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7 L. Roussel, Le divorce et les Franais, I, Enqute dopinion; II, LExperience des divorcs, PUF, Paris, 1975, p. 82

8 Pe larg, n W. J. Goode, Women in Divorce, New York, 1965, p. 52 - 80

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