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Clear YourClients’

Limiting Beliefs

Lion Goodman, PCC

... and clear your own beliefswhile you’re at it!

EntireContents©Copyright2018-2020 byLionGoodman

Allrights reserved.

BeliefCloset®,TheBeliefClosetProcess®,ClearBeliefs™andClearBeliefsCoachTraining™aretrademarksofLionGoodman.Thisisaproprietaryworkproductandmaynotbedistributedorduplicatedwithoutexpresswritten permission bytheauthor.

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LionGoodman,PCCisthecreatorofthe ClearBeliefsMethod forhealingand transforming the psyche.

Heisaninternationalexpertonbeliefsandbeliefchange,aprofessionalcertifiedcoach,andasubconsciouspatterndetective.

HeistheauthorofCreatingOnPurpose,ClearYourBeliefs,Menlightenment,andTheNarcissismPrimer.

PublishedbyInwardPress• Box253• Petaluma,CA94953

THE AUTHOR

WhatisYOURDefinitionofSuccess?

Howdoyoudefinesuccess?

Coaches,healers,therapists,andpractitionersanswerthisquestionwithsimilaranswers,pointingtobothexternalandinternalindicators:

ExternalSuccessDefinitions§ Iamseenandrecognizedasanexpertinmy field.§ Iamafeaturedspeakeronsummitsand programs.§ Clientscometomewithouthavingtodoalotofmarketing.§ I’mmakingasignificantcontributiontopeople,andtotheworld.§ Ipayallmyexpenseseasily,andhavemoneyleftover.§ IcanbuywhatIwant,whenI want,andprovide wellformy family.§ Igettotakeluxurious vacations.

InternalSuccessFactors§ Iamloved,caredfor,andsecureinmy relationships.§ Iamalovingandgenerous person.§ Thereispeaceandharmonyinmy life.§ Iexperienceabundanceand prosperity.§ Iamagoodperson,withstrongmoralandethical values.§ Iamalwayslearningand growing.§ Iammanifestingmylife purpose.

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WhatistheSecretto Success?

Youwanttobemoresuccessful inyour life,…andsodoyourclients.That’swhytheycometo you!

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Success is...

Itdependsonwhatyoubelieve.

Yourbeliefsarethecrucialfactor– inhowhappyyouare,howeffectiveyouare,andhowsuccessfulyou are.

Youalreadyknowthatyourlimitingbeliefsholdyoubackandprevent youfrombeingassuccessfulasyouwantto be.

Youknowthatyoushouldgetridofyourlimitingbeliefs, somehow.

Youmayhavetriedmanydifferentmethodsforclearingthemoutoftheway,buttheypersist,limitingwhatyoucando, howyouexpressyourself, andhow good you feel.

Wouldyouliketoknowhowtoclearlimitingbeliefscompletely, andpermanently,sostop interfering withyour life?

Ifso,you’re intherightplace attherighttime.

Let’slookatwhatyou believeabout success.

Beginyourexplorationbywriting downyourdefinitionsof success.

Then,identifywhatyoubelieveabouteachdefinition,andhow itshowsupinyourlife.(Youmayhavemanybeliefsabouteach definition).

Here’sanexampleofwhatyourlistcouldlook like:

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Howdoyoudefine success?

WhatSuccess Is… WhatI believe…Successishavingafullpractice. I want that, and I don’t have that.

Successisgettingnewclientseasily,withouthavingtodoanymarketing.

I don’t know how to do that.WhatI’ve triedhasn’tworked.

Successisbeingwellknownasanexpertinmyfield.

I’mnotqualified.I’mnotworthy.Ineedtolearnmoretobeanexpert.

Successishavingwork-lifebalance. Iamcompletelyoutofbalance.

Successishavingenoughmoneytotakealuxuryvacation. Uhhh,no.

Successislookingandfeelinggoodinmybody. Frankly,Idon’tfeelsohot…

You’veprobablyseensomeversionofthis graphic:

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We’llmakeuseofyouranswerslater. Taketime nowtodothissimple exercise:

WhatSuccess Is… WhatIBelieve…

Thepathtosuccessistwisted,gnarly,darkandconfusing attimes.Ifyou wanttobecomemoresuccessful,you havetodealwiththestuffthatcomesupalongtheway:resistance,blocks,difficulties,losses,and failures.

Mostofushavespentthousandsofdollarslearninghowtobesuccessful.Wepurchaseprograms,attendseminars,readbooks andpayexpertstoguideustothe PromisedLand – onlytofindourselvesstuck,stymied,frustrated,or depressed becauseitisn’thappeningfastenough,oratall.

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Haveyouheardthemsaythis?

§ Idideverythingtheexperts say todo,andIstillhaven’tachievedmygoals.

§ Ijustcouldn'tdowhatIknewIshoulddo,andIdon'tknowwhy.

§ WhatdidIdowrong?What’swrongwithme?

Haveyoumadecommentslikethisonyourownpath?

Success ISpossible foryouANDyourclients.

IF…youlearntotransformyourclientsatthedeepestleveloftheirpsyche– theplacewherethey’retellingtheirstoryabouttheirlife,abouttheirlimitations,andtheirnegativethoughtsandfeelings.

Whenyouchangepeoplefromtheinsideout,theyshifttheirviewofthemselves,theirviewofothers,andtheirviewoftheworld.Thisopensnewpossibilitiesforsuccessandhappiness.

That’swhatyourclientsarelookingfor– notjustgoodideasandhand-holding,butaprofoundshiftinwhotheyareandhowtheyshowupintheirworld.

Yourclientsaretryingtoachievesuccess,too.

PREMISEPeoplegetstopped,stymied,andfrustratedintheir pursuitofsuccessbecauseoftheirnegativeandlimitingbeliefs(story,schemas,perspectives,paradigms,viewpoints),notbecauseoftheirexternalcircumstances.

Assumptions(Beliefs)Assumption 1: Limitingbeliefscanbeclearedfromthepsychepermanently.

Assumption 2:Whenyouchangeacorebelief thatyou’vebuiltyourlifearound,everythinginyourlife changes.

Assumption3:Youcanlearntoclearyourown beliefs.

Assumption 4: Youcanlearntohelpotherscleartheirbeliefs.

Assumption5:Byenhancingtheirsuccess,youwillenhanceyours.

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Allyouneednowisamethodologyforclearingbeliefs

rapidlyandpermanently.

Somemethods takeapurelyintellectual orcognitive approachtochangingthemind.Othersfocuson emotions,emphasizingthereleaseofpent-upfeelings.Therearephysicalbody approachesand spiritual approaches– andtheyallhelpsomepeoplesomeofthetime– forawhile.

Everytrainingclaims thatifyoudothatthingoftenenough,theeffectswillmagicallyrippleoutintothewholeself andbecomepermanent.

Unfortunately,theirclaimisn’ttrue.

WhatIStrueisthatyouareacomplex,unique,multidimensional being.YourwholeSelfisintegrated,anditisn’tdivisibleintodistinctparts.It’snotmadeofabunchofcomponentpartsstrungtogether.

Isthereasubconsciousmind,aconsciousmind,andasuperconsciousmind?It’sausefulmodel…butthereisreallyonlyoneMind,oneConsciousness,andyouarepartofit.

Isthereanego,id,andsuperego?Freudsaidtherewas,andpeoplestillrefertothemasiftheyareseparatethings.They’renot.TheyareaspectsofSelf.

Istherea“limbicsystem”that’sseparatefromtherestofthebrain?No,it’sconnectedtoeverything,butwetalkaboutitasifitcouldbeliftedoutandstudiedbyitself.

All“components”oftheSelfaremerelyusefulconventions.Ouranalyticalmindtendsto”thing-ify”everyconcept– weturntheminto“things.”

Wecanonlytrulyheal(tomakewhole)ifweworkwiththeWholeSelf– allaspectsofournature– andleavenothingout.

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Mostbelief-changemethodsproduceonlytemporaryresults.Why?BecausetheyfocusononlyONEaspectoftheSelf.

Why Other MethodsAreOnlyTemporary

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ALL beliefsarelimiting!Becausetheydividetheworldupintopartialbitsofinformation.Wethenjudgethemasrightorwrong,goodorbad,trueorfalse.

Beliefslimitourvisionandshrinkourpossibilities.

Ourbeliefscreateourexperienceofrealitybyactingascoloredlensesweseelifethrough.

Beliefsare theinfrastructureofhumanconsciousness.Theyfilter,shape,andcolorour experience oftheworldaroundus.Theyfilteroutallevidencetothecontrary. Inpsychology,thisiscalledconfirmationbias.Weseewhatweexpecttosee,andwedo,itverifiesthebeliefweheldinthefirstplace.

Beliefsarethealphabetweusetocreatethelanguage ofourexperience.

Doourbeliefsreallycreateourexperience?Trythisexperiment tofindout:

Feelwhatitfeelsliketoholdeachofthefollowingbeliefs.Sayeachonetoyourself– outloud– asifyoubelieveit100%. Noticehowyoufeelwhenyoubelieveit.

Thisisliketryingonanoutfitattheclothingstore.Youchecktoseehowitlooksonyou,andhowitmakesyoufeel.(“Doesthisbeliefmakemybuttlookbig?”)

Tryeachoneon,andnoticethefeelingsproducedbythebelief. Then,takeitoff.Tossitaside andtryonthenextone.Takeaminute tofeeleach one:

There’ssomethingwrongwith me.

Idon’tbelong.

Ican’tdo it.

Thentrytheseon:

Iamasacredandworthy being.

Iamapartofprecious humanity.

I’lldowhateverit takes.

Didyounoticehoweachonegeneratedadifferentfeeling?That’swhat wemeanwhenwesay,“Ourbeliefscreateour experience.”

Nowgobacktothebeliefsyouwrotedownaboutsuccess.Dothe sameexercise.Tryeachoneon, asifit’s100%true,andnoticethefeelingsitproducesinsideyou.

Doyourbeliefsmakeyoufeelempowered?Readytogooutandgetthingsdone?Confidentinyourabilitytocreatesuccess?Ordothey producefear,doubt,weakness,oroverwhelm?Doyoufeellikegivingup?

Youcanseehowyourbeliefsimpactyourperceptions,thoughts,feelings,decisions,andultimatelyyouractions.

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HenryFordunderstoodhowbeliefswork.Ifyoubelieveyouwillfail,youwon’tlearnfromyourmistakes,ortakecorrectiveactionneededtosucceed.You’llquittryingandprovethatyoureallyareafailure.

Negativebeliefsproducenegativefeelings,experiences,andthoughts.Youholdbackfromtakingaction.Youstopshiningyourlight.

Wechoosefromamongtheoptionswecansee.Sincebeliefslimitourperceptions,ourchoicesgetreducedtoasmallnumberofpossibilities.

Ifyourbeliefsarelimited,yourrealityislimited.Negativeself-beliefscancreateinternalresistance,confusion, stuckness,indecision,distractions,isolation,andcompletecollapse.

Ontheotherhand,positiveself-beliefsmotivateyoutotakeaction,movetowardyourgoals,solveproblemsastheyarise,andpushthroughinternalandexternalbarrierswithcourageandresilience.

Italldependsonwhatyoubelieve,sowhynotchangeyourbeliefs?

You’veaccumulated tensofthousandsofbeliefs,andmanyofthemarecontradictory.Thisiswhylifecanfeel soconfusing. Someofyourbeliefsaredoingbattlewithotherbeliefs,whichcreates amixedreality.

Withsome detectivework,you candiscoverthe beliefsatthesource ofanyexperienceandpullthemupbytheroots– likeweedsinagarden.

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WHETHER YOU THINK YOU CAN OR YOU THINK YOU CAN’T, YOU’RE RIGHT

~ Henry Ford

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WhereDoBeliefsComeFrom?

Mostofourbeliefswereindoctrinatedintous– byourparents,family,teachers,friends,religiousauthorities,culture,thesocialgroupswebelongto,andthemedia.(Thislistgoesonandon.)

Indoctrinationmeansadoctrine (a belief) isputintoyou. Forthefirstfourtosevenyearsofyourlife,yourmindison“record”mode.You take ineverythingyou canabsorbabouttheworldandthepeoplearoundyou.

Ourmostprimitiveinstinctistosurvive– byanymeans necessary!

Thebeststrategy forsurvivalistoadoptthelanguage,mannerisms,behavior, and beliefsofthepeoplearoundyou – asquicklyaspossible.

Childrendo this eagerly! Why?Weknowinstinctuallythatifwe becomelikeourparents,theywilllikeus – andtheywon’tthrowusouttothewolves.Soweadoptevery beliefthose bigpeopleshowusortellus.

Wealsowanttobelong–whichensures oursurvival associalcreatures.Thebestwaytobelongistoadoptthebeliefsofthe groupyou wanttobelongto.Chooseany group:thefamily,thechurch,thecoolkids,thetrouble-makers,thesmartkids,theathletes,therich folks,thepowerful…

Ifwe takeontheirbeliefsandbehaviors,we'llbeacceptedandwelcomed.Ifwe don't,we'llbepushedoutorkept out.Ifthathappens,we’ll bealone,thereforevulnerabletopredators,andwe'lldie.Thisisagoodreasontoadoptotherpeople’sbeliefs!

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Arebeliefsbeneficialor detrimental?

Here’sabeneficialbelief:“Alwayslookbothwaysbeforeyoucrossthestreet.”Itkeepsussafe!

“IcanaccomplishanythingIsetmymindto,”isaveryempoweringbelief.Itspursusforwardandenablesustohandle difficulties.

“Iamloved”isawonderfulbelieftohave.Itproducesthefeelingofsecurity,comfort,and self-esteem.

There’snoreasontochangebeliefsthatarebeneficial.

Ontheotherhand,manybeliefsinterferewithhowwewant tofeel,andwhatwewantto do.

Thebelief“I’munlovable”makesusfeelseparateand alone. Insteadofreachingouttoothersforconnection,weremainseparateandalone.Thisismoreevidencethatthebeliefistrue.“I’mobviouslynotlovable!”

ALLbeliefsareself-verifying,becauseweperceivewhatwebelieve.

You’veseenthatit'svirtuallyimpossibletoconvinceastronglyopinionatedpersonthattheirideasmightbewrong.Evidencetothecontrarycan’tgetthrough theirfilters.They’refirmlyentrenchedintheirpointofview.

Areyoufirmlyentrenchedinanyofyourpointsofview?

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TrackYourBeliefs ToTheirSource

Ifyou believe,“I’llneverplaythepianowell,”youwon’ttake pianolessons,studymusicaltheory,orpracticethescales. Havingthis beliefautomaticallylimits yourdecisionsandactions.Theresultingreality:You’llneverplaythepianowell. Whichprovesyourbelieftobe true!

Negative self-beliefs produceunpleasantfeelingsthatcanlastalifetime.Thebelief,“There’ssomethingterriblywrongwithme,”isthecoreofshame – ahighlytoxicemotion.Thebelief,“I’vedonesomethingwrong,”canproduce feelingsofguilt,regret,sadness,orfear. Itcaneasilyleadto disconnectionfromothers,loneliness,anddepression.

Negativeself-beliefslimityourabilitytoseewhoyoureallyare.Youcan’t seeyourinfinitepotential, oryourtrue nature, whichisglorious.Youfocusonafewtinyflawsinthemiddleoftheawesomemagnificenceofbeinghuman. Wouldyouliketofreeyourself? Let’s get started.

MyBeliefAboutMyself WhereItCame From

TrackYourBeliefsToTheirSourceNegativeself-beliefscanusuallybetracedbacktotheirsourceinyourchildhood. Askyourself:“Whofirsttoldmethat?Whoconvincedme?”

Thenask,“Wasthisbeliefindoctrinatedintomebysomeoneinauthority,suchasaparent,teacheroroldersibling?OrdidIcometothatconclusionbymyself,basedonwhatwashappeningatthetime?

Taketimenowtotracethesourceofallnegativebeliefsyouhaveaboutyourself(mostofushavedozens).Writethemdownthisway:

Youcanclearthesebeliefspermanentlywhenyoujoinusforoneofourprograms,orworkwithaCertifiedClearBeliefsCoach.

What’sRequiredtoFinally,Completely,Changea Belief?

Beliefsarebasedonexperiences,whichinvolveall aspectsoftheSelf:physical,mental,emotional,andspiritual.

Toclearabeliefcompletely,allaspectsofSelfmustbeinvolvedindeletingit–otherwise,thebeliefisretainedinsideotherpartsofyoursystem.

Thisiswhymostmethodsofbeliefchangeachieveonlytemporaryresults and areonlypartially effective.

Forexample,methodologiesthatviewbeliefsasintellectualconstructsusementalandverbalprocessestodisruptorchangethemind.Theactivityis onlyinthementalrealm.Itdoesn’ttouchthedeepemotions,orthephysicalbodywherebeliefscanbestored.Anditcertainlydoesn’timpactthespiritualself.

Mostmethodologieshelpyouidentifybeliefsandconsciouslyrecognizethemasnottrue.Thisisagoodfirststep.Youmayactuallyclear thebeliefin theconsciousmind,buttheprocessdoesn’ttouchthesubconsciousmind– wherebeliefsliveandoperate– northesuperconsciousmind,theHigherSelf.Consequently,theoldbeliefscreepbackin,likeanunwantedghost.

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Therearemethodsthatusetappingonyouracupressurepointswhilerecitingbeliefs.Thismaycleartheenergeticsignatureoftheexperience,buttheunderlyingbeliefremainslodgedinalltheotheraspectsofSelf. Soyouhavetodothe process again,andagain,andagain. Because the belief isn’treallygone.

Haveyoutriedsayingaffirmations?Thehopeisthatyour negativebeliefwilleventuallygetthehintandgoaway,oryou’llfinallyconvinceyourselfthatthenewbeliefistrue. Itdoesn’twork,becausewheneveryouaffirmanewbelief,itstimulatestheoldbelieftore-assertitself, strengtheningitsfirmholdonyou.

Haveyoutriedtogetridofyourlimitingbeliefs,buttheystillremain?

Talktherapyworksformanypeople,butit’sexpensiveandtakesalongtime. Mostformsofpsychotherapyfocusonthestoryyou tellyourself,or onyouremotionsandreactions.

Occasionally,yougetabreak-through,abigrealizationthatchangeseverything.That’sgoodifyouhavethetime,moneyandpatience,anddedication.

CognitiveBehavioralTherapy is aimed at changing yourpatternsofthinkingand behaviorthatareunderneathyourdifficulties.That’sakintochangingyourbeliefs,howeverit’sanoutside-in, logicandconsciousapproach.Whynotdeletethebeliefsdirectlyandskipthemiddleman?

Body-centeredtherapies arebetterbecausetheyutilizephysical movementandpracticesthatcanreachvisceralmemoriessuchastrauma.Becausetheyinvolvebothbodyandmind,theyareeffectiveformanypeople.Butthey'restillnot acomplete solution.

YogaandAyurveda integrate allaspectsoftheSelf and bringitinto balanceand wholeness,butittakes yearsofstudyandpracticetoclearyoursystemandfind truepeaceandhappiness.Butkeepatit!Oneofthesedays…

Everytherapeutictechniqueisatleastpartiallyeffective,andeachonehasitsfansandtruebelievers.Mostprovidetemporaryrelief,failing tocreatesignificant, permanentchange.Theytakealongtime,requiremanyrepetitions,orcostalottoachievethehealingyou’reseeking.

Ispentdecadesresearchingandexperimentingwithdozensoftechniques,teachersandmethodologies,lookingforamethodthatwouldfinally clearmyissues(andIhadalotofissuestoclear…).

Beingscientificallyminded,Iasked:“Whenitworked,whydiditwork?Whataretheunderlyingprinciplesthatmakeiteffective?”

Have you asked similar questions?

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After yearsofresearchandquestioning,Inoticedapattern.Wheneversignificanttransformationoccurred,therehadbeenachangeinmybeliefsystem,deepdownatthecoreofmypsyche. Itrippled out intoall parts of me, throughoutmy entireself,andintomyexternalworld,includingmyactions.Thetransformationwascompleteandpermanent.

IbegantogatherthebestelementsofeverythingIhadstudiedandpracticed,andIbroughtthemtogetherintoanew,integratedsystem.Thiswasthebirthofthe ClearBeliefsMethod. It’sauniquecombination ofprocessesthatproducedeep,profound change,rapidlyandpermanently.

Itworksbecausewefocuson theactualcauseoftheproblemorissue–thebeliefresidingatthecoreofthesubconsciousmind.Thisisthecausallevel.Whenyouclearabeliefhere,itgetsdeletedfromALL aspectsoftheSelf– thephysicalbody,mentalbody,emotionalbody,andspiritualbody.

Whenyouchangeyourcorebelief,yourexperienceoflifechanges.Youcanfeelitimmediately.Whatwasbuggingyou,orcausingpainorfrustration,issimply…gone.Itnolongerexistsinyouruniverse.

Talktherapyengages withyourstoryaboutwhathappened,andhowit’scurrentlyaffectingyou. The Clear Beliefs process bypasses the storylevelcompletely,divingdownintothesubconsciousinfrastructure– thebelief,ormeaning,youmadefromwhathappened.Whenyouclearthebelief,yourecognizewhoyoureallyare– theBeingwhomadeupthestory.

Intrigued?Read on…

TheClearBeliefsMethod

RemoveLimitingBeliefsPermanently

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Thebraindoesn’tmakemuch of adistinctionbetweenwhatoccursintherealworldandwhatoccursintheimagination.Thisishowagreatbooksandmoviesareable to driveouremotionsandcreatepowerfulinnerexperiences.

TheClearBeliefsMethod usesthepower oftheimaginationtoimpactthesubconsciousmindandtheunderlyingbeliefstructure.Weuseauniqueformofguidedimagerytohelpourclientsexplorethesubconscious,andfeel,see,andunderstandtheactualsourceoftheirlimitingornegativebelief.Then,likeaskilledsurgeon,weshowthemhowtoremoveitcompletelyfromallaspectsoftheSelf.

TheClearBeliefsMethodisapowerfultool-setforfacilitatingdeepandprofoundtransformationalchangethatyoucanimmediatelyfeelandseeinyourlife.Becauseitisachangeatthefoundationallevel,itlasts.

Youcanlearnthismethodologyinonlythreemonthsofstudyandpractice.Useittoclearyourownlimitingandnegativebeliefs,thenuseit withyourclients.Helpthemtransformtheirlivesfromtheinsideout.

Yourclientswillbecomemoresuccessful,andsowillyou.Yourreputationwillsoar.

WiththeClearBeliefsMethod,youcandeleteoldbeliefsthatinterferewithyourlife,andreplacethemwithbeliefsthatsupportyoursuccess,progress,evolution,andhappiness.

If you’re a healer, coach, therapist or practitioner, you simply MUST learn this methodology. After practicing medicine, I learned EFT, EMDR, Reiki, and many more healing modalities. The Clear Beliefs Method is the fastest, most efficient process I’ve seen to help my clients eliminate their blocks, repattern neural pathways, heal deep core wounds, and become whole again. It borders on the miraculous. This is not “woowoo.” It’s neuroscience. It’s an investment and opportunity you can’t afford to miss.

~ Irena Kay, M.D, Executive and Relationship Coach, New Jersey

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It'sthesameprocesswhenyouclearthepsyche ofoldbeliefs. Oncethey’regone, youhavespaceforsomethingnew andwonderful.

Youcanplantanew empoweringbelief inthecleared subconsciousmind.Itwill easilyandnaturallytakerootandblossomintoallpartsofour life.

ManypractitionersrefertotheClearBeliefsMethodas“Amagicwandforcreatingdeep,transformationalhealing.”

Whenyouwanttogrowflowersorvegetables,youdon’tthrowyourseedsontorocky,weedyground.Youfirstprepare your garden, removingrocksandweeds,andtillingthesoil.

Thentheseedsyouplantcantakeroot,grow,and blossom. Youreceiveaharvestofbeautyandnutrition.Yourlifeimproves.

CanyouseetheLie ineveryBelief?

PlanttheSeedsofaBetterFuture

Thisisachangethatchangeseverything:Yourexperienceofwhoyouare,whatyou’recapableof,howyourelatetoothers,andhowyourespondtotheworldandyourcircumstances.

Whenyoufacilitatethisprocessinothers,youexperiencetruejoy.

Yourclientfeelstheresultsimmediately. Theylookyoungerandfeellighter.Theirfacelightsupwithnewpossibilities.Theyseeadifferentworld.

The7StepsOfTheClearBeliefs Process

ClearBeliefsCoachestaketheirclientthroughthesesevensteps:

1. Helptheclientidentifythebeliefattherootoftheproblemorissuetheywanttochange.Thebeliefcouldhavebeenindoctrinated,unconsciouslyadopted,orconsciouslychosen.

2. Encouragetheclienttofeelthebeliefandexperienceitfully,feelingtheimpactthatbeliefhashadontheirentirelife.

3. Investigate thebeliefbacktoitssourcetounderstandwhereitcamefrom,whyitwasadopted,andthesituationthatcausedit.

4. Allowtheclienttoconsciouslydecidewhethertokeepthebeliefordeleteitpermanentlyfromthepsyche.

5. Guidetheclientthroughtheprocessof deleting thebelieffromallaspectsofthe Self. Thiscausesashiftinawarenessandidentity.

6. Helptheclientcraftanewbeliefthatwillsupporttheminachievingtheirgoalsandmanifestingtheirhighestvisionfortheirlife.

7. Guidetheclienttoplantandanchorthenewbeliefinall areas ofthe Self soitcangrowand blossom intheirlife.

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Thecoachguidestheirclientthrougheachstep,gentlyandslowly.Theentireprocessmay takeanywhere from tenminutestoanhour.

ThisClearBeliefsMethodworkssodeeplyinthepsychethattheresultingimpactisimmediateandprofound.Whatwasthere,botheringtheclient,issimply…gone.

Thereiseasewheretherewasstruggle,claritywheretherewasconfusion,andfreedomwherebarriersoncestood.

Anadditionalbenefitisseeingtheclientshiftperspectiveandawakeninto SourceBeingness.

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NowClearYourOwnBeliefs

Are youreadytogetstarted?Ifso,beginwiththefollowingexercise.

Youwilltakeinventoryofyourbeliefsinmany differentareasofyourlife,whetherthey'repositiveornegative,empoweringor limiting.

You can’tclearabeliefuntilyouknowexactlywhatitisandwhereitcamefrom.Mostofourbeliefsarestored inthesubconsciousmind,wheretheyhideoutandoperatebelowtheleveloftheconsciousawareness.

Areyoureadytodiveinandmakeyourunconsciousbeliefs conscious?

Ifso,thisisthefirst step.

Ready?Herewe go…

Becausewelivethroughthroughourbeliefs,it’snoteasytouncover them.

Thisexercisebeginstoflushthemoutintothelightofyourawareness.

Youmaybesurprisedatwhatyoufind.That’sagood thing!

You’veprobablyheardthisquotefromCarl Jung:

"Untilyoumaketheunconscious conscious, itwilldirectyourlife– andyouwillcallit fate."

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YourBeliefInventory

Weallexperienceproblemsinourlife.Thequestionis:whatisthecause?

Thisisanopportunitytoidentifyyour beliefsinmanydifferentareasofyour life andbegintouncovertherootcausesofyourproblematiclifeissues,andthecircumstancesinyourlifethatyou’dliketochange.

Asyoudotheinventory,you'llexpose alotofyourbeliefsthatyou’refamiliarwith,andmanybeliefsyoudidn’tevenknowyouhad.

You’llrecognizethatsomeofthese beliefsyoulimityouorstopyou frommakingforwardprogresstowardyourgoals.Inthestepsthatfollow,you’lllearnhowtodeletethemthoseproblematicpermanentlyfromyourpsycheandeliminatethemfromyour life.

Youneedcouragetolookdirectlyintoyourownmind. Youmight discoverwhat’sunderneaththe negativefeelings,bad choices,andhabitualbehaviorsthatprevent youfromlivingthejoyfulandsuccessfullifeyouwant.

Thebeliefsyouadoptedinchildhoodaredeepprogramsthatstilldriveyourexperienceofyourself,otherpeople,andtheworld– yourHumanOperatingSystem.

Thisinventoryprocessbringsthosehiddenprograms upintoawarenesssoyoucanconsciouslyreprogramyourownsoftware.

Attheendoftheexercise,you’llchoosethreenegativebeliefsthatyouwanttoclearoutofyoursystemforever.

Learnhowtofreeyourselffromtheirinfluenceinmyupcomingwebinar:

HowtoClearYourClients’LimitingBeliefs.

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InventoryStepOne:UncoverYourBeliefs

Takeoutajournal,padofpaper,oropenanewe-document.Contemplateeachquestionbysayingtoyourself(eitheroutloudorsilently):

“Something Ibelieveabout ______[topic]_______is...”(Forexample,“SomethingIbelieveaboutmyself is…”)

Listentoyourmind’sfirstresponsetothequestion andwriteitdown.Stay openandneutral.Seewhatcomesup.Listenforanyvoiceorautomaticinternalresponsetothestatement.

Writedownwhatevercomesup. Forexample,“I’manidiot.” Don’tjudgetheanswersthatemerge.Don’targuewithyourself,orcensorunpleasantopinions.Allow themalltoappearandpresentthemselves,whatevertheyare.

Honoreachoneand write it down,evenifitsounds absurdorstrange.Evenifyouhavethethought,“Idon’tbelievethat!”Whenyoursubconscioustalks,it’sagoodtimeto listen!

Thensaythephraseagain.“SomethingelseI believe about__[topic]__is…”andwrite downwhatevercomesupnext.Repeatthisprocess,overand over,untilnonewbeliefscomeup,oryoufeelempty.Itmaytakeawhile.Keepgoinguntilyoufeelit’scomplete.You may comeupwith 25ormorebeliefsineach topicarea.

Letyourthoughtsflowandkeepyourpen(orfingers)moving. Giveyourselfatleasttenminutestowritefreelyoneachtopic. Keepgoing!Thebestonesemergewhenyoupushpastthebelief,“I’mdone!”andsaythephraseagain.

Thereare18topicareasonthenextpage.Dotheexercisewithasmanycategories asyoucaninonesitting.

Pickyour “hotbutton”topicsfirst.Feelfreetoaddothers! Comebackandexploreremainingtopics later.

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ExploreYourBeliefsinEachofThese Topic Areas

Instructions:Pickonetopic,and saythefollowingphraseout loud,using that topic. [Forexample,ifyouareexploring yourwork,say:]

“SomethingIbelieveabout [my work] is…”

Writedownwhatevercomestomindinresponse.Thensaythephraseagainandwritedowneachresponse.Repeatthispatternuntilyourminddoesn’trespond,oritstartstorepeatitself.Themoretimesyousaythephrase,thedeeperyourmindwilldigintoyourearliestbeliefs,whicharemorelikelytobethecauseofaproblemorissueinthatareaofyourlife.

Myself Myattitude

Mybody Mycircumstances

Myhealth Myrelationships

Mywork Theworld

Myfinances Thepast

Money Thefuture

Success Mybeliefs

Myabilities MySoul /Spirit

Mylimitations God/Source / Creator

Thisisapowerfulexercise– giveit yourseriousattention.

Workwithasmanytopicsasyoucaninonesitting.

Thisisonlyapartiallist.Feelfreetoaddtopicsofyourown,inanyareaofyourlifethatisn’tideal!

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InventoryStepTwo:UnderstandYourBeliefs

Thisstephelpsyouunderstandthebeliefsthathavebeenbotheringyouforyears,oryourentirelife.

Revieweachbeliefyouwrotedowninyourinventory.Sayittoyourselfandnotehowmuchofanegativereactionitcauses,whethermentally,physically,oremotionally.

Then,gobackandcirclefivetotenbeliefsthatgeneratedthestrongest negative reactions.Gatherthosebeliefsintoanewdocument.

Next,reviewthefollowingquestions,andwritedownyouranswerstoeach questionabouteachofthose beliefs:

1. Hasthisbeliefbeenbeneficialtomeinmylife?Ordetrimentaltome?

2. Wasthisbeliefindoctrinatedintome?Ifso,bywhom?

3. DidIeverconsciouslychoosetobelieveit?Ifso,when,and why?

4. WhatadvantagedidIgetorgainbyhavingthisbelief?WhatdidIavoidbyhavingit?Howdidthisbeliefserveme inmylife?

5. WhatwouldbedifferentifIdidn’thavethisbelief?WhowouldIbe?WhatcouldIdo?

6. Would I be willing to delete this old belief, and replace it withsomethingpositive,beneficial,andempowering? When?

Aftercompletingthispartoftheexercise,gobackoveryouranswers,andchoosethetopthreenegativebeliefsyouwouldliketodelete,change,ortransform.

Take thosethreebeliefs,alongwithyouranswerstothesequestions,andmovethemtoanewpage.You’llusethemintheupcomingwebinar.

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StepThree:CreateNew,EmpoweringBeliefs

Whenyoudeleteanoldbelieffromthepsyche,youcreatespace– anopeningforsomethingnew.Thisis anopportunitytoinstallanew,positive,andempoweringbeliefinthatfreshsoil.

Enjoythespaceof“no-belief.”It’sabeautifulplacetohangoutforawhile.We’venoticed,though,thatifyoudon’tfillthespacewithsomethingnew,theoldbelief cansneakbackin outof habit (likeweedsinagarden).

Lookatyour#1mostnegativebelief.Whatwouldyouprefer tobelieveinstead? Agoodplacetostartisitsopposite,butdon’tstopthere.Sinceyou’reincharge,youcancreateanythingyouwant.Enhanceyournewbeliefsoitfeelswonderful,completelypositiveandsupportive.(Ifyouknowyoucan’tbelievethenewbelief,it’stoobig.Reduceittooneyoucanbelieve.)

Everybeliefproducesaspecificfeelingandexperience.Tryonthenewbeliefasifyou’retryingonanewsuitordresstofindoutwhatitfeelslike.Sayittoyourselfandfeelwhatitfeelsliketobelieveit100%.Modifyitandtryonthenewversion.Keepchangingituntilit’srightforyou.

Forexample,ifyouroldbeliefis,“There’ssomethingwrongwithme,”youcouldreplaceitwith,“There’ssomethingrightaboutme.”Thatbeliefisbetter,butit’snotveryempowering.Ifyoupushitallthewayupthescaleofpositivity,youmightcometo:“Iamthelightofmysoul,shiningwithmyownperfectlight.”Canyoufeelthedifference?GoforthatWOW! feeling.

Here’sanotherexample:Ifyouholdtheoldbelief,“Iamnotloved,”youcouldreplaceitwith“Iamloved,”whichisaverygoodbelieftohave.Butfeelwhatitwouldfeelliketobelieve,“IamunconditionallylovedbyGod,theUniverse,andeveryimportantpersoninmylife.”. Ortrythisoneon:“IAM love.”

Youhavethepowertochooseyourownbeliefs– soyoumightaswellchoosethemostempowering,enlighteningbelief youcanimagine.

Youcanalsoimaginehavingyourlifebeexactlythewayyouwantit,soyoufeelfantastic.Thenaskyourself,“Whatwouldsomeonehavetobelieveinordertoexperiencethis?”

Theanswertothatquestionmaybethebeliefyou’relooking for!

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Nowwritedownthepositivereplacementbeliefs youwanttohaveinplaceofyourthreenegativeorlimitingbeliefs.

Congratulations!

You’ve completed the Step 1of the Clear Beliefs Process:Identifythebeliefsyouwanttochange.

You’rereadyforthenextsteps,and I'dliketoshowyouSteps 2and3.

Ican’t do it here,butIcandemonstratethemin myfreeonlinewebinar,HowtoClearYourClients’LimitingBeliefs.

I’llshow youthenextstepsanddemonstratetwoofmyfavoritetechniquesfordeletingbeliefsatthecoreofthepsyche– inalivedemowithavolunteerfromtheaudience.

It'scomingsoon!WemeetonZoom.ClickTHISLINK toreserveyour seat.

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Takethenextsteptowardbeliefmastery.Registerforthefreewebinarhere:

Yourclientcanfeelthetransformationasithappens.Nowaitingforresults! Whatwasbotheringthemis simply…gone.

Canitreallybethateasy?Yes. Itcan,anditis,ifyouhavetherighttechnology.

InourClearBeliefsCoachcommunity,we’veseenincrediblechangesinourclients:

§ Oldchildhoodtraumasnolongercausepsychologicalpainorreactions.

§ Doorsofopportunitythatwerepreviouslyclosedsuddenlyopen.

§ Weightissues– andtheweight– dissolve,becausethecauseisdissolved.

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Youcanuseitinyourpracticeimmediatelytohelpyourclientsgetrelieffromphysicalpain,discomfort,upsets,anddistress.It’sonlyoneofthedozentoolsyou’llacquireifyoujointheClearBeliefsCoachTraining,whichyou’lllearnaboutinourfreewebinar.

Joinmeforthisfreeonlineclasstofindouthowyoucanquicklyproducedramaticresultsforyourclients(andforyourself!).

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HowtoClearYourClients’Beliefs:TheWebinar

In the upcoming freewebinar, you’ll learn:

• Howbeliefsform– beginningwhilewe’restillinthe womb!

• Howour“lovebeliefs”impactourabilitytosustainandthriveinanintimaterelationship.

• Howtohelpyourclientsuncoverthehiddendriversoftheiruncomfortablefeelings,negativethoughts,andautomatic reactions.

• Twopowerfultransformationaltechniquesthatyoucanapplyinyourownpractice immediately.

Jointhisfreewebinarif:

• You’refascinatedbythehumanmind,andhowitworks.

• You’recuriousaboutwhypeopledowhattheydo.

• You’reacoach,healer,therapist,orchangeagent,andwanttoproducedramaticshiftsinyourselfandinyourclients!

Ilookforwardtoseeingyou there!

Warmly,

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LionGoodman,PCCCreatoroftheClearBeliefsCoachTrainingAuthor,Coach,andSubconsciousPatternDetective

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AbouttheAuthor

LionGoodman,PCCisthecreatoroftheClearBeliefsMethod,aprocess forhealingchildhoodtrauma,transformingbeliefsatthecoreofthepsyche,andclearingthepathofmanifestation.

Hundredsofcoaches,therapists,andhealers aroundtheworldhavegraduatedfromhisClearBeliefs CoachTraining.

He isaProfessionalCertifiedCoach,healer,teacher,consciousnessexplorer,andauthor. Hehasbeencalledasubconsciouspatterndetectivebecause of his skilloffindingtheoriginalcauseoflifeproblems.

Lionhasstudiedandpracticedmany formsofpsychology,neurology,spirituality,philosophy,andtheprinciplesofsuccess formorethan40years.Hisfirstcareerwasinexecutivesearchandexecutivecoaching,whereheworkedwithhundredsofCEOsandseniormanagersinbusinessesacrosstheU.S.,fromearlystagestart-upstoFortune500 corporations.

HehastaughtworkshopsandtrainingsacrosstheU.S.,Canada,Europe,andChina.Heistheauthorof4books:CreatingOnPurpose;ClearYourBeliefs;TheNarcissismPrimer;andMenlightenment,aswellasdozensofarticlesonconsciousness,beliefs,psychology,andpersonaldevelopment.

Withhispartner,CaristaLuminare,Ph.D.,hefoundedLuminaryLeadershipInstitute,aninitiatoryprogramforleadersof businessesandorganizations. They providepersonalcounselingtoexecutivesandcouples,helpingthemhealdamagedrelationshipstocreatefamilyandbusinesslifethey’vealwayswanted.

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