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ripygrih ow R@P@- Ryff`xgqi `ifimx% d`ydgmd xli `~~egih bjf~iximbi j xli ei`rmir%
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gmd x`mh`rh jr py`egb`xgjm% mh jr xli `bbrihgx`xgjm j ojhgi ri~jmgoei jr
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xj imyri xl`x ~rjqggjm jr bbrihgx`xgjm ri bjf~egih tgxl mh tliri ~~rj~rg`xi%
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bjymieegmd bjmxi|x tliri begimx `ri im`oeih xj dj xlrjydl xli ~rjbi j mhgmd jey&
xgjm xj xligr bjmbirm jr hgbyexgi- Gx g gmximhih jr ei`rmir tlj bjymie ~ij~ei gm ` q`rg&
ixw j gxy`xgjm% oyx tlj `ri mjx ridgxirih ~rjigjm`e ybl ` py`egih ~wbljejdgx `mh
jbg`e tjrcir- Gx tgee oi yiye jr bjymieejr gm ` q`rgixw j bjymieegmd bjmxi|x gmbeyhgmd%
oyx mjx egfgxih xj% bljje% Mjm&Djqirmfimx`e Jrd`mg`xgjm% A`gxl O`ih Jrd`mg`xgjm% xli
Rjyxl @rgb`m jegbi Rirqgbi% Bjymieegmd B`ee Bimxri% Lj~gx`e% Begmgb mh Ry~~jrx @dimbgi%
R~jrx Bimxri% Ihyb`xgjm `mh Xr`gmgmd `bgegxgi% Djqirmfimx `mh Li`exl `mh Rjbg`e Rirqgbi
`bgegxgi- Gx ljyeh hiqiej~ ei`rmir tlj cmjt xligr bj~i j ~r`bxgbi% oil`qi ixlgb`eew gm `
bjymieegmd bjmxi|x% bjmjrf xj fgmgfyf x`mh`rh mh cmjt tlim xj riir begimx-
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Ei`rmgmd `yfih xj oi gm ~e`bi `mh ribjdmgxgjm ja ~rgjr ei`rmgmd
Gx g ribjffimhih xl`x ei`rmir `ri bjf~iximx gm Bjffymgb`xgjm `x MPA Eiqie 2-
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh _`mdi
Xli xw~gb`e bj~i j xlg Ymgx Rx`mh`rh g;
@ xrybxyrih imqgrjmfimx riir xj;
Xli ~lwgb`e ~`bi xl`x ljyeh oi bjmhybgqi xj bjmhimxg`egxw% riihjf j i|~rigjmØ
`mh bjymieegmd-
Xli bjymieejr g f`m`dih `mh fimxjrih gmbeyhgmd jmdjgmd y~irqggjm% fjmgxjrgmd%Ø
`ifimx mh hiorgimd-
Rigjm f`w oi blihyeih jr ymblihyeih-Ø
Rljrx xirf bjymieegmd ymhir y~irqggjm tgxlgm ` bei`rew gmhgb`xih bj~i j u
~r`bxgbi-Rbj~i j ~r`bxgbi riir xj xli ojymh`rgi tgxlgm tlgbl xli bjymieejr j~ir`xiu
tgxljyx riirr`e ` himih ow jtm tjrc bjmxi|x-
Xiblmgpyi `mh cgee gmbeyhi% oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj% ~rjoeif jeqgmd% f`m`dgmdu
hgbyex begimx% bri`xgjm j y~~jrxgqi mh `i bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~% `bgegx`x&
gmd hibggjm mh f`cgmd yi j iibxgqi% mjm&xlri`ximgmd% i|~ejrgmd cgee-
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R~ibgb jyxbjfi `mh `ifimx brgxirg
R~ibgb jyxbjfi 0
I|~e`gm xli ymbxgjm `mh bj~i j ~r`bxgbi j ` bjymieejr-
@ifimx brgxirg`
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 0
Xli bjmbi~x j bjymieegmd g i|~e`gmih tgxl i|`f~ei jr hgirimx gxy`xgjm-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm ?
Xli py`egxgi `mh cgee j ` bjymieejr `ri i|~e gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ~irjm`e py`egxgi% cgee
`mh ojymh`rgi gm ` ieibxih bjmxi|x-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
Py`egxgi gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj if~`xlw% rieg`ogegxw% gmxidrgxw% ymog`ih iiegmd% mjm&
kyhdifimx`e `mh ~rjigjm`e x`mbi-
Rcgee gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj djjh bjffymgb`xgjm mh gmxir~irjm`e cgee-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 2
Xli `gf% ymbxgjm `mh ieifimx j bjymieegmd `ri i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ` ieibxih
bjmxi|x-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
Ieifimx gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj ymhirx`mhgmd j ` ~ibgb `~~rj`bl% hii~imgmd
ymhirx`mhgmd j ie `mh jxlir% `ogegxw xj dgqi gmgdlxye dygh`mbi `mh y~~jrx% ri~ibx `mh
`bbi~x`mbi-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 8
Hgirimx `~~rj`bli jr xlijrgi `ri i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ieibxih bjymieegmd fjh&
ie-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
Fjhie gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj _jdir&~irjm bimxrih% Id`m&cgeeih lie~ir% Bjdmgxgqi%
Oil`qgjyr`e% Bjdmgxgqi Oil`qgjyr`e mh Gmxir~irjm`e-
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@ifimx Brgxirgjm 9
Xli eid`e `mh ixlgb`e ripygrifimx `mh egfgx jm bj~i j ~r`bxgbi jm bjymieejr `ri i|&
~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ieibxih begimx-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
Ixlgb`e `mh eid`e ripygrifimx gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj ri~jmgogegxw xj xli begimx% q`e&
yi% ri~jmgogegxw% bjmxr`bx% ojymh`rgi% bjmhimxg`egxw% bbjymx`ogegxw mh y~irqggjm-
R~ibgb Jyxbjfi ?
Rix y~ m im`oegmd bjymieegmd imqgrjmfimx-
@ifimx Brgxirg`
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 0
Xli bl`r`bxirgxgb j `m im`oegmd imqgrjmfimx `ri hibrgoih tgxl riirimbi xj bjymieegmd
ixxgmd-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
Bl`r`bxirgxgb j `m im`oegmd imqgrjmfimx gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj ~lwgb`e e`wjyx j
xli rjjf% ~e`bgmd j xli x`oei% bl`gr mh egdlxgmd% `ixw% ~rgq`bw% mh bjmhimxg`egxw j rrgq`e%
igjm mh i|gx% y~~jrxgqi% ~rgq`xi `mh ribi~xgqi begf`xi tgxljyx hgxr`bxgjm-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm ?
@m im`oegmd imqgrjmfimx g bri`xih jr ~ibgb bjymieegmd igjm-
R~ibgb Jyxbjfi 2I|~e`gm xli ~rgmbg~ei mh ~rjbii j bjymieegmd-
@ifimx Brgxirg`
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 0
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gm hgirimx bjmxi|x-
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@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
Dimir`eew bbi~xih ~rgmbg~ei gmbeyhi oyx ri mjx egfgxih xj mjm&kyhdifimx`e xxgxyhi% bjm&
himxg`egxw% bjmxrjeeih ifjxgjm`e gmqjeqifimx% ie hixirfgm`xgjm `mh begimx gmqjeqifimx-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm ?
@ bjymieegmd ~rjbi g i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ~e`mmgmd `mh ~ri~`r`xgjm% ghimxgwgmd
`mh ~rgjrgxggmd miih% f`m`difimx% gmgxg`xgjm% bjmxr`bxgmd% xirfgm`xgmd% `mh rie`xgmd xj beg&
imx-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 2
Xiblmgpyi `mh cgee ripygrih jr bjymieegmd `ri i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj tlim i`bl g
`~~rj~rg`xi-
R~ibgb Jyxbjfi 8
I|~e`gm xli rjei j q`eyi mh xxgxyhi gm oil`qgjyr mh bjymieegmd-
@ifimx Brgxirg`
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 0
Xli rie xgjmlg~ oixtiim jtm q`eyi mh `xxgxyhi `mh oil`qgjyr g i|~ejrih tgxl riirimbi
xj xli gf~egb`xgjm jr xli bjymieegmd-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
@xxgxyhi `mh q`eyi gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj `xxgxyhi xj dimhir% i|y`e jrgimx`xgjm%
`di% byexyri% `gxl&o`ih oiegi mh jbg`e be`-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm ?
Xli gf~jrx`mbi j `m `xxgxyhi j ri~ibx jr hgqirgxw j q`eyi g i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj
xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi-
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@~~ew ` bjymieegmd ~rjbi gm ` ~ibgb bjmxi|x-
@ifimx Brgxirg`
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 0
@ bjymieegmd ~rjbi g hifjmxr`xih xj bjymie m gmhgqghy`e gm m `yxlimxgb gxy`xgjm ygmd
`~~rj~rg`xi cgee mh xiblmgpyi-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
Xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi gmbeyhi oyx g mjx egfgxih xj gmgxg`xgmd ,oygehgmd rie`xgjmlg~% be`rgw&
gmd xli m`xyri j xli rie`xgjmlg~ mh ix`oeglgmd r`~~jrx'% midjxg`xgmd bjymieegmd bjmxr`bx
,ixxgmd ojymh`rgi% fyxy`e i|~ibx`xgjm% dj`e `mh bjmhimxg`egxw'% `bgegx`xgmd*f`m`dgmd
,xirfgm`xgjm j rie`xgjmlg~% xiblmgpyi% xgfir`fi% riirr`e% f`m`dgmd jtm ifjxgjm% `mh
ymhirx`mhgmd xli iibx j xli bjymieejr jm xli begimx `mh xli begimx jm xli bjymieejr-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm ?
@m ixlgb`e bjhi j bjmhybx g `~~egih gm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 2
_i~ibx jr hgqirgxw j q`eyi g hifjmxr`xih `x q`rgjy x`di j xli bjymieegmd `mh ~rjo&
eif jeqgmd ~rjbi-
R~ibgb Jyxbjfi 1
_iibx jm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi-
@ifimx Brgxirg`
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 0
Xli xrimdxl `mh egfgx`xgjm j xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi `ri ghimxgih `mh fjxgq`xih o`ih
jm ~irjm`e riibxgjm-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm ?
Ciw eijm ri ghimxgih mh bl`mdi jr yxyri bjymieegmd igjm ri hgbyih ~`rx j
jmdjgmd ~rjigjm`e hiqiej~fimx-
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@ifimx Brgxirgjm 2
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i|~ejrih tgxl riirimbi xj jtm egi `mh ~irjm-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi
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mi% xiblmgb`e ~rjbgimbw% y~irqggjm mh ifjxgjm`e y~~jrx-
@ifimx Brgxirgjm 8 Xli bjmbi~x j y~irqggjm g i|~e`gmih `mh `m gmhgb`xgjm g dgqim j xli oimix j y~irqg&
gjm jr xli bjymieejr-
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh @bbrihgx`xgjm `mh Fjhir`xgjm J~xgjm
@mwjmi `igmd ` b`mhgh`xi `d`gmx xlg Ymgx Rx`mh`rh fyx oi ridgxirih ` `m `ijr
tgxl xli rieiq`mx IXP@ jr IXP@ tliri ` Fifjr`mhyf j Ymhirx`mhgmd ,FJY' i|gx tgxl
xli rieiq`mx IXP@-
@mw gmxgxyxgjm jirgmd ei`rmgmd xl`x tgee im`oei `blgiqifimx j xlg Ymgx Rx`mh`rh fyx oi
`bbrihgxih ~rjqghir xlrjydl xli rieiq`mx IXP@ jr IXP@ tliri Fifjr`mhyf j Ymhir&
x`mhgmd ,FJY' i|gx tgxl xli rieiq`mx IXP@-
Fjhir`xgjm j `ifimx tgee oi jqiriim ow xli rieiq`mx IXP@ `bbjrhgmd xj xli fjhir`&
xgjm dyghiegmi `mh xli `driih IXP@ ~rjbihyri-
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh Iimxg`e Ifoihhih Cmjteihdi
M*@
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh Hiqiej~fimx`e Jyxbjfi
M*@
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh Egmc`di
M*@
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Brgxgb`e Brj&ieh Jyxbjfi ,BBAJ';
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Ghimxgawgmd
Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj ghimxgw `mh jeqi ~rjoeif gm tlgbl ri~jmi ljt xl`x ri~jmgoei
hibggjm ygmd brgxgb`e mh bri`xgqi xlgmcgmd l`qi oiim f`hi gm bjymieegmd` begimx jeejtgmd
` dimir`eew bbi~xih bjymieegmd ~rjbi-
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Tjrcgmd
Xli ei`rmir g oei xj tjrc iibxgqiew tgxl jxlir ` ` fifoir j ` xi`f% drjy~% jrd`mg`xgjm
jr bjffymgxw gm xl`x bjymieegmd gmqjeqi tjrcgmd tgxl `x ei`x jmi jxlir ~irjm `mh ei`rm&
ir x Eiqie 8 bjymie ymhir y~irqggjm gm ` xrybxyrih imqgrjmfimx-
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Jrd`mggmd
Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj jrd`mgi `mh f`m`di lgf*lirie `mh lg*lir `bxgqgxgi ri~jmgoew `mh
iibxgqiew gm ~e`mmgmd mh ~ri~`rgmd jr bjymieegmd igjm mh ribjrhgmd mh ri~jrxgmd jm
xli jyxbjfi-
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Bjeeibxgmd
Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj bjeeibx% jrd`mgi `mh brgxgb`eew iq`ey`xi gmjrf`xgjm gm `bgegx`xgmd xli
bjymieegmd ~rjbi mh gm gmqixgd`xgmd xlijrgi j bjymieegmd-
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Bjffymgb`xgmd
Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj bjffymgb`xi iibxgqiew gm gmxir`bxgmd tgxl begimx `mh y~irqgjr-
Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Bjmxrgoyxgmd
Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj riibx jm `mh i|~ejri ` q`rgixw j xr`xidgi xj ei`rm fjri iibxgqiew gm
riibxgmd jm xli jyxbjfi j bjymieegmd igjm i|~ejrgmd xr`xidgi xj rihybi oyrmjyx
`mh ibjmh`rw xr`yf`-
Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj oi byexyr`eew `mh ixlixgb`eew imgxgqi `brj ` r`mdi j jbg`e bjmxi|x
gm ymhirx`mhgmd xli gf~jrx`mbi j ri~ibx jr hgqiri q`eyi `mh `bbjffjh`xgmd hgir&
imbi gm bjymieegmd igjm-
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== 0?
2- Dyghiegmi ajr a`bgegx`xgjm
Rieibxgmd bjyri a`bgegx`xjr
Xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh l`qi i|ximgqi i|~irgimbi gm begmgb`e ~wbljejdw% ~rjigjm`e bjymie&
egmd% jbg`e tjrc jr ~wbljxlir`~w% mh djjh ymhirx`mhgmd j lyf`m ~wbljejdw- A`bgegx`&
xjr ljyeh ej l`qi i|~irgimbi j tjrcgmd tgxl ~ij~ei rjf hgirimx byexyr`e mh b`hifgb
ihyb`xgjm`e o`bcdrjymh gm drjy~ ixxgmd-
E`mdy`di
Tlim ~`rxgbg~`mx `mh `bgegx`xjr hj mjx l`ri ` bjffjm e`mdy`di% xli ~`rxgbg~`mx fyx
l`qi `x ei`x ` ri`jm`oew djjh ymhirx`mhgmd j xli `bgegx`xjr‗ e`mdy`di `mh tgee miih xj
oi ybgimxew yimx xj rjei&~e`w gm xl`x e`mdy`di gm rjmx j xli drjy~- Ljtiqir% xli xrg`h
rjei&~e`w b`m% `mh ljyeh% x`ci ~e`bi gm xli ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ljfi e`mdy`di `mh xli e`mdy`di
gm tlgbl xliw tgee hj bjymieegmd- A`bgegx`xjr ljyeh oi imgxgqi xj ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjm&qiro`e
oil`qgjyr hyrgmd xlii rjei&~e`w `mh ljyeh `c jr be`rgb`xgjm tlim miihih% xj `bgegx`xi
xlii rjei&~e`w iibxgqiew- Gx b`m `ej lie~ xj l`qi `m `gx`mx xr`gmir tlj b`m xr`me`xi hyr&
gmd rjei&~e`w-
Drjy~ g{i
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oir g oixtiim 0? mh 09- Xli f`eeir xli drjy~% xli fjri py`egxw xgfi mh j~~jrxymgxgi ri
`jrhih jr ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ~r`bxgi xligr cgee- @ myfoir j drjy~ bxgqgxgi ripygri ~egxxgmd
xli ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj drjy~ j xlrii% gx g yddixih xl`x xli xjx`e myfoir j bjyri ~`rxgbg&
~`mx g hgqggoei ow xlrii-
_jei `mh aymbxgjm ja ` a`bgegx`xjr
@ `bgegx`xjr ljyeh l`qi i|~irxgi gm xligr `ri` j xr`gmgmd% `mh xligr f`gm ymbxgjm g xj ~ri&
imx ghi`% l`ri gmjrf`xgjm% hiqiej~ cmjteihdi mh ~rjqghi xlijrw mh cgee xj mit ~`rxgbg&
~`mx- Iimxg`eew% ` `bgegx`xjr g ri~jmgoei jr jrd`mggmd% f`m`dgmd `mh ~riimxgmd ` tjrc&
lj~ j xl`x xli dj`e j xli tjrclj~ `ri fix-
Xliri `ri xtj xw~i j rjei xl`x iibxgqi `bgegx`xjr ~e`w% m`fiew bjmximx rjei `mh ~rjbi
rjei- Tlim `bgegx`xjr ri ~rjqghgmd gmjrf`xgjm `mh hiqiej~gmd cgee% xliw `ri yeeegmd ` bjm&
ximx rjei- Tlim xliw imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx ie&riibxgjm% gmxir`bxgjm `mh l`rgmd j xljydlx%
iiegmd `mh i|~irgimbi% xliw `ri yeeegmd ` ~rjbi rjei- Xlg gmbeyhi tjrcgmd tgxl drjy~hwm`fgb-
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== 08
Rjfi ~`rxgbg~`mx f`w iie gmxgfgh`xih ow rjei&~e`wgmd- Xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh imyri xl`x xliw
`ri rie`|ih `mh ljyeh cii~ xli rjei&~e`w `~~rj~rg`xi xj xli ei`rmgmd bjmxi|x ow if~l`g&
gmd xl`x xli bl`r`bxir `ri ―gm rjei‖ `mh xl`x drjy~ joirqir `ri ejjcgmd `x xli bl`r`bxir
`mh xligr ri`bxgjm% `mh mjx `x xli gmhgqghy`e ~ij~ei ~e`wgmd xlif- @x xgfi% gx f`w iqim oi
lie~ye xj imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj bljji rjei&~e`w m`fi- Hiorgimd `mh hgbygjm `xir
rjei&~e`wgmd g iimxg`e-
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xliw ri bpygrgmd% xliw tgee oibjfi fjri bjmhimx mh tgee gf~rjqi xligr ogegxgi-
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bjymieegmd xr`gmgmd ~rgf`rgew xj lie~ jr dr`xgw xlifieqi ljyeh oi bjmghirih tgxl b`yxgjm-
?- Hji xli ~irjm ljt gmgdlx mh ie&`t`rimi:
Ljt tjyeh wjy hibrgoi wjyrie:
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Tl`x hj wjy xlgmc wjyr xrimdxl* ti`cmii ` ` bjymieejr fgdlx oi:
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2- G xliri jfi t`rimi j tl`x bjymieegmd g:
Ajr wjy% tl`x g xli f`gm dj`e j bjymieegmd:
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8- L` xli ~irjm drjtm rjf egi i|~irgimbi:
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ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
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ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
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9- G xli ~irjm gm xjybl tgxl xligr iiegmd:
Tlim t` xli e`x xgfi wjy ri`eew iex xrjmdew `ojyx jfixlgmd:
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
Tl`x hj wjy hj tlim wjy l`qi xrjmd iiegmd:
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
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ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
+ B`mhgh`xi ljyeh oi `oei xj ghimxgw `mh ~rjbi iiegmd-
1- L` xli ~irjm l`h ` ribimx oiri`qifimx `mh ljt hji xli ~irjm hi`e tgxl ej% gm dimir`e:
Xiee y `ojyx `mw gf~jrx`mx ej xl`x wjy l`qi ribimxew i|~irgimbih:
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4- Hji xli ~irjm l`qi y~~jrx wxif:
Tlj hj wjy xyrm xj tlim wjy `ri gm miih j lie~:
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+ B`mhgh`xi tgxl it y~~jrx wxif ljyeh mjx oi bjmghirih jr xr`gmgmd rgdlx mjt-
<- Hji xli ~irjm l`qi li`exlw jbg`e egi:
Tl`x hj wjy hj jr ym:
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
+ B`mhgh`xi ljyeh oi `oei xj i~`r`xi rjf xligr tjrc bjffgxfimx-
7- Hji xli ~irjm ljt bjri bjymieejr py`egxgi egci if~`xlw % t`rfxl `mh j~immi:
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
+ Joirqi ljt xli b`mhgh`xi gmxir`bx tgxl wjy mh xli jxlir gmxirqgitir- @ri xliw ~~rj`bl&
`oei `mh rgimhew:
O`ih jm xli `ojqi% g xli b`mhgh`xi ygx`oei xj oibjfi ` bjymieejr mjt:
WIR MJ F@WOI
BJFFIMXR;
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2-- Tl`x `ri xli ~irjm`e py`egxgi ` bjymieejr ljyeh l`qi: Dgqi g| f`gm ~jgmx ,1'
8-- Tl`x `ri xli xlrii bjri bjymieegmd q`eyi `mh ~rgmbg~ei: ,2'
9-- G wjyr begimx g qirw hi~riih% tl`x bjymieegmd gyi hj wjy xlgmc
bjyeh `rgi `mh ljt tgee wjy gmxirqimi: Dgqi xtj f`gm ~jgmx- ,?'
1-- Tl`x `ri jfi j xli bl`eeimdi tlim bjymieegmd gm Rjyxl @rgb`:
Dgqi xlrii f`gm ~jgmx- ,2'
Xjx`e ?> ~jgmx
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== ?8
Fyexg~ei bljgbi ,0 ~jgmx ~ir bjrribx `mtir'
Bjymieegmd g ojyx;0-
lie~gmd jfijmi gm xrjyoei`-
bri`xgmd ` `i ~`bi tliri ` begimx b`m i|~ejri lg*lir ~rjoeifo-
dgqgmd djjh hqgbi xj jfijmi i|~irgimbgmd ~rjoeifb-
`ee j xli `ojqi-h-
?- Xlrii ~rgmbg~ei `mh q`eyi xl`x ri fjx gf~jrx`mx gm bjymieegmd ri;
oigmd ri`e% ri~jmgqi mh ri~ibxye`-
oigmd ibrixgqi% tgi mh f`xyrio-
oigmd irxgqi% ~rjigjm`e mh j~imb-
oigmd bjmbirmih% ejw`e mh rgimhew-h-
2- If~`xlw fi`m;
xieegmd xli ~irjm wjy ymhirx`mh tl`x xliw ri djgmd xlrjydl`-
brwgmd `mh e`ydlgmd tgxl xli ~irjmo-
~yxxgmd wjyrie gm xli jxlir ~irjm‗ ljib-
xi~~gmd gmxj xli ~irjm‗ tjreh `mh bjffymgb`xgmd xlg ymhirx`mhgmd-h-
8- Ixlgb`e gyi xj bjmghir gm bjymieegmd gmqjeqi;
bjmhimxg`egxw`-
`eejtgmd xli begimx xj riiew i|~ri lg*lir iiegmdo-
oigmd mjm&kyhdifimx`eb-
`ee j xli `ojqi-h-
9- @ bjymieejr fyx f`gmx`gm bjmhimxg`egxw;
`x `ee xgfi`-
tgxlgm birx`gm egfgxo-
tlim x`ecgmd xj `mjxlir ~rjigjm`eb-
,o' `mh ,b'-h-
Ribxgjm O
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1- Xlrii riibxgjm ri~jmi gm bjymieegmd ri;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd% bjmximx mh ~`r`~lr`gmd`-
_iibxgjm j iiegmd% bjmximx mh ~rjbio-
_iibxgjm j iiegmd% fi`mgmd mh bjmximxb-
,o' `mh ,b'-h-
4- _iibxgjm j ~rjbi ,`ej cmjtm ` gffihg`bw';
G riibxgmd gyi rie`xih xj xli bjymieegmd bjmxi|x mh*jr bjymieejr`-
G riibxgmd iiegmd rie`xih xj xli begimx‗ jyxghi bjmxi|xo-
G riibxgjm j ~`x bjmximxb-
G mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-
<- Ryff`rggmd mh ~`r`~lr`gmd ri;
Xli `fi xlgmd`-
Hgirimx oyx bjmmibxih cgee-o-
7- @hq`mbih if~`xlw g i|lgogxih tlim;
@ bjymieejr l`ri lg jr lir jtm i|~irgimbi tgxl ` begimx`-
@ bjymieejr b`m dyi tl`x xli begimx g iiegmd tgxljyx li`rgmd xli beg&o-
imx‗ xjrw
Xli bjymieejr egmc iiegmd `mh bjmximx xj dj oiwjmh yr`bi eiqie ri&b-
ibxgjm j iiegmd
Mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-
0>- Rljyeh ` bjymieejr tlj gm‗x xr`gmih gm xr`yf` bjymieegmd ii ` begimx gm brgg:
Mj`-
Wi-o-
00- Xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm `ri gf~jrx`mx xj c gm `igmd ygbghi rgc;
Hj wjy l`qi ` ~e`m j ljt xj bjffgx ygbghi:`-
L`qi wjy xljydlx `ojyx tlim% tliri `mh ljt wjy tgee hj gx:o-
,`' `mh ,o'b-
Mjmi- @ bjymieejr ljyehm‗x dgqi xli begimx ghi` ow `cgmd pyixgjm-h-
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== ?1
0?- Xli f`gm dj`e j brgg f`m`difimx gm bjymieegmd g xj;
Dgqi xli begimx rijyrbi jm ljt xj f`m`di xligr brgg`-
@c jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm xj dyghi xli begimx jyx j xligr brggo-
Egxim xj xli begimx xiee lg jr lir yee xjrwb-
@ee j xli `ojqi-h-
02- Riqiri `m|gixw ,tlgbl% `ibx `m gmhgqghy`e‗ egi ymbxgjmgmd' b`m `mh ljyeh oi
xri`xih tgxl ~wbljxlir`~w mh*jr `~~rj~rg`xi fihgb`xgjm-
Xryi`-
A`ei-o-
08- @ gdm `mh wf~xjf j hi~rigjm g;
E`bc j imirdw `mh fjxgq`xgjm xj hj mjrf`e egi `bxgqgxgi`-
Aiiegmd `h `mh if~xw fjx j xli xgfio-
T`mxgmd xj x`ec xj jfijmi `ojyx ~rjoeifb-
,`' `mh ,o'-h-
09- Oyrmjyx b`m oi ~riqimxih ow;
I`xgmd ` o`e`mbih hgix`-
Djgmd jr ridye`r fimxjrgmd igjmo-
I|irbggmdb-
@ee j xli `ojqi-h-
01- Xli hgirimx bj~gmd ri~jmi xj xri `ri dimir`eew;
Ymhir&xri mh jqirxri`-
Hgirimx jr hgirimx ~ij~eio-
@bxgqi bjdmgxgqi fixljh% bxgqi oil`qgjyr`e fixljh mh `qjgh`mbib-
Mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-
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04- Fimxjrgmd g;
Xli `fi ` ~wbljxlir ~w`-
Xli ~rjbi j y~~jrxgmd `mh oygehgmd bjymieejro-
Oigmd y~irqgihb-
@ee j xli `ojqi-h-
0<- Fimxjrgmd gmqjeqi;
@ gmdei bjymieejr hgbygmd gyi tgxl ` fjri cgeeih fimxjr`-
@ drjy~ j bjymieejr x`ecgmd tgxl i`bl jxliro-
@ drjy~ j bjymieejr fiixgmd xjdixlir ymhir xli dygh`mbi j ` fim&b-
xjr
@ee j xli `ojqi-h-
Xjx`e 0< ~jgmx
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== ?<
Hibrgoi xli x`di `mh cgee j xli Fjhie j Bjymieegmd% gmbeyhgmd xli rjei j 0-
xli begimx `mh bjymieejr `x i`bl x`di- Yi xli `xx`blih hr`tgmd j xli ljyi- ,0?
~jgmx'
@ FJHIE JA BJYMRIEEGMD
Ribxgjm B
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Agm`e `ifimx; fjhie `mtir
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Ljt tjyeh wjy himi bjymieegmd:0-
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Bri`xgmd `i ~`bi xj i|~ejri iiegmd% ~rjoeif mhØ jtm j~xgjm
Rxrybxyrih rie`xgjmlg~ tgxl ojymh`rgiØ
^rjbi xj ~rjfjxi gmhi~imhimbi mh gmmir rijyrbiØ
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Tl`x g if~`xlw:?-
Aiiegmd tgxl `mh mjx jrØ
^yxxgmd ie gm lji j begimxØ
Imxirgmd begimx‗ r`fi j riirimbiØ
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Tl`x ri xli ~irjm`e py`egxgi bjymieejr ljyeh l`qi:2-
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== 2>
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G wjyr begimx g hi~riih mh ymri~jmgqi% ljt tgee wjy gmxirqimi:9-
rx yi mjrf`e cgee j if~`xlw `mh i|~ejr`xgjmØ
`i ygbghi rgc Ø
`eejt xgfi jr yee hgbygjm ojyx hi~rigjmØ
bl`eeimdi ymri~jmgqimiØ
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riir jr ~wbljxlir`~wØ
yddix hi~rigjm y~~jrx drjy~-Ø
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r`bi `mh byexyriØ
dimhir gfo`e`mbiØ
jbg`e gmipy`egxgi mh hgirimx bbi xj rijyrbiØ
gf~`bx j ~jjr ihyb`xgjmØ
e`mdy`diØ
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@ FJHIE JA BJYMRIEEGMD
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Rljt bjri bjymieejr py`egxgi% i-d- t`rfxl% dimygmimi mh ~~rj`bl`ogegxw:
^jjr 0 ? 2 8 9 Djjh
@ mjm&kyhdifimx`e xxgxyhi:
^jjr 0 ? 2 8 9 Djjh
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eif&jeqgmd mh riqgitgmd'-
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Joirqir‗ _jei&^e`w Blibcegx
O i l ` q g j y r
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x l i i ? o i l ` q g j y r
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` m h i | ~ r i i g m x i r i x
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?- Jm ` b`ei j 0 ,~jjr' xj 9 ,djjh' ljt hj wjy r`xi wjyrie gm xli jeejtgmd `ri` j cmjteihdi `mh cgee;
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if~`xlw 0 ? 2 8 9
i|~ejrgmd 0 ? 2 8 9
riibxgmd 0 ? 2 8 9
yff`rg{gmd 0 ? 2 8 9
`cgmd j~im pyixgjm 0 ? 2 8 9
bl`eeimdgmd 0 ? 2 8 9
riibxgmd ~rjbi ,gffihg`bw' 0 ? 2 8 9
ie&`t`rimi 0 ? 2 8 9
~rjoeif jeqgmd 0 ? 2 8 9
`cgmd jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm 0 ? 2 8 9
mjx dgqgmd hqgbi 0 ? 2 8 9
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ow ^- Orjy`rh `mh _- E`{`ry
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bjymieejr j xl`x xliw `ri `oei xj jir xli oix irqgbi ~jgoei xj begimx tlgei x`wgmd
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gb% q`eyi' `mh y~~jrx ,fjr`ei% ~irjm`e drjtxl% ie&tjrxl% ` imi j oiejmdgmd xj `m jr&
d`mg`xgjm'-
Fimxjrgmd hgir rjf ―y~irqggjm‖ tlgbl ximh xj yddix ` xj~&hjtm rie`xgjmlg~ tliri
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~irqggjm g jfixgfi yih gm gxy`xgjm tliri xli imgjr ~irjm g `ej xli f`m`dir j xli
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`mbi% xli rie`xgjmlg~ g fjri egci xli bjymieejr&begimx rie`xgjmlg~ ‒ ` l`rih kjyrmiw j hg&
bjqirw- Gm f`mw gxy`xgjm gm Rjyxl @rgb` xliri g mj jrf`e fimxjr q`ge`oei mh bjymieejr
f`w miih xj riew jm i`bl jxlir jr fimxjrgmd-
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Tlw g gx gf~jrx`mx:
@ee j y gmqjeqih gm lie~gmd tjrc miih xj riibx jm jyr tjrc oib`yi ti `ri lyf`m ,ti
l`qi xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii' `mh oib`yi bjymieegmd g o`ih jm xli ghi` j oigmd `oei
xj bjmmibx xj begimx- Xlii bjmmibxgjm b`m f`ci y qyemir`oei% xliw b`m `t`cim jeh ~rjo&
eif% xliw b`m riqi`e lghhim miih% mh xliw b`m ei`qi y iiegmd oyrhimih ow bjf~ei| iie&
gmd- Xliw b`m ej f`ci y iie ~jtirye mh gm bjmxrje% mh jfixgfi xif~xih xj x`ci jqir
xli egqi `mh hibggjm j jyr begimx-
Bjymieejr tlj l`qi mjx l`h wi`r j ~rjigjm`e xr`gmgmd% gm tlgbl xliw `ri bejiew fim&
xjrih `mh imbjyr`dih xj l`qi xligr jtm gm&hi~xl bjymieegmd% `ri i~ibg`eew qyemir`oei xj
jfi j xli bl`eeimdi hibrgoih ojqi- Mjm&jrf`e bjymieejr gm Rjyxl @rgb` ,i-d- bjymie&
ejr tlj tjrc tgxl xiei~ljmi `mh `bi&xj&`bi bjymieegmd gm ` r`mdi j MDJ' l`qi jxim
l`h ljrx `mh gmximi xr`gmgmd xj dgqi xlif o`gb cgee xj hi`e tgxl xli fjx bjffjm ~rjo&
eif ~ij~ei `bi gm xligr iqirwh`w egqi- Rybl bjyri b`mmjx ipyg~ xlii bjymieejr xj bj~i
tgxl fjri bjf~ei| ~rjoeif mh gxy`xgjm mh xliw b`mmjx bjf~eixiew ~ri~`ri bjymieejr
jr iqirw bl`eeimdi xliw fgdlx `bi% mh xli ifjxgjm`e oyrhim j bjymieegmd-
LGQ*@GHR g `m i|`f~ei j jmi fihgb`e `mh jbg`e bl`eeimdi tliri xli oyrhim j bjymie&
egmd l` `eeim jm xr`gmih qjeymxiir- Rjyxl @rgb` l` ` bjf~ei| LGQ i~ghifgb tgxl jmi j
xli e`rdix myfoir j ~ij~ei egqgmd tgxl LGQ% xli ogddix @_Q rjee&jyx gm xli tjreh% `mh `
drjtgmd hif`mh jr qjeymx`rw bjymieegmd `mh xixgmd ,QBX' `mh ~riqimxgjm j fjxlir&xj&
blgeh xr`mfggjm ,^FXBX' irqgbi- F`mw LGQ bjymieejr gm Rjyxl @rgb` `ri tjrcgmd gm hg&
byex bgrbyfx`mbi tgxl gm`hipy`xi y~~jrx mh dygh`mbi- Xr`gmgmd j LGQ bjymieejr q`rgi
`brj xli bjymxrw% bjymieejr f`w oi ~jjrew ~`gh jr jqir&tjrcih `mh xliw hj mjx l`qi `
bei`r b`riir ~`xl jr kjo ibyrgxw% `mh jxim oigmd iim ` firi ―qjeymxiir‖- LGQ bjymieejr `ri
jxim i|~ibxih xj `blgiqi dj`e% tlgbl `ri ymri`egxgb% ybl ` oil`qgjyr bl`mdi `mh hgbej&
yri% tgxlgm jmi igjm j bjymieegmd- Gm xlii bjmhgxgjm% f`mw bjymieejr ri`bl ―oyrm&jyx‖
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== 8?
Fjhie ja fimxjrgmd
Gmhgqghy`e fimxjrgmd; Gmhgqghy`e fimxjrgmd jir xli bjymieejr xli j~~jrxymgxw xj hi&
qiej~ ` xryxgmd rie`xgjmlg~ tgxl ` fjri cgeeih `mh i|~irgimbih fimxjr `mh ` `i ~`bi gm
tlgbl xj riibx jm tjrc tgxl begimx% hiqiej~ ` ` bjymieejr `mh drjt ` ` ~irjm- Gx fjx
jxim l`~~im jm ` `bi&xj&`bi o`g% oyx f`w oi xiei~ljmgb jr riew jm trgxxim jr i&f`ge
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Gmhgqghy`e fimxjrgmd dimir eew `eejt fjri xgfi xj bjmbimxr`xi jm ~`rxgbye`r b`i% jr xj ri&
qgit r`mdi j b`i- Gx ej jir fjri gm&hi~xl jby jm xli ~ibgb miih j xli ~`rxgbye`r
bjymieejr- Gx g% ljtiqir% egfgxih ow xli ~ibgb j xli b`i mh bgrbyfx`mbi xli bjymie&
ejr l` imbjymxirih% f`w imbjyr`di hi~imhimbw jm xli fimxjr% jr oi i|~irgimbih ` xjj
gmximi mh hif`mhgmd- Gx g ei bjx&iibxgqi xl`m drjy~ fimxjrgmd mh tgee mjx l`~~im x
`ee g xliri g mj ygx`oei fimxjr `q`ge`oei-
Drjy~ fimxjrgmd; Drjy~ fimxjrgmd jir drjy~ fifoir xli j~~jrxymgxw xj l`ri r`mdi
j i|~irgimbi tgxl begimx% `mh ` q`rgixw j `~~rj`bli ow hgirimx bjymieejr% ` ` o`g jr
riibxgjm jm ~ibgb b`i% hiqiej~fimx ` drjy~ fifoir `mh ~irjm`e drjtxl- Drjy~
fimxjrgmd riegi jm drjy~ fifoir `bxgqiew imd`dgmd tgxl b`i xl`x `ri ―~riimxih‖ ow jmi
j xli drjy~ gm jrhir xj ~rjqghi bjffimx mh gx`mbi jr xl`x bjymieejr% mh x xli `fi
xgfi xj ei`rm jr xlifieqi-
Drjy~ fimxjrgmd f`w oi `bgegx`xih ow fimxjr% jr ow ` drjy~ fifoir ,jr fifoir' bxgmd
xj `bgegx`xi ` hgbygjm `fjmdx ~iir- Gm igxlir b`i% ` x`mh`rh ~rjbi tgee yy`eew oi je&
ejtih xj `bgegx`xi hgbygjm% f`m`di drjy~ hwm`fgb `mh% ` `r ` ~jgoei% `bbjffjh`xi
xli miih j hgirimx drjy~ fifoir ‒ g mjx gm ` ~`rxgbye`r igjm% xlim jqir ` irgi j
igjm-
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j xli lgx gm jby `fjmdx drjy~ fifoir gm xli bjyri j ` igjm% drjy~ fimxjrgmd
f`w oi ei `m|gixw&~rjqjcgmd jr bjymieejr `mh oi ei egciew xj imbjyr`di hi~imhimbi-
Ljtiqir% jfi bjymieejr f`w mh gx fjri hgbyex xj oi j~im ojyx hgbyex i|~irgimbi gm
` drjy~ `mh l`qi ei bjmhimbi gm xli j~gmgjm j ~iir- Ajr drjy~ fimxjrgmd xj oi iib&
xgqi% hwm`fgb ybl hjfgm`mbi% bjmgbx% jr bjf~ixgxgjm miih xj oi ~rj~irew f`m`dih-
Bljjgmd ` fjhie
Oib`yi ojxl gmhgqghy`e `mh drjy~ fimxjrgmd l`qi xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii% tliri ~j&
goei% bjfogm`xgjm j ojxl g yiye% jr i|`f~ei ridye`r drjy~ fimxjrgmd% y~~eifimxih ow
ei ripyimx gmhgqghy`e fimxjrgmd- Gm xli b`i j drjy~ fimxjrgmd% gx g lie~ye xj l`qi jfi&
jmi cgeeih gm bjymieegmd `mh gm rymmgmd drjy~ xj `bgegx`xi xli fimxjrgmd igjm- Tliri
xlg g mjx ~jgoei% ~iir fimxjrgmd b`m xgee oi `m iibxgqi xjje xj y~~jrx `mh iml`mbi xli
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Gm xli b`i j ~iir fimxjrgmd% gx g lie~ye xj x`rx j tgxl m i|xirm`e fimxjr mh tliri ~j&
goei% xj bjmxgmyi xj l`qi jbb`gjm`e igjm tgxl xli fimxjr- Tlim drjy~ fifoir `bx ``bgegx`xjr% xlg b`m oi hjmi jm xli o`g j ` rjxir3 jr yi j ` qjeymxiir jr ow mjfgm`xgjm-
Xli drjy~ f`w ~riir xj yi jfijmi dimir`eew rid`rhih gm xli drjy~ l`qgmd fjri i|~irg&
imbi ` ` bjymieejr% jr oigmd fjri iibxgqi ` ` drjy~ `bgegx`xjr-
Ljtiqir% xli drjy~ ljyeh `qjgh ygmd xli `fi ~irjm xlrjydljyx% ` xlg egfgx j~~jrxymg&
xgi jr xl`x ~irjm xj ~`rxgbg~`xi ` ` ~iir gm xli drjy~ `mh jr jxlir xj hiqiej~ `bgegx`xgjm
cgee- L`qgmd `bgegx`xjr mh bj&`bgegx`xjr jr i`bl igjm g jmi t`w xj ~riqimx jqir&rieg`mbi
jm jmi jr xtj ~ij~ei xj yee xlg ymbxgjm-
Drjy~ fimxjrgmd gm fjri hix`ge
^e`mmgmd jr fimxjrgmd drjy~; Rjfijmi ljyeh x`ci ri~jmgogegxw xj ~e`m xli rx igjm
j ` fimxjrgmd drjy~- Xlg ~irjm ljyeh jrd`mgi ` ~e`bi xj fiix `mh ix`oegl xl`x xliri
g imjydl ~`bi `mh ~rgq`bw jr xli fiixgmd% `ee mibi`rw ~irfggjm l`qi oiim jox`gmih%
`mh blibc tlixlir ririlfimx ljyeh oi jrd`mgih- Xliri ljyeh oi xli mibi`rw ipyg~&
fimx ,i-d- g wjy t`mx xj yi ` g~bl`rx xj yff`rgi ` b`i jr trgxi hjtm drjymh ryei' `mh
imjydl bl`gr- Xli ~e`mmir ljyeh ej gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx mh i|~e`gm xli xgfi bjffgxfimx
gmqjeqih jr xli rx fiixgmd ‒ xli eimdxl `mh myfoir j e`xir igjm tgee oi `driih jm owxli drjy~ ‒ `mh lie~ jrx jyx xr`m~jrx ripygrifimx% g ~jgoei-
Xli ~lwgb`e ix y~ j ` drjy~; Tlgei ejb`e ixxgmd f`w l`qi rijyrbi `mh ~`bi bjm&
xr`gmx% tliri ~jgoei xrw xj rr`mdi i`xgmd xj imyri f`|gfyf ~`rxgbg~`xgjm j ee- @ bgrbei
xw~i&i`xgmd ~e`m jr ` Y&l`~ih `rr`mdifimx `eejt jr iqirwjmi xj ii i`bl jxlir `mh jr
xlif xj gmxir`bx tgxl i`bl jxlir- G ~jgoei% qjgh yi j hic jr x`oei% tlgbl ximh xj bx `
` o`rrgir xj djjh gmxir`bxgjm-
Bjmxr`bxgmd; Xli ~irjm tlj l` b`eeih xli drjy~ xjdixlir ljyeh gmxrjhybi lgfie jrlirie% dgqi orgi i|~e`m`xgjm j fimxjrgmd mh tlw gx g gf~jrx`mx% mh yff`rgi xli ~yr&
~ji j xli fiixgmd- R*li ljyeh xlim `c iqirwjmi xj gmxrjhybi xlifieqi `mh xj i|~e`gm
tl`x xliw tjyeh i|~ibx rjf ` fimxjrgmd drjy~- Xlii i|~ibx`xgjm ljyeh oi hgbyih
`mh xlim xli drjy~ ljyeh `drii jm jfi jqir`ee dj`e jr xli fimxjrgmd drjy~ ‒ xlii b`m
oi b`~xyrih jm ` g~bl`rx-
Ei`rmgmd xlrjydl drjy~ fimxjrgmd fi`m x`cgmd rgc `mh i|~jgmd jmi‗ qyemir`ogegxgi- @m
gf~jrx`mx hibggjm bjmbirm tlixlir xli drjy~ tgee oi bejih jr j~im mh ljt mit ~ij~ei
tgee oi gmqgxih xj kjgm xli drjy~- @ bejih drjy~ f`w jxir dri`xir xryx `fjmd fifoir% oyxf`w oi hgbyex xj yx`gm gm xli ejmd rym-
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Gx g `ej gf~jrx`mx xj `drii jm drjymh ryei jr djjh drjy~ oil`qgjyr `mh
jyxbjfi- @ xw~gb`e ix j drjymh ryei bjqir xli jeejtgmd xlifi;
Fjx gf~jrx`mxew% `drii jm ` r`fitjrc jr ljt i`bl fimxjrgmd igjm tgee oi rym rjf
x`rx xj mgl-
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@ yddixih ar`fitjrc ajr drjy~ fimxjrgmd
Drjy~ fimxjrgmd% tlixlir fimxjr&eih jr gmqjeqgmd jmew ~iir% g iml`mbih ow ygmd `fgeg`r
r`fitjrc xj lie~ drjy~ fifoir imd`di tgxl xli ~rjbi `mh bjmx`gm drjy~ hwm`fgb-
Xli r`fitjrc miih xj oi hgbyih `mh `driih ` ~`rx j xli bjmxr`bxgmd ~rjbi tlim
x`rxgmd fimxjrgmd drjy~-
Xli jeejtgmd ~l`i `ri bjffjmew gmbeyhih gm xli r`fitjrc-
J~imgmd ,9‒0> fgmyxi'
Xli `bgegx`xjr bjmrf xli ri`hgmi j drjy~ xj x`rx `mh gmxrjhybi ` t`rf&y~ `b&
xgqgxw ,gbi&ori`cir' xj dix fifoir rie`|ih `mh x`ecgmd- Ajr i|`f~ei% l`qi i`bl drjy~
fifoir dgqi jmi tjrh tlgbl hibrgoi ljt xlgmd l`qi oiim gmbi xli e`x fiixgmd-
Xli `bgegx`xjr xlim blibc xl`x xli fifoir ri~jmgoei jr ~riimxgmd g ri`hw xj hj
j- G rieiq`mx% xli `bgegx`xjr be`rgi tlixlir xliri `ri `mw jyx&j&xyrm ripyix% `eejt
orgi hgbygjm `mh ` hibggjm tlixlir xj `eejt gx jr yddix `exirm`xgqi t`w xj dix
lie~ tgxl xli ripyix-
^riimx`xgjm ,0>‒?> fgmyxi'
Ygmd ~ri~`rih mjxi% xli ~riimxir ~riimx xli b`i jeejtgmd ` wxif`xgb jrf`x
,ii B`i ~riimx`xgjm jrf`x oiejt'- Xli ~riimxir ljyeh xrw xj cii~ xli ~riimx`xgjm
bei`r mh xr`gdlxjrt`rh j xl`x jxlir drjy~ fifoir l`qi yee ~gbxyri xj tjrc tgxl-
Hyrgmd xli ~riimx`xgjm% jxlir drjy~ fifoir f`w f`ci mjxi xj rifgmh xlifieqi
j ciw ~jgmx% jr j pyixgjm-
Be`rgb`xgjm ,0>‒09 fgmyxi'
Ajeejtgmd ` rjymh&rjogm `~~rj`bl% drjy~ fifoir `c pyixgjm xl`x tgee lie~ xlif
xj ymhirx`mh xli gxy`xgjm oixxir ,i-d- ljt jeh g \: ljt ejmd l` \ oiim iiegmd xlg t`w:
tl`x f`hi \ hibghi xj bjfi jr bjymieegmd: '- Egfgx pyixgjm xj jmi ~ir drjy~ fifoir%
jr ix xgfi egfgx jr cgmd pyixgjm ,i-d- 9 fgmyxi'- Pyixgjm ljyeh jby f`gmew jm
xli b`i mh xli begimx% r`xlir xl`m jm ljt xli bjymieejr gmxirqimih- Pyixgjm ljyeh
mjx gmbeyhi ~jgoei gmxir~rix`xgjm jr jeyxgjm- Drjy~ fifoir ljyeh xrw xj `qjgh
eimdxlw% r`foegmd x`xifimx% tgxljyx bei`r pyixgjm- Xli ~riimxir b`m ri~jmh xir
i`bl pyixgjm% jr `x xli imh j `ee xli pyixgjm-
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^riimxir‗ ripyix ,9 fgmyxi' Xli ~riimxir xlim i|~e`gm lg*lir ri`jm jr ~riimxgmd xlg b`i ‒ tl`x *li jymh i&
~ibg`eew hgbyex ,i-d- mjx cmjtgmd ljt xj gmxirqimi% jr mjx ymhirx`mhgmd tlw xli begimx
ri`bxih gm ` ~`rxgbye`r t`w% jr iiegmd gm`hipy`xi xj fiix xli begimx‗ miih% jr oib`yi
j iiegmd iqjcih ow xli begimx jr lg*lir gxy`xgjm'% `mh*jr tl`x *li t`mx rjf xli
drjy~ ,i-d- yddixgjm jm ljt xj gmxirqimi% ljt xj ymhirx`mh xli begimx‗ ri`bxgjm%
ljt xj ymhirx`mh jr hi`e tgxl iiegmd j gm`hipy`bw jr jxlir iiegmd iqjcih ow xli
begimx'-
_iibxgjm ,?‒2 fgmyxi'
Xj imbjyr`di drjy~ fifoir xj jby jm xli ~riimxir‗ ripyix r`xlir xl`m xligr jtm
ri`bxgjm xj xli b`i jr xj xli bjymieejr‗ gmxirqimxgjm% eejt xgfi jr fifoir xj riibx
jm xli b`i `mh xli ~riimxir‗ ripyix mh bjmghir ljt xj ri~jmh-
Drjy~ fifoir‗ bjffimx ,09‒?> fgmyxi'
I`bl drjy~ fifoir dgqi iiho`bc% jbyih jm xli ~riimxir‗ ripyix% x`cgmd b`ri
xj bjffymgb`xi bjmxrybxgqiew ,ii _jei oiejt'- Xli ~riimxir egxim xj i`bl bjf&fimx mh f`w f`ci mjxi% oyx hji mjx ri~jmh% i|bi~x xj c jr mw be`rgb`xgjm *li
miih- Xlg hibri`i ~riyri jm xli ~riimxir xj hiimh ` ~jgmx j qgit jr `bxgjm `mh
`bgegx`xi fjri jbyih xximxgjm jm tl`x g oigmd `gh-
_iibxgjm ,?‒2 fgmyxi'
@eejt xli ~riimxir ` it fgmyxi xj bjmghir xli bjffimx `mh lg*lir ri`bxgjm xj
xlif- Jxlir drjy~ fifoir b`m x`ci xli xgfi xj bjmghir tl`x xliw l`qi ei`rmih rjf
xli igjm j `r% jr xj x`ci ` orgi xrixbl ori`c-
^riimxir‗ ri~jmi ,9‒0> fgmyxi'
Xli ~riimxir ri~jmh xj xli bjffimx% `ej x`cgmd b`ri xj bjffymgb`xi bjmxryb&
xgqiew- R*li f`w gmhgb`xi gm tl`x t`w ` bjffimx t` lie~ye% jr tliri `mh tlw *li
ii xlgmd hgirimxew% jr f`w l`qi hgbyexw ~~ewgmd ` yddixgjm- Xli ~riimxir imh
tgxl ` yff`rw j tl`x *li l` ei`rmih `mh tl`x *li gmximh xj hj ` ` riyex j xli
igjm-
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J~im hgbygjm ,9‒0> fgmyxi'
I`bl igjm ljyeh imh ~rj~irew- Hi~imhgmd jm xli xgfi `q`ge`oei `mh tl`x l` l`~&
~imih hyrgmd xli igjm% drjy~ fifoir b`m oi gmqgxih xj riibx jm tl`x xliw l`qi
ei`rmih rjf xli igjm `mh ljt xliw `ri iiegmd% jr xj bjmghir `~ibx j xli drjy~
~rjbi% jr ljt xli `bgegx`xjr,' f`m`dih xli igjm- @mw hibggjm `ojyx xli mi|x
fimxjrgmd igjm `mh tlj tgee ~riimx ljyeh oi x`cim mjt% j xl`x gx g bei`r tlj
miih xj ~ri~`ri- @mw jxlir ~rjoeif jr ymbirx`gmxgi ljyeh oi hi`ex tgxl% jr rr`mdi&
fimx f`hi xj `hhri xlif `x xli mi|x igjm jr gm jfi jxlir `~~rj~rg`xi t`w-
_jei; @ee drjy~ fifoir l`qi ` ri~jmgogegxw xj imd`di bjmxrybxgqiew gm xli fimxjrgmd
~rjbi `mh xj imbjyr`di ` djjh tjrcgmd begf`xi- Gm `hhgxgjm% ljtiqir% xli `bgegx`xjr,'%
~riimxir `mh jxlir drjy~ fifoir i`bl l`qi xligr jtm ymgpyi rjei xj ~e`w-
A`bgegx`xjr; Xli `bgegx`xjr g ri~jmgoei jr `bgegx`xgmd xli drjy~‗ tjrcgmd xlrjydl xli hg&
irimx ~l`i j xli r`fitjrc% jr fjmgxjrgmd drjy~ hwm`fgb `mh f`gmx`gmgmd ri`jm`oei
tjrcgmd rie`xgjmlg~ `fjmdx fifoir- R*li miih xj jxir bjmhgxgjm xl`x imbjyr`di
~rjigjm`e `mh ~irjm`e drjtxl j xli ~riimxir `mh jxlir drjy~ fifoir- R*li miih xj
fjhie ri~ibxye% y~~jrxgqi `mh riibxgqi oil`qgjyr jr drjy~ fifoir `mh gmxirqimi g
jqirew brgxgb`e jr gmimgxgqi bjffimx `ri f`hi- R*li miih xj imyri xl`x `ee drjy~ fif&
oir `ri `oei xj ~`rxgbg~`xi `mh xj gmxirqimi g jmi fifoir jr ` yo&drjy~ oidgm xj hjfg&
m`xi- Ygmd rjymh&rjogm xiblmgpyi mh eejtgmd jmew jmi pyixgjm jr bjffimx ~ir ~irjm
b`m oi yiye- R*li miih xj oi j~im xj iiho`bc jm lir*lg `bgegx`xgjm% `eejtgmd jr lir*lg
jtm drjtxl ` ` `bgegx`xjr-
^riimxir; Xli ~riimxir g ri~jmgoei jr bljjgmd ` b`i xj ~riimx `mh ~ri~`rgmd xli
mibi`rw f`xirg`e gm `hq`mbi ,ii B`i ~riimx`xgjm jrf`x oiejt'- R*li miih xj dgqi jfi
xljydlx xj tlw *li l` bljim xlg b`i `mh tl`x *li tjyeh egci xj dix jyx j xli fim&
xjrgmd ~rjbi ,`exljydl xlg f`w oi riqgih `xir egximgmd xj pyixgjm rjf jxlir drjy~
fifoir'- R*li ljyeh xrw xj ~riimx xli b`i ` bei`rew `mh bjmbgiew ` ~jgoei% oyx tgxl
imjydl hix`ge j xl`x jxlir drjy~ fifoir l`qi imjydl gmjrf`xgjm xj f`ci imi j xli
b`i- R*li ljyeh xrw xj oi ljmix ojyx hgbyexgi *li l` i|~irgimbih% xlg tgee iml`mbi
tl`x *li b`m ei`rm-
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R*li ljyeh xrw xj `mtir pyixgjm bei`rew% oyx gmhgb`xi tlim *li hji mjx l`qi xli gm&
jrf`xgjm- R*li ljyeh egxim b`riyeew xj drjy~ fifoir‗ bjffimx `mh xrw xj ii xlif `
dimygmi `xxif~x xj lie~% iqim xljydl xliw `ri o`ih jm jmew ~`rxg`e gmjrf`xgjm `ojyx xli
gxy`xgjm- @mw brgxgb`e bjffimx ljyeh oi iim j~~jrxymgxgi xj ei`rm- R*li miih xj xrw xj
hr`t jyx x ei`x jmi eijm jr ~jgoei bjyri j bxgjm rjf xli ~rjbi mh oi ~ri~`rih xj
xrw xj gf~eifimx xlg gm lir*lg ~r`bxgbi-
Gm bjffymgb`xgmd tgxl jxlir drjy~ fifoir% *li miih xj bjmqiw ri~ibx `mh `~~ribg`&
xgjm jr xligr ijrx- Xliri g mj miih xj ri~jmh xj iqirw gmdei bjffimx% oyx gx g lie~ye xj
oi `oei xj yff`rgi xli f`gm ghi` `mh xj lgdlegdlx ~jgmx xl`x *li gmximh xj xlgmc fjri
`ojyx jr xrw jyx gm ~r`bxgbi-
Drjy~ fifoir; Drjy~ fifoir ri ri~jmgoei jr bxgqiew egximgmd xj mh imd`dgmd tgxl
xli ~riimxir% gm jrhir ojxl xj oi `oei xj jir lie~ye bjffimx xj xli ~riimxir `mh xj jxir
xligr jtm ei`rmgmd Drjy~ fifoir miih xj oi imgxgqi gm ljt xliw ~lr`i xligr pyixgjm
`mh bjffimx% oigmd t`ri xl`x xliw ri i|~rigmd kyx jmi ~jgmx j qgit `mh rjf jyxghi
xli ri`e bjymieegmd gxy`xgjm- Xliw miih xj `bbi~x xl`x xli ~riimxir g mjx joegdih xj ii
xlgmd xligr t`w jr x`ci y~ xligr yddixgjm-
Gm f`cgmd bjffimx% drjy~ fifoir miih xj xrw xj ~yx xlifieqi gm xli lji j xli ~ri&imxir% xlgmcgmd mjx jmew `ojyx tl`x xliw t`mx xj `w% oyx `ej ljt gx f`w oi li`rh- Xrw xj
`qjgh f`cgmd bjffimx tlgbl jymh `bbygmd jr kyhdfimx`e- F`cgmd bjffimx xl`x `ri
ximx`xgqi% jr jirgmd j~xgjm% g mjxlir t`w xj dgqi xli ~riimxir riihjf xj bbi~x jr rikibx
` ~`rxgbye`r x`xifimx- Rjfi yiye ~lr`i xj x`rx ` bjffimx ri; ―xli t`w G ymhirx`mh xli
gxy`xgjm g‡-‖% ―~irl`~ xli begimx t` iiegmd*xrwgmd xj `w‡‖% ―G tjmhir tlixlir‡-‖% ―fw yd&
dixgjm tjyeh oi‡‖% jmi j~xgjm tjyeh oi‡‖% ―`mh jfixlgmd G fgdlx xrw tjyeh oi‡‖-
Tlim dgqgmd iiho`bc rififoir xl`x xlg g fjx iibxgqi tlim xliri g ` jymh`xgjm j
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Drjy~ fifoir ljyeh `ej oi j~im xj li`rgmd iiho`bc% ` xlg g xli ~yr~ji j fimxjr&
gmd- Xlg b`m oi l`rh `x rx% oyx gm xgfi gx hji dix i`gir-
Ryddixih b`i ~riimx`xgjm ajrf`x
Tlj g xli begimx:0-
M`fi% g ~~rj~rg`xi ,jr kyx gmgxg`e'u
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Dimhiru
Jbby~`xgjmu
F`rgx`e*rie`xgjmlg~ x`xyu
Blgehrimu
Egqgmd gxy`xgjmu
Byrrimx xrijru
_ieiq`mx lgxjrw ,rie`xgjmlg~% li`exl gyi% fimx`e li`exl% ihyb`xgjm% jbg`e*bye&u
xyr`e*riegdgjy `bxjr'
Ljt hgh xli begimx ~riimx% g-i- ljt tiri xliw hriih% ljt hgh xliw ejjc% b`m wjyu
yf y~ xligr dimir`e xxgxyhi*`~~rj`bl xj wjy:
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Yi ` dimjdr`f% g jox`gmih- Xl`x g% hr`t ` `fgew xrii% tlgbl ljt xli ciw ~ij~ei gm xli
begimx‗ egi ,ii imh j xlg ibxgjm jr `f~ei dimjdr`f'-
Ljt hgh G bjfi xj ii xli begimx:?-
Tliri hj G tjrc% cgmh j jrd`mg`xgjm:u
Tl`x g fw rjei gm xli jrd`mg`xgjm ,b`m oi fjri xl`m jmi':u
Ljt hgh xli begimx dix riirrih xj fi:u
Ljt jxim l`qi G iim xlif:u
Tl`x g xli begimx‗ xjrw:2-
Tlw hgh xli begimx bjfi jr bjymieegmd:u
Tl`x `ri xli gyi xliw `ri hi`egmd tgxl rgdlx mjt:u
Ljt ejmd l` xliri oiim ` ~rjoeif:u
@ri xliri jxlir ~rjoeif% mh ri xliw egmcih xj xli ~riimxgmd ~rjoeif:u
Tl`x l` xli begimx hjmi xj xrw `mh hi`e tgxl ~rjoeif:u
Tl`x hgh G hj gm xli igjm:8-
Tl`x cgee hgh G ~yx gmxj ~r`bxgbi ,i-d- bjmxr`bxgmd% riibxgmd% egximgmd% yff`rg&u
gmd% ri&~lr`gmd% bl`eeimdgmd% ~rjoeif jeqgmd':
Gmxirqimxgjm ‒ tl`x hgh G hj jqir `mh `ojqi xli cgee% i-d- hgh G dgqi xli begimxu
ljfitjrc% hgh G riir jr m iq`ey`xgjm% hgh G hgby oil`qgjyr bl`mdi fixljh:
Ljt hgh G iie hyrgmd `mh `xir xli igjm ,egx iiegmd tjrh':9-
Ljt hgh xli begimx iif xj iie hyrgmd `mh `xir xli igjm ,egx iiegmd tjrh':1-
Ljt hgh xli begimx `mh G rie`xi xj i`bl jxlir ,i-d- t` xliri ` djjh bjmmibxgjm% hgh gx4-
iif xryx `mh j~immi t` hiqiej~ih% hgh xli begimx rif`gm hiimgqi `mh t`rw':
Tl`x g xli t`w jrt`rh `driih tgxl xli begimx:<-
@f G djgmd xj ii xli begimx `d`gm:7-
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`eew ―drjy~ hwm`fgb‖ ifirdi- Gm xli oidgmmgmd% i~ibg`eew g ~ij~ei hj mjx cmjt i`bl jxlir%
fifoir f`w oi b`yxgjy gm ~~rj`blgmd i`bl jxlir mh xliw tgee oi ximx`xgqi gm f`cgmd hi&
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gbx g xliri g hg`driifimx `ojyx tl`x xli drjy~ g xrwgmd xj `blgiqi `mh tl`x rjei ~ij~ei
ljyeh ~e`w- Himgmd dj`e `mh ryei j oil`qgjyr b`m lie~ xj ix jfi o`gb `driifimx gm
~e`bi- Tlim xliri g `driifimx% xli drjy~ g `oei xj jby jm gx bjri x`c% ybl ` jirgmd
y~~jrx `mh dygh`mbi xj i`bl jxlir jm bjymieegmd- G mit ~ij~ei kjgm xli drjy~% gx f`w oimibi`rw xj mh ` t`w j tiebjfgmd xlif xlrjydl gmxrjhybxgjm `mh riqggxgmd xli drjy~‗
~yr~ji% drjymh ryei `mh t`w j tjrcgmd- Rjfixgfi mit ~ij~ei b`m lgx xli imirdw jr
rjei gm ` drjy~ `mh ximgjm b`m `rgi- Jr i|gxgmd drjy~ fifoir b`m dix gmxj bjmgbx ,iie&
gmd `ri lyrx% jfijmi xrgi xj oi xjj ojw% ` drjy~ fifoir riyi xj bjmxrgoyxi'- Xlii
bl`eeimdi ljyeh oi hgbyih `mh rijeqih ,ii ghi` oiejt'- G ` drjy~ bjfi xj `m imh gx
g ` djjh ghi` xj x`ec `ojyx xlg imhgmd% xj bieior`xi ybbii% `bcmjteihdi hgbyexgi `mh
xj ~i`c ojyx xli iiegmd tlgbl f`w bjfi y~ ,`hmi% riegi% i|bgxifimx'-
Bjymieejr tgee ii gfge`rgxgi oixtiim xlg orgi hibrg~xgjm j ljt drjy~ jxim tjrc `mhxli kjyrmiw oixtiim ` begimx `mh bjymieejr- Gm xli oidgmmgmd xliri g ymbirx`gmxw `mh hg&
bjqirw% drjymh ryei `mh bjmxr`bx miih xj oi hr`tm y~% `mh ` xryx oygeh% j~immi `mh
hii~ir bjffymgb`xgjm b`m l`~~im- Tlim xli begimx mh ` jeyxgjm xliw `ri l`~~w tgxl% jr
g xliw iie ei oyrhimih ow xligr ~rjoeif% xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ bjfi xj `m imh gm
` midjxg`xih t`w-
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~rjoeif b`m oi `hhriih% tlixlir gx g ` jrf`e% ridye`r drjy~ jr ` fjri b`y`e `mh gmri&
pyimx drjy~-
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mj jrf`e ei`hir tgxl xr`gmgmd gm drjy~ fimxjrgmd% xlii xg~ b`m oi yih ow xli ~irjm tlj
l` oiim ieibxih xj rym xli ~iir fimxjrgmd igjm jr xl`x h`w ,jr g xliri g ` bj&`bgegx`xjr%
xlim xli xtj b`m gf~eifimx xli xg~ xjdixlir'-
Fjx ~ij~ei rigx bl`mdi `mh mh gx ymtiebjfi `mh xlri`ximgmd- Xli qirw m`xyri j fim&
xjrgmd ripygri drjy~ fifoir xj ei`rm `mh drjt `mh dix iiho`bc jm xligr ~irjrf`mbi
` bjymieejr- _igx`mbi bjyeh ljt gxie gm e`xi bjfgmd% mjx `oghgmd ow drjymh ryei% mjx
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xj ~`rxgbg~`xi% mh j jm- Xlii ljyeh oi hhriih ow dgqgmd iiho`bc mh rifgmhir j xli
ryei-
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G xliri g e`bc j ~`rxgbg~`xgjm% riqgit xli xi~ mh imbjyr`di i`bl ~irjm xj f`ci bjf&
fimx ripygrih ow xli fjhie- G gx iif xliri g xgee ~rjoeif wjy b`m xj~ xli drjy~ mh
yddix 9&fgmyxi hgbygjm jm tl`x g l`~~imgmd- G xliri g hiqg`xgjm rjf xli hgbygjm%
xlg b`m grrgx`xi jxlir drjy~ fifoir `mh ei`h xj ` ej j jby `mh hgribxgjm-
_ifgmh xli gmhgqghy`e gm dimxei t`w `ojyx xli yokibx ymhir hgbygjm mh imbjyr`di lirjr lgf xj x`w jm xr`bc- G xliri g gm`~~rj~rg`xi oil`qgjyr ,` ~rikyhgbih rif`rc% o`h e`mdy`di%
`m gm`~~rj~rg`xi kjci jr bjffimx% ryhimi'% riir xj xli drjymh ryei jm ri~ibx- G xliri `ri
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qghy`e xj l`ri xligr ghi` tgxl xli e`rdir drjy~- G xliri `ri xgfi ~rjoeif% rifgmh xli drjy~
j xlg `mh dix `driifimx jm ri&jbygmd jokibxgqi jr xli fiixgmd- G xliri g ymbirx`gmxw gm
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>7l>> 0- ? Drjy~&ryei 89 fgm
>7l89 0- 2 ^ri&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 2> fgm
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00l89 0- 1 Rie&x`xifimx mh Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt 1> fgm
0?l89 Eymbl 89 fgm
02l2> 0- 4 Hgbjqirgmd hgirimbi 9> fgm
08l?> 0- < Ori`xlgmd i|irbgi 0> fgm
08l2> 0- 7 Byexyr`e imgxgqgxw 89 fgm
09l09 Xi` 09 fgm
09l2> 0-0> I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi 09 fgm
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><l2> 0- ? Blibc gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 09 fgm
><l89 0- 2 @m i|~irgimbi j oigmd lie~ih 89 fgm
>7l2> 0- 8 ^yr~ji j bjymieegmd 2> fgm
0>l>> Xi` 09 fgm
0>l09 0- 9 Xli xlrii _‗ j bjymieegmd 2> fgm
0>l89 0- 1 Ixlgb mh q`eyi j bjymieegmd 2> fgm
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0?l>> 0-0< Rl`rgmd ~irjm`e gmjrf`xgjm 2> fgm
0?l2> Eymbl 89 fgm
02l09 0- 07 RJEI_&F@^ 8> fgm
02l99 0- ?> Bjymieegmd r`fitjrc mh bjmxr`bxgmd 9> fgm
08l89 Xi` 09 fgm
09l>> 0- ?0 Bjymieegmd gm hgirimx bjmxi|x 2> fgm
09l2> 0- ?? ^jx&bjyri pyixgjmm`gri mh bl`eeimdi 09 fgm
09l89 Blibc&jyx mh qiro`e iq`ey`xgjm 2> fgm
Fjhyei ? ‒ ^rgf`rw Bjymieegmd Rcgee ,8 H`w'
H`w Xlrii; @ fjhie j bjymieegmd
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0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm
0>l89 ?- 8 Dgqgmd mh ribigqgmd iiho`bc 2> fgm
00l09 ?- 9 @ fjhie j bjymieegmd 89 fgm
0?l>> ?- 1 Hgirimbi oixtiim oigmd bjymieejr mh rgimh 2> fgm
0?l2> Eymbl 89 fgm
02l09 ?- 4 Rxi~~gmd xjmi 49 fgm
08l2> Xi` 09 fgm
08l89 ?- < Egi&oj`x ,kyhdifimx' i|irbgi 1> fgm
09l89 ?- 7 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm
09l9> ?-0> Blibc jyx ?9 fgm
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X r ` g m g m d b l i h y e i O
94 55
H`w Ajyr; Lie~gmd begimx xiee xligr xjrgi ‒ egximgmd
><l2> ?-00 Blibc&gm riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
>7l>> ?- 0? Dyigmd mjm&qiro`e iiegmd 2> fgm
>7l89 ?- 02 @bxgqi egximgmd 1> fgm
0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm
0>l89 ?- 08 Oejbc xj egximgmd 89 fgm
00l2> ?- 09 Ygmd geimbi iibxgqiew 89 fgm
0?l09 Eymbl 89 fgm
02l>> ?- 01 Rie&`t`rimi i|irbgi jm bj~gmd cgee 1> fgm
02l89 ?- 04 Egximgmd ‒ ―tl`x G li`rh wjy `w‖ 2> fgm
08l2> Xi` 09 fgm
08l89 ?- 0< Rxjrgi i|irbgi 1> fgm
09l89 ?- 07 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm
09l9> ?- ?> Blibc jyx ?9 fgm
H`w Agqi; Lie~gmd begimx xiee xligr xjrgi ‒ ri~jmhgmd
><l2> ?- ?0 Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
>7l>> ?- ?? Rie&`t`rimi i|irbgi jm ―oil`qgjyr bl`mdi‖ 89 fgm
>7l89 ?- ?2 Ifjxgjm b`rh 89 fgm
0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm
0>l89 ?- ?8 Aiiegmd rx 1> fgm
00l89 ?- ?9 If~`xlgb ri~jmhgmd 89 fgm
0?l2> Eymbl 89 fgm
02l09 ?- ?1 Aiiegmd rjei&~e`w 89 fgm
08l>> Xi` 09 fgm
08l09 ?- ?4 “Ljt G f`ci bljgbi‗ 2> fgm
08l89 ?- ?< Gmxidr`xgmd cgee ‒ ~iir ifimx 1> fgm
09l89 ?- ?7 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm
09l9> ?-2> Blibc jyx ?9 fgm
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== 9<
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><l2> ?-20 Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
>7l>> ?- 2? Drjy~ cmjx 09 fgm
>7l09 ?- 22 I|~ejrgmd xlrjydl ~`r`~lr`gmd mh be`rgwgmd 1> fgm
0>l09 Xi` 09 fgm
0>l2> ?- 28 Gmxirrjd`xjr bxgqgxw ‒ i|~ejrgmd xlrjydl pyixgjmgmd 89 fgm
00l09 ?- 29 Fw xrimdxl mh ti`cmii 2> fgm
00l89 ?- 21 Rcgee xl`x lie~ mh jeyxgjm 89 fgm
0?l2> Eymbl 89 fgm
02l09 ?- 24 Ryff`rggmd cgee 1> fgm
08l09 ?- 2< Gmxidr`xgmd ee xli o`gb bjymieegmd cgee 89 fgm
09l>> Xi` 09 fgm
09l09 ?- 27 ^jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri mh bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
09l89 ?- 8> Blibc jyx mh qiro`e iq`ey`xgjm 2> fgm
Fjhyei 2 ‒ Ribjmh`rw Bjymieegmd Rcgee ,8 H`w'
H`w Riqim; Lie~gmd begimx i|~ejri fjri hii~ew
><l2> 2-0 Tiebjfi% blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
>7l>> 2-? Gmxrjhybxgjm% drjymh&ryei% i|~ibx`xgjm 2> fgm
>7l2> 2-2 _iqgi bjymieegmd fjhie% RJEI_ F@^ 89 fgm
0>l09 2-8 ^ri&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 09 fgm
0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm
0>l89 2- 9 E`wir j iiegmd 2> fgm
00l09 2- 1 @hq`mbih if~`xlw 1> fgm
0?l09 2- 4 _iibxgjm j ~rjbi ,gffihg`bw' 89 fgm
02l>> Eymbl 89 fgm
02l89 2- < J~im q- bejih pyixgjm 89 fgm
08l2> Xi` 09 fgm
08l89 2- 7 Oibjfgmd fjri ~ibgb 1> fgm
09l89 2- 0> I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm
09l9> 2-00 Blibc jyx ?9 fgm
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X r ` g m g m d b l i h y e i O
97 55
H`w Igdlx; Lie~gmd begimx f`ci ` ~e`m
><l2> 2- 0? Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
>7l>> 2- 02 Xlgmc o`bc xj xgfi tlim bl`eeimdih ‡ 2> fgm
>7l2> 2- 08 Bl`eeimdgmd rjei&~e`w 1> fgm
0>l09 Xi` 09 fgm
0>l2> 2- 09 ^rjoeif jeqgmd 2> fgm
00l09 2- 01 Xli xr`b egdlx fjhie 89 fgm
0?l>> 2- 04 Rjeyxgjm mhgmd 89 fgm
0?l89 Eymbl 89 fgm
02l2> 2- 0< ^rjoeif jeqgmd mh jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjmgmd 2> fgm
08l>> 2- 07 ^rjoeif jeqgmd rjei&~e`w 1> fgm
09l>> 2- ?> Xli rjei j “jxlir‗ gm ~rjoeif jeqgmd 2> fgm
09l2> 2-?0 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm
09l9> 2-?? Blibc jyx ?9 fgm
H`w Mgmi; Bjymieegmd bl`eeimdi
><l2> 2-?2 Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
>7l>> 2-?8 Bjmhimxg`egxw 1> fgm
0>l>> 2- ?9 _iqgitgmd cgee 2> fgm
0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm
0>l89 2-?1 Imhgmd cgee 2> fgm
00l09 2-?4 Rgfye`xih bjymieegmd igjm mh ~iir iq`ey`xgjm 1> fgm
0?l09 Eymbl 89 fgm
02l>> 2- ?< Brgg f`m`difimx mh igmd ygbghi 89 fgm
02l89 2- ?7 Tlim xj riir 89 fgm
08l2> Xi` 09 fgm
08l89 2- 2> Fw ifjxgjm`e oyxxjm 1> fgm
09l89 2- 20 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm
09l9> 2-2? Blibc jyx ?9 fgm
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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e
== 1>
H`w Xim; Imhgmd
><l2> 2- 22 Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
>7l>> 2- 28 Bjymieegmd ~jxir 89 fgm
>7l89 2- 29 _iqggjm j bjymieegmd fjhie mh ~~rj`bli 2> fgm
0>l09 Xi` 09 fgm
0>l2> 2- 21 X cgmd b`ri j wjyrie mh ~riqimxgmd oyrmjyx 89 fgm
00l09 2- 24 Rxri f`m`difimx 2> fgm
00l89 2- 2< Ry~irqggjm mh fimxjrgmd% ribjrh&cii~gmd 1> fgm
0?l89 Eymbl 89 fgm
02l2> 2- 27 Gmxidr`xgmd mit cgee gm xli jrd`mg`xgjm 2> fgm
08l>> 2- 8> ^jgxgqi iiho`bc `m 1> fgm
09l>> 2- 80 ^jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 2> fgm
09l2> 2- 8? Blibc&jyx% iq`ey`xgjm mh bl`eeimdi 2> fgm
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H ` g e w B l ` e e i m d i B
10 55
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X ci mjxi `mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-
H`w Xtj
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mjxi `mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-
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H`w Xlrii
_i`h xli Fjhie j bjymieegmd mjxi mh `~~ew xj xli b`i&xyhw-
,Fyexg~ei bljgbi pyixgjm'
H`w Ajyr
Joirqi ~ij~ei‗ mjm&qiro`e ojhw e`mdy`di `rjymh wjy `mh hjbyfimx 2 b`i&
xyhgi-
,Gmbeyhi gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj `mh bjmyex jr `ifimx ~yr~ji g miihih'
H`w Agqi Bjf~eixi Ghimxgw xli iiegmd trgxxim `bxgqgxw `mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-
H`gew Bl`eeimdi
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== 1?
H`w Rg|Tlim x`ecgmd xj ~ij~ei ~r`bxgi yff`rggmd cgee `mh cii~ mjxi-
,Gmbeyhi gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj `mh bjmyex jr `ifimx ~yr~ji g miihih'
H`w Riqim Agee gm Pyixgjmgmd cgee gm bjymieegmd bxgqgxw-
H`w Igdlx _i`h xli b`i&xyhgi- Bljji jmi `mh jrfye`xi ~jgoei jeyxgjm&jbyih
pyixgjm xl`x wjy bjyeh yi gm lie~gmd xli gmhgqghy`e hhri xligr ~rjoeif-
H`w Mgmi Ajrfye`xi egx j ejb`e y~~jrx rijyrbi mh riirr`e jrd`mg xgjm-
H`w Xim
Ayrxlir wjyr bjymieegmd cmjteihdi ow ri`hgmd ojjc `mh rxgbei-
,Egx j ri`hgmd f`xirg`e ~rjqghih'
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12 55
Fjhyei Jmi
^`rx H;
Gmxrjhybxgjm xj bjymieegmd@ mjxih gm xli gmxrjhybxgjm% xlg g ` ?&h`w Fjhyei tlgbl ipyg~ gmhgqghy`e tgxl ` o`gb
ymhirx`mhgmd j xli himgxgjm% ~rgmbg~ei `mh q`eyi j bjymieegmd3 `mh ~rjqghi `m gmxrj&
hybxgjm xj xli o`gb j ixxgmd y~ ` bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~- Xli Fjhyei g `ej bimxrih
jm ie&`t`rimi `mh hiqiej~gmd `m `t`rimi j hgqirgxw- Xlii `ri gmxidr`e gm oygehgmd `
jymh`xgjm% jr ~ri~`rgmd jr bjymieegmd-
Xli Fjhyei l` oiim trgxxim j xl`x gx b`m oi yih tgxl drjy~ tlj f`w mjx dj jm xj bjf&
~eixi Fjhyei ? mh 2% oyx tlj miih m ymhirx`mhgmd j xli o`gb ~~rj`bl xj bjymieegmd
tlgbl g yih gm Rjyxl @rgb` mh xli r`xgjm`ei jr xlg ~~rj`bl- Ajr i|`f~ei% gx bjyeh oi yih
xj xr`gm li`exl&b`ri ~rjigjm`e ybl ` hjbxjr `mh myri jm xli q`eyi `mh gf~jrx`mbi j
bjymieegmd j xl`x xliw ymhirx`mh xli rjei j xli bjymieejr xliw igxlir gmxir`bx tgxl jr
f`m`di- Gm xlg t`w% gx g lj~ih xl`x bjymieejr tgee oi `eejtih xj yee xligr rjei tgxl xli
y~~jrx j xligr bjeei`dyi- Bjymieegmd g jxim fgymhirxjjh ,gx g jxim iim gf~ew l`q&
gmd ` bjmqir`xgjm tgxl ` begimx' jr gx cgee `ri ymhir~e`wih ,gx g jxim oiegiqih `mwjmi b`m
bjymie iqim g xliw l`qi l`h qirw egxxei xr`gmgmd `mh xl`x mj ~ibg`e cgee `ri ripygrih'-
Xli Fjhyei ej i|~ejri tlw `m gmhgqghy`e tjyeh t`mx xj oi ` bjymieejr ‒ xlg g ` q`ey`oei
`mh brybg`e f`xxir xj hgby j xl`x ymri`egxgb i|~ibx`xgjm b`m oi hi`ex tgxl mh ymi|~ejrih
jr ymrijeqih hwm`fgb j~imih y~ `mh `bcmjteihdih- Rjfi gmhgqghy`e imxir bjymieegmd
oib`yi xliw l`qi m ymbjmbgjy miih xj tjrc jm xligr jtm gyi- Xlg g mjx trjmd ~ir i%
oyx gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x ` ~jximxg`e bjymieejr l` l`h `m j~~jrxymgxw xj tjrc xlrjydl xlii
gyi j xl`x begimx hj mjx% gm iibx% oibjfi% xli qilgbei jr xli bjymieejr‗ miih!
Xli Fjhyei imh tgxl ` ejjc x ixxgmd y~ `mh ~ri~`rgmd jr bjymieegmd j xl`x ` ~`rxgbg~`mx
tlj l` ybbiyeew bjf~eixih xlg Fjhyei tgee ymhirx`mh tl`x miih xj oi gm ~e`bi jr i&
ibxgqi bjymieegmd xj l`~~im- Xlg gmbeyhi xli o`gb j xximhgmd mh joirqgmd cgee% cgee
tlgbl tgee eejt xli bjymieejr xj oibjfi fjri iibxgqi bjffymgb`xjr mh egximir-
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== 18
H`w jmi; ymhirx`mhgmd fwiea `mhjxlir
@bxgqgxw 0-0
Gmxrjhybxgjm `mh i|~ibx`xgjm
Mjxi; Gm xlii oejbc% wjy tgee mh q`rgjy lgmx% xg~ `mh mjxi% tlgbl dgqi
fjri hix`geih i|~e`m`xgjm j xli cgee `mh bjmbi~x oigmd ~riimxih
Ryddixih fixljh;
@c i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx xj mh ` ~`rxmir xliw hj mjx cmjt tiee-0-
@c xlif xj hgby;?-
xligr m`fi `mh gx fi`mgmd*ljt xliw b`fi xj l`qi gxu
tliri xliw bjfi rjfu
tliri xliw tjrc `mh tl`x xligr byrrimx tjrc rjei gu
tl`x xligr `qjyrgxi jjh g-u
Xlim gmqgxi i`bl ~`gr xj gmxrjhybi i`bl jxlir xj xli drjy~ `mh `bgegx`xjr- Xli2-
`bgegx`xjr ljyeh xlim gmxrjhybi lgf*lirie-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr i|~ibx`xgjm j xlg bjyri gm xli drjy~-8-
Egx i|~ibx`xgjm jm ` g~bl`rx `mh hgby-9-
_jymh&rjogm gmxrjhyb&
xgjm mh hgbygjm j
i|~ibx`xgjm
^`rxgbg~`mx oibjfiu
oixxir `bpy`gmxih
tgxl i`bl jxlir
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bjyri ri hgbyih-
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19 55
@bxgqgxw 0-?
Drjy~ ryei
Ryddixih fixljh;
@c xli drjy~ xj or`gmxjrf ` egx j mjrf `mh ryei xl`x tjyeh iml`mbi ei`rm&0-
gmd gm xli drjy~ mh bri`xi `i% drjy~&rgimhew ~`bi jr ~`rxgbg~`mx-
Dix iiho`bc rjf drjy~ fifoir `mh egx xlii jm ` ~gibi j g~bl`rx ~`~ir-?-
Rxgbc xli g~bl`rx ~`~ir jm xli o`bc t`ee j xli xr`gmgmd rjjf jr yxyri riir&2-
imbi-
Drjy~ hgbygjm
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xj ix`oegl ` ix j
drjymh ryei `mh `
midjxg`xih r`fi&
tjrc jr iibxgqi
drjy~ tjrc `mh
ei`rmgmd-
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== 11
D_JY^ _YEIR
Wjy tgee oi tjrcgmd gm drjy~ jr fybl j xlg bjyri- Tjrcgmd gm drjy~ dgqi wjy ` bl`mbi
xj ei`rm fjri `ojyx wjyrie `mh jxlir `mh ljt wjy gmxir`bx ‒ tlgbl g tl`x bjymieegmd g
iimxg`eew ojyx!
Bjmhimxg`egxw
^irjm`e gmjrf`xgjm xl`x g hgbyih gm xli drjy~ ljyeh rif`gm gm xli drjy~- G wjy
tjyeh egci xj xiee wjyr `fgew jr rgimh `ojyx wjyr i|~irgimbi gm xli drjy~% imyri xl`x
wjy hjm‗x fimxgjm mw m`fi jr ghimxgwgmd bl`r`bxirgxgb-
Qjeymx`rw ~`rxgbg~`xgjm mh hgribx bjffymgb xgjm
Miqir ~riyrgi `mwjmi xj hj jr `w `mwxlgmd g xliw hjm‗x t`mx xj- @ej% wjy hjm‗x l`qi
xj iie ~riyrgih xj x`ci ~`rx gm bxgqgxgi g wjy hjm‗x iie bjfjrx`oei- Imd`di gm iib&
xgqi iiho`bc ‒ xiee jxlir ljt tl`x xliw `w jr hj f`ci wjy iie-
Djjh f`mmir
Ajr `mw gmxir`bxgjm xj x`ci ~e`bi iibxgqiew xliri l` xj oi ` jymh`xgjm j o`gb ryei
`mh dimir`e djjh f`mmir- Eix jmi ~irjm ~i`c `x ` xgfi `mh hjm‗x x`rx yodrjy~-
G wjy b`m‗x li`r% iie ojrih jr xgrih3 eix wjyr drjy~ `mh xr`gmir cmjt- Rtgxbl biee ~ljmi
j hyrgmd xr`gmgmd% jr eix xli drjy~ mh xr`gmir cmjt g wjy ri i|~ibxgmd m yrdimx b`ee-
F`m`di wjyr xgfi tiee ow `rrgqgmd jm xgfi jr igjm `mh `xir ori`c!
_i~ibx jxlir j~gmgjm% q`eyi `mh aiiegmd% `mh oi j~im xj mit
ghi`
^ij~ei hgir gm xligr oiegi% q`eyi `mh j~gmgjm% `mh xl`x g tl`x f`ci tjrcgmd tgxl
~ij~ei i|bgxgmd `mh bl`eeimdgmd- Oigmd ri~ibxye j jxlir ~ij~ei‗ q`eyi `mh oiegi
hji mjx fi`m wjy l`qi xj bl`mdi wjyr jtm qgit `mh j~gmgjm- Hgbrgfgm`xgjm `mh
~rikyhgbi g bjymxir~rjhybxgqi xj ei`rmgmd `mh g hixrybxgqi gm `mw gmxir`bxgjm% i~i&
bg`eew xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~-
L`qi AYM
Imkjw xli drjy~ i|~irgimbi `mh ~`rxgbg~`xi ` fybl ` ~jgoei- ^r`bxgi xli mit cgee
wjy tgee oi x`ydlx `mh riibx jm tl`x wjy f`w l`qi d`gmih rjf i`bl h`w-
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14 55
@bxgqgxw 0-2
^ri&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri
Ryddixih fixljh;
L`mh jyx ` bj~w j xli0- ^ri&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `mtir xli fyexg~ei&bljgbi pyixgjmm`gri o`ih jm xligr?- byr&
rimx dimir`e cmjteihdi j xli xj~gb-
^`rxgbg~`mx ljyeh mjx riir xj xligr f`my`e xj mtir pyixgjm jr hgby m&2-
tir tgxl jxlir ~`rxgbg~`mx-
Gmjrf ~`rxgbg~`mx xl`x `x xli imh j xli Fjhyei% xliw tgee `mtir xli `fi8-
pyixgjmm`gri jr ie&iq`ey`xgjm mh bjyri iq`ey`xgjm ~yr~ji-
Bjeeibx pyixgjmm`gri mh cii~ gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj-9-
Gmhgqghy`e iq`ey`xgjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi byrrimx cmjte&
ihdi jm `~ibx j
xlg Fjhyei-
Xlg `fi pyixgjm&u
m`gri tgee oi ri~i`xih
`x xli imh j xli
Fjhyei jr iq`ey`xgqi
~yr~ji-
2> fgmyxi
Bj~gi j ^ri&Fjhyei
pyixgjmm`gri0% ? jr 2-
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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e
== 1<
^ri * ^jx&Fjhyei Pyixgjmm`gri ‒ 0
^ei`i bgrbei xli eixxir xl`x wjy xlgmc fjx ~~rj~rg`xiew mtir xli pyixgjm-
@ bjymieejr ~ri~`ri jr bjymieegmd ow rxew;0-
Agmhgmd bjfjrx`oei% ~rgq`xi jbi`-
Imd`dgmd gm ie&`t`rimi mh jxlir t`rimio-
Ejjcgmd jr ~jximxg`e begimxb-
_i`hgmd y~ jm ljt xj hj bjymieegmd-h-
?- Gx g gf~jrx`mx xj cmjt ljt ti x`ec xj jyrieqi ` bjymieejr% oijri ti b`m x`ec
xj jxlir;
Wi`-
Mj-o-
@ bjymieejr tlj g mjx ie&`t`ri f`w;2-
oibjfi ifjxgjm`eew oyrmx jyxh-
bjmyi ~rjigjm`e mh jbg`e ojymh`rgi`-
mjx iibxgqiew lie~ xli begimxo-
`ee j xli `ojqi-b-
Xli ri~jmgogegxw jr bl`mdi `mh drjtxl gm bjymieegmd rif`gm tgxl;8-
xli bjymieejr`-
xli begimxo-
xli begimx `mh xli bjymieejrb-
xli begimx‗ y~~jrx xrybxyri-h-
Bjymieegmd g ojyx;9-
lie~gmd jfijmi gm xrjyoei`-
bri`xgmd ` `i ~`bi tliri ` begimx b`m i|~ejri lg * lir ~rjoeifo-
dgqgmd djjh hqgbi xj jfijmi i|~irgimbgmd ~rjoeifb-
`ee j xli `ojqi-h-
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17 55
1- @m ghi`e bjymieejr;
l` ` djjh imi j lyfjyr`-
g bjmhimxo-
g t`rf `mh `~~rj`bl`oeib-
`ee j xli `ojqi-h-
4- Xlrii ~rgmbg~ei `mh q`eyi xl`x ri fjx gf~jrx`mx gm bjymieegmd ri;
oigmd ri`e% ri~jmgqi `mh ri~ibxye`-
oigmd ibrixgqi% tgi `mh f`xyrio-
oigmd irxgqi% ~rjigjm`e mh j~imb-
oigmd bjmbirmih% ejw`e `mh rgimhew-h-
<- If~`xlw fi`m;
xieegmd xli ~irjm wjy ymhirx`mh tl`x xliw ri djgmd xlrjydl`-
brwgmd `mh e`ydlgmd tgxl xli ~irjmo-
~yxxgmd wjyrie gm xli jxlir ~irjm‗ ljib-
xi~~gmd gmxj xli ~irjm‗ tjreh `mh bjffymgb`xgmd xlg ymhirx`mhgmd-h-
7- Ixlgb`e gyi xj bjmghir gm bjymieegmd gmqjeqi;
bjmhimxg`egxw`-
`eejtgmd xli begimx xj riiew i|~ri lg*lir iiegmdo-
oigmd mjm&kyhdifimx`eb-
`ee j xli `ojqi-h-
0>- @ bjymieejr fyx f`gmx`gm bjmhimxg`egxw;
`x `ee xgfi`-
tgxlgm birx`gm egfgxo-
tlim x`ecgmd xj `mjxlir ~rjigjm`eb-
,o' `mh ,b'-h-
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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e
== 4>
^ri*~jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 0 ‒fjhie `mtir
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40 55
@bxgqgxw 0-8
Fw ~irjm`e `d
Ryddixih fixljh;
^rjkibx eghi jr l`md y~ ~jxir j xli `d-0-
L`mh jyx jyxegmi hr`tgmd j xli `d xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx-?-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ee gm xligr `mtir xj i`bl pyixgjm oiejt% tgxl xli rieiq`mx2-
`mtir jr i`bl bjejyr j xli `d-
Oe`bc ; Tl`x ~`rx j fi hj G lghi rjf jxlir:
_ih; Tl`x `f G ~`gjm`xi `ojyx:
Driim; Tl`x gmyimbih fi fjx ` G drit y~:
Oeyi; Tl`x g fw fjx gf~jrx`mx f`xirg`e ~jigjm:
Wieejt; Tl`x `blgiqifimx f G fjx ~rjyh j:
Tlgxi; Tl`x orgmd fi ~i`bi:
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~ `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri `mh i|~e`gm xligr `mtir tgxl xli8-
drjy~-
G xliri g xgfi% xli `bgegx`xjr b`m i|~ejri q`rgjy `~ibx j xli `d% i-d-;9-
G wjyr `d wgmd lgdl jr iqirwjmi xj ii:u
G gx rjeeih y~ `mh ci~x lghhim:u
@ri wjy ~rjyh j wjyr `d:u
Hji wjyr `d bl`mdi jqir xgfi:u
Rie&`t`rimi i|irbgi
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi ymhirx`mh&
gmd j xli miih jr
gmbri`ih ie&`t`ri&
mi gm xli bjmxi|x
j bjffymgb`xgjm*
bjymieegmd-
^`rxgbg~`mx ei`rmu
fjri `ojyx i`bl
jxlir `mh oygeh xryx-
A`bgegx`xjr ei`rmu
fjri `ojyx ~`rxgbg&
~`mx-
1> fgmyxi
Jyxegmi j `d jru
l`mhjyx
^jxir jr ^jtir&u
~jgmx geeyxr`xgjm j
bjejyrih `d xj yi
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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e
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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e
== 4?
0- Oe`bc; Tl`x ~`rx j fi hj G lghi:
?- _ih; Tl`x `f G ~`gjm`xi `ojyx:
2- Driim; Tl`x gmyimbih fi fjx ` G drit y~:
8- Oeyi; Tl`x g fw fjx gf~jrx`mx f`xirg`e ~jigjm:
9- Wieejt; Tl`x `blgiqifimx `f G fjx ~rjyh j:
1- Tlgxi; Tl`x orgmd fi ~i`bi:
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42 55
Oygehgmd @ Bjymieegmd Ajymh`xgjm‒ @t`rimi ja Riea `mh Jxlir
Oijri bjymieegmd b`m oidgm% ` jegh jymh`xgjm miih xj oi oygex- Xlg hjim‗x kyx riir xj xli
egxir`e oygehgmd `mh e`wjyx j tliri xli bjymieegmd tgee x`ci ~e`bi% oyx r`xlir xj xli ~ri~`r`&
xgjm j xli ~irjm oibjfgmd bjymieejr- Bjymieejr b`m ~ri~`ri xlifieqi ow hiqiej~gmd
xligr ie&`t`rimi mh t`rimi j jxlir-
0' @t`rimi ja JXLI_R
Bjymieegmd g f`gmew ojyx xli gmxir`bxgjm oixtiim bjymieejr mh ~irjm iicgmd bjym&
ieegmd- Gx g xlirijri% `ej gf~jrx`mx xl`x xli bjymieejr l` `m `t`rimi j hgqirgxw `mh g
j~im xj i|~ejrgmd hgirimbi `mh gfge`rgxgi `fjmdx ~ij~ei j hgirimx byexyri% oiegi
`mh o`bcdrjymh- Xlg tgee lie~ xli bjymieejr xj ymhirx`mh xli ~irjm oixxir mh xj bjmqiw
`m xfj~liri j bbi~x`mbi-
Gm ` fyexgbyexyr`e bjymxrw egci Rjyxl @rgb`% `t`rimi `mh ri~ibx j xli q`rgjy byexyri%
e`mdy`di mh oiegi j jxlir g gf~jrx`mx gm ~riqimxgmd ~rikyhgbi% og` mh hgbrgfgm`xgjm%
`ee j tlgbl `ri hixrybxgqi gm xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~-
?' @t`rimi ja RIEA
Bjymieegmd g ` ~ibg`e kjo xl`x ripygri xl`x xli bjymieejr cmjt lg*lir jtm xrimdxl%
egfgx`xgjm `mh bl`r`bxirgxgb3 `mh g `t`ri j ljt xlii xr`gx l`qi `m gf~`bx jm jxlir- Ajr
gmx`mbi% jfijmi tlj l` ljrx xif~ir f`w iif ym`~~rj`bl`oei xj jxlir% jr jfijmi
tgxl ` m`xyr`eew ejyh qjgbi f`w l`qi ` mid`xgqi gf~`bx jm xli begimx gm bjymieegmd-
Xliri `ri ej f`mw ri`jm tlw ti t`mx xj x`ec xj jxlir ~ij~ei ojyx xligr ~rjoeif- Ljt&
iqir% gx g qirw gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti xrw xj egxim xj ljt ti x`ec xj jyrieqi `ojyx jyr jtm ~rjo&
eif% oijri ti qimxyri xj hj bjymieegmd- Xli ri`jm tlw gx g gf~jrx`mx xj ymhirx`mh
jyrieqi g oib`yi xli t`w ti x`ec xj jyrieqi% g jxim mjx hgirimx rjf xli t`w ti x`ec
xj jxlir-
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== 48
2' TLW fyx G oi `t`ri ja fwiea `mh jxlir:
@ bjymieejr jr gmhgqghy`e tlj g j~im xj ie&i|`fgm`xgjm mh ie&ymhirx`mhgmd g jxim m
iibxgqi ~rjoeif jeqir gm lg*lir jtm egi- @ bjymieejr gm hgxri ,`ej jfixgfi riirrih
xj ―tjymhih li`eir‖' g jxim ym`oei xj iibxgqiew `bgegx`xi bjymieegmd- Djjh ie&gmgdlx
`mh ridye`r fimxjrgmd imyri xl`x ` bjymieejr g ifjxgjm`eew li`exlw `mh xly `oei xj i&
ibxgqiew bjymie jxlir-
_iibxgmd jm jyr jtm bl`r`bxirgxgb `mh i|~ejrgmd jyr jtm xrjmd `mh ti`c ~jgmx g mjx
i`w% `mh f`w iie ymbjfjrx`oei- Rjfixgfi% jmi j xli ri`jm ti bljji xj hj bjymie&
egmd g xj lgx xli jby `t`w rjf jyrieqi% jmxj jxlir `mh jxlir‗ ~rjoeif- Ljtiqir% g
ti `ri mjx bjfjrx`oei tgxl xli ~rjbi j ie&`t`rimi% ti bjyeh rym xli rgc j oyrmjyx
jr oeyrrgmd ojymh`rgi% oib`yi ti f`w mjx oi `t`ri j jyr egfgx`xgjm jr “jx ~jx‗- @ej% `
bjymieejr tlj g t`ri j lg*lir xrimdxl g fjri egciew xj oi fjri bjmhimx ojyx lg*lir
`ogegxgi bjymieejr-
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49 55
Hyrgmd xlg bjyri% ti ri djgmd xj imd`di gm q`rgjy ie&`t`rimi bxgqgxgi- _ififoir%
xl`x wjy `ri mjx ~riyrgih xj riqi`e `mw ~`rx j wjyrie xl`x wjy hjm‗x iie bjfjrx`oei
l`rgmd gm xli drjy~- Ljtiqir% xj oi `m iibxgqi bjymieejr% jmi miih xj oi ie&`t`ri
`mh bjfjrx`oei tgxl jmi‗ xrjmd `mh ti`c ~jgmx ‒ j ~`rxgbg~`xi ` fybl ` ~jgoei
gm dixxgmd xj cmjt wjyrie `mh jxlir oixxir% gm wjyr kjyrmiw xj oibjfgmd `m iibxgqi
bjymieejr mh gmhgqghy`e-
I|~e`m`xgjm ja iea&`t`rimi
Xliri `ri xlrii {jmi j `t`rimi-
0- @t`rimi ja xli i|xirm`e tjreh
Xlg riir xj iqimx gm xli ~riimx `mh jyr imjrw bjmx`bx tgxl jxlir- Ti bjeeibx gm&
jrf`xgjm xlrjydl jyr qi imi; gdlx% li`rgmd% fiee% xjybl `mh x`xi- Ti ieibx% jr&
d`mgi `mh gmxir~rix xli h`x` `bbjrhgmd xj jyr jtm r`fi j riirimbi% jyr miih% jyr
i|~irgimbi% ixb- Ti xlim bljji xj ri~jmh gm ` ~ibgb t`w-
?- @t`rimi ja jyr gmxirm`e tjreh
Xlg riir xj jyr gmmir i|~irgimbi gm xli ~riimx% `mh tl`x ti `ri iiegmd ~lwgb`eew
`mh ifjxgjm`eew- @ jyr jtm ie&`t`rimi ligdlxim ti oibjfi fjri gm xjybl tgxl
jyr jtm iiegmd% yexgf`xiew `eejtgmd y xj l`qi ` dri`xir imi j ymhirx`mhgmd `ojyx
tl`x xli jxlir ~irjm fgdlx oi i|~irgimbgmd-
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Jyr ie&bjmbi~x g ~`rx j jyr `t`rimi j jyr gmxirm`e tjreh `mh gmyimbi;
xli t`w ti ii jyrieqiØ
xli t`w ti oil`qiØ
xli t`w xl`x ti ri~jmh xj xli oil`qgjyr j jxlir-Ø
Jyr ie&bjmbi~x g l`~ih ow ~irjm`e `mh imqgrjmfimx e `bxjr ybl `;
~irjm`egxw `bxjr ,i-d- lw'Ø
~irjm`e bgrbyfx`mbi ,rie`xgjmlg~% `fgew% ~jigjm% ixb-'Ø
i|~irgimbi ,egi‗ iqimx% i-d- xr`yf`xgb i|~irgimbi ybl ` r`~i jr brgfi'Ø
byexyr`e `mh ~grgxy`e oiegi ,`gxl `mh ~r`bxgbi'Ø
jbg`e bjmxi|x ,be`% migdlojyrljjh% i-d- xjtmlg~% yoyro'-Ø
Egmcih xj xli ghi` j ie&bjmbi~x g xli mjxgjm j ie&ixiif- @m gmhgqghy`e tgxl djjh
ie&ixiif q`eyi xlifieqi `mh l` bjmhimbi gm xligr `ogegxgi xj m`qgd`xi egi‗ y~
`mh hjtm- Rjfijmi tgxl ejt ie&ixiif f`w miih xli `~~rjq`e j jxlir jr bjm&
x`mxew hjyox xligr jtm `ogegxgi- Bjymieejr miih xj tjrc jm xligr ie&ixiif ` xliwmiih xj oi `oei xj bjmx`gm ` begimx‗ `m|gixgi `mh bjmhimxew yi xli cgee xliw `ri
xr`gmih gm-
2- @t`rimi ja gf`di mh iqimx xl`x hj mjx i|gx gm jyr ~riimx
jmdjgmd ri`egxw
Xlg riir xj jyr `t`rimi j jyr `mx`w tjreh `mh bjyeh gmbeyhi gf`dgmgmd% dyigmd%
xlgmcgmd% rififoirgmd xli ~`x% mxgbg~`xgmd xli yxyri% ixb-
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44 55
@bxgqgxw 0-9
Tlw G t`mx xj hj xlg bjyri
Ryddixih fixljh;
I|~e`gm xl`x ti x`ci y~ bjymieegmd jr hgirimx ri`jm-0-
Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gm ~`gr `mh imbjyr`di xlif xj hgby xligr ri`jm jr?-
t`mxgmd xj hj xlg bjyri mh oibjfi bjymieejr-
Gm e`rdi drjy~% hgby jm ` dimir`e eiqie ri`jm tlw ~ij~ei t`mx xj oibjfi2-
bjymieejr mh xligr ~jgoei gf~`bx jm bjymieegmd-
^`grih hgbygjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u
jmxr`xi gmgdlx gmxj
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== 4<
Rie&`t`rimi gmhgqghy`e
`bxgqgxw
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xr`xi t`rimi j
ljt jxlir ~irbigqixlif-
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`mh Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt
@bxgqgxw 0-1
Riea&x`xifimx `mh Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt
Ryddixih fixljh;
L`mh jyx bj~gi j xli tjrcliix0- Rie&x`xifimx `mh Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt xj i`bl
~`rxgbg~`mx-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xgbc xli ie&x`xifimx xl`x xliw iie rie`xi fjxew xj xlif&?-
ieqi-
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yfm j Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt% g-i- ie&x`xifimx jr `~ibx j ie xl`x `ri cmjtm xj
fi `mh cmjtm xj jxlir% `mh `~ibx j ie xl`x `ri cmjtm xj fi oyx mjx cmjtm
xj jxlir-
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby xli `bxgqgxw gm dimir`e ‒ xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh `ej `c 8-
~`rxgbg~`mx xj hgby xli gdmgb`mbi j xli jxlir xtj tgmhjt j xli Kjl`rg
hg`dr`f ,`~ibx j ie ymcmjtm xj fi oyx cmjtm xj jxlir `mh `~ibx j ie
ymcmjtm xj fi `mh jxlir'-
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Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt
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<0 55
@bxgqgxw 0-4
Hgbjqirgmd hgaairimbi
Ryddixih fixljh;
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc `ojyx xli rx xgfi xliw rififoir iiegmd hgirimx0-
,o`ih jm `di% dimhir% r`bi% i|y`e jrgimx`xgjm% riegdgjm% byexyri% jbg`e x`xy%
ihyb`xgjm eiqie% e`mdy`di jr ixlmgbgxw'- Tl`x l`~~imih% ljt hgh gx iie% tl`x
tiri xli bjmipyimbi:
Xli `bgegx`xjr b`m dgqi `m i|`f~ei rjf lg*lir jtm egi i|~irgimbi-?-
Gm ~`gr% ~`rxgbg~`mx l`ri xligr i|~irgimbi-2-
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% x`ci jfi iiho`bc rjf xlji tlj iie bjfjrx`oei l`rgmd-8-
_iibx jm ljt hgirimbi b`m oi ~irbigqih gm ` ~jgxgqi `mh mid`xgqi egdlx `mh
ljt jmi‗ rx i|~irgimbi j hgirimbi b`m l`~i ljt jmi qgit hgirimbi `
`m `hyex-
X`ec `ojyx xli gf~`bx j hgirimbi gm bjymieegmd `mh hgby ljt ` bjymieejr9-
fgdlx tjrc tgxl hgirimbi;
~yx `ghi jtm r`fi j riirimbiu
imxir gmxj begimx‗ tjrehu
i|~ejri hgirimbi j~imew mh imgxgqiewu
rif`gm byrgjy oyx mjx gmxrygqiu
^`grih hgbygjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd
j hgqirgxw `mh xli
f`mw t`w ~ij~eib`m iie hgirimx-
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi t`rimi j
ie mh jxlir-
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jmxr`xi t`rimi
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== <?
@bxgqgxw 0-<
Ori`xlgmd i|irbgi
Ryddixih fixljh;
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ghi% ori`xlgmd mjrf`eew-
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,`bgegx`xjr bjymx `ejyh'- Ljeh ori`xl jr ` bjymx j iqim-
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iqim ,`bgegx`xjr bjymx `ejyh'- Ljeh ori`xl jr ` bjymx j iqim-
_i~i`x xtgbi jm i`bl ghi-8-
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rie`|ih-
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<2 55
@bxgqgxw 0-7
Byexyr`e imgxgqgxw
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xgjm xj tjrc tgxl ‒ ciw ~jgmx ljyeh oi yff`rgih jm ` g~bl`rx;
Ljt hji wjyr `fgew qgit;u
LGQ:
i| `mh i|y`egxw:
bjymieegmd:
xli rjei j fim `mh tjfim:
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~ hgby orgi iiho`bc rjf i`bl drjy~-?-
@c xli drjy~ xj riibx jm;2-
hgirimbiu
bjffjm`egxgiu
tlixlir `fgew qgit l`qi bl`mdih jqir xgfi-u
Dgqi gm~yx jm xli xlifi j byexyr`e imgxgqgxw `mh gx gf~jrx`mbi gm bjymie&8-
egmd-
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rid`rhgmd hgqirgxw
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jmxr`xi t`rimi
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xlijrixgb`e ~rgmbg~ei
jyxghi xli bjyri
imqgrjmfimx-
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@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj x`ec xj 2 ~ij~ei ojyx xligr qgit j tl`x bjymieegmd g- Xlii0-
~ij~ei b`m oi rgimh jr `fgew fifoir-
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@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgmd xligr mjxi xli jeejtgmd h`w-2-
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<9 55
@bxgqgxw 0-00
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i|~irgimbi-
Ajr i|`f~ei% ljt hj G iie% hgh xli h`w iie tjrxltlgei% hj G iie G t`u
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Ajr i|`f~ei% hgh xli drjy~ iif xj oi ojmhgmd% t` iqirwjmi ~`rxgbg&u
~`xgmd ipy`eew% tiri xliri `mw ximgjm% ljt t` xli drjy~‗ imirdw%
tiri xli drjy~ ryei oigmd jeejtih:
_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew2-
tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-
Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi%8-
i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih xjh`w-‖
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i|~irgimbi-
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g bri`xih fjmdx
~`rxgbg~`mx-
^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u
~`bi xj riibx jm
gdmgb`mx `bxjr
jyxghi xli drjy~
xl`x bjyeh gmyimbi
xli drjy~ ~rjbi-
^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u
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iiegmd j drjy~&
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== <1
H`w xtj; Tl`x g bjymieegmd`ojyx:
@bxgqgxw 0-0?
Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi
Ryddixih fixljh;
Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri ―tliri xliw `ri‖ gm xirf j ~riqgjy h`w‗ `mh0-
iqimgmd‗ i|~irgimbi-
_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew?-
tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-
Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx `ojyx xli bl`eeimdi ‒ ei`qi xli hg&2-
bygjm j xli bjmximx j xligr mhgmd xj @bxgqgxw 0-08 ‒ xli ^yr~ji j bjymie&
egmd-
Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi%8-
g ~~rj~rg`xi-
^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&
rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~
i|~irgimbi-
^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u
~`bi xj riibx jm
xli ~riqgjy iqimgmd
`mh xligr xljydlx
`ojyx xli ~riqgjy
h`w `xir jfi xgfi
l` ~`ih-
^`rxgbg~`mx orgiwu
hgby xli i|~irg&
imbi j hjgmd xli
bl`eeimdi-
09 fgmyxi
Mjmi
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Jyxbjfi
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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e
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@bxgqgxw 0-02
@m i|~irgimbi ja oigmd lie~ih
Ryddixih fixljh;
^`rxgbg~`mx `ri `cih xj xlgmc `ojyx ` xgfi tlim xliw miihih xj iic lie~0-
`ojyx ` ~ibgb ~rjoeif-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc `ojyx `' xli ~irjm tlj lie~ih xlif3 o' tlw xliw?-
timx xj xl`x ~irjm3 b' tl`x l`~~imih3 `mh h' tl`x xl`x ~irjm hgh xl`x t`
lie~ye jr ymlie~ye-
Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj hgqghi gmxj ~`gr `mh x`ec `ojyx xligr i|~irgimbi j oigmd2-
lie~ih-
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% egx ee xli iiho`bc jm xli g~bl`rx mh hgby tgxl riirimbi8-
xj mjxi gm xli `rxgbg~`mx‗ F`my`e-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ri`h xlrjydl xli mjxi jm9- Fw ghi`e bjymieejr `mh hgby-
I|~irgimxg`e `bxgqgxw `mh
~`grih hgbygjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi `m `t`rimi
j xli py`egxgi `mh
cgee j `m iibxgqi
lie~ir-
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi t`rimi j
xli gf~jrx`mbi j
xli rjei j bjymie&
egmd-
^`rxgbg~`mx hiqiej~u
` hii~ir `~~ribg`&
xgjm j i`bl jxlir‗
lyf`mgxw-
89 fgmyxi
Aeg~&bl`rx
@bx gq g xw
Jyxbjfi
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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e
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== <<
Fw Ghi`e Bjymieejr‡
g ~~rj`bl`oei
g xryxtjrxlw
g xljydlxye
g rieg`oei
g bjmhimx
g rie`|ih `mh b`ef
g j~im&fgmhih
g dimxei
g t`rf
g `bbi~xgmd
g ie `t`ri
l` ` imi j lyfjyr
ix`oegli ojymh`rgi
x`ci fi irgjyew
g rieg`oei
bl`eeimdi fi
g mjx brgxgb`e
`eejt fi xj oi fwie
bri`xi fyxy`e ri~ibx
lie~ fi jby
g bjmxrybxgqi
cii~ bjmhimxg`egxw
oygeh fw bjmhimbi
ri~ibx fw gmhi~imhimbi
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@bxgqgxw 0-08
^yr~ji ja bjymieegmd
Ryddixih fixljh;
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj dgqi iiho`bc rjf xli ~riqgjy h`w‗ bl`eeimdi; tl`x hj0-
~ij~ei xlgmc bjymieegmd g:
Be`rgw xli himgxgjm j bjymieegmd% ` tiee ` xli `gf `mh dj`e j bjymieegmd?-
jm xli g~bl`rx-
Orgiw i|~ejri xli cgee `mh py`egxgi j ` bjymieejr ,egmcgmd tgxl xli `ojqi `b&2-
xgqgxw; I|~irgimbi j oigmd lie~ih'-
_iir ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xligr f`my`e jr yrxlir mjxi-8-
Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh
iq`ey`xgjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi m ymhirx`mh&
gmd j xli `gf `mh
dj`e j bjymieegmd-
2> fgmyxi
Aeg~&bl`rx
@bx gq g xw
Jyxbjfi
X gfi
A`bgegx`xjr‗
f`xirg`e
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== 7>
Xli Dj`e `mh @gf ja Bjymieegmd
Tlim ~ij~ei `ri i|~irgimbgmd hgxrigmd hgbyexgi gm xligr egqi% xliw jfixgfi xyrm xj
`mjxlir ~irjm jr lie~- Xlg bjyeh oi ` xryxih rgimh% `fgew fifoir jr riegdgjy ei`hir- Xliw
bjyeh `ej fiix tgxl ` ~irjm tlj l` oiim xr`gmih xj iibxgqiew lie~ xlif- @ bjymieejr g
xr`gmih xj egxim `mh ri~jmh xj ~ij~ei gm ifjxgjm`e hgxri% `mh xj if~jtir xlif xj hi`e
tgxl xligr hgbyexgi-
Xli f`gm `gf j bjymieegmd g xly xj bri`xi `m ifjxgjm`eew `i ~`bi `mh `m `bbi~xgmd%
b`rgmd rie`xgjmlg~ gm tlgbl xli begimx b`m i|~ejri% hgbjqir mh be`rgw t`w j egqgmd fjri `x&
gwgmdew mh rijyrbiyeew- Xlrjydljyx xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi% xli ri~jmgogegxw jr drjtxl`mh bl`mdi rif`gm tgxl xli begimx -
Iimxg`eew% gx g `ojyx lie~gmd jxlir xj lie~ xlifieqi% `mh lie~gmd xlif drjt gm xli t`w
xl`x xliw bljji-
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BJYMRIEEGMD GR MJX‡
xieegmd ~ij~ei tl`x xj hj
~wbljxlir`~w
xi`blgmd
gmxirirgmd
gf~jgmd
jmi t`w
dgqgmd `hqgbi
jrf`e
jbg`e tjrc
~jjm&iihgmd
jmew hjmi ow ~rjigjm`e
og`ih
kyhdgmd
jr xli bjymieejr‗ oimix-
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== 7?
@bxgqgxw 0-09
Xli xlrii _‗ ja bjymieegmd
Hgh`bxgb gm~yx jm
_jdir‗ ~irjm&bimxrih
~rgmbg~ei
^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u
jmxr`xi m ymhir&
x`mhgmd j jfi
ciw bjymieegmd
~rgmbg~ei-
2> fgmyxi
Aeg~&bl`rx
Oi ri~ibxye
Ymbjmhgxgjm`e ~jgxgqi rid`rh fi`m wjy rid`rh xli ~irjm ymgpyi% mh wjy
ri~ibx xligr `ogegxw xj f`ci hibggjm `mh jeqi xligr jtm ~rjoeif-
Oi ri~jmgqi
T`rfxl g xli mjm&qiro`e i|~rigjm j ymhirx`mhgmd `mh b`rgmd% g-i- xlrjydl
`bg`e i|~rigjm% qjgbi xjmi% ~jxyri mh dixyri-
Oi ri`e
Dimygmimi riir xj `m `yxlimxgb gmxidr`xgjm j jyr iiegmd% tjrh `mh `b&
xgjm- Ry~irbg`e bjffymgb`xgjm oygeh o`rrgir gm bjymieegmd-
Ryddixih fixljh;
I|~e`gm xj ~`rxgbg~`mx xli o`gb jymh`xgjm jr ~rgmbg~ei j bjymieegmd% o`ih0-
jm _jdir‗ ~irjm&bimxrih ~rgmbg~ei% gm xirf j xli 2 _‗;
oi ri`e ,dimygmimi jr bjmdryimbi'u
oi ri~ibxye ,ymbjmhgxgjm`e ~jgxgqi rid`rh'u
oi ri~jmgqi ,if~`xlw mh t`rfxl'-u
Geeyxr`xi xli ~rgmbg~ei jm xli g~bl`rx `mh c ~`rxgbg~`mx jr ri`e&egi i|`f~ei?-
j i|~irgimbgmd gmxir`bxgjm xl`x tiri ri`e% ri~ibxye mh ri~jmgqi-
Imbjyr`di iiho`bc mh riir ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xli mjxi gm xligr f`my`e-2-
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Xli Xlrii _‗ ja Bjymieegmd
Xtimxw wi`r `dj% B`re _jdir% ` `fjy ~wbljejdgx `mh lyf`mgx% hiqiej~ih ` ~irjm&
bimxrih ~lgejj~lw jr ~ij~ei tjrcgmd gm xli lie~gmd ~rjigjm- Gm xlji h`w% f`mw ~w&
bljejdgx `mh bjymieejr jeejtih ` ~yriew fihgb`e jr ~wblj`m`ewxgb qgit `mh ―lie~ih‖
~ij~ei ow hg`dmjgmd xlif jr ow f`cgmd xlif `t`ri j ~rjoeif gm xligr blgehljjh- _jdir‗
xljydlx xl`x `ee ~ij~ei ljyeh r`xlir kyx oi qgitih ` mjrf`e ~ij~ei tlj `ri i|~irgimbgmd
~rjoeif gm xli liri&`mh&mjt% mh xl`x lie~gmd xlif gmqjeqih ri~ibxgmd xligr lyf`mgxw% ow
oigmd ri`e mh ri~jmgqi xj xlif-
Oi ri~ibxaye
_jdir‗ yih xli xirf ―ymbjmhgxgjm`e ~jgxgqi rid`rh‖- Gx fi`m wjy rid`rh xli ~irjm `
ymgpyi% `mh wjy ri~ibx xligr `ogegxw xj f`ci hibggjm `mh jeqi xligr jtm ~rjoeif- Gm
ybl `m `xfj~liri xryx b`m hiqiej~% `mh xli ~irjm b`m iie `i xj j~im y~ xj xligr
jtm i|~irgimbi mh xligr jtm iiegmd-
Oi ri~jmgqi
Oigmd t`rf `mh if~`xlgb g ` t`w j oigmd ri~jmgqi- T`rfxl g xli mjm&qiro`e i|&
~rigjm j ymhirx`mhgmd `mh b`rgmd% g-i- xlrjydl `bg`e i|~rigjm% qjgbi xjmi% ~jxyri
`mh dixyri- If~`xlw fi`m dixxgmd gmghi xli tjreh j xli ~irjm tlj bjfi jr
bjymieegmd mh qiro`eew bjffymgb`xgmd xlg ymhirx`mhgmd xj xli ~irjm-
Oi ri`e
Dimygmimi riir xj ` dimygmi gmxidr`xgjm j jyr iiegmd% tjrh mh bxgjm3 mh bjf&
fymgb`xgmd xlg ri`emi xj xli ~irjm- ―^rjigjm`e‖ jr y~irbg`e bjffymgb`xgjm jxim
oygeh ` o`rrgir gm bjymieegmd- G if~`xlw g `ojyx egximgmd xj xli begimx% dimygmimi g
`ojyx egximgmd xj jmiie ` bjymieejr- Dimygmimi% jr oigmd ri`e% g jfixgfi fjri
hgbyex xl`x oigmd if~`xlgb oib`yi gx gf~egi xl`x xli bjymieejr l` djx xj l`qi `
djjh imi j ie cmjteihdi-
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@bxgqgxw 0-01
Ixlgb `mh q`eyi ja bjymieegmd
Ryddixih fixljh;
Jm g~bl`rx oj`rh trgxi xli jeejtgmd igdlx yoli`hgmd; ymgpyimi% ~yr~ji0-
j iiegmd% ojymh`rgi% `bbi~x`mbi% mjm&kyhdifimx% begimx ie&ri~jmgogegxw%
egfgx`xgjm mh bjmhimxg`egxw-
Orgiw i|~e`gm i`bl j xli yoli`hgmd-?-
Gyi l`mhjyx imxgxeih2- Ixlgb`e gyi-
Gm f`ee drjy~% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj lgdlegdlx xli ixlgb`e gyi `mh q`eyi xliw8-
tjyeh bjmghir jr i`bl bim`rgj% `mh tl`x xliw tjyeh hj gm i`bl b`i-
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc `mh dgqi gm~yx jm egfgx`xgjm j bjmhim&9-
xg`egxw% ` tiee ` xli gf~jrx`mbi j bjf~iximbi% f`gmx`gmgmd ojymh`rgi `mh
y~irqggjm-
Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh f`ee
drjy~ hgbygjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd
j ~rjigjm`e mhixlgb`e oil`qgjyr `mh
q`eyi gm bjymieegmd-
^`rxgbg~`mx ymhir&u
x`mh xl`x ixlgb`e
gyi% ybl bjm&
himxg`egxw mh hgbej&
yri% ri bjf~ei|-
Xli gf~jrx`mbi j u
y~irqggjm g lgdl&
egdlxih-
89 fgmyxi
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b`e gyi-
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Bjymieegmd Ixlgb `mh Q`eyi
@ ti l`qi iim% gm bjymieegmd% ti ri jxim hi`egmd tgxl xli fjx lghhim ~`rx j ` ~irjm‗
oigmd% `mh begimx jxim iie qyemir`oei `mh j~im- Gx g xly% gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti i|~ejri `mh
jeejt xli q`rgjy q`eyi `mh ixlgb`e oil`qgjyr gm bjymieegmd- Xlii `ri ` jeejt ,xli ghi
bjffimx ri i|`f~ei j gmiibxgqi ri~jmi';
@bcmjteihdi xl`x begimx `ri ymgpyi-
Gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti ribjdmgi begimx gmhgqghy`e% tgxl ymgpyi py`egxgi- Xlg fi`m
xl`x `exljydl ~ij~ei f`w l`ri bjffjm ~irjm`egxw xr`gx `mh egi i|~irgimbi% iqirw
~irjm g hgirimx% `mh iqirw ~rjoeif g i|~irgimbih hgirimxew- ^ij~ei l`qi hgirimx
xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii `mh t`w j hi`egmd tgxl ~rjoeif- Hj mjx `w;
―Fw ~`rxmir `ej bli`xih jm fi e`x wi`r% j G cmjt i|`bxew tl`x wjy `ri
djgmd xlrjydl- G ymhirx`mh!‖
@eejt begimx xj ariiew i|~ri aiiegmd-
Ti ljyeh oi t`ri j xli gf~jrx`mbi j eejtgmd begimx xj i|~ri xligr iiegmd riiew%i~ibg`eew mid`xgqi iiegmd- Begimx ljyeh iie bjfjrx`oei `mh y~~jrxih tlim i|&
~rigmd iiegmd% `mh mjx hgbjyr`dih- I|~rigmd iiegmd `eejt xli begimx xj riegiqi
ximgjm% `mh `ej `eejt xli begimx xj ii xli ~rjoeif fjri bei`rew- Hj mjx `w;
―^ei`i hjm‗x brw j fybl% gx‗ djgmd xj oi JC‡ Liri‗ ` xgyi!‖
Oi `t`ri ja xli begimx * bjymieejr rie`xgjmlg~-
Gx‗ gf~jrx`mx xl`x bjymieejr `et`w fjmgxjr xligr jtm iiegmd gm bjymieegmd- Xlg
`t`rimi im`oei bjymieejr xj i~`r`xi xligr iiegmd rjf xli begimx‗ iiegmd% `mh
xly im`oei bjymieejr xj f`gmx`gm ` mjm&kyhdifimx`e% if~`xlgb `mh ixlgb`e gmxir`b&
xgjm- Xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ g hgirimx xj jbg`e rie`xgjmlg~- Ry~irqggjm g yiye
xj i|~ejri ojymh`rgi- Gx g ` ~rjoeif g wjy `w;
―G‗f ejgmd eii~ xlgmcgmd ojyx fw jmi begimx‗ ~rjoeif- Gx iie egci G f
xli jmi tgxl `m|gixw!‖
―Eix‗ dj jr ` hrgmc `xir jyr igjm‡‖
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Rljt begimx `bbi~x`mbi- Xlg gmqjeqi `bbi~xgmd xli begimx ` xliw `ri% tgxl xligr xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii- @m
`xfj~liri j `bbi~x`mbi gm xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ `bgegx`xi xryx `mh drjtxl-
@bbi~x`mbi hji mjx fi`m jqirejjcgmd hixrybxgqi xljydlx `mh * jr oil`qgjyr% oyx
ljtgmd xl`x wjy b`ri jr xli begimx hi~gxi xlii- @bbi~x`mbi bri`xi ` `i ~`bi xj
i|~ejri xlii xljydlx jr oil`qgjyr- Gx g ` ~rjoeif g wjy `w;
―Xlg begimx j fgmi g j yee j yrw `mh r`di- Rjfixgfi li ljyx gm
xli igjm `mh gx ri`c fi jyx!‖ ,Gf`dgmi xli bjymieejr‗ mjm&qiro`e
oil`qgjyr gm xli igjm-'
Rljt ` mjm&kyhdifimx`e `xxgxyhi-
Xli bjymieejr‗ ri~jmgogegxw g mjx xj iq`ey`xi tlixlir begimx‗ oil`qgjyr% oiegi jr
`xxgxyhi `ri rgdlx jr trjmd% jr tlixlir jr mjx xliw `ri xj oe`fi jr xligr ~rjoeif-
_`xlir% xli bjymieejr ljyeh bri`xi ` ~`bi tliri begimx b`m ymhirx`mh `mh i|~ejri
~rjoeif% tgxljyx oigmd kyhdih tgxl rid`rh xj xligr xljydlx% iiegmd jr `bxgjm- Hj
mjx `w;
―Rljyxgmd x wjyr fjf g mjx djgmd xj lie~ mwjmi- Gx g `bxy`eew f`cgmd
xlgmd tjri!‖
@bcmjteihdi xl`x begimx `ri ri~jmgoei ajr xlifieqi-
Bjymieegmd ljyeh if~jtir ~ij~ei xj ii xl`x xliw l`qi rijyrbi xj jeqi xligr jtm
~rjoeif- Gm hgbyex gxy`xgjm% begimx jxim `~~i`r lie~ei `mh gx‗ xif~xgmd jr xli
bjymieejr xj oi xli “ribyir‗- Gx f`w f`ci xli bjymieejr iie gf~jrx`mx `mh ~jtirye-
Oyx gx jxim o`bcri% gm xl`x xli begimx f`w oibjfi hi~imh`mx jm xli bjymieejr jr
xliw f`w oe`fi xli bjymieejr g xli “jeyxgjm‗ hjim‗x tjrc jyx- @ej xli “`qgjyr bjym&
ieejr‗ imh xli fi`di xl`x xliw drii xl`x xli begimx g xjj lie~ei jr r`dgei xj jeqi
lg * lir jtm ~rjoeif- _ififoir; Gx g yexgf`xiew xli begimx‗ ri~jmgogegxw mh rgdlx xj
bljji ljt xliw jeqi xligr jtm ~rjoeif! Hj mjx `w;
―L`qi wjy xrgih‡: Gx yy`eew tjrc tiee gm xlii gxy`xgjm-‖
_`xlir `c; ―Tl`x l`qi wjy xrgih:‖
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` begimx- Xlg g hjmi ow bjf~eixgmd xli ripygrih xr`gmgmd% ow ridye`rew `xximhgmd y~ir&
qggjm `mh ow hiqiej~gmd cmjteihdi ow ri`hgmd- @ej% bjymieejr ljyeh oi bei`r jm
tlim xj riir begimx- Gx g ` ~rjoeif g wjy `w;
―Fw begimx `w xl`x li g mjri|gb% G l`qi ri`h y~ ogx jm gx% mh f yri
G tgee oi `oei xj l`mhei gx!‖
Imyri xl`x bjmhimxg`egxw g f`gmx`gmih-
Gx g `m ixlgb`e joegd`xgjm `mh mibi`rw jr iibxgqi bjymieegmd xl`x ` bjymieejr f`gm&
x`gm bjmhimxg`egxw `mh `mjmwfgxw tlim hgbygmd xli b`i gm y~irqggjm% jr tgxl
jxlir ~rjigjm`e- @ egfgx j bjmhimxg`egxw jbbyr tlim ` begimx g bei`rew l`rfye xj
lgfie jr jxlir% jr gm xli b`i j i|y`e `oyi- Xli bjymieejr g xlim joegdih xj hg&
qyedi gmjrf`xgjm% oyx ljyeh miqirxliei gmjrf xli begimx `mh jox`gm ~irfggjm% g
~jgoei- Rjfi bjymieejr c xligr begimx xj gdm m gmjrfih bjmimx jrf% tliri xli
begimx g imyrih j bjmhimxg`egxw tgxlgm i|~e`gmih egfgx- Gx g ` ~rjoeif g wjy `w;
―Wjy tgee miqir dyi tlj b`fi xj fi jr bjymieegmd xli jxlir h`w‡
F`rw% jyr jeh oj!‖
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Ixlgb`e gyi
F`ci jfi mjxi gm ri~jmi xj xli jeejtgmd bim`rgj-
@ ridye`r begimx jxim rrgqi e`xi jr ~~jgmxfimx mh x`w jr jqir m ljyr-Ø
Rli `w xl`x li bjyehm‗x egqi tgxljyx lir bjymieegmd igjm tgxl wjy `mh
wjyr jmdjgmd q`ey`oei `hqgbi-
@ ~ridm`mx begimx g l`qgmd hgri m`mbg`e ~rjoeif hyi xj ~jjr oyhdixgmd- RliØ
`ej l` xlrii blgehrim tgxl hg`ogegxgi- Wjy l`qi oiim xlrjydl gfge`r m`mbg`e
~rjoeif mh t`mx xj l`ri wjyr jeyxgjm-
@ f`ei begimx xiee wjy xl`x xliw xlgmc xliw `ri ljfji|y`e- Wjy iie ymbjfjrx&Ø
`oei tgxl ljfji|y`egxw- Wjy `ej cmjt xlg begimx‗ tgi tiee- Wjy gffihg`xiew
xlgmc j xli rgc j LGQ-
@ f`ei begimx hgbeji xl`x lg f`m`dir `x tjrc g ifjxgjm`eew `oygmd lgf- LiØ
`w xl`x `x xgfi li iie egci imhgmd lg egi- Li ljt wf~xjf j hi~rigjm%
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If~`xlw% wf~`xlw `mh ghimxgb`xgjm
Ryddixih fixljh;
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^jgmx jyx ~gbxyri imxgxeih?- Rwf~`xlw% if~`xlw mh ghimxgab`xgjm-
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wf~`xlw% if~`xlw mh ghimxgb`xgjm ygmd xli ~gbxyri dgqim-
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% imbjyr`di iiho`bc `mh `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj rie`xi xli xirf8-
xj ri`e&egi i|~irgimbi-
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If~`xlw% ghimxgb`xgjm `mh if~`xlw
F`mw j jyr begimx b`m oi ~gbxyrih hrjtmgmd gm xli “tiee j jrrjt‗- @ lie~gmd bjymieejr
ti b`m ri`bx gm jmi j xlrii t`w% if~`xlw oigmd xli fjx iibxgqi-
Rwf~`xlw
Rwf~`xlw b`m oi himih ` iiegmd bjmbirmih jr jfijmi iei tgxljyx mibi`rgew
oibjfgmd gmqjeqih gm ` beji lie~gmd rie`xgjmlg~- Rwf~`xlw g iiegmd jrrw jr xli
~irjm gm xli “tiee j jrrjt‗- Gm xli ~gbxyri% gx gmqjeqi x`mhgmd jm xj~ j xli tiee% ejjc&
gmd hjtm `mh i|~rigmd jrrjt jr ~gxw jr xli ~irjm% jr f`woi imhgmd jfixlgmd
xj xli ~irjm gm xli lj~i xl`x xliw tgee dix jyx j xli tiee- Xli wf~`xlixgb bjymieejr%
`exljydl bjmbirmih% rif`gm x hgx`mbi rjf xli begimx tgxljyx ix`oeglgmd fi`m&
gmdye rie`xgjmlg~-
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jm xli iiegmd `mh bl`r`bxirgxgb j xli jxlir ~irjm ,begimx' xj xli ~jgmx xl`x xligr
~rjoeif oibjfi wjyr jtm ~rjoeif- Gm jyr geeyxr`xgjm% ghimxgb`xgjm gmqjeqi kyf~&
gmd hjtm gmxj xli “tiee j jrrjt‗ mh hrjtmgmd tgxl xli ~irjm- Tlim xlg jbbyr% xli
bjymieejr eji lgfie gm xli lie~gmd rie`xgjmlg~- Rli* li g mj ejmdir jokibxgqi%
tlgbl g mibi`rw jr lie~gmd xj x`ci ~e`bi- Ry~irqggjm g gf~jrx`mx xj ~riqimx y
rjf hixrybxgqiew ghimxgwgmd tgxl begimx-
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eixxgmd xligr ~rjoeif oibjfi wjyr ~rjoeif- Gm jyr geeyxr`xgjm% if~`xlw gmqjeqi
kyf~gmd gmxj xli tiee tlgei l`mdgmd jm xj ` rj~i xgih xj ` xrii- If~`xlgb bjymie&
ejr `ri ~irjm`eew gmqjeqih tlgei f`gmx`gmgmd bjmxrje j xlifieqi gm xli lie~gmd
rie`xgjmlg~ ,g-i- l`qgmd ojymh`rgi'- @x `mw xgfi xliw tgl% xli bjymieejr bjyeh ~yee
xlifieqi jyx j xli tiee- Xlg g xli fjx iibxgqi lie~gmd ~jgxgjm ` bjymieejr b`m
yi gm bjymieegmd gmxir`bxgjm-
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Rl`rgmd ~irjm`e gmajrf`xgjm
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xlgmd xl`x l` l`~~imih xj xlif-
@xir it j xli ~`rxgbg~`mx l`qi ri~jmhih% c xlif ljt xliw iex l`qgmd xj?-
x`ec ojyx xligr i|~irgimbi- Hgh xliw iie yeew bjfjrx`oei:
Gm ~eim`rw hgby tl`x tjyeh l`qi f`hi gx i`gir xj l`ri mh egmc gx xj bjymie&2-
egmd-
_ibjrh ghi` jm g~&bl`rx ~`~ir-8-
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^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi `m `t`rimi
j ljt xli begimx
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begimx-
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@bxgqgxw 0-07
RJEI_ F@^
Xrg`h rjei&~e`w
R~i`cir jr begimx
Wjyr x`c g xj x`ec `ojyx jfixlgmd xl`x g gf~jrx`mx xj wjy-
Egximir jr bjymieejr
Wjyr x`c g xj ~r`bxgbi xli cgee j xli igjm-
Joirqir
Wjyr x`c g xj joirqi xli egximir‗ qiro`e `mh mjm&qiro`e cgee `mh ljt xliw
~riimx xlifieqi-
R ‒ gxxgmd py`riew F ‒ fgmgf`e imbjyr`dir
J ‒ j~im ~jxyri @ ‒ xximxgqi geimbi
E ‒ ei`m tlim miihih ^ ‒ ~riimx`xgjm
I ‒ `~~rj~rg`xi iwi bjmx`bx
_ ‒ rie`|
Ryddixih fixljh;
Dgqi gm~yx jm `xximxgqimi% mjm&qiro`e bjffymgb`xgjm `mh RJEI_ F@^% ` tiee0-` jxlir iibxgqi mjm&qiro`e bjffymgb`xgjm cgee;
Xlii gmbeyhi; xjmi j qjgbi% ~iih j ~iibl% qjeyfi j ~iibl-u
Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj drjy~ j xlrii% `mh `c i`bl xj oi ` “begimx‗% “bjymieejr‗?-
`mh “joirqir‗ gm ` xrg`h rjei&~e`w-
Xli “begimx‗ ljyeh xiee xli bjymieejr `ojyx ` ribimx hg`driifimx xliw l`h- Xlg2-
ljyeh mjx oi xjj ~irjm`e jr ifjxgjm`eew e`him-
Bjymieejr ri xj hifjmxr`xi RJEI_ F@^ cgee-u
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hgbygjm
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j xli `hq`mx`di j `xximhgmd cgee-
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== 0>8
Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj t`~ rjei gm xli rjei&~e`w-8-
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc-9-
Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc gm tlgbl jxlir bjmxi|x xlii cgee tjyeh oi yiye-1-
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@xximhgmd
@xximhgmd fi`m oigmd ~lwgb`eew% gmxieeibxy`eew `mh ifjxgjm`eew “~riimx‗ gm ` bjymieegmd
igjm- Xlii cgee gmhgb`xi xj xli begimx xl`x xli bjymieejr g egximgmd% g `t`ri `mh g ri`hw
xj gmxir`bx- Xliw ljt gm ` mjm&qiro`e t`w xl`x xli bjymieejr g `xximxgqi `mh `q`ge`oei- Xli
`brjmwf RJEI_ F@^ g jxim yih xj yff`rgi xlii o`gb cgee;
RØ ‒ x`mh jr gxxgmd py`riew; xlg fi`m `bgmd xli begimx j xl`x xliw b`m ii
xli bjymieejr `mh bjffymgb`xi j~imew- Rjfixgfi ` fjri “bjmqir`xgjm`e‗
gxxgmd xwei g yih tliri xli bjymieejr `mh xli begimx gx `x rgdlx `mdei xj i`bl
jxlir tlgei xliw x`ec-
JØ ‒ x`mh jr j~im ~jxyri; xlg fi`m mjx brjgmd `rf jr ljehgmd ` jehir
* ei gm ybl ` t`w xl`x gx gmhgb`xi ` bejih ojhw% `mh ~jgoew ` bejih jr
“tgxblih j‗ fgmh- Gx b`m `ej riir xj oigmd b`riye mjx xj l`qi% jr fgmgfggmd%
o`rrgir oixtiim bjymieejr `mh begimx% ybl ` ` hic jr oih-
EØ ‒ x`mh jr ei`mgmd jrt`rh; xlg fi`m ei`mgmd gm xjt`rh xli begimx `x `~&
~rj~rg`xi xgfi xj bjmqiw gmxirix mh bjmbirm- Xlg ljyeh oi yih b`riyeew
j ` mjx xj gmxgfgh`xi ` begimx xjj jjm gm `m imbjymxir- Gm `hhgxgjm% bjymie&
ejr fyx oi fgmhye j ojhw ~`bi hgirimbi gm ~ij~ei rjf hgirimx o`bc&
drjymh- Djjh joirq`xgjm`e cgee tgee jjm ~gbc y~ tl`x g `m `~~rj~rg`xi
~`bi-
IØ ‒ x`mh jr iwi bjmx`bx; xlg fi`m cii~gmd m`xyr`e iwi bjmx`bx xj ljt
xli begimx xl`x xli bjymieejr g egximgmd xj tl`x g oigmd `gh- _ififoir xl`x
jr jfi ~ij~ei% xjj fybl iwi bjmx`bx f`w oi i|~irgimbih ` xlri`ximgmd jr
hgri~ibxye; djjh bjmxi|xy`e cmjteihdi tgee gx liri-
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‒ x`mh jr rie`|ih ~jxyri; xlg fi`m mjx hdixgmd i|bigqiew jr ljehgmdjmi‗ ojhw gm ` ximi f`mmir- Gx ej hji mjx fi`m hj~xgmd ejyblih ~jg&
xgjm- Xli bjymieejr ljyeh bjmqiw b`ef imi j bjmx`gmfimx xj xli begimx
`mh ljyeh oi t`ri j i|bigqi dixgbye`xgmd% ojhw fjqifimx% x`~~gmd iix%
begbcgmd ~im% ~e`wgmd tgxl l`gr% hhegmd% ixb-
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== 0>1
FØ ‒ x`mh jr fgmgf`e imbjyr`dir; xlii imbjyr`di xli begimx xj cii~ x`ec&
gmd `mh ljt jmi g egximgmd- Xlii imbjyr`dir% ybl ` ―fff% yl lyl% G ii‖
bjyeh dj `ejmd tgxl mjh j xli li`h-
@Ø ‒ x`mh jr `xximxgqi geimbi; ti `ri jxim xif~xih xj gmxirry~x ` begimx xj
`c ` pyixgjm% f`ci `m joirq`xgjm% jr xj dix be`rgxw jm ` ~`rxgbye`r ~jgmx- Tlgei
xlii `ri mjx o`h xlgmd xj hj gm `mh j xlifieqi% ti ljyeh dimir`eew t`gx
jr `m `~~rj~rg`xi ~`yi gm xli bjmqir`xgjm xj f`ci ` qiro`e ri~jmi- G xli
begimx g x`ecgmd i`gew xlim gx g oixxir xj f`gmx`gm `m `xximxgqi geimbi tlgbl
bjmqiw gmxirix mh ri~ibx-
^Ø ‒ x`mh jr ~riimx`xgjm% g-i- ljt hji xli begimx ~riimx xlifieqi mh
ljt ljyeh xli bjymieejr ~riimx xlifieqi:- @~ibx xj ejjc jyx jr gmbeyhi;
Tl`x g xli begimx‗ dimir`e fjjh; ri xliw ~jgxgqi mh y~oi`x% ~igfgxgbu
`mh hi~riih% mdrw mh bjmyih% hiimgqi mh t`rw:
Tl`x cgmh j ojhw e`mdy`di g xli begimx ygmd: Xli ghi` i|~riih gmu
RJEI_ ,`ojqi' `ri yiye xj xlgmc `ojyx ‒ g xli begimx j~im% hji xli begimx
yi `~~rj~rg`xi iwi bjmx`bx `mh ~lwgb`e hgx`mbi% g xli begimx ximi `mh
tgxlhr`tm:
G xli begimx mi`x `mh `~~rj~rg`xi gm hri `mh ~lwgb`e ~riimx`xgjm: Gx g mjxu
xli rjei j xli bjymieejr xj kyhdi xli begimx‗ `lgjm imi jr ~` fjr`e
kyhdfimx jm `m jyxx ‒ r`xlir xli bjymieejr g `igmd xli begimx‗ dimir`e
fjjh mh tieeoigmd- @ hi~riih ~irjm f`w jxim mideibx xligr ~irjm`e
`~~i`r`mbi `mh xlg b`m oi `m gf~jrx`mx t`rmgmd gdm-
Ljt hji xli begimx yi e`mdy`di: _`xi j ~iibl% xjmi j ~iibl `mhu
qjeyfi j ~iibl b`m `ibx ljt ti ymhirx`mh xli begimx `mh b`m `ej
yddix fjjh mh fimx`e x`xi-
Xli bjymieejr ljyeh `ej oi `~~rj~rg`xiew hriih gm `xxgri tlgbl g ygx&u
`oei jr lg jr lir ~rjigjm `mh xli bjmxi|x gm tlgbl xli bjymieegmd x`ci
~e`bi- Xli bjymieejr ljyeh oi mi`x mh xghw mh bjmqiw m `xxgxyhi j
~rjigjm`egf-
Xli bjymieejr ljyeh hiqiej~ `m `t`rimi j ljt li jr li yi e`m&u
dy`di mh xxif~x xj fjhgw qjb`e cgee xj gf~rjqi bjf~rilimgjm mh
bjffymgb`xgjm- @t`rimi j qjb`e xwei b`m oi d`gmih xlrjydl x`~gmd j
jmi‗ qjgbi `mh riqgitgmd jr be`rgxw jr ow `cgmd jr iiho`bc rjf jxlir%
gmbeyhgmd xli begimx- Xli cgmh j xlgmd xj ejjc jyx jr gmbeyhi;
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xjmi j ~iibl `mh qjeyfi j qjgbi; xli xjmi b`m bjmqiw t`rfxl `mh
if~`xlw jr gmhgb`xi ` higri xj orgmd jrf`egxw gmxj ` ~`rxgbye`r imbjym&
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r`xi j ~iibl; gm dimir`e jmi ljyeh yi ` ejtir r`xi tgxl ` begimx
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`h`~x ~rjmymbg`xgjm j birx`gm tjrh xj `bbjffjh`xi ejb`e xwei `mh
y`di% gm jrhir xj gf~rjqi bjf~rilimgjm-
rlwxlf j ~iibl; xli bjymieejr ljyeh xrw xj fjhgw xligr rlwxlf j
~iibl xj oi bei`r mh gmxirixgmd-
`~~rj~rg`xi tjrh mh e`mdy`di; xli bjymieejr miih xj ymhirx`mh
xli ~`rxgbye`r bjymieegmd bjmxi|x xj f`ci oixxir bljgbi j tjrh `mh
~lr`i tlgbl begimx yi `mh ymhirx`mh-
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l`mhbe`~ jr iqim ` lyd- Gm jxlir xliri f`w oi xrgbx egfgx`xgjm jm brj&dimhir xjyblgmd-
Gx tjyeh oi yiye xj i|~ejri;
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xliu xgfi r`fi ,eimdxl `mh myfoir j igjm'
xliu bjymieegmd r`fi ,oigmd gm begimx‗ r`fi j riirimbi% bri`xgmd ` `i
ifjxgjm`e ~`bi% egfgxih ie&hgbejyri mh ~lwgb`e bjmx`bx% x`cgmd
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Bjymieegmd Ar`fitjrc
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r`fitjrc gm bjymieegmd xj hibrgoi xli ~e`bi `mh xgfi tliri bjymieegmd l`~~im% ` tiee
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jm`e hix`ge ‒ m`fi% `di% `hhri `mh bjmx`bx myfoir- Rjfi bjymieejr ~riir xligr begimx
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tl`x xli begimx i|~ibx rjf xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~- Gm Rjyxl @rgb`% tliri bjymieegmd
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egmd ~rjbi- Gx ljyeh oi ai|goei `mh ri`egxgb-
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xliw tjyeh `h`~x xj i`bl gxy`xgjm g mibi`rw-
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jm xj bjf~eixi Fjhyei ?;
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bjymieejr xliw t`mx xj oi g-i- bl`r`bxirgxgb% q`eyi ixb-
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1- @m ghi`e bjymieejr;
l` ` djjh imi j lyfjyr`-
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4- Xlrii ~rgmbg~ei `mh q`eyi xl`x ri fjx gf~jrx`mx gm bjymieegmd ri;
oigmd ri`e% ri~jmgqi `mh ri~ibxye`-
oigmd ibrixgqi% tgi `mh f`xyrio-
oigmd irxgqi% ~rjigjm`e mh j~imb-
oigmd bjmbirmih% ejw`e `mh rgimhew-h-
<- If~`xlw fi`m;
xieegmd xli ~irjm wjy ymhirx`mh tl`x xliw ri djgmd xlrjydl`-
brwgmd `mh e`ydlgmd tgxl xli ~irjmo-
~yxxgmd wjyrie gm xli jxlir ~irjm‗ ljib-
xi~~gmd gmxj xli ~irjm‗ tjreh `mh bjffymgb`xgmd xlg ymhirx`mhgmd-h-
7- Ixlgb`e gyi xj bjmghir gm bjymieegmd gmqjeqi;
bjmhimxg`egxw`-
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^rgf`rw bjymieegmd cgeeFjhyei ?% mjxih gm xli gmxrjhybxgjm% g 8&h`w Fjhyei tlgbl gmxrjhybi gmhgqghy`e xj xli
fjhie j bjymieegmd `mh jbyi jm lie~gmd xli begimx xj xiee xligr xjrw% tlgbl gmqjeqi xli
o`gb bjymieegmd cgee j `xximhgmd% egximgmd% riibxgmd iiegmd% ri~lr`gmd% o`gb i|~ejrgmd
`mh yff`rggmd- Xli fjhie bljim g Id`m‗ fjhie% iimxg`eew ` ~irjm&bimxrih% ~rjoeif&
jeqgmd ~~rj`bl xj ~ij~ei tlj iic lie~- Gx g ~irjm&bimxrih gm xli imi xl`x xli bjymie&
ejr jbyi jm oygehgmd rie`xgjmlg~% bjmmibxgjm tgxl begimx% mh f`ci xlif iie q`eyih
`mh `~~ribg`xih tlgei bri`xgmd ` `i ~`bi jr xlif xj oi li`rh `mh `bcmjteihdih- Jxim
xlg g ybgimx xj myhdi xli begimx gmxj bl`mdi jr bbi~x`mbi oib`yi xliw ri dgqim m j~&
~jrxymgxw xj li`r xligr xljydlx `mh iiegmd riibxih o`bc gm ` xljydlxye `mh fi`mgmdye
t`w% f`cgmd gx ~jgoei jr xlif xj ii xlifieqi gm ` mit egdlx% ei`hgmd xj mit hgribxgjm-
Xlg ~irjm&bimxrih `~ibx g xli bjri jby j xlg Fjhyei ` xli cgee lie~ xj oygeh `m ymhir&
x`mhgmd j xli begimx% ojxl jr xli bjymieejr mh xli begimx- Xlg Fjhyei xly bjqir ~rgf`rw
bjymieegmd cgee% e`wgmd xli jymh`xgjm jr xli mi|x Fjhyei-
Xlg Fjhyei b`m oi yih jm gx jtm tgxl bjymieejr tlj l`qi oiim gm xli ieh jr ` tlgei
oyx tlj miih ` ririlir jm xli o`gb- G xlii o`gb cgee `ri mjx f`xirih% xli ~rjoeif&
jeqgmd `~ibx j Fjhyei 2 tgee oi hgbyex xj `xx`gm-
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== 0?>
H`w xlrii; @ fjhie ja bjymieegmd @bxgqgxw ?-0
Tiebjfi% i|~ibx xgjm `mh drjy~ ryei
Gm xlii oejbc% wjy tgee mh q`rgjy lgmx% xg~ `mh mjxi% tlgbl dgqi fjri hi&
x`geih i|~e`m`xgjm j xli cgee `mh bjmbi~x oigmd ~riimxih
Ryddixih fixljh;
@c i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw gmxrjhybi xlifieqi xj xli drjy~% `wgmd tlj0-
xliw `ri% tliri xliw tjrc% tl`x bjymieegmd i|~irgimbi xliw l`qi `mh tl`x
xliw lj~i xj `blgiqi gm xlg Fjhyei-
B`~xyri i|~ibx`xgjm jm g~bl`rx ~`~ir `mh hgby-?-
@c xli drjy~ xj or`gmxjrf drjymh ryei jr ` `i% l`rfjmgjy `mh ~rjhybxgqi2-
xr`gmgmd i|~irgimbi-
B`~xyri xlii mh hgby ‒ ii @bxgqgxw 0-? rjf Fjhyei 0 jr yrxlir i|~`mgjm8-
jm drjy~ ryei-
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xgjm mh hgbygjm j
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== 0??
^ri * ^jx&Fjhyei Pyixgjmm`gri ‒ ?
^ei`i bgrbei xli eixxir xl`x wjy xlgmc fjx ~~rj~rg`xiew mtir xli pyixgjm-
Xlrii riibxgjm ri~jmi gm bjymieegmd `ri;0-
_iibxgjm j iiegmd% bjmximx mh ~`r`~lr`gmd`-
_iibxgjm j iiegmd% bjmximx mh ~rjbio-
_iibxgjm j iiegmd% fi`mgmd `mh bjmximxb-
,o' `mh ,b'-h-
?- Tlim riibxgmd gm bjymieegmd% gx g gf~jrx`mx xj egmc iiegmd xj bjmximx;
Mj`-
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`- G riibxgmd gyi rie`xih xj xli bjymieegmd bjmxi|x `mh*jr bjymieejr
G riibxgmd iiegmd rie`xih xj xli begimx jyxghi bjmxi|xb-
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gmd gm bjymieegmd-
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^ri * ^jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri ? ‒ fjhie `mtir
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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e
== 0?8
@bxgqgxw ?-2
_iqggjm ja ciw ~jgmx jm bjymieegmd arjf Fjhyei 0
Ryddixih fixljh;
Egx igdlx bjri bjmbi~x j bjymieegmd ,ie&`t`rimi3 tjrcgmd tgxl hgqirgxw30-
`gf j bjymieegmd3 bjri q`eyi `mh ixlgb gm bjymieegmd3 cgee `mh py`egxgi j
` bjymieejr% i~ibg`eew ri~ibx% ri~jmgqimi `mh ri`emi3 if~`xlw% wf~`&
xlw `mh ghimxgb`xgjm3 ixxgmd y~ xli bjymieegmd3 `mh RJEI_ F@^' jm g~bl`rx
~`~ir `mh hgqghi xli drjy~ gmxj igdlx% tgxl jmi bjmbi~x ~ir drjy~- I`bl drjy~
himi `mh i|~e`gm xli bjmbi~x-
G xli drjy~ t` mjx i|~jih xj Fjhyei 0% xli `bgegx`xjr b`m orgiw i|~e`gm tl`x?-
i`bl bjmbi~x hgbygjm ljyeh bjqir-
@xir i`bl drjy~‗ gm~yx% xli `bgegx`xjr ee gm xli d`~ `mh riir xj mjxi rjf2-
Fjhyei 0-
Rf`ee&drjy~ hgbygjm%
~riimx`xgjm jeejtih
ow gm~yx rjf `bgegx`xjr
Ei`rmir hifjm&u
xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmdj xli ymh`fimx`e
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egmd rjf Fjhyei 0-
A`bgegx`xjr ghimxg&u
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@bxgqgxw ?-8
Dgqgmd `mh ribigqgmd aiiho`bc
Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh
hgbygjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi m ymhirx`mh&
gmd j dgqgmd `mhribigqgmd iiho`bc
,gm ~ri~`r`xgjm jr
xrg`h rjei&~e`w'-
2> fgmyxi
Mjmi
Yiye iiho`bc g hgribxih `x oil`qgjyr% tlgbl xli ribigqir b`m hj jfixlgmd
`ojyx-
Gx g gffihg`xi% bjmbgi `mh ~ibgb-
Ryddixih fixljh;
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc ojyx xli e`x xgfi xliw tiri dgqim iiho`bc ow imgjr0-
dyri ,eibxyrir% f`m`dir% ~`rimx' `mh ow ` ~iir-
Imbjyr`di iiho`bc `ojyx ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ i|~irgimbi- @c ~`rxgbg~`mx ljt xliw?-
iex `ojyx xli t`w xli iiho`bc t` dgqim% `mh tlixlir xliw xljydlx gx xj oi
iibxgqi jr mjx-
Mjt `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc `ojyx ` xgfi tlim xliw l`h xj dgqi iiho`bc xj2-
jfijmi xligr kymgjr `mh xj ` ~iir-
Imbjyr`di hgbygjm `ojyx ljt ~`rxgbg~`mx iex `ojyx dgqgmd iiho`bc `mh8-
tlixlir gx t` iibxgqi jr mjx-
Dgqi gm~yx ojyx iibxgqiew dgqgmd mh ribigqgmd iiho`bc mh riir ~`rxgbg~`mx9-
xj xli mjxi gm xligr f`my`e-
@bx gq g xw
Jyxbjfi
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== 0?1
Dgqgmd `mh _ibigqgmd Aiiho`bc
Dgqgmd `mh ribigqgmd iiho`bc iibxgqiew jbbyr tlim ~ij~ei gm gmxir`bxgjm eix i`bl jxlir
cmjt ljt xliw `ibx `mh gf~`bx jm i`bl jxlir- Xlg iiho`bc g hixirfgmih ow ri`egxgb jo&
irq`xgjm j xli ~irjm‗ oil`qgjyr mh ~irjrf`mbi- Gx f`w gmbeyhi ~r`gi% ie&hgbejyri jr
bjmxrybxgqi brgxgbgf j gmiibxgqi jr ie&hixrybxgqi xljydlx jr oil`qgjyr-
Xlrjydljyx xlg bjyri% i~ibg`eew hyrgmd rjei&~e`w% wjy tgee oi ripygrih xj dgqi iiho`bc xj
wjyr ~iir% `mh ribigqi iiho`bc rjf wjyr ~iir `mh xr`gmir-
Tlim dgqgmd iiho`bc xj `mjxlir ~irjm% imyri xl`x gx g;
gffihg`xiØ ‒ iiho`bc ljyeh oi dgqim gm xli liri&`mh&mjt- Hie`wih iiho`bc
jxim eji gx q`eyi `mh gf~jrx`mbi- Imyri xl`x iiho`bc g tiee xgfih ‒ `
djjh xgfi xj dgqi `mh ribigqi iiho`bc g hyrgmd xli hgbygjm xgfi `xir `
rjei&~e`w- Dgqi iiho`bc hyrgmd xli drjy~ igjm mh mjx `xir xli xr`gmgmd i&
gjm-
bjmxrybxgqiØ ‒ yiye iiho`bc ljyeh irqi ` ~yr~ji- Gx ljyeh oi hgribxih `x
oil`qgjyr% tlgbl xli ribigqir b`m hj jfixlgmd ojyx% i-d- xieegmd jfijmi
xl`x xligr lgdl&~gxblih qjgbi f`ci xlif iif jqirew tiix g mjx yiye% r`xlir
`c tl`x jxlir joirq`oei% mjm&qiro`e oil`qgjyr xl`x ~irjm g hg~e`wgmd xl`x
f`ci xlif iif jqirew tiix- Tlim dgqgmd bjmxrybxgqi brgxgbgf `w tl`x
bjyeh l`qi oiim hjmi hgirimxew `mh ljt gx fgdlx bl`mdi xli gf~`bx j xli
oil`qgjyr-
if~`xlgb`eew ljmixØ ‒ dgqgmd ~jgxgqi iiho`bc kyx xj f`ci xli ~irjm iie
oixxir jr oib`yi j rgimhlg~ l` ` xif~jr`rw iibx oyx hjim‗x l`qi `mw
ejmd&xirf q`eyi- Gx g xlrjydl iiho`bc xl`x ti ei`rm `mh drjt- Ljtiqir% xli
t`w ti dgqi iiho`bc g gf~jrx`mx- @ bjymieejr jfixgfi l` xj bl`eeimdi
xligr begimx‗ gmiibxgqi xljydlx mh oil`qgjyr% j dgqgmd ljmix oyx if~`xlgb
iiho`bc gm xlg drjy~ tgee oi djjh ~r`bxgbi jr bjymieegmd-
~ibgbØ ‒ qjgh q`dyi mh*jr kyhdifimx`e iiho`bc- Aiiho`bc ljyeh xly oi
o`ih jm joirq`xgjm j oil`qgjyr jr ~irjrf`mbi jmew- Cii~ xli iiho`bc
orgi `mh x`ec `ojyx ljt wjy tiri `ibxih ow xli ~irjm‗ oil`qgjyr-
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== 0?<
@bxgqgxw ?-9
@ fjhie ja bjymieegmd
Hgh`bxgb gm~yx mh drjy~
hgbygjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u
jmxr`xi ` dimir`e
ymhirx`mhgmd j xli
bjymieegmd fjhie
`mh bjymieegmd cgee-
89 fgmyxi
Aeg~&bl`rx
Xli q`rgjy cgee gm xlg fjhie bjf~rgi xli xjje j bjymieegmd-
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cmjt tlgbl xjje tgee oix lie~ ` begimx `x hgirimx xgfi-
Rjfixgfi ti miih jfijmi xj ymhirx`mh ljt ti `ri i|~irgimbgmd jyr
tjreh% jr xj lie~ y rijeqi ~rjoeif ‒ mh jfixgfi ti kyx miih jfijmi
xj oi xliri-
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Jm ` g~bl`rx oj`rh% hr`t xli “ljyi‗ bjymieegmd fjhie o`ih jm Id`m‗ lie~gmd0-
fjhie-
I|~e`gm xli q`rgjy x`di j bjymieegmd tgxlgm xli fjhie-?-
Lgdlegdlx xli rjei j xli bjymieejr% xli begimx mh xli bjffymgxw ,jxlir' gm xlg2-
fjhie-
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@ Fjhie ja Bjymieegmd
O`ih jm Id`m‗ Lie~gmd Fjhie
^rgmbg~ei ja xli fjhie
“Oygehgmd xli ljyi‗ fi`m oygehgmd xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~% gm lie~gmd xli begimx hi`e tgxl
lg*lir ~rjoeif- @ xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi fjqi jrt`rh% ` xryxgmd tjrcgmd rie`xgjmlg~
g oygex oixtiim bjymieejr `mh begimx-
Begimx l`qi hgirimx miih tgxl rid`rh xj bjymieegmd- Rjfi begimx kyx miih lie~ xj xiee
xligr xjrw% gm jrhir xj lie~ xlif xj bjmxgmyi tgxl xli “ljyi oygehgmd‗ jm xligr jtm- Xli
begimx g ri~jmgoei jr oygehgmd lg*lir ljyi `mh bjymieegmd b`m imh `x `mw x`di gm xli
“ljyi oygehgmd‗ ~rjbi! Xli bjymieejr g ` `bgegx`xjr xj xli ~rjbi- Egximgmd xj% `mh i|~ejr&
gmd xli begimx‗ xjrw lie~ xj oygeh xryx mh ymhirx`mhgmd% tlgbl xlim eejt xli begimx mh
bjymieejr xj fjqi gmxj i|~ejrgmd jeyxgjm `mh f`cgmd ` ~e`m- _iqgitgmd xli bjymieegmd
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bjffymgxw rijyrbi ri gmbeyhih gm xlg lie~gmd ~rjbi-
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^rjbi ja xli bjymieegmd fjhie
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y~~jrx xrybxyri% tlgbl jeejt xli jeejtgmd i|goei ~rjbi;
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ieegmd xj x`ci ~e`bi- Agrxew% xli bjymieejr ~ri~`ri lgf*lirie xlrjydl ie&`t`rimi `mh
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bjymieegmd ‒ oigmd ri~ibxye% ri`e mh ri~jmgqi-
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xj j~im y~- Gx `ej ~ri~`ri xli begimx `mh bjymieejr xj ri`bl ` eiqie tliri gx g ifjxgjm`eew
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joirqi;
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`i xli begimx‗ ~riimx`xgjm-
F`gm cgee yih; egximgmd% xximhgmd ,RJEI_ F@^'
Lie~ begimx xiee xligr xjrw
Oighi egximgmd xj xli begimx% ti b`m lie~ xlif xiee xligr xjrw% ow `bbyr`xiew riibxgmd xligr
iiegmd ,gf~jrx`mx!' `mh bjmximx- Ow hjgmd xlg% ti ljt xli begimx xl`x ti `ri tgeegmd xj
ymhirx`mh xligr tjreh ` xliw i|~irgimbi gx- Xlg `ej lie~ xj oygeh xryx `mh imbjyr`di
ie&riibxgjm-
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Lie~ begimx i|~ejri xligr xjrw
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xim l`qi xj hi`e tgxl gyi orjydlx y~ gm igjm% oixtiim begimx mh bjymieejr% i-d- begimxtlj `ri ligx`mx xj x`ec- Ti yi xli xirf “gffihg`bw‗ jr “riibxgjm j ~rjbi‗ xj riir xj xlg
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F`gm cgee yih; hii~ir if~`xlw% yff`rggmd% pyixgjmgmd% riibxgjm j ~rjbi% ym&
~`bcgmd ,hjm‗x jrdix ojyx wjyr o`gb cgee j egximgmd mh `xximhgmd liri xjj!'
Lie~ begimx f`ci ` ~e`m
F`mw mjqgbi bjymieejr ,`mh iqim jfi imgjr bjymieejr!' xlgmc xl`x xlg ~`rx j xli bjym&
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gmd xl`x xli begimx iie li`rh gm xirf j lg*lir iiegmd `mh i|~irgimbi-
Gm ~rjoeif jeqgmd% xli bjymieejr g firiew ` dyghi% ei`qgmd xli ri~jmgogegxw jr hibggjm
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@ bjymieejr% ti dyghi begimx ow lie~gmd xlif ejjc `x q`rgjy j~xgjm jr jeyxgjm xj xligr
~rjoeif- Ti `ej `gx begimx xj f`ci ` ~e`m% ow lie~gmd xlif tigdl y~ xli ~rj `mh bjm
j xli j~xgjm- Rjeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm f`w ej gx begimx gm xlgmcgmd ojyx xligr ~rjo&
eif hgirimxew-
F`gm cgee yih; jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjmgmd% ~rjoeif&jeqgmd fjhie
_iqgitgmd
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bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ l` ri`blih% `mh `bcmjteihdgmd xli hgirimx dj`e xl`x l`qi oiimri`egih riyex j xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~-
_iqgitgmd dgqi ojxl bjymieejr mh begimx imi j bejyri- Tlim riqgitgmd% gx g gf~jrx`mx
xj hi`e tgxl xli begimx‗ iiegmd j imhgmd bjymieegmd-
F`gm cgee yih; yff`rggmd
Begimx‗ i|xirm`e y~~jrx xrybxyri@ begimx‗ i|xirm`e y~~jrx xrybxyri% ybl ` `fgew% rgimh% riegdgjy ei`hir `mh bjffymgxw
fifoir% ljyeh `ej oi `bcmjteihdih gm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi- Begimx ljyeh oi im&
bjyr`dih xj yi xligr y~~jrx wxif gm lie~gmd xlif tgxl xligr ~rjoeif-
^rjoeif yy`eew jbbyr gm gmxir`bxgjm tgxl jxlir `mh xlirijri xli iibxgqi bjymieejr hji
mjx kyx jby jm xli gmhgqghy`e% oyx r`xlir jm xli gmhgqghy`e tgxlgm ` jbg`e wxif-
XG^R JM XJJER
Xli q`rgjy cgee gm xlg fjhie bjf~rgi xli xjje j bjymieegmd-
Gx g gf~jrx`mx xj mjxi xl`x cgee yih rjf xli oidgmmgmd j xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi
`ri yih xlrjydljyx% `mh y~ xj xli imh j xli bjymieegmd gmxir`bxgjm-
Xli fjx iibxgqi bjymieejr g xli ~irjm tlj mjx jmew l` f`mw xjje% oyx cmjt tlgbl
xjje tgee oix lie~ ` begimx `x hgirimx xgfi gm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi-
Rjfixgfi ti miih jfijmi xj ymhirx`mh ljt ti `ri i|~irgimbgmd jyr tjreh% jr xj lie~
y rijeqi ` ~rjoeif ‒ `mh jfixgfi ti kyx miih jfijmi xj oi xliri!
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@bxgqgxw ?-1
Hgaairimbi oixtiim oigmd ` bjymieejr `mh ` argimh
Ryddixih fixljh;
Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj gf`dgmi xl`x ` rgimh xiee xlif xl`x xligr ~`rxmir g bli`x&0-
gmd jm xlif `mh xliw hj mjx cmjt tl`x xj hj-
Mjt `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj gf`dgmi xl`x `m gmhgqghy`e% tlj xliw hj mjx cmjt% l`?-
bjfi xj iic lie~ rjf xlif ` ` bjymieejr% oib`yi xligr ~`rxmir g bli`xgmd
jm xlif-
Gm f`ee drjy~% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj hgby tl`x tjyeh oi hgirimx gm ljt xliw2-
tjyeh l`mhei xli xtj gxy`xgjm- Tl`x tjyeh xliw `w: Tl`x tjyeh xliw hj:
Ljt tjyeh xliw iie:
Gm e`rdi drjy~% imbjyr`di iiho`bc `mh rigxir`xi ~rjigjm`e `mh ixlgb`e oi&8-
l`qgjyr j ` bjymieejr-
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Rxi~~gmd xjmi
Ryddixih fixljh;
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drjy~-
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Lyf`m Hiqiej~fimx,@h`~xih rjf Bjymieegmd Rcgee jr Hyffgi ow D`ge Iq`m% ~yoeglih ow Kjlm Tgeiw Rjm%
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xj himi mjrf`e `mh `omjrf`e hiqiej~fimx gm ~`rxgbye`r `ri`% ybl ` xli hiqiej~fimx j
gmxieeibx% i|y`egxw `mh ~irjm`egxw- Lyf`m hiqiej~fimx g ` bjf~ei| xj~gb oyx tl`x b`m oi
`gh `ojyx g xlg;
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xgqi iibx ri mjx gmiqgx`oei-
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f`rw b`ridgqir% b`m l`qi gdmgb`mx gmyimbi jm gmhgqghy`e- Ribyri bjmmibxgjm gm
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gmd' `ri egciew xj ei`h xj ~jgxgqi `hyex bjmmibxgjm% djjh ie&ixiif `mh `m `ogegxw
xj hi`e tgxl xri- ^jjr bjmmibxgjm `mh `fgew ~rjoeif ,ybl ` qgjeimbi `mh
`rdyfimx' ri jbg`xih tgxl ~jjr jbg`e hkyxfimx mh ie&ixiif- Blgehrim j
hi~riih fjxlir jxim i|~irgimbi `hyex hi~rigjm ,xli ifjxgjm`e tgxlhr`t`ej xli fjxlir `ibx xli ie&ixiif gm xli blgeh'- ^iir bjmmibxgjm ‒ jr i|`f~ei
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xriye g xliw `ri o`h-
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i|~irgimbih gmyimbi ljt li ymhirx`mh `mh g `ibxih ow xli iqimx% gmbeyh&
gmd ljt li riibx jm xlif ` `m `hyex- Ajr i|`f~ei% `hyex tlj i|~irgimbih
xr`yf` gm blgehljjh% ybl ` xli ej j ` ~`rimx jr i|y`e `oyi% jxim bjmxgmyi
xj oe`fi xlifieqi hi~gxi ~jgoew cmjtgmd ,gmxieeibxy`eew' xl`x xliw tiri mjx
ri~jmgoei-
Mid`xgqi i|~irgimbi `mh xligr bjmipyimbi b`m ei`h xj ` bwbei j yrxlir rigm&8-
jrbgmd j mid`xgqi i|~irgimbi- Ajr i|`f~ei% ` blgeh tlj g lw f`w oi oyeegih
jr xi`ih% tlgbl ei`h xj yrxlir tgxlhr`t`e `mh gmbri`ih gje`xgjm- Dr`hy`eew xli
blgeh f`w d`gm bjmhimbi xlrjydl y~~jrxgqi i|~irgimbi- Ljtiqir ` e`xir xr`y&
f`xgb iqimx f`w yrxlir rigmjrbi xli ie oiegi j oigmd hgirimx `mh xl`x “jfi&
xlgmd fyx oi trjmd tgxl fi‗% tlgbl gmyimbi rgimhlg~ `mh ~`rxmir bljgbi gm
mid`xgqi% rigmjrbgmd t`w-
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A`fgew ~`xxirm mh wxif f`w bjmxgmyi xj rigmjrbi xrimdxl mh qyemir`ogegxgi9-gmxj `hyexljjh- @m gmhgqghy`e b`m oi ejbcih gmxj ` rjei jr ~`xxirm j oil`qgjyr% mjx
jmew gm rie`xgjm xj lir jrgdgm`e `fgew oyx `ej gm yoipyimx rie`xgjmlg~- Ajr i|&
`f~ei jfijmi tlj xjjc jm xli rjei j “fihg`xjr‗ gm ` qirw bjmgbxih `fgew f`w
oibjfi ` fihg`xjr gm `hyex rie`xgjmlg~% ~yxxgmd `ghi lir jtm miih jr higri
jr xli jxlir ~irjm-
I|~jyri xj% `mh ybbiye f`m`difimx j% fgmjr xrii hyrgmd blgehljjh `mh1-
`hjeibimbi b`m oygeh bj~gmd xr`xidgi ‒ xlii ybbii xi`bl ~ij~ei xliw b`m
bj~i mh xli bj~gmd xr`xidgi b`m oi xr`mirrih xj hgirimx egi bl`eeimdi-
@hjeibimbi g ` xgfi j ojxl qyemir`ogegxw `mh j~~jrxymgxw oib`yi dri`x ~lwg&4-
b`e `mh ifjxgjm`e bl`mdi x`ci ~e`bi- ^iir rie`xgjmlg~ `mh ~riyri `ri ~`rxgby&
e`rew gmyimxg`e- Fimx`e li`exl ~rjoeif ybl ` blg{j~lrimg` `mh hi~rigjm f`w
ifirdi jr xli rx xgfi gm xlg ~l`i-
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xj li`exlw ifjxgjm`e `hkyxfimx% j i|~ejr`xgjm j ~`x i|~irgimbi `gf b`m lie~
xli begimx xj f`ci imi j lir lgxjrw- Xlg cgmh j i|~ejr`xgjm ripygri `hq`mbih
bjymieegmd cgee `mh ljyeh jmew oi hjmi ow ` qirw i|~irgimbih bjymieejr gm y&
~irqggjm-
I|~irgimbi `mh gmyimbi rjf blgehljjh b`m oi jrf`xgqi `mh ejmd e`xgmd% oyx7-
`hyex i|~irgimbi bjmxgmyi xj l`~i mh gmyimbi xli ~irjm- Xli egximgmd lie~ir
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Hiqiej~fimx`e Gyi xj Bjmghir gm Bjymieegmd
1&0? wi`r
Blgehrim gm xlg `di drjy~ `ri bjmbirmih tgxl oigmd ribjdmgih% oyw `mh ~rjhybxgqi-
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` tiee ljt xj tjrc bjf~ixgxgqiew- rjoeif gm xlg hiqiej~fimx`e x`di jxim bimxri
jm mjx iiegmd `hipy`xi jr `bbi~xih- ,Mjxi; xlg bjyri hji mjx ipyg~ bjymieejr xj
hi`e tgxl xlg `di drjy~ ‒ ~ibg`e cgee `mh i|xr` xr`gmgmd g miihih xj tjrc tgxl wjymd
~ij~ei-'
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bimx `ri bjmbirmih tgxl ljt jxlir qgit xlif% ` tiee ` ljt xliw iie `ojyx xlif&
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tgxl hjeibimx-'
Wjymd `hyexljjh
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l`ri xlg ghimxgxw tgxl jfijmi iei- Agmhgmd gmxgf`bw `mh `qjghgmd gje`xgjm g ` bim&
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x`di `ri jxim `rjymh iiegmd xybc jr e`bcgmd gm `blgiqifimx-
Jeh `di
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ejjcgmd o`bc jm tl`x jmi l` `blgiqih- Xliri g jxim ` i`r j hi`xl `mh ` imi j
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fgmyxi xj f`ci xligr hibggjm ` ` drjy~-
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wjyrie u
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j tl`x xli ~irjm g `wgmd-
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@bxgqi Egximgmd
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Oejbc xj egximgmd
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~jgmxih% ryxr`xih% ojrih% yrg&
jy% l`xiye% gf~`xgimx% grrgx`xih%
jimhih% rixei% riqimdiye%
iel% xyoojrm% ymrgimhew%
ymgf~riih% ki`ejy% ym`~&
~rj`bl`oei% ~rjqjcih
@bbi~xih% `f`{ih% `fyih%
or`qi% b`ef% b`ri&rii% i`dir%
i|bgxih% `bgm`xih% dimirjy%
dr`xiye% l`~~w% li`exlw% lj~i&
ye% ejqih% eybcw% jqirkjwih% ~`&
xgimx% ~i`biye% ~rjyh% riegiqih%
`i% `xgih% ybbiye% yri%
wf~`xlixgb% xlrgeeih% xryxye%
ymhir bjmxrje% ymhirxjjh% q`e&
yih% tgeegmd
Dygexw% ifo`rr`ih% i|~jih%
jjegl% lyfgeg`xih% gmbjf~i&
ximx% gmibyri% grri~jmgoei%
ridrixye% ie&bjmbgjy% lw%
geew% jrrw% ymbjfjrx`oei% ym&
gf~jrx`mx% yiei% `l`fih%
rieybx`mx% ydew% ym`t`ri% fjh&
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@ aiiegmd qjb`oye`rw
_iibxgjm
Tlim jfiojhw x`ci xli xgfi xj xiee y xligr xjrw% gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti ri~jmh gm ` t`w
tlgbl ri~ibx tl`x xliw l`qi `gh `mh ljt xlif ti l`qi dr`~ih tl`x xliw `ri xrwgmd
xj `w- _iibxgmd cgee ri xlji cgee tlgbl eejt xli bjymieejr xj ri~jmh hgribxew xj tl`x
begimx l` `gh xj x`ci xli bjmqir`xgjm yrxlir gm yiye hgribxgjm- Xliw ej ljt xli bjym&
ieejr l` oiim egximgmd jr% g xli ri~jmi fgi xli f`rc% dgqi ~irfggjm xj xli begimx xj
~yx xli bjymieejr o`bc jm xr`bc- Gx g `et`w gf~jrx`mx xj oidgm ` ri~jmi tgxl ` py`egir
ybl ` ―Gx iif xj fi ‡‖ jr ―Gx `~~i`r xl`x ‡‖ `mh xj yi ` xjmi j qjgbi tlgbl bjmqiw
ximx`xgqimi- Xlg g mjx oib`yi xli bjymieejr tgli xj `~~i`r ymbirx`gm oyx xj ljt ri&
~ibx jr xli begimx‗ rgdlx xj oi xli m`e kyhdi j xli “xryxl‗ j xligr yxxir`mbi% xljydlx `mh
iiegmd-
Ciw riibxgmd ri~jmi
I`bl xiblmgpyi tgee oi geeyxr`xih ygmd xli jeejtgmd begimx x`xifimx;
―Rj mjt fw ~`rxmir l` eix% `mh G‗f `ejmi xj hi`e tgxl xli ogd ljyi `mh `ee
xli bljri- Li lie~ih fi ` ejx- G hjm‗x cmjt g G‗f djgmd xj bj~i mjt-‖
_iibxgjm ja bjmximx
Xli `bx j tl`x xli begimx g `wgmd ri riibxih ygmd xiblmgpyi b`eeih ~`r`~lr`gmd- `r`&
~lr`i `ri ljrx% bei`r ri~jmi gm tlgbl bjymieejr x`xi xli iimxg`e ~jgmx j xli begimx‗
x`xifimx gm xli bjymieejr‗ jtm tjrh- ^`r`~lr`gmd g mjx xli `fi ` gf~ew ri~i`xgmd
tjrh jr tjrh tl`x xli begimx l` `gh% oyx r`xlir xli bjymieejr yi lg*lir jtm tjrh xj
rix`xi xli f`gm ~jgmx j xli begimx‗ x`xifimx-
@m i|`f~ei;
―Rj wjy‗ri `wgmd xl`x mjt xl`x wjyr ~`rxmir l` djmi% wjy‗ee l`qi xj x`ci jm
fjri x`c% `mh wjy‗ri mjx yri wjy b`m f`m`di-‖
_iibxgjm ja aiiegmd
Ow `bbyr`xiew riibxgmd xli iiegmd tlgbl ` ~irjm g i|~irgimbgmd ti ~rjqghi ` hii~ir ym&
hirx`mhgmd j ljt `m iqimx l` `ibxih xli ~irjm `mh bjmmibx tgxl xli begimx `x `m ifj&
xgjm`e eiqie% tlgbl b`m orgmd xryx `mh iml`mbi r`~~jrx - _iibxgmd iiegmd `bbyr`xiew x`ci
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== 048
jfi ~r`bxgbi- Gm Imdegl% xliri `ri f`mw “iiegmd tjrh‗ j q`rgjy gmximgxgi% i-d- brj% `mdrw%
yrgjy- Jxlir Rjyxl @rgb`m e`mdy`di% ybl ` Rjxlj `mh [yey% hj mjx l`qi f`mw tjrh xjhibrgoi iiegmd x`xi% `mh xly gx x`ci ` ~ibg`e cgee xj ljt xl`x wjy ymhirx`mh tl`x xli
begimx g iiegmd- Ygmd fix`~ljr b`m oi yiye gm xlii gmx`mbi i-d- ―Wjyr li`rx iie jri‖
gmxi`h j ―Wjy iie hi~riih‖-
@m i|`f~ei;
―Gx jymh egci wjy‗ri iiegmd tjrrgih `mh jqirtliefih‖- ,Tgxl xlg ri~jmi%
ti ri xgee gm xli begimx‗ r`fi j riirimbi% mh xli begimx x`w jbyih jm lg*
lir iiegmd mh i|~irgimbi-'-
G xli bjymieejr g mjx pygxi yri tl`x xli begimx g iiegmd li jr li b`m `c xli begimx ` iie&
gmd pyixgjm ,―Ljt hji gx iie mjt xl`x wjy‗qi l`h xj x`ci jm `ee j xlg jm wjyr jtm:‖ '- Mjxi xl`x
if~`xlw g fjri pygbcew `blgiqih g xli rgdlx iiegmd b`m oi ghimxgih `mh riibxih ow xli
bjymieejr% r`xlir xl`m gx oigmd iegbgxih ow pyixgjm-
_iibxgjm ja fi`mgmd
_iibxgjm j hii~ir if~`xlw ,jfixgfi b`eeih riibxgjm j fi`mgmd' g `blgiqih xlrjydl
egmcgmd xli iiegmd xj xli bjmximx- F`mw bjymieegmd f`my`e mh bjyri yddix xl`x bjym&
ieejr yi xli ―wjy iie ,xli iiegmd% i-d- `h' oib`yi ,xli ri`jm% i-d- wjyr rie`xgjmlg~ orjci
hjtm'‡‖ jrfye` xj riibx ` bjfogm`xgjm j iiegmd `mh bjmximx- G yih gmbjrribxew `mh gm `
jrfye`gb t`w xlg b`m gffjogegi xli begimx% `mh bl`mdi xli begimx rjf oigmd gm ` ―iiegmd
fjhi‖ xj ` ―xlgmcgmd fjhi‖% g-i- gmxi`h j iiegmd ymhirxjjh% xli begimx g xrwgmd xj tjrc jyx
tlixlir xli bjymieejr l` djx gx rgdlx- G yih tiee% egmcgmd iiegmd xj bjmximx b`m iml`mbi
if~`xlw oib`yi gx x`rx xj orgmd hi~xl% fi`mgmd `mh xi|xyri xj xli bjymieegmd imbjym&
xir- Ow `jbg`xgmd xli iiegmd tgxl ` gxy`xgjm jr iqimx xli bjymieejr g lie~gmd xj xgi y~
xli xlri`h j xli bjmqir`xgjm `mh xj lie~ xli begimx ii tlw% gm ` birx`gm gxy`xgjm% xliwri~jmhih gm ` birx`gm t`w- Rjfixgfi g xli begimx l` `eri`hw ghimxgih ` ~`rxgbye`r iiegmd%
xli bjymieejr b`m i|~`mh `mh i|~ejri xl`x iiegmd ow `cgmd xli begimx xj `w fjri `ojyx
xli iiegmd jr xj hibrgoi gx gf~`bx- @ bjymieejr b`m `ej gf~ew ri~i`x xli iiegmd tjrh gm
ximx`xgqi `mh pyixgjmgmd t`w% imbjyr`dgmd xli begimx xj dj hii~ir `mh yrxlir-
@m i|`f~ei;
―G G‗qi li`rh bjrribxew% wjy‗ri `wgmd xl`x wjy iie b`rih mh jqirtliefih% oi&
b`yi gx iif ` g wjyr ~`rxmir l` eix wjy xj bj~i jm wjyr jtm-‖
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―Rj wjyr ~`rxmir‗ hi~`rxyri l` r`gih ejx j iiegmd gm wjy; ~irl`~ m|gixw%
i`r% `mdir ‡‖
Ojxl xlii ri~jmi `eejt xli begimx xj bjmrf jr hgbjmrf tl`x xli bjymieejr g `wgmd-
_iibxgjm ja ~rjbi;
Rjfixgfi ti riibx xli begimx‗ iiegmd rie`xih xj bjymieegmd gxie jr xjt`rh xli bjymie&
ejr- Xlg g b`eeih riibxgjm j ~rjbi ,jr gffihg`bw'
@m i|`f~ei;
―Wjy iie ifo`rr`ih x`ecgmd xj fi ojyx ~irjm`e xlgmd‖% jr ―Tlim wjy `gh
wjyr ~`rxmir l`h eix wjy G mjxgbih xi`r b`fi gmxj wjyr iwi ‒ xlg iie qirw
`h jr wjy-‖
Rj gffihg`bw cgee b`m riibx jm xli rie`xgjmlg~ oixtiim xli bjymieejr `mh begimx ,jr xli
“~rjbi‗ j tl`x g l`~~imgmd oixtiim xlif'- G% jr i|`f~ei% xli bjymieejr `c xli beg&
imx ` pyixgjm `ojyx lir rie`xgjmlg~ tgxl lir ~`rxmir ,―Ljt `ri xlgmd oixtiim wjy `mh wjyr
~`rxmir:‖ ' `mh xli begimx oibjfi qirw `mdrw% xli bjymieejr f`w miih xj `hhri xli begimx‗
ri~jmi jjm ~jgoei- Xli bjymieejr bjyeh ri~jmh gm myfoir j hgirimx t`w;
―Ry`m G mjxgbih wjy djx `mdrw jr `m|gjy tlim G `cih wjy `ojyx wjyr ~`rx&
mir% tl`x t` djgmd jm jr wjy gm xl`x fjfimx:‖
―Ry`m xl`x iifih xj oi `m `tct`rh fjfimx oixtiim wjy `mh fi xliri%
~irl`~ ti ljyeh x`ec `ojyx gx:‖
―Ry`m gx iifih wjy djx qirw `mdrw jr `m|gjy xlim- Bjyeh wjy xiee fi tl`x
`mdirih wjy jr f`hi wjy `m|gjy:‖
Ry`m‗ `mdrw ri~jmi fgdlx l`qi oiim oib`yi li iex lyfgeg`xih `ojyx lir xrjyoeih
rie`xgjmlg~ jr iex ~yx jm xli ~jx ow xli bjymieejr xjj i`rew gm xli bjymieegmd igjm- Rli
bjyeh l`qi imih ` ~`xxirm j bl`eeimdgmd pyixgjm rjf xli bjymieejr% jr li bjyeh l`qi
oiim hiimgqi oib`yi ~riqgjy bjymieejr l`h oiim pygxi kyhdifimx`e ojyx lir ~`rxmir-
Jmew ow ygmd xli cgee j gffihg`bw tgee xli bjymieejr dix xj xli rjjx j xli gyi `mh `eejt
xli gr xj oi bei`rih- Jmbi xli gyi g jyx gm xli j~im gx b`m oi `hhriih mh xli rie`xgjmlg~
oixtiim xli bjymieejr `mh begimx ~yx o`bc jm `m `fgb`oei `mh tjrc`oei jjxgmd-
Fix`&bjffymgb`xgjm ,bjffymgb`xgmd `ojyx ` bjffymgb`xgjm' g `ej ` riibxgjm j ~rj&
bi-
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== 041
@m i|`f~ei;
―Wjyr qjgbi iif xj dix fybl ejtir tlim wjy x`ec `ojyx wjyr gxir‡‖
_iibxgjm j ~rjbi g `m `hq`mbih cgee jmew xj oi yih ow `m i|~irgimbih bjymieejr `mh
`et`w xir djjh% xryxgmd rie`xgjmlg~ l` oiim hiqiej~ih-
_iibxgjm xg~
Tlim ` riibxgjm g `bbyr`xi xli begimx iie imbjyr`dih xj bjmxgmyi ~i`cgmd `mh xj l`ri
fjri ~irjm`e gmjrf`xgjm- Liri ri jfi xg~ xj lie~ wjy riibx iiegmd;
0> Bjffjm if~`xlgb ri~jmi ei`h ,t`w ja x`rxgmd ` riibxgjm'
Wjy iie‡
G d`xlir‡
Gx iif xj wjy‡
Gx jymh egci‡
G dyi wjy‗ri iiegmd‡
G G‗f li`rgmd wjy bjrribxew‡
G tjmhir g wjy `ri `wgmd‡
Gx iif egci wjy‗ri iiegmd‡
Egximgmd xj wjy% gx iif ` g‡
G gf`dgmi xl`x wjy f`w oi iiegmd‡
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_iibxgjm ja aiiegmd
Gf`dgmi wjyrie egximgmd xj i`bl j xli ~ij~ei pyjxih oiejt- Xrw xj bjffymgb`xi xj i`bl ~irjm
`m bbyr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd j lg*lir iiegmd% ygmd iiegmd tjrh-
Fjxlir ,88' x`ecgmd `ojyx lir 04&wi`r&jeh jm;
―G b`m‗x oiegiqi gx! ,Rl`cgmd lir li`h ' K`bjo xyhgih xli tljei h`w jr lg xix% tlim lg rgimh tiri
l`qgmd ` ~`rxw mi|x hjjr ,li fgei'- G miqir xljydlx li tjyeh `bxy`eew hj gx-‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
Rxyhimx ,??';
―G‗f djgmd xj lj~gx`e mi|x tiic jr jfi xix , x`ci ` hii~ ori`xl'- Xli hjbxjr y~ibx gx fgdlx
oi ` r`ri hgi`i- G `f mjx yri tl`x xj i|~ibx% , ~`yi' `mh G‗f xlgmcgmd f`woi G ljyehm‗x dj- G‗f
l`qgmd mgdlxf`ri `mh iie egci G b`m‗x i`x-‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
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== 04<
F`m ,1>';
―Xli cgh `ri `ee drjtm y~ `mh xli ljyi iie j if~xw ,ejjcgmd hjtm'- Mjt xl`x G‗f rixgrih% G hjm‗x
ri`eew cmjt tl`x xj hj tgxl fwie- G tgl fw tgi l`hm‗x hgih e`x wi`r ,jx qjgbi'-‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
A`xlir ,89' tgxl ` h`ydlxir ,07' tlj t` kyx lgx ow ` b`r;
―G ljyeh l`qi miqir eejtih lir xj dj jyx ,trgmdgmd lg l`mh'- Tl`x tgee fw tgi `w tlim li dix
ljfi ,x`mh y~ mh t`ec rjymh '- Gx efjx iie egci G f xli jmi tlj o`lih gmxj K`bcw `mh orjci
lir eid% mjx xli dyw gm xl`x b`r ,gx hjtm `mh x`ri `x jjr% x`~~gmd amdir jm x`oei'- G hjm‗x cmjt-‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
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Tjfim ,8>' x`ecgmd `ojyx lir kjo;
―Rjfixgfi gx iie egci G‗f egqgmd egi- G f mjx gmxirixih gm fw tjrc mwfjri- Gx g dixxgmd fjri mh
fjri hgbyex xj dix y~ gm xli fjrmgmd ,ryo lir jrili`h'- Oyx fw oj `w xl`x g G ei`qi% xli ~e`bi
tgee `ee ~`rx- G b`m‗x kyx ei`qi xir 0> wi`r ,gdl li`qgew'- Gx‗ j hgbyex-‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
Wjymd tjfim ,?0';
―G t` mjx ejjcgmd jrt`rh xj fw rx h`w `x tjrc- Mit ~ij~ei% mit ~e`bi--- Oyx tlim G djx xliri
xli ~ij~ei tiri ri`eew rgimhew ,fgei'% xliw iqim gmqgxih fi jr hrgmc `xirt`rh- Gx‗ ` ri`eew mgbi
`xfj~liri gm xli jbi-‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
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== 0<>
Tjfim ,8<';
, @qjgh iwi bjmx`bx% ejjc hjtm' ―G kyx--- , ~`yi% l`ci lir li`h ' G b`m‗x x`ci gx `ee `mwfjri‖ ,brgi tgxl
lir li`h gm lir l`mh'-
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
,+Tl`x tjyeh wjy `w g li ~jci gm ` ejyh qjgbi% xlrjydl drgxxih xiixl: Mjm&qiro`e `ri gf~jrx`mx!'
Wjymd f`m ,?7';
―G cii~ xlgmcgmd `ojyx jmi j fw djjh rgimh- Ti l`h ` xlgmd jmbi- Rli‗ mjx tiee--- G hjm‗x cmjt
tl`x g trjmd tgxl lir- Ti yih xj dj jyx jxim% oyx mjt li kyx cii~ xj lirie- Gx‗ xr`mdi ,ejjc
hjtm'- Tlw tjyeh li hj xlg:‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
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Wjymd f`m ,?7';
―G l`qi LGQ- G hgbjqirih xlg xtj wi`r `dj mh oib`fi ri`eew gbc- D`qi y~ fw xyhgi mh ejx fjx
j fw rgimh ,ejjc hjtm% ejt xjmi j qjgbi% gdl mh xlim ejjc y~'- E`x tiic G x`rxih @_Q xri`xfimx
`mh gx‗ djgmd tiee ,mjh `mh fgei'- G ri`eew oiegiqi xlgmd tgee dix oixxir rjf mjt jm- G‗f yri j gx!
Djh tgee lie~ fi xlrjydl gx% G cmjt Li tgee-‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
F`m ,8?' x`ecgmd `ojyx lg fjxlir;
―Gx‗ kyx dixxgmd xjj fybl ,ejyh qjgbi'- Fw fjxlir g `et`w jm fw o`bc `ojyx x`ecgmd xj fw tgi
`ojyx l`qgmd cgh- Ti‗qi hibghih mjx xj l`qi cgh% `mh fw fjxlir tjm‗x `bbi~x gx- Rli iqim ~yx
~ridm`mbw ~`f~leix `ee jqir jyr ljyi-‖
_iibxgjm j bjmximx;
_iibxgjm j iiegmd;
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== 0<?
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Aiiegmd rjei&~e`w
Ryddixih fixljh;
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lg~ `eejyx-
@c xli “bjymieejr‗ xj `bbyr`xiew riibx iiegmd-2-
@xir ` it fgmyxi xj~ xli rjei&~e`w `mh `c xli ~`rxgbg~`mx xj t`~ rjei-8-
Gm e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc- @c begimx ljt gx iex g xli bjymieejr riibxih9-
bjmximx `mh gdmjrih iiegmd- @c bjymieejr ljt xliw i|~irgimbih xli rjei&
~e`w-
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jmxr`xi m ymhir&
x`mhgmd j riibxgmd
iiegmd-
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ljyxih `x wjyr oj:‖
Ryddixih fixljh;
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igjm-
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I|~ejrgmd Xlrjydl Pyixgjmgmd
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gmd'- Xlg i|~ejrgmd b`m oi hjmi gm ` myfoir j t`w-
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wjyrie;
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bjymieegmd:‖
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xj yff`rgi jr riibx jm ` ~`rxgbye`r hgbygjm- Xlg bjyeh oi qirw iib&
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xligr kyhdifimx-
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Tlw gm‗x xlg tjrcgmd jr wjy:‖ ―Tlw hj wjy mjx ymhirx`mh xlg:‖
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―Ljt ejmd l` xlg oiim djgmd jm jr:‖
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―Tiee% tl`x tgee wjy hj:‖
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@bxgqgxw 2-<
J~im qiry bejih pyixgjm
J~im&imhih pyixgjm ri xlji xl`x bjyeh ribigqi f`mw hgirimx cgmh j `m&
tir% i-d-
―Xiee fi `ojyx wjyr blgehrim-‖
Bejih pyixgjm `ri xlji xl`x ripygri ` qirw ~ibgb `mtir% yy`eew wi * mj
`mtir%
i-d- ―Ljt f`mw blgehrim hj wjy l`qi:‖
Ryddixih fixljh;
Dgqi gm~yx jm xli hgirimbi oixtiim bejih `mh j~im&imhih pyixgjm% oygeh&0-
gmd jm @bxgqgxw ?-28-
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~`rxgbg~`mx xj `c pyixgjm-
^`rxgbg~`mx jm xli `bgegx`xjr‗ rgdlx fyx `c ` pyixgjm xj mh jyx fjri `ojyx2-xli ~rjoeif-
G xli pyixgjm g j~im&imhih% xli xjrwxieeir bjmxgmyi x`ecgmd jr mjx ejmdir8-
xl`m 0> ibjmh% `mh xlim ~`yi xj `eejt xli mi|x ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `c ` pyi&
xgjm-
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`mh xli hgribxgjm bl`mdi xj xli eix% jr ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `c pyixgjm-
Xli pyixgjm bjmxgmyi gm xl`x hgribxgjm ymxge jfijmi `c ` bejih pyixgjm%1-
tlim xli hgribxgjm bl`mdi d`gm-
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J~im pyixgjm b`m‗x oi `mtirih ow jmi jr xtj tjrh% l`qi fjri xl`m jmi `mtir
`mh yy`eew oidgm tgxl “ljt‗ “tlim‗ jr “tl`x‗- Xliw imbjyr`di xli begimx xj i|~ejri lg*
lir xjrw gm fjri hix`ge `mh cii~ bjffymgb`xgjm djgmd- Xliw‗ri `ej yiye tlim oi&
dgmmgmd ` bjmqir`xgjm- J~im&imhih pyixgjm `ej ~riyfi xliri g xgfi jr `m i|&
ximhih hgbygjm-
Bejih pyixgjm `ri ei yiye gm bjymieegmd% oib`yi xliw xj~ xli jt j bjmqir`&
xgjm- Xlii pyixgjm b`m yy`eew oi `mtirih “wi‗ jr “mj‗ jr ow jmi jr xtj tjrh% `mh
xliw yy`eew x`rx tgxl “g‗% “hj‗% “l`qi‗% ixb- Gm birx`gm bjmxi|x ` bejih pyixgjm% jmi tlgbl
l` ` wi jr mj jr jfi jxlir jrbih bljgbi `mtir% `ej l` gx yi% i~ibg`eew g xgfi
g egfgxih- Rjfi bejih pyixgjm b`m oi “ei`hgmd‗ gm xl`x xliw ~jgmx xli begimx gm ` qirw
~ibgb `mh “jbg`eew higr`oei‗ hgribxgjm ‒ ei`qgmd xli bjymieejr ymyri g xli begimx ri`eewoiegiqi xligr jtm `mtir- Ajr i|`f~ei% g xli bjymieejr `c ―Wjy hj ymhirx`mh xlg%
hjm‗x wjy:‖% xli begimx tgee jxim `mtir ―Wi‖ oib`yi xlg g xli i|~ibxih `mtir `mh
xliw hj mjx tgl xj bjfi `brj ` jjegl-
Ryddixgjm ajr `cgmd j~im&imhih pyixgjm
Xj imbjyr`di hgbygjm yi “Tl`x‗ `mh “Ljt‗;
―Ljt t` xl`x jr wjy:‖
―Tl`x hgh wjy iie jr hj:‖
―Ljt b`m G lie~ wjy:‖
―Tl`x g jm wjyr fgmh:‖
J~im&imhih `mh bejih pyixgjm
―Xiee fi fjri `ojyx tl`x wjy xjeh lgf:‖
―Tl`x l`qi wjy xrgih:‖ ―Ljt hji oigmd xriih iie jr wjy:‖
―Hgh wjy xiee lgf:
‖ L`qi wjy xrgih xlg:‖
@ri wjy xriih:‖
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Xj ripyix hibrg~xgjm;
―Xiee fi `ojyx‡‖
―I|~e`gm xj fi‡‖
―Gm tl`x t`w hji‡:‖
Xj dgqi ` ~irjm `m j~~jrxymgxw xj i|~`mh jm tl`x g oigmd `gh;
―Tlim wjy `w li y~ix wjy% tl`x i|`bxew hji li `w jr hj:‖
―Tl`x fjri b`m wjy `w `ojyx xl`x:‖
Xj ajby jm aiiegmd;
―Ljt tjyeh wjy hibrgoi wjyr iiegmd:‖
―Ljt hj wjy iie `ojyx xl`x:‖
Xj ajby jm ~e`m;
―Tl`x tgee wjy hj‡:‖
―Ljt tgee wjy f`ci gx l`~~im:‖
―Ljt tgee xl`x lie~ wjy xj‡:‖
―Tl`x `ri wjyr bljgbi:‖
―Tl`x bjyeh wjy hj xl`x fgdlx bl`mdi xlgmd:‖
―Tl`x fgdlx oi xli hgbyexgi gm hjgmd‡:‖
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@bxgqgxw 2-7
Oibjfgmd fjri ~ibgb
Jxim begimx bjfi xj bjymieegmd tgxl ` “yee o`d j ~rjoeif‗ `mh f`w miih
jfi lie~ “ym~`bcgmd‗ ` e`rdi jr ymhimih ~rjoeif gmxj fjri ~ibgb jby
`ri`-
Ryddixih fixljh;
Dgqi gm~yx jm ~ibgbgxw gm bjymieegmd-0-
Trgxi xli jeejtgmd q`dyi x`xifimx jm g~bl`rx oj`rh;?-
―^ij~ei ximh xj ojxlir fi xlii h`w-‖ u
―G‗f mjx iiegmd egci fwie xjh`w-‖ u
―G f ` hi~riih ~irjm-‖ u
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx;2-
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Tl`x xliw tjyeh `w xj imbjyr`di ~ibgbgxw gm xli `ojqi bim`rgj:u
Tl`x `ri jfi bl`eeimdi gm oibjfgmd xjj ~ibgb xjj jjm:u
Gm ~`gr% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj rjei&~e`w q`dyi begimx `mh xli bjymieejr ljyeh8-
imbjyr`di ~ibgbgxw- ,Bjymieejr ljyeh yi ee cgee bjqirih j `r-'
Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh ~`grih
rjei&~e`w
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd
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xgjm-
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Pyixgjmgmd
Gf`dgmi wjyrie egximgmd xj i`bl j xli ~ij~ei pyjxih oiejt- Ajrfye`xi `x ei`x 2 ~jgoei
j~im&imhih pyixgjm jr i`bl bim`rgj-
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l`qi miqir imkjwih xli tjrc! Gx iie egci G l`qi kyx t`xih fw egi ow xyhwgmd ` bjyri xl`x‗
yiei `mh tjrcgmd jr xli trjmd bjf~`mgi-‖
_i~jmi;
―Fw fjxlir g jqir&~rjxibxgqi- Tlim G dj jyx tgxl ` dgre% li t`mx xj cmjt iqirwxlgmd `ojyx
lir- G‗f xirrgaih j orgmdgmd fw h`xi ljfi% gm b`i li b`ri xlif `t`w- Fw gxir `w G fyx
kyx gdmjri fw fjxlir `mh fjqi jyx xli ljyi-‖
_i~jmi;
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oib`yi fw ~`rxmir g x`rxgmd xj y~ibx jfixlgmd g trjmd-‖
_i~jmi;
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i|~irgimbi-
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imbi% i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih
xjh`w-‖
^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&
rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~
i|~irgimbi
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g bri`xih fjmdx~`rxgbg~`mx-
^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u
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gdmgb`mx `bxjr
jyxghi xli drjy~
xl`x bjyeh gmyimbi
xli drjy~ ~rjbi-
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H`w igdlx; Lie~gmd xli begimx f`ci `~e`m
@bxgqgxw 2-0?
Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi
Ryddixih fixljh;
Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j ~riqgjy h`w‗ `mh0-
iqimgmd‗ i|~irgimbi-
_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew?-
tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-
Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx `ojyx xli bl`eeimdi ‒ pyixgjmgmd2-
cgee ‒ `mh hgby xligr `mtir `mh i|~ejri bl`eeimdi-
Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi%8-g ~~rj~rg`xi-
^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&
rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~
i|~irgimbi-
^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u
~`bi xj riibx jm
xli ~riqgjy iqimgmd
`mh xligr xljydlx
`ojyx xli ~riqgjy
h`w `xir jfi xgfi
l` ~`ih-
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jmxr`xi xligr dr`~
j xli bl`eeimdi jm
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@bxgqgxw 2-02
Xlgmc o`bc xj xgfi tlim bl`eeimdih ‡
Ryddixih fixljh;
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~ei- Jmi tliri xli bl`eeimdi t` ybbiye ,tliri xliw djx xligr ~jgmx `brj'
`mh jmi tliri xli bl`eeimdi t` ymybbiye-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `mtir xli pyixgjm ymhir xli?- Bl`eeimdgmd `bxgqgxw gm xligr
bjyri f`my`e-
Hgqghi xli drjy~ gmxj ~`gr xj hgby xligr i|~irgimbi-2-
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby xli rjei j bl`eeimdgmd gm bjymieegmd-8-
Rie&`t`rimi mh
~`grih hgbygjm
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi t`rimi j
iibxgqi bl`eeimdgmd-
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bjyri f`my`e-
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Bl`eeimdgmd
Rybbiye
Bl`eeimdi
Ymybbiye
Bl`eeimdi
0- Ljt tiee hgh wjy
cmjt xli ~irjm:
?- Tlim `mh tliri
hgh wjy bl`eeimdi
xli ~irjm:
2- Ljt gf~jrx`mx
t` gx jr xl`x ~ir&
jm xj bl`mdi:
8- Ljt hgh wjy dj
`ojyx bl`eeimdgmd
lgf*lir:
9- Ljt hgh xli ~irjm
ri`bx xj bl`eeimdi:
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Bl`eeimdgmd
^yr~ji ja bl`eeimdgmd cgee
Xj lie~ xli begimx dix gm xjybl tgxl xligr “oegmh ~jx‗-0-
Gx gmqgxi xli jxlir ~irjm xj i|`fgmi lg*lir oil`qgjyr mh xxgxyhi-?-
Gx lie~ xli begimx xj hiqiej~ mit ~ir~ibxgqi jr gmgdlx xl`x `ri miihih xj be`rgw xli2-
~rjoeif`xgb gxy`xgjm mh xj fjqi jm xj hiqiej~gmd mit j~xgjm j xlgmcgmd mh oil`q&
gmd-
Bl`eeimdgmd cgee gmbeyhi
Rl`rgmd gmjrf`xgjmØ ‒ g mjx xli `fi ` dgqgmd `hqgbi jr ~ri`blgmd% oyx r`xlir
lie~ xli begimx xj ymhirx`mh xligr hgbyexgi oixxir `mh x`ci iibxgqi `bxgjm-
Ryff`rggmdØ ‒ gmqjeqi lie~gmd begimx ii xli ogddir ~gbxyri% ghimxgw xlifi mhii xlgmd xliw f`w oi jqirejjcgmd-
_iaibxgmd ~rjbiØ ,gffihg`bw' ‒ Wjyr ogegxw xj hi`e tgxl tl`x g l`~~imgmd
oixtiim wjy `mh wjyr begimx gm xli bjymieegmd igjm g `m gf~jrx`mx cgee- Gx g `
bjf~ei| cgee xl`x gmqjeqi;
riqi`egmd ljt wjy ri oigmd ibxih ow xli begimxu
i|~ejrgmd wjyr jtm oil`qgjyr xjt`rh xli begimxu
gmqgxgmd xli begimx xj i|~ejri xli bjymieegmd gmxir&u
`bxgjm
tgxl ` qgit xj hiqiej~gmd ` oixxir tjrcgmd rie`&u
xgjmlg~-
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`ri f`mw ~ij~ei egqgmd yee `mh ~rjhybxgqi egqi tgxl xli qgry- Hj wjy
cmjt `ojyx xri`xfimx `q`ge`oei jr LGQ:‖
―Wjy l`qi fimxgjmih wjyr ymbei f`mw xgfi gm wjyr xjrw- Bjyeh li oi
` jyrbi j y~~jrx jr wjy:‖
―G l`qi mjxgbih xl`x wjy‗qi oiim f`cgmd i|&
y`e yddixgjm xjt`rh
fi hyrgmd bjymieegmd-
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wjy ii xlgmd:‖
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Bjmghir xli ajeejtgmd xg~ ajr iaaibxgqi bl`eeimdgmd
Xli f`mmir gm tlgbl wjy bl`eeimdi g qirw gf~jrx`mx ‒ rififoir xj oi if~`xlgb0-
`mh imgxgqi- @qjgh ljyxgmd% ~ei`hgmd `mh xlri`ximgmd-
Q`dyi dimir`eg`xgjm `mh “~wbljejdgb`e‗ `m`ewi `ri mjx yiye- _`xlir yi hgribx%?-
bjmbrixi mh ~ibgb i|`f~ei tlim bjmrjmxgmd-
Bl`eeimdi fyx oi xgfih `~~rj~rg`xiew% `mh `ee xli ~jgoei bjmipyimbi j xli2-
bjmrjmx`xgjm ljyeh oi bjmghirih ow xli bjymieejr oijri bl`eeimdgmd-
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xgjm jr bl`eeimdgmd xj oi iibxgqi- Ljtiqir% bl`eeimdgmd g fjri hgbyex tlim wjy
`ri jqir&gmqjeqih gm xli gxy`xgjm-
Imyri xl`x wjyr fjxgqi jr bl`eeimdgmd g xj lie~ xli jxlir ~irjm% r`xlir xl`m xj9-
qimx wjyr ryxr`xgjm% mdir% m|gixw mh j~gmgjm jm xli jxlir ~irjm-
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bljgbi-
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@bxgqgxw 2-08
Bl`eeimdgmd rjei&~e`w
Ryddixih fixljh;
Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj xlrii ,begimx% bjymieejr `mh joirqir' `mh `eejt xlif0-
xj ~r`bxgi xli cgee j bl`eeimdgmd% oygehgmd jm `ee xli o`gb cgee bjqirih j `r-
Or`gmxjrf ` rjei&~e`w bim`rgj tgxl xli ~`rxgbg~`mx gm tlgbl wjy hiqiej~ `?-
xjrw f`mw ~`rxgbg~`mx b`m ghimxgw tgxl- Jr yi jmi j xli jeejtgmd bim`rgj
~ir drjy~;
@x wjyr byrrimx tjrc~e`bi% wjyr bj&tjrcir l` eix i`rew xlrii xgfi xlg`-
tiic tgxl q`dyi i|byi- Tlim li ei`qi i`rew% wjy l`qi xj hj `ee xli
~`~ir tjrc `mh wjy iie xl`x xlg g ym`gr-
@m jehir tjf`m `~~rj`bli wjyr jrd`mg`xgjm xj ii ` bjymieejr- Gmo-
xli fghhei j lir rx igjm tgxl wjy% li l`ci lir li`h `mh `w
xl`x wjy `ri `r xjj wjymd xj oi `oei xj lie~ lir-
@ wjymd f`m g iigmd wjy jr bjymieegmd oib`yi j ~rjoeif `xb-
tjrc- Gm igjm% li `qjgh iwi bjmx`bx tgxl wjy `mh ejjc hjtm `x xli
jjr- Li g ligx`mx xj x`ec- Tlim wjy riibx jm lg mjm&qiro`e oil`q&
gjyr% li `w li g mi xjh`w% `mh xl`x xliri g mjxlgmd trjmd-
2- Ryddix xliw x`ci xli rjei&~e`w ` ejtew ` mibi`rw-
X ci iiho`bc `ojyx xli rjei&~e`w gm ~eim`rw-8-
Hiorgi xlji ~e`wgmd xli begimx-9-
Xrg`h rjei&~e w
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi ymhirx`mh&
gmd j xli cgee j
bl`eeimdgmd mhgffihg`bw-
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@bxgqgxw 2-09
^rjoeif jeqgmd
Ryddixih fixljh;
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx ljt xliw tjyeh dj `ojyx jeqgmd xli jeejtgmd ~rjoeif ,ri`h0-
jyx xj drjy~';
―Wjy‗qi oiim l`qgmd `rdyfimx tgxl ` bjeei`dyi j wjyr% tlj wjy
l`qi tjrcih tgxl jr ? wi`r- Tlgei xli `rdyfimx l`qi oiim `ojyx
tjrc gyi% xliw l`qi x`rxih xj dix qirw ~irjm`e- Wjy‗qi xrgih x`ecgmd
xj lgf*lir% oyx xliw hjm‗x iif xj egxim `mh dix `mdrw tgxl wjy- Wjy
xlim dix `mdrw o`bc `mh mjt wjy l`qi mjx ~jcim jr driixih i`bl
jxlir jr ` tiic-‖
Eix ~`rxgbg~`mx xlgmc ojyx xlg jr it fgmyxi mh trgxi hjtm jfi ghi` jm?-
` ~gibi j ~`~ir- Gmqgxi iiho`bc-
Hgby iiho`bc `mh trgxi hjtm xli hgirimx xr`xidgi ~`rxgbg~`mx yih xj2-
jeqi xlg ~rjoeif-
Drjy~ tjrc b`i xyhw
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi t`rimi j
xli q`eyi j ~rjoeif
jeqgmd
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Xli xr`ab egdlx fjhie
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I|~e`gm xli xr`b egdlx fjhie j ~rjoeif jeqgmd xj ~`rxgbg~`mx% geeyxr`xgmd xli0-
q`rgjy xi~ jm xli g~bl`rx-
Lgdlegdlx xl`x xli bjymieejr fyx tjrc l`rh xj hr`t ghi` mh jeyxgjm rjf ?-
begimx r`xlir xl`m gf~ew gf~ji joqgjy bjymieejr&hrgqim jeyxgjm-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj riqgit xligr ~rjoeif xliw tjrcih jm gm xli ~riqgjy i|irbgi2-
gm xli egdlx j xlg fjhie-
Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh
hgbygjm
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xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd
j ` ~ibgb ~rjoeif&jeqgmd fjhie mh gx
`~~egb`xgjm xj ` b`i
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^rjoeif&jeqgmd
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jrfih mh tiee xljydlx&jyx hibggjm gm jeqgmd xligr ~rjoeif-
Himi xli ~rjoeif
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gmqjeqih ori cgmd tl`x iif xj oi ` lydi ~rjoeif gmxj gx q`rgjy ~`rx jr yo&~rjo&
eif ,jfixgfi b`eeih ~`rxg`eggmd'-
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kyx jmi ~`rx j xli ~rjoeif% ~irl`~ jfixlgmd xl`x g ri`jm`oew `blgiq`oei'- Imbjyr&
`di xli begimx xj or`gmxjrf ` f`mw jeyxgjm xj xligr ~rjoeif ` ~jgoei% iqim g xliw
iif geew- Bjmxgmyi ymxge `ee ghi` `ri i|l`yxih- Gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x wjy ` bjymieejr
hj mjx l`qi ` ~ribjmbigqih ghi` jm tl`x xli jeyxgjm ljyeh oi-
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`ojqi or`gmxjrf- @c begimx xj ejjc `x xli ~rj `mh bjm j i`bl jeyxgjm- Yy`eew xli
oix jeyxgjm g xli jmi tgxl xli fjx `hq`mx`di-
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` rie`xgqiew djjh bl`mbi j ybbiihgmd- Ygmd rjei&~e`w xj “~r`bxgi‗ tl`x xli begimx tgee
hj `mh `w `mh xj `mxgbg~`xi ~jgoei ri`bxgjm b`m `ej oi lie~ye- _i`yri xli begimx
xl`x wjy tgee i|~ejri xli jyxbjfi gm xli mi|x igjm-
Iq`ey`xi ‒ xlg g `m gf~jrx`mx j~~jrxymgxw xj ii tl`x tjrcih% tl`x hghm‗x tjrc `mh
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@bxgqgxw 2-04
Rjeyxgjm mhgmd
Ryddixih fixljh;
Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj ~`gr ‒ ` “bjymieejr‗ `mh ` “begimx‗-0-
Gmqgxi “begimx‗ xj xlgmc j ` ~rjoeif xj ~riimx gm ` rjei&~e`w- Xliw b`m xlgmc j `?-
~rjoeif xliw l`qi rijeqih `eri`hw gm xligr egqi jr xliw b`m yi xli ~rjoeif
rjf @bxgqgxw 2-09-
Gmxrybx xli “bjymieejr‗ xj tjrc tgxl xli ~rjoeif `mh xj xrw `mh mh ` jeyxgjm2-
ygmd xli xr`b egdlx fjhie-
Ori`c gmxj ~`gr `mh xlim rjei&~e`w ` bjymieejr `mh begimx-8-
@xir 0> fgmyxi% gmqgxi xli ~`gr xj bl`mdi rjei mh xj yi xli xr`b egdlx fjhie9-
jm ` mit ~rjoeif-
Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc mh imbjyr`di hio`xi jm xli fjhie mh gx1-
yiyemi mh `~~egb`ogegxw-
Hgby mh ~rjoeif&jeqi rjymh hgbyexgi mh fgbjmbi~xgjm-4-
^`grih rjei&~e`w
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j xli xr`b egdlx
fjhie `mh gx `~~eg&b`xgjm gm rjei&~e`w-
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Oigmd ~rjoeif&ajbyih qiry oigmd jeyxgjm&ajbyih
Tlgei `ee bjymieejr tgee `hhri ~rjoeif xl`x begimx ~riimx gm bjymieegmd% gx g gf~jrx`mx
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Rjeyxgjm&ajbyih xiblmgpyi
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gmd:‖
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bjyeh hj xj bj~i tgxl xli ~riyri wjy `ri `bgmd:‖
―I`regir gm xli igjm wjy `gh wjy l`h bj~ih tgxl xli ej j wjyr `xlir 9
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I|bi~xgjm xj xli ~rjoeif ,b`m yi gm xli Rxj~ `mh Xlgmc ~l`i'
I|`f~ei;
―B`m wjy xlgmc j ` xgfi tlim wjy tiri mjx xriih ‒ ljt t` gx jr wjy
xlim:‖
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djgmd tiee oixtiim wjy:‖
Xli ―fgr`bei‖ pyixgjm ,b`m yi gm xli Rxj~ `mh Xlgmc ~l`i'
I|`f~ei;
―G xlg ~rjoeif hgh mjx i|gx ‒ tl`x tjyeh oi hgirimx gm wjyr egi:‖
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mi|x wi`r:‖
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―G `f yri wjy‗qi xljydlx `ojyx tlw wjy djx xj xlg ~jgmx gm wjyr egi ‒ tl`x
`ri wjyr xlijrgi:‖
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Egximgmd ajr xrimdxl ,b`m yi gm xli Rxj~ `mh Xlgmc `mh Hj ~l`i'
I|`f~ei;
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igjm xj ` beji% `mh ljyeh yy`eew oi egmcih xj xli bjmxr`bx-
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Xli bjymieejr miih xj xlgmc `ojyx
Tl`x g wjy jtm xxgxyhi xj bieior`xgmd imhgmd mh dgqgmd ~r`gi:Ø
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x`mbi: Rjfi pyixgjm xj bjmghir liri gmbeyhi;
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jm dgx:
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f`hi% `m i|~imgqi gxif:
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d`mg`xgjm:
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egci ` ~jif jr ~gbxyri xj gm~gri xlif:
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wjyr begimx jr xli imhgmd- _ibjdmgi tliri xli begimx g `x ,~jgxgqi% miyxr`e% mid`xgqi'-
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cgmh j djjhowi tjyeh oi ~~rj~rg`xi:
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xli igjm,' ‒ jr `c xli begimx xj hj j- Wjy b`m ej riir o`bc xj xli jqir`ee dj`e j xli
bjymieegmd hgbyih gm xli bjmxr`bx jr xli ~ibgb dj`e j xlg igjm% g ix`oeglih-
_iqgit jr rifgmh `ojyx xli `bxgjm ~e`m; `x xlg ~jgmx gx f`w oi yiye xj hgby xli
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^l`ih qiry gffihg`xi imhgmd
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_iairrgmd
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Ymhirx`mhgmd `m|gixw
G begimx g `m|gjy jr bjf~e`gm j m|gixw% bjymieejr bjyeh c xli jeejtgmd pyi&
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Hi~rigjm
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xli ejd-
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~ew `mh gmxidr`xi xli cgee xliw l`qi ei`rmx gm xligr jrd`mg`xgjm * gmhgqghy`e b`&
~`bgxw-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj geeyxr`xi xligr ghi` jm ` ~gibi j g~bl`rx ~`~ir `mh xj ~ri&?-
imx gx xj xli e`rdir drjy~-
@bx gq g xw
Jyxbjfi
X gfi
A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e
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Xi`f oygehgmd gm xli
drjy~
^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u
xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd
j dgqgmd `mh ribigq&gmd ~jgxgqi iiho`bc
`mh gx q`eyi gm `
bjymieegmd bjmxi|x-
1> fgmyxi
@8 egmih ~`~ir jr i`bl
~`rxgbg~`mx
@bxgqgxw 2-8>
^jgxgqi aiiho`bc a`m
Ryddixih fixljh;
L`mh jyx ` ~gibi j egmih @8 ~`~ir xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx ,`mh x`ci jmi jr wjyr&0-
ie'-
@c i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx xj trgxi xligr m`fi jm xli ojxxjf j xli ~`~ir-?-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ~` xli ~`di xj xli ~irjm jm xligr rgdlx-2-
I`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx trgxi ` ~jgxgqi bjffimx `ojyx xli ~irjm jm xli xj~ j xli8-
~`di% jeh gx jqir `mh ~`i gx jm-
@x xli imh% xli ~`di ljyeh riifoei ` `m-9-
Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ri`h jmi j xligr ~jgxgqi bjffimx `mh `c ljt xli1-
`bxgqgxw iex jr xlif-
Egmc gx xj dgqgmd begimx ~jgxgqi iiho`bc gm bjymieegmd-4-
@bx gq g xw
Jyxbjfi
X gfi
A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e
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== ?7<
Trgxxim bjf~eixgjm j
^jx&fjhyei pyixgjm&
m`gri ‒ 2
Ei`rmir hifjm&u
xr`xi tl`x ei`rmgmdl` x`cim ~e`bi-
A`bgegx`xjr d`gm gm&u
gdlx gmxj ljt fybl
ei`rmgmd l` x`cim
~e`bi-
2> fgmyxi
Bj~gi j ^jx&fjhyei
pyixgjmm`gri 2
@bxgqgxw 2-80
^jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri ‒ 2
Ryddixih fixljh;
L`mh jyx jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 2 xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx-0-
@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `mtir xli fyexg~ei&bljgbi pyixgjmm`gri o`ih jm xligr?-
ei`rmgmd xlrjydl xlg fjhyei-
^`rxgbg~`mx ljyeh mjx riir xj xligr f`my`e xj `mtir pyixgjm jr hgby2-
xlif tgxl jxlir ~`rxgbg~`mx-
Bjeeibx pyixgjmm`gri mh cii~ gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj-8-
@bx gq g xw
Jyxbjfi
X gfi
A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e
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^ri * ~jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri ‒ 2
^ei`i bgrbei xli eixxir xl`x wjy xlgmc fjx ~~rj~rg`xiew mtir xli pyixgjm-
@hq`mbih if~`xlw g i|lgogxih tlim;0-
@ bjymieejr l`ri lg jr lir jtm i|~irgimbi tgxl ` begimx`-
@ bjymieejr b`m dyi tl`x xli begimx g iiegmd tgxljyx li`rgmd xli beg&o-
imx‗ xjrw
Xli bjymieejr egmc iiegmd `mh bjmximx xj dj oiwjmh yr`bi eiqie ri&b-
ibxgjm j iiegmd
Mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-
?- Bjyeh bjymieejr tlj gm‗x xr`gmih gm xr`yf` bjymieegmd ii begimx gm brgg:
Mj`-
Wi-o-
Xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm `ri gf~jrx`mx xj `c gm `igmd ygbghi rgc;2-
Hj wjy l`qi ` ~e`m j ljt xj bjffgx ygbghi:`-
L`qi wjy xljydlx `ojyx tlim% tliri `mh ljt wjy tgee hj gx:o-
,`' `mh ,o'b-
Mjmi- @ bjymieejr ljyehm‗x dgqi xli begimx ghi` ow `cgmd pyixgjm-h-
8- Xli f`gm dj`e j brgg f`m`difimx gm bjymieegmd g xj;
Dgqi xli begimx rijyrbi jm ljt xj f`m`di xligr brgg`-
@c jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm xj dyghi xli begimx jyx j xligr brggo-
Egxim xj xli begimx xiee lg yee xjrwb-
@ee j xli `ojqi-h-
Riqiri `m|gixw% tlgbl% `ibx `m gmhgqghy`e‗ egi ymbxgjmgmd b`m `mh ljyeh oi9-
xri`xih tgxl ~wbljxlir`~w mh*jr `~~rj~rg`xi fihgb`xgjm-
Xryi`-
A`ei-o-
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== 2>>
1- @ gdm `mh wf~xjf j hi~rigjm g;
E`bc j imirdw `mh fjxgq`xgjm xj hj mjrf`e egi `bxgqgxgi`-
Aiiegmd `h `mh if~xw fjx j xli xgfio-
T`mxgmd xj x`ec xj jfijmi ojyx ~rjoeifb-
,`' `mh ,o'-h-
4- Oyrmjyx b`m oi ~riqimxih ow;
I`xgmd ` o`e`mbih hgix`-
Djgmd jr ridye`r fimxjrgmd igjmo-
I|irbggmdb-
@ee j xli `ojqi-h-
<- Xli hgirimx bj~gmd ri~jmi xj xri `ri dimir`eew;
Ymhir&xri mh jqirxri`-
Hgirimx fjmdx ~ij~eio-
@bxgqi bjdmgxgqi fixljh% bxgqi oil`qgjyr`e fixljh mh `qjgh`mbib-
Mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-
7- Fimxjrgmd g;
Xli `fi ` ~wbljxlir`~w`-
Xli ~rjbi j y~~jrxgmd `mh oygehgmd bjymieejro-
Oigmd y~irqgihb-
@ee j xli `ojqi-h-
0>- Fimxjrgmd gmqjeqi;
@ gmdei bjymieejr hgbygmd gyi tgxl ` fjri cgeeih fimxjr`-
`@ drjy~ j bjymieejr x`ecgmd tgxl i`bl jxliro-
@ drjy~ j bjymieejr fiixgmd xjdixlir ymhir xli dygh`mbi j ` fim&b-
xjr
@ee j xli `ojqi-h-
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00- Hibrgoi 2 ~irjm`egxw xr`gx j ` djjh bjymieejr;
0?- Hibrgoi 2 ~rgmbg~ei j bjymieegmd
02- Hibrgoi xli x`di `mh cgee j xli fjhie j bjymieegmd% gmbeyhgmd xli rjei j xli
begimx `mh bjymieejr `x i`bl x`di- Yi xli `xx`blih hr`tgmd j xli ljyi-
@ fjhie ja bjymieegmd
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== 2>?
08- Hibrgoi 2 ciw ieifimx j xli ghi`e ~lwgb`e ixxgmd jr bjymieegmd-
09- Tlim g gx hqg`oei xj riir begimx:
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@bxgqgxw 2-8?
Blibc jyx% iq`ey`xgjm `mh bl`eeimdi
Bl`eeimdi H`w 0>
Ayrxlir wjyr bjymieegmd cmjteihdi ow ri`hgmd ojjc mh rxgbei-
Trgxxim i|irbgi mh
drjy~ hgbygjm
A`bgegx`xjr ymhir&u
x`mh ljt ~`rxgbg&
~`mx iie `ojyx xlibjyri * fjhyei-
^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `mu
j~~jrxymgxw xj dgqi
iiho`bc-
^`rxgbg~`mx ymhir&u
x`mh xli oimix j
bjmxgmyih bjymie&
egmd xr`gmgmd `mh
ri`hgmd-
2> fgmyxi
Ryddixih fixljh;
Gyi ~`rxgbg~`mx iiho`bc jrf `mh gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj bjf~eixi gx- Bjeeibx0-
`mh `hh xj ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj-
X`ci orgi bjmbeyhgmd qiro`e bjffimx rjf xli drjy~% xl`mc xlif jr xligr?-
~`rxgbg~`xgjm `mh tgl xlif tiee jr xli yxyri-
Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj yrxlir xligr bjymieegmd cmjteihdi ow ri`hgmd ojjc2-
`mh `rxgbei% `mh `xximhgmd yrxlir bjyri jm ~ibgb bjymieegmd cgee-
Rl`ri bjymieegmd ojjc riirimbi% egxih oiejt-8-
@bx gq g xw
Jyxbjfi
X gfi
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== 2>8
^`rxgbg~`mx aiiho`bc ajrf
M`fi; H`xi;
Tl`x ~ibx j xli bjyri l`qi wjy jymh lie~ye:
Tl`x ~ibx j xli bjyri l`qi wjy jymh ymlie~ye:
Ljt tjyeh wjy egci xj hiqiej~ yrxlir ` bjymieejr:
Ljt tjyeh wjy r`xi xli `bgegx`xjr:
Ljt hj wjy iie ojyx xli xr`gmgmd fixljh mh i|irbgi yih:
Ljt hj wjy iie ojyx xli jrd`mg`xgjm j xli bjyri:
@mw jxlir bjffimx:
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Rblñm% K-% Djtir% E- Cjx{i% Q- ,?>>9'0- Ieifimx j Bjymieegmd- Tixljqim; _JBR-
Id`m% D- ,?>>?'?- Xli Rcgeeih Lie~ir- ^`bgb Drjqi% B@; Orjjc*Bjei-
_jdir% B-_- ,0790'2- Begimx&bimxrih Xlir`~w- Ojxjm% Ljydlxjm% Fgagm-
Cõoeir&_j- I- ,0717'8- Jm Hi`xl `mh Hwgmd- Mit Wjrc; F`bfgee`m-
L`fgexjm% _- Hgm`x% M- ,?>>1'9- Kyx`‗ Bjymieegmd L`mhojjc jr Li`exlb`ri ^rjigjm`e-
^``re; Kyx`
Xje`m% K- ,?>>1'1- Rcgee gm ^irjm&bimxrih Bjymieegmd `mh ^wbljxlir`~w- Ejmhjm; R`di ^yoeg&
b`xgjm-
Egmhjm% K- Egmhjm% E- ,?>>>'4- F`xirgmd bjymieegmd cgee- Ejmhjm; F`bfgee`m-
Iq`m% D- ,?>>4'<- Bjymieegmd cgee jr hyffgi- Blgblixir; Kjlm Tgeiw Rjm-
Ii% A- Ejti% _- ,?>>9'7- Rjeyxgjm Oygehgmd @~~rj`bl xj Xiei~ljmi Bjymieegmd; Gf~egb`xgjm mh Gmxidr`xgjm ,rixrgiqih qg` xli gmxirmix rjf xli Pyiime`mh Ymgqirgxw j Xiblmjejdw'
Bimxri jr xli Rxyhw j @GHR ,ymh`xih'0>- LGQ*@GHR Bjymieegmd Bjyri; A`bgegx`xjr‗ F`my`e-
^rixjrg`; Ymgqirgxw j ^rixjrg`-
Lj~i% @- Xgffie% R- ,0778'00- Xr`gmgmd jr Xr`mjrf`xgjm- Dtiry% [gfo`oti; F`foj
^ri-
Q`m Hwc% @- ,?>>9'0?- LGQ*@GHR B`ri `mh Bjymieegmd; @ Fyexghgbg~egm`rw @~~rj`bl- B`~i Xjtm;
^i`rjm
_iairimbi ! rijyrbi
^`rx D;
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== 2>1
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