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    Liquid Hope:

    A DaughtersLove

    by Robin Gentry McGee

    Iam the only girl in a family of three boys and have always

    been what one would call a daddys girl. I cannot ever

    remember a time in my life when I did not think my dad

    hung the moon. He was an amazing musician. He turned

    down a record and touring contract when we four kids werestill small because he did not want to uproot our family. In

    later years, he moved toward his other passion and became a

    full-time minister.

    In 2005, he had all but retired, and he and my mother were liv-

    ing in Michigan. I remember that year distinctly. On February 22,

    two days before my birthday, I received a phone call from my

    brother. He said that my father had slipped on ice and fallen.

    As a result, my father had suered a very severe traumatic braininjury (or a TBI) and was being rushed into emergency surgery.

    The doctors said there would be little chance of his surviving

    the surgery, and he had even less of a chance of being in any-

    thing more than a vegetative state if he were to pull through.

    Upon receiving the news, my husband and I rushed from our

    home in Ohio to Michigan, where we spent the next six weeks

    waiting for my father to regain consciousness. At some point

    throughout this ordeal, I began to realize that what his medi-cal doctors were oering gave us little hope. His prognosis was

    grim. I began to research TBI and dug out every piece of infor-

    mation I could nd on alternative treatments and options. It

    was only after we conducted much research and used tools

    that we did not nd through normal medical care that my dad

    nally came out of the coma. Our excitement was short lived,

    however, as he had suered many secondary complications

    while in the hospital.

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    One day while sitting at my dads bedside, out of sheer bore-

    dom, I picked up a can of formula the nurses had been dili-

    gently pouring down dads feeding tube four times a day for

    the last 18 months. When I read the label, I realized there was

    nothing in the formula that would heal him. It was balanced,

    and it met all the RDA requirements. However, as the only thing

    my father was getting in the way of nutrition, the formula wasprobably barely sustaining him.

    I knew I had to help my father. I had spent the past 20 years

    working in the health food industry, and because of this, I had

    always been drawn to the more holistic side of medicine. I

    decided to research the healing properties of food. I searched

    the Internet, libraries, and health food stores for information on

    alternative healing for TBI.

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    During my research, I came across

    a book titled Healing with WholeFoods by Paul Pitchford. I was a

    bit overwhelmed by the size of

    the book but encouraged by the

    fact that it contained information

    about brain damage. I purchased

    it, and once I began reading, I could not put it down. The infor-

    mation was amazing; the way Mr. Pitchford used food for heal-

    ing resonated deeply with me. I felt as though I had come home.

    I immersed myself in Healing with Whole Foods and started todevelop a meal replacement formula for my fathers feeding

    tube. It would include not only the foods Mr. Pitchford recom-

    mended for brain damage but also those that would address

    my fathers many secondary conditions.

    This was the beginning of my love aair with food as medicine. I

    was quite familiar with whole foods, but my mission helped metruly realize their power. There were foods that would clear mucus

    from my fathers lungs, foods to help with his failing renal system,

    and foods to guard against his constant urinary tract infections.

    One day, during a visit to my acupuncturist, I told her about

    the fascinating book I had found and how it had inspired me

    to put together a meal replacement formula for my father.

    She revealed that she, too, had the book, and had wanted to

    study with Pitchford for years. She told me that he taught at an

    institute in northern California. I immediately reached out toMr. Pitchford and set up an appointment with him.

    The consultation would change the course of my career and ulti-

    mately my life. Not only did Mr. Pitchford guide me in selecting

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    healing foods to use in the new formula, but he

    also became one of my greatest teachers.

    The most dicult part of creating the formula

    which we called Liquid Hopewas nding a

    medical doctor who would support me. I was

    fortunate enough to nd Dr. Deepak Sarwal, a

    western-trained internist who was open to alter-native methods of healing. Dr. Sarwal let me try

    the formula, beginning by replacing the old formula once a

    day. Gradually we replaced each of the old-formula feedings

    with Liquid Hope.

    The dierence in my father was unbelievable. At the begin-

    ning of this process, my dad was barely conscious as he was

    wheeled into the doctors exam room on a gurney. Six weeks

    later, he returned to the same doctor, this time sitting up in

    a wheelchair, his big brown eyes and his smile both shiningbrightly. After that visit, I received a phone call from the doctor.

    It is a miracle what you have done for your father, he said. No,

    I replied, It is simply nutrition.

    As my father continued to receive Liquid Hope, I realized that

    there were a lot of other people suering needlessly who

    could benet from the formula. I am in the process of bringing

    it to the market as an organic whole foods meal replacement.

    Weekly I receive phone calls or emails from peo-

    ple who have heard my fathers story and want

    Liquid Hope for their loved ones.

    My father ultimately succumbed to his death as a

    result of internal bleeding. I am so grateful that I

    was able to be with him during his last days and

    that I could use my skills and training to add tohis quality of life in a very real way. Sometimes

    our greatest gifts in life arise out of our greatest pain. Through

    this experience, my father validated my belief that food can be

    used to heal, and for that validationand for all the other gifts

    he gave meI am truly grateful. cm

    Robin Gentry McGee is a whole oods che

    and holistic health coach. She has just com-

    pleted her frst book (not yet published) A Turnfor the Worst about her journey with her ather

    through the care o his traumatic brain injury. For more inorma-

    tion about Robin preparing meal replacements or your loved one,

    contact Robin at [email protected]. Robin and

    NYC-based registered dietician Lynn Goldstein will work together

    to create a meal replacement program that will enhance the lie o

    anyone on meal replacement therapies. For general inormation

    about Robin and her services, go to www.jstgreatoods.com.

    Weekly I receive phone calls or emailsfrom people who have heard my fathers story andwant Liquid Hope for their loved ones.

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