There is always a push and pull between dominant and submissive. The ever present question, who is really in control, who holds the balance of power. In my experience that is ever changing. We go back and forth giving and taking control. In life in love in all that we do we play with the balance of power. At times it is more productive to lead from behind. Remember that if you have control now you will one day relinquish it, and if you have yet to have it your day will come.

Special thanks to Solomon and Leslé for helping to play out this story. It was

a pleasure working with you both.