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Bullying in Project Management: A Global Challenge Paul Pelletier LL.B., PMP Paul Pelletier Consulting -Copyright 2015

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Bullying in Project

Management: A Global Challenge

Paul Pelletier LL.B., PMP

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Why Are You Here Today?

Play video clip of Devil Wears Prada – highlighting many examples of unacceptable, disrespectful behavior

“Does this look familiar to your project environments?”

“Have you been treated like this on a project by a boss, project leader, client or colleague?”

“How many of you think the boss is just getting results”?

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Prevalence Rates of Bullying

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Stats on Workplace & Project Bullying

S  Computer Weekly – “…project work is taking toll on IT workers across the UK, with nearly two-thirds claiming to have been bullied.”

S  2013 Harvard Business Review – “the number of people… targeted by workplace bullying has increased drastically.”

S  2014 Guardian - bullying costs New Zealand “hundreds of millions.” Australia reports losses in the billions. United States bullying costs estimated > $200 billion.

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Learning Objectives

S Define project bullying

S Tools for identifying bullies

S  Impacts of bullying on projects

S Anti-bullying action plan for PMPs

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Where do we start?

“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality”.

Desmond Tutu, Retired Archbishop, South Africa

Neutrality isn’t an option

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Workplace/Project Bullying - Definition

1.  Repeated health-harming mistreatment or verbal abuse;

2.  Threatening, humiliating, intimidating conduct;

3.  Sabotage that interferes with work; or

4.  Some combination of the three

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Bullying is not…

S  Expressing differences of opinion

S  Offering constructive feedback, guidance, or advice about work‐related behavior

S  Reasonable action taken by an employer or supervisor relating to the management and direction of workers (e.g., managing performance, taking reasonable disciplinary actions, assigning work)

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Bullying Behaviors

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Bullying Behaviors (cont.)

Aggressive Communication Ø  Insults, shouting, dirty looks, finger points, angry emails, staring down,

invasion of space, humiliation, starting rumours, social media taunting, harsh practical jokes

Manipulation of work Ø  Removing/changing tasks, giving unmanageable workloads, impossible

deadlines, excessive micromanagement, preventing access to promotion/raises/training

Sabotaging work

Ø  Withholding pertinent information, leaving employees out of communication, failing to give credit or stealing credit, constantly pointing out mistakes

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Bullying is not Leadership

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LEADERS                                                    BULLIES

S  Encourage Demotivate/Dictate

S  Set Good Example Disrupt/Aggressive

S  Integrity Lack integrity/ Avoid responsibility

S  Build Destroy

S  Resolve Conflict Create Conflict

S  Fair/Mature Unfair/Immature

S  Value/Reward Devalue/ Take credit/Sabotage

What Motivates Bullies?

S  Bullying is about power & control (win/loss)

S  Bullies generally target someone who poses a "threat”. Envy/jealousy motivate

S  Bullies seek to control and dominate (militaristic approach)

S  Bullies are egotistical, often narcissistic

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Unacceptable Workplace Behaviour (UWB)

Ø Most organizations have Respectful Workplace Policies that outline behavioral expectations

Ø UWB - “systematic, annoying, and continued actions which include threats and demands; creating a hostile work situation by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct.”

Ø  May be referred to as “UWB” or “workplace harassment”

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Where does bullying fit?

S  Bullying takes place in a disrespectful workplace and looks like harassment within most policies

S  Bullying may represent both a violation of organizational policy and, if bullying or human rights legislation exists, a violation of these laws

S  Respectful Workplace Policy violation is an internal matter

S  Legal violation is an external matter

S  Conclusion: In absence of legislation, 80% of bullying is completely legal

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Most Common Bullying Scenarios

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Who Gets Targeted?

S Targets usually are: S  “Go-to" veteran workers

S  More technically skilled than the bully

S  Better liked than the bully S  Ethical and honest

S  People with nurturing and social orientation -- a desire to help, heal, teach

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Why are Project Managers Targets?

S  PMs are a perceived threat because: - they are bringing about change

- they are more skilled

- they are more liked/popular

- they draw resources toward their project – likely away from bully

- their project is high profile and gets them a lot of attention

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How does Bullying Feel?

It feels as bad as it looks  

It feels as bad as the project does

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Health Impacts of Bullying

Bullying causes physical and mental health impacts, the most serious of which include:

S  Cardiovascular (hypertension, strokes, heart attacks)

S  Gastrointestinal issues

S  Immunological impairment (infections, colds, flus)

S  Auto-immune disorders (chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia)

S  Debilitating Anxiety/ Panic Attacks 

S  Clinical Depression / Post-traumatic Stress

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Project Impacts of Bullies

S  Bullies have direct project impact

S  Bullying prevents work from being finished

S  Project team and individual creativity suffers

S  Performance and team spirit deteriorate

S  Customers turn away (project dies)

S  Employee turnover

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Project Team Member Impacts

According to a WBI poll “Among workers who’ve been on the receiving end of bullying:

S  48% intentionally decreased work effort.

S  80% lost work time worrying about the incident.

S  66% said that their performance declined.

S  78% said that their commitment to the organization declined.

S  12% said that they left their job

S  25% admitted to taking their frustration out on customers”.

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Organizational Impacts

S  Financial (projects fail/delayed, lost clients, lost staff, lost time)

S  Human Resources (sick leave, replacing staff, complaints, conflicts)

S  Legal (lawyer’s fees, conflict resolution, severance costs)

S  Reputation (organization perceived as toxic, gossip, PR issues)

S  Share Value (if it becomes a big issue, could decrease share value)

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Personal Anti-bullying Action Plan

Start with you

Project managers can keep their own behaviour in check and foster civility among others

S  Manage yourself

S  Model good behaviour

S  Ask for feedback

S  Teach civility

S  Create group norms

S  Reward good behaviour

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Take Away Points

S  Bullying in PM is very prevalent

S  Bullying has large negative impacts on people, projects and organizations

S  As PMPs, we must act

S  Increased awareness is having positive impacts

S  Share information about negative impacts of bullying

S  The goal - zero tolerance for bullying

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Motivation to be a Change Leader

“You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”  

Winston Churchill,

Former Prime Minister of the United Kingdom

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Questions & Comments

S  Bullying in Project Management: A Global Challenge

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Thank you!

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