The PeacemakerBy Ken Sande

A difference in opinion or purpose that frustrates someone’s goals or desires.

Conflict starts in the heart. What causes fights and quarrels among

you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? James 4:1

What is conflict?

Misunderstandings resulting from poor communication

Differences in values , goals, priorities, expectations, interests or opinions

Competition over things like time or money is a common problem in families and churches

Sinful attitudes and habits

Causes of conflict

Escape Attack Peacemaking

Ways we might try to escape conflict: denial, flight, suicide

Ways we might try to win an argument: verbal attack, physical violence, money

Three basic ways people respond to conflict

Peacemaking is resolving a conflict in a Godly way.

Glorify God Get the log out of your own eye Gently restore Go and be reconciled

Four basic principles to peacemaking

How can we glorify God? Focusing on God which is the key to resolving any conflict

Trust God Obey GodImitate GodAcknowledge God

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding: In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes ; fear the Lord and flee from evil. (Proverbs 3:5-7)

Trust God

I (Jesus) have brought you (God) glory on earth by finishing the work you gave me to do. (John 17:4)

Obey God

Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. (Ephesians 5:1-2)

Imitate God

In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see you good deeds and glorify your father in heaven. (Matthew 5:16)

Acknowledge God

We should see conflict as an opportunity to demonstrate the love and power of God.

Every letter of the New Testament talks about peace. It is clear that God intended for all Christians to be peacemakers.

Be completely humble and gentle ; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. (Ephesians 4:2-3)

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. (Romans 12:18)

If you would like more information about learning how to be an effective peacemaker, contact: Marc Mueller at marcandtoni@com or call 15750720761.