Badboy - Guide to Phone & Text Messages

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TABLE OF CONTENT Introduction to Text Messages .............................................................................................. 4 How to Get a Phone Number ................................................................................................ 7 Email Address ........................................................................................................................ 10 Text Messages ....................................................................................................................... 11 Phone Calls ............................................................................................................................ 15 Troubleshooting .................................................................................................................... 16

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INTRODUCTION TO TEXT MESSAGES

The phone is a very important tool in seduction. Quality text messaging skills and good voice calibration are something you have to have if you want to be good with girls. Text messaging allows you to keep your girls close to you, and to seduce girls that need more time and attention. Cell phones are probably one of best tools we have nowadays. Back in the pre cell‐phone days; there were no such easy ways to reach the girls you date. Girls would give you their landlines (home numbers), so you had to call her at home, and pray to God she will pick up the phone. To get her on the phone on the first try was almost equal to winning a lottery! In 90% of cases, she wasn’t home! Of course, she is a busy girl: she was at the gym, at school, yoga, a concert, or with her friends. She was anywhere but home. Just like all other hot girls. All you had is that fucking home number. So you had to speak to family. You would call her, and her father would answer the phone, explain to you that she wasn’t home, so you called few hours later and had opportunity to chat with her mother. In most cases they would be cool, but sometimes, fathers would terrorise you with questions. Like: how do you know his daughter, where did you meet her, and what do you want? You had to be careful because you didn’t want the father working against you. You had to work fathers a different way, and then be very charming, and change your voice when you spoke with mothers. By the time you got your girl on the phone, you knew the whole family, and whole family knew you are interested in their innocent girl. To get her out from the house to meet you, you had to call her several times to build trust and comfort. Each time you called, you had to be prepared to go through the whole family again. It was such a nightmare and we are so happy those days are over. Thank God, for Technology and whoever invented Cell Phones. And I hope we will never again have to speak with angry fathers on a daily basis.

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Thank God for cell phones and text messaging. When the cell phone came out, girls instantly fall in love with it. It gave them privacy, and chance to communicate as much as they wanted. Their brain is much more developed in the areas of communication. In a Prehistoric age, when guys where in forest hunting, girls were communicating with each other, and with kids ‐ bonding, creating connections, networking with other females. Over the years their brain became specialised for communication and social understanding, while our brain developed for hunting, targeting, running. Nowadays, a 16 year old girl has a communication skill set that equals that of a 20 year old boy. That’s one of reasons why girls go for older guys. So a new challenge was opened for guys all over the world. Now, not only you did you have to look good, smell good, and be able to entertain her, but you also had to spend hours and hours on a cell phone exchanging texts and communicating with her, before you’d invite her to meet. But phone seduction starts even before you ask for her phone number. That number by itself won’t mean much if you haven’t created a good connection with her. What’s the purpose of having her number, if she forgets you exist in the next half an hour? So for a phone number to be solid, you have to stay there and talk with her for a minimum 20 minutes. Anything under 20 minutes involves a high risk of flaking (She won’t reply to your text messages, she will play hard to get, never return your phone calls) Lots of guys are making the same mistake over and over again. Going out, and collecting as many numbers as they can get. That’s wrong. At the end of the day you don’t want her phone number, you want her!

Remember: when you get her phone number, do not run away: stay with her there for an additional 5 minutes, and then eject.

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A phone number, for a Player, is a last‐resort, not a goal. If you cannot kiss her; cannot get her out of the club, cannot get her home, if there is nothing else you can do; then you get her phone number. A good player will try to get her home the same night and get physical with her. If he sees she is a keeper, and he decides that he will want to see her again, he will get her phone number. He will get a phone number only from girls that prove themselves to be of high‐quality. That’s a good mindset to have. That is an extreme example, and you don’t have to be like that, but on other hand, you do not want to become a phone number collector. Many times you will see a girl totally interested in a guy and willing to have sex with him then and there, but then guy asks for a phone number and she refuses to give him it. This may be confusing to many people, but it’s very simple to understand. Maybe she lives with a boyfriend, and doesn’t want to complicate her life. She wants it now, then and there. Not tomorrow. Most guys are blind to these issues and cannot read such obvious signals. Over the years, the seduction battle has slowly moved to cell phone arena. A hot girl’s phone number in a guys’ world is perceived as pure gold. So a hot girl has lots of guys calling her, asking her on a date. The competition got more intense. Girls have less and less tolerance for your mistakes. The hotter the girl, the fewer mistakes you can make with her. Learning and applying proper phone skills will help you to be different, to learn how to successfully control the girl over the phone, and get her out of her house to meet you. Cultural calibration

Before we go on and discuss details, you have to be aware that girls all over the planet are more or less the same, but there are cultural differences that may occur from country to country. Your phone strategies will have to be different, to be most effective in Iraq or India in comparison to Australia, for example. Some things will work better in some places; and some things won’t work at all in some places. Your job, after reading this book, is to test the following (proven) strategies and tactics to see what works and what doesn’t work on girls you are seducing.

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HOW TO GET A PHONE NUMBER

Taking a girl’s phone number is one of those awkward moments that you simply have to get good at. No one is born with this skill, and to make it smooth you have to practice it. Some guys start to shake. They get nervous, because they don’t know how to get it, and in the end they screw it up. Delivery, tonality, and confidence are the components that will largely tell her if you are the man she wants or not. The whole act of taking her phone number has to be smooth...as smooth as drinking water. Do not make a big deal out of it. The problem starts when you start improvising/free‐styling on getting her number. If a girl is enjoying a conversation with you, it’s understandable that she would like to continue it, and give you her phone number. The problems start when the conversation with girl doesn’t flow, and there is no connection between two of you. Forcing a phone number request in this situation makes no sense, and either you won’t get it, the number she gives you will be fake, or she simply won’t answer your calls. Just like in any other stage; it’s expected for you to lead. That is our job in the whole process of seduction. Getting a girl’s number doesn’t mean asking for it, begging for it. You have to be dominant and lead her into giving you her number. Example:

You know what, this was a very interesting conversation, let’s continue this some other day, write down your number here, I will call you and we will setup something for next week.

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You know what... when I first met you few minutes ago, I thought you are just a regular girl, but when I actually had a chance to spend some time and get to know you, I see you are really cool, interesting and smart girl and I am starting to like you more and more... you know what.. fuck it, I am taking you on a date...I want to get to know you better... Here write down your phone number... I will call you to set up the details.

1) Make sure you talked with her for at least 20 minutes before you get her phone number. After you take her phone number, stay 2‐5 additional minutes and then leave. This way, it won’t look like the whole point of your conversation was to get her number.

2) Nickname her. Give her some silly nickname based on the conversation you had, and type it into your cell phone as her name. Choose a nickname based on something she wears or does.. For example is she studies Nature, call her “Greenpeace girl”. If she loves cats, nickname her as: “Pussy lover”.

“You know what... I have lots of (her name) in my contacts... do you have any nickname?.... (let her answer) “no, that’s no good.. we need a new nickname for you... You will be (assign her new nickname)

3) Her nickname should be a combination of sexy, playful and teasing. You will use

this nickname later in the first text message or phone call. Cool nicknames: Girl to marry / Girlfriend material / Booty call, Vampire, SuperGirl, etc

The nickname has to make sense, and has to be directly linked somehow to her. Avoid general nicknames ‐ The more things you talk about during your initial conversation, the more smooth you will be able to make your first phone call, or text messages.

You are a really cool girl, and I am starting to like you… you know what…. I am taking you on a date next Wednesday, write down your phone number, and I will call you in the next few days.

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So, the initial part of seduction can be very important. Try to open lots of topics, and get to know her, tell her some stories, and get stories from her. Once she types her phone number into your cell phone, call that number in front of her to test it and see that she gave you the correct number. You can say you are calling her so she gets your number.

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EMAIL ADDRESS Email is a very cool tool, but it is totally useless in the dating stage. Do not bother getting her email address. It’s the easiest way to get ignored. In most cases, your email will end up somewhere in junk folder next to “enlarge your dick” spam and she will never reply to it. Sometimes she will try to offer her email address instead of her phone number. She only does this to the guys she doesn’t want to see again. If they offer their email to you, that’s an obvious signal you had a problem with creating attraction. Email can be used later in a relationship, but never in the beginning. It’s a very useful when you get into a relationship with her: you can send her some romantic poems, or photos of you, when she is at work. This way, you can get her to keep thinking about you ‐ It’s a very useful tool to maintain long distance relationships, especially if you travel a lot. If a girl insists on giving you her email, then take it, and then immediately after she writes it down, ask her for phone number as well. This is standard “yes ladder”, and once she gives you her email, she will be more likely to give her phone number (you pushed her into momentum‐state of giving)

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TEXT MESSAGES Short “Text” Message Service (SMS), became so popular that we all use it in day‐to‐day communication with people. Girls love text messages. Players love it as well, because it makes it very easy to communicate with groups of girls, and makes it very easy to keep in touch with your harem when you are out of the country. The problem with text messages is ‐ girls love it so much; they can spend hours and hours texting with you. Do not fall into that trap. Do not be too available, do not become her girlfriend. For us, hours of text messaging is waste of time, because we want to see them, to be in person with them, to feel them, to touch them. A big difference between the sexes is obvious here. Females are process oriented: they will enjoy discussing meaning of life with you, and they will enjoy attention you give them ‐ they enjoy communicating in general, while Guys are more goal oriented. For us, that communication has to have a purpose and a goal. So text messages are good, if you don’t over‐do it. Mixing text messages with phone call is what you want to do. Using a text message as a first contact after you got her phone number may be the best option. A general rule about when to send first text is: the shorter your initial conversation with a girl was, the sooner you start texting

Everything you say may/will be used against you

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If you had no time to build connection with the girl, for example ‐ You were in the street, you met, you saw she is into you, but there is time pressure. Get her number, and send her first text 3‐5 minutes later. Wait too long and she will forget about you. If you talked with a girl for 30‐45 minutes, and you left a good impression, it is ok to send her the text message sometime in next 24 hours. The best option is to send the text is the next day, late afternoon. If you met the girl Friday night, then wait till Sunday afternoon to send her that first text. Try to avoid high risk days and hours as much as possible, Like Saturday afternoon, when she is all stressed before going out, busy with shopping, meeting her friends, preparing herself for going out. Use common sense and aim for days and hours when she is bored, sitting home alone. This will give you best success rate of having her reply to your text

A few rules of text messaging:

First text message That first text message is very important. You have only one chance to establish that communication. If she doesn’t reply on your first try, any new attempt will get you more into a “needy” zone. That’s why you spend some time fine‐tuning your text message: make it perfect. Read it several times before you send it to her.

1) You should be the one who end a long text conversation first. (I have to go) 2) Do not ask her out to meet you in first 5 texts. Build some conversation first. 3) Do not wait longer than 3 days to contact her after initial meeting. 4) Wait a few minutes before you reply. Be busy. 5) NO cyber/text sex until real sex happens. 6) The purpose of text & phone calls is to keep her busy thinking about you between your person‐to‐person meetings.

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Here are few examples of a first text message that you can send to new girl from whom you just got a phone number. These are just examples, and in the future, you should be able to create your own.

‐ HI (Her nickname) It was really fun to meet you today/yesterday in the mall. You seem like a smart and Interesting girl.

Btw, I forgot to ask you what horoscope sign are you? Leo?

‐ Hey ”Her Nickname” I just saw a big Persian cat crossing the street, and for some reason I thought about you. So I decided to send you a HI. I hope you are doing well. Btw, is your cat feeling better now? (your name)

‐ HI “Her nickname” it’s John here, from club Escape, from last night. I dunno about

you, but it was cool hanging out with you. Are you going out hunting for a husband tonight as well, or you are staying in, and relaxing?

‐ HI (Her nickname). I hope you are well. I was just walking down the street and for

some strange reason I remembered you. Btw, I wonder...have you ever meditated/ been to any spiritual thing? Use things from your initial conversation, and insert them into your first text message, this way she will know exactly who it is she talking to, and it will reduce your number of “unreturned texts” Do not try to impress her or ask her out in the first message. That first text message has to be normal, cute, and the whole purpose of it is to make her reply, so you create a conversation. By inserting a question at the end of a text message, you are dramatically improving the chances that she will reply to it, because you are making it easy for her to reply. After she replies, continue the conversation where it left off when you saw her last time. Continue building Trust/Comfort/Connection.

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General rules of seduction apply here as well. ‐do not be too needy for her attention ‐do not ask millions of questions, instead, open up yourself ‐do not talk about a relationship between you and her until Sex happens. Do not appear needy. Almost every guy is desperate to see her. Not you. You have many girls. You don’t care about her. It may take you few messages to reach a ping‐pong style of conversation. You will notice they always wait some time before they reply to you. They do not want to appear interested. You have to do the same. Wait a few minutes before you reply. Every so often, silence will occur in the middle of a conversation. She will stop replying because either you wrote something stupid, or she is testing you. In this situation you have bust on her to get conversation back. Use this text message to recover: After she doesn’t reply for few hours: Be Provocative When dealing with hot girls, you will have to be very provocative in text conversation. Call her on every piece of bullshit she tries to create with you. Push them into defence, let she explain herself, and every so often, act as though she is doing things because of her problems. Example: Girl: I never sleep with a guy in under a month. My last guy waited 3 months. You: “hmm…3 months?? That’s very awkward. Is there some problem I am not aware?

HI, I have to tell you that our relationship is not working for me anymore... I want a divorce! Please send papers to my lawyers. You can keep our crazy kids and dog, I will keep the house and our money :)

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PHONE CALLS Phone conversation is much better then text, its way more personal, it allows you to calibrate your voice and to calibrate conversation based on her mood. The biggest problem with phone calls lies with calling them out of the blue. Especially as a very first contact. It simply doesn’t work the way we would want. You are never sure: will she answer, is she busy, what is she doing. So you have to call again. If she sees 2‐3 missed calls on her phone, her psycho alarm will go off. That’s one of the reasons why developing good text conversation to build trust and connection, and then moving on to the phone works best. A combination of text messages & phone calls will give you best results. Once you are texting with her back and forth, and you can feel she is home doing nothing but texting with you, that’s a perfect time to call. Announcing that you will call her soon will give her opportunity to isolate herself away from parents / sister / boyfriend / husband. Before you call her, make yourself relaxed, your voice will sound way more cool if you are comfortable. Call her, talk about her day, tell some stories, chat. The purpose of this phone call is to show you are real, create a better connection, and prepare territory for inviting her to meet you. In most cases, she will enjoy conversation a lot. Do not give her everything right now. Fluff for 30‐45 minutes, get her waiting for more. If you see you have enough connection, and she loves you, try to set up a meeting ‐ some kind of activity ‐ Read more about this in the Dating section of this book Your purpose of phone calls and text messages is to get her to meet you, date you. Once you are dating her or in a relationship, use the phone and text to maintain and control your relationship with her.

“Owwwch... my thumbs hurt from these texts... I have to take a shower anyway, gimme 15 minutes, I will call you... I wanna hear your voice as well.

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TROUBLESHOOTING Chasing Some girls will give you a hard time when you try to setup a meeting or a date. They will play like they are busy, not interested: the “call me next week” syndrome. This is a typical Chasing problem. If you don’t give her enough chase on the initial meeting, she will play it up over the phone, otherwise; she is giving herself up too easy. With those girls you have 2 options. Keep chasing her, trying for few weeks, or move on new girl. Flakes She doesn’t reply answer your first text message, Usually that’s a problem of weak Rapport or a weak first text message. You can send one more 2 days later, but a more provocative one ‐ bust her on her behaviour.

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