Book I - Getting Yourself Ready - How to Seduce Any Woman You Want

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Introduction

There is only one reason why men and women go out on dates and that is toget to know each other better, to ascertain if the other person is the rightone,and ultimately, to get more intimate with each other.

A date can take on many forms; it can be anything from a formal date with al l

the bells and whistles, watching a play or a concert, going for a carefree walk inthe park and sharing ice cream or crepes, drinking espresso at the corner deli orsimply watching the sun as it rises or sets from a favorite spot one thing I havelearned and would like to impart is that you should always put your best footforward, whether you are in a park or in a flashy restaurant.

Being at your best regardless of the place or time is one of the most oftenoverlooked factors we men are prone to commit time and again. You should alwaysbe aware and conscious of the fact that when you are with women, like it or not,you are on center stage, like a prized cattle at an auction! This may seem funnybut this is the truth! How you handle yourself can spell the di fference between the

start of a mutually healthy and satisfying relationship or one that is destined tocrash and burn even before take off!

Like it or not, ALL women talk about the men they meet (yes, even mothersand daughters), the things you do (and did not do) and whether they should goout with you on a date.

Thefirst impression always lastswhich is why you should be conscious andaware of having your best foot forward all the time and avoid costly, disastrousmistakes.

In my quest to get to date any woman I want, I have discovered that there isno magic formula or secret potion that you can use to your advantage. However, Ihave uncovered commonly overlooked facts that have made my success withwomen astounding despite the fact that I am not the usual athletic-type, muscle-bound male that most women fall head over heels for as stereotyped in themovies!

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Here are the 7 Cardinal Rules on How to Seduce Any Woman You Want andKeep Her!

1. Study and do your homework. How? Take the time to find out your dates

personality, her likes and dislikes, food preferences, leisure time activities! Bydoing your homework, you ensure that your first encounter and/or first datewill not be a disaster. However, if you are pressed for time and unable to doyour homework then you just have to wing everything very carefully, attentivelyand pay close attention to the womans nuances of speech, body language andbehavior.

2. Relax and hang loose. Never ever be uptight because when you are tense andanxious, the more likely you will make costly mistakes. Hey, its not just you,the other person you are with, in all probability is also nervous, so the bestthing for you to do is to relax, be at ease and make small talk. Make sure to get

her attention and make doubly sure that you keep it! Be easygoing. Women findmen who are easygoing more interesting and fun to be with. Be confident.I fyou want, you can make safe jokes to break the ice but avoid flirting at allcosts! Ninety-nine percent of women find it easier to be at ease andcomfortable when the men they are with are funny or hilarious laughter takesthe stress off the situation of being with a total stranger on a one-on-onesituation and believe it or not, it makes them feel safe (which is to youradvantage).

3. Chivalry is not dead! Today, with all the noise about gender equality, women

subconsciously expect to see knights in shining armor in the midst of all theglass and steel structure surrounding them! It would not make you less of aman if you open the door for her, unlock her side of the car or give her yourhand in assistance. What they will see is a gallant and courteous person whomthey will describer to their friends as sweet. And this wont cost you anythingyet it would definitely boost your image in her mind where it matters most.

4. Whoever you are with, make her feel that she is the most beautiful anddesirable woman in the world for you. Never make the mistake of looking atother women for more than 2 seconds no matter how stunning, striking or sexythey may be. Do not even pay other women attention even if your date

comments on them because you should show her that at that particular momentshe is the most stunning, most striking and sexiest woman in the world for you.

You can only make her feel this by giving her your full and complete attention at all times.


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5. Be in control.You can ask yourdate what she wants to eat or drink but nevermake the mistake of seeking her seal of approval for everything you want to doon your first date. Women see this as a weakness on our part as men.Whatever your friends might have told you, women do not like yes-men rather

they prefer men who can take charge of any si tuation otherwise they would bethe ones to ask men out on a date. You can be in control without beingoffensive by giving her options and making suggestions but remember, neverask her to take the lead or seek her permission for something.

6. Always make women see your good points. Never mind that youre not as tall,handsome or athletic as the other hunks at the office are. Womens physicalattraction to men is superficial it quickly fades when matched up againststrength of character. Although teenage girls get attracted to handsome youngmen this is true only when theyre teenagers, they become mellow as they geta little older. The truth? It is the men who get attracted to women physicallywhereas women prefer strength of character over physical attributes!

7. Never try to get under her pants on the first date. If you do, youre history andyour reputation as a pervert will be broadcasted al l over town that same nightor the following morning! (Women love to talk with other women, remember?)Whatever the situation may be, never make a move to take her to bed on yourfirst night out unless she initiates the move. Certainly you can kiss her goodnight when you drive her home but avoid being sensual. And dont tell her youlove her already otherwise she ll know youre just trying to get in bed with her.

Follow these 7 Cardinal Rules and the other pointers I have put together so thatyou will learn from my experience on how to seduce any woman you want and notlearn through trial and error.

Read on, find out how to win the eternal battle between men and women andprepare yourself for the dating and seduction game.

Learn what are the more important points most men tend to overlook and take forgranted which makes us shake our heads and wonder what we did wrongwhenever we try to approach women or go out on dates.

Prepare yourself and get ready to do battle!


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Type of Men that Attracts Women Most

No matter what everybody else says, there is only one type of man that women

all over the world go head over heels for these are the men who are confident

regardless of what they wear and their physical appearance.

Confidence or self assurance is by far the most under-utilized and overlooked

but very important aspect of getting with any girl you want. Why? If you don t

have confidence, you have nothing!

Most men fail to realize that confidence is the strongest foundation any man

needs in order to successfully attract any woman and to make any other seduction

techniques to work. A confident man can do wonders as he sets his sights on

finding the perfect partner for himself or even just being able to date the most

desirable female in a bar. Confidence is what sets apart an individual from the rest

of the normal guys when the going gets tough. With confidence, you will always

be assured of winning and ending up on top with women.

How do you gain confidence? Here are some tips and techniques on how to

slowly but surely gain confidence in yourself. Although gaining confidence does not

happen overnight, you will eventually learn to have self confidence by practicing it

in various situations you may encounter wherever you go.

Never make your self dependent on any woman. If you are independent from

any womans acceptance or rejection, then you will not become tense when you

talk to them.

Never fear rejection. If you have no fear of rejection then you will never lose

because you have EVERYTHING TO GAIN but NOTHING TO LOSE. Rejection is


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part of learning and growing from every experience and is a necessary

experience in order for you to conquer the butterflies in your stomach.

When talking to women make sure that you smile, give them compliments and

tell a joke or two. Eventually you will be able to automatically say the things

that you want and get what you want without breaking a sweat.

Never hesitate or even role play in your mind what would happen if you

approach a woman. Act quickly and smartly and dont think about what you are

doing. Why? The more you think about doing what you need to do, the less

likely that you are going to do it, you will fumble!

Practice by approaching as many women as you can in any situation. Say

whatever comes to mind and pay careful attention to the responses you get.

Analyze your approach and study how you can improve. If it doesn t work out

the first few times, dont despair. Go up to another woman and try again. This

is the only way you will gain confidence and learn how to start conversations

smoothly.

What is it that Attracts Women?

A common misconception among men is that they think that women think

the same as men when it comes to attraction with the opposite sex.

Men are more concerned with physical looks whereas women are more

focused on how much money and status a guy has, although not necessarily in

that order. And it does not also mean that by simply by flashing huge wads of

cash, women would start trooping like ants to your door.


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However, there are some common characteristics that women across the

world find attractive in men, height, a well-toned body and good posture.

Psychologists say that the reason behind this is because these characteristics

are interpreted by women as indicators of strength, confidence and power.

Also, there is a very important factor that can make a man to appear more

attractive to women. Familiarity makes a person more attractive. Coupled with

similarity, the combination is unbeatable since the more similar a person is to

ourselves when it comes to beliefs and values, the more likely we will like that

person.

Knowing this information, how do you use it to your advantage?

Learn to hold your shoulders back. Initially, doing this would have to be a

conscious effort but once you learn to do it automatically; you would appear

more attractive to women.

Join a fitness club. Exercise regularly to tone your muscles and fill up your

physique. Do bench presses on a regular basis (3 times weekly) to get that

chest women love to curl into.

Go to a hair salon and get a good haircut, one that fits and complementsyour facial structure and cheekbones. Learn how to take care of your hair so

that it complements your overall appearance.

Take care of yourself by eating healthy food. Eating the proper food is

necessary to achieve and maintain a well-toned but not muscular body.

Circulate. Dont make yourself invisible. Visi t that new coffee shop across

town; dont exile yourself to one bar where all your acquaintances go on


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weekends. Do the rounds at the popular spots in your city until you become

one of the regular guys. You will never be attractive to women if you dont

go to the cool places where they hang out.

And when you do get the courage to approach and talk to a girl, always

emphasize how much you have in common. Look for anything you have in

common even the mundane like pastry, coffee or the brand of a pen! Women

get attracted to men who have lots of things in common with them.

The Good Guy versus The Bad GuyHave you ever heard of the phrase, even good guys wear black? This just

shows you that even good guys sometimes take on a bad guy attitude!

This simply means that good guys must have the ability to be good when the

situation calls for it but also become the opposite when circumstances dictate.

Women go for this type of man all the time. This does not mean that you have

to be the bad boy of the neighborhood it just means that women have no room

in their hearts for pushovers.

Youve al l seen this in the movies, the transformation of a simple fami ly man

into a one man army when the need arises. This type of man feeds into

womens fantasy about a good guy who can at the same time be a powerful

person when it comes to protecting his loved ones.

Majority of women have this fear that nice guys will not be able to defend

them if the need arise. All women want to be with a man they know can defend

them under any circumstances. Women want men who are stronger than theyare, who make them feel safe and protected which nice guys don t seem to be

able to provide simply because they look and act nice all the time.


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Women do not want men who are submissive and dependent. Women love

men who make them feel the excitement and passion of the wild and untamed.

Unfortunately, the nice guy does not fit in this category of exciting,

passionate, wild and untamed. They either get pigeon-holed as relationship

material or friend but more often as friend.

Get martial arts training so that you can back up your braggadocio. I took up

krav maga for my training but you have a choice of tae kwan do, combat

judo, muay thai and a lot more. This way, you are sure that you can protect

any woman you are with especially on your night out together.

Make your woman feel safe by making her walk on the safe side of the

street, opening doors for her or giving her your hand so she doesn t trip.

These little things are the building blocks of trust and safe feelings

whenever shes with you.

When you are with a woman and you get involved in confrontational

situations, never let anyone walk all over you. Do not forget that no one has

the right to treat you in a confrontational manner. Always handle yourself

with strength when you are involved in this kind of a situation because

women will always watch how you handle yourself. You will be on center

stage and it is up to you to impress or choke.

Al l women want a good guy/bad guy combination. They are captivated by

snobbish, independent and dominant men because they always fantasize

that they will be the one who wil l bring out the sensitive, caring side of this

male specimen. And, believe it or not, women are prepared to put a lot of

effort to discover the nice guy beneath that cold armor!


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Women are attracted to confident, powerful men who exude confidence

wherever they go. Men fail to realize that they have the luxury of being

selective. Let women be the ones who have to prove themselves to you.

Show off that you barely have time for them because of business

commitments and the more women will want to know how to turn you on!

Believe it or not, women want men who dont take no for an answer. If a

woman says no, you dont have to sneak away into a corner and sulk. Back

away gracefully with an air of indifference. Reassess your tactics, create a

plan B, show her your good points and lead her naturally into changing her

mind that she completely forgets she sa id no the first time.

Which one are you?

Dont despair if you find yourself in the category that women would rather

have as a friend than a lover! I myself was in the same position until I realized

what a big dumb klutz I was.

I vowed to myself, never again. However, it was a long hard climb because I

did everything by trial and error. Lucky me, after an almost interminable period

of trial and error, I engaged the help of my sister and discovered that I was

doing everything the wrong way!

After my signif icant discovery, I tried out what my sister told me and added

some of my own insights and lo and behold I started getting any woman I

want well, honestly, almost all!

No longer was I just another one of those guys that my women friends

(including my sisters) see as harmless and a good friend to be with. Now, they

see me as a man to go to and one who makes them feel secure, wanted and

very special all that a woman can be with the assurance that I can handle any

situation we might find ourselves in.


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No, I didnt become Arnold Schwarzenegger over time, I simply became the

best combination of a good guy and a bad guy I developed an attitude of

reliance, self confidence and independence.

If women simply see you as a friend material and never one to have a

relationship with, that time is over and done with right now!

With this series of reports, you are getting all of the important information,

tips and techniques on how to transform yourself to a man whom women would

find irresistible.

You are now holding in your hands a proven and tested battle plan on how

to change your life and become a master in the art of seduction a step-by-

step transformation that would open your eyes and mind, give you the

confidence and attitude of a winner.

Never again will you need women because now the tables have changed, it

is them who needs you and you can choose whom you want!

Common Pitfalls and Misconceptions of Men

What Women Love and Want

What most men fail to realize is that there are irresistible personality traits

and behavior that women love and repugnant personality traits and mannerisms

that turn women off.

Readers Digest has known for several decades that laughter is the best

medicine. It is also one of the quickest ways to a womans heart and her

feelings. Laughter and humor increases a persons heart rate and produces

physiological stimuli very similar to sexual arousal.


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The more you are able to a make woman laugh, the more she will think

shes getting physically attracted to you. This is not the same as sharing a

good laugh with the guys since you have to be aware that women have a

different sense of humor. Quick, witty, intelligent humor is what I am talking

about not repulsive or sexually related humor that men enjoy.

When you are able to make women laugh at yourself, during stressful

situations and/or coincidences, they will automatically think that you and she

are compatible because your senses of humor are attuned to each others.

The true test lies in you being able to successfully tease a woman with

very subtle flirtatious innuendoes. Although safe and innocent, your

compliments put the woman in the limelight a situation any woman would

love to be. Women see men with a good sense of humor as intelligent,

especially those who can use any situation to make them stars of the night.

A good sense of humor also makes them feel that the guy is a great person

to be with as they would surely enjoy their company.

Strong personality and charm. Men who can make women feel more alive,

more feminine and more vibrant are the types that women fall for. Even the

strongest-willed woman (as my sister is) gets turned on by men who can

make her feel appreciated, admired and desired.

Men with strong personality and charm always turn on their full and total

attention to any woman they are with. In this situation, even strong-willed

women melt like butter.

Men who know how to appreciate and explore a womans body and

intellect generally convey an animalistic sexuali ty women find irresistible.

Women can somehow tell that not only will they experience an intellectually

rewarding but also a physically wonderful night with this type of a man.


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Masculinity. An obvious display of masculinity or manliness reassures women

that you are a real man! Never compromise your manliness by being overly

sensitive, taking on female roles as in docility and sharing a womans

interests with her (as in crocheting, stamp col lecting etc). You have to

realize that women do not want men who are like themselves otherwise

theyll just give their girlfriends a call.

Women want men who compliment them, they do not want apologists or

yes men. They expect men to be men, rough, tough, self-assured and

sometimes even conceited.

Dont work too hard on being the good guy. When you are single, you can

be who you want to be and women always notice this in men. You will

interest more women by being the rough and tough guy rather than being a

good and domesticated guy. Remember, opposite poles attract! Just like

men, women would like to conquer their men so why not use the situation to

your advantage?

Be for real. Despite the fact that women admire hunky celebrities what

ultimately turns them on most are guys who have made their mark on the

world. Men who are successful in their own right regardless of what business

they are in.

Women prefer men who are works in progress. They prefer men who

have undergone hardships and survived! They want winners or the making

of winners! I used this strategy and it paid off real well.

Always capitalize on a womans feelings of empathy but never, ever

appeal to her sympathy. Women empathize with feelings and

unconsciously imagine themselves as the heroine in any story. Always

talk about the people you care about your parents, siblings or your

high school coach. This way, she would see you in a positive light


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caring and thoughtful and she would begin to picture herself as one

of the important persons in your life.

Never present yourself as a perfect specimen always as a work in

progress women want to have a hand in making men successful in their

undertakings!

Put some excitement in your life. If you want to attract women, you have to

make your lifestyle appeal to them. Portray a busy, exciting life thats

marked by involvement in sports, weekend camping or traveling in the wild,

business meetings and/or deals aside from the humdrum 9 to 5 from Monday

to Friday.

First of all, no girl gets excited in meeting and/or dating a 9 to 5 pen

pusher or desk jockey. Why? Because like you, the girl youre looking at

needs excitement in her humdrum life as much as you do. And if you have

no excitement to offer at all, shell pass you right up for another guy whose

life is full of exciting activities and events like wall climbing, trail biking,

cross-country mountain rides and dark nights in the desert! Anything except

a 9 to 5 life that she also has on a daily basis!

Attract ing and getting to home base with the opposite sex does not

happen overnight, you have to work hard on it and the very first thing you

have to do is make your li fe much more exciting than the rest of the other

guys out there.

Check your daily and weekend schedule and note the vacant hours you

have. Fill them up with outdoor activities, indoor sports, evening classes,

anything that would make your spare time exciting and captivating to

women. This would put you up in good stead in the long run since you

would have an arsenal of topics to talk about when the time comes. You


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would also begin to meet other women who are equally on the lookout for

the man they want to spend some time with and

have fun.

When you are single and on the hunt, never

compromise your lifestyle and make it fit any

womans: if you do, theyd decide immediately

that you are a pushover and a weakling, a

person they need to avoid at all costs!

If you make it appear that you can live your

life without them, women appear faster than

you can say abracadabra and would like to be

part of your life!

Success is another factor that all women fall for.

You do not have to be a Bi ll Gates to be

successful but you can project potentials of success by the way you talk and

act around people, regardless of your occupation.

If you dress well (neat and clean as opposed to designer clothes), speak

in an educated way (clear, concise and not street slang) and exude

confidence (positive outlook) about your life and future plans, women will

see you as successful already or given time, you soon will be. Any one, man

or woman, wants to be on the winners side when the time comes!

A word of advice, never confuse success with arrogance. Arrogant men

turn women off big time. It is not necessary to boast of your

accomplishments and success, being mysterious about your self is part of

the seduction game.

Having a confident, devil-may-care attitude and an air of mystery around

you will make you more irresistible to women than you can possibly handle.

Your red dress

is a very

tempting contrast

to the color of

your skin.

I love the

perfume youre

wearing it

makes me feel

lucky youre my

date.


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Avoid Stepping on Your Own FeetOne very important matter my sister confided to me is that women are

quickly turned off by men who make boring small talk, nervous men and those

that can not hold their end of a conversation.

How do you prevent this from happening to you? It s best that you are fully

aware of the things that turn women off so that you dont end up stepping on

your own feet!

When drunk (or even tipsy), retreat and do not engage, not even in small

talks. Whenever youre out with the boys on a weekend, never get drunk. If

you cant help it then its best that you do not approach any woman in this

condition. Never rely on alcohol as a crutch to be able to talk to total

strangers, especially women. You have to be self-reliant and not depend on

crutches to keep your head above the water. Most of the time, when men

(and women) get drunk, they make a complete fool of themselves! Youcertainly dont want this kind of reputation to precede you wherever you go.

Be in control, of yourself and your drinking, and youll be a sure success in

the game of seduction.

Keep cool, dry and smelling nice all day and all night. The best turn off for a

woman is to dance with a guy who smells of cologne and sweat, and wet

from perspiration! Its alright to sweat if you are doing strenuous activities

but not on a dance floor or a nightclub. If you are the sweaty type then

make sure you wear loose, airy shirts to keep cool. Dont believe the myth

about pheromones as the best aphrodisiac (its true when youre in bed


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together but not on the dance floor). And do

take a bath in your favorite cologne no matter

how much you like the smell, the combination is

simply devastating for you!

Maximize your seduction factor by giving

yourself time to dry out whenever you start

sweating profusely; you stand to win if you are

aware of this.

Dressing for success is not only for job

interviews. You have to pay attention to what

you wear and how you carry your clothes.

Women spend a lot of time getting ready for a

night out and theres a very good reason behind

this they want to look good. They want their

men to look good too, not only to them but in

the eyes of their friends as well.

Make sure your clothes are clean and newly

washed, your hair brushed and most of all, your

facial hair trimmed or shaved. This will increase

your chances of connecting with women since

they will realize you are also putting in enough

effort to be attractive to them.

Dont be uptight and overly serious. Never

impress a woman with your professionalism or

maturity be it on the first meeting or on a date.

One girl I met

that I was

interested in

listenedattentively to my

story of how I

worked and

supported myself

all through

college as a pump

jockey.

She was

mesmerized by

my story because

now, Im no

longer a pump

jockey but a

successful trader

on Wall Street.

Literally, a classic

type of rags toriches story but

she saw that

although I had a

difficult time in

college, I

overcame the

obstacles thrown

my way emerged

a victor.

I told her my

story in matter-

of-fact manner


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Women are just like men, they want to have fun, so

have fun!

The seduction game is all about making the other

person laugh, or enjoy life more, so get ready to show

women your playful (and/or naughty side). There are

children inside all of us waiting to get out the first

reason they get. Never be afraid to let a woman see

your mischievous inner self, they would love you more

for it! Why? Because they also get the chance to let

their hair down and have fun without the guilt

feelings!

Dont let women wind you around their pinky. If you

decide to approach a woman at a party or a bar or

anywhere else, keep in mind that the important thing

is that you made the move to talk to her. Never show

a hint that you want to get her phone number or ask her out for a date, you

approached her simply because you want someone to talk to for the

evening. In fact, keep her guessing by not asking anything but simply

engaging in light, funny and enjoyable talk!

Behaving like this removes the pressure of asking for her number or

asking her out for a date. Keep the banter to a maximum of 10 to 15

minutes and just excuse yourself. But always tell her you had a great time

chatting and hope to her again sometime. Then leave.

Would she think youre crazy or something? No, shed think he must be

very confident of himself to just leave without asking for my number!

like there was

nothing to it and

by the time I

finished, she was

hugging me and

congratulating

me for my

determination.

Needless to

say, before the

night was over,

we ended up in

her apartment

and she cooked

me a delicious

breakfast the

next morning!


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Women will definitely get captivated with your attitude and wonder what it is

that makes you tick because not many men just cut off a conversation and

leave voluntarily only those who are strong, successful and confident of

themselves.

Thats the kind of impression you just left. Women love mysteries, and

now that theyre comfortable with you (because you spent 10 or 15

wonderful minutes with them), they would feel comfortable approaching you

the next time they see you wherever!

Mannerisms and Attitudes that Turn Women Off

Sometimes, no matter what you do, youre still not making any headway in

the seduction game, just not getting the women you want even if you have

updated your wardrobe, played it cool and displayed a bit of your wild side. You

may have committed one of the 5 deadly sins women hate most!

Arrogance and conceit make women run away faster than a speeding bullet.Although this attitude works for a smal l percentage of the women out

there, majority (99%) are turned off by arrogance and conceit, un less of

course the woman youre with wants to be treated like a rag.

If you are good enough relationship material (which you should be by

now), then avoid bragging or selling yourself too hard. My sister and her

female friends confided in me that the types of women arrogant men attract

are the insecure and needy ones. Whereas those who have qualities equal to

men and are best at relationships expect respect and appreciation.

Coming on strong to the point of aggressiveness. When you approach a

woman, your whole body is a big sign that either signals aggressor or

protector!


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Never approach women when you are stiff and

tense (even from anticipation) since it would

undoubtedly signal that you are an aggressor! Always

approach a woman in a relaxed and casual manner

because the more you can relax indicates a high

degree of self-confidence.

If you see a woman, dont make your way towards

her directly learn to work the room in a roundabout

way. Make very sure that she sees you approaching

and pause as often as you can to chat with a group of

men or women near her. When the opportunity

presents itself, only then should you talk with her.

Never, ever interrupt a woman or break up a

conversation among them.

Never stare at a woman or ogle them. And God

forbid, always look at their face when youre talking to

them not their body!

A direct gaze is a sign of aggression, so to ease the

tension make sure to drop your gaze every once in a

while.

Never talk too much about yourself. Most women

complain that men talk too much about themselves

and dont pay any attention to the person theyre

with.

Men are totally unaware that what you talk about is

much more crucial than how much you talk. Many

As Ive said

before, I worked

my way through

college as a pump

jockey. However,

after my almost

unending list of

failures to

connect with

women and after

talking to my

sister, I finallydecided that my

life has got to

change.

I decided to

learn how to tune

up cars, trouble-

shoot automotive

problems and the

like pretty soon

my reputation

spread around

campus and most

of the girls in

college go to

service station to

have their cars

serviced by me,of course!

I was finally

able to get one

foot inside the


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women appreciate a man with a fresh approach,

one who has interesting stories to tell and one

who has a great sense of humor.

Very often, a girl will ask What do you do?

or What keeps you busy? or say something

like Tell me about yourself.

Never give her the bare facts so that the

conversation becomes a Q&A affair but use the

opportunity to tell her an interesting story about

yourself that will grab her interest or make her

laugh.

I always tell them my modest life story in a

comfortable and natural tone of voice. I dont

rush through the details. And if I get the

chance, I pay my date a compliment on what

shes wearing (her clothes, perfume or jewelry)

in order to establish rapport and a certain level

of playful banter. Getting a woman to talk and

share more about herself as you are telling her

stories about yourselfis very important so that

you can put her at ease!

Uncertainty is a sign of weakness. It is also a

sign of shyness, hesitation and reluctance on

the part of the man to compete for a girls

attention. Girls have no respect for men who

cant make up their minds. On the other hand,

door as it is and I

exploited the

opportunity to

the hilt.

I got to talk to

them while fixing

their cars and

pretty soon some

of them would

come over to

where I work just

to talk because Ihad no time for

dates then! I was

busy paying my

way through

college but they

did not see my

job as an end but

as my means to

get to greener

pastures!

I bet you, I

had a wilder time

with girls than

my other college

friends yet I was

a simple pump

jockey turnedmechanic paying

my way through

college!


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women respect guys who are firm and decisive even if theyre wrong. Its the

whole idea of, Better to make a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Decisive men act on their feelings with conviction and never shrink away

from competition. They make a move at the right time when theyre ready

instead of waiting for a signal that tells them the woman is ready.

On the other hand, indecisive men would always check with their peers

before making a move! Indecisive men decide how to behave based on what

they think is going on inside a womans head and they end up making stupid

mistakes.

Pessimism. If you have a cynica l and negative attitude towards your life,

then you are definitely radiating Stay Awaysignals to everyone around you.

Women can not resist men who are full of life, men who see life as an

adventure.

On the other hand, men who are gloomy and glum most of the time have

the uncanny ability to make even the most exciting event boring.

If you are one of these guys and have lost hope in the dating game, if

you consider changing your behavior a waste of time because nothing can

help you then you are most probably right! Unhappiness is the best

ingredient for being a turn off to women.

Whatever hardships or misfortune may have come your way or

shortcoming and disadvantage you may have, never apologize for yourself.

Always present yourself to others in the best light possible.

As soon as you get out of bed, shake off your grouchy mood and smile.

Plan to have a good time for the day and lighten up. Never bring negative

baggage and stress from a hard at the office to a night out, to a date or to a

first meeting with a woman.


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Women can always tell if a man is in a bad mood or not. They may

mistake their company as the source of your grouchiness, and then youre

history!

Be the go-to guy that women enjoy being with by laughing and smiling a

lot (though never grin like an idiot!) and simply relax and have a good time.

You are now ready to proceed to Book 2, Testing the Waters, of the 3-

book series of How to Seduce Any Woman You Want.

Book 1, Getting Yourself Ready, is a mental and physical preparation

guide to equip you with all the necessary tools and knowledge before the

new and transformed you venture back out into the real world.

Know the enemy and know yourself; in a hundred battles you will neverbe in peril. When you are ignorant of the enemy, but know yourself, yourchances of winning or losing are equal. If ignorant both of your enemyand yourself, you are certain in every battle to be in peril."

Sun Tzu, The Art of War

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Book I - Getting Yourself Ready - How to Seduce Any Woman You Want