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*** THE TOP 10 WAYS TO PROFOUNDLY AFFECT OTHERS
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We all affect other a!"#a"$ Wh" !ot affect the%
&rofo'!(l")Here are 10 &roe! #a" to (o th+, all of #h+ch
#+ll %ae"o' a lot %ore attract+e to other a!( to "o'relf$
1$ L+te! for a!( &o+!t o't the &ec+al .+ft, tra+t or
tale!t of the other &ero!$/ot &eo&le are l+te!+!.
for#hat the" !ee( fro% the other &ero!$ Whe! "o're l+te!+!.for
#hat &ec+al or '!+'e a2o't a &ero! -- a!( &o+!t+t o't
-- "o'll er" %'ch affect the% &o+t+el", #+ther", er" l+ttle
effort o! "o'r &art$ What +f "o' (+(th+ ('r+!. eer" co!erat+o!
"o' ha( for the ret of"o'r l+fe) H%%, o'!( &rett" attract+e to
%e$
3$ L+te! a!( re&o!(-+!-+!( to the '!(erl"+!. e%ot+o!of the
other &ero!$ Fact a!( +!for%at+o! are al'a2le,
2't are rarel" &rofo'!($ What + &rofo'!( +
&eo&le,e%ot+o! a!( co!ce&t$ Ne4t t+%e "o're l+te!+!.
to"o'r ch+l(, cl+e!t or fr+e!(, feel #hat the" are feel+!.a!(
re&o!( +! +!( to that, +!tea( of 5't to #hat the"
are a"+!.$ Feel+!. are the fatet #a" to the &ero! heart$
6$ Del+er !'..et7%ea.e that ca! 2e re%e%2ere( a!(retra!%+tte($
There + o%eth+!. calle( %e%e, #h+ch are
2a+call" the +(ea-e'+ale!t of .e!e$ Rea( R+char( 8ro(+e2oo 9:+r'
of the /+!(9 for the co%&lete tor"$ 8't the+(ea + that #he! "o'
ca! &aca.e +!for%at+o!, co!ce&tor tr'th +!to !'..et-+;e(
&aca.e, the" (o!t o!l" la!(ea+l" o! the &ero! "o're tal+!.
to, 2't that &ero!ca! &a the% o! to other ea+l", l+e a +r'$
:+r', .et+t) The 2+..et th+!. +! l+fe r+.ht !o# + the
co%&et+t+o!
2et#ee! %e%e a!( .e!e$ t a +%&le a that$
?$ Hae o acce&te( a!( e!(ore( "o'r #ort #ea!eethat other
feel afe aro'!( "o'$ A lot of attract+o!#or #+tho't "o' ha+!. to
#or +t$ >t ha&&e! 2"+telf, 2eh+!( the ce!e$ A!( o!e of
the #a" to &rofo'!(l"affect other + to 2e o oer"o'relf that
the", too, ca!.et oer the%ele$ Were all .r+&&e( 2"
e"e-&o&&+!. feara!( co%&ell+!. (e+re, 2't #he! "o'e
reache( that &lace+! l+fe #here "o' are!t affecte( 2" a!" of
th+ t'ff -- 2eca'e "o'e f'll" acce&te( "o'r h'%a!!e,fa'lt AND
tale!t, the! other ca! hae the a%e e4&er+e!ceof the%ele$ >t
%a.+cal$ A!( &rofo'!(l" attract+e$
@$ O&e! '& !e# #orl( for &eo&le, +! the+r
th+!+!., feel+!.or &r+or+t+e$+! other #or(, &'ll the r'.
o't fro% fol#he!eer "o' ca!, 2't '+cl" .+e the% a !e# cha+r to
&lo&+!to o! the+r #a" (o#!$ Yo' ca! (ra# a %++!.
(+t+!ct+o!,'et+o! a! a!t+'ate( a'%&t+o!, challe!.e a
tro!.l"-hel(
2el+ef, &la!t a ee( ofa (+ffere!t cro&, a a
tro!.+!'+r"-t"&e 'et+o! or .+e the% #or( to e4&re#hat the"
are 2arel" a2le to e!e$ Oa", o that alot to lear! +f the
a2oeco%%'!+cat+o! +ll are !e#to "o'$ 8't, 2o" are the" f'!
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B$ Sho# other ho# to e4&er+e!ce 2etter #hat the"alrea("
hae$The &o+!t of '!hoo+!. "o'relf fro% the f't're a!(foc'+!.
%ore o! to(a" + %a(eele#here +! o!e of theAttract+o! Pr+!c+&le$
8't that &r+!c+&le + the &are!tof th+ o!e -- to ho#
other ho# to 2etter 'e a!(%ae %ore of #hat the" alrea(" hae,#hether
+t 2e a
&ro2le% or a .+ft$ /ot fol are o f't're or+e!te(
that the" %+o't o! the o&&ort'!+t+e tar+!. r+.htat the%
+! the &ree!t$ 8e the+r e"e a!( earfor a %+!'te a!( hel&
the% ee the al'e of#hat alrea(" all aro'!( the%$
$ Re%+!( &eo&le #ho the" are +!tea( of
5'tco%&l+%e!t+!. the% o! #hat the"e (o!e$Pra+e a!(
ac!o#le(.%e!t + !+ce, 2't that a 2+tl+e tell+!. "o'r (o. that
h+ta+l #a. reall" #ell$H'h) The +(ea here + to foc' o! the
&ero! 2eh+!( theacco%&l+h%e!t or &ro2le%$ >t the
f'!(a%e!tal (+t+!ct+o!of #ho #hat$ Whe! "o' hel& the &ero!
.et %ore +! to'ch#+th the #ho
