceremony and reception location(s).
Book your professional wedding photographer, florist,
caterer, videographer, and DJ or wedding musicians.
Make an appointment with your officiant. For most
religious ceremonies, you may be required to attend pre-
wedding counseling. For civil ceremonies, your officiant
may require a meeting to discuss your wedding
ceremony.
Wedding gown shopping and first fittings should be
looked after at this time.
Shop for your wedding accessories, wedding veil or head
piece and wedding shoes.
Begin preparation of the
guest list. Be sure to
include both sides of the
family as guest lists are
often a contentious
issue. It will take time to
decide on long lost
cousins, work friends,
neighbours, etc.
Decide on gift registry
locations and register.
Begin your search for
your honeymoon
location. If you are
getting married during a peak holiday season such as
Christmas, you may need to book your honeymoon up to
nine months in advance.
You need to meet with the wedding professionals who
will assist you on your special day. The menu should be
mapped out with your catering company, a review of
requested wedding photos with your photographer,
flower choices with your florist, a discussion with your
videographer on the amount of footage and locations for
videos and your preference for music with your DJ or
wedding musicians.
Limousines and/or other wedding transportation should
be booked. Wedding carriages or winter horse drawn
sleighs should be booked and pricing confirmed.
If you are ordering wedding invitations and/or save the
date cards and wedding announcements, you need to
decide on a provider. If you are making your own
wedding invitations and other wedding stationery, you
should choose a wedding invitation kit template
package. Announcements should be sent out to those
friends and family who you have not included in the
ceremony.
Honeymoon trip should be booked and final budget
plans for the honeymoon confirmed.
Bridesmaids and Flower Girl dresses should be decided
upon and ordered.
Start shopping for wedding rings.
Guest list needs to be finalized by you and your fiancé
and BOTH families. We can't emphasize enough that you
need to have the blessing of all concerned when it comes
to the guest list.
Final decisions and ordering of wedding rings.
Visit hairstylist for a consultation and have your first
wedding day hair run through.
Make wedding day appointment with hairstylist. Don't
forget to include your bridesmaids if they are having
their hair professionally styled for your wedding.
Research and review requirements for blood tests.
Research, review and book hotel rooms for out of town
guests who may require accommodation.
Follow up on your wedding gown and confirmation of
delivery dates for your gown and those of your
attendants.
Attend your first wedding gown fitting including all
accessories and shoes.
Prepare your wedding invitation kit templates for
printing, including the Thank You cards.
If you have ordered your invites from a commercial
business, be sure they are ready for you.
Address and mail the wedding invitations.
Shop for and purchase any wedding gifts for your fiancé,
attendants, parents and grandparents.
Attend your final dress fitting including wedding
accessories.
Spend time wearing your wedding shoes so that you are
not crippled before the wedding dance starts.
Test a spray on tan if you plan to tan for your wedding.
Make final decisions on your wedding hair style and any
hair colour changes should be made.
Pick up your wedding rings from your jewellery shop.
Print out your personalized Thank You cards from your
wedding invitation kit templates or purchase generic
Thank You cards.
Send any Thank You cards for wedding or shower gifts
received over the past weeks.
Confirm with your caterer with one final review of the
menu.
Confirm with your officiant the venue and time of
ceremony.
Confirm with your photographer, florist, videographer,
DJ and/or wedding band.
Confirm your honeymoon reservation and any special
requests for the wedding night.
Address any wedding announcements, stamp and set in
preparation of mailing on your wedding day.
Final visit to your hairstylist to review any last minute
concerns or changes.
Attend any last minute parties or bridal showers in your
honour.
Write any Thank You cards for gifts received at these
functions.
Give the caterer your final number of guests expected to
attend.
Bridesmaids and Flower Girl confirmation of the time
they are expected to
arrive.
Purchase travel
insurance for the
honeymoon if you are
leaving the country.
Purchase travelers'
cheques for the
honeymoon holiday.
Double check to be
sure that travelers'
cheques are accepted
and easily cashed at
your final destination.
How to plan a wedding - a Step-by-step guide: Wedding Day Peace of Mind - Priceless!
Flare ‘N errick Community HallDTurner Valley
Perfect for weddings, dances,suppers and more.
Accommodates up to 200 people.4,000 sq. ft. hall, veranda.
For rental information,please contact:
Town of Turner Valley Municipal Office
403-933-4944Email: [email protected]
www.turnervalley.ca
4 5wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011 wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011
403-652-3990317 Macleod Tr. SW
High River
Personalize yourWedding with
own wine &custom labels that
celebrate your special day!
your
Wine & beer makingequipment & supplies
B&B, Weekend Retreats, Wedding Accommodation Needson 11 acres in the Heart of the Foothills
403 933-5755www.DiamondWillowArtisanRetreat.com
HOURS OF OPERATIONSun - Thurs 10am - 10pm
Fri & Sat 10am - 11pm
403-933-2757
101 Centre AveBlack Diamond(Beside the Esso)
Black Diamond Liquor Store
Come see our extensive range ofwines, spirits & beers to make your
Special Day Sparkle!
Come see our extensive range ofwines, spirits & beers to make your
Special Day Sparkle!
Come see our extensive range ofwines, spirits & beers to make your
Special Day Sparkle!
One onOneStudio
Let our beauty experts put you in picture-perfect shape foryour wedding and honeymoon.
Isn’t She Lovely?
403-933-4840110 - 1st Street SW, Black Diamond, AB
• Your FamilyHair Salon
• Total Body Care
Be this year’s bridal envy
Microderma facials with resurfacing of all skin types & area's.
Perfectly manicured & pedicured, offering pedique& gel nails.
All waxing & Beyond White teeth whiteningFull salon & spa capable of handling your
whole wedding party
403-601-2886609 Center St., High River
A bride to be starts the pampering now!
We make you glow on your wedding day from head to toe.
Twelve months before the Wedding
Nine months before the Wedding
Six months before the Wedding
Three months before the Wedding
Six to eight weeks before the Wedding
10 - 14 Days before the Wedding
One week before the Wedding
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
�
Get yourself a binder with paper and dividing tabs.
Discuss with your fiancé and his/her families, plus
your own, to determine a budget.
Decide on your wedding theme e.g. Christmas, Fall,
Snowflakes, Black and White, etc.
Select a wedding date with your fiancé and families.
Decide on your wedding attendants.
Book a ceremony and reception location(s).
Book your professional wedding photographer, florist,
caterer, videographer, and DJ or wedding musicians.
Make an appointment with your officiant. For most
religious ceremonies, you may be required to attend pre-
wedding counseling. For civil ceremonies, your officiant
may require a meeting to discuss your wedding
ceremony.
Wedding gown shopping and first fittings should be
looked after at this time.
Shop for your wedding accessories, wedding veil or head
piece and wedding shoes.
Begin preparation of the
guest list. Be sure to
include both sides of the
family as guest lists are
often a contentious
issue. It will take time to
decide on long lost
cousins, work friends,
neighbours, etc.
Decide on gift registry
locations and register.
Begin your search for
your honeymoon
location. If you are
getting married during a peak holiday season such as
Christmas, you may need to book your honeymoon up to
nine months in advance.
You need to meet with the wedding professionals who
will assist you on your special day. The menu should be
mapped out with your catering company, a review of
requested wedding photos with your photographer,
flower choices with your florist, a discussion with your
videographer on the amount of footage and locations for
videos and your preference for music with your DJ or
wedding musicians.
Limousines and/or other wedding transportation should
be booked. Wedding carriages or winter horse drawn
sleighs should be booked and pricing confirmed.
If you are ordering wedding invitations and/or save the
date cards and wedding announcements, you need to
decide on a provider. If you are making your own
wedding invitations and other wedding stationery, you
should choose a wedding invitation kit template
package. Announcements should be sent out to those
friends and family who you have not included in the
ceremony.
Honeymoon trip should be booked and final budget
plans for the honeymoon confirmed.
Bridesmaids and Flower Girl dresses should be decided
upon and ordered.
Start shopping for wedding rings.
Guest list needs to be finalized by you and your fiancé
and BOTH families. We can't emphasize enough that you
need to have the blessing of all concerned when it comes
to the guest list.
Final decisions and ordering of wedding rings.
Visit hairstylist for a consultation and have your first
wedding day hair run through.
Make wedding day appointment with hairstylist. Don't
forget to include your bridesmaids if they are having
their hair professionally styled for your wedding.
Research and review requirements for blood tests.
Research, review and book hotel rooms for out of town
guests who may require accommodation.
Follow up on your wedding gown and confirmation of
delivery dates for your gown and those of your
attendants.
Attend your first wedding gown fitting including all
accessories and shoes.
Prepare your wedding invitation kit templates for
printing, including the Thank You cards.
If you have ordered your invites from a commercial
business, be sure they are ready for you.
Address and mail the wedding invitations.
Shop for and purchase any wedding gifts for your fiancé,
attendants, parents and grandparents.
Attend your final dress fitting including wedding
accessories.
Spend time wearing your wedding shoes so that you are
not crippled before the wedding dance starts.
Test a spray on tan if you plan to tan for your wedding.
Make final decisions on your wedding hair style and any
hair colour changes should be made.
Pick up your wedding rings from your jewellery shop.
Print out your personalized Thank You cards from your
wedding invitation kit templates or purchase generic
Thank You cards.
Send any Thank You cards for wedding or shower gifts
received over the past weeks.
Confirm with your caterer with one final review of the
menu.
Confirm with your officiant the venue and time of
ceremony.
Confirm with your photographer, florist, videographer,
DJ and/or wedding band.
Confirm your honeymoon reservation and any special
requests for the wedding night.
Address any wedding announcements, stamp and set in
preparation of mailing on your wedding day.
Final visit to your hairstylist to review any last minute
concerns or changes.
Attend any last minute parties or bridal showers in your
honour.
Write any Thank You cards for gifts received at these
functions.
Give the caterer your final number of guests expected to
attend.
Bridesmaids and Flower Girl confirmation of the time
they are expected to
arrive.
Purchase travel
insurance for the
honeymoon if you are
leaving the country.
Purchase travelers'
cheques for the
honeymoon holiday.
Double check to be
sure that travelers'
cheques are accepted
and easily cashed at
your final destination.
How to plan a wedding - a Step-by-step guide: Wedding Day Peace of Mind - Priceless!
Flare ‘N errick Community HallDTurner Valley
Perfect for weddings, dances,suppers and more.
Accommodates up to 200 people.4,000 sq. ft. hall, veranda.
For rental information,please contact:
Town of Turner Valley Municipal Office
403-933-4944Email: [email protected]
www.turnervalley.ca
6 wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011
• Complete inventory of weddingcenterpieces, linens & accessories
• Over 30 years of party & weddingplanning
• Tents, tables, chairs, dinnerware
• Glassware, candelabras, archways
• Punch fountains, cupcake stands, etc.
403-938-191114 Crystal Ridge Drive, Okotoks
403-291-06864605 76 Ave. SE, Calgary
Let us help you planyour perfect day
GettingMarried? To Have and to Hold...
14K Diamond and Tungesten CarbideWedding Bands
AUSTEN JEWELLERS Emerson Mall • High River
403.652.1162
Engagement RingsWedding Bands
Abound
Married when the year is new, he'll be loving, kind and true.When February birds do mate, You wed nor dread your fate.
If you wed when March winds blow, joy and sorrow both you'll know.Marry in April when you can, Joy for Maiden and for Man.Marry in the month of May, and you'll surely rue the day.Marry when June roses grow, over land and sea you'll go.
Those who in July do wed, must labour for their daily bred.Whoever wed in August be, many a change is sure to see.
Marry in September's shrine, your living will be rich and fine.If in October you do marry, love will come but riches tarry.
If you wed in bleak November, only joys will come, remember.When December snows fall fast, marry and true love will last.
Monday for wealthTuesday for health
Wednesday the best day of allThursday for lossesFriday for crosses
Saturday for no luck at all
Superstitions
Believe it or not, there were also superstitionson the day and month that a couple wed on
BoutonnièreIt was the knights of yore who
gave us the Western European
tradition of the groom wearing
a single flower. It was
customary for a knight to wear
a f lower or a colorful
handkerchief belonging to
their lady fair when they
entered a tournament. The
tradition later evolved to the
groom wearing a flower from
his bride's wedding bouquet.
The white wedding gownwas not a symbol of purity,
but rather a symbol of joy.
What wedding today would
be complete without the
white wedding gown? Prior
to the 16 th century ,
h o w e v e r , t h i s m o s t
i m p o r t a n t W e s t e r n
E u r o p e a n W e d d i n g
tradition was not common.
It wasn't until Ann of
Brittany popularized the
white wedding dress in 1499
that the tradition became
part of Western European
wedding culture.
Something oldsomething newsomething borrowedsomething blue
And finally it is time for the groom to carry his new bride across the thresholdAnd finally, what wedding tradition would be complete without the groom carrying his new bride over the threshold of their home? This
Western European tradition began with two beliefs. The first one was that if the bride were to trip or stumble as she entered her new home (as she
crossed her new threshold for the first time) bad luck would plague the marriage. The second belief was that evil spirits inhabited the threshold of a
new couple's home and that if the bride stepped on the threshold the evil spirits would enter through her feet and the marriage would be doomed. The
romantic answer, of course, was for the groom to carry his new bride across the threshold.
Bragg CreekSteak Pit
Your Wedding party and out of town guests can enjoyour Chalet suites for pre-ceremony preparations andover night comfort.
To reserve please call: 403-949-3633
Walk Down The Isle To The Rockies
We offer a cozy and rusticatmosphere for your Ceremony.Your guests can enjoy a horseand carriage ride through BraggCreek while enjoying our Chef’screations that will leave a mouth watering experience.
Best Man
7wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011
Phone: (403) 933-4503
Fax: (403) 933-4501
Phone For Appointment
Tues - Sat 8am - 5:30pm
119 Centre Avenue W.
Black Diamond
Custom Wedding Cakes
Memories...created especially for you!
Black Diamond
Bakery&
Coffee Shop
E.M. Ted DawsonMPA, SPA, PPOC, PP of America
Accredited ProfessionalPhotographer
T. Dawson Photo/Graphics Ltd.T. Dawson Photo/Graphics Ltd.“Home of fine Photography”
Established 1976
403-652-3610High River
Liquor Licences [email protected]
Special orders also possible
We have a great selection of fine Wines and Spirits
208 Main Street, Turner Valley
For your Wedding or that Special Occasioncall Sarah at 403-933-2722 or 403-619-5477
We are able to help you select and organizeyour refreshment needs
Are you stuck in a
wine “rut?” Do you wander
around the wine racks in
your local liquor store look-
ing at every bottle, occa-
sionally thinking “I wonder
what that one tastes like?”
or “that one looks interest-
ing,” but in the end you
always grab that same
familiar label?
Maybe it's a comfort
thing; you know exactly
what you are getting every
time you open the bottle.
Perhaps you just really
love the taste and no mat-
ter how many times you
enjoy a glass, it never
seems to get old. Then
again, you could be just
like the majority of the pop-
ulation and have a fear of
change. Whether it's
twelve, twenty or thirty dol-
lars, no one likes to pay for
a product and not know if
they are going to love it or
end up dumping it down
the kitchen sink.
I can help; my name is
Sarah Harrold from Valley
Cold Beer and Liquor in
Turner Valley. My plan is
to showcase some of the
many wonderful wines out
there and to help you
break out of your “wine
comfort zone.” After all, if
you never try anything
new, you will really be miss-
ing out on some wonderful
wines. Please keep an
open mind; wine is a per-
sonal preference, but there
are many products to
choose from.
My first wine to show-
case is the 2008 Lucky
Horseshoe Merlot from
Hayes Ranch, located in
Livermore in the North
Central Coast region of Cal-
ifornia. This area of Cali-
fornia has warm days, cool
nights and a long growing
season, which develops
ripe, round, fruit flavours.
Produced by the Wente
Family Estates and repre-
sented by Simmer Fine
Wine & Spirits Inc, Lucky
Horseshoe has a varietal
content of 85% Merlot,
15% Petite Sirah and an
alcohol content of 13.5%.
This Merlot has exciting
hints of spice and berries,
which exhibits aromas of
plum, bramble and a hint
of herbaceousness. With
medium tannins and a
smooth, long, fruity finish
on the palate, this is defi-
nitely a delightful wine!
This Merlot will be
best paired with roast beef,
tenderloin, pork, any
pasta with a meat sauce or
hard cheeses. Personally, I
prefer to enjoy a glass on
its own, surrounded by
friends. Priced below six-
teen dollars, I highly rec-
ommend the Lucky Horse-
shoe Merlot.
Visit us on our website
at www.valleyliquor.ca or
email [email protected]
for more information on
the upcoming in store tast-
ing and specials for this
wine.
Please enjoy responsi-
bly. Don't drink and drive.
A California Wine With A Western Spirit
Valley Vinesby Sarah Harrold
8 wedding supplement ~ march 15th - 28th, 2011
www.cottonwoodbridal.ca
403.652.4993
110 3rd Ave SW, High River
ottonwood ridalormals
Bridal Gowns
Bridesmaid Dresses
Graduation Gowns
Tuxedo Rentals
Cocktail Dresses
Dresses For Every Occasion
Don Buehler has beenServing Foothills and Calgary area
for over 15 [email protected]
We also can supplyall your party rental needs
including Tents, Tables & Chairs
Please visit Don’s Tent and Event Rentals:
403.606.1247
WeddingsCorporate Events
Stampede Catering
Making Ordinary Food...
ExtraordinaryWhatever the size, whatever the location,
we have the staff & equipment to make your
event a success!
What they say about weddings is true:It'll all be over before you know it. Sothen how can you ensure you'll get thechance to talk to each and every guestbefore the bell tolls? Enter the receivingline - the most formal and efficient linedance you'll ever do. Here's how to con-nect with your company and give guestsyour most heartfelt greetings and grati-tude.
A receiving line is the best opportunityto greet each guest individually andthank him or her for coming to your wed-ding. And if you're having more than 50guests, it's considered proper etiquette.The line also guarantees your guests aminute of face-to-face time with you, achance to hug, kiss and congratulateyou both, and to say things like "The cere-mony was lovely." If you rely instead onthe more casual greet-them-as-you-see-them approach, you may spend thewhole party in a tailspin, ducking out ofconversations to say hello to people youhaven't greeted yet, and inevitably you'llend up missing someone.
Generally the receiving line is formedimmediately following the ceremony orat the beginning of the reception. You'llwant to take spatial constraints into con-sideration when choosing where to lineup so that family and bridal party mem-bers aren't standing on top of each otherand guests have room to move in asmooth, orderly procession (which inturn makes the line go faster so you canall get on to the party). Proper ventilationis also crucial to avoid sweaty brows andswooning bridesmaids. The most com-monly used ceremony site areas includethe hallway or vestibule at the head ofthe aisle, outside the entry doors, downthe front steps or on the front porch. Atyour reception site the options are many,depending on the party space: considerthe cocktail lounge, the lobby, just out-side the doors leading into the mainroom or the reception room itself, per-haps on the dance floor. Ultimately, picka spot where you and your guests canstand comfortably for the duration.
Traditionally, the bride's parents, ashosts, head the receiving line and arefirst to greet guests, followed by the brideand groom and then the groom's par-ents. Many lines we've seen also includethe entire bridal party (if there's room)and sometimes even grandparents (ifthey're able). Today, however, with morecouples contributing to or paying fortheir own weddings, the lines haveblurred (so to speak). The couple maywish to stand alone, especially if themajority of guests are their friends orthey may stand with just the moms whilethe dads circulate among and welcomethe crowd during the cocktail hour.
This may be one of the stickier situa-
tions you'll encounter when orchestrat-ing the big day and the resolution oftendepends on the relationships betweenthe relevant parties. If your parents aredivorced, they should not stand next toone another in line - even if they are shar-ing hosting duties - as this gives theimpression that they are still a couple.Instead, place Mom on one side of youand the groom, then the groom's par-ents, then Dad. If this arrangement does-n't sit well, consider placing another fam-ily member or an honour attendantbetween them. And what about steppar-ents? Should you include them too?That depends: Do you have a good rela-tionship with them? Is your mom/dadcapable of sharing this duty with yourstep mom/dad with civility and grace?You should strive to make everyone feelas comfortable as possible. If thisarrangement gets the green light, simplyhave your father stand with his new wife,and your mother with her new husband.This way guests will understand the rela-tionships.
The receiving line is where your host-ing duties as the bride and groom kickoff. It'll no doubt be a whirlwind of faces,but as much as possible you shouldintroduce your new spouse and your par-ents to all the guests they have not yetmet. First names and the guests' rela-tionships to you should suffice. Likewiseall guests should take it upon them-selves to offer this same information asintroduction to attendants and familymembers whom they've never met asthey proceed down the line; simplyshake hands, offer congratulations andkeep moving. The bride and groom needonly accept everyone's hugs, kisses andbest wishes and thank them for coming.It's that simple. And yes, you'll end upwith a lot of lipstick on your cheeks, butfear not - you're allowed to make a bath-room pit stop before heading to theparty.
As is common nowadays, traditionssuch as the receiving line are ultimatelyopen to interpretation. Depending on thesize of your guest list, you may opt togreet guests in other ways. One couplewe know personally dismissed guestsfrom their seats right after the ceremony,one row at a time (although we wouldn'trecommend this for gatherings of morethan 150 people, or if guests have toremain seated - and suffer - through hotsun, rain, strong winds or other inclem-ent conditions). If you have fewer than50 guests, you might decide to turn cock-tail hour into the meet-and-greet oppor-tunity instead of a formal receiving line.Whatever you choose, the basic tenetsstill apply: Greet each of your guests inturn and thank them for joining you onthis joyful occasion.
- The Knot
Why Have One?
When and Where?
Who Stands in it?
Divorced and Remarried Parents
Introductions All Around
Variations on a Theme
Receiving Line: Etiquette, Options & Tips