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Preparing Teenagers:

A BABYSITTERIN THE MAKING

Making Children

SMARTERTHROUGH MUSIC

Bedtime Routine

GOOD NIGHT,SLEEP TIGHT

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ANIMAL FUNEverything to do with animals.

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FIELD TRIPSEach week (usually Thursday) we willload the campers on the Ozzy’s busand we will be off on a full day of

fun, adventure and learning.Campers must pack a lunch andwear their free camp T-shirt.

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! We Do All the Work,! You Have All the Fun

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COUNCILVERIFICATION

CIRCULATION

Volume 13, No. 7

March 2009

FEATURESHOW TO

REACH US

COLUMNS

CULTURE

VOICES

Berks Phone 610-670-2300toll free: 800-673-2454 fax: 610-670-9251

Lebanon Phone 717-273-8127toll free: 800-673-2434 fax: 717-273-0420 Web site: www.aboutfamiliespa.com

To reach the editor andto send a calendar event item:

EditorMari Conners

[email protected]

To find a copy of our magazineor to arrange home subscription:

Publication CoordinatorJudy Fetterolf

[email protected]

Advertising Sales:James Snyder

[email protected]

Marketing Consultants:Berks EditionLinda Earnshaw

[email protected]

Lebanon EditionSusan Zeller

[email protected]

About Families is published twelvetimes a year by Kapp Advertising Service,Inc. All rights are reserved. Reproduction inwhole or part without written permission isprohibited. We welcome correspondenceand editorial submissions but are notresponsible for the return of any unsolicitedmaterials.

About Families does not necessarilyendorse the products, services or view-points offered. All material in this publica-tion is provided for information only andmay not be construed as medical advice orinstruction.

We reserve the right to reject anyadvertisement.

7 Raising Tweens - Reading Between the Lines ofChildhood and Teenage Years

13 Specialty Camps Offer a Program for Every Interest

33 Cyberbullying Tips for Parents

34 Ten Smart Snacks for Teens

4 From the Editor’s Desk

23 Teacher of the Month

14 March It Figures

15 Creative Crafts

20 Buy The Book

24 Music in Our Schools Directory

33 Reel Life With Jane

ON THE COVER

17 Good Night, Sleep Tight

18 A Babysitter in the Making

19 Parents Can Make Their ChildrenSmarter Through Music

DEPARTMENTS

6 March Event Planning Guide

9 Camp Directory

12 Party Page

16 Classified Directory

26 Marketplace Directory

31 Health News: Childhood Skin Infections

32 Recall Roll Call

35 Recipe Page: Choose Cherries, America’s Superfruit

5 Love, Limits & Lessons:Chen a Child Uses PowerfulWords that Hurt

11 Immunization Clinics

15 Wesley Wonders: Camp inthe City? How Surprising!

21 Dear Teacher

25 Coach, They’re Just Not into You

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COMING NEXT MONTH

Birthday Party on a Budget

Teens and Sleep: Turn Off Your iPod and Go To Bed

Prevent Child Abuse! Know the Signs

AboutFamiliesbringingfamilies togethersince 1995

Music in the air…

TT here is great significance attached tomany dates this time of year. Forinstance, I know dozens of folks who

are anxiously looking forward to March 8 as itis the day we “spring” ahead one hour. Othersare crossing off the days until March 20 whichis officially the first day of spring. Yet there aregreat numbers of Berks and Lebanon Countyresidents who are eagerly looking forward toother March dates. Whether marked with an Xor a circle, these are “Red Letter” days forthose who look forward to attending their highschool musical. Be sure to use the Music InOur Schools Directory included in this issue tohelp you plan the performance you will attend.Each school that responded to our request islisted along with the title of the musical, date,time, and location. If the school offers a specialsenior citizen performance, that is included aswell.

For those who have young children andwonder what possible value music could add to

their child’s life, please read Phillip Sheppard’sarticle, Parents Can Make Children SmarterThrough Music.

I remember when I was a third grader andwas introduced to the violin and then the cello.I loved the challenge of trying to “makemusic” and then participating in a school per-formance for family members. Today, a child’sfirst musical experience will most likely bewith a flutophone or recorder. They are taughtsimple songs and in the learning of the song,discover that they can succeed. Instinctivelyalmost all children love listening to and singingmusic. In fact, so much early learning happensthrough singing songs and rhymes that I amreminded of how children truly do absorb newinformation much like a sponge. Mothers seefirst hand that when they hold and sing to theirbabies – no matter how off key – the baby vis-ibly becomes more relaxed and they share atangible closeness. Yes it is true, the benefits ofmusic are numerous!

Summer Camp“Yippee!” I can hear them now as children

realize we are inching ever closer to warm

weather, shorts, t-shirts, and summer camp. The decision to send your youngster to

camp is never as difficult as deciding whichcamp he or she is best suited for.Considerations such as cost, location, andactivities weigh heavily in the decision process.Some parents of first time campers are lookingfor one that offers a two or three day overnightexperience, while seasoned campers may belooking for a new and different adventurefrom previous years.

We hope that by utilizing the camp guideand reviewing the ads in this edition, your levelof confidence in your choice, and then yourchild’s camp experience, will be positive andrewarding.

It is no secret, summer group camp is funand exciting!Have something to share?

We are always excited to hear from ourreaders. So if you have something to share, orcomments to make, please email me at:[email protected]. I’d love to hearfrom you.

Mari Conners

From the Editor’s Desk

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child may be feeling small and unimpor-tant and suddenly discovers that using thisspecial word gives them the power tocause you to freak out and over react.Experts tell us that a child may spend up tothree months using a new word they’veheard, but if using it causes Mommy tolose her cool, the child may keep using itfar beyond the normal ‘discovery’ period.This gives her the feeling of being power-ful and the motivation to turn it into a fungame to play.

Immediately I suggest not over reacting.This will take away much of the motiva-tion for your child to want to keep usingthe word. Remain calm and avoid fearfulthoughts that your child is bad, or worse,that you’re a bad parent. Also avoid pun-ishing the child. Many of us can rememberhaving our mouths washed out with soap.Instead, calmly let your child know thatyou do not like the word and cannot allowanyone in the house to use it. Let themhelp you come up with a fun word thatthey can say instead. Because they maytest you to see how “real” you are with thisnew boundary, be ready to lovingly remindthem of your rule about the word andmake it fun and exciting to use the alter-nate word instead. Taking this firm andloving approach will teach your child somuch more about unconditional love andbuilding respectful boundaries with others.

OO f all the wordsthat botherparents the

most, my vote wouldhave to go with thephrase, “I hate you!”I’m talking about the

words that occasionally come out of themouths of our babes when they are angrywith us. Many of us were raised with anunderstanding that the word hate was offlimits more than any others. Back when Iwas young, it didn’t matter how angry Iwas with my parents, I never consideredthe option of using that word because Iknew there would be extremely heavyconsequences if I did. Parents todaycringe when they hear that word usedagainst them and it hurts. We were taughtby the power it carried, that it was the ulti-mate in verbal assault on respect..

Let me suggest however, that childrendo not know what that word means. Theysay it when they are mad at the parent fornot giving in to their demands, or formaking changes that they don’t like.When your young child is mad at you,they are expressing that they either loveyou or hate you; there is nothing in themiddle. I encourage parents to not overreact when they hear the hate word usedagainst them. I also suggest that whenyour child says “I hate you,” that youreact in a calm voice and simply say, “itlooks like you’re mad at me.” This willhelp redefine the child’s emotion and helpthem understand what they are reallyfeeling.

What about “potty words,” when yourchild picks up a bad word he heard some-

where and decides to use it for effect?Imagine this scene; little Johnny is playingin the sandbox at preschool and he hearsanother little boy say “poo-poo” (I’ll use amild one here to represent words that arefar worse). Little Johnny innocentlyrepeats this new and unfamiliar word afew times because it’s kind of cute andeasy to say. There may even be a chancethat he’s heard Mommy or Daddy say itand he wants to be more like them, so hetries out the word. Moments later, theteacher hears little Johnny using thisword. She’s shocked and scolds him not tosay it. He quickly discovers the power ofthis word because of how it made histeacher respond. Mommy arrives in theafternoon to pick him up. With anticipa-tion and excitement, Johnny decides to tryout the word again to see what effect itwill have on Mommy. She nearly drives offthe road as she hears him announce itfrom his car seat behind her. Looking inher rearview mirror, she exclaims “wedon’t use that word in this family!” andthinks to herself, “my child is out of con-trol and he’s only four!” Or she’s wonder-ing to herself, “What are they teachinghim at this school?” Little Johnny is excit-ed about the power this word is giving himby the impact it is having on the adultsaround him. I might even imagine he issaying to himself, “I’m going to save thispowerful word for later… when Grandmacomes over to visit!”

It’s common for young children to hearvarious “potty words” and begin usingthem against our wishes. What motivateschildren to use them is the reaction theyget from the adults around them. Your

Although one might not classify this asusing a real word, I get stumped with theparents who cannot get past their childcommunicating like an animal. A woman Imet asked me to help her find a solutionfor her 4 year old daughter constantlybarking like a dog. The little girl was evencrawling around on all fours. My advice toher was that her daughter was simplyexploring the fun of being a dog and noth-ing more. By the mother overreacting tothis behavior, she was giving it instantvalue and motivating the child to do it allthe more for fun. I suggested that sheremain calm and dispel her fears that herdaughter would be barking at 18. I encour-aged her to have some fun with this andbark back. If she was trying to gain coop-eration from her daughter, to simply say“mommy can’t understand you” and justwalk away. I later learned that when momstarted ignoring the barking, the little girlturned into a cat. Within a week, the girlhad tried out an entire menagerie of ani-mals, but eventually began speaking nor-mally when mom did not respond.

Bill Corbett is the author of the book “Love,Limits, and Lessons,” and the executive directorof Cooperative Kids. He has three grown chil-dren, two grandchildren, and lives with his wife,Elizabeth, near Hartford, Connecticut. You canvisit his web site www.CooperativeKids.com forfurther information and parenting advice. Sendquestions via email to [email protected]

When a Child Uses Powerful Words that HurtLove, Limits, & Lessons

by Bill Corbett

The Young Voices Foundation andwriters Barbara Fite, Nancy Hendrixand Sacra Nicolas, three middle schoolteachers who collaborated to write afantasy novel in 1990, invite students ingrades 6 -12 to rewrite the first threechapters of their book.

The dialogue needs to be updatedand the characterization and settingadjusted to reflect the way young peo-ple speak and interact with one anotherin today’s world.

Cash prizes will be awarded for First,Second and Third Place for entries thatbest bring the writing up to date whilemaintaining the original story line andmessage.

In the introduction to the book thewriters state, “It was our desire to writea book that would appeal to all ages,view the world and its inhabitants asinterconnected and possessing a quality

of oneness, and to also write a bookthat embraced a spiritual response tolife's gifts and adversities.

Why all ages? The part humanity willplay in the prosperity of our planet willdepend upon the actions and applica-tion of the rich, flexible minds andvisions of our youth. The authors could-n't resist writing a novel that in movieform would reach all ages, but in bookform would capture the imagination ofthe young group of individuals who willone day be in charge of our world. It isour hope that they will take these ideasand use them to make a positive contri-bution in the future.”

For complete details about the con-test, the Young Voices Foundation andthe writers, go to www.youngvoices-foundation.org . The Young VoicesFoundation is a 501 (c)(3) educationalnonprofit organization.

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Educational Foundation Teams With Middle School Teachers to Sponsor

Writing Contest Opento Kids and Teens

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Breastfeeding Education – 610-988-HELP,Health Education Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30pm-8:30 pm, also on 3/15.

4Birthing Class Series – 610-988-4357, HealthEducation Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30 pm-8:30 pm, also 3/5.“Parenting of Teens and Preteens” – 610-683-9012, Friend Inc. Community Services, 658DNoble St., Kutztown 7 pm-9 pm, and 3/11: utiliz-ing Active Parenting Education Program.

5Birthing Class Series – 610-988-4357, HealthEducation Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30 pm-8:30 pm.

7Becoming a Big Brother/Big Sister – 610-988-4357, The Reading Hospital Conference Center,5th Avenue Lobby entrance, 10-11:30 am.Auditions for Gretna’s Theatre’s Summer 2009Season– Gretna Theatre, Mt. Gretna, 10 am-noon. Need local actors, singers, dancers, chil-dren and adults, and theatre technicians.

8SPRING FORWARD – Remember to setyour clocks ahead one hour at 2 am (orbefore you go to bed).

9“Connecting for Success” – Franco Building,Penn State Berks Campus, Tulpehocken Road,Reading, 3 pm-7:30 pm. To provide students withdisabilities–ages 14 to 21–and their parents withinformation about local agencies, organizationsand programs that provide services to individualsafter high school. Educators are encouraged toattend, as well.

10Journey Through Pregnancy - The First SevenMonths– 610-988-HELP, Health EducationCenter, Reading Hospital, 6:30 pm-8:30 pm.Foster Care Meeting – Concern ProfessionalServices, Wyomissing Office, 1120-B HobartAve., Wyomissing, 6-7 pm.Childbirth Preparation Class Series – 610-378-2003 (details), 610-378-2100 (registration), St.Joseph’s Medical Center, Franciscan Room,Bern Campus, Tuesdays through 3/31, 7-9 pm.This series of classes taken during the 6th or 7thmonth are designed to educate parents about thephysical and emotional aspects of the birthingprocess, including the role of the labor coach.

11“Parenting of Teens and Preteens” – 610-683-9012, Friend Inc. Community Services, 658DNoble St., Kutztown 7 pm-9 pm, utilizing ActiveParenting Education Program.Preparation for Breastfeeding Çlass – 610-378-2003 (details), 610-378-2100 (registration),St. Joseph’s Medical Center, Family BirthingCenter Conference Room, Route 183, Reading,7-8:30 pm.

12“Cinderella” - 610-689-6300, playing atDaniel Boone Middle School, 1845Weavertown Rd., Douglassville, also 3/13and 3/14 at 7 pm and 3/15 at 2 pm.OV PTO Preschool Story Hour – 610-987-4100,Oley Valley Elementary School lobby, 10 am, sto-ries, games, rhymes, crafts and snack.Postpartum Depression Support Group – 610-988-4357, Reading Hospital, Doctors OfficeBuilding, Suite 125, 7 pm-8 pm.

13“Cinderella” - 610-689-6300, playing atDaniel Boone Middle School, 1845Weavertown Rd., Douglassville also 3/14at 7 pm and 3/15 at 2 pm.

14RSO Concert - 610-898-7299, SovereignPerforming Arts Center, 136 N. 6th St.,Reading, 8 pm.“Cinderella” - 610-689-6300, playing atDaniel Boone Middle School, 1845Weavertown Rd., Douglassville at 7 pm

and 3/15 at 2 pm.Outgrown Sale, Berks Kids Closet –610-693-6030, St. Thomas Church, 536 North Main St.,Rte. 183, Bernville, 8 am-2 pm.Trout Fishing in America – 610-372-4721, ext.5500, Miller Center for the Arts, Reading,www.racc.edu/MillerCenter1.

15“Cinderella” - 610-689-6300, playing atDaniel Boone Middle School, 1845Weavertown Rd., Douglassville at 2 pm.Breastfeeding Education – 610-988-HELP,Health Education Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30pm-8:30 pm.Lancaster Cleft Palate Clinic’s Smiling Faces –717-544-5513, American Music Theatre,Lancaster, ages 3 and up.Spaghetti Lunch – 610-488-7622, EvangelicalLutheran Friedens Church, Main & WashingtonSts., Bernville, noon to 2 pm.St. Patty’s Breakfast and Bake Sale –610-406-7392, St. Ignattius of Loyola School, 2810 StAlban’s Drive, Sinking Spring, 8 am-noon.CHADD Support Group for children & adultswith Attention Hyperactivity Disorder – [email protected], 1255 Perkiomen Ave.,Reading, at 2 pm every third Sunday of themonth.

16Foster Care Meeting – Concern ProfessionalServices, Wyomissing Office, 1120-B HobartAve., Wyomissing, 6-7 pm.

17Journey Through Pregnancy: Preparing forDelivery and Baby – 610-988-HELP, HealthEducation Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30 pm-8:30 pm.

18Berks Deaf and Hard of Hearing ServicesGrand Opening – 2045 Centre Avenue,Reading, 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. Ribbon cuttingceremony, refreshments, meet our friendly staff.Learn about the services that we provide.

22Playhouse Disney Live – 610-898-7253,Reading Eagle Theater at the Sovereign Center,700 Penn St., Reading, 1:30 pm and 4:30 pm.

24Journey Into Parenting - Your Newborn Baby– 610-988-HELP, The Reading HospitalConference Center, 5th Ave., Lobby entrance,6:30 pm-8 pm, free.

25Journey Into Parenting - Doctor’s Night – 610-988-4357, Health Education Center, ReadingHospital, 6:30 pm-8 pm.

2815th Annual Lebanon Community LibraryFundraiser – Auction themed Bonjour Paris! withstorybook character Madeline, held at theLebanon Country Club, 3375 W. Oak St.,Lebanon, 6 p.m. To benefit the Children’s Dept. ofthe Lebanon Community Library.Childbirth Preparation Class Series – 610-378-2003 (details), 610-378-2100 (registration), St.Joseph’s Medical Center, Franciscan Room A,Bern Campus, 9 am-1 pm, also 4/4.

april 3Smucker’s Stats on Ice “On the Edge” – 201-760-0200, The Giant Center in Hershey, 7:30 pm.

Library ActivitiesBerks County

Boone Area Library – 610-582-5666, 129 N. MillSt., Birdsboro. Preschool story time for ages 3-6years old held on Mondays, 3/2, 3/9, 3/16, 3/23,3/30 at 10:30 am, 1:30 & 6:30 pm. Basic com-puter class held on Wednesdays, 3/4, 3/11, 3/18,3/25, & 4/1 at 1:30-2:30 pm and on Thursdays,3/5, 3/12, 3/19, 3/26 & 4/2 at 6:30-7:30 pm.Muhlenberg Community Library – 610-929-0589, 3612 Kutztown Rd., Laureldale. PreschoolStory-times for children 3-6 years old everyThursday, 3/5, 3/12, 3/19, 3/26 & 4/2, 10:30 am &1:30 pm. Toddler Story-times for children 6-36

ongoingAllentown Art Museum – 610-432-4333, PayneHurd Gallery, 31 North Fifth St., Allentown,www.allentownartmuseum.org. “Slow Clay: TheCeramic Art of Willi Singleton through 4/12.Reading Royals Ice Hockey– 610-898-7825(www.royalshockey.com), Sovereign Center, 7th& Penn Sts., Reading. 3/1 vs. Dayton Bombers @5:05 pm vs. Dayton Bombers; 3/6 & 3/7 vs.Cincinnati Cyclones @ 7:05 pm; 3/11 vs.Wheeling Nailers @ 7:05 pm;3/14 & 3/20 vs.Trenton Devils @ 7:05 pm; 3/25 vs. Elmira Jackals@ 7:05 pm; 3/27 @ 7:05 pm & 3/29 @ 5:05 pm vs.Johnstown Chiefs; 4/3 vs. Trendon Devils @ 7:05pm & 4/4 vs. Dayton Bombers @ 7:05 pm.Hershey Bears Ice Hockey– 717-534-3380,Giant Center, 550 West Hersheypark Dr.,Hershey, 3/1 vs. Providence Bruins @ 5 pm; 3/11vs. Springfield @ 7 pm; 3/14 vs. WilkesBarre/Scranton Penguins; 3/15 vs. BridgeportSound Tigers; 3/25 vs. Toronto Marlies @ 7 pm;3/28 @ 7 pm & 3/29 @ 5 pm vs. Wilkes Barre/Scranton Penguins.“The Chronicles of Narnia: The Exhibition” –www.fi.edu/Narnia or 215-448-1254, TheFranklin, Philadelphia, through 4/19/09. Offersthe perfect mix of education and entertainment.DiscoverE – Explore, Experience, Enjoy – Hide& Seekers – 610-796-3699, Nolde ForestEnvironmental Education Center, 2910 NewHolland Rd., Reading, 10-11 am. For childrenages 4-5, must be accompanied by adult. FirstWed. & Thurs. of each month through May.MOMS Club of Sinking Spring – 610-927-9491(Kate, membership VP). Monthly meetings andweekly playgroups for local at-home parents andtheir young children. Call for more info.Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant DeathSupport Group – 610-401-5773, ImmanuelChurch of Christ (UCC), Shillington, first Mondayof every month, 6-7 pm.Parents Without Partners – 610-373-2215,Met-Ed on Rt. 61, first Wednesday of everymonth, 7 pm.Annville Moms and Tots – 469-0975 (Tina),Annville Church of the Brethren, East Maple &Zeigler Sts., Annville, Wednesdays 9:15-10:45am. A place for moms and their children tosocialize and make new friends.Parents Time Out Parenting Support &Information Group – 610-683-7790 voice mail#3, meets first Thursday of every month.Sponsor: Friend Inc. Community Services.MOMS Club of Southern Berks County – 484-955-9671 (Mary) or [email protected] for location, 10 am, second Tuesdayof each month. All moms welcome!Foster Parent Orientation – 717-560-1775,Northlink Family Services, 24A East RosevilleRd., Lancaster, third Thursday of every month,5:30-6:30 pm.Artventures Family Fun – 61-432-4333, ext. 10,Allentown Art Museum, 31 N. 5th St., Allentown,1-4 pm on 3/1, 3/8, 3/15, 3/22, 3/29; 3/7 FamilyTime: The Art of Stories @ 1 pm & 3 pm.

march_______________________________________

1Geocaching in Nolde Forest – 610-796-3699,Nolde Forest Environmental Education Center,2910 New Holland Rd., Reading, 2 pm.Annapolis Bluegrass Coalition Concert – 717-733-2121, Main Theater, 124 E. Main St.,Ephrata, 2 pm.

2Foster Care Meeting – Concern ProfessionalServices, Greater Berks Office, 1 West Main St.,Fleetwood, 6-8 pm.Prenatal Class Series – 717-270-2316, GSH(call for more information), 7-9 pm, free.Birthing Class Series – 610-988-4357, HealthEducation Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30 pm-8:30 pm, also 3/4 & 3/5.

3Infertility Support Group – 610-988-HELP,Women’s Clinic, Ltd., The Reading Hospital andMedical Center Doctors Office Building, Suite245, 7 pm. continued on page 7

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Raising Tweens – Reading Betweenthe Lines of Childhood and Teenage YearsFFor years I was under the

assumption that children pro-gressed from baby, to toddler, to

child, to preteen, to teenager until final-ly they became adults. Somewherealong the line, we picked up anotherperiod in a child’s development known

as the tween years. Now, preteen is aneasy time to grasp, it’s the time justprior to a child turning thirteen. I getthat. But, as a parent from the “oldendays, ” I wonder when this new phase –this tween time – begins?

The word tween is used to describechildren between the ages of 8 and 9(opinions vary) through age 12. It is atime when they are becoming awarethat their bodies are going to changeand they start wanting their privacy. Itis a time when they fluctuate betweenloving you and hating you, betweenwanting you around or far enough away

so as not to cramp their style. Theywant the freedom of a preteen orteenager but still need your guidinghand. It is a fine line we walk under-standing this age, and quite frankly, onewhich many of us need a guide book tonavigate confidently. I am personallywalking it right now with all three of my

tweens who range in age from 8 (almost9), to just turned 11, and a pre-teen whois 12. Prior to my research, I didn’tthink of my youngest as anything buteight going on nine. I didn’t know shewas in the tween stage of development,nor did I have any idea what that mightmean.Same Rules Apply…

NEWS FLASH! The rules reallydon’t change from when they were intheir terrible twos to the time when weexperience their terrible tweens. Rulesof respecting themselves and othersand listening and doing what they are

asked are rules that were put in place atan early age and they need to be con-tinually enforced. As they grow, chil-dren will push to see what they can get

away with. It is the parents’ job to setboundaries and keep their children

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mos. old and their adult caregiver on Tuesdays &Wednesdays, 3/3, 3/4, 3/10, 3/11, 3/17, 3/18,3/24 & 3/25, 10:30 am. Used book sale onSaturday, 3/28, 9 am-4 pm; on 3/30 & 3/31, 10am-8 pm.Reading Public Library – 610-655-6355, 100 S.5th St., Reading. Children’s Programs: ChessClub, Mondays at 4:15 pm; Family NightStorytime, Mondays at 7 pm; Movie night,Tuesdays at 6 pm; Crafty Corner, Thursdays at 4pm; Storytime, Saturdays at 2 pm. Log on atwww.reading.lib.pa.us/upcomiingevents.asp.Village Library of Morgantown – Walnut Street,Morgantown. Toddler story time for ages 18 mos.to 21/2 yrs. on Mondays, 3/2, 3/9, 3/16, 3/23, 3/30at 11 am-noon; Toddler story time for ages one to21/2 yrs. held on Tuesdays 3/3, 3/10, 3/17, 3/24,3/31 at 10-11 am; Preschool story time for ages3-4 yrs. held Wednesdays 3/4, 3,11, 3/18, 3/25,4/1 at 10-11 am; Author story time for ages 3-4yrs. held on Thursdays 3/5, 3/121, 3/19, 3/26 &4/2 at 4-5 pm.Wernersville Public Library - 610-678-8771, 100N. Reber St., Wernersville: Preschool story houron Wednesdays: 3/4, 3/11, 3/18, 3/25, 4/1, 4/8 &4/15 @ 10:30-11:30 am.West Lawn/Wyomissing Hills Library – 610-678-4888, West Lawn. Story hours: 3/2 @ 6 pm &3/3 @ 10 am“Happy Birthday, Dr. Seuss”; 3/9 @ 6pm & 3/10 @ 10 am, “Sar Light, Star Bright”; 3/16@ 6 pm & 3/17 @ 10 am, “Todd Parr Week”; 3/23@ 6 pm & 3/24 @ 10 am, “Be Kind”; 3/30 @ 6 pm& 3/31 @ 10 am, “It’s Good To Be Me!” FamilyCraft Night on 3/17 at 6:30 pm, Decorate atFlower Pot! Free, but call to register, refresh-ments.Womelsdorf Community Library – 610-589-1424, 203 W. High St., Womelsdorf. StoryriderJoy for preschool on 3/3, 3/10, 3/17, 3/24, 3/31 @11:15 am-12:15 pm. Evening story time on 3/10 @6:30-7:30 pm; Story time on 3/4, 3/11, 3/18, 3/25,4/1 @ 10:30-11:15; Family movie night on 3/18 @6-8 pm; Classic Movie Afternoon on 3/12 @ 2:30-

4:30 pm.Wyomissing Public Library – 610-374-2385, 9Reading Blvd., Wyomissing. Preschool/Elementary Story time 3/3, 3/10, 3/17, 3/24 & 3/31@ 4 pm for ages 3-11 yrs.; Preschool Story time3/4, 3/11, 3/18, 3/25 @ 10 am for ages 3-5 yrs.;Toddler Story time 3/5, 3/12, 3/19, 3/26 @ 10 amfor ages 18 mos. to 3 yrs. Birthday Party forVincent Van Gogh: stories, a sunflower craft andbirthday cake, 3/28 at 10:30 am.

Lebanon CountyThe Lebanon Community Library now open 64hours a week. The new library hours are Mondaythrough Wednesday, 8 am-8 pm; Thurs. 8 am-6pm; Friday and Saturay 8 am-5 pm. Annville Free Library – 717-867-5754, 216 E.Main St., Annville. Hrs.: M-Th 10-8; Fri. & Sat. 10-5. Spring 2009 story times: Preschool, 15 weekprogram on Tues. or Thurs. at 10:15 3/3, 3/5,3/10, 3/12, 3/17, 3/19, 3/23, 3/26. Program endsApril 30 (no story times on 4/7 & 4/9). After-school3/3, 3/5, 3/10, 3/12, 3/17 & ends on 3/19, forgrades 2 & 3, Tues. 3:15-4:15; for grades K & 1,Thurs. 3:15-4:15. Lebanon Community Library – 717-273-7624,125 N. 7th St., Lebanon. Story time held eachTues. at 11 am and each Thurs. at 9 am. Gearedfor children 3-5. Due to limited space, parents areasked not to attend the story times with theirchild. Toddler time, for children ages 24-36 mos.meets Tues. at 9 am and Thurs. at 10:30 am.Registration required and each child must beaccompanied by an adult.Matthews Public Library – 717-865-7492(Cindy), 102 W. Main St., Fredericksburg. Hours:Mon-Thurs. 9-8; Fri. 9-5; Sat. 9-4. Story time fortoddlers and preschoolers–includes story andcraft–every Wednesday at 10 am. Monday nightmovie schedule: 3/2 Camp Rock; 3/9 Akeelah andthe Bee; 3/16 Remember the Titans; 3/23 BeeMovie & 3/20 Peaceful Warrior (PG-13) at 4:30 inthe 2nd floor meeting room. All movies are PG orG unless otherwise noted.Myerstown Community Library – 717-866-

2800, 199 N. College St., Myerstown. SmartPreschool story time for children ages 3, 4 and 5at 10 am & 1 pm on Fridays: 3/6, 3/13, 3/20, 3/27.Also, Smart start story time with CandaceMartzall, special dates in 2009. Start Start Storytime is a special story time for babies up to 23months. Caregivers are required to accompanybabies. Each session is approximately twentyminutes in length. Email Candace,[email protected], for dates and times.Palmyra Public Library – 717-838-1347, 325 S.Railroad St., Palmyra: 1/12 Winter-Spring Storytime Registration required & limited, 10 am.Classes run thru 4/3 for: Toddlers (2 yrs.) Mondays@ 10:30 & 11:30 am; 3-Yrs. Old Wednesdays @10:30 & 11:30 am; 3-Yrs. Old through K,Wednesdays @ 6:30 pm; 4-Yrs. through K,Fridays @ 10:30 am & 1:30 pm Registration forWinter-Spring stories & crafts grades first to third,

1/26 @ 10 am, classes begin 2/10-3/18, $5 regis-tration; Toddler story time (2 yrs. old) 1/26 @10:30-11 am, classes thru 3/30Richland Community Library – 717-866-4939,111 E. Main St., Richland. On 3/24, Claire Moorewill do a presentation of spinnning with herAngora Rabbit at 6:30 pm. On 3/28 2nd AnnualVendor Fair, 10 am-2 pm. 12 Local home businessvendors. Lunch will be available. Preschool storytime on Thursdays @ 11:15 am; Friday afternoonsdownstairs @ 3 pm for children 12-years andolder. Stop in for a steaming cup of gourmet cof-fee during library hours. Regular hours are Mon.-Wed. 12:30-8 pm; Thurs. 10:30 am-5 pm; Fri.12:30-5 pm; Sat. 9-4. Million penny challenge:goal to raise one million pennies to help covercosts for library programs will continue in 2009.

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The word tween is used to describe children betweenthe ages of 8 and 9 (opinions vary) through age 12.

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and Blue Marsh Lake. Campers enjoylearning about the world of horses anddeveloping the lifelong skills of ridingand horsemanship. With 20+ years ofexperience teaching horsemanshipthrough lesson and camp programs,our former students include successfulshow riders through national levels,professional instructors and trainers,vet school graduates and many morewho simply enjoy riding for pleasure.(www.heronmeadfarm.com) See ad onpage 8.Irish Creek Stables Summer DayCamp - 610-926-1261, Mohrsville.Appropriate for ages 6-15 years.Campers will enjoy a full day of horse-related activities. Paired with an IrishCreek Camp horse, each student willlearn basic riding skills at the walk &trot. Games & crafts are also offered ona daily basis. Each week ends with a“camp horse show.” If you want tohave a great time learning to ride, IrishCreek is the place to be. See ad onpage 13.Ozzy’s Family Fun Center - 610-926-6162, 5411 Pottsville Pike, Leesport,www.playozzys.com, for ages 5-12years. Ozzy’s Summer Day Camp ishailed by all its participants as “thebest summer camp in the world.” Greatstaff, great weekly themes, swimming,field trips and of course a giant 10-acreproperty with 80,000 sq. ft. under rooffor a great time, rain or shine. See adon page 3.Penn State Middle School Camps -6 1 0 - 3 9 6 - 6 2 2 5 ,www.berks.psu.edu/ce. Explore youroptions – learn about our environmentthrough hands-on activities, usingKnex’s and other materials, learn basicengineering principles, actively partici-pate in makiing a video production andother imagery or choose the world ofHarry Potter and learn basic scienceprinciples and participate in relatedgames and crafts. Ad on page 14.Riverview Christian “Kids Camp” -610-921-0285, Reading. Summer“Kids Camp” 2009, for ages 5-13years. June 8-August 14, 9 am-4 pmwith before and after care available.Kindergarten - 7th grade. Come oneweek or attend all 10 weeks. Bibleadventures, music, art, drama, nature,field trips and fun!!! See ad on page 15.Roving Nature Center Day Camps -610-374-8839, Berks County HeritageCenter, 1102 Red Bridge Rd., Reading,www.countyofberks.com/parks, forages 4-9 years. These 1/2 day campsessions offer children an opportunityto experience the natural features andhabitats of our park through interactivegames, stories, hikes, crafts, projectsand special investigations. See ad onpage 7.Spring Valley Day Camp - 610-678-0484, 4920 Penn Ave., Sinking Spring,www.svathleticclub.com, ages 5-12years. Spring Valley provides the best

DAY CAMPS:Almost Heaven Farm - 610-845-3442,Barto, PA for beginner to adult.Summer camp, horseback riding les-sons – English & Western. See ad onpage 20.Camp Invention – 1-800-968-4332,Inspire a passion for science in yourchild. Kids, ages 6-12 in grades 1-6participate in 5 exciting, hands-onclasses each day! Focus on invention,critical thinking skills, creative problemsolving, and teamwork. Take thingsapart, create inventions, experimentwith the science of superheroes, followthe trail of the Vikings to discover theirtreasure, and build a land sled to racein an X-treme obstacle course. Anationally-acclaimed science and cre-ativity camp from the NationalInventors Hall of Fame Foundation,presented by local teachers. Offered at50+ sites in PA, including Boyertown,Douglasville and Lebanon. See ad onpage 23.Colonial Sports Summer Day Camp -610-777-9651, Rte. 724, SinkingSpring (website: chbsports.com (forages 5-12 years. The proper balance ofexercise, learning and fun in a safe,structured environment. Weekly fieldtrips, swimming and park days. Large,air conditioned indoor sports and playarea. Outdoor playground and pavil-lion. Themed activities each week. Seead on page 21.Easter Seals’ Camp Lily Too - 610-775-1431, 1040 Liggett Avenue,Reading, www.esep.easterseals.com,for ages 3-7 years. 1/2 Day Camp,June 15-July 2, 9 am-12 noon. Games,guests, water fun. (Also Special NeedsCamp). See ad on page 31.Happy Campers - 610-678-6590, 132W. Wyomissing Blvd., West Lawn.Services provided by Sunshine andStars Childcare and Youthwise, forages 4-16 (13-16), ACA standards, CITProgram. Website: sunshineand-starschildcare.com. Real camping andoutdoor experience at local camp site,not stuck inside a buiilding all day.Camp crafts, nature lore, swimming,cookouts, group sports. Additionalfield trips and educational activities.(Also residential). Ad on page 15.History Day Camp at the DanielBoone Homestead - 610-582-4900,400 Daniel Boone Rd., Birdsboro. Forages 8-11 years. History Day Camp isa colonial adventure where kids willexperience and learn what DanielBoone did while he was growing uphere. Each day of camp will cover a dif-ferent theme of Daniel’s childhoodlife–from his chores to his free time, tohis time in the great outdoors–and willfeature many hands-on activities anddemonstrations. See ad on page 5.Heron Mead Farm Summer HorseCamps - for all levels and ages (5-18)610-488-8978 – located near Bernville

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way for active kids to spend the sum-mer. Weekly themes, weekly field tripsand two days of swimming! The bestway for your 5-12 year old to spend thesummer! See ad on page 22.Summer Adventure 2009 – 610-376-2100, 3103 Paper Mill Rd., Wyomissing.Body Zone offers full & half day campoptions. Li’l Adventurers, ages 3-5,Adventurers, 6-13. Or facility offers aswimming pool, athletic fields, hard-

wood court, wellness center, ice rinksand an art classroom. Ad on page 18.Summer Day Camp Albright College- 610-921-9324, 3040 Kutztown Rd.,Reading. Appropriate for ages 6-12years. Activities include cooking, waterday, special visitors, science & nature,arts & crafts and much more! For

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TThe Berks Visiting Nurse Immuniza-

tion Clinic, funded by the

Pennsylvania Department of

Health and administered through Berks

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the following childhood immunization

clinics at 1170 Berkshire Blvd.,

Wyomissing, during the month:

! Wed., Mar. 4, 9:00 am-1:00 pm! Mon., Mar. 9, 1:00 pm-5:00 pm! Thurs., Mar. 19, 9:00 am-1:00 pm! Tues., Mar. 24, 1:00 pm-5:00 pm

*Please note that the immunizationsare for children only. Immunization

records are required. Please call for anappointment. Additional informationregarding clinic times and locations isavailable through the Berks VisitingNurse Immunization Clinic at (610) 378-0481, extension 3294.

Childhood ImmunizationClinics

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enrollment information call! See ad onpage 15.Summer Day Camp at CreativeBeginnings - 610-375-9080, 2390Bernville Road, Reading. For ages 6-12 years. Activities include arts &crafts, science, & nature, special visi-tors, water day, cooking, and muchmore! For enrollment information call.See ad on page 15.Valley Mist Farm – 484-824-1110,125 Boyer Rd., Oley, for ages 3-16years. Open to all levels of equestrianinterests and competitive levels. Yourchild will experience all facets ofhorsemanship in a fun, safe, andenriching environment. Our goal is foreach child to become more comfort-able, educated and confident aroundhorses. Ad on page 34.

RESIDENTIAL, DAY,AND/OR

SPECIAL NEEDS CAMPS:Camp Adahi – 610-856-7250,Mohnton, www.campfireadahi.org.Award-winning family services. Nearlya century of experience in youthdevelopment. Greatest rates in Berks!Meals included. Open house on April26, 1-3 pm. See ad on page 33.Camp Manatawny – 610-689-0173,33 Camp Rd., Douglassville. Week-long program in a beautiful Mana-tawny Creek setting for school agegrades 1-12. We exist to provide awholesome, enjoyable experience tohelp young people spiritually, mentally,physically and socially with Jesus.(Also General Interest Day Camp).See ad on page 17.Aaron’s Acres - 717-917-6101,www.aaronsacres.org, for ages 5-21years. Comprehensive and structuredprogram that focuses on communica-tion and socialization of children withdevelopmental disabilities. Profes-sional staff includes social workers,

advice. Performance showcase at theend of 3 day’s camp. Will receive a2009 camp t-shirt, 3-days of lunch &2009 camp CD. See ad on page 13.Kids/Ladies Football Camps - 610-372-7277, Sovereign Center, Reading(website: expressindoorfootball.com)for kids ages 5, 6, 7 on March 28, 9am-12 pm; for kids ages 8, 9, 10 onApril 11, 9 am-12 pm; for Ladies onMay 9, 9 am-12 pm. Ad on page 20.Movement Mania Camp - 610-914-0713 or 610-207-4682, 1037 A.MacArthur Rd., Reading (websiteacademyofmovement.net), for ages 5-12. Learn exciting cheers, dance to hiphop and your favorite tunes. Alldancers receive 2009 camp CD & t-shirt. Camp will culminate in perform-ance showcase for parents. See ad onpage 13.Rage Soccer Camp - 828-308-7562,Berks County, for ages 4-18. The RageSoccer Club offers a variety of campsfor players and teams of all levels andabilities. Camps are run by licensedand professional Rage Soccer coach-es and PDL players. For additionalinformation on any camp and to regis-ter, go to www.bsarage.com for regis-tration or contact Ged Quinn [email protected]. Ad on page 25.

Goggle Works Center for the Arts –610-374-4600, 201 Washington St.,Reading, www.goggleworks.org.Ceramics, painting, drawing and more.See ad on page 2.Wyomissing Institute of the Arts –610-376-1576, 1100 Belmont Ave.,Wyomissing, log on at www.institute-of-arts.org. Music, dance, theater,visual arts, Literature for Toddlers toYoung Adults. Create, Explore, Grow,Learn, and Fun. Camp Preview Days,3/20 4-7 pm & 3/24 11 am-1 pm.Register by 4/25 for $10 discount percamp. See ad on page 19.

SPORT CAMPS:BNW Tennis Camps - 484-824-5029.Tennis Camps for junior players ages7-15. Instructed by BrianWardhammar, USPTA, BNW TennisService, Sinking Spring. Six weeks tochoose from, beginning June 15.Camps held at Green Valley CounryClub. Call for registration form.Dance Team Bootcamp - 610-207-4682 or 610-914-0713, 1037 A.MacArthur Rd., Reading (websiteacademyofmovement.net), for ages13-18. Pro staff from NBA dance team. You will learn 3 full routines with freshchoreography, plus talk to current prodancers, ask them questions, and get

special education teachers, nurses,music therapists, and occupationaltherapists. A staff-to-child ratio of oneon one or one to two. Camps held atSchuylkill Valley Elementary School,Lancaster and Harrisburg JewishCommunity Centers.Gretna Glen Camp & Retreat Center –717-273-6525, 87 Old Mine Rd., Leba-non, www.gretnaglen.org. We offer bothresidential & day camps for generalinterest, sport & art/music. Ages 4 & up.

SPECIALTY CAMPS:Car Race Video Game Creation – 1-888-652-4377, www.gamebuilder-camp.com, Philadelphia, SpringsideSchool: 6/29-7/2. Ad on page 31.Chess Camp – 888-65-CHESS. Threelocations & dates: Wyndcroft School,Pottstown, June 15-19; SpringsideSchool, Philadelphia, June 29-July 2;Harrisburg Academy, Harrisburg, July6-10. Chess is a great way to honestrategic thinking skills! Morning, after-noon & all-day sessions are available.Anyone (co-ed ages 5-16 yrs.) includ-ing beginners are welcome. Group &sibling discounts available. Register atwww.chesscamp.com. Ad on page 31.Computer Animation Story Camp –1-888-652-4377, www.gamebuilder-camp.com. In Pottstown WyndcroftSchool: 6/15-6/19 & Philadelphia,Springside School: 6/29-7/2. See adon page 31.Gamebuilder Creation Camp – 888-652-4377.Wyndcroft School,Pottstown, June 15-19; SpringsideSchool, Philadelphia, June 29-July 2;Harrisburg Academy, Harrisburg, July6-July 10. We combine learning andfun and bring it to a whole new level.Your child (co-ed ages 5-16 yrs.) willactually design, develop and create aone-of-a-kind video game. Whothought learning could be this fun?Register online atwww.gamebuildercamp.com/video.htm.See ad on page 31.

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Race Cars to Rock Stars, and All Things in Between:

Specialty Camps Offer aProgram for Every InterestIImagine a place where you get to

be totally immersed in the thingyou love to do (or want to try)

the most… from being wrist-deep incake batter or filming a movie to jam-ming all day with rock stars or learningto drive a race car. Specialty campsoffer just that type of fantasy-come-true experience!

Once a market dominated by sportscamps, an ever-growing number of spe-cialty camps are offering a variety ofvery specialized activities and totalimmersion programs. If there is some-thing that a child is really interested in,there is probably a camp out there forhim or her – from fine arts, performingarts and chef camp, to learning a for-eign language, science, engineering,motorsports and much, much more.

The benefits to a child attending aspecialty camp are numerous. Specialtycamps provide opportunities for kids toexperience in depth an activity or fieldof study, allowing them to progressbeyond the level of instruction a “gen-eral” camp may offer. Because thesecamps have very focused programs,they typically have more intensive andprofessional-level instruction, andoften include guest speakers, such asartists, musicians, and those who’vemade a career of that particular activi-ty.

Campers in these programs alsohave the opportunity to become con-nected with like-minded friends. Athome, they may be the only kid on theblock who is into a specific interest oractivity. This can be socially isolating,especially if it’s something the otherkids find to be a bit “quirky.” But at acamp that specializes in this activityeveryone is excited about the samethings, the kids “get” each other, andfriendships blossom.

Many specialty camps have infor-mal, hands-on, or immersionapproaches to various academic sub-jects, such as math, science, or lan-guage, which may help children whostruggle in a traditional classroom tolearn material and develop confidencefor the upcoming school year. Forexample, at Camp Motor-sport, a racecar driving specialty camp for kids agesten to sixteen, campers participate inracing-related act-ivities that convertabstract math and science conceptsinto hands-on applications—such asfiguring out how resistance and dragimpact make the car go faster.

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IRISH CREEK STABLESSUMMER DAY CAMP

Advanced/Intermediate Camps - June 29 to July 3Beginner Camps -

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Tri-Valley YMCAJack & Jill Preschool

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ents maintain contact, is seldom ornever a good idea: 44

! Percent who believe children adopt-ed from foreign countries are morelikely to have emotional problemsthan American-born adoptees: 52

Mixed Measures

PPercent of American adultswho’ve seriously consideredadopting a child: 36

! Percent who say open adoption, inwhich the birth and adoptive par-

! Percent of adults who would playkickball if they could be 9 years oldagain: 56

! Percent who would spend moretime with the people they knowthey’ll miss later: 8

! Percent of school-age childrenwho say schools should require stu-dents to volunteer: 5

! Percent of college-bound 12thgraders who volunteer: 35

! Percent of 12th graders with no col-lege plans who volunteer: 22

! Percent of school-age children whobelieve adults should be prohibitedfrom smoking cigarettes in cars with

children: 99

! Number of states that have suchbans: 3

! Fine California adults pay if they’recaught smoking in a vehicle with aminor: $100

! Percent of American children whosuffer from peanut allergies: Lessthan 1

! Percent of schools in the U.S. thatban peanuts: 18

Sources: Adoptioninstitute.org,

Notmuch.com, Scholastic.com,

Childtrendsdatabank.org, USA Today,

Newsweek

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BB efore I was born, my Momused to spend summer dayswith children in the near-

by city. She traveledthere to meetchildren atchurches togive them acamp experi-ence withoutit actuallybeing at ano u t d o o rcamp in thewoods. Everyonegot to sing campsongs, make snacks,play games, learn aboutnature, create crafts and actout stories. Mom was incharge of the music time.

One of the people she worked withback in her college days called Mom toask if she would try the camp experi-ence on a Saturday. My Mom said“yes” and invited me to join her for thefun! I couldn’t imagine how it wouldseem like summer camp in the middleof the city, but I was curious enough togive it a try and to spend more timewith Mom.

We started out early that Saturday inMarch. It was a cold morning with afew patches of snow still on the ground.We had to set everything up before thekids arrived. The theme for the day was“Spring Surprises” and we knew about24 children had signed up to comespend the day with our team of teach-ers. I was in charge of helping the chil-dren make nametags in the shape ofbaby animals!

After the kids arrived with their par-ents they came over to me. Some of thekids were my age, but most of them

were in kindergarten or firstgrade. Three kids

seemed really shyand two

asked meto helpt h e mw r i t et h e i rname. Il e a r n e dthat oneof theboys had

just movedhere from

India andonly knew a

few words in English. His adoptedparents asked me to keep an extra spe-cial eye on Solomon.

After the children arrived (pluseight more than we expected) thedirector explained the activities andhow the kids would be in groups. Momgot us up on our feet singing and danc-ing. I felt proud as everyone smiled andhad a great time! We divided intogroups and I stayed with Solomon.First we went to the storyteller’s sta-tion. Then, our craft activity was fun.We got to plant seeds after decoratingour own planters made of recycledplastic. Solomon painted his like aduckling. Next, we enjoyed making ourown healthy snack mix. Solomon lovedthe game station after I helped himunderstand the directions for bunnyhop tag. The morning flew by and weate our pita pocket lunch together after

by Wesley J. King

Wesley Wonders

our singing prayer. The special treatfor the afternoon was a “real” camp-fire where we roasted marshmallows!Solomon had never tried that before!Wow - he really smiled after he tastedthat treat! Before he left, I told him Ihoped to see him again at summercamp.

On the way home I chatted withMom about the day. I told her I wasthe one who got the biggest surprise.Camp in the city was so much fun!

Wesley J. King

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Good Night, Sleep TightAA couple months ago I wrote an

article called “Hush LittleBaby”, describing the various

methods for helping your baby learn tofall asleep and stay asleep. The dayafter I turned it into my editor, I spentthe night at my sister’s house, and whata night it was. The endless bedtime bat-tle between my sister and her 7-year-old daughter was a nightmare, and thatwas before anyone actually fell asleep.Yes, just when we think we’ve gottenthis bedtime problem licked, it rears itssleepy old head as our babies turn intotoddlers and older. So, what’s a parentto do?Does it really matter?

We all know the importance of agood night’s sleep for our children (andourselves!) Study after study shows theimportance of adequate sleep on physi-

cal health, school performance, goodbehavior, and mood. Then there is theobvious and overwhelming need for theparent to have some quiet time beforeturning in and getting his or her owngood night’s rest. As if these reasonsaren’t enough to make us encouragegood sleep habits in our children, con-sider this: “...correcting sleep problemswith your child is part of a bigger par-enting picture. Children who master theskill of staying in bed and going to sleepare learning a routine that is good forthem and the whole family. They’relearning how to be independent ofMom and Dad, if even for a short time.Most importantly, they’re learning howto follow instructions and how to dealwith a potentially upsetting situation ina calm manner. These are huge mile-stones for any child, no matter what hisor her age is.” So says Patrick C.Friman, author of Good Night, SweetDreams, I Love You: now get into bedand go to sleep! (Boys Town Press,2005). Add Charles E. Schaefer andTheresa Foy DiGeronimo, authors ofWinning Bedtime Battles (CitadelPress, 1992) “...you should feel that anoncombative bedtime atmosphere issomething worth striving for...whenchildren and their parents end each dayin angry power plays, everyone feelsdefeated; these feelings often spill overinto negative daytime attitudes andbehaviors.”How to do it

As a mom who has had her share ofbattles over bedtime, I was surprised to

find that all the experts I consulted hada pretty similar plan for successful,peaceful bedtime. And it was reallypretty simple. It consists of putting thechild to bed, saying good night, andleaving the room. No more endless bed-time stories, drinks of water, lookingunder the bed for monsters, or urgentconversations. Schaefer andDiGeronimo put forth this plan:! Enforce quiet time: Reserve the

hour before bedtime for quiet play.! Give advance notice. Announce:

“A half hour ‘til bedtime.”! Escort your child to bed: When it’s

time for bed, stop what you aredoing and firmly announce, “It’stime to get ready for bed,” andescort your children through thesteps of their bedtime ritual. Thesewould include bath, pajamas, andteeth brushing. Also a book or song

or whatever has been decidedahead of time.

! Leave the room. After you’ve com-pleted your bedtime ritual, don’tlinger in your child’s bedroom. Say afirm “Good night,” and leave theroom.

As far as I can tell, this method hastwo potential pitfalls: #1: The childcries...a lot. In their book Drawing theLine: ten steps to constructive discipline– and achieving a great relationshipwith your kids (TJB DevelopmentalMedia, 2006), Michael Weiss andSheldon Wagner suggest that you letthe distressed child know that you’llcome to check on him or her every fewminutes. “And then do it: Until theyare fast asleep, every few minutesreward their quiet behavior by standing

at the doorway and sticking your headin so that know you’re there...don’t getdrawn into a conversation...As timegoes on, you can allow longer intervalsbetween check-ins.” Problem #2: Thechild will not stay in his or her bed. Tothis, Friman suggests a strategy whichhe calls robotic return: “In this strategy,the fugitive encounters a parent wholooks like Mommy or Daddy, but walksmore stiffly, treats the situation serious-ly and solemnly, and has no voice box.While returning the child to the bed-room, the parent says nothing. (Bynothing, I mean total and absolutesilence.) ...avoid giving the child theattention he or she wants... The lessstimulation you provide, the better theresult.”

Oh, but my sister would cry, “Whatabout her feelings? She is feeling aban-doned! She needs me!” to which I havethe perfect response, thanks to theAmerican Academy of Pediatrics’Guide to Your Child’s Sleep (VillardBooks, 1999): “Separation anxiety is a

natural stage of child development, butif the child is coddled and protectedfrom dealing with the fear of separa-tion, the fear grows; as long as this fearpersists it is difficult for the child togrow to be independent and self-suffi-

by Martha Wegner

“Children are happiest when they know who’s in chargeand what their limits are... It’s time to lay down somerules and enforce them.”

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Parents Can Make ChildrenSmarter Through MusicEEngaging children in active

music-making will help themacquire many essential mental,

physical, and social skills. Music candramatically improve physiological andmental coordination, which makes it anextremely effective catalyst for learningand development. Music can be a cru-cial tool in the development of attentivelistening, absorption and comprehen-sion skills.

Parents don’t need musical trainingto be their child’s best, most inspiringmusic teacher and the home is the per-fect place for learning. You should beplaying music that you love to your chil-dren, whether classical or not. Moreimportantly, make music with children.The greatest benefits can be drawn fromactive music-making rather than passivelistening activities. Listening exercisescertainly have a place, but childrenlearn a huge amount from the process ofmaking and creating music themselves.

Studying an instrument involvesmastering a wide range of skills and itrequires concentration and regular

study, comprehension, and communica-tion of sophisticated concepts. Studyingan instrument also stimulates fine motorcontrol, breathing, and memory. Activemusic-making aids mental developmentand learning, and it can even encouragea growing brain to physically alter itsvery structure. It builds essential socialskills, helps people of all ages definetheir own identity, creates associationsbetween groups, and helps to forge linksbetween people. Making music createsgreat feelings of self-worth and can evenhave beneficial effects on health.

Children are born with an incrediblearray of musical abilities including acutesensitivity to pitch, extraordinary rhyth-mic skills, and the ability to discern sub-tle differences.How can music affect intelligence?

Intelligence is the capacity to learnand understand new things and makingmusic helps that process. It helps withlanguage and social skills, encouragescreativity, and has a positive effect onthe mental, physical, and social aspectsof childhood development.

Music affects the way the brain devel-

ops. Adult musicians’brains show clear dif-ferences from thoseof non-musicians,particularly in areasrelating to listening,language, and theconnection betweenthe two sides of thebrain.

Learning to playmusic improves finemotor control andcoordination, pro-vides a frameworkfor learning newskills, and helps toreinforce ‘inhibitorycontrols.’ These con-trols help childrengain mastery over their spontaneousreactions. Many forms of musicianshiprely on very advanced coordinationbetween the brain and the body. It is noaccident that children’s rhymes, songs,and fingerplays exist in all cultures.They’re very sophisticated tools forlearning and development.

Music improves children’s memoryskills. Musicians use many forms ofmemory when practicing, performing,improvising and composing. Music canbe an incredible vehicle for retainingvast amounts of associated information.We are genetically predisposed toremember long, complicated musical

by Philip Sheppard

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Ella - A Baby Elephant’s Storyby Kathleen Duey(SmartKids Publishing)Children - $12.99Rating !!!The story of ELLA is part of the MyAnimal Family series that includes booksabout lions, monkeys and polar bears andmore. Each book comes with a DVD with

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he or she was treated unfairly or didpoorly on a test. Day-in and day-out com-plaints about the same problem, however,may warrant an early conversation withthe teacher – especially in the lowergrades. With older children, it is a goodidea to talk to the child first about his orher complaints and how serious they real-ly are. At any age, you need to contactyour children’s teachers if you feel thatthey are struggling with a school problemthat they will not be able to resolve bythemselves.

It is not always essential to discusssmaller problems in person with theteacher. A phone call or email may easilyresolve them. If you attended the infor-mation evening with teachers at thebeginning of the year, you know how theywant to be contacted. For serious prob-lems a face-to-face meeting is essential.For older children with several teachers,it may be a good idea to include all of thechild’s teachers as well as the schoolcounselor unless the problem is only withone subject or teacher.

! ! !Question: Schools don’t seem to put

much emphasis anymore on having chil-dren learn how to do long division. Mychildren just seem to rely on doing it witha calculator. How can I interest them inpicking up this skill? – For Division

Answer: It’s true that not too muchemphasis is being placed on long division.

Parents: Communication with yourchildren’s teachers is always important.However, the nature of that communica-tion changes with the years. The youngeryour children are, the more essential it is.This will ensure that problems, evensmall ones, are handled early so theywon’t become serious. As childrenadvance in the grades, most begin to takeon the responsibility of communicatingdirectly with their teachers without rely-ing on your help. In fact, middle schooland high school students are often veryreluctant to have parents speak to theirteachers. This can be a positive step ingrowing up.

To know when to talk to a teacher, lis-ten carefully when your children com-plain about school. They will probablysay most unpleasant events had nothingto do with their own actions – this may ormay not be the case. Asking what hap-pened to precipitate the event may getthe child to see that he or she might haveplayed a role in causing it. Talking overhow the child would handle similar eventsthe next time can teach the child a lotabout avoiding them in the future. Also,role play with your child how he or shecan talk with a teacher about a problem.

No matter the age of the child, thereare times that parents must get involved.Listening to your child will help youknow when. Don’t rush over to theschool every time your child complains

We have a game that your children mightenjoy playing that would give them prac-tice in using long division.

Before starting the game, make threesets of cards numbered 0-9 and shufflethem. Then have every player draw ablank division problem with two squaresfor the devisor (dividing number) andfour squares for the number to be divid-ed. The game is played in this way:" The first player turns over the topcard." This player writes the number in one

of the squares on his blank divisionproblem.

" The rest of the players take turnsdrawing cards and writing the num-bers on their blank division problems.

" When all the spaces are filled in, eachplayer solves his or her division prob-lem.

" Calculators can be used to check theanswers are correct. (Remind yourchildren that remainders in divisioncan be shown as decimals or frac-tions.)

" The winner is the player who has thehighest quotient (answer).Children who truly understand divi-

sion and have a strategy for filling in theirdivision problems will usually be the win-ners. ! ! !

Question: My eight-year-old son hasbeen diagnosed with ADHD (AttentionDeficit Disorder with hyperactivity), and

we are all copingwith it. What I won-der though is: Willhe get better withage? – Need to Know

Answer: You will notice improvementin your son’s ability to concentrate, con-trol his emotions and impulses, handlefrustration, and organize better as hegets older. The sooner children withADHD get help, the less effect ADHDwill have on their lives. Also, the degreeof severity of ADHD plays a big role inhow much early intervention will help.Obviously, the less severe the ADHD is,the greater the improvement.

ADHD is a neurological disorderwhose symptoms can improve as chil-dren grow older. Nevertheless, through-out the school years your son is likely tolag somewhat behind his classmates. Forexample, if your son could only focus forfive minutes at five, his peers were prob-ably able to stay on task for fifteen min-utes. However, now that he’s older, hemay be able to focus for fifteen minutes,but his classmates will be able to focusfor half an hour or more. The symptomsof ADHD can continue in varyingdegrees throughout one’s lifetime.

Parents should send questions to DearTeacher, About Families, PO Box 395, Carmel,IN 46082-0395 or [email protected].

©2008 Compass Syndicate CorporationDistributed by King Features Syndicate

Parent-Teacher Communication; LongDivision; Attention Deficit Disorder with Hyperactivity

Dear Teacher

Dear Teachers columnists

Peggy Gisler & Marge Eberts

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within the limits that were established.Believe it or not, children not only needboundaries, they want them as well.That does not mean that they won’t tryto stretch those boundaries or push theenvelope – they will! It is what kids do.Nonetheless, parents must enforcerules.Leave me Alone!

Children need privacy as they grow.When they are young they not onlyneed you around, they want your pres-ence. Don’t be offended or take it per-sonally if you’re not the one they wantto hang out with now that they areolder. Most of us will remember howwe wanted our parents to walk 50 stepsahead of us at the store, or to drop usoff at the movies as quickly as possible,so friends didn’t see us being droppedoff by our parents. It is no different forour children. They want to experiencefreedom, it is part of growing up.(S)he Loves me (S)he Loves Me Not

The tween years are when childrenstart feeling the early pangs of puppylove. “Going out” constitutes sittingacross the table from each other atlunch. Tween boys hormones kick inand they don’t quite know how to act.Girls and boys start realizing their bod-ies are changing and they begin to havequestions about those impendingchanges. They may not come to youwith their questions though. You mayhave to take the intiative to approachyour child. It often works out best fordad to talk to sons and mom to talk todaughters. Responsibility

While I believe children should havejobs at a very young age, by the timeyour child is a tween, they should bevery familiar with responsibilities.Assigning chores is a good place tostart. Make them responsible for put-ting their clean clothes away, settingand clearing the table, taking trash outand other household chores that willhelp you out and teach them to beresponsible. If you feel they are oldenough, you can set an allowanceamount they will receive for doing theirweekly chores without reminders.Communication

Keeping the lines of communicationopen at a time when your children oftenview you as the enemy, often requireshard work. Tweens won’t necessarilywant to tell you their deep dark secretsand concerns, but they want to knowyou are there for them. Let them knowthat you are available to talk to when-ever they need to. Listen to them butdon’t expect a thank you for your pearlsof wisdom. Remember, you might berequired to read between the lines, butthen that is a skill acquired from the“olden days!”

Jacqueline Passifione lives in

Douglassville with her husband and threechildren. Along with her freelance writing,she works as a receptionist and does sub-stitute teaching for the Daniel BooneSchool District.

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If you know an outstanding teacher who deserves recognition, let usknow! Tell us in 50 words or less what makes your favorite teacher spe-cial, and if your submission is drawn from our pool of entries, yourteacher will receive a wonderful assortment of gifts. Each “Teacher ofthe Month” will also receive special acknowledgement for the positiveimpact he or she is making in his or her students’ lives.

Any student can enter their teacher for the monthly award, and thecontest is open to all eligible educators who teach in grades K-5. Simplyfill out the entry coupon below, attach it to your letter, and mail themboth to us at:

About Families “Teacher of the Month”P.O. Box 840 • Lebanon, PA 17042

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“T“The reason I picked Mr. Diamondis because he is really nice, andhe’s also very funny. He makes

math fun.The reason that he is funny is hesings while he is teaching. One of thesongs goes like this ‘Time is on our side…yes, it is!!’ I think Mr. Diamond is a reallygood teacher…!”

submitted by Ashely Straka(Ashley submitted multiple letters over the last sev-eral months, impressing us with her perserverance

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Mr. Brett Diamond teaches fourth grade at theJacksonwald Elementary school in the ExeterSchool District.

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Raising Tweens

Ben Detwiler hoped to make

the world a better place. That

hope died when he was killed

by a drunk driver.

What should you doto stop a friend from

driving drunk?

Whatever you have to.

Friends don’tlet friends drive drunk.

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(62+) ticket $8. Call 610-926-1706.“GUYS AND DOLLS,” playing atTulpehocken High School Auditorium, 430New Schaefferstown Road, Bernville, onFriday, March 6th and Saturday, March 7that 7 pm. Tickets are $10 for adults, and $5for students. Please call Mrs. Dory Triest at717-933-4611, ext. 2116 for tickets.“GOOD NEWS,” playing at Twin ValleyHigh School Auditorium, Elverson, onFriday, April 3rd and Saturday, April 4th at7:30 pm and on Sunday, April 5th at 2:30pm. Tickets are $10 for adults and $8 for allschool-age students. Tickets available atdoor. A special senior citizens performanceon Wednesday, April 1st, at 8:15 am in thehighs chool cafeterial. A price of $3 includesbreakfast and show, or show only for $2. Fortickets call 610-286-8650, or for information,484-336-9173.“GUYS AND DOLLS,” playing atWyomissing Area Junior Senior HighSchool, 630 Evans Ave., Wyomissing, onFriday, March 13th & Saturday, March 14that 7:30 pm. Tickets are $8 for adults and $7for students. Call 610-374-0739, ext. 2420,for information.

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“THE SOUND OF MUSIC,” performedby the students of Antietam Middle-SeniorHigh School, performed at the Mt. PennPrimary Center Auditorium, 201 N. 25thStreet, Mt. Penn, on Friday, March 13th,Saturday, March 14th at 7:30 pm, and amatinee performance on Sunday, March15th at 2 pm. Tickets are $8 for adults and$5 for students. A free senior citizen per-formance will be held on March 11th at 4pm. For information, call the high schooloffice at 610-779-3545.“BEAUTY AND THE BEAST,” playingat Daniel Boone High School Auditorium,501 Chestnut St., Birdsboro on Friday,March 20th and Friday, March 21st at 7 pm,and on Sunday, March 22 at 2 pm. Ticketprices range from $8-$10. For information,call 610-582-6100.“BEAUTY AND THE BEAST,” playingat Exeter Township Senior High School,201 East 37th Street, Exeter Twp. onThursday, March 12, Friday, March 13th at7:30 pm, and Saturday, March 14th at 2 pmand 7:30 pm. Ticket prices are $10 for adultsand $8 for students. At the final dressrehearsal, there will be a special senior citi-zen’s performance free-of-charge onWednesday, March 12th at 9 am.“FOOTLOOSE,” playing at GovernorMifflin High School Auditorium, 10 S.Waverly Street, Shillington, on Friday,March 27th and Saturday, March 28th at

7:30 pm, and on Sunday,March 29th at 3 pm. Call610-775-5089 for tickets.This is the 51st consecu-tive spring musical (start-ed by Bob Cooper Sr.), theoldest in PA. It all startedin 1959 with Oklahoma. Disney’s “BEAUTY ANDTHE BEAST,” playing atHamburg Area High SchoolAuditorium, Windsor Street, Hamburg, onFriday, March 13th & Saturday, March 14that 7:30 pm, directed by Debbi Robinson.All seats are reserved and ticket price is $7.Call the high school office at 610-562-3861,menu then select #7.“THE MUSIC MAN” playing atMuhlenberg Sr. High School Auditorium,Sharp Ave. and Frances St., Laureldale, onFriday, March 20th & Saturday, March 21stat 7:30 pm. Tickets are $8. A free senior cit-izen only preview performance at no chargeon Thursday, March 19th. For ticket infor-mation, please consult our musical web siteat www.muhlenbergplayers.org or call us at610-921-8078. Tickets, if still available, willalso be available at the door the night ofthe performances.“ANYTHING GOES,” playing at OleyValley High School Auditorium, 17Jefferson Street, Oley, on Friday, April 17th& Saturday, April 18th at 7:30 pm; and

Sunday, April 19th at 2 pm. Tickets are $5for students/Senior Citizens; and $7for adults. For tickets, call 610-404-1182 or email [email protected]

“JOSEPH AND THE AMAZINGTECHNICOLOR DREAMCOAT,”playing at Reading High SchoolAuditorium, 13th & Douglas Streets,

Reading, on Friday, April 24th andSaturday, April 25th, at 8 pm; directed by

Jeannette DeAngelo. Ticket prices are $10for adults and $7 for students and arereserved by calling 610-926-6481.“ME AND MY GIRL,” playing atSchuylkill Valley High School Auditorium,929 Lakeshore Drive, Leesport, on Friday,March 27th and Saturday, March 28th at7:30 pm. Tickets are $10; senior citizens

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Musicsequences in a much more efficientmanner than that we employ to recalltext.

Music is the language we are bornwith to enable us to learn how to com-municate and eventually speak in amother tongue. The very essence ofmusical phrasing is inextricably linkedto the patterns of pre-speech and com-mon speech. These patterns form thefoundation for nearly all conscious lan-guage acquisition. There are strong sim-ilarities between the way our brainsprocess speech and the way we interpretmusic.

By its very nature, music is an expres-sive combination of mathematics andphysics. Because music is built fromcomponents that can be described inmathematical terms, it can be an excel-lent tool for teaching mathematical con-cepts. Music helps us to understand anduse ideas that could otherwise remainhighly abstract. Some of the greatestmathematical minds have helped usunderstand how musical elements areconstructed; conversely, composershave created incredible works entirelyfrom mathematical constructions. Thespatial reasoning skills advanced byinstrumental training can help processcomplex algebraic functions.

Our first communications are musicaldialogues with our parents. These helpus as young children to develop lan-guage skills and to ‘find our voice.’Music helps us form associations withothers and to define those things that setus apart from others too

Children love to bond with parentsand friends through music, and eventu-ally come to assert their individualtastes and differences through suchmeans by the time they reach adoles-cence. Music enables us to create sonic

expressions of our cultural identity andtherefore helps to define our own per-sonal heritage, and, by extension, ourplace in the world.Can music benefit a child’s health?

Music has been shown to reduce cer-tain stress-causing hormones in thebody and it also triggers the brain’spleasure-giving neurotransmitters,known as endorphins. When endor-phins are released, they result in feel-ings of well-being and happiness. Ahappy child can result in a healthy child!From a bodily fitness viewpoint, musiccan be a catalyst for many types of phys-ical activity. Young children instinctivelymove to music, which can therefore beused as a tool for physical exercise andcoordination activities.Should I be playing classical music tomy child?

You should be playing music that youlove, whether classical or not. Moreimportantly, you should make musicwith your child. The greatest benefitscan be drawn from active music-makingrather than passive listening activities.Listening exercises certainly have aplace, but children learn a huge amountfrom the process of making and creatingmusic themselves.Philip Sheppard is the author of “Music

Makes Your Child Smarter” (Sept., 2008,

$19.95, Omnibus Press, OP51689), a new

informative, inspiring and practical book

and CD set. He is also Professor of ‘Cello at

the Royal Academy of Music, London and a

Senior Lecturer in Principles of Education.

He is a guest lecturer at the Royal College

of Music and patron of the Oxford ‘Cello

School. Sheppard directs education proj-

ects at the Harlem Center in New York and

has recorded with artists including David

Bowie and Scott Walker. He has three

young children.

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The Rage Soccer Club is offering a variety of camps for players and teams of all levelsand abilities. Each camp follows our well-developed and highly successful curriculum,while remaining specific to the group andage being trained. All camps are run bylicensed and professional Rage soccercoaches along with Rage PDL players.

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friends, be active, andmostly have fun. A per-sonal agenda to proveyourself as a winningcoach to parents at the kids’ expense willput you in the precarious position whereplayers are just not that into you. Buildwinning values versus focusing too muchon winning as an outcome. The intensityin your approach will be dramaticallyreduced, and players will more enjoyplaying for a coach who teaches themhow to win or lose with dignity.

These are just some of the no-excusetruths to better youth coaching andunderstanding players who cannot ver-balize why they are just not that intoyou. Respect from players comes easiestwhen you take players’ needs into con-sideration first. Each player’s needs aredifferent and while it may, at first, seemdaunting to build your coaching strate-gies around player needs; in the end youwill not only have the respect of yourplayers but that of parents and otherparent-coaches. See you in class!

Brad Kayden is a Chicago-based youthsports expert and child wellness advocatewho designs age-appropriate sports program-ming for children ages 2-8. He is a memberof the National Youth Sports CoachesAssociation. Any inquiries can be sent [email protected]

Coach, They’re Just Not Into You

TThe hope embedded inside everynew season is to demonstratecoaching ability well enough to

receive the one reward, arguably,revered by all coaches: respect fromplayers, parents, and other parent-coach-es. You try a multitude of things that youthink will earn you that respect. But,what do you do, Mr. or Mrs. VolunteerParent-Coach, when players are just notthat into you?You are all coaching the same players.

Your players are all good kids,but…They lack the necessary drive,desire, and motivation to improve. Hispoor attitude says, “I do what I want.” Itis too bad he doesn’t want to listen better;he would be much easier to coach. She isfearful and timid and therefore difficult,at times, to coach. Why isn’t their will towin higher? Why are they so fidgety andso quickly unfocused? It is the kids’ goof-ing around that makes it hard to get anygood flow going in practice. If only the 10to 15 good minutes of every practicecould be harnessed for a whole practice,how good could they be?The “Parents are the problem” Excuse

While this may be true, you under-stand that nothing can be done aboutparents. The time wasted worrying aboutparents is sometimes why players are justnot that into you. Your job is simple as a

coach. You must begin to understandevery player on your team as an individ-ual (not as an extension of their parents).When you do, you can use players’strengths and weaknesses to help them towork better collectively as a team. The “I have to be their friend to getanywhere with them” Excuse

Befriending players is a set-up forcoaching failure. Befriending some play-ers always means alienating others. Acoach’s winning instincts already willcause you to error attention moretowards your team’s star players.However, as the saying goes, “The wholeis always stronger than the sum of itsparts.” Building rapport by building acollective team spirit is how you will earnall your players’ respect. Work less onimpressing a few and more on getting allplayers’ buy-in to the team concept. Ifattitudes towards teamwork are a prob-lem, sacrifice a practice and do teambuilding drills to work on them.The “They don’t value winning” Excuse

Kids, as much as we try to think ofthem this way, are not little adults. Sportsoffer them time to get together with

by Coach Pickles, Youth Sports Instructor

See You in Class

AboutFamiliespublication islooking for current

color photographs – takenof local children

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Your submission could evenbe used on our cover!

Photographers, students ofphotography or amateur

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WWe provide informationand support to thoseaffected by autism. We

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Wilson High School Auditorium2601 Grandview Blvd., West LawnThursday, April 2, 7:00 pm

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We Have A Huge Selection OfGently Used Children’s Clothes, Toys, Books,

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www.redcross.org. On the far right ofthe page, enter your zip code. Youwill be directed to your local RedCross chapter. Click “Visit theirWebsite” on the far right of the page.On the left side of this page, click“Take a Class”. There you will findmany courses, including the“Babysitter’s Training” course.

! Safe Sitter (ages 11-13)Teaches adolescent babysitters howto handle crises, how to keep theircharges secure, and how to nurtureand guide a young child. Classes areoffered in all 50 states. To find a classin your area, click on: www.safesit-ter.org. Click on “Students.” Click on“Where to take Safer Sitter.”

Community EducationBrowse your local community educa-

tion’s catalog. Many community centersoffer babysitting courses.

Websites:! University of Illinois Extension:

“A Guide to the Business ofBabysitting”A huge amount of information isshared here, including safety, activi-

ties to do with kids according to age,as well as the nuts and bolts ofbathing, sleeping, and dressing. Findthe site at www.urbanext.uiuc.edu/babysitting/

! Kids’ Turn CentralGives suggestions for finding jobs,interviewing the family, as well asactivities and safety. Also includesprintable lists such as “children’sinformation,” “general information,”and “emergency numbers.” Find thesite at: www.kidsturncentral.com/topics/issues/babysitting1.htm

! KidsHealthA good basic primer on preparingoneself for the job of babysitter. Findthe site at:http://kidshealth.org/teen/school_jobs/jobs/babysit.html.

! Books: • The Red Cross publishes a number

of babysitting guides which are avail-able as PDF files on their website(www.redcross.org). Topics includeSafety Inspection Checklist, FamilyInformation Card, and a FamilyInterview Form. Find the guides byclicking on the links in this order:Preparing and Getting Trained, Get

trained, Caregiving and babysitting,and finally Babysitter’s Training.

• The Babysitter’s Handbook: TheCare and Keeping of Kids,Harriet Brown, 1999,Pleasant CompanyPublications. This book,from the popularAmericanGirl Library haslots of good tips on caringfor kids in a fun and read-able format.

• The Babysitter’s Handbook,K.D. Kuch, Random HouseBooks, 1997. This slightlyolder book is still a reallyuseful resource. Fullof ideas for the funand games, as well as the babysittingbasics.

A word of warning…Just because you have provided your

teen with the best classes, books, andwebsites, does not mean that your job isdone. It is still your responsibility as aparent to do some follow up. Look overthe materials with your teen. Be sure totalk with him or her about the informa-tion and what questions he or she mightstill have. And above all, remember,

even if you’ve armed your teenagerwith a wealth of information, there isnothing like Mom’s help in a crisis, be itbig or small. Make sure to be just aphone call away those first few jobs.Your teen might just need Mom’s assis-tance after all!

Martha Wegner lives in St. Paul,Minnesota with her husband and 2 chil-dren. To read more of her essays go towww.marthawegner.us.

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! AdamstownAdamstown Area Library

! BechtelsvilleBrookside Montessori

! BernvilleDay Spring Child CareSt.Thomas Preschool

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! KenhorstDairy Queen

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usually on the torso, buttocks, lowerbelly or thighs. Molluscum is a virusthat loves warm, wet places and iseasily spread through skin-to-skincontact As a result, many childrencontract it at swimming pools orplaying contact sports. Childrenshould never share towels or equip-ment, and always wash thoroughlybefore and after swimming or othersports. While molluscum growthsrarely hurt or itch, young childrentend to scratch or pick at anythingabnormal on the skin, which cancause further infection and scarring.What’s more, molluscum can spreaduncontrollably and can take up totwo years to resolve on their own.Some methods to remove the mol-luscum are painful, so most pediatricdermatologists recommend a topicalprescription to eradicate them.

! Warts are the result of a virus thathas entered the skin and taken upresidence in its outer layer, causing athickening or lump in the skin, mostoften on the hands or feet. Warts canbecome painful and unsightly, andcan take a long time to resolve aswell, and so many dermatologistswill remove them with topical sali-cylic acid or, if the wart is in a sensi-tive area like on the face or in the

WWhile most of us are likely toprovide quick and compre-hensive treatment to a child

who’s developed a fever or a stomachbug, there is a temptation to think of

skin infections as superficial conditionsthat will clear up on their own in time.While this is sometimes the case, thevast majority of skin infections dorequire treatment in order to lessen thediscomfort or side effects this maycause, reduce the chance of giving theinfection to others, and eliminate thepossibility of the infection spreading tointernal organs and causing more seri-ous health issues. Many common skininfections are on the rise – affecting10%-15% of school-aged children eachyear or more. In addition, herpes isalso becoming more prevalent amongchildren today

Part of the reason that skin infectionsare becoming more common is that theenvironments in which these organismsthrive are the very places where chil-dren go every day. Warm, damp placeslike locker rooms and shower stalls areprime breeding grounds for fungi,viruses and bacteria, while sharing com-mon desks and classroom materials inschool – or hairbrushes, towels, practicejerseys and equipment during sportsactivities – can pass infections easilybetween kids.Common children’s skin ailments

! Impetigo is the term for a scrape or acut – which can be large and visibleor too small even to see – that hasbecome infected by a streptococcusor staphylococcus bacteria, causingsmall blisters that can burst or crustover. Staph and strep bacteria areeasily transmitted from person toperson, or by coming into contactwith surfaces that are contaminated

with them, so frequent handwashingand cleansing of common areas likesinks, desks, etc. can stem the trans-mission of infection. Any sign of aninfection in a cut or scrape, including

a yellow crusting or pus oozing fromthe affected area, should be broughtto the attention of a physician imme-diately and treated with topical ororal antibiotics. That’s because thestaph bacteria that can cause impeti-go is also implicated in MRSA, anantibiotic-resistant skin infectionthat can spread to internal organsand cause serious health problems inchildren.

! Ringworm is not in fact caused by aworm, but rather by a dermatophytefungus. It can appear on the torso asa small, round, rough and scaly patchof skin, or on the scalp (Tinea capi-tis). Children often get ringwormfrom handling pets that are infectedor from sharing hairbrushes orcombs, so preventing this fungalinfection involves washing handsbefore and after handling pets, andproviding each family member withhis or own hairbrush or comb andnever sharing. Ringworm is highlycontagious, and some children andadults can be carriers of the organ-ism – able to transmit the conditioneven if they don’t develop it.Ringworm can be treated with over-the-counter antifungal creams, buttreatment is different for scalp infec-tion. Any signs of ringworm shouldbe checked out by a dermatologist,and other family members or pets inthe household should be tested if achild develops the infection.

! Molluscum Contagiosum is a pox-virus infection that causes small,round, waxy raised bumps to appear,

mouth, with cryosurgery or excision.! Herpes is a diagnosis that shocks

many parents, but the type of herpesvirus that is common among chil-dren is Herpes Simplex Virus 1(HSV-1), which most often causescold sores around or within themouth. Unfortunately, there is nocure for the herpes virus, so childrenshould take extra care in preventingit by avoiding sharing eating utensilsor engaging in any mouth-to-mouthcontact with other children,.Although HSV-1 is not curable,there are a couple of prescriptioncreams that can shorten the durationand lessen the pain of an outbreak.

Joshua L. Fox, M.D., is a leadingauthority in the field of dermatologywith an expertise in skin cancer, cos-metic surgery, and laser procedures.As an official spokesperson for theAmerican Academy of Dermatologyand the American Society forDermatologic Surgery, Dr. Fox hasbeen an expert resource on dermato-logic topics for numerous televisionsnetworks, talk shows, radio stations,newspapers and magazines. He hasserved on the board of the NationalRosacea Foundation and has doneclinical trials in both medical and lasertherapy in rosacea.

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… these organisms thrive in the very

places where children go every day.

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TThe U.S. Consumer ProductSafety Commission, in cooper-ation with the following busi-

nesses is recalling the following toysbased on excessive levels of lead whichviolates the federal lead paint standard.To report a dangerous product or aproduct-related injury, call CPSC’s hot-line at 1-800-638-2772 or CPSC’s tele-typewriter at 1-800-638-8270, or visitCPSC’s at www.cpsc.gov/talk.html.Consumers can obtain recall informa-tion at CPSC’s website at www.cpsc.gov.For more information on these andother recalls, visit the U.S. ConsumerProduct Safety Commission atwww.cpsc.gov.

The Land of Nod, of Northbrook,Illinois, is recalling about 750 BunkBeds. When screws are missing from the

upper bunk’sg u a r d r a i l s ,the verticalslats on theg u a r d r a i l scan detachand pose therisk of chil-dren fallingwhen gettingin or out ofthe upperbunk.

The Cottage Bunk Beds can be con-figured as bunk beds or as twin beds.The assembled bunk bed dimensions are81.5 inches (length) by 43.5 inches(width) by 74.5 inches (height). Thebeds were sold in both white (model #s236-519 and 188-174) and pine/honeyfinishes (model #s 459-410 and 172-596) and included a long and a shortupper bunk guardrail, each of whichshould be secured to the inside of theupper bunk bed’s side rail withscrews. Stickers bearing the modelnumbers are located on the inside ofthe lower bunk headboard.

The beds were manufactured inBrazil, and sold via The Land of Nodcatalog, Web sitewww.landofnod.com and at The Landof Nod stores in Illinois and Washingtonstate from January 2006 throughJanuary 2009 for about $1,100.

Consumers should check that allscrews that attach the guardrails to theupper bunk have been installed. If thescrews have not been installed, stopusing the beds as a bunk bed immediate-ly and contact The Land of Nod toreceive new screws free of charge. Allknown purchasers have been notified ofthe recall. For additional information,contact The Land of Nod at 1-800-933-9904, 8:30 am to 5 pm CT, M-F.

Dorel Juvenile Group USA, ofColumbus, Indiana, is recalling 100,000Safety 1st SmartLight Stair Gates. Thehinges that hold the stair gate in placecan break, posing a fall hazard to chil-dren if the gate is placed at the top of the

stairs.The recall

involves theSafety 1stSmartLightStair Gatewith modeln u m b e r42111, which

is printed on a sticker under the handlepanel. The gates, which were manufac-tured before December 31, 2007, arewhite metal with a gray handle and amotion sensor nightlight that illuminateson approach. The manufacture date islocated below the gate’s handle as a datewheel imprinted in the plastic; an arrowindicates the month, and the year isstamped inside the circle. The manufac-ture date is also printed on a stickerinside the battery door.. The gates weremanufactured in China and sold massmerchandise and juvenile product storesnationwide, including Babies R Us andWal-Mart, from January 2005 throughDecember 2007 for about $60.

Consumers should stop using therecalled gate and contact the companyto obtain a free repair kit toll-free at 1-866-690-2540 M-F from 8 am to 4:30 pmEDT; complete an online order form onthe Dorel Juvenile Group Web site atwww.djgusa.com/safety_notice/ toobtain their free repair kit; email thecompany [email protected], or send afax to 1-800-207-8182. Consumersshould not return product to retailstores.Playland International, Carrollton,

Georgia, is recall-ing about 700 ArchSwing Sets. Themetal around theweld at the top ofthe swing framecan fail, causingthe top bar to fall,posing a fall andimpact hazard tothe user or by-standers.

The recalled includes swings sets witha 3.5 inch arch swing frame and a 3.5inch top metal bar. They come in red,orange, yellow, blue, tan, white, black,brown, teal, green, fuchsia, burgundyand purple.

They were manufactured in theUnited States and sold by PlaylandInternational dealers nationwide fromSeptember 2001 through May 2006 forbetween $800 and $2300.

Consumers should immediately stopusing the recalled swing sets and contactPlayland for instruction on receiving andinstalling a free repair kit. For addition-al information, contact PlaylandInternational at 1-800-356-4727 between8 am and 5 pm ET M- F, or visit the website at www.playland-inc.com, or [email protected]

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TTwo paranormalteenagers, somemonsters and

aliens, and Julia Roberts areall making their way into the-

aters in March. Here’s what’s new for fami-lies: Race To WitchMountain

Rated PG forsequences ofaction and vio-lence, frighteningand dangeroussituations, andsome thematicelements. In the-aters March 13.Ok for kids 8+. 3out of 5 Reels

This funadventure ispacked with coolspecial effects. It revolves around a place inthe Nevada desert called Witch Mountainthat’s known for unexplained phenomenaand strange sightings. Dwayne Johnsonplays a Las Vegas cab driver who lands rightin the middle of it, thanks to two teens withsupernatural powers who end up in his cab.Suffice to say that it’s a race to save the worldthat involves the government, mobsters, andeven a few aliens.

DuplicityRated PG-13 for language and some sex-

ual content. In theaters March 20. Ok forkids 13+. 4 out of 5 Reels

Julia Roberts and Clive Owen (what apair!) star in this spy flick from writer/direc-tor Tony Gilroy, who also helmed “MichaelClayton.” CIA officer Claire Stenwick(Roberts) and MI6 agent Ray Koval (Owen)

Jane Louise Boursaw have left theworld of govern-ment intelligenceto cash in on thebattle ragingbetween two rivalcorporations. Their mission? Secure the for-mula for a product that will bring a fortuneto the company that patents it first. Ofcourse, they’re also attracted to each other,which throws a serious wrench into theirplans. Also stars Tom Wilkinson and PaulGiamatti.

Monsters vs. AliensRated PG for sci-fi action, some crude

humor and mild language. In theatersMarch 27. Ok for kids 6+. 3.5 out of 5 Reels

This animated movie stars ReeseWitherspoon as a California girl who’sunwittingly clobbered by a meteor full ofouter space gunk on her wedding day! Ifthat wasn’t bad enough, she mysteriouslygrows to 49-feet-11-inches tall. The militaryjumps into action and Susan is captured, putin a secret government compound, andrenamed Ginormica. But there’s a bunch ofother monsters there, too, including TheMissing Link and the blobbish B.O.B.When an alien robot lands on Earth, theragtag group of monsters are called intoaction by none other than the President. Ifyour kids liked “Monsters, Inc.,” they’llprobably love this movie, too.

JANE’S REEL RATING SYSTEM:

One Reel – Even The Force can’t save it.Two Reels – Coulda been a contender.Three Reels – Something to talk about.Four Reels – You want the truth? Greatflick!Five Reels – Wow! The stuff dreams aremade of.Jane Louise Boursaw is a freelance journalist

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BB e aware - Many kids do notwant to report this problem forfear of their parents. They

believe the parents will take away theircell phone, computer, or Internetaccess.

1. Save all the evidence and print-outs. If it is not documented then itdidn’t happen.

2. Teach your child to ignore theCyber-bully by not responding.

3. It is time to talk. When it comes toparenting we need to educate ourchildren on numerous issues. Wewant them to know about smoking,sex, drugs, alcohol, how to be afriend, finances and so much more.This topic is no different; we mustaddress cyberbullying becausethere is a great chance that they orone of their friends will face it.

4. Notify your ISP, cell phone compa-ny, school, or police. Most sites andproviders prohibit bullying behav-ior.

5. Become familiar with blocking andmonitoring programs. Realizemany types of filtering softwarewill not stop Cyberbullying.

6. Keep your computer in a centrallocation with the back of the com-puter against the wall. Never havean Internet connection in thechild’s bedroom.

7. Look for signs of depression,anger, fear, anxiety, becoming with-drawn, or jumpy behavior afteryour child gets off the computer orcell phone. Also watch to see if hequickly changes pages when you

approach thecomputer ormakes it hardfor you to seethe screen.

8. Teach yourchild to neverleave their cell

phones, laptops,IPods or other elec-

tronics lying around or outof their sight.

9. Check your phone bills for numbersyou don’t recognize including longdistance numbers.

10. Never share passwords, PIN num-bers, or account IDs with anyone.Your best friend may not be yourbest friend next week.

He or she may be cyberbullyingsomeone – watch for:! Late hours on the computer! He states that everyone is doing it

or I was just fooling around.! His history file is empty.! Make it clear the use of the Internet

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AA common misconception is thatsnacking isn’t a healthy habitfor growing teens. The truth is

that most teens need snacks – the trickis making healthy food choices in theright amounts. Eating too many calo-ries can cause teens to become over-weight, which puts them at higher riskfor developing type 2 diabetes, a dis-ease that’s now being diagnosed inteens.

Teens can lower their risk for type 2diabetes if they stay at a healthy weightby being physically active and choosingthe right amounts of healthy foods,including snacks. When your teen ismaking snacks, encourage him or her touse a small plate or bowl and to snack atthe table instead of in front of the TV orcomputer. These habits help teens con-trol portion size and take their timewhile eating so they don’t eat too much.Be active as a family by going on walkstogether and encourage your teen tojoin active youth recreation programs.Smart Snack Suggestions*1. Make a fruit pizza by spreading 2

tablespoons of nonfat cream cheeseon a toasted English muffin. Topwith 1/4 cup of sliced strawberries,handful of grapes, or 1/4 cup of any

fruit canned in its own juice. Or topwith broccoli, carrots, and tomatoesfor a veggie twist.

2. Eat a small bag or handful of bakedchips, pretzels, or single-serving bagof air-popped popcorn.

3. Create a homemade fruit smoothieby combining 1/2 cup frozen vanillayogurt, 1/2 cup 100 percent orangejuice, and one peeled orange in ablender.

4. Have two rice cakes, six whole-graincrackers, or one slice of whole-grainbread served with low-fat cheese,fruit spread, hummus, or peanutbutter.

5. Opt for an individual serving size ofsugar-free, nonfat pudding insteadof regular ice cream.

6. Choose a small tortilla with one ortwo slices of low-fat cheese orturkey, or a small bowl of veg-etable soup and a few crack-ers.

7. Snack on one cup of whole-grain cereal with nonfat orlow-fat milk and add 1/4 cupof blueberries, strawberries,or peaches.

8. Spread one tablespoon ofpeanut butter on a tortilla andthen sprinkle one tablespoonof whole-grain cereal on top.Peel and place one banana onthe tortilla and then roll thetortilla for a crunchy treat.

9. Try an apple, banana, or plumwith one or two reduced-fat orlow-fat string cheese sticks.

10. Combine 1/8 cup of almondsand 1/8 cup of dried cranber-ries, cherries, or raisins with1/2 cup of whole-grain cerealfor a fun trail mix.To learn more, get your free

copy of the National DiabetesEducation Program’s Tips for

Teens: Lower Your Risk for Type 2Diabetes tip sheet by visitingwww.YourDiabetesInfo.org or calling 1-888-693-NDEP (6337), TTY: 1-866-569-1162.

The U.S. Department of Health andHuman Services’ National DiabetesEducation Program is jointly sponsoredby the National Institutes of Health(NIH) and the Centers for DiseaseControl and Prevention (CDC) with thesupport of more than 200 partner organ-izations.

* Some snacks were adapted from Fruits &Veggies — More Matters™. For more recipes,visit www.fruitsandveggiesmatter.gov. Theamount of food teens need to eat each day varieswith age, sex, height, and activity level. For moreinformation, visit www.mypyramid.gov.

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Ten Smart Snacks for Teenscient. In fact the ability of young chil-dren to deal successfully with theirfears of separation allow them tobecome teenagers who are capable ofmaking close friends, adults who canlove their spouses, and parents who cannurture their own children to inde-pendence.”

Simple, right? Easy? Perhaps not.But I actually wish I could go back intime to try it out on my young rascals(they are now adolescents....and whichleads me to my next article: teenagersand their sleep needs.) To quote theAmerican Academy of Pediatrics:“Children are happiest when theyknow who’s in charge and what theirlimits are... It’s time to lay down somerules and enforce them.” And it’s timewe all got a good night’s sleep. Believeme, my sister will be the first to readthis article, and she’ll do it before mynext visit.

Copyright Martha Wegner

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Martha Wegner lives in St. Paul,Minnesota with her husband and 2 chil-dren. To read more of her essays go towww.marthawegner.us.

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FAMILY FEATURES

You may have heard the buzz about exotic fruits from far-flung locales, but health and nutri-tion experts say to look no further than fruits grown on American soil for vitality and well-ness benefits. Tart cherries, available in the U.S. year-round as dried, frozen and juice, are

in fact “America’s Superfruit,” a homegrown and colorful way to reap the health-promotingproperties of antioxidants.

A growing body of science links cherries’ red color, provided by the fruit’s powerful antiox-idants – called anthocyanins – to heart-health benefits related to reduced inflammation, totalcholesterol and belly fat. With more than 80 million Americans living with some form ofheart disease, the heart-healthy qualities of eating red have more relevance than ever. Evenmore good news: research also suggests the red compounds in cherries may help ease thepain of arthritis and gout.

And because cherries are such a versatile fruit that can be sourced in the U.S. year-round,it’s easy to enjoy cherries in a wide range of sweet and savory dishes.

According to Dr. Wendy Bazilian, author of “The SuperFoods Rx Diet: Lose Weight withthe Power of SuperNutrients” and registered dietitian, “We already know cherries are an all-American favorite for their delicious sweet-tart taste and rich red color. So, it’s wonderfulnews that science is giving us more healthy reasons to enjoy this ‘Superfruit.’”

Cherries – An Easy Way to Eat Red Every DayDr. Bazilian shares her tips for easy and tasty ways to enjoy cherries every day. Formore recipes and information on the health benefits of cherries, visitwww.choosecherries.com.Recharge With Red – Give yourself an antioxidant boost by adding dried cherries to

your favorite better-for-youcookie or snack bar recipefor an anytime pick-me-up.

Super Fruit Shake Up –Combine frozen cherrieswith low fat yogurt andother fruits, including blue-berries and raspberries, fora simple but delicioussmoothie that delivers anantioxidant powerhouse offlavor.

Crunch It With Cherries –Before heading out to thegym, grab a single-servebottle of 100 percent cher-ry juice. Research suggestscherry juice may helpreduce exercise-relatedjoint pain.

America’s SuperfruitIs Good for Your Heart

Super Fruit CobblerMakes 6 servings

2 cups frozen pitted tart cherries, thawed

1 (12-ounce) bag frozen mixed berries, thawed

3/4 cup brown sugar, divided3 tablespoons cornstarch

1/2 teaspoon cinnamon1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg

1 cup reduced fat buttermilk bakingmix

1/4 cup reduced fat sour cream3 tablespoons low fat milk

Heat oven to 375°F. Combine cherries,mixed berries, 1/2 cup brown sugar, corn-starch, cinnamon and nutmeg; mix well.Spoon mixture into an 8- or 9-inch bakingdish.

Combine baking mix, remaining 1/4 cupbrown sugar, sour cream and milk; mix well to form a stiff batter. Drop batter over cherry mixture, forming 6 mounds.

Bake 30 to 35 minutes or until bubbly and cobbler topping is golden brown. Letstand 20 minutes. Serve warm or at roomtemperature. Tip: To save on cleanup time, thaw and mix the berries in a baking dish.

Cherry Good OatmealMakes 4 (1/2-cup) servings

2 cups lowfat milk 1/4 teaspoon salt

1 cup old-fashioned rolledoats

2/3 cup mixed dried berries andcherries (red tart cher-ries, blueberries andstrawberries)

1/8 teaspoon ground cinnamon 2 teaspoons packed brown

sugar1/2 cup lowfat milk

4 teaspoons chopped toasted pecans or walnuts (optional)*

Bring 2 cups milkand the salt toboil in a medi-um saucepan.Stir in driedoats; thenstir in driedberries,cherries andcinnamon.

Reduce heat.Simmer, uncov-ered, for 5 minutes, stirring occa-sionally. Remove from heat.

To serve, spoon oatmeal intobowls. Pour 2 tablespoons milkover each serving. Sprinkle withbrown sugar and, if desired, nuts. *To toast nuts: Preheat oven to350°F. Spread nuts in a singlelayer in a baking pan. Bake about8 minutes or until lightly toasted.Cool nuts before chopping.

Power Cherry TrailMix CookieYield 2 dozen

1 cup yogurt butter, suchas Brummel & Brown

1 cup brown sugar1/3 cup granulated sugar1/3 cup honey

2 teaspoons vanilla extract2 eggs, slightly beaten1 cup wheat flour

3/4 cup all purpose flour1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder

1 teaspoon baking soda1 1/2 cups oats

1/4 cup flax seed1/2 cup dark chocolate chips3/4 cup toasted almonds

1 1/2 cups dried tart cherriesCream butter and sugars in asmall mixing bowl. Drizzle inhoney and vanilla, mix well; addeggs. Set aside.

Sift flours, powder and soda inanother medium size bowl. Addegg mixture to flour mixture. Stirin oats, flax seed, chocolate,almonds and cherries.

Spray muffin pan wells withnon-stick spray. Place one heap-ing tablespoon of batter into eachwell. Bake at 350°F for 10 to 12minutes or until golden brown.

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