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`mh gdmfimx j ymbxgjm xj xli ojhgi riirrih xj ojqi% tiee ` xli ridgxr`&xgjm j m`xgjm`e x`mh`rh `mh py`egb`xgjm jm xli r`fitjrc- Gx fyx `ej x`ci xi~

xj imyri xl`x ~rjqggjm jr bbrihgx`xgjm ri bjf~egih tgxl mh tliri ~~rj~rg`xi%

xl`x ridgxirih x`mh`rh mh py`egb`xgjm ri gmxirm`xgjm`eew bjf~`r`oei-

Fjri `ojyx xli ymgx x`mh`rh ?9?90?

Rjyxl @argb`m Py`egb`xgjm @yxljrgxw _idgxirih Ymgx Rx`mh`rh;

R@P@ YR GH; ?9?90?

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh Xgxei; Bjymie `m gmhgqghy`e gm ` xrybxyrih imqgrjmfimx

Jrgdgm`xjr; RDO wbljejdw

Jrgdgm`xgmd ^rjqghir; &

Py`egxw @yrgmd Ojhw; &

Agieh; Agieh >4 & Lyf`m mh Rjbg`e Rxyhgi

Ryoieh; Dimir`e Rjbg`e Rbgimbi

^yr~ji j xli Ymgx Rx`mh`rh;  Xlg g ` dimirgb Ymgx Rx`mh`rh jr ei`rmir gm ` q`rgixw j 

bjymieegmd bjmxi|x tliri begimx `ri im`oeih xj dj xlrjydl xli ~rjbi j mhgmd jey&

xgjm xj xligr bjmbirm jr hgbyexgi- Gx g gmximhih jr ei`rmir tlj bjymie ~ij~ei gm ` q`rg&

ixw j gxy`xgjm% oyx tlj `ri mjx ridgxirih ~rjigjm`e ybl ` py`egih ~wbljejdgx `mh

jbg`e tjrcir- Gx tgee oi yiye jr bjymieejr gm ` q`rgixw j bjymieegmd bjmxi|x gmbeyhgmd%

oyx mjx egfgxih xj% bljje% Mjm&Djqirmfimx`e Jrd`mg`xgjm% A`gxl O`ih Jrd`mg`xgjm% xli

Rjyxl @rgb`m jegbi Rirqgbi% Bjymieegmd B`ee Bimxri% Lj~gx`e% Begmgb mh Ry~~jrx @dimbgi%

R~jrx Bimxri% Ihyb`xgjm `mh Xr`gmgmd `bgegxgi% Djqirmfimx `mh Li`exl `mh Rjbg`e Rirqgbi

`bgegxgi- Gx ljyeh hiqiej~ ei`rmir tlj cmjt xligr bj~i j ~r`bxgbi% oil`qi ixlgb`eew gm `

bjymieegmd bjmxi|x% bjmjrf xj fgmgfyf x`mh`rh mh cmjt tlim xj riir begimx-

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Ei`rmgmd `yfih xj oi gm ~e`bi `mh ribjdmgxgjm ja ~rgjr ei`rmgmd

Gx g ribjffimhih xl`x ei`rmir `ri bjf~iximx gm Bjffymgb`xgjm `x MPA Eiqie 2-

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh _`mdi

 Xli xw~gb`e bj~i j xlg Ymgx Rx`mh`rh g;

@ xrybxyrih imqgrjmfimx riir xj;

 Xli ~lwgb`e ~`bi xl`x ljyeh oi bjmhybgqi xj bjmhimxg`egxw% riihjf j i|~rigjmØ

`mh bjymieegmd-

 Xli bjymieejr g f`m`dih `mh fimxjrih gmbeyhgmd jmdjgmd y~irqggjm% fjmgxjrgmd%Ø

`ifimx mh hiorgimd-

Rigjm f`w oi blihyeih jr ymblihyeih-Ø

Rljrx xirf bjymieegmd ymhir y~irqggjm tgxlgm ` bei`rew gmhgb`xih bj~i j u

~r`bxgbi-Rbj~i j ~r`bxgbi riir xj xli ojymh`rgi tgxlgm tlgbl xli bjymieejr j~ir`xiu

tgxljyx riirr`e ` himih ow jtm tjrc bjmxi|x-

 Xiblmgpyi `mh cgee gmbeyhi% oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj% ~rjoeif jeqgmd% f`m`dgmdu

hgbyex begimx% bri`xgjm j y~~jrxgqi mh `i bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~% `bgegx`x&

gmd hibggjm mh f`cgmd yi j iibxgqi% mjm&xlri`ximgmd% i|~ejrgmd cgee-

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== 1

R~ibgb jyxbjfi `mh `ifimx brgxirg

R~ibgb jyxbjfi 0

I|~e`gm xli ymbxgjm `mh bj~i j ~r`bxgbi j ` bjymieejr-

 @ifimx brgxirg`

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 0

 Xli bjmbi~x j bjymieegmd g i|~e`gmih tgxl i|`f~ei jr hgirimx gxy`xgjm-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm ?

 Xli py`egxgi `mh cgee j ` bjymieejr `ri i|~e gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ~irjm`e py`egxgi% cgee

`mh ojymh`rgi gm ` ieibxih bjmxi|x-

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

Py`egxgi gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj if~`xlw% rieg`ogegxw% gmxidrgxw% ymog`ih iiegmd% mjm&

 kyhdifimx`e `mh ~rjigjm`e x`mbi-

Rcgee gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj djjh bjffymgb`xgjm mh gmxir~irjm`e cgee-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 2

 Xli `gf% ymbxgjm `mh ieifimx j bjymieegmd `ri i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ` ieibxih

bjmxi|x-

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

Ieifimx gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj ymhirx`mhgmd j ` ~ibgb `~~rj`bl% hii~imgmd

ymhirx`mhgmd j ie `mh jxlir% `ogegxw xj dgqi gmgdlxye dygh`mbi `mh y~~jrx% ri~ibx `mh

`bbi~x`mbi-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 8

Hgirimx `~~rj`bli jr xlijrgi `ri i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ieibxih bjymieegmd fjh&

ie-

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

Fjhie gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj _jdir&~irjm bimxrih% Id`m&cgeeih lie~ir% Bjdmgxgqi%

Oil`qgjyr`e% Bjdmgxgqi Oil`qgjyr`e mh Gmxir~irjm`e-

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 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 9

 Xli eid`e `mh ixlgb`e ripygrifimx `mh egfgx jm bj~i j ~r`bxgbi jm bjymieejr `ri i|&

~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ieibxih begimx-

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

Ixlgb`e `mh eid`e ripygrifimx gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj ri~jmgogegxw xj xli begimx% q`e&

yi% ri~jmgogegxw% bjmxr`bx% ojymh`rgi% bjmhimxg`egxw% bbjymx`ogegxw mh y~irqggjm-

R~ibgb Jyxbjfi ?

Rix y~ m im`oegmd bjymieegmd imqgrjmfimx-

 @ifimx Brgxirg`

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 0

 Xli bl`r`bxirgxgb j `m im`oegmd imqgrjmfimx `ri hibrgoih tgxl riirimbi xj bjymieegmd

ixxgmd-

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

Bl`r`bxirgxgb j `m im`oegmd imqgrjmfimx gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj ~lwgb`e e`wjyx j 

xli rjjf% ~e`bgmd j xli x`oei% bl`gr mh egdlxgmd% `ixw% ~rgq`bw% mh bjmhimxg`egxw j rrgq`e%

igjm mh i|gx% y~~jrxgqi% ~rgq`xi `mh ribi~xgqi begf`xi tgxljyx hgxr`bxgjm-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm ?

@m im`oegmd imqgrjmfimx g bri`xih jr ~ibgb bjymieegmd igjm-

R~ibgb Jyxbjfi 2I|~e`gm xli ~rgmbg~ei mh ~rjbii j bjymieegmd-

 @ifimx Brgxirg`

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 0

Dimir`eew bbi~xih ~rgmbg~ei j bjymieegmd ri i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj xligr ~~egb`xgjm

gm hgirimx bjmxi|x-

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== <

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

Dimir`eew bbi~xih ~rgmbg~ei gmbeyhi oyx ri mjx egfgxih xj mjm&kyhdifimx`e xxgxyhi% bjm&

himxg`egxw% bjmxrjeeih ifjxgjm`e gmqjeqifimx% ie hixirfgm`xgjm `mh begimx gmqjeqifimx-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm ?

@ bjymieegmd ~rjbi g i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj ~e`mmgmd `mh ~ri~`r`xgjm% ghimxgwgmd

`mh ~rgjrgxggmd miih% f`m`difimx% gmgxg`xgjm% bjmxr`bxgmd% xirfgm`xgmd% `mh rie`xgmd xj beg&

imx-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 2

 Xiblmgpyi `mh cgee ripygrih jr bjymieegmd `ri i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj tlim i`bl g

`~~rj~rg`xi-

R~ibgb Jyxbjfi 8

I|~e`gm xli rjei j q`eyi mh xxgxyhi gm oil`qgjyr mh bjymieegmd-

 @ifimx Brgxirg`

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 0

 Xli rie xgjmlg~ oixtiim jtm q`eyi mh `xxgxyhi `mh oil`qgjyr g i|~ejrih tgxl riirimbi

xj xli gf~egb`xgjm jr xli bjymieegmd-

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

@xxgxyhi `mh q`eyi gmbeyhi oyx `ri mjx egfgxih xj `xxgxyhi xj dimhir% i|y`e jrgimx`xgjm%

`di% byexyri% `gxl&o`ih oiegi mh jbg`e be`-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm ?

 Xli gf~jrx`mbi j `m `xxgxyhi j ri~ibx jr hgqirgxw j q`eyi g i|~e`gmih tgxl riirimbi xj

xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi-

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R~ibgb Jyxbjfi 9

@~~ew ` bjymieegmd ~rjbi gm ` ~ibgb bjmxi|x-

 @ifimx Brgxirg`

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 0

@ bjymieegmd ~rjbi g hifjmxr`xih xj bjymie m gmhgqghy`e gm m `yxlimxgb gxy`xgjm ygmd

`~~rj~rg`xi cgee mh xiblmgpyi-

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

 Xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi gmbeyhi oyx g mjx egfgxih xj gmgxg`xgmd ,oygehgmd rie`xgjmlg~% be`rgw&

gmd xli m`xyri j xli rie`xgjmlg~ mh ix`oeglgmd r`~~jrx'% midjxg`xgmd bjymieegmd bjmxr`bx

,ixxgmd ojymh`rgi% fyxy`e i|~ibx`xgjm% dj`e `mh bjmhimxg`egxw'% `bgegx`xgmd*f`m`dgmd

,xirfgm`xgjm j rie`xgjmlg~% xiblmgpyi% xgfir`fi% riirr`e% f`m`dgmd jtm ifjxgjm% `mh

ymhirx`mhgmd xli iibx j xli bjymieejr jm xli begimx `mh xli begimx jm xli bjymieejr-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm ?

@m ixlgb`e bjhi j bjmhybx g `~~egih gm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 2

_i~ibx jr hgqirgxw j q`eyi g hifjmxr`xih `x q`rgjy x`di j xli bjymieegmd `mh ~rjo&

eif jeqgmd ~rjbi-

R~ibgb Jyxbjfi 1

_iibx jm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi-

 @ifimx Brgxirg`

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 0

 Xli xrimdxl `mh egfgx`xgjm j xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi `ri ghimxgih `mh fjxgq`xih o`ih

jm ~irjm`e riibxgjm-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm ?

Ciw eijm ri ghimxgih mh bl`mdi jr yxyri bjymieegmd igjm ri hgbyih ~`rx j 

jmdjgmd ~rjigjm`e hiqiej~fimx-

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== 0>

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 2

^irjm`e mh jrd`mg`xgjm`e xr`xidgi xj rihybi xli rgc j oyrmjyx mh ibjmh`rw xr`yf` ri

i|~ejrih tgxl riirimbi xj jtm egi `mh ~irjm-

@ifimx Brgxirgjm _`mdi

Rxr`xidgi gmbeyhi oyx ri mjx egfgxih xj ` wxif j bjymieegmd jr bjymieejr% ~irjm`e tiee&

mi% xiblmgb`e ~rjbgimbw% y~irqggjm mh ifjxgjm`e y~~jrx-

 @ifimx Brgxirgjm 8 Xli bjmbi~x j y~irqggjm g i|~e`gmih `mh `m gmhgb`xgjm g dgqim j xli oimix j y~irqg&

gjm jr xli bjymieejr-

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh @bbrihgx`xgjm `mh Fjhir`xgjm J~xgjm

@mwjmi `igmd ` b`mhgh`xi `d`gmx xlg Ymgx Rx`mh`rh fyx oi ridgxirih ` `m `ijr

tgxl xli rieiq`mx IXP@ jr IXP@ tliri ` Fifjr`mhyf j Ymhirx`mhgmd ,FJY' i|gx tgxl

xli rieiq`mx IXP@-

@mw gmxgxyxgjm jirgmd ei`rmgmd xl`x tgee im`oei `blgiqifimx j xlg Ymgx Rx`mh`rh fyx oi

`bbrihgxih ~rjqghir xlrjydl xli rieiq`mx IXP@ jr IXP@ tliri Fifjr`mhyf j Ymhir&

x`mhgmd ,FJY' i|gx tgxl xli rieiq`mx IXP@-

Fjhir`xgjm j `ifimx tgee oi jqiriim ow xli rieiq`mx IXP@ `bbjrhgmd xj xli fjhir`&

xgjm dyghiegmi `mh xli `driih IXP@ ~rjbihyri-

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh Iimxg`e Ifoihhih Cmjteihdi

M*@

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh Hiqiej~fimx`e Jyxbjfi

M*@

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh Egmc`di

M*@

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Brgxgb`e Brj&ieh Jyxbjfi ,BBAJ';

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Ghimxgawgmd

 Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj ghimxgw `mh jeqi ~rjoeif gm tlgbl ri~jmi ljt xl`x ri~jmgoei

hibggjm ygmd brgxgb`e mh bri`xgqi xlgmcgmd l`qi oiim f`hi gm bjymieegmd` begimx jeejtgmd

` dimir`eew bbi~xih bjymieegmd ~rjbi-

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Tjrcgmd

 Xli ei`rmir g oei xj tjrc iibxgqiew tgxl jxlir ` ` fifoir j ` xi`f% drjy~% jrd`mg`xgjm

jr bjffymgxw gm xl`x bjymieegmd gmqjeqi tjrcgmd tgxl `x ei`x jmi jxlir ~irjm `mh ei`rm&

ir x Eiqie 8 bjymie ymhir y~irqggjm gm ` xrybxyrih imqgrjmfimx-

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Jrd`mggmd

 Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj jrd`mgi `mh f`m`di lgf*lirie `mh lg*lir `bxgqgxgi ri~jmgoew `mh

iibxgqiew gm ~e`mmgmd mh ~ri~`rgmd jr bjymieegmd igjm mh ribjrhgmd mh ri~jrxgmd jm

xli jyxbjfi-

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Bjeeibxgmd

 Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj bjeeibx% jrd`mgi `mh brgxgb`eew iq`ey`xi gmjrf`xgjm gm `bgegx`xgmd xli

bjymieegmd ~rjbi mh gm gmqixgd`xgmd xlijrgi j bjymieegmd-

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Bjffymgb`xgmd

 Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj bjffymgb`xi iibxgqiew gm gmxir`bxgmd tgxl begimx `mh y~irqgjr-

Ymgx Rx`mh`rh BBAJ Bjmxrgoyxgmd

 Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj riibx jm `mh i|~ejri ` q`rgixw j xr`xidgi xj ei`rm fjri iibxgqiew gm

riibxgmd jm xli jyxbjfi j bjymieegmd igjm i|~ejrgmd xr`xidgi xj rihybi oyrmjyx

`mh ibjmh`rw xr`yf`-

 Xli ei`rmir g `oei xj oi byexyr`eew `mh ixlixgb`eew imgxgqi `brj ` r`mdi j jbg`e bjmxi|x

gm ymhirx`mhgmd xli gf~jrx`mbi j ri~ibx jr hgqiri q`eyi `mh `bbjffjh`xgmd hgir&

imbi gm bjymieegmd igjm-

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== 0?

2- Dyghiegmi ajr a`bgegx`xgjm

Rieibxgmd bjyri a`bgegx`xjr

 Xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh l`qi i|ximgqi i|~irgimbi gm begmgb`e ~wbljejdw% ~rjigjm`e bjymie&

egmd% jbg`e tjrc jr ~wbljxlir`~w% mh djjh ymhirx`mhgmd j lyf`m ~wbljejdw- A`bgegx`&

xjr ljyeh ej l`qi i|~irgimbi j tjrcgmd tgxl ~ij~ei rjf hgirimx byexyr`e mh b`hifgb

ihyb`xgjm`e o`bcdrjymh gm drjy~ ixxgmd-

E`mdy`di

Tlim ~`rxgbg~`mx `mh `bgegx`xjr hj mjx l`ri ` bjffjm e`mdy`di% xli ~`rxgbg~`mx fyx

l`qi `x ei`x ` ri`jm`oew djjh ymhirx`mhgmd j xli `bgegx`xjr‗ e`mdy`di `mh tgee miih xj

oi ybgimxew yimx xj rjei&~e`w gm xl`x e`mdy`di gm rjmx j xli drjy~- Ljtiqir% xli xrg`h

rjei&~e`w b`m% `mh ljyeh% x`ci ~e`bi gm xli ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ljfi e`mdy`di `mh xli e`mdy`di

gm tlgbl xliw tgee hj bjymieegmd- A`bgegx`xjr ljyeh oi imgxgqi xj ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjm&qiro`e

oil`qgjyr hyrgmd xlii rjei&~e`w `mh ljyeh `c jr be`rgb`xgjm tlim miihih% xj `bgegx`xi

xlii rjei&~e`w iibxgqiew- Gx b`m `ej lie~ xj l`qi `m `gx`mx xr`gmir tlj b`m xr`me`xi hyr&

gmd rjei&~e`w-

Drjy~ g{i

 Xli drjy~ g{i jr xli bjymieegmd xr`gmgmd ljyeh mjx i|biih 09 ~`rxgbg~`mx- @m ghi`e myf&

oir g oixtiim 0? mh 09- Xli f`eeir xli drjy~% xli fjri py`egxw xgfi mh j~~jrxymgxgi ri

`jrhih jr ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ~r`bxgi xligr cgee- @ myfoir j drjy~ bxgqgxgi ripygri ~egxxgmd

xli ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj drjy~ j xlrii% gx g yddixih xl`x xli xjx`e myfoir j bjyri ~`rxgbg&

~`mx g hgqggoei ow xlrii-

_jei `mh aymbxgjm ja ` a`bgegx`xjr

@ `bgegx`xjr ljyeh l`qi i|~irxgi gm xligr `ri` j xr`gmgmd% `mh xligr f`gm ymbxgjm g xj ~ri&

imx ghi`% l`ri gmjrf`xgjm% hiqiej~ cmjteihdi mh ~rjqghi xlijrw mh cgee xj mit ~`rxgbg&

~`mx- Iimxg`eew% ` `bgegx`xjr g ri~jmgoei jr jrd`mggmd% f`m`dgmd `mh ~riimxgmd ` tjrc&

lj~ j xl`x xli dj`e j xli tjrclj~ `ri fix-

 Xliri `ri xtj xw~i j rjei xl`x iibxgqi `bgegx`xjr ~e`w% m`fiew bjmximx rjei `mh ~rjbi

rjei- Tlim `bgegx`xjr ri ~rjqghgmd gmjrf`xgjm `mh hiqiej~gmd cgee% xliw `ri yeeegmd ` bjm&

ximx rjei- Tlim xliw imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx ie&riibxgjm% gmxir`bxgjm `mh l`rgmd j xljydlx%

iiegmd `mh i|~irgimbi% xliw `ri yeeegmd ` ~rjbi rjei- Xlg gmbeyhi tjrcgmd tgxl drjy~hwm`fgb-

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== 08

Rjfi ~`rxgbg~`mx f`w iie gmxgfgh`xih ow rjei&~e`wgmd- Xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh imyri xl`x xliw

`ri rie`|ih `mh ljyeh cii~ xli rjei&~e`w `~~rj~rg`xi xj xli ei`rmgmd bjmxi|x ow if~l`g&

gmd xl`x xli bl`r`bxir `ri ―gm rjei‖ `mh xl`x drjy~ joirqir `ri ejjcgmd `x xli bl`r`bxir

`mh xligr ri`bxgjm% `mh mjx `x xli gmhgqghy`e ~ij~ei ~e`wgmd xlif- @x xgfi% gx f`w iqim oi

lie~ye xj imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj bljji rjei&~e`w m`fi- Hiorgimd `mh hgbygjm `xir

rjei&~e`wgmd g iimxg`e-

A`bgegx`xjr ljyeh `c xli ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr rjei&~e`w i|~irgimbi `mh dyghi xli hg&

bygjm xj xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm;

Tl`x f`hi begimx iie bjfjrx`oei: Xl`x g% tl`x gf~`bx hgh xli bjymieejr‗ tjrhØ

`mh `bxgjm l`qi jm xli begimx:

Tl`x bjymieegmd cgee tiri ~`rxgbye`rew gf~jrx`mx jr xli bjymieejr xj yi:Ø

Gx g `ej gf~jrx`mx xj rifgmh xli ~`rxgbg~`mx xl`x xliw `ri gm xli ~rjbi j ei`rmgmd- Tlgex

xliw f`w iie jqirtliefih `x xli oidgmmgmd% i`bl xgfi xliw yi xli cmjteihdi `mh cgee

xliw ri bpygrgmd% xliw tgee oibjfi fjri bjmhimx mh tgee gf~rjqi xligr ogegxgi-

Tlgei i`bl Fjhyei l` rjei&~e`w tlgbl bjqir ~ibgb cgee% gx g `hqg`oei xj `eejt ~`rxgbg&

~`mx xj yi ~riqgjy cgee tlgbl l`qi oiim bjqirih j xl`x xli cgee ri ei`rmih gm ` e`wirih

t`w% oygehgmd jm i`bl jxlir- Xlg eejt ~`rxgbg~`mx xj gmxidr`xi cgee `mh jr xli `bgegx`xjr xj

`i ljt xli ~`rxgbg~`mx g f`m`dgmd xli gmxidr`xgjm ~rjbi-

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Imyri xl`x xli xr`gmgmd f`xirg`e ri beji x l`mh jr i`w riirimbi-Ø

@ee ~`rxgbg~`mx fyx oi ~riimx jr xli imxgri Fjhyei*bjyri- Gm xli iqimx j Ø

`m ifirdimbw tlgbl riyex gm ` ~`rxgbg~`mx fggmd ~`rx j xli Fjhyei*bjyri%

xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh midjxg`xi tgxl xli ~`rxgbg~`mx xj bjf~eixi xli fgih

idfimx `x ` yxyri xgfi jr jr ljfitjrc- Mjxi xl`x xlg g brgxgb`e xj imyrgmd

py`egxw j bjymieegmd-

G ` ~`rxgbg~`mx fgi `mw idfimx% xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh orgi xli ~`rxgbg~`mxØ

tlim xliw rixyrm `ojyx xli fgih idfimx- Xlg tgee imyri xl`x xliw hj mjx

hg`hq`mx`di xligr rjei&~e`wgmd ~`rxmir tlim xliw hj rjei&~e`w jr jxlir `bxgqg&

xgi-

Imyri xr`gmgmd igjm bjffimbi jm xgfi- _ipyix xl`x `ee ~`rxgbg~`mx `rrgqiØ

jm xgfi- Xliri g fybl tjrc xj oi bjqirih i`bl h`w% `mh gx b`m oi qirw hg&

ry~xgqi xj l`qi ~`rxgbg~`mx `rrgqi `x xr`gmgmd igjm jmbi xli igjm l`qi

`eri`hw oidym-

 Xli xr`gmgmd drjy~ `mh `bgegx`xjr fyx ri~ibx ` ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ hibggjm xj ~`Ø

jm ` ~ibgb pyixgjm jr `bxgqgxw-

Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ri~ibx gmhgqghy`e hgirimbi- `rxgbg~`mx ripyimxewØ

l`qi hgirimx byexyr`e o`bcdrjymh% oiegi% ~irjm`e i|~irgimbi mh i|~irxgi-

Bri`xi `m imqgrjmfimx gm tlgbl i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx iie bjfjrx`oei `cgmd pyi&

xgjm-

A`bgegx`xjr ljyeh xrgqi jr hgbygjm mh `bxgqgxw gm xli igjm% r`xlir xl`mØ

―eibxyri&xwei‖ ~riimx`xgjm-

F`mw j xli xr`gmgmd `bxgqgxgi gm xlg bjyri ripygri f`ee&drjy~ tjrc gm ~`grØ

`mh xrg`h- Jxim ~`rxgbg~`mx bljji xj tjrc tgxl xli `fi ~ij~ei- A`bgegx`xjr

f`w bjmghir jbb`gjm`eew eejb`xgmd ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj drjy~ ,xlrjydl myfoir&

gmd j% ixb-' j xl`x xliw tjrc `mh ei`rm tgxl mit ~ij~ei-

 Xli xr`gmgmd g xrgbx tgxl rid`rh xj xgfi ‒ xliri g ` ejx xj ei`rm gm ` ljrx `fjymxØ

j xgfi- Tlim hjgmd drjy~ `bxgqgxgi% `bgegx`xjr ljyeh b`ee ―xgfi‖ `mh xiee ~`rxgbg&

~`mx tlim xj t`~ rjei% bl`mdi `bxgqgxgi% ixb-

Ciw bjmghir`xgjm ajr imyrgmd ybbiaye xr`gmgmd

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Hj `mh hjm‗x ja ` a`bgegx`xjr

@h`~xih rjf Bl`foir ,?>>?'

Hj

_ie`|

Oi bei`r

Gf~rjqgi

Oi ljmix

Oi imgxgqi

Oi wjyrie 

Oi ~ri~`rih

Oi imirdixgb

Oi ~jgxgqi

Rljt ri~ibx

Oi ` rjei fjhie

Ix`oegl r`~~jrx

Ry~~jrx `mh l`ri

L`qi ym% kjci% imkjw

If~jtir `mh y~~jrx

T`xbl% egxim% mh ei`rm

@o`mhjm ~ribjmbi~xgjm

Oi ie&`t`ri `mh ie&brgxgb`e

Oi bjmhimx xl`x xliw b`m hj gx

Oi j~xgf`eew ~ri~`rih mh i|goei

Ifor`bi irrjr `mh ei`rm rjf fgx`ci

Yi wjyr jtm oix kyhdifimx `x `ee xgfi

G m`mbi g `q`ge`oei gx g yiye xj jir ~`rxgbg~`mx egdlx ririlfimx `mhØ

m`bc hyrgmd xi` ori`c-

R`f~ei blibcegx j ripygrifimx mh f`xirg`e;Ø

E`rdi% tiee&qimxge`xih% pygix rjjf gm tlgbl ojyx 09 bl`gr b`m oi ~e`bihu

gm ` ifg&bgrbei- Xliri ljyeh `ej oi ybgimx ~`bi jr `ojyx 9 drjy~ j 

2 ~ij~ei xj gx i~`r`xih rjf i`bl jxlir `mh xj bjmhybx rjei&~e`w gm `

rie`xgqiew ymhgxyroih f`mmir-

@hipy`xi% bjfjrx`oei i`xgmdu

Bjyri ~rjdr`ffiu

Rybgimx ~`rxgbg~`mx f`my`e `mh ~imu

Aeg~&bl`rx ~`~ir `mh x`mhu

F`rciru

^rixgc u

Bj~gi j `bxgqgxw liix xj l`mh jyx xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx ‒ xlii ljyeh oiu

gm xli ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ f`my`e-

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Hjm‗x_yl

Eibxyri

Brgxgbgi

Gmxirry~x

Hjfgm`xi

R`ojx`di

 X`ci wjyrie xjj irgjyew

_ii`rbl l` ljtm xl`x ~ij~ei rififoir;

?>) j tl`x xliw li`r

8>) j tl`x xliw li`r `mh ii

<>) j tl`x xliw hgbjqir xlifieqi-

Djjh `bgegx`xjr `ri djjh joirqir% tlj t`xbl xli imirdw eiqie j xli drjy~ `mh x`ci

ori`c tlim miihih- A`bgegx`xjr ljyeh ~jgxgjm xlifieqi tliri xliw b`m oi iim ow iq&

irwojhw% `mh `hkyx xligr qjgbi j xl`x xliw b`m oi li`rh- Djjh bjymieegmd bjyri `bgegx`&

xjr ljyeh `ej `et`w rjei&fjhie iibxgqi bjffymgb`xgjm cgee xlrjydljyx xli hyr`xgjm j 

xli bjyri-

_ififoir; imxlyg`f mh ~`gjm `ri bjmx`dgjy mh imirdggmd!

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== 0<

8- Rieibxgjm `mh iq`ey`xgjm ja ~`rxgbg~`mx

Rieibxgmd bjyri ~`rxgbg~`mx

^`rxgbg~`mx f`w bjfi rjf mw hgbg~egmi% exljydl xlji tgxl jfi o`bcdrjymh gm ~wblje&

jdw jr rie`xih yokibx `ri jxim `x `m `hq`mx`di- Xliw f`w oi tjrcgmd jr djqirmfimx jr

mjm&djqirmfimx`e jrd`mg`xgjm ,MDJ' `mh oi gm `mw rieiq`mx ibxjr ybl ` li`exl% jbg`e

tie`ri% wjyxl% ihyb`xgjm% riegdgjm `mh brgfgm`e kyxgbi- Xli ~`rxgbg~`mx ljyeh oi `x ei`x 0<

wi`r jeh% g xli drjy~ gmbeyhi `hyex- Xli tjrclj~ g mjx ` yoxgxyxi jr ~irjm`e xlir`~w%

`mh xly ~`rxgbg~`mx tlj `ri gm miih j gmhgqghy`e xlir`~iyxgb gmxirqimxgjm ljyeh oi i|&

beyhih rjf xr`gmgmd mh imbjyr`dih xj rixyrm jr yxyri xr`gmgmd-

Fixljh ja ieibxgjm `mh iq`ey`xgjm

G xlg bjyri g oigmd rym gm gx imxgrixw xj xr`gm e`w ~irjm ojyx xli o`gb j bjymieegmd% mh

xli gmximxgjm g xj iq`ey`xi xlif jm xligr ygx`ogegxw x xli imh j xli xr`gmgmd% xlim jfi jrf

j ~ri&bjyri ieibxgjm g `~~rj~rg`xi- Xlg ieibxgjm ljyeh gmqjeqi `m gmxirqgit ,ii ^ri&

bjyri ieibxgjm xjje oiejt' mh ~jgoew jfi cgmh j pyixgjmm`gri jr i`w- Gm pyixgjm&

m`gri wjy b`m c xli ~irjm jfi o`gb pyixgjm mh xlim jeejt xlii y~ gm xli gmxirqgit-

@m i`w ~~egb`xgjm bjyeh gmbeyhi cgmd xli b`mhgh`xi xj trgxi ojyx xligr qgit jm xli rjei

j bjymieegmd gm Rjyxl @rgb`% jr g xliw l`qi l`h jfi bjymieegmd i|~irgimbi% xj hibrgoi `

ybbiye igjm xliw l`h tgxl ` begimx- @d`gm% xli i`w bjmximx ljyeh oi jeejtih y~ gm

xli gmxirqgit- Mjxi xl`x g ~`rxgbye`r Fjhyei g oigmd rym jm gx jtm% xliri f`w mjx oi ` miih

jr jrf`e ieibxgjm ~rjbi% oyx xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh xgee l`qi jfi brgxirg` jr ~`rxgbg~`xgjm

gm ` ~`rxgbye`r Fjhyei ,ii hibrg~xgjm j Fjhyei `ojqi ` ` dyghiegmi jr tlj ljyeh oi

jirih ~`rxgbye`r Fjhyei'-

Gm dimir`e% Fjhyei 0 b`m oi jirih xj ~ij~ei tlj tgl xj cmjt ojyx bjymieegmd mh f`m&

`di bjymieejr- Fjhyei ? b`m oi jirih xj i|gxgmd bjymieejr ` ` rifgmhir j xli o`gb

cgee- Fjhyei 2 b`m oi jirih xj i|~irgimbih bjymieejr xj hiqiej~ xligr cgee yrxlir-

Hyrgmd xli bjyri*Fjhyei xli ~`rxgbg~`mx f`w oi `iih xlrjydl ~ri& `mh ~jx&Fjhyei

pyixgjmm`gri- Xliri `ri jfi trgxxim x`c jr ~`rxgbg~`mx% `mh xli `bgegx`xjr tgee `ej jo&

irqi ~`rxgbg~`mx gm rjei&~e`w ,ygmd blibcegx' `mh f`w cii~ mjxi j xl`x xliw b`m oi

bjmyexih x xli imh j xli bjyri*Fjhyei-

@ee xlii pyixgjmm`gri% x`c% blibcegx mh mjxi b`m oi ci~x gm ~`rxgbg~`mx ~jrxjegj tlgbl

xli `bgegx`xjr tgee bjf~gei `mh cii~- Xli ~yr~ji j xli ~jrxjegj g xj `eejt xli `bgegx`xjr xj

l`qi ` l`mhw riirimbi xj bl`rx xli ~rjdri j ` ~`rxgbg~`mx `mh xj riqgit tlim xli m`e

`ifimx g hjmi- G `m jrd`mg`xgjm `~~egi xj l`qi xligr qirgjm j xlg bjyri `bbrihgxih%

xlim xlii ~jrxjegj ri ripygrih xj bjf~eixi jrf`e ifimx ~rjbii-

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@x xli imh j xli bjyri*Fjhyei xli ~`rxgbg~`mx tgee oi `cih xj yofgx ` trgxxim iq`ey`xgjm

j xli bjyri*Fjhyei% j xl`x xli `bgegx`xjr b`m gf~rjqi xli bjyri*Fjhyei-

G xli ~`rxgbg~`mx ri oigmd iq`ey`xih xir xli tljei bjyri jr xligr ygx`ogegxw bjymie&

ejr% i~`r`xi h`w ljyeh oi ix ghi jr xlg- Jm xlg h`w xli b`mhgh`xi tgee bjf~eixi m`e

`ifimx- Gmbeyhih ` ~`rx j xli `ifimx bjyeh oi;

 Xli m`e hibggjm `ojyx ygx`ogegxw ` ` bjymieejr ljyeh hi~imh jm i`bl b`mhgh`xi‗ ~irjr&

f`mbi jm xli imxgri bjyri% `mh mjx kyx jm xli m`e rjei&~e`w `ifimx-

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== ?>

^ri&bjyri Rieibxgjm ‒ Brgxirg` ajr Rieibxgmd ^`rxgbg~`mx

B`mhgh`xi‗ m`fi;ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ Xiei~ljmi mj-; ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Gmhgqghy`e gmxirqgit ljyeh oi bjmhybxih tgxl ~rj~ibxgqi b`mhgh`xi- Xli jeejtgmd

pyixgjm b`m oi yih ` ` dyghiegmi xj ieibx ygx`oei bjymieegmd ~`rxgbg~`mx-

0- G xliri ~~rj~rg`xi fjxgq`xgjm jr xr`gmgmd:

Tlw hj wjy t`mx xj oibjfi ` bjymieejr: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+@mtir ljyeh riibx ` tgeegmdmi xj `gx jxlir- B`mhgh`xi tlj t`mx xj imd`di gm xli

bjymieegmd xr`gmgmd ~rgf`rgew xj lie~ jr dr`xgw xlifieqi ljyeh oi bjmghirih tgxl b`yxgjm-

?- Hji xli ~irjm ljt gmgdlx mh ie&`t`rimi:

Ljt tjyeh wjy hibrgoi wjyrie: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Tl`x hj wjy xlgmc wjyr xrimdxl* ti`cmii ` ` bjymieejr fgdlx oi: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Ljt hj wjy xlgmc oigmd ` bjymieejr fgdlx bl`mdi wjy: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+B`mhgh`xi ljyeh hg~e`w jfi eiqie j ie&`t`rimi `mh gmgdlx gm xligr `mtir-

2- G xliri jfi t`rimi j tl`x bjymieegmd g:

Ajr wjy% tl`x g xli f`gm dj`e j bjymieegmd: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+ @mtir ljyeh riibx bjymieegmd lie~gmd ~rjbi jr ~ij~ei i|~irgimbgmd egi hgbye&

xgi-

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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8- L` xli ~irjm drjtm rjf egi i|~irgimbi:

Tl`x l` oiim xli fjx bl`eeimdgmd xlgmd xl`x l` iqir l`~~imih xj wjy: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Ljt hgh wjy hi`e tgxl gx: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Tl`x l` oiim xli lgdlegdlx j wjyr egi `mh tlw: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+B`mhgh`xi ljyeh ljt jfi gmgdlx gmxj xli iibx j xligr ~`x jm xli ~riimx-

9- G xli ~irjm gm xjybl tgxl xligr iiegmd:

Tlim t` xli e`x xgfi wjy ri`eew iex xrjmdew `ojyx jfixlgmd: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Tl`x hj wjy hj tlim wjy l`qi xrjmd iiegmd: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Ljt hj wjy hi`e tgxl xli xrjmd iiegmd j jxlir: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+ B`mhgh`xi ljyeh oi `oei xj ghimxgw `mh ~rjbi iiegmd-

1- L` xli ~irjm l`h ` ribimx oiri`qifimx `mh ljt hji xli ~irjm hi`e tgxl ej% gm dimir`e:

Xiee y `ojyx `mw gf~jrx`mx ej xl`x wjy l`qi ribimxew i|~irgimbih: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+ B`mhgh`xi ljyeh ljt gmgdlx gmxj xli x`di j ej-

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ??

4- Hji xli ~irjm l`qi y~~jrx wxif:

Tlj hj wjy xyrm xj tlim wjy `ri gm miih j lie~: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+ B`mhgh`xi tgxl it y~~jrx wxif ljyeh mjx oi bjmghirih jr xr`gmgmd rgdlx mjt-

<- Hji xli ~irjm l`qi li`exlw jbg`e egi:

Tl`x hj wjy hj jr ym: 

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+ B`mhgh`xi ljyeh oi `oei xj i~`r`xi rjf xligr tjrc bjffgxfimx-

7- Hji xli ~irjm ljt bjri bjymieejr py`egxgi egci if~`xlw % t`rfxl `mh j~immi:

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

+ Joirqi ljt xli b`mhgh`xi gmxir`bx tgxl wjy mh xli jxlir gmxirqgitir- @ri xliw ~~rj`bl&

`oei `mh rgimhew:

O`ih jm xli `ojqi% g xli b`mhgh`xi ygx`oei xj oibjfi ` bjymieejr mjt:

WIR MJ F@WOI

BJFFIMXR;

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Gmxirqgitir; 0- ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ ?- ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

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Agm`e `ifimx

Ribxgjm @

L0- jt tjyeh wjy himi bjymieegmd: Dgqi jyr f`gm ~jgmx- ,8'

?-- Tl`x g if~`xlw: Dgqi xtj f`gm ~jgmx- ,?'

2-- Tl`x `ri xli ~irjm`e py`egxgi ` bjymieejr ljyeh l`qi: Dgqi g| f`gm ~jgmx ,1'

8-- Tl`x `ri xli xlrii bjri bjymieegmd q`eyi `mh ~rgmbg~ei: ,2'

9-- G wjyr begimx g qirw hi~riih% tl`x bjymieegmd gyi hj wjy xlgmc 

bjyeh `rgi `mh ljt tgee wjy gmxirqimi: Dgqi xtj f`gm ~jgmx- ,?'

1-- Tl`x `ri jfi j xli bl`eeimdi tlim bjymieegmd gm Rjyxl @rgb`:

Dgqi xlrii f`gm ~jgmx- ,2'

Xjx`e ?> ~jgmx

      

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?8

Fyexg~ei bljgbi ,0 ~jgmx ~ir bjrribx `mtir'

Bjymieegmd g ojyx;0-

lie~gmd jfijmi gm xrjyoei`-

bri`xgmd ` `i ~`bi tliri ` begimx b`m i|~ejri lg*lir ~rjoeifo-

dgqgmd djjh hqgbi xj jfijmi i|~irgimbgmd ~rjoeifb-

`ee j xli `ojqi-h-

?- Xlrii ~rgmbg~ei `mh q`eyi xl`x ri fjx gf~jrx`mx gm bjymieegmd ri;

oigmd ri`e% ri~jmgqi mh ri~ibxye`-

oigmd ibrixgqi% tgi mh f`xyrio-

oigmd irxgqi% ~rjigjm`e mh j~imb-

oigmd bjmbirmih% ejw`e mh rgimhew-h-

2- If~`xlw fi`m;

xieegmd xli ~irjm wjy ymhirx`mh tl`x xliw ri djgmd xlrjydl`-

brwgmd `mh e`ydlgmd tgxl xli ~irjmo-

~yxxgmd wjyrie gm xli jxlir ~irjm‗ ljib-

xi~~gmd gmxj xli ~irjm‗ tjreh `mh bjffymgb`xgmd xlg ymhirx`mhgmd-h-

8- Ixlgb`e gyi xj bjmghir gm bjymieegmd gmqjeqi;

bjmhimxg`egxw`-

`eejtgmd xli begimx xj riiew i|~ri lg*lir iiegmdo-

oigmd mjm&kyhdifimx`eb-

`ee j xli `ojqi-h-

9- @ bjymieejr fyx f`gmx`gm bjmhimxg`egxw;

`x `ee xgfi`-

tgxlgm birx`gm egfgxo-

tlim x`ecgmd xj `mjxlir ~rjigjm`eb-

,o' `mh ,b'-h-

Ribxgjm O

     

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1- Xlrii riibxgjm ri~jmi gm bjymieegmd ri;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd% bjmximx mh ~`r`~lr`gmd`-

_iibxgjm j iiegmd% bjmximx mh ~rjbio-

_iibxgjm j iiegmd% fi`mgmd mh bjmximxb-

,o' `mh ,b'-h-

4- _iibxgjm j ~rjbi ,`ej cmjtm ` gffihg`bw';

G riibxgmd gyi rie`xih xj xli bjymieegmd bjmxi|x mh*jr bjymieejr`-

G riibxgmd iiegmd rie`xih xj xli begimx‗ jyxghi bjmxi|xo-

G riibxgjm j ~`x bjmximxb-

G mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-

<- Ryff`rggmd mh ~`r`~lr`gmd ri;

 Xli `fi xlgmd`-

Hgirimx oyx bjmmibxih cgee-o-

7- @hq`mbih if~`xlw g i|lgogxih tlim;

@ bjymieejr l`ri lg jr lir jtm i|~irgimbi tgxl ` begimx`-

@ bjymieejr b`m dyi tl`x xli begimx g iiegmd tgxljyx li`rgmd xli beg&o-

imx‗ xjrw

 Xli bjymieejr egmc iiegmd `mh bjmximx xj dj oiwjmh yr`bi eiqie ri&b-

ibxgjm j iiegmd

Mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-

0>- Rljyeh ` bjymieejr tlj gm‗x xr`gmih gm xr`yf` bjymieegmd ii ` begimx gm brgg:

Mj`-

Wi-o-

00- Xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm `ri gf~jrx`mx xj c gm `igmd ygbghi rgc;

Hj wjy l`qi ` ~e`m j ljt xj bjffgx ygbghi:`-

L`qi wjy xljydlx `ojyx tlim% tliri `mh ljt wjy tgee hj gx:o-

,`' `mh ,o'b-

Mjmi- @ bjymieejr ljyehm‗x dgqi xli begimx ghi` ow `cgmd pyixgjm-h-

      

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?1

0?- Xli f`gm dj`e j brgg f`m`difimx gm bjymieegmd g xj;

Dgqi xli begimx rijyrbi jm ljt xj f`m`di xligr brgg`-

@c jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm xj dyghi xli begimx jyx j xligr brggo-

Egxim xj xli begimx xiee lg jr lir yee xjrwb-

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

02- Riqiri `m|gixw ,tlgbl% `ibx `m gmhgqghy`e‗ egi ymbxgjmgmd' b`m `mh ljyeh oi

xri`xih tgxl ~wbljxlir`~w mh*jr `~~rj~rg`xi fihgb`xgjm-

 Xryi`-

A`ei-o-

08- @ gdm `mh wf~xjf j hi~rigjm g;

E`bc j imirdw `mh fjxgq`xgjm xj hj mjrf`e egi `bxgqgxgi`-

Aiiegmd `h `mh if~xw fjx j xli xgfio-

T`mxgmd xj x`ec xj jfijmi `ojyx ~rjoeifb-

,`' `mh ,o'-h-

09- Oyrmjyx b`m oi ~riqimxih ow;

I`xgmd ` o`e`mbih hgix`-

Djgmd jr ridye`r fimxjrgmd igjmo-

I|irbggmdb-

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

01- Xli hgirimx bj~gmd ri~jmi xj xri `ri dimir`eew;

Ymhir&xri mh jqirxri`-

Hgirimx jr hgirimx ~ij~eio-

@bxgqi bjdmgxgqi fixljh% bxgqi oil`qgjyr`e fixljh mh `qjgh`mbib-

Mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-

     

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04- Fimxjrgmd g;

 Xli `fi ` ~wbljxlir ~w`-

 Xli ~rjbi j y~~jrxgmd `mh oygehgmd bjymieejro-

Oigmd y~irqgihb-

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

0<- Fimxjrgmd gmqjeqi;

@ gmdei bjymieejr hgbygmd gyi tgxl ` fjri cgeeih fimxjr`-

@ drjy~ j bjymieejr x`ecgmd tgxl i`bl jxliro-

@ drjy~ j bjymieejr fiixgmd xjdixlir ymhir xli dygh`mbi j ` fim&b-

xjr

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

Xjx`e 0< ~jgmx

      

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?<

Hibrgoi xli x`di `mh cgee j xli Fjhie j Bjymieegmd% gmbeyhgmd xli rjei j 0-

xli begimx `mh bjymieejr `x i`bl x`di- Yi xli `xx`blih hr`tgmd j xli ljyi- ,0?

~jgmx'

 @ FJHIE JA BJYMRIEEGMD

 

Ribxgjm B

     

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Agm`e `ifimx; fjhie `mtir

Ribxgjm @

Ljt tjyeh wjy himi bjymieegmd:0-

Egximgmd if~`xlgb`eewØ

@eejtgmd begimx xj xiee xjrwØ

^rjoeif jeqgmd g `m `~ibx j bjymieegmdØ

@eejtgmd jr drjtxlØ

Bri`xgmd `i ~`bi xj i|~ejri iiegmd% ~rjoeif mhØ jtm j~xgjm

Rxrybxyrih rie`xgjmlg~ tgxl ojymh`rgiØ

^rjbi xj ~rjfjxi gmhi~imhimbi mh gmmir rijyrbiØ

Ipy`e mh hgbg~egmih rie`xgjmlg~Ø

Rcgee hiqiej~fimx-Ø

Tl`x g if~`xlw:?-

Aiiegmd tgxl `mh mjx jrØ

^yxxgmd ie gm lji j begimxØ

Imxirgmd begimx‗ r`fi j riirimbiØ

Rxrgqgmd xj ii begimx‗ ~jgmx j qgitØ

@bbyr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd j begimx‗ gyi-Ø

Tl`x ri xli ~irjm`e py`egxgi bjymieejr ljyeh l`qi:2-

T`rfxlØ

J~immiØ

LjmixwØ

^ij~ei&jrgimxihØ

DimygmimiØ

IxlgbØ

Bjmhimxg`egxwØ

F`xyrgxwØ

I`iØ

Egximgmd ogegxwØ

Rx`ogegxwØ

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 2>

Mjm&kyhdifimx`eØ

@bbi~x`mbiØ

 XryxtjrxlgmiØ

BjmhimbiØ

_ieg`ogegxwØ

 Xjeir`mbiØ

B`rgmdØ

^`xgimbiØ

^ymbxy`egxw-Ø

Tl`x ri xli xlrii bjri bjymieegmd q`eyi mh ~rgmbg~ei:8-

Oigmd ri~ibxye% oigmd ri`e% oigmd ri~jmgqiØ

Ymbjmhgxgjm`e ~jgxgqi rid`rh% bjmdryimbi*dimygmimi% if~`xlw-Ø

G wjyr begimx g hi~riih mh ymri~jmgqi% ljt tgee wjy gmxirqimi:9-

rx yi mjrf`e cgee j if~`xlw `mh i|~ejr`xgjmØ

`i ygbghi rgc Ø

`eejt xgfi jr yee hgbygjm ojyx hi~rigjmØ

bl`eeimdi ymri~jmgqimiØ

hiqiej~ tgxl begimx jfi ~r`bxgb`e mxg&hi~rigjm xiblmgpyiØ

riir jr ~wbljxlir`~wØ

yddix hi~rigjm y~~jrx drjy~-Ø

Tl`x `ri jfi j xli bl`eeimdi tlim bjymieegmd gm Rjyxl @rgb`:1-

r`bi `mh byexyriØ

dimhir gfo`e`mbiØ

jbg`e gmipy`egxgi mh hgirimx bbi xj rijyrbiØ

gf~`bx j ~jjr ihyb`xgjmØ

e`mdy`diØ

y~gbgjm mh fgxryxØ

~jjr li`exl gmr`xrybxyriØ

~jjr ymhirx`mhgmd j xli ~rjbi j bjymieegmd-Ø

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Ribxgjm O

o0-

`?-

h2-

h8-

o `mh b9-

o1-

`4-

o<-

b7-

`0>-

b00-

b0?-

`02-

h08-

h09-

b01-

o04-

h0<-

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 2?

Ribxgjm B

 @ FJHIE JA BJYMRIEEGMD

O`ih jm Id`m‗ Lie~gmd Fjhie

 

 Xjx`e 9> ~jgmx

^` f`rc g 2> ~jgmx-

LIE^ BEGIMX F@CI @ ^E@M

^rjoeif jeqgmd% jeyxgjm&jbyih

LIE^ BEGIMX I\^EJ_I J^XGJMRRyff`rggmd% pyixgjmgmd% gffihg`bw

LIE^ BEGIMX XIEE RXJ_W

_iibxgmd iiegmd% if~`xlw% ~`r`~lr`i

EGRXIM XJ BEGIMX‗R RXJ_W

Egximgmd% RJEI_ F@^% 2 _‗

OYGEH @ AJYMH@XGJM

Rie&~ri~`r`xgjm% ~ri~`r`xgjm j bjmxi|x `mh bjmxr`bxgmd

_

I

 Q G

I

T

G

M

D

BEGIMX‗R

I\XI_M@E

RY^^J_X

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22 55

^jx Fjhyei*Bjyri Bjymieegmd _jei&^e`w Iq`ey`xgjm Brgxirg`

B`mhgh`xi‗ m`fi;ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ Xiei~ljmi mj-; ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

Gmhgqghy`e o`gb bjymieegmd rjei&~e`w ljyeh oi bjmhybxih tgxl m i|xirm`e iq`ey`xjr-

HGH XLI ^@_XGBG^@MX;

Rljt bjri bjymieejr py`egxgi% i-d- t`rfxl% dimygmimi mh ~~rj`bl`ogegxw:

^jjr 0 ? 2 8 9 Djjh

 @ mjm&kyhdifimx`e xxgxyhi:

^jjr 0 ? 2 8 9 Djjh

@m t`rimi j xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi:

^jjr 0 ? 2 8 9 Djjh

HGH XLI ^@_XGBG^@MX;

@~~rj~rg`xiew ix y~ xli gmgxg`e driifimx tgxl xli begimx ,bjmxr`bxgmd':

^jjr 0 ? 2 8 9 Djjh

@~~rj~rg`xiew yi xli cgee gm xli Id`m bjymieegmd fjhie ,`xximhgmd% egximgmd% riibxgmd

bjmximx `mh fi`mgmd% riibxgmd ~rjbi% yff`rggmd% pyixgjmgmd% bl`eeimdgmd% ~rjo&

eif&jeqgmd mh riqgitgmd'-

^jjr 0 ? 2 8 9 Djjh

 Imbjyr`di xli begimx xj xiee xligr xjrw-

^jjr 0 ? 2 8 9 Djjh

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 28

Joirqir$ _jei&^e`w Blibcegx

R@P@ YR GH- 0049>9

Joirqi xli bjymieejr gm xli rjei&~e`w `mh f`rc xli `bxjr xl`x wjy joirqih oiejt- @ej%

mjxi x tl`x ~jgmx gm bjymieegmd wjy joirqih * hghm‗x joirqi xli jeejtgmd;

Yi j RJEI_ F@^u

Rix y~ gmgxg`e driifimx*bjmxr`bxu

If~`xlwu

Dimygmimi * _i`eu

_i~ibxu

B`efu

Mjx gmxirry~xgmd begimxu

@~~rj~rg`xi iwi bjmx`bxu

^`wgmd `xximxgjm xj begimxu

@~~rj~rg`xi `bg`e i|~rigjmu

@~~rj~rg`xi ojhw e`mdy`diu

Imbjyr`dgmdu

If~jtirgmdu

Mjm&kyhdifimx`eu

Egfgxih ie&hgbejyriu

_iibxgmd iiegmd bbyr`xiewu

_iibxgmd bjmximx * ~`r`~lr`gmdu

@eejtgmd xli begimx xj xiee xligr xjrwu

Ygmd imbjyr`dir% egci mjhhgmd jru

`wgmd “yl&lyl‗

Mjx `cgmd xjj f`mw pyixgjmu

_iqgitgmd * xirfgm`xgmdu

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Joirqir‗ _jei&^e`w Blibcegx

    O   i    l   `   q    g   j   y   r

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    ,      b   j   r   i  6    >    '

    E    g   f    g   x   i    h   i   q    g    h   i   m   b   i   j    a

    o   i    l   `   q    g   j   y   r    ,      b   j   r   i  6    0    '

    A   y    e    e   i   q    g    h   i   m   b   i   j    a    o   i    l   `   q    g   j   y   r

    ,      b   j   r   i  6    ?    '

    B   `   m    h    g    h   `   x   i    g      m   j   m   q   i   r    o   `    e    e   w   `   b   b   i   ~   x    g   m   d

   j       b    e    g   i   m   x

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       r   i   p   y   i   m   x    e   w

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0- Tl`x ri xli fjx gdmgb`mx xlgmd xl`x wjy ei`rmih ojyx;

,`' Wjyrie:

,o' Jxlir:

,b' Tl`x tiri wjyr i|~ibx`xgjm j xli bjyri:

,h' Tiri xlii i|~ibx`xgjm fix:

     

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oigmd ri~ibxye 0 ? 2 8 9

oigmd ri`e 0 ? 2 8 9

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bl`eeimdgmd 0 ? 2 8 9

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ie&`t`rimi 0 ? 2 8 9

~rjoeif jeqgmd 0 ? 2 8 9

`cgmd jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm 0 ? 2 8 9

mjx dgqgmd hqgbi 0 ? 2 8 9

ixxgmd dj`e 0 ? 2 8 9

      

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ow ^- Orjy`rh `mh _- E`{`ry

Tl`x g fimxjrgmd:

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bjymieejr j xl`x xliw `ri `oei xj jir xli oix irqgbi ~jgoei xj begimx tlgei x`wgmd

fjxgq`xih `mh imxlyg`xgb `ojyx xligr tjrc- Fimxjrgmd f`w bjqir `hfgmgxr`xgqi f`xxir

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gb% q`eyi' `mh y~~jrx ,fjr`ei% ~irjm`e drjtxl% ie&tjrxl% ` imi j oiejmdgmd xj `m jr&

d`mg`xgjm'-

Fimxjrgmd hgir rjf ―y~irqggjm‖ tlgbl ximh xj yddix ` xj~&hjtm rie`xgjmlg~ tliri

` imgjr ~irjm t`xbli jqir ` kymgjr ~irjm `mh f`ci yri xliw hj xligr kjo ~rj~irew- Ry&

~irqggjm g jfixgfi yih gm gxy`xgjm tliri xli imgjr ~irjm g `ej xli f`m`dir j xli

 kymgjr ~irjm-

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bjqirw- Gm f`mw gxy`xgjm gm Rjyxl @rgb` xliri g mj jrf`e fimxjr q`ge`oei mh bjymieejr

f`w miih xj riew jm i`bl jxlir jr fimxjrgmd-

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Tlw g gx gf~jrx`mx:

@ee j y gmqjeqih gm lie~gmd tjrc miih xj riibx jm jyr tjrc oib`yi ti `ri lyf`m ,ti

l`qi xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii' `mh oib`yi bjymieegmd g o`ih jm xli ghi` j oigmd `oei

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eif% xliw b`m riqi`e lghhim miih% mh xliw b`m ei`qi y iiegmd oyrhimih ow bjf~ei| iie&

gmd- Xliw b`m ej f`ci y iie ~jtirye mh gm bjmxrje% mh jfixgfi xif~xih xj x`ci jqir

xli egqi `mh hibggjm j jyr begimx-

Bjymieejr tlj l`qi mjx l`h wi`r j ~rjigjm`e xr`gmgmd% gm tlgbl xliw `ri bejiew fim&

xjrih `mh imbjyr`dih xj l`qi xligr jtm gm&hi~xl bjymieegmd% `ri i~ibg`eew qyemir`oei xj

jfi j xli bl`eeimdi hibrgoih ojqi- Mjm&jrf`e bjymieejr gm Rjyxl @rgb` ,i-d- bjymie&

ejr tlj tjrc tgxl xiei~ljmi `mh `bi&xj&`bi bjymieegmd gm ` r`mdi j MDJ' l`qi jxim

l`h ljrx `mh gmximi xr`gmgmd xj dgqi xlif o`gb cgee xj hi`e tgxl xli fjx bjffjm ~rjo&

eif ~ij~ei `bi gm xligr iqirwh`w egqi- Rybl bjyri b`mmjx ipyg~ xlii bjymieejr xj bj~i

tgxl fjri bjf~ei| ~rjoeif mh gxy`xgjm mh xliw b`mmjx bjf~eixiew ~ri~`ri bjymieejr

jr iqirw bl`eeimdi xliw fgdlx `bi% mh xli ifjxgjm`e oyrhim j bjymieegmd-

LGQ*@GHR g `m i|`f~ei j jmi fihgb`e `mh jbg`e bl`eeimdi tliri xli oyrhim j bjymie&

egmd l` `eeim jm xr`gmih qjeymxiir- Rjyxl @rgb` l` ` bjf~ei| LGQ i~ghifgb tgxl jmi j 

xli e`rdix myfoir j ~ij~ei egqgmd tgxl LGQ% xli ogddix @_Q rjee&jyx gm xli tjreh% `mh `

drjtgmd hif`mh jr qjeymx`rw bjymieegmd `mh xixgmd ,QBX' `mh ~riqimxgjm j fjxlir&xj&

blgeh xr`mfggjm ,^FXBX' irqgbi- F`mw LGQ bjymieejr gm Rjyxl @rgb` `ri tjrcgmd gm hg&

byex bgrbyfx`mbi tgxl gm`hipy`xi y~~jrx mh dygh`mbi- Xr`gmgmd j LGQ bjymieejr q`rgi

`brj xli bjymxrw% bjymieejr f`w oi ~jjrew ~`gh jr jqir&tjrcih `mh xliw hj mjx l`qi `

bei`r b`riir ~`xl jr kjo ibyrgxw% `mh jxim oigmd iim ` firi ―qjeymxiir‖- LGQ bjymieejr `ri

jxim i|~ibxih xj `blgiqi dj`e% tlgbl `ri ymri`egxgb% ybl ` oil`qgjyr bl`mdi `mh hgbej&

yri% tgxlgm jmi igjm j bjymieegmd- Gm xlii bjmhgxgjm% f`mw bjymieejr ri`bl ―oyrm&jyx‖

`mh `ri xlim ym`oei xj hj fi`mgmdye tjrc-

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== 8?

Fjhie ja fimxjrgmd

Gmhgqghy`e fimxjrgmd; Gmhgqghy`e fimxjrgmd jir xli bjymieejr xli j~~jrxymgxw xj hi&

qiej~ ` xryxgmd rie`xgjmlg~ tgxl ` fjri cgeeih `mh i|~irgimbih fimxjr `mh ` `i ~`bi gm

tlgbl xj riibx jm tjrc tgxl begimx% hiqiej~ ` ` bjymieejr `mh drjt ` ` ~irjm- Gx fjx

jxim l`~~im jm ` `bi&xj&`bi o`g% oyx f`w oi xiei~ljmgb jr riew jm trgxxim jr i&f`ge

bjmx`bx-

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Gmhgqghy`e fimxjrgmd dimir eew `eejt fjri xgfi xj bjmbimxr`xi jm ~`rxgbye`r b`i% jr xj ri&

qgit r`mdi j b`i- Gx ej jir fjri gm&hi~xl jby jm xli ~ibgb miih j xli ~`rxgbye`r

bjymieejr- Gx g% ljtiqir% egfgxih ow xli ~ibgb j xli b`i mh bgrbyfx`mbi xli bjymie&

ejr l` imbjymxirih% f`w imbjyr`di hi~imhimbw jm xli fimxjr% jr oi i|~irgimbih ` xjj

gmximi mh hif`mhgmd- Gx g ei bjx&iibxgqi xl`m drjy~ fimxjrgmd mh tgee mjx l`~~im x

`ee g xliri g mj ygx`oei fimxjr `q`ge`oei-

Drjy~ fimxjrgmd; Drjy~ fimxjrgmd jir drjy~ fifoir xli j~~jrxymgxw xj l`ri r`mdi

j i|~irgimbi tgxl begimx% `mh ` q`rgixw j `~~rj`bli ow hgirimx bjymieejr% ` ` o`g jr

riibxgjm jm ~ibgb b`i% hiqiej~fimx ` drjy~ fifoir `mh ~irjm`e drjtxl- Drjy~

fimxjrgmd riegi jm drjy~ fifoir `bxgqiew imd`dgmd tgxl b`i xl`x `ri ―~riimxih‖ ow jmi

j xli drjy~ gm jrhir xj ~rjqghi bjffimx mh gx`mbi jr xl`x bjymieejr% mh x xli `fi

xgfi xj ei`rm jr xlifieqi-

Drjy~ fimxjrgmd f`w oi `bgegx`xih ow fimxjr% jr ow ` drjy~ fifoir ,jr fifoir' bxgmd

xj `bgegx`xi ` hgbygjm `fjmdx ~iir- Gm igxlir b`i% ` x`mh`rh ~rjbi tgee yy`eew oi je&

ejtih xj `bgegx`xi hgbygjm% f`m`di drjy~ hwm`fgb `mh% ` `r ` ~jgoei% `bbjffjh`xi

xli miih j hgirimx drjy~ fifoir ‒ g mjx gm ` ~`rxgbye`r igjm% xlim jqir ` irgi j 

igjm-

Gm drjy~ fimxjrgmd% xliri tgee gmiqgx`oew oi itir j~~jrxymgxgi jr drjy~ fifoir xj jby

jm xligr jtm b`i `mh gx f`w oi fjri hgbyex xj mh t`w xj hi`e tgxl yrdimx b`i- Oib`yi

j xli lgx gm jby `fjmdx drjy~ fifoir gm xli bjyri j ` igjm% drjy~ fimxjrgmd

f`w oi ei `m|gixw&~rjqjcgmd jr bjymieejr `mh oi ei egciew xj imbjyr`di hi~imhimbi-

Ljtiqir% jfi bjymieejr f`w mh gx fjri hgbyex xj oi j~im ojyx hgbyex i|~irgimbi gm

` drjy~ `mh l`qi ei bjmhimbi gm xli j~gmgjm j ~iir- Ajr drjy~ fimxjrgmd xj oi iib&

xgqi% hwm`fgb ybl hjfgm`mbi% bjmgbx% jr bjf~ixgxgjm miih xj oi ~rj~irew f`m`dih-

Bljjgmd ` fjhie

Oib`yi ojxl gmhgqghy`e `mh drjy~ fimxjrgmd l`qi xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii% tliri ~j&

goei% bjfogm`xgjm j ojxl g yiye% jr i|`f~ei ridye`r drjy~ fimxjrgmd% y~~eifimxih ow

ei ripyimx gmhgqghy`e fimxjrgmd- Gm xli b`i j drjy~ fimxjrgmd% gx g lie~ye xj l`qi jfi&

jmi cgeeih gm bjymieegmd `mh gm rymmgmd drjy~ xj `bgegx`xi xli fimxjrgmd igjm- Tliri

xlg g mjx ~jgoei% ~iir fimxjrgmd b`m xgee oi `m iibxgqi xjje xj y~~jrx `mh iml`mbi xli

cgee j bjymieejr-

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== 88

Gm xli b`i j ~iir fimxjrgmd% gx g lie~ye xj x`rx j tgxl m i|xirm`e fimxjr mh tliri ~j&

goei% xj bjmxgmyi xj l`qi jbb`gjm`e igjm tgxl xli fimxjr- Tlim drjy~ fifoir `bx ``bgegx`xjr% xlg b`m oi hjmi jm xli o`g j ` rjxir3 jr yi j ` qjeymxiir jr ow mjfgm`xgjm-

 Xli drjy~ f`w ~riir xj yi jfijmi dimir`eew rid`rhih gm xli drjy~ l`qgmd fjri i|~irg&

imbi ` ` bjymieejr% jr oigmd fjri iibxgqi ` ` drjy~ `bgegx`xjr-

Ljtiqir% xli drjy~ ljyeh `qjgh ygmd xli `fi ~irjm xlrjydljyx% ` xlg egfgx j~~jrxymg&

xgi jr xl`x ~irjm xj ~`rxgbg~`xi ` ` ~iir gm xli drjy~ `mh jr jxlir xj hiqiej~ `bgegx`xgjm

cgee- L`qgmd `bgegx`xjr mh bj&`bgegx`xjr jr i`bl igjm g jmi t`w xj ~riqimx jqir&rieg`mbi

jm jmi jr xtj ~ij~ei xj yee xlg ymbxgjm-

Drjy~ fimxjrgmd gm fjri hix`ge

^e`mmgmd jr fimxjrgmd drjy~; Rjfijmi ljyeh x`ci ri~jmgogegxw xj ~e`m xli rx igjm

j ` fimxjrgmd drjy~- Xlg ~irjm ljyeh jrd`mgi ` ~e`bi xj fiix `mh ix`oegl xl`x xliri

g imjydl ~`bi `mh ~rgq`bw jr xli fiixgmd% `ee mibi`rw ~irfggjm l`qi oiim jox`gmih%

`mh blibc tlixlir ririlfimx ljyeh oi jrd`mgih- Xliri ljyeh oi xli mibi`rw ipyg~&

fimx ,i-d- g wjy t`mx xj yi ` g~bl`rx xj yff`rgi ` b`i jr trgxi hjtm drjymh ryei' `mh

imjydl bl`gr- Xli ~e`mmir ljyeh ej gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx mh i|~e`gm xli xgfi bjffgxfimx

gmqjeqih jr xli rx fiixgmd ‒ xli eimdxl `mh myfoir j e`xir igjm tgee oi `driih jm owxli drjy~ ‒ `mh lie~ jrx jyx xr`m~jrx ripygrifimx% g ~jgoei-

Xli ~lwgb`e ix y~ j ` drjy~;  Tlgei ejb`e ixxgmd f`w l`qi rijyrbi `mh ~`bi bjm&

xr`gmx% tliri ~jgoei xrw xj rr`mdi i`xgmd xj imyri f`|gfyf ~`rxgbg~`xgjm j ee- @ bgrbei

xw~i&i`xgmd ~e`m jr ` Y&l`~ih `rr`mdifimx `eejt jr iqirwjmi xj ii i`bl jxlir `mh jr

xlif xj gmxir`bx tgxl i`bl jxlir- G ~jgoei% qjgh yi j hic jr x`oei% tlgbl ximh xj bx `

` o`rrgir xj djjh gmxir`bxgjm-

Bjmxr`bxgmd;  Xli ~irjm tlj l` b`eeih xli drjy~ xjdixlir ljyeh gmxrjhybi lgfie jrlirie% dgqi orgi i|~e`m`xgjm j fimxjrgmd mh tlw gx g gf~jrx`mx% mh yff`rgi xli ~yr&

~ji j xli fiixgmd- R*li ljyeh xlim `c iqirwjmi xj gmxrjhybi xlifieqi `mh xj i|~e`gm

tl`x xliw tjyeh i|~ibx rjf ` fimxjrgmd drjy~- Xlii i|~ibx`xgjm ljyeh oi hgbyih

`mh xlim xli drjy~ ljyeh `drii jm jfi jqir`ee dj`e jr xli fimxjrgmd drjy~ ‒ xlii b`m

oi b`~xyrih jm ` g~bl`rx-

Ei`rmgmd xlrjydl drjy~ fimxjrgmd fi`m x`cgmd rgc `mh i|~jgmd jmi‗ qyemir`ogegxgi- @m

gf~jrx`mx hibggjm bjmbirm tlixlir xli drjy~ tgee oi bejih jr j~im mh ljt mit ~ij~ei

tgee oi gmqgxih xj kjgm xli drjy~- @ bejih drjy~ f`w jxir dri`xir xryx `fjmd fifoir% oyxf`w oi hgbyex xj yx`gm gm xli ejmd rym-

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Gx g `ej gf~jrx`mx xj `drii jm drjymh ryei jr djjh drjy~ oil`qgjyr `mh

jyxbjfi- @ xw~gb`e ix j drjymh ryei bjqir xli jeejtgmd xlifi;

Fjx gf~jrx`mxew% `drii jm ` r`fitjrc jr ljt i`bl fimxjrgmd igjm tgee oi rym rjf

x`rx xj mgl-

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 @ yddixih ar`fitjrc ajr drjy~ fimxjrgmd

Drjy~ fimxjrgmd% tlixlir fimxjr&eih jr gmqjeqgmd jmew ~iir% g iml`mbih ow ygmd `fgeg`r

r`fitjrc xj lie~ drjy~ fifoir imd`di tgxl xli ~rjbi `mh bjmx`gm drjy~ hwm`fgb-

 Xli r`fitjrc miih xj oi hgbyih `mh `driih ` ~`rx j xli bjmxr`bxgmd ~rjbi tlim

x`rxgmd fimxjrgmd drjy~-

 Xli jeejtgmd ~l`i `ri bjffjmew gmbeyhih gm xli r`fitjrc-

J~imgmd ,9‒0> fgmyxi'

 Xli `bgegx`xjr bjmrf xli ri`hgmi j drjy~ xj x`rx `mh gmxrjhybi ` t`rf&y~ `b&

xgqgxw ,gbi&ori`cir' xj dix fifoir rie`|ih `mh x`ecgmd- Ajr i|`f~ei% l`qi i`bl drjy~

fifoir dgqi jmi tjrh tlgbl hibrgoi ljt xlgmd l`qi oiim gmbi xli e`x fiixgmd-

 Xli `bgegx`xjr xlim blibc xl`x xli fifoir ri~jmgoei jr ~riimxgmd g ri`hw xj hj

j- G rieiq`mx% xli `bgegx`xjr be`rgi tlixlir xliri `ri `mw jyx&j&xyrm ripyix% `eejt

orgi hgbygjm `mh ` hibggjm tlixlir xj `eejt gx jr yddix `exirm`xgqi t`w xj dix

lie~ tgxl xli ripyix-

^riimx`xgjm ,0>‒?> fgmyxi'

Ygmd ~ri~`rih mjxi% xli ~riimxir ~riimx xli b`i jeejtgmd ` wxif`xgb jrf`x

,ii B`i ~riimx`xgjm jrf`x oiejt'- Xli ~riimxir ljyeh xrw xj cii~ xli ~riimx`xgjm

bei`r mh xr`gdlxjrt`rh j xl`x jxlir drjy~ fifoir l`qi yee ~gbxyri xj tjrc tgxl-

Hyrgmd xli ~riimx`xgjm% jxlir drjy~ fifoir f`w f`ci mjxi xj rifgmh xlifieqi

j ciw ~jgmx% jr j pyixgjm-

Be`rgb`xgjm ,0>‒09 fgmyxi'

Ajeejtgmd ` rjymh&rjogm `~~rj`bl% drjy~ fifoir `c pyixgjm xl`x tgee lie~ xlif

xj ymhirx`mh xli gxy`xgjm oixxir ,i-d- ljt jeh g \: ljt ejmd l` \ oiim iiegmd xlg t`w: 

tl`x f`hi \ hibghi xj bjfi jr bjymieegmd: '- Egfgx pyixgjm xj jmi ~ir drjy~ fifoir%

jr ix xgfi egfgx jr cgmd pyixgjm ,i-d- 9 fgmyxi'- Pyixgjm ljyeh jby f`gmew jm

xli b`i mh xli begimx% r`xlir xl`m jm ljt xli bjymieejr gmxirqimih- Pyixgjm ljyeh

mjx gmbeyhi ~jgoei gmxir~rix`xgjm jr jeyxgjm- Drjy~ fifoir ljyeh xrw xj `qjgh

eimdxlw% r`foegmd x`xifimx% tgxljyx bei`r pyixgjm- Xli ~riimxir b`m ri~jmh xir

i`bl pyixgjm% jr `x xli imh j `ee xli pyixgjm-

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^riimxir‗ ripyix ,9 fgmyxi' Xli ~riimxir xlim i|~e`gm lg*lir ri`jm jr ~riimxgmd xlg b`i ‒ tl`x *li jymh i&

~ibg`eew hgbyex ,i-d- mjx cmjtgmd ljt xj gmxirqimi% jr mjx ymhirx`mhgmd tlw xli begimx

ri`bxih gm ` ~`rxgbye`r t`w% jr iiegmd gm`hipy`xi xj fiix xli begimx‗ miih% jr oib`yi

j iiegmd iqjcih ow xli begimx jr lg*lir gxy`xgjm'% `mh*jr tl`x *li t`mx rjf xli

drjy~ ,i-d- yddixgjm jm ljt xj gmxirqimi% ljt xj ymhirx`mh xli begimx‗ ri`bxgjm%

ljt xj ymhirx`mh jr hi`e tgxl iiegmd j gm`hipy`bw jr jxlir iiegmd iqjcih ow xli

begimx'-

_iibxgjm ,?‒2 fgmyxi'

 Xj imbjyr`di drjy~ fifoir xj jby jm xli ~riimxir‗ ripyix r`xlir xl`m xligr jtm

ri`bxgjm xj xli b`i jr xj xli bjymieejr‗ gmxirqimxgjm% eejt xgfi jr fifoir xj riibx

jm xli b`i `mh xli ~riimxir‗ ripyix mh bjmghir ljt xj ri~jmh-

Drjy~ fifoir‗ bjffimx ,09‒?> fgmyxi'

I`bl drjy~ fifoir dgqi iiho`bc% jbyih jm xli ~riimxir‗ ripyix% x`cgmd b`ri

xj bjffymgb`xi bjmxrybxgqiew ,ii _jei oiejt'- Xli ~riimxir egxim xj i`bl bjf&fimx mh f`w f`ci mjxi% oyx hji mjx ri~jmh% i|bi~x xj c jr mw be`rgb`xgjm *li

miih- Xlg hibri`i ~riyri jm xli ~riimxir xj hiimh ` ~jgmx j qgit jr `bxgjm `mh

`bgegx`xi fjri jbyih xximxgjm jm tl`x g oigmd `gh-

_iibxgjm ,?‒2 fgmyxi'

@eejt xli ~riimxir ` it fgmyxi xj bjmghir xli bjffimx `mh lg*lir ri`bxgjm xj

xlif- Jxlir drjy~ fifoir b`m x`ci xli xgfi xj bjmghir tl`x xliw l`qi ei`rmih rjf

xli igjm j `r% jr xj x`ci ` orgi xrixbl ori`c-

^riimxir‗ ri~jmi ,9‒0> fgmyxi'

 Xli ~riimxir ri~jmh xj xli bjffimx% `ej x`cgmd b`ri xj bjffymgb`xi bjmxryb&

xgqiew- R*li f`w gmhgb`xi gm tl`x t`w ` bjffimx t` lie~ye% jr tliri `mh tlw *li

ii xlgmd hgirimxew% jr f`w l`qi hgbyexw ~~ewgmd ` yddixgjm- Xli ~riimxir imh

tgxl ` yff`rw j tl`x *li l` ei`rmih `mh tl`x *li gmximh xj hj ` ` riyex j xli

igjm-

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== 8<

J~im hgbygjm ,9‒0> fgmyxi'

I`bl igjm ljyeh imh ~rj~irew- Hi~imhgmd jm xli xgfi `q`ge`oei `mh tl`x l` l`~&

~imih hyrgmd xli igjm% drjy~ fifoir b`m oi gmqgxih xj riibx jm tl`x xliw l`qi

ei`rmih rjf xli igjm `mh ljt xliw `ri iiegmd% jr xj bjmghir `~ibx j xli drjy~

~rjbi% jr ljt xli `bgegx`xjr,' f`m`dih xli igjm- @mw hibggjm `ojyx xli mi|x

fimxjrgmd igjm `mh tlj tgee ~riimx ljyeh oi x`cim mjt% j xl`x gx g bei`r tlj

miih xj ~ri~`ri- @mw jxlir ~rjoeif jr ymbirx`gmxgi ljyeh oi hi`ex tgxl% jr rr`mdi&

fimx f`hi xj `hhri xlif `x xli mi|x igjm jr gm jfi jxlir `~~rj~rg`xi t`w-

_jei; @ee drjy~ fifoir l`qi ` ri~jmgogegxw xj imd`di bjmxrybxgqiew gm xli fimxjrgmd

~rjbi `mh xj imbjyr`di ` djjh tjrcgmd begf`xi- Gm `hhgxgjm% ljtiqir% xli `bgegx`xjr,'%

~riimxir `mh jxlir drjy~ fifoir i`bl l`qi xligr jtm ymgpyi rjei xj ~e`w-

A`bgegx`xjr;  Xli `bgegx`xjr g ri~jmgoei jr `bgegx`xgmd xli drjy~‗ tjrcgmd xlrjydl xli hg&

irimx ~l`i j xli r`fitjrc% jr fjmgxjrgmd drjy~ hwm`fgb `mh f`gmx`gmgmd ri`jm`oei

tjrcgmd rie`xgjmlg~ `fjmdx fifoir- R*li miih xj jxir bjmhgxgjm xl`x imbjyr`di

~rjigjm`e `mh ~irjm`e drjtxl j xli ~riimxir `mh jxlir drjy~ fifoir- R*li miih xj

fjhie ri~ibxye% y~~jrxgqi `mh riibxgqi oil`qgjyr jr drjy~ fifoir `mh gmxirqimi g 

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b`m oi yiye- R*li miih xj oi j~im xj iiho`bc jm lir*lg `bgegx`xgjm% `eejtgmd jr lir*lg

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mibi`rw f`xirg`e gm `hq`mbi ,ii B`i ~riimx`xgjm jrf`x oiejt'- R*li miih xj dgqi jfi

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imjydl hix`ge j xl`x jxlir drjy~ fifoir l`qi imjydl gmjrf`xgjm xj f`ci imi j xli

b`i- R*li ljyeh xrw xj oi ljmix ojyx hgbyexgi *li l` i|~irgimbih% xlg tgee iml`mbi

tl`x *li b`m ei`rm-

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R*li ljyeh xrw xj `mtir pyixgjm bei`rew% oyx gmhgb`xi tlim *li hji mjx l`qi xli gm&

jrf`xgjm- R*li ljyeh egxim b`riyeew xj drjy~ fifoir‗ bjffimx `mh xrw xj ii xlif `

dimygmi `xxif~x xj lie~% iqim xljydl xliw `ri o`ih jm jmew ~`rxg`e gmjrf`xgjm `ojyx xli

gxy`xgjm- @mw brgxgb`e bjffimx ljyeh oi iim j~~jrxymgxgi xj ei`rm- R*li miih xj xrw xj

hr`t jyx x ei`x jmi eijm jr ~jgoei bjyri j bxgjm rjf xli ~rjbi mh oi ~ri~`rih xj

xrw xj gf~eifimx xlg gm lir*lg ~r`bxgbi-

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xgjm jr xligr ijrx- Xliri g mj miih xj ri~jmh xj iqirw gmdei bjffimx% oyx gx g lie~ye xj

oi `oei xj yff`rgi xli f`gm ghi` `mh xj lgdlegdlx ~jgmx xl`x *li gmximh xj xlgmc fjri

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xli ri`e bjymieegmd gxy`xgjm- Xliw miih xj `bbi~x xl`x xli ~riimxir g mjx joegdih xj ii

xlgmd xligr t`w jr x`ci y~ xligr yddixgjm-

Gm f`cgmd bjffimx% drjy~ fifoir miih xj xrw xj ~yx xlifieqi gm xli lji j xli ~ri&imxir% xlgmcgmd mjx jmew `ojyx tl`x xliw t`mx xj `w% oyx `ej ljt gx f`w oi li`rh- Xrw xj

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Yi ` dimjdr`f% g jox`gmih- Xl`x g% hr`t ` `fgew xrii% tlgbl ljt xli ciw ~ij~ei gm xli

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Ljt hgh G iie hyrgmd `mh `xir xli igjm ,egx iiegmd tjrh':9-

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iif xryx `mh j~immi t` hiqiej~ih% hgh xli begimx rif`gm hiimgqi `mh t`rw':

Tl`x g xli t`w jrt`rh `driih tgxl xli begimx:<-

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gmd `ri lyrx% jfijmi xrgi xj oi xjj ojw% ` drjy~ fifoir riyi xj bjmxrgoyxi'- Xlii

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g ` djjh ghi` xj x`ec `ojyx xlg imhgmd% xj bieior`xi ybbii% `bcmjteihdi hgbyexgi `mh

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xlim xli xtj b`m gf~eifimx xli xg~ xjdixlir'-

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xjrgmd ripygri drjy~ fifoir xj ei`rm `mh drjt `mh dix iiho`bc jm xligr ~irjrf`mbi

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H`w Ajyr; Lie~gmd begimx xiee xligr xjrgi ‒ egximgmd

><l2> ?-00 Blibc&gm riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

>7l>> ?- 0? Dyigmd mjm&qiro`e iiegmd 2> fgm

>7l89 ?- 02 @bxgqi egximgmd 1> fgm

0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm

0>l89 ?- 08 Oejbc xj egximgmd 89 fgm

00l2> ?- 09 Ygmd geimbi iibxgqiew 89 fgm

0?l09 Eymbl 89 fgm

02l>> ?- 01 Rie&`t`rimi i|irbgi jm bj~gmd cgee 1> fgm

02l89 ?- 04 Egximgmd ‒ ―tl`x G li`rh wjy `w‖ 2> fgm

08l2> Xi` 09 fgm

08l89 ?- 0< Rxjrgi i|irbgi 1> fgm

09l89 ?- 07 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm

09l9> ?- ?> Blibc jyx ?9 fgm

H`w Agqi; Lie~gmd begimx xiee xligr xjrgi ‒ ri~jmhgmd

><l2> ?- ?0 Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

>7l>> ?- ?? Rie&`t`rimi i|irbgi jm ―oil`qgjyr bl`mdi‖ 89 fgm

>7l89 ?- ?2 Ifjxgjm b`rh 89 fgm

0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm

0>l89 ?- ?8 Aiiegmd rx 1> fgm

00l89 ?- ?9 If~`xlgb ri~jmhgmd 89 fgm

0?l2> Eymbl 89 fgm

02l09 ?- ?1 Aiiegmd rjei&~e`w 89 fgm

08l>> Xi` 09 fgm

08l09 ?- ?4 “Ljt G f`ci bljgbi‗ 2> fgm

08l89 ?- ?< Gmxidr`xgmd cgee ‒ ~iir ifimx 1> fgm

09l89 ?- ?7 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm

09l9> ?-2> Blibc jyx ?9 fgm

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== 9<

H`w Rg|; Lie~gmd begimx xiee xligr xjrgi ‒ i|~ejrgmd

><l2> ?-20 Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

>7l>> ?- 2? Drjy~ cmjx 09 fgm

>7l09 ?- 22 I|~ejrgmd xlrjydl ~`r`~lr`gmd mh be`rgwgmd 1> fgm

0>l09 Xi` 09 fgm

0>l2> ?- 28 Gmxirrjd`xjr bxgqgxw ‒ i|~ejrgmd xlrjydl pyixgjmgmd 89 fgm

00l09 ?- 29 Fw xrimdxl mh ti`cmii 2> fgm

00l89 ?- 21 Rcgee xl`x lie~ mh jeyxgjm 89 fgm

0?l2> Eymbl 89 fgm

02l09 ?- 24 Ryff`rggmd cgee 1> fgm

08l09 ?- 2< Gmxidr`xgmd ee xli o`gb bjymieegmd cgee 89 fgm

09l>> Xi` 09 fgm

09l09 ?- 27 ^jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri mh bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

09l89 ?- 8> Blibc jyx mh qiro`e iq`ey`xgjm 2> fgm

Fjhyei 2 ‒ Ribjmh`rw Bjymieegmd Rcgee ,8 H`w'

H`w Riqim; Lie~gmd begimx i|~ejri fjri hii~ew

><l2> 2-0 Tiebjfi% blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

>7l>> 2-? Gmxrjhybxgjm% drjymh&ryei% i|~ibx`xgjm 2> fgm

>7l2> 2-2 _iqgi bjymieegmd fjhie% RJEI_ F@^ 89 fgm

0>l09 2-8 ^ri&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 09 fgm

0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm

0>l89 2- 9 E`wir j iiegmd 2> fgm

00l09 2- 1 @hq`mbih if~`xlw 1> fgm

0?l09 2- 4 _iibxgjm j ~rjbi ,gffihg`bw' 89 fgm

02l>> Eymbl 89 fgm

02l89 2- < J~im q- bejih pyixgjm 89 fgm

08l2> Xi` 09 fgm

08l89 2- 7 Oibjfgmd fjri ~ibgb 1> fgm

09l89 2- 0> I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm

09l9> 2-00 Blibc jyx ?9 fgm

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H`w Igdlx; Lie~gmd begimx f`ci ` ~e`m

><l2> 2- 0? Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

>7l>> 2- 02 Xlgmc o`bc xj xgfi tlim bl`eeimdih ‡ 2> fgm

>7l2> 2- 08 Bl`eeimdgmd rjei&~e`w 1> fgm

0>l09 Xi` 09 fgm

0>l2> 2- 09 ^rjoeif jeqgmd 2> fgm

00l09 2- 01 Xli xr`b egdlx fjhie 89 fgm

0?l>> 2- 04 Rjeyxgjm mhgmd 89 fgm

0?l89 Eymbl 89 fgm

02l2> 2- 0< ^rjoeif jeqgmd mh jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjmgmd 2> fgm

08l>> 2- 07 ^rjoeif jeqgmd rjei&~e`w 1> fgm

09l>> 2- ?> Xli rjei j “jxlir‗ gm ~rjoeif jeqgmd 2> fgm

09l2> 2-?0 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm

09l9> 2-?? Blibc jyx ?9 fgm

H`w Mgmi; Bjymieegmd bl`eeimdi

><l2> 2-?2 Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

>7l>> 2-?8 Bjmhimxg`egxw 1> fgm

0>l>> 2- ?9 _iqgitgmd cgee 2> fgm

0>l2> Xi` 09 fgm

0>l89 2-?1 Imhgmd cgee 2> fgm

00l09 2-?4 Rgfye`xih bjymieegmd igjm mh ~iir iq`ey`xgjm 1> fgm

0?l09 Eymbl 89 fgm

02l>> 2- ?< Brgg f`m`difimx mh igmd ygbghi 89 fgm

02l89 2- ?7 Tlim xj riir 89 fgm

08l2> Xi` 09 fgm

08l89 2- 2> Fw ifjxgjm`e oyxxjm 1> fgm

09l89 2- 20 I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi >9 fgm

09l9> 2-2? Blibc jyx ?9 fgm

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== 1>

H`w Xim; Imhgmd

><l2> 2- 22 Blibc&gm mh riqgit bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

>7l>> 2- 28 Bjymieegmd ~jxir 89 fgm

>7l89 2- 29 _iqggjm j bjymieegmd fjhie mh ~~rj`bli 2> fgm

0>l09 Xi` 09 fgm

0>l2> 2- 21 X cgmd b`ri j wjyrie mh ~riqimxgmd oyrmjyx 89 fgm

00l09 2- 24 Rxri f`m`difimx 2> fgm

00l89 2- 2< Ry~irqggjm mh fimxjrgmd% ribjrh&cii~gmd 1> fgm

0?l89 Eymbl 89 fgm

02l2> 2- 27 Gmxidr`xgmd mit cgee gm xli jrd`mg`xgjm 2> fgm

08l>> 2- 8> ^jgxgqi iiho`bc `m 1> fgm

09l>> 2- 80 ^jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 2> fgm

09l2> 2- 8? Blibc&jyx% iq`ey`xgjm mh bl`eeimdi 2> fgm

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H`w Jmi X ec xj 2 ~ij~ei `ojyx tl`x xliw xlgmc bjymieegmd g-

 X ci mjxi `mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-

H`w Xtj

Bljji `m jokibx xl`x ri~riimx xli cgmh j bjymieejr wjy t`mx xj oi- Trgxi

mjxi `mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-

,Gmbeyhi gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj `mh bjmyex jr `ifimx ~yr~ji g miihih'

H`w Xlrii

_i`h xli Fjhie j bjymieegmd mjxi mh `~~ew xj xli b`i&xyhw-

,Fyexg~ei bljgbi pyixgjm'

H`w Ajyr

Joirqi ~ij~ei‗ mjm&qiro`e ojhw e`mdy`di `rjymh wjy `mh hjbyfimx 2 b`i&

xyhgi-

,Gmbeyhi gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj `mh bjmyex jr `ifimx ~yr~ji g miihih'

H`w Agqi Bjf~eixi Ghimxgw xli iiegmd trgxxim `bxgqgxw `mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-

H`gew Bl`eeimdi

^`rx B;

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` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e   b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 1?

H`w Rg|Tlim x`ecgmd xj ~ij~ei ~r`bxgi yff`rggmd cgee `mh cii~ mjxi-

,Gmbeyhi gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj `mh bjmyex jr `ifimx ~yr~ji g miihih'

H`w Riqim Agee gm Pyixgjmgmd cgee gm bjymieegmd bxgqgxw-

H`w Igdlx _i`h xli b`i&xyhgi- Bljji jmi `mh jrfye`xi ~jgoei jeyxgjm&jbyih

pyixgjm xl`x wjy bjyeh yi gm lie~gmd xli gmhgqghy`e hhri xligr ~rjoeif-

H`w Mgmi Ajrfye`xi egx j ejb`e y~~jrx rijyrbi mh riirr`e jrd`mg xgjm-

H`w Xim

Ayrxlir wjyr bjymieegmd cmjteihdi ow ri`hgmd ojjc `mh rxgbei-

,Egx j ri`hgmd f`xirg`e ~rjqghih'

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Fjhyei Jmi

^`rx H;

Gmxrjhybxgjm xj bjymieegmd@ mjxih gm xli gmxrjhybxgjm% xlg g ` ?&h`w Fjhyei tlgbl ipyg~ gmhgqghy`e tgxl ` o`gb

ymhirx`mhgmd j xli himgxgjm% ~rgmbg~ei `mh q`eyi j bjymieegmd3 `mh ~rjqghi `m gmxrj&

hybxgjm xj xli o`gb j ixxgmd y~ ` bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~- Xli Fjhyei g `ej bimxrih

jm ie&`t`rimi `mh hiqiej~gmd `m `t`rimi j hgqirgxw- Xlii `ri gmxidr`e gm oygehgmd `

jymh`xgjm% jr ~ri~`rgmd jr bjymieegmd-

 Xli Fjhyei l` oiim trgxxim j xl`x gx b`m oi yih tgxl drjy~ tlj f`w mjx dj jm xj bjf&

~eixi Fjhyei ? mh 2% oyx tlj miih m ymhirx`mhgmd j xli o`gb ~~rj`bl xj bjymieegmd

tlgbl g yih gm Rjyxl @rgb` mh xli r`xgjm`ei jr xlg ~~rj`bl- Ajr i|`f~ei% gx bjyeh oi yih

xj xr`gm li`exl&b`ri ~rjigjm`e ybl ` hjbxjr `mh myri jm xli q`eyi `mh gf~jrx`mbi j 

bjymieegmd j xl`x xliw ymhirx`mh xli rjei j xli bjymieejr xliw igxlir gmxir`bx tgxl jr

f`m`di- Gm xlg t`w% gx g lj~ih xl`x bjymieejr tgee oi `eejtih xj yee xligr rjei tgxl xli

y~~jrx j xligr bjeei`dyi- Bjymieegmd g jxim fgymhirxjjh ,gx g jxim iim gf~ew l`q&

gmd ` bjmqir`xgjm tgxl ` begimx' jr gx cgee `ri ymhir~e`wih ,gx g jxim oiegiqih `mwjmi b`m

bjymie iqim g xliw l`qi l`h qirw egxxei xr`gmgmd `mh xl`x mj ~ibg`e cgee `ri ripygrih'-

 Xli Fjhyei ej i|~ejri tlw `m gmhgqghy`e tjyeh t`mx xj oi ` bjymieejr ‒ xlg g ` q`ey`oei

`mh brybg`e f`xxir xj hgby j xl`x ymri`egxgb i|~ibx`xgjm b`m oi hi`ex tgxl mh ymi|~ejrih

jr ymrijeqih hwm`fgb j~imih y~ `mh `bcmjteihdih- Rjfi gmhgqghy`e imxir bjymieegmd

oib`yi xliw l`qi m ymbjmbgjy miih xj tjrc jm xligr jtm gyi- Xlg g mjx trjmd ~ir i%

oyx gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x ` ~jximxg`e bjymieejr l` l`h `m j~~jrxymgxw xj tjrc xlrjydl xlii

gyi j xl`x begimx hj mjx% gm iibx% oibjfi% xli qilgbei jr xli bjymieejr‗ miih!

 Xli Fjhyei imh tgxl ` ejjc x ixxgmd y~ `mh ~ri~`rgmd jr bjymieegmd j xl`x ` ~`rxgbg~`mx

tlj l` ybbiyeew bjf~eixih xlg Fjhyei tgee ymhirx`mh tl`x miih xj oi gm ~e`bi jr i&

ibxgqi bjymieegmd xj l`~~im- Xlg gmbeyhi xli o`gb j xximhgmd mh joirqgmd cgee% cgee

tlgbl tgee eejt xli bjymieejr xj oibjfi fjri iibxgqi bjffymgb`xjr mh egximir-

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 18

H`w jmi; ymhirx`mhgmd fwiea `mhjxlir

 @bxgqgxw 0-0

Gmxrjhybxgjm `mh i|~ibx`xgjm

Mjxi; Gm xlii oejbc% wjy tgee mh q`rgjy lgmx% xg~ `mh mjxi% tlgbl dgqi

fjri hix`geih i|~e`m`xgjm j xli cgee `mh bjmbi~x oigmd ~riimxih

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx xj mh ` ~`rxmir xliw hj mjx cmjt tiee-0-

@c xlif xj hgby;?-

xligr m`fi `mh gx fi`mgmd*ljt xliw b`fi xj l`qi gxu

tliri xliw bjfi rjfu

tliri xliw tjrc `mh tl`x xligr byrrimx tjrc rjei gu

tl`x xligr `qjyrgxi jjh g-u

 Xlim gmqgxi i`bl ~`gr xj gmxrjhybi i`bl jxlir xj xli drjy~ `mh `bgegx`xjr- Xli2-

`bgegx`xjr ljyeh xlim gmxrjhybi lgf*lirie-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr i|~ibx`xgjm j xlg bjyri gm xli drjy~-8-

Egx i|~ibx`xgjm jm ` g~bl`rx `mh hgby-9-

_jymh&rjogm gmxrjhyb&

xgjm mh hgbygjm j 

i|~ibx`xgjm

^`rxgbg~`mx oibjfiu

oixxir `bpy`gmxih

tgxl i`bl jxlir

I|~ibx`xgjm j xliu

bjyri ri hgbyih-

 

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~bl`rx ~`~ir

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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19 55

 @bxgqgxw 0-?

Drjy~ ryei

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c xli drjy~ xj or`gmxjrf ` egx j mjrf `mh ryei xl`x tjyeh iml`mbi ei`rm&0-

gmd gm xli drjy~ mh bri`xi `i% drjy~&rgimhew ~`bi jr ~`rxgbg~`mx-

Dix iiho`bc rjf drjy~ fifoir `mh egx xlii jm ` ~gibi j g~bl`rx ~`~ir-?-

Rxgbc xli g~bl`rx ~`~ir jm xli o`bc t`ee j xli xr`gmgmd rjjf jr yxyri riir&2-

imbi-

Drjy~ hgbygjm

 

 Xj eejt xli drjy~u

xj ix`oegl ` ix j 

drjymh ryei `mh `

midjxg`xih r`fi&

tjrc jr iibxgqi

drjy~ tjrc `mh

ei`rmgmd-

 Xj bri`xi ` `i ~`biu

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~bl`rx ~`~ir

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗

f`xirg`e

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== 11

D_JY^ _YEIR

Wjy tgee oi tjrcgmd gm drjy~ jr fybl j xlg bjyri- Tjrcgmd gm drjy~ dgqi wjy ` bl`mbi

xj ei`rm fjri `ojyx wjyrie `mh jxlir `mh ljt wjy gmxir`bx ‒ tlgbl g tl`x bjymieegmd g

iimxg`eew ojyx!

Bjmhimxg`egxw 

^irjm`e gmjrf`xgjm xl`x g hgbyih gm xli drjy~ ljyeh rif`gm gm xli drjy~- G wjy

tjyeh egci xj xiee wjyr `fgew jr rgimh `ojyx wjyr i|~irgimbi gm xli drjy~% imyri xl`x

wjy hjm‗x fimxgjm mw m`fi jr ghimxgwgmd bl`r`bxirgxgb-

Qjeymx`rw ~`rxgbg~`xgjm mh hgribx bjffymgb xgjm

Miqir ~riyrgi `mwjmi xj hj jr `w `mwxlgmd g xliw hjm‗x t`mx xj- @ej% wjy hjm‗x l`qi

xj iie ~riyrgih xj x`ci ~`rx gm bxgqgxgi g wjy hjm‗x iie bjfjrx`oei- Imd`di gm iib&

xgqi iiho`bc ‒ xiee jxlir ljt tl`x xliw `w jr hj f`ci wjy iie-

Djjh f`mmir

Ajr `mw gmxir`bxgjm xj x`ci ~e`bi iibxgqiew xliri l` xj oi ` jymh`xgjm j o`gb ryei

`mh dimir`e djjh f`mmir- Eix jmi ~irjm ~i`c `x ` xgfi `mh hjm‗x x`rx yodrjy~-

G wjy b`m‗x li`r% iie ojrih jr xgrih3 eix wjyr drjy~ `mh xr`gmir cmjt- Rtgxbl biee ~ljmi

j hyrgmd xr`gmgmd% jr eix xli drjy~ mh xr`gmir cmjt g wjy ri i|~ibxgmd m yrdimx b`ee-

F`m`di wjyr xgfi tiee ow `rrgqgmd jm xgfi jr igjm `mh `xir ori`c!

_i~ibx jxlir j~gmgjm% q`eyi `mh aiiegmd% `mh oi j~im xj mit 

 ghi`

^ij~ei hgir gm xligr oiegi% q`eyi `mh j~gmgjm% `mh xl`x  g tl`x f`ci tjrcgmd tgxl

~ij~ei i|bgxgmd `mh bl`eeimdgmd- Oigmd ri~ibxye j jxlir ~ij~ei‗ q`eyi `mh oiegi

hji mjx fi`m wjy l`qi xj bl`mdi wjyr jtm qgit `mh j~gmgjm- Hgbrgfgm`xgjm `mh

~rikyhgbi g bjymxir~rjhybxgqi xj ei`rmgmd `mh g hixrybxgqi gm `mw gmxir`bxgjm% i~i&

bg`eew xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~-

 L`qi AYM 

Imkjw xli drjy~ i|~irgimbi `mh ~`rxgbg~`xi ` fybl ` ~jgoei- ^r`bxgi xli mit cgee

wjy tgee oi x`ydlx `mh riibx jm tl`x wjy f`w l`qi d`gmih rjf i`bl h`w-

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 @bxgqgxw 0-2

^ri&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri

Ryddixih fixljh;

L`mh jyx ` bj~w j xli0- ^ri&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `mtir xli fyexg~ei&bljgbi pyixgjmm`gri o`ih jm xligr?- byr&

rimx dimir`e cmjteihdi j xli xj~gb-

^`rxgbg~`mx ljyeh mjx riir xj xligr f`my`e xj mtir pyixgjm jr hgby m&2-

tir tgxl jxlir ~`rxgbg~`mx-

Gmjrf ~`rxgbg~`mx xl`x `x xli imh j xli Fjhyei% xliw tgee `mtir xli `fi8-

pyixgjmm`gri jr ie&iq`ey`xgjm mh bjyri iq`ey`xgjm ~yr~ji-

Bjeeibx pyixgjmm`gri mh cii~ gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj-9-

Gmhgqghy`e iq`ey`xgjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi byrrimx cmjte&

ihdi jm `~ibx j 

xlg Fjhyei-

 Xlg `fi pyixgjm&u

m`gri tgee oi ri~i`xih

`x xli imh j xli

Fjhyei jr iq`ey`xgqi

~yr~ji-

2> fgmyxi

Bj~gi j ^ri&Fjhyei

pyixgjmm`gri0% ? jr 2-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 1<

^ri * ^jx&Fjhyei Pyixgjmm`gri ‒ 0

^ei`i bgrbei xli eixxir xl`x wjy xlgmc fjx ~~rj~rg`xiew mtir xli pyixgjm-

@ bjymieejr ~ri~`ri jr bjymieegmd ow rxew;0-

Agmhgmd bjfjrx`oei% ~rgq`xi jbi`-

Imd`dgmd gm ie&`t`rimi mh jxlir t`rimio-

Ejjcgmd jr ~jximxg`e begimxb-

_i`hgmd y~ jm ljt xj hj bjymieegmd-h-

?- Gx g gf~jrx`mx xj cmjt ljt ti x`ec xj jyrieqi ` bjymieejr% oijri ti b`m x`ec 

xj jxlir;

Wi`-

Mj-o-

@ bjymieejr tlj g mjx ie&`t`ri f`w;2-

oibjfi ifjxgjm`eew oyrmx jyxh-

bjmyi ~rjigjm`e mh jbg`e ojymh`rgi`-

mjx iibxgqiew lie~ xli begimxo-

`ee j xli `ojqi-b-

 Xli ri~jmgogegxw jr bl`mdi `mh drjtxl gm bjymieegmd rif`gm tgxl;8-

xli bjymieejr`-

xli begimxo-

xli begimx `mh xli bjymieejrb-

xli begimx‗ y~~jrx xrybxyri-h-

Bjymieegmd g ojyx;9-

lie~gmd jfijmi gm xrjyoei`-

bri`xgmd ` `i ~`bi tliri ` begimx b`m i|~ejri lg * lir ~rjoeifo-

dgqgmd djjh hqgbi xj jfijmi i|~irgimbgmd ~rjoeifb-

`ee j xli `ojqi-h-

     

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1- @m ghi`e bjymieejr;

l` ` djjh imi j lyfjyr`-

g bjmhimxo-

g t`rf `mh `~~rj`bl`oeib-

`ee j xli `ojqi-h-

4- Xlrii ~rgmbg~ei `mh q`eyi xl`x ri fjx gf~jrx`mx gm bjymieegmd ri;

oigmd ri`e% ri~jmgqi `mh ri~ibxye`-

oigmd ibrixgqi% tgi `mh f`xyrio-

oigmd irxgqi% ~rjigjm`e mh j~imb-

oigmd bjmbirmih% ejw`e `mh rgimhew-h-

<- If~`xlw fi`m;

xieegmd xli ~irjm wjy ymhirx`mh tl`x xliw ri djgmd xlrjydl`-

brwgmd `mh e`ydlgmd tgxl xli ~irjmo-

~yxxgmd wjyrie gm xli jxlir ~irjm‗ ljib-

xi~~gmd gmxj xli ~irjm‗ tjreh `mh bjffymgb`xgmd xlg ymhirx`mhgmd-h-

7- Ixlgb`e gyi xj bjmghir gm bjymieegmd gmqjeqi;

bjmhimxg`egxw`-

`eejtgmd xli begimx xj riiew i|~ri lg*lir iiegmdo-

oigmd mjm&kyhdifimx`eb-

`ee j xli `ojqi-h-

0>- @ bjymieejr fyx f`gmx`gm bjmhimxg`egxw;

`x `ee xgfi`-

tgxlgm birx`gm egfgxo-

tlim x`ecgmd xj `mjxlir ~rjigjm`eb-

,o' `mh ,b'-h-

      

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 4>

^ri*~jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 0 ‒fjhie `mtir

,o'0-

,`'?-

,h'2-

,`'8-

,o'9-

,h'1-

,`'4-

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40 55

 @bxgqgxw 0-8

Fw ~irjm`e `d

Ryddixih fixljh;

^rjkibx eghi jr l`md y~ ~jxir j xli `d-0-

L`mh jyx jyxegmi hr`tgmd j xli `d xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx-?-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ee gm xligr `mtir xj i`bl pyixgjm oiejt% tgxl xli rieiq`mx2-

`mtir jr i`bl bjejyr j xli `d-

Oe`bc ; Tl`x ~`rx j fi hj G lghi rjf jxlir:

_ih; Tl`x `f G ~`gjm`xi `ojyx:

Driim; Tl`x gmyimbih fi fjx ` G drit y~:

Oeyi; Tl`x g fw fjx gf~jrx`mx f`xirg`e ~jigjm:

Wieejt; Tl`x `blgiqifimx f G fjx ~rjyh j:

Tlgxi; Tl`x orgmd fi ~i`bi:

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~ `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri `mh i|~e`gm xligr `mtir tgxl xli8-

drjy~-

G xliri g xgfi% xli `bgegx`xjr b`m i|~ejri q`rgjy `~ibx j xli `d% i-d-;9-

G wjyr `d wgmd lgdl jr iqirwjmi xj ii:u

G gx rjeeih y~ `mh ci~x lghhim:u

@ri wjy ~rjyh j wjyr `d:u

Hji wjyr `d bl`mdi jqir xgfi:u

Rie&`t`rimi i|irbgi

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mh&

gmd j xli miih jr

gmbri`ih ie&`t`ri&

mi gm xli bjmxi|x

j bjffymgb`xgjm* 

bjymieegmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx ei`rmu

fjri `ojyx i`bl

jxlir `mh oygeh xryx-

A`bgegx`xjr ei`rmu

fjri `ojyx ~`rxgbg&

~`mx-

1> fgmyxi

Jyxegmi j `d jru

l`mhjyx

^jxir jr ^jtir&u

~jgmx geeyxr`xgjm j 

bjejyrih `d xj yi

` hifjmxr`xgjm

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 4?

0- Oe`bc; Tl`x ~`rx j fi hj G lghi:

?- _ih; Tl`x `f G ~`gjm`xi `ojyx:

2- Driim; Tl`x gmyimbih fi fjx ` G drit y~:

8- Oeyi; Tl`x g fw fjx gf~jrx`mx f`xirg`e ~jigjm:

9- Wieejt; Tl`x `blgiqifimx `f G fjx ~rjyh j:

1- Tlgxi; Tl`x orgmd fi ~i`bi:

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42 55

Oygehgmd @ Bjymieegmd Ajymh`xgjm‒ @t`rimi ja Riea `mh Jxlir

Oijri bjymieegmd b`m oidgm% ` jegh jymh`xgjm miih xj oi oygex- Xlg hjim‗x kyx riir xj xli

egxir`e oygehgmd `mh e`wjyx j tliri xli bjymieegmd tgee x`ci ~e`bi% oyx r`xlir xj xli ~ri~`r`&

xgjm j xli ~irjm oibjfgmd bjymieejr- Bjymieejr b`m ~ri~`ri xlifieqi ow hiqiej~gmd

xligr ie&`t`rimi mh t`rimi j jxlir-

0' @t`rimi ja JXLI_R

Bjymieegmd g f`gmew ojyx xli gmxir`bxgjm oixtiim bjymieejr mh ~irjm iicgmd bjym&

ieegmd- Gx g xlirijri% `ej gf~jrx`mx xl`x xli bjymieejr l` `m `t`rimi j hgqirgxw  `mh g

j~im xj i|~ejrgmd hgirimbi `mh gfge`rgxgi `fjmdx ~ij~ei j hgirimx byexyri% oiegi

`mh o`bcdrjymh- Xlg tgee lie~ xli bjymieejr xj ymhirx`mh xli ~irjm oixxir mh xj bjmqiw

`m xfj~liri j bbi~x`mbi-

Gm ` fyexgbyexyr`e bjymxrw egci Rjyxl @rgb`% `t`rimi `mh ri~ibx j xli q`rgjy byexyri%

e`mdy`di mh oiegi j jxlir g gf~jrx`mx gm ~riqimxgmd ~rikyhgbi% og` mh hgbrgfgm`xgjm%

`ee j tlgbl `ri hixrybxgqi gm xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~-

?' @t`rimi ja RIEA

Bjymieegmd g ` ~ibg`e kjo xl`x ripygri xl`x xli bjymieejr cmjt lg*lir jtm xrimdxl%

egfgx`xgjm `mh bl`r`bxirgxgb3 `mh g `t`ri j ljt xlii xr`gx l`qi `m gf~`bx jm jxlir- Ajr

gmx`mbi% jfijmi tlj l` ljrx xif~ir f`w iif ym`~~rj`bl`oei xj jxlir% jr jfijmi

tgxl ` m`xyr`eew ejyh qjgbi f`w l`qi ` mid`xgqi gf~`bx jm xli begimx gm bjymieegmd-

 Xliri `ri ej f`mw ri`jm tlw ti t`mx xj x`ec xj jxlir ~ij~ei ojyx xligr ~rjoeif- Ljt&

iqir% gx g qirw gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti xrw xj egxim xj ljt ti x`ec xj jyrieqi `ojyx jyr jtm ~rjo&

eif% oijri ti qimxyri xj hj bjymieegmd- Xli ri`jm tlw gx g gf~jrx`mx xj ymhirx`mh

jyrieqi g oib`yi xli t`w ti x`ec xj jyrieqi% g jxim mjx hgirimx rjf xli t`w ti x`ec 

xj jxlir-

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 48

2' TLW fyx G oi `t`ri ja fwiea `mh jxlir:

@ bjymieejr jr gmhgqghy`e tlj g j~im xj ie&i|`fgm`xgjm mh ie&ymhirx`mhgmd g jxim m

iibxgqi ~rjoeif jeqir gm lg*lir jtm egi- @ bjymieejr gm hgxri ,`ej jfixgfi riirrih

xj ―tjymhih li`eir‖' g jxim ym`oei xj iibxgqiew `bgegx`xi bjymieegmd- Djjh ie&gmgdlx

`mh ridye`r fimxjrgmd imyri xl`x ` bjymieejr g ifjxgjm`eew li`exlw `mh xly `oei xj i&

ibxgqiew bjymie jxlir-

_iibxgmd jm jyr jtm bl`r`bxirgxgb `mh i|~ejrgmd jyr jtm xrjmd `mh ti`c ~jgmx g mjx

i`w% `mh f`w iie ymbjfjrx`oei- Rjfixgfi% jmi j xli ri`jm ti bljji xj hj bjymie&

egmd g xj lgx xli jby `t`w rjf jyrieqi% jmxj jxlir `mh jxlir‗ ~rjoeif- Ljtiqir% g 

ti `ri mjx bjfjrx`oei tgxl xli ~rjbi j ie&`t`rimi% ti bjyeh rym xli rgc j oyrmjyx

jr oeyrrgmd ojymh`rgi% oib`yi ti f`w mjx oi `t`ri j jyr egfgx`xgjm jr “jx ~jx‗- @ej% `

bjymieejr tlj g t`ri j lg*lir xrimdxl g fjri egciew xj oi fjri bjmhimx ojyx lg*lir

`ogegxgi bjymieejr-

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49 55

Hyrgmd xlg bjyri% ti ri djgmd xj imd`di gm q`rgjy ie&`t`rimi bxgqgxgi- _ififoir%

xl`x wjy `ri mjx ~riyrgih xj riqi`e `mw ~`rx j wjyrie xl`x wjy hjm‗x iie bjfjrx`oei

l`rgmd gm xli drjy~- Ljtiqir% xj oi `m iibxgqi bjymieejr% jmi miih xj oi ie&`t`ri

`mh bjfjrx`oei tgxl jmi‗ xrjmd `mh ti`c ~jgmx ‒ j ~`rxgbg~`xi ` fybl ` ~jgoei

gm dixxgmd xj cmjt wjyrie `mh jxlir oixxir% gm wjyr kjyrmiw xj oibjfgmd `m iibxgqi

bjymieejr mh gmhgqghy`e-

I|~e`m`xgjm ja iea&`t`rimi

 Xliri `ri xlrii {jmi j `t`rimi-

0- @t`rimi ja xli i|xirm`e tjreh 

 Xlg riir xj iqimx gm xli ~riimx `mh jyr imjrw bjmx`bx tgxl jxlir- Ti bjeeibx gm&

jrf`xgjm xlrjydl jyr qi imi; gdlx% li`rgmd% fiee% xjybl `mh x`xi- Ti ieibx% jr&

d`mgi `mh gmxir~rix xli h`x` `bbjrhgmd xj jyr jtm r`fi j riirimbi% jyr miih% jyr

i|~irgimbi% ixb- Ti xlim bljji xj ri~jmh gm ` ~ibgb t`w-

 ?- @t`rimi ja jyr gmxirm`e tjreh 

 Xlg riir xj jyr gmmir i|~irgimbi gm xli ~riimx% `mh tl`x ti `ri iiegmd ~lwgb`eew

`mh ifjxgjm`eew- @ jyr jtm ie&`t`rimi ligdlxim ti oibjfi fjri gm xjybl tgxl

jyr jtm iiegmd% yexgf`xiew `eejtgmd y xj l`qi ` dri`xir imi j ymhirx`mhgmd `ojyx

tl`x xli jxlir ~irjm fgdlx oi i|~irgimbgmd-

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== 41

Jyr ie&bjmbi~x g ~`rx j jyr `t`rimi j jyr gmxirm`e tjreh `mh gmyimbi;

xli t`w ti ii jyrieqiØ

xli t`w ti oil`qiØ

xli t`w xl`x ti ri~jmh xj xli oil`qgjyr j jxlir-Ø

Jyr ie&bjmbi~x g l`~ih ow ~irjm`e `mh imqgrjmfimx e `bxjr ybl `;

~irjm`egxw `bxjr ,i-d- lw'Ø

~irjm`e bgrbyfx`mbi ,rie`xgjmlg~% `fgew% ~jigjm% ixb-'Ø

i|~irgimbi ,egi‗ iqimx% i-d- xr`yf`xgb i|~irgimbi ybl ` r`~i jr brgfi'Ø

byexyr`e `mh ~grgxy`e oiegi ,`gxl `mh ~r`bxgbi'Ø

jbg`e bjmxi|x ,be`% migdlojyrljjh% i-d- xjtmlg~% yoyro'-Ø

Egmcih xj xli ghi` j ie&bjmbi~x g xli mjxgjm j ie&ixiif- @m gmhgqghy`e tgxl djjh

ie&ixiif q`eyi xlifieqi `mh l` bjmhimbi gm xligr `ogegxgi xj m`qgd`xi egi‗ y~

`mh hjtm- Rjfijmi tgxl ejt ie&ixiif f`w miih xli `~~rjq`e j jxlir jr bjm&

x`mxew hjyox xligr jtm `ogegxgi- Bjymieejr miih xj tjrc jm xligr ie&ixiif ` xliwmiih xj oi `oei xj bjmx`gm ` begimx‗ `m|gixgi `mh bjmhimxew yi xli cgee xliw `ri

xr`gmih gm-

 2- @t`rimi ja gf`di mh iqimx xl`x hj mjx i|gx gm jyr ~riimx 

jmdjgmd ri`egxw 

 Xlg riir xj jyr `t`rimi j jyr `mx`w tjreh `mh bjyeh gmbeyhi gf`dgmgmd% dyigmd%

xlgmcgmd% rififoirgmd xli ~`x% mxgbg~`xgmd xli yxyri% ixb-

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44 55

 @bxgqgxw 0-9

Tlw G t`mx xj hj xlg bjyri

Ryddixih fixljh;

I|~e`gm xl`x ti x`ci y~ bjymieegmd jr hgirimx ri`jm-0-

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gm ~`gr `mh imbjyr`di xlif xj hgby xligr ri`jm jr?-

t`mxgmd xj hj xlg bjyri mh oibjfi bjymieejr-

Gm e`rdi drjy~% hgby jm ` dimir`e eiqie ri`jm tlw ~ij~ei t`mx xj oibjfi2-

bjymieejr mh xligr ~jgoei gf~`bx jm bjymieegmd-

^`grih hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi gmgdlx gmxj

xligr fjxgq`xgjm jr

hjgmd xlg bjyri-

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 4<

Rie&`t`rimi gmhgqghy`e

`bxgqgxw

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

ljt jxlir ~irbigqixlif-

1> fgmyxi

Bj~gi j Rie&x`xifimx

`mh Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt 

 @bxgqgxw 0-1

Riea&x`xifimx `mh Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt

Ryddixih fixljh;

L`mh jyx bj~gi j xli tjrcliix0- Rie&x`xifimx `mh Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt  xj i`bl

~`rxgbg~`mx-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xgbc xli ie&x`xifimx xl`x xliw iie rie`xi fjxew xj xlif&?-

ieqi-

 Xli ie&x`xifimx tlgbl xliw xgbcih ljyeh xlim oi trgxxim gmxj xli rx bje&2-

yfm j Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt% g-i- ie&x`xifimx jr `~ibx j ie xl`x `ri cmjtm xj

fi `mh cmjtm xj jxlir% `mh `~ibx j ie xl`x `ri cmjtm xj fi oyx mjx cmjtm

xj jxlir-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby xli `bxgqgxw gm dimir`e ‒ xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh `ej `c 8-

~`rxgbg~`mx xj hgby xli gdmgb`mbi j xli jxlir xtj tgmhjt j xli Kjl`rg

hg`dr`f ,`~ibx j ie ymcmjtm xj fi oyx cmjtm xj jxlir `mh `~ibx j ie 

ymcmjtm xj fi `mh jxlir'-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗

f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== <>

Kjl`rg‗ Tgmhjt

Agee gm xli jeejtgmd x`oei-

@R^IBXR JA RIEA CMJTM

 XJ FI

@R^IBXR JA RIEA MJX 

CMJTM XJ FI

@R^IBXR JA RIEA

CMJTM XJ JXLI_R

@R^IBXR JA RIEA

MJX CMJTM XJ

JXLI_R

     

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 @bxgqgxw 0-4

Hgbjqirgmd hgaairimbi

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc `ojyx xli rx xgfi xliw rififoir iiegmd hgirimx0-

,o`ih jm `di% dimhir% r`bi% i|y`e jrgimx`xgjm% riegdgjm% byexyri% jbg`e x`xy%

ihyb`xgjm eiqie% e`mdy`di jr ixlmgbgxw'- Tl`x l`~~imih% ljt hgh gx iie% tl`x

tiri xli bjmipyimbi:

 Xli `bgegx`xjr b`m dgqi `m i|`f~ei rjf lg*lir jtm egi i|~irgimbi-?-

Gm ~`gr% ~`rxgbg~`mx l`ri xligr i|~irgimbi-2-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% x`ci jfi iiho`bc rjf xlji tlj iie bjfjrx`oei l`rgmd-8-

_iibx jm ljt hgirimbi b`m oi ~irbigqih gm ` ~jgxgqi `mh mid`xgqi egdlx `mh

ljt jmi‗ rx i|~irgimbi j hgirimbi b`m l`~i ljt jmi qgit hgirimbi `

`m `hyex-

 X`ec `ojyx xli gf~`bx j hgirimbi gm bjymieegmd `mh hgby ljt ` bjymieejr9-

fgdlx tjrc tgxl hgirimbi;

~yx `ghi jtm r`fi j riirimbiu

imxir gmxj begimx‗ tjrehu

i|~ejri hgirimbi j~imew mh imgxgqiewu

rif`gm byrgjy oyx mjx gmxrygqiu

^`grih hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j hgqirgxw `mh xli

f`mw t`w ~ij~eib`m iie hgirimx-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

ie mh jxlir-

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi t`rimi

j ljt ` bjymieejr

fgdlx tjrc tgxl hg&

irimbi-

9> fgmyxi

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@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Ori`xlgmd i|irbgi

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmxrybx ~`rxgbg~`mx xj gx gm ` bjfjrx`oei ~jgxgjm tgxl `rf rie`|ih `x xligr0-

ghi% ori`xlgmd mjrf`eew-

Beji eix mjxrge tgxl eix gmhi| mdir mh ejtew ori`xli gm xj xli bjymx j iqim?-

,`bgegx`xjr bjymx `ejyh'- Ljeh ori`xl jr ` bjymx j iqim-

Beji rgdlx mjxrge tgxl rgdlx gmhi| mdir `mh ejtew ori`xli gm xj xli bjymx j 2-

iqim ,`bgegx`xjr bjymx `ejyh'- Ljeh ori`xl jr ` bjymx j iqim-

_i~i`x xtgbi jm i`bl ghi-8-

Hgby ljt ~ij~ei `ri iiegmd-9-

Rxri rihybir

^`rxgbg~`mx iieu

rie`|ih-

^`rxgbg~`mx ei`rmu

`ojyx ` xri

rihybgmd xjje tlgbl

xliw b`m xi`bl xligr

begimx-

0> fgmyxi

mjmi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Byexyr`e imgxgqgxw

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj jyr drjy~- Dgqi i`bl drjy~ jmi j xli jeejtgmd pyi&0-

xgjm xj tjrc tgxl ‒ ciw ~jgmx ljyeh oi yff`rgih jm ` g~bl`rx;

Ljt hji wjyr `fgew qgit;u

LGQ: 

i| `mh i|y`egxw: 

bjymieegmd: 

xli rjei j fim `mh tjfim: 

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~ hgby orgi iiho`bc rjf i`bl drjy~-?-

@c xli drjy~ xj riibx jm;2-

hgirimbiu

bjffjm`egxgiu

tlixlir `fgew qgit l`qi bl`mdih jqir xgfi-u

Dgqi gm~yx jm xli xlifi j byexyr`e imgxgqgxw `mh gx gf~jrx`mbi gm bjymie&8-

egmd-

 Xrg`h hgbygjm ,P @'

rid`rhgmd hgqirgxw

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi t`rimi

j xli hgirimbi gm

q`eyi% oiegi mh

jbg`e mjrf gm q`rg&

jy byexyri-

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jmxr`xi t`rimi

j bjffjm`egxgi

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byexyri-

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xli bl`mdgmd m`xyri

j byexyri-

89 fgmyxi

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@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Bl`eeimdi

H`w 0 bl`eeimdi

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 X ci mjxi `mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-

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^`rxgbg~`mx ~~ewu

cgee ei`rmx jyxghi

xli bjyri bjmxi|x-

^`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjxiu

b`m oi yih jr

iq`ey`xgqi ~yr~ji-

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~`rxgbg~`mx `m j~&

~jrxymgxw xj `~~ew

xlijrixgb`e ~rgmbg~ei

jyxghi xli bjyri

imqgrjmfimx-

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@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj x`ec xj 2 ~ij~ei ojyx xligr qgit j tl`x bjymieegmd g- Xlii0-

~ij~ei b`m oi rgimh jr `fgew fifoir-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj x`ci mjxi% `mh xj trgxi xligr jtm himgxgjm j bjymieegmd-?-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgmd xligr mjxi xli jeejtgmd h`w-2-

@bx gq g xw

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Blibc jyx

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Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri ―tliri xliw `ri‖ gm xirf j xligr h`w‗ ~irjm`e0-

i|~irgimbi-

Ajr i|`f~ei% ljt hj G iie% hgh xli h`w iie tjrxltlgei% hj G iie G t`u

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Ajr i|`f~ei% hgh xli drjy~ iif xj oi ojmhgmd% t` iqirwjmi ~`rxgbg&u

~`xgmd ipy`eew% tiri xliri `mw ximgjm% ljt t` xli drjy~‗ imirdw%

tiri xli drjy~ ryei oigmd jeejtih:

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew2-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

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i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih xjh`w-‖

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rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

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g bri`xih fjmdx

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^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

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jyxghi xli drjy~

xl`x bjyeh gmyimbi

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i|~irgimbi-

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Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi

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Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri ―tliri xliw `ri‖ gm xirf j ~riqgjy h`w‗ `mh0-

iqimgmd‗ i|~irgimbi-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew?-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx `ojyx xli bl`eeimdi ‒ ei`qi xli hg&2-

bygjm j xli bjmximx j xligr mhgmd xj @bxgqgxw 0-08 ‒ xli ^yr~ji j bjymie&

egmd-

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g ~~rj~rg`xi-

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rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi-

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xli ~riqgjy iqimgmd

`mh xligr xljydlx

`ojyx xli ~riqgjy

h`w `xir jfi xgfi

l` ~`ih-

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hgby xli i|~irg&

imbi j hjgmd xli

bl`eeimdi-

09 fgmyxi

Mjmi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @m i|~irgimbi ja oigmd lie~ih

Ryddixih fixljh;

^`rxgbg~`mx `ri `cih xj xlgmc `ojyx ` xgfi tlim xliw miihih xj iic lie~0-

`ojyx ` ~ibgb ~rjoeif-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc `ojyx `' xli ~irjm tlj lie~ih xlif3 o' tlw xliw?-

timx xj xl`x ~irjm3 b' tl`x l`~~imih3 `mh h' tl`x xl`x ~irjm hgh xl`x t`

lie~ye jr ymlie~ye-

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj hgqghi gmxj ~`gr `mh x`ec `ojyx xligr i|~irgimbi j oigmd2-

lie~ih-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% egx ee xli iiho`bc jm xli g~bl`rx mh hgby tgxl riirimbi8-

xj mjxi gm xli `rxgbg~`mx‗ F`my`e-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ri`h xlrjydl xli mjxi jm9- Fw ghi`e bjymieejr `mh hgby-

I|~irgimxg`e `bxgqgxw `mh

~`grih hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi `m `t`rimi

j xli py`egxgi `mh

cgee j `m iibxgqi

lie~ir-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

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xli gf~jrx`mbi j 

xli rjei j bjymie&

egmd-

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lyf`mgxw-

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Fw Ghi`e Bjymieejr‡

g ~~rj`bl`oei

g xryxtjrxlw

g xljydlxye

g rieg`oei

g bjmhimx

g rie`|ih `mh b`ef

g j~im&fgmhih

g dimxei

g t`rf

g `bbi~xgmd

g ie `t`ri

l` ` imi j lyfjyr

ix`oegli ojymh`rgi

x`ci fi irgjyew

g rieg`oei

bl`eeimdi fi

g mjx brgxgb`e

`eejt fi xj oi fwie 

bri`xi fyxy`e ri~ibx

lie~ fi jby

g bjmxrybxgqi

cii~ bjmhimxg`egxw

oygeh fw bjmhimbi

ri~ibx fw gmhi~imhimbi

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^yr~ji ja bjymieegmd

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj dgqi iiho`bc rjf xli ~riqgjy h`w‗ bl`eeimdi; tl`x hj0-

~ij~ei xlgmc bjymieegmd g:

Be`rgw xli himgxgjm j bjymieegmd% ` tiee ` xli `gf `mh dj`e j bjymieegmd?-

jm xli g~bl`rx-

Orgiw i|~ejri xli cgee `mh py`egxgi j ` bjymieejr ,egmcgmd tgxl xli `ojqi `b&2-

xgqgxw; I|~irgimbi j oigmd lie~ih'-

_iir ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xligr f`my`e jr yrxlir mjxi-8-

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh

iq`ey`xgjm

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xr`xi m ymhirx`mh&

gmd j xli `gf `mh

dj`e j bjymieegmd-

2> fgmyxi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗

f`xirg`e

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 Xli Dj`e `mh @gf ja Bjymieegmd

Tlim ~ij~ei `ri i|~irgimbgmd hgxrigmd hgbyexgi gm xligr egqi% xliw jfixgfi xyrm xj

`mjxlir ~irjm jr lie~- Xlg bjyeh oi ` xryxih rgimh% `fgew fifoir jr riegdgjy ei`hir- Xliw

bjyeh `ej fiix tgxl ` ~irjm tlj l` oiim xr`gmih xj iibxgqiew lie~ xlif- @ bjymieejr g

xr`gmih xj egxim `mh ri~jmh xj ~ij~ei gm ifjxgjm`e hgxri% `mh xj if~jtir xlif xj hi`e

tgxl xligr hgbyexgi-

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b`rgmd rie`xgjmlg~ gm tlgbl xli begimx b`m i|~ejri% hgbjqir mh be`rgw t`w j egqgmd fjri `x&

gwgmdew mh rijyrbiyeew- Xlrjydljyx xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi% xli ri~jmgogegxw jr drjtxl`mh bl`mdi rif`gm tgxl xli begimx -

Iimxg`eew% gx g `ojyx lie~gmd jxlir xj lie~ xlifieqi% `mh lie~gmd xlif drjt gm xli t`w

xl`x xliw bljji-

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BJYMRIEEGMD GR MJX‡

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gmxirirgmd

gf~jgmd

jmi t`w

dgqgmd `hqgbi

jrf`e

jbg`e tjrc 

~jjm&iihgmd

jmew hjmi ow ~rjigjm`e

og`ih

 kyhdgmd

jr xli bjymieejr‗ oimix-

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== 7?

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 Xli xlrii _‗ ja bjymieegmd

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx jm

_jdir‗ ~irjm&bimxrih

~rgmbg~ei

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi m ymhir&

x`mhgmd j jfi

ciw bjymieegmd

~rgmbg~ei-

2> fgmyxi

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Oi ri~ibxye

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ri~ibx xligr `ogegxw xj f`ci hibggjm `mh jeqi xligr jtm ~rjoeif-

Oi ri~jmgqi

T`rfxl g xli mjm&qiro`e i|~rigjm j ymhirx`mhgmd `mh b`rgmd% g-i- xlrjydl

`bg`e i|~rigjm% qjgbi xjmi% ~jxyri mh dixyri-

Oi ri`e

Dimygmimi riir xj `m `yxlimxgb gmxidr`xgjm j jyr iiegmd% tjrh `mh `b&

xgjm- Ry~irbg`e bjffymgb`xgjm oygeh o`rrgir gm bjymieegmd-

Ryddixih fixljh;

I|~e`gm xj ~`rxgbg~`mx xli o`gb jymh`xgjm jr ~rgmbg~ei j bjymieegmd% o`ih0-

jm _jdir‗ ~irjm&bimxrih ~rgmbg~ei% gm xirf j xli 2 _‗;

oi ri`e ,dimygmimi jr bjmdryimbi'u

oi ri~ibxye ,ymbjmhgxgjm`e ~jgxgqi rid`rh'u

oi ri~jmgqi ,if~`xlw mh t`rfxl'-u

Geeyxr`xi xli ~rgmbg~ei jm xli g~bl`rx `mh c ~`rxgbg~`mx jr ri`e&egi i|`f~ei?-

j i|~irgimbgmd gmxir`bxgjm xl`x tiri ri`e% ri~ibxye mh ri~jmgqi-

Imbjyr`di iiho`bc mh riir ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xli mjxi gm xligr f`my`e-2-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 Xli Xlrii _‗ ja Bjymieegmd

 Xtimxw wi`r `dj% B`re _jdir% ` `fjy ~wbljejdgx `mh lyf`mgx% hiqiej~ih ` ~irjm&

bimxrih ~lgejj~lw jr ~ij~ei tjrcgmd gm xli lie~gmd ~rjigjm- Gm xlji h`w% f`mw ~w&

bljejdgx `mh bjymieejr jeejtih ` ~yriew fihgb`e jr ~wblj`m`ewxgb qgit `mh ―lie~ih‖

~ij~ei ow hg`dmjgmd xlif jr ow f`cgmd xlif `t`ri j ~rjoeif gm xligr blgehljjh- _jdir‗

xljydlx xl`x `ee ~ij~ei ljyeh r`xlir kyx oi qgitih ` mjrf`e ~ij~ei tlj `ri i|~irgimbgmd

~rjoeif gm xli liri&`mh&mjt% mh xl`x lie~gmd xlif gmqjeqih ri~ibxgmd xligr lyf`mgxw% ow

oigmd ri`e mh ri~jmgqi xj xlif-

Oi ri~ibxaye

_jdir‗ yih xli xirf ―ymbjmhgxgjm`e ~jgxgqi rid`rh‖- Gx fi`m wjy rid`rh xli ~irjm `

ymgpyi% `mh wjy ri~ibx xligr `ogegxw xj f`ci hibggjm `mh jeqi xligr jtm ~rjoeif- Gm

ybl `m `xfj~liri xryx b`m hiqiej~% `mh xli ~irjm b`m iie `i xj j~im y~ xj xligr

jtm i|~irgimbi mh xligr jtm iiegmd-

Oi ri~jmgqi

Oigmd t`rf `mh if~`xlgb g ` t`w j oigmd ri~jmgqi- T`rfxl g xli mjm&qiro`e i|&

~rigjm j ymhirx`mhgmd `mh b`rgmd% g-i- xlrjydl `bg`e i|~rigjm% qjgbi xjmi% ~jxyri

`mh dixyri- If~`xlw fi`m dixxgmd gmghi xli tjreh j xli ~irjm tlj bjfi jr

bjymieegmd mh qiro`eew bjffymgb`xgmd xlg ymhirx`mhgmd xj xli ~irjm-

Oi ri`e

Dimygmimi riir xj ` dimygmi gmxidr`xgjm j jyr iiegmd% tjrh mh bxgjm3 mh bjf&

fymgb`xgmd xlg ri`emi xj xli ~irjm- ―^rjigjm`e‖ jr y~irbg`e bjffymgb`xgjm jxim

oygeh ` o`rrgir gm bjymieegmd- G if~`xlw g `ojyx egximgmd xj xli begimx% dimygmimi g

`ojyx egximgmd xj jmiie ` bjymieejr- Dimygmimi% jr oigmd ri`e% g jfixgfi fjri

hgbyex xl`x oigmd if~`xlgb oib`yi gx gf~egi xl`x xli bjymieejr l` djx xj l`qi `

djjh imi j ie cmjteihdi-

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 @bxgqgxw 0-01

Ixlgb `mh q`eyi ja bjymieegmd

Ryddixih fixljh;

Jm g~bl`rx oj`rh trgxi xli jeejtgmd igdlx yoli`hgmd; ymgpyimi% ~yr~ji0-

j iiegmd% ojymh`rgi% `bbi~x`mbi% mjm&kyhdifimx% begimx ie&ri~jmgogegxw%

egfgx`xgjm mh bjmhimxg`egxw-

Orgiw i|~e`gm i`bl j xli yoli`hgmd-?-

Gyi l`mhjyx imxgxeih2- Ixlgb`e gyi-

Gm f`ee drjy~% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj lgdlegdlx xli ixlgb`e gyi `mh q`eyi xliw8-

tjyeh bjmghir jr i`bl bim`rgj% `mh tl`x xliw tjyeh hj gm i`bl b`i-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc `mh dgqi gm~yx jm egfgx`xgjm j bjmhim&9-

xg`egxw% ` tiee ` xli gf~jrx`mbi j bjf~iximbi% f`gmx`gmgmd ojymh`rgi `mh

y~irqggjm-

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh f`ee

drjy~ hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j ~rjigjm`e mhixlgb`e oil`qgjyr `mh

q`eyi gm bjymieegmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx ymhir&u

x`mh xl`x ixlgb`e

gyi% ybl bjm&

himxg`egxw mh hgbej&

yri% ri bjf~ei|-

 Xli gf~jrx`mbi j u

y~irqggjm g lgdl&

egdlxih-

 

89 fgmyxi

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b`e gyi-

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Bjymieegmd Ixlgb `mh Q`eyi

@ ti l`qi iim% gm bjymieegmd% ti ri jxim hi`egmd tgxl xli fjx lghhim ~`rx j ` ~irjm‗

oigmd% `mh begimx jxim iie qyemir`oei `mh j~im- Gx g xly% gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti i|~ejri `mh

jeejt xli q`rgjy q`eyi `mh ixlgb`e oil`qgjyr gm bjymieegmd- Xlii `ri ` jeejt ,xli ghi

bjffimx ri i|`f~ei j gmiibxgqi ri~jmi';

 @bcmjteihdi xl`x begimx `ri ymgpyi-

Gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti ribjdmgi begimx gmhgqghy`e% tgxl ymgpyi py`egxgi- Xlg fi`m

xl`x `exljydl ~ij~ei f`w l`ri bjffjm ~irjm`egxw xr`gx `mh egi i|~irgimbi% iqirw

~irjm g hgirimx% `mh iqirw ~rjoeif g i|~irgimbih hgirimxew- ^ij~ei l`qi hgirimx

xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii `mh t`w j hi`egmd tgxl ~rjoeif- Hj mjx `w;

―Fw ~`rxmir `ej bli`xih jm fi e`x wi`r% j G cmjt i|`bxew tl`x wjy `ri

djgmd xlrjydl- G ymhirx`mh!‖ 

 @eejt begimx xj ariiew i|~ri aiiegmd-

Ti ljyeh oi t`ri j xli gf~jrx`mbi j eejtgmd begimx xj i|~ri xligr iiegmd riiew%i~ibg`eew mid`xgqi iiegmd- Begimx ljyeh iie bjfjrx`oei `mh y~~jrxih tlim i|&

~rigmd iiegmd% `mh mjx hgbjyr`dih- I|~rigmd iiegmd `eejt xli begimx xj riegiqi

ximgjm% `mh `ej `eejt xli begimx xj ii xli ~rjoeif fjri bei`rew- Hj mjx `w;

―^ei`i hjm‗x brw j fybl% gx‗ djgmd xj oi JC‡ Liri‗ ` xgyi!‖ 

Oi `t`ri ja xli begimx * bjymieejr rie`xgjmlg~-

Gx‗ gf~jrx`mx xl`x bjymieejr `et`w fjmgxjr xligr jtm iiegmd gm bjymieegmd- Xlg

`t`rimi im`oei bjymieejr xj i~`r`xi xligr iiegmd rjf xli begimx‗ iiegmd% `mh

xly im`oei bjymieejr xj f`gmx`gm ` mjm&kyhdifimx`e% if~`xlgb `mh ixlgb`e gmxir`b&

xgjm- Xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ g hgirimx xj jbg`e rie`xgjmlg~- Ry~irqggjm g yiye

xj i|~ejri ojymh`rgi- Gx g ` ~rjoeif g wjy `w;

―G‗f ejgmd eii~ xlgmcgmd ojyx fw jmi begimx‗ ~rjoeif- Gx iie egci G f

xli jmi tgxl `m|gixw!‖ 

―Eix‗ dj jr ` hrgmc `xir jyr igjm‡‖ 

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Rljt begimx `bbi~x`mbi- Xlg gmqjeqi `bbi~xgmd xli begimx ` xliw `ri% tgxl xligr xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii- @m

`xfj~liri j `bbi~x`mbi gm xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ `bgegx`xi xryx `mh drjtxl-

@bbi~x`mbi hji mjx fi`m jqirejjcgmd hixrybxgqi xljydlx `mh * jr oil`qgjyr% oyx

ljtgmd xl`x wjy b`ri jr xli begimx hi~gxi xlii- @bbi~x`mbi bri`xi ` `i ~`bi xj

i|~ejri xlii xljydlx jr oil`qgjyr- Gx g ` ~rjoeif g wjy `w;

―Xlg begimx j fgmi g j yee j yrw `mh r`di- Rjfixgfi li ljyx gm

xli igjm `mh gx ri`c fi jyx!‖ ,Gf`dgmi xli bjymieejr‗ mjm&qiro`e 

oil`qgjyr gm xli igjm-'

Rljt ` mjm&kyhdifimx`e `xxgxyhi-

 Xli bjymieejr‗ ri~jmgogegxw g mjx  xj iq`ey`xi tlixlir begimx‗ oil`qgjyr% oiegi jr

`xxgxyhi `ri rgdlx jr trjmd% jr tlixlir jr mjx xliw `ri xj oe`fi jr xligr ~rjoeif-

_`xlir% xli bjymieejr ljyeh bri`xi ` ~`bi tliri begimx b`m ymhirx`mh `mh i|~ejri

~rjoeif% tgxljyx oigmd kyhdih tgxl rid`rh xj xligr xljydlx% iiegmd jr `bxgjm- Hj

mjx `w;

―Rljyxgmd x wjyr fjf g mjx djgmd xj lie~ mwjmi- Gx g `bxy`eew f`cgmd

xlgmd tjri!‖ 

 @bcmjteihdi xl`x begimx `ri ri~jmgoei ajr xlifieqi-

Bjymieegmd ljyeh if~jtir ~ij~ei xj ii xl`x xliw l`qi rijyrbi xj jeqi xligr jtm 

~rjoeif- Gm hgbyex gxy`xgjm% begimx jxim `~~i`r lie~ei `mh gx‗ xif~xgmd jr xli

bjymieejr xj oi xli “ribyir‗- Gx f`w f`ci xli bjymieejr iie gf~jrx`mx `mh ~jtirye-

Oyx gx jxim o`bcri% gm xl`x xli begimx f`w oibjfi hi~imh`mx jm xli bjymieejr jr

xliw f`w oe`fi xli bjymieejr g xli “jeyxgjm‗ hjim‗x tjrc jyx- @ej xli “`qgjyr bjym&

ieejr‗ imh xli fi`di xl`x xliw drii xl`x xli begimx g xjj lie~ei jr r`dgei xj jeqi

lg * lir jtm ~rjoeif- _ififoir; Gx g yexgf`xiew xli begimx‗ ri~jmgogegxw mh rgdlx xj

bljji ljt xliw jeqi xligr jtm ~rjoeif! Hj mjx `w;

―L`qi wjy xrgih‡: Gx yy`eew tjrc tiee gm xlii gxy`xgjm-‖ 

_`xlir `c; ―Tl`x l`qi wjy xrgih:‖ 

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Oi `t`ri ja wjyr jtm egfgx`xgjm ` ` bjymieejr-Gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x ` bjymieejr g tiee gmjrfih mh iie ybgimxew cgeeih xj hi`e tgxl

` begimx- Xlg g hjmi ow bjf~eixgmd xli ripygrih xr`gmgmd% ow ridye`rew `xximhgmd y~ir&

qggjm `mh ow hiqiej~gmd cmjteihdi ow ri`hgmd- @ej% bjymieejr ljyeh oi bei`r jm

tlim xj riir begimx- Gx g ` ~rjoeif g wjy `w;

―Fw begimx `w xl`x li g mjri|gb% G l`qi ri`h y~ ogx jm gx% mh f yri

G tgee oi `oei xj l`mhei gx!‖ 

Imyri xl`x bjmhimxg`egxw g f`gmx`gmih-

Gx g `m ixlgb`e joegd`xgjm `mh mibi`rw jr iibxgqi bjymieegmd xl`x ` bjymieejr f`gm&

x`gm bjmhimxg`egxw `mh `mjmwfgxw tlim hgbygmd xli b`i gm y~irqggjm% jr tgxl

jxlir ~rjigjm`e- @ egfgx  j bjmhimxg`egxw jbbyr tlim ` begimx g bei`rew l`rfye xj

lgfie jr jxlir% jr gm xli b`i j i|y`e `oyi- Xli bjymieejr g xlim joegdih xj hg&

qyedi gmjrf`xgjm% oyx ljyeh miqirxliei gmjrf xli begimx `mh jox`gm ~irfggjm% g 

~jgoei- Rjfi bjymieejr c xligr begimx xj gdm m gmjrfih bjmimx jrf% tliri xli

begimx g imyrih j bjmhimxg`egxw tgxlgm i|~e`gmih egfgx- Gx g ` ~rjoeif g wjy `w;

―Wjy tgee miqir dyi tlj b`fi xj fi jr bjymieegmd xli jxlir h`w‡

F`rw% jyr jeh oj!‖ 

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Ixlgb`e gyi

F`ci jfi mjxi gm ri~jmi xj xli jeejtgmd bim`rgj-

@ ridye`r begimx jxim rrgqi e`xi jr ~~jgmxfimx mh x`w jr jqir m ljyr-Ø

Rli `w xl`x li bjyehm‗x egqi tgxljyx lir bjymieegmd igjm tgxl wjy `mh

wjyr jmdjgmd q`ey`oei `hqgbi-

@ ~ridm`mx begimx g l`qgmd hgri m`mbg`e ~rjoeif hyi xj ~jjr oyhdixgmd- RliØ

`ej l` xlrii blgehrim tgxl hg`ogegxgi- Wjy l`qi oiim xlrjydl gfge`r m`mbg`e

~rjoeif mh t`mx xj l`ri wjyr jeyxgjm-

@ f`ei begimx xiee wjy xl`x xliw xlgmc xliw `ri ljfji|y`e- Wjy iie ymbjfjrx&Ø

`oei tgxl ljfji|y`egxw- Wjy `ej cmjt xlg begimx‗ tgi tiee- Wjy gffihg`xiew

xlgmc j xli rgc j LGQ-

@ f`ei begimx hgbeji xl`x lg f`m`dir `x tjrc g ifjxgjm`eew `oygmd lgf- LiØ

`w xl`x `x xgfi li iie egci imhgmd lg egi- Li ljt wf~xjf j hi~rigjm%

oyx wjy xlgmc li‗ ejjcgmd jr `xximxgjm-

     

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If~`xlw% wf~`xlw `mh ghimxgb`xgjm

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj f`ee drjy~ j xlrii-0-

^jgmx jyx ~gbxyri imxgxeih?- Rwf~`xlw% if~`xlw mh ghimxgab`xgjm-

Tgxljyx i|~e`gmgmd xli bjmbi~x% c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj bjfi y~ tgxl himgxgjm j 2-

wf~`xlw% if~`xlw mh ghimxgb`xgjm ygmd xli ~gbxyri dgqim-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% imbjyr`di iiho`bc `mh `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj rie`xi xli xirf8-

xj ri`e&egi i|~irgimbi-

Rf`ee drjy~ tjrc 

 

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi m ymhirx`mh&

gmd j xli hgirimbi

oixtiim if~`xlw%

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b`xgjm-

^`rxgbg~`mx egmc xliu

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jmi‗ `~~rj`bl xj

bjymieegmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi dri`xir `t`ri&

mi j xligr jtm

miih xj wf~`xlgi

`mh ghimxgw tgxl

begimx-

89 fgmyxi

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Jyxbjfi

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If~`xlw% ghimxgb`xgjm `mh if~`xlw

F`mw j jyr begimx b`m oi ~gbxyrih hrjtmgmd gm xli “tiee j jrrjt‗- @ lie~gmd bjymieejr

ti b`m ri`bx gm jmi j xlrii t`w% if~`xlw oigmd xli fjx iibxgqi-

Rwf~`xlw

Rwf~`xlw b`m oi himih ` iiegmd bjmbirmih jr jfijmi iei tgxljyx mibi`rgew

oibjfgmd gmqjeqih gm ` beji lie~gmd rie`xgjmlg~- Rwf~`xlw g iiegmd jrrw jr xli

~irjm gm xli “tiee j jrrjt‗- Gm xli ~gbxyri% gx gmqjeqi x`mhgmd jm xj~ j xli tiee% ejjc&

gmd hjtm `mh i|~rigmd jrrjt jr ~gxw jr xli ~irjm% jr f`woi imhgmd jfixlgmd

xj xli ~irjm gm xli lj~i xl`x xliw tgee dix jyx j xli tiee- Xli wf~`xlixgb bjymieejr%

`exljydl bjmbirmih% rif`gm x hgx`mbi rjf xli begimx tgxljyx ix`oeglgmd fi`m&

gmdye rie`xgjmlg~-

Ghimxgb`xgjm

 Xli ibjmh “lie~gmd ~jgxgjm‗ g ghimxgb`xgjm- Ghimxgb`xgjm b`m oi himih ` x`cgmd

jm xli iiegmd `mh bl`r`bxirgxgb j xli jxlir ~irjm ,begimx' xj xli ~jgmx xl`x xligr

~rjoeif oibjfi wjyr jtm ~rjoeif- Gm jyr geeyxr`xgjm% ghimxgb`xgjm gmqjeqi kyf~&

gmd hjtm gmxj xli “tiee j jrrjt‗ mh hrjtmgmd tgxl xli ~irjm- Tlim xlg jbbyr% xli

bjymieejr eji lgfie gm xli lie~gmd rie`xgjmlg~- Rli* li g mj ejmdir jokibxgqi%

tlgbl g mibi`rw jr lie~gmd xj x`ci ~e`bi- Ry~irqggjm g gf~jrx`mx xj ~riqimx y

rjf hixrybxgqiew ghimxgwgmd tgxl begimx-

If~`xlw

If~`xlw b`m oi himih iiegmd mjxlir‗ ~rjoeif g xliw tiri wjyr jtm% tgxljyx b&xy`eew x`cgmd xlif jm wjyrie- If~`xlw gmqjeqi “t`ecgmd gm xli begimx‗ lji‗ tgxljyx

eixxgmd xligr ~rjoeif oibjfi wjyr ~rjoeif- Gm jyr geeyxr`xgjm% if~`xlw gmqjeqi

 kyf~gmd gmxj xli tiee tlgei l`mdgmd jm xj ` rj~i xgih xj ` xrii- If~`xlgb bjymie&

ejr `ri ~irjm`eew gmqjeqih tlgei f`gmx`gmgmd bjmxrje j xlifieqi gm xli lie~gmd

rie`xgjmlg~ ,g-i- l`qgmd ojymh`rgi'- @x `mw xgfi xliw tgl% xli bjymieejr bjyeh ~yee

xlifieqi jyx j xli tiee- Xlg g xli fjx iibxgqi lie~gmd ~jgxgjm ` bjymieejr b`m

yi gm bjymieegmd gmxir`bxgjm-

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Rl`rgmd ~irjm`e gmajrf`xgjm

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% c ~`rxgbg~`mx% jmi ow jmi% xj l`ri xligr fjx ifo`rr`gmd0-

xlgmd xl`x l` l`~~imih xj xlif-

@xir it j xli ~`rxgbg~`mx l`qi ri~jmhih% c xlif ljt xliw iex l`qgmd xj?-

x`ec ojyx xligr i|~irgimbi- Hgh xliw iie yeew bjfjrx`oei:

Gm ~eim`rw hgby tl`x tjyeh l`qi f`hi gx i`gir xj l`ri mh egmc gx xj bjymie&2-

egmd-

_ibjrh ghi` jm g~&bl`rx ~`~ir-8-

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^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi `m `t`rimi

j ljt xli begimx

fgdlx iie gm bjymie&egmd bjmxi|x-

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi m ymhir&

x`mhgmd j ljt xj

~rjfjxi j~immi gm

begimx-

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RJEI_ F@^

Xrg`h rjei&~e`w

R~i`cir jr begimx 

Wjyr x`c g xj x`ec `ojyx jfixlgmd xl`x g gf~jrx`mx xj wjy-

Egximir jr bjymieejr 

Wjyr x`c g xj ~r`bxgbi xli cgee j xli igjm-

Joirqir 

Wjyr x`c g xj joirqi xli egximir‗ qiro`e `mh mjm&qiro`e cgee `mh ljt xliw

~riimx xlifieqi-

R ‒ gxxgmd py`riew F ‒ fgmgf`e imbjyr`dir

J ‒ j~im ~jxyri @ ‒ xximxgqi geimbi

E ‒ ei`m tlim miihih ^ ‒ ~riimx`xgjm

I ‒ `~~rj~rg`xi iwi bjmx`bx

_ ‒ rie`|

Ryddixih fixljh;

Dgqi gm~yx jm `xximxgqimi% mjm&qiro`e bjffymgb`xgjm `mh RJEI_ F@^% ` tiee0-` jxlir iibxgqi mjm&qiro`e bjffymgb`xgjm cgee;

 Xlii gmbeyhi; xjmi j qjgbi% ~iih j ~iibl% qjeyfi j ~iibl-u

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj drjy~ j xlrii% `mh `c i`bl xj oi ` “begimx‗% “bjymieejr‗?-

`mh “joirqir‗ gm ` xrg`h rjei&~e`w-

 Xli “begimx‗ ljyeh xiee xli bjymieejr `ojyx ` ribimx hg`driifimx xliw l`h- Xlg2-

ljyeh mjx oi xjj ~irjm`e jr ifjxgjm`eew e`him-

Bjymieejr ri xj hifjmxr`xi RJEI_ F@^ cgee-u

 Xrg`h rjei&~e`w mh

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j xli `hq`mx`di j `xximhgmd cgee-

Mjm&qiro`e bjf&u

fymgb`xgjm cgee `ri

rigmjrbih-

^lwgb`e ~~i`r`mbi%u

`mh tl`x gx xiee y% g

mjxih-

8> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj t`~ rjei gm xli rjei&~e`w-8-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc-9-

Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc gm tlgbl jxlir bjmxi|x xlii cgee tjyeh oi yiye-1-

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 @xximhgmd

@xximhgmd fi`m oigmd ~lwgb`eew% gmxieeibxy`eew `mh ifjxgjm`eew “~riimx‗ gm ` bjymieegmd

igjm- Xlii cgee gmhgb`xi xj xli begimx xl`x xli bjymieejr g egximgmd% g `t`ri `mh g ri`hw

xj gmxir`bx- Xliw ljt gm ` mjm&qiro`e t`w xl`x xli bjymieejr g `xximxgqi `mh `q`ge`oei- Xli

`brjmwf RJEI_ F@^ g jxim yih xj yff`rgi xlii o`gb cgee;

RØ ‒ x`mh jr gxxgmd py`riew; xlg fi`m `bgmd xli begimx j xl`x xliw b`m ii

xli bjymieejr `mh bjffymgb`xi j~imew- Rjfixgfi ` fjri “bjmqir`xgjm`e‗

gxxgmd xwei g yih tliri xli bjymieejr `mh xli begimx gx `x rgdlx `mdei xj i`bl

jxlir tlgei xliw x`ec-

JØ ‒ x`mh jr j~im ~jxyri; xlg fi`m mjx brjgmd `rf jr ljehgmd ` jehir

 * ei gm ybl ` t`w xl`x gx gmhgb`xi ` bejih ojhw% `mh ~jgoew ` bejih jr

“tgxblih j‗ fgmh- Gx b`m `ej riir xj oigmd b`riye mjx xj l`qi% jr fgmgfggmd%

o`rrgir oixtiim bjymieejr `mh begimx% ybl ` ` hic jr oih-

EØ ‒ x`mh jr ei`mgmd jrt`rh; xlg fi`m ei`mgmd gm xjt`rh xli begimx `x `~&

~rj~rg`xi xgfi xj bjmqiw gmxirix mh bjmbirm- Xlg ljyeh oi yih b`riyeew

j ` mjx xj gmxgfgh`xi ` begimx xjj jjm gm `m imbjymxir- Gm `hhgxgjm% bjymie&

ejr fyx oi fgmhye j ojhw ~`bi hgirimbi gm ~ij~ei rjf hgirimx o`bc&

drjymh- Djjh joirq`xgjm`e cgee tgee jjm ~gbc y~ tl`x g `m `~~rj~rg`xi

~`bi-

IØ ‒ x`mh jr iwi bjmx`bx; xlg fi`m cii~gmd m`xyr`e iwi bjmx`bx xj ljt

xli begimx xl`x xli bjymieejr g egximgmd xj tl`x g oigmd `gh- _ififoir xl`x

jr jfi ~ij~ei% xjj fybl iwi bjmx`bx f`w oi i|~irgimbih ` xlri`ximgmd jr

hgri~ibxye; djjh bjmxi|xy`e cmjteihdi tgee gx liri-

‒ x`mh jr rie`|ih ~jxyri; xlg fi`m mjx hdixgmd i|bigqiew jr ljehgmdjmi‗ ojhw gm ` ximi f`mmir- Gx ej hji mjx fi`m hj~xgmd ejyblih ~jg&

xgjm- Xli bjymieejr ljyeh bjmqiw b`ef imi j bjmx`gmfimx xj xli begimx

`mh ljyeh oi t`ri j i|bigqi dixgbye`xgmd% ojhw fjqifimx% x`~~gmd iix%

begbcgmd ~im% ~e`wgmd tgxl l`gr% hhegmd% ixb-

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FØ ‒ x`mh jr fgmgf`e imbjyr`dir; xlii imbjyr`di xli begimx xj cii~ x`ec&

gmd `mh ljt jmi g egximgmd- Xlii imbjyr`dir% ybl ` ―fff% yl lyl% G ii‖

bjyeh dj `ejmd tgxl mjh j xli li`h-

@Ø ‒ x`mh jr `xximxgqi geimbi; ti `ri jxim xif~xih xj gmxirry~x ` begimx xj

`c ` pyixgjm% f`ci `m joirq`xgjm% jr xj dix be`rgxw jm ` ~`rxgbye`r ~jgmx- Tlgei

xlii `ri mjx o`h xlgmd xj hj gm `mh j xlifieqi% ti ljyeh dimir`eew t`gx

jr `m `~~rj~rg`xi ~`yi gm xli bjmqir`xgjm xj f`ci ` qiro`e ri~jmi- G xli

begimx g x`ecgmd i`gew xlim gx g oixxir xj f`gmx`gm `m `xximxgqi geimbi tlgbl

bjmqiw gmxirix mh ri~ibx-

^Ø ‒ x`mh jr ~riimx`xgjm% g-i- ljt hji xli begimx ~riimx xlifieqi mh

ljt ljyeh xli bjymieejr ~riimx xlifieqi:- @~ibx xj ejjc jyx jr gmbeyhi;

Tl`x g xli begimx‗ dimir`e fjjh; ri xliw ~jgxgqi mh y~oi`x% ~igfgxgbu

`mh hi~riih% mdrw mh bjmyih% hiimgqi mh t`rw:

Tl`x cgmh j ojhw e`mdy`di g xli begimx ygmd: Xli ghi` i|~riih gmu

RJEI_ ,`ojqi' `ri yiye xj xlgmc `ojyx ‒ g xli begimx j~im% hji xli begimx

yi `~~rj~rg`xi iwi bjmx`bx `mh ~lwgb`e hgx`mbi% g xli begimx ximi `mh

tgxlhr`tm:

G xli begimx mi`x `mh `~~rj~rg`xi gm hri `mh ~lwgb`e ~riimx`xgjm: Gx g mjxu

xli rjei j xli bjymieejr xj kyhdi xli begimx‗ `lgjm imi jr ~` fjr`e

 kyhdfimx jm `m jyxx ‒ r`xlir xli bjymieejr g `igmd xli begimx‗ dimir`e

fjjh mh tieeoigmd- @ hi~riih ~irjm f`w jxim mideibx xligr ~irjm`e

`~~i`r`mbi `mh xlg b`m oi `m gf~jrx`mx t`rmgmd gdm-

Ljt hji xli begimx yi e`mdy`di: _`xi j ~iibl% xjmi j ~iibl `mhu

qjeyfi j ~iibl b`m `ibx ljt ti ymhirx`mh xli begimx `mh b`m `ej

yddix fjjh mh fimx`e x`xi-

 Xli bjymieejr ljyeh `ej oi `~~rj~rg`xiew hriih gm `xxgri tlgbl g ygx&u

`oei jr lg jr lir ~rjigjm `mh xli bjmxi|x gm tlgbl xli bjymieegmd x`ci

~e`bi- Xli bjymieejr ljyeh oi mi`x mh xghw mh bjmqiw m `xxgxyhi j 

~rjigjm`egf-

 Xli bjymieejr ljyeh hiqiej~ `m `t`rimi j ljt li jr li yi e`m&u

dy`di mh xxif~x xj fjhgw qjb`e cgee xj gf~rjqi bjf~rilimgjm mh

bjffymgb`xgjm- @t`rimi j qjb`e xwei b`m oi d`gmih xlrjydl x`~gmd j 

jmi‗ qjgbi `mh riqgitgmd jr be`rgxw jr ow `cgmd jr iiho`bc rjf jxlir%

gmbeyhgmd xli begimx- Xli cgmh j xlgmd xj ejjc jyx jr gmbeyhi;

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xjmi j ~iibl `mh qjeyfi j qjgbi; xli xjmi b`m bjmqiw t`rfxl `mh 

if~`xlw jr gmhgb`xi ` higri xj orgmd jrf`egxw gmxj ` ~`rxgbye`r imbjym&

xir-

r`xi j ~iibl; gm dimir`e jmi ljyeh yi ` ejtir r`xi tgxl ` begimx 

ym`fgeg`r tgxl jmi‗ bbimx ‒ oyx xlg ljyeh mjx oibjfi gmd&jmd jr

~`xrjmggmd-

r`mdi j gmibxgjm; xrigmd birx`gm tjrh `mh q`rwgmd if~l`g tgee 

~riqimx ojrihjf-

fjhgwgmd `bbimx * ~rjmymbg`xgjm; gx f`w oi yiye gm jfi ixxgmd xj 

`h`~x ~rjmymbg`xgjm j birx`gm tjrh xj `bbjffjh`xi ejb`e xwei `mh

y`di% gm jrhir xj gf~rjqi bjf~rilimgjm-

rlwxlf j ~iibl; xli bjymieejr ljyeh xrw xj fjhgw xligr rlwxlf j  

~iibl xj oi bei`r mh gmxirixgmd-

`~~rj~rg`xi tjrh mh e`mdy`di; xli bjymieejr miih xj ymhirx`mh 

xli ~`rxgbye`r bjymieegmd bjmxi|x xj f`ci oixxir bljgbi j tjrh `mh

~lr`i tlgbl begimx yi `mh ymhirx`mh-

 Xjybl

Gx g `ej yiye xj xlgmc `ojyx `~~rj~rg`xi yi j xjybl- Gm jfi byexyri gx g `bbi~x`oei `mh

iqim higr`oei xj bjmqiw if~`xlw mh ymhirx`mhgmd xlrjydl ~`x jm xli ljyehir% t`rf

l`mhbe`~ jr iqim ` lyd- Gm jxlir xliri f`w oi xrgbx egfgx`xgjm jm brj&dimhir xjyblgmd-

Gx tjyeh oi yiye xj i|~ejri;

Tl`x `ri xli mjrf `rjymh xjybl gm xli ~ibgb ixxgmd:Ø

Ljt bjfjrx`oei `ri wjy ` ` bjymieejr tgxl xjybl:Ø

Gm dimir`e mit bjymieejr ljyeh bjf~eixiew qjgh xjyblgmd begimx% ~`rx rjf l`mhl`ci%

xj bri`xi ` ~rj~ir ~rjigjm`e hgx`mbi- @mw bjmbirm `rjymh xjybl ljyeh oi `hhriih

tgxl ` fimxjr-

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^`grih hgbygjm% hgh`b&

xgb gm~yx `mh rjei&~e`w

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j tl`x g miihih xj~ri~`ri jr xli bjym&

ieegmd igjm-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j xli gf~jrx`mbi j 

bjmxr`bxgmd jr ojxl

xli bjymieejr mh

begimx-

^`rxgbg~`mx joirqiu

ljt xj oidgm ` bjym&

ieegmd igjm-

9> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

 @bxgqgxw 0-?>

 Xli bjymieegmd ar`fitjrc `mh bjmxr`bxgmd

Ar`fitjrc; @ xrybxyri xl`x ljeh xlgmd gm ~e`bi-

Ryddixih fixljh;

I|~e`gm xli bjmbi~x j ` r`fitjrc gm bjymieegmd% gm xirf j;0-

xliu  ~lwgb`e r`fi ,ejb`xgjm mh rr`mdifimx j bjymieegmd ixxgmd'

xliu xgfi r`fi ,eimdxl `mh myfoir j igjm'

xliu bjymieegmd r`fi ,oigmd gm begimx‗ r`fi j riirimbi% bri`xgmd ` `i

ifjxgjm`e ~`bi% egfgxih ie&hgbejyri mh ~lwgb`e bjmx`bx% x`cgmd

mjxi jr x`~i ribjrhgmd'-

Trgxi xlii bjmbi~x jm xli g~&bl`rx oj`rh-?-

Hgqghi xli ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj f`ee drjy~ `mh `c xlif xj hgby gf~jrx`mx `b&2-

xjr xj bjmghir% ~ibgb`eew tgxl rid`rh xj xli  ~lwgb`e r`fi ,g-i- Tl`x tjyeh `bjymieegmd jbi ejjc egci: Tliri tjyeh gx oi:'-

@ej `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw hgby xligr qgit jm xli8- xgfi r`fi `mh bjymie&

egmd r`fi% `mh ljt xliw tjyeh ~ri~`ri jr ` bjymieegmd igjm- Imbjyr`di

iiho`bc-

I|~e`gm xli himgxgjm% gf~jrx`mbi `mh ~rjbihyri j bjmxr`bxgmd `mh ixxgmd y~9-

gmgxg`e `driifimx gm bjymieegmd-

Dgqi jfi ~r`bxgb`e dyghiegmi jm ljt xj oidgm ` bjymieegmd igjm `mh dgqi1-

i|`f~ei j j~imgmd x`xifimx% tiee ` ljt xj i|~e`gm bjmhimxg`egxw-

 Xli `bgegx`xjr b`m geeyxr`xi xli `ojqi ow oigmd xli bjymieejr gm ` lojte rjei&4-

~e`w- Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj rjei&~e`w-

Imbjyr`di bjffimx mh hgbygjm jm xli xj~gb tlgbl l`qi oiim r`gih% mh<-

riir ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xligr f`my`e jr yrxlir mjxi-

Mjxi xl`x gm jfi gmx`mbi xli r`fi f`w oi ei xl`m ghi`e ‒ ii I|irbgi7-

0-?0-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Bjymieegmd Ar`fitjrc

Gm ~ri~`rgmd jr bjymieegmd% birx`gm `rr`mdifimx miih xj oi gm ~e`bi- Ti yi xli tjrh

r`fitjrc gm bjymieegmd xj hibrgoi xli ~e`bi `mh xgfi tliri bjymieegmd l`~~im% ` tiee

` xli ifjxgjm`e ~`bi xli bjymieejr bri`xi j begimx iie rii xj xiee xligr xjrgi- @ r`fi&

tjrc b`m oi himih ` ` xrybxyri xl`x ljeh xlgmd gm ~e`bi- Tgxljyx bjmghirgmd xli jeejt&

gmd r`fitjrc% bjymieegmd fgdlx “`ee `~`rx‗-

^lwgb`e ar`fi

 Xli bjymieegmd rjjf ljyeh oi bjfjrx`oei% pygix `mh ~rgq`xi- Iqim g wjy hjm‗x l`qi `bbi

xj ` ~rj~ir bjymieegmd jbi% bjmghir xlii 2 `bxjr gm bljjgmd ` ~e`bi-

 X cgmd mjxi jr x`~i ribjrhgmd gm xli bjymieegmd igjm g lie~ye% oyx f`w l`qi ` mid`xgqi

gf~`bx gm bjymieegmd- Oi t`ri j xli begimx‗ ri~jmi xj xlg mh i|~e`gm wjyr gmximxgjm- @c 

xli begimx‗ ~irfggjm xj hj xlg-

 Xgfi ar`fi

Rigjm yy`eew e`x 89&9> fgmyxi- Rljrxir igjm fi`m ei xgfi xj i|~ejri% `mh

ejmdir igjm xgri begimx `mh bjymieejr- ,Gm xr`yf` b`i% igjm f`w x`ci ejmdir

xl`m 9> fgmyxi-' Rljrx&xirf bjymieegmd g iibxgqi `mh `~~rj~rg`xi jr xli Rjyxl

@rgb`m bjmxi|x- Oixtiim 9 `mh0> igjm `ri yy`eew miihih- Ljt jxim xli begimx

ljyeh bjfi ,ripyimbw' mh ljt f`mw igjm ri eejb`xih ,hyr`xgjm' hi~imh jm

xli miih j xli begimx `mh `q`ge`ogegxw j xli bjymieejr- Xlg g hgbyih gm xli gmgxg`e

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== 00?

Oidgmmgmd

Gmgxg`e bjmx`bx

@ ~irjm bjfi jr bjymieegmd gm jmi j xtj t`w; `mjxlir jrd`mg`xgjm jr ~irjm yy`eew

riir xlif% jr xliw f`ci ` hibggjm xj iic bjymieegmd jm xligr jtm- Gx x`ci ` ejx j bjyr&

`di jr begimx xj bjfi jr bjymieegmd% `mh jfi `ri fjri i`dir xl`m jxlir xj x`rx xli

~rjbi-

Tlim ` ~irjm ~ljmi jr `c xj ii ` bjymieejr% gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x xli bjymieejr jr xiei&

~ljmi ribi~xgjmgx f`gmx`gm ixlgb`e oil`qgjyr% ` tiee ` `m if~`xlgb `xxgxyhi% xj dgqi xli

begimx xli gf~rigjm xl`x gx g `m ifjxgjm`eew `i ~e`bi- Xli ~irjm‗ ~rjoeif g mjx yy`eew

hgbyih tlim xli ~irjm ~ljmi jr c jr m ~~jgmxfimx- G xli ~irjm x`rx hgbygmd

xligr ~rjoeif% gx g yiye xj riibx xli begimx‗ iiegmd `mh ri`yri xlif xl`x wjy tgee hgby

gx gm wjyr igjm i-d- ―Gx jymh egci wjy `ri ciim xj x`ec mjt- Bjyeh ti x`ec fjri `ojyx xlg

jm Xlyrh`w:‖

@m `~~rj~rg`xi xgfi `mh ejb`xgjm g `driih y~jm ow ojxl ~`rxgi% ` tiee ` `mw ii `mh ~rj&

bihyri jr b`mbieegmd xli igjm- Xlg gmgxg`e bjmx`bx jrf xli rx ~`rx j xli bjymieegmd

bjmxr`bx-

Dixxgmd x`rxih

Tlim xli ~irjm `rrgqi jr bjymieegmd% driix xlif ri~ibxyeew `mh gmxrjhybi wjyrie- _i&

fifoir xl`x wjy ri gm xli rjei j bjymieejr% mh xli ~irjm g egciew xj ii wjy m `yxljr&

gxw% jr ~rjqghir j lie~- Gx g gf~jrx`mx xj eix xli ~irjm iie bjfjrx`oei% tgxljyx ejgmd wjyr

rjei ` bjymieejr- Oigmd jqir&rgimhew jr “~rgf `mh ~rj~ir‗ yy`eew hji mjx bri`xi ` `qjyr`oei

oidgmmgmd jr bjymieegmd-

Jmbi wjy `ri ojxl i`xih% xli bjymieejr yy`eew oidgm ow `cgmd xli ~irjm jr ` it ~ir&

jm`e hix`ge ‒ m`fi% `di% `hhri `mh bjmx`bx myfoir- Rjfi bjymieejr ~riir xligr begimx

xj ee gm ` begimx hix`ge jrf-

Gmgxg`e `driifimx

Oijri hgbygmd xli begimx‗ ri`jm jr bjfgmd jr bjymieegmd% gx g lie~ye xj ri`yri xli

begimx xl`x bjmhimxg`egxw tgee oi f`gmx`gmih- Orgiw i|~e`gm xli egfgx j bjmhimxg`egxw `

tiee- Rjfi bjymieejr% l`qi m gmjrfih bjmimx jrf xl`x i|~e`gm xli ixlgb`e hyxgi j xli

bjymieejr `mh tl`x xli begimx b`m i|~ibx rjf bjymieegmd-

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―Oijri ti x`rx% G kyx t`mx xj ri`yri wjy xl`x iqirwxlgmd ti hgbyliri xjh`w tgee oi ci~x bjmahimxg`e- Xli jmew xgfi G fgdlx l`qi xj xiee 

jfijmi `ojyx jyr igjm g g G iie wjy f`w hj l`rf xj wjyrie jr 

jxlir% oyx G tgee `et`w eix wjy cmjt g G hj-‖ 

@x xlg x`di% gx g `ej ygx`oei xj orgiw hgby mh midjxg`xi xli hyr`xgjm j bjymieegmd% ri&

pyimbw mh eimdxl j igjm% tiee mw ii jr bjymieegmd hfgmgxr`xgqi ~rjbihyri-

Gm xlg gmgxg`e `driifimx% gx `ej yiye xj i|~e`gm xli rjei j xli begimx `mh bjymieejr% `mh

tl`x xli begimx i|~ibx rjf xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~- Gm Rjyxl @rgb`% tliri bjymieegmd

g mjx tiee ymhirxjjh% gx tjyeh `ej oi lie~ye xj hgby tl`x xli begimx ymhirx`mh bjym&

ieegmd xj oi3 tlixlir xliw l`qi oiim jr bjymieegmd oijri% `mh tl`x xligr i|~irgimbi j 

bjymieegmd t`-

Mjxi @EE ~ibx j xlg gmgxg`e driifimx jr bjmxr`bx ri mjx mibi`rgew i|~ejrih gm yee% gm

xli rx igjm ‒ gx g yy`eew ri&midjxg`xih% be`rgih `mh rimih xlrjydljyx xli bjymie&

egmd ~rjbi- Gx ljyeh oi ai|goei `mh ri`egxgb-

Ljt xj oidgm

@m j~im&imhih pyixgjm g yy`eew lie~ye xj dix xli bjymieegmd igjm x`rxih;

―Tl`x orgmd wjy liri xjh`w:‖% jr ` mjm&qiro`e dixyri% ybl ` mjh j xli

li`h-

Rx`xifimx ybl `% ―Ljt b`m G lie~ wjy:‖ f`w ix xli bjmxi|x xl`x wjy `ri djgmd xj oi “xli

lie~ir‗ `mh xl`x xli begimx g mjx `oei xj lie~ lgfie- Xlg g mjx mibi`rgew trjmd oyx oi

`t`ri j xli gf~`bx j wjyr tjrh- Dgqi xli begimx xgfi xj ri~jmh% `mh if~`xlgb`eew riibxjm `mw mjm&qiro`e oil`qgjyr wjy f`w joirqi i-d- ―Gx iif egci gx‗ hgbyex jr wjy xj x`ec 

`ojyx gx‖-

 

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 008

 @bxgqgxw 0-?0

Bjymieegmd gm hgaairimx bjmxi|x

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj f`ee drjy~-0-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj or`gmxjrf xli hgirimx bjmxi|x tgxlgm tlgbl bjymieegmd?-

bjyeh x`ci ~e`bi ,i-d- ` lj~gx`e rjjf% ymhir ` xrii% ` t`gxgmd rjjf% ` jrf`e

bjymieegmd ~`bi% `m jbi tlgbl hjyoei y~ ` ` bjymieegmd rjjf' `mh ljt

xliw tjyeh `h`~x xj i`bl gxy`xgjm g mibi`rw-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% `c jr iiho`bc rjf i`bl drjy~-2-

Lgdlegdlx xr`xidgi xj hi`e tgxl hgirimx bjmxi|x-8-

Drjy~ or`gmxjrf mh

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx ri t`riu

j xli hgirimx ~e`bi

tliri bjymieegmdb`m x`ci ~e`bi-

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi m ymhir&

x`mhgmd j ljt xj

jqirbjfi bl`eeimdi

gm hgirimx bjymie&

egmd bjmxi|x-

^`rxgbg~`mx ymhir&u

x`mh xl`x xliri `ri

egfgx`xgjm xj e`w

bjymieegmd-

?> fgmyxi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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 @bxgqgxw 0-??

^jx&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri `mh bl`eeimdi

Bl`eeimdi h`w ?

Bljji `m jokibx xl`x ri~riimx xli cgmh j bjymieejr wjy t`mx xj oi-

Trgxi mjxi mh orgmd jokibx `mh mjxi xjfjrrjt-

Ryddixih fixljh;

^riimx xli bl`eeimdi xj oi hgbyih `x xli x`rx j Fjhyei ?% g xliw `ri djgmd0-

jm xj bjf~eixi Fjhyei ?;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc j `m jokibx xl`x xliw l`qi gm xligr ljfi jru

tgxlgm xligr imqgrjmfimx tlgbl tjyeh wfojegb`eew ri~riimx xli cgmh j 

bjymieejr xliw t`mx xj oi g-i- bl`r`bxirgxgb% q`eyi ixb-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj x`ci mjxi% `mh xj trgxi xligr ~irbi~xgjm j ljt xlgu

jokibx wfojegi xli cgmh j bjymieejr xliw t`mx xj oi-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgmd xligr mjxi xjfjrrjt-u

 Xlim gyi xli?- ^jx&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri `mh `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj bjf~eixi xlg-

Trgxxim i|irbgi% drjy~

hgbygjm mh ljfi&

tjrc-

 

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi tl`x xliw l`qi

ei`rmx gm Fjhyei 0-

^`rxgbg~`mx riibx jmu

~irbi~xgjm j oigmd

` bjymieejr-

^`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjxiu

b`m oi yih jr

iq`ey`xgqi ~yr~ji-

Bl`eeimdi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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1- @m ghi`e bjymieejr;

l` ` djjh imi j lyfjyr`-

g bjmhimxo-

g t`rf `mh `~~rj`bl`oeib-

`ee j xli `ojqi-h-

4- Xlrii ~rgmbg~ei `mh q`eyi xl`x ri fjx gf~jrx`mx gm bjymieegmd ri;

oigmd ri`e% ri~jmgqi `mh ri~ibxye`-

oigmd ibrixgqi% tgi `mh f`xyrio-

oigmd irxgqi% ~rjigjm`e mh j~imb-

oigmd bjmbirmih% ejw`e `mh rgimhew-h-

<- If~`xlw fi`m;

xieegmd xli ~irjm wjy ymhirx`mh tl`x xliw ri djgmd xlrjydl`-

brwgmd `mh e`ydlgmd tgxl xli ~irjmo-

~yxxgmd wjyrie gm xli jxlir ~irjm‗ ljib-

xi~~gmd gmxj xli ~irjm‗ tjreh `mh bjffymgb`xgmd xlg ymhirx`mhgmd-h-

7- Ixlgb`e gyi xj bjmghir gm bjymieegmd gmqjeqi;

bjmhimxg`egxw`-

`eejtgmd xli begimx xj riiew i|~ri lg*lir iiegmdo-

oigmd mjm&kyhdifimx`eb-

`ee j xli `ojqi-h-

0>- @ bjymieejr fyx f`gmx`gm bjmhimxg`egxw;

`x `ee xgfi`-

tgxlgm birx`gm egfgxo-

tlim x`ecgmd xj `mjxlir ~rjigjm`eb-

,o' `mh ,b'-h-

      

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 @bxgqgxw 0-?2

Blibc jyx `mh qiro`e iq`ey`xgjm

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j xligr h`w‗ ~irjm`e0-

i|~irgimbi-

@ej gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx j xli drjy~‗ i|~irgimbi-?-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew2-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj riibx jm Fjhyei 0; tl`x l`qi G ei`rmx `mh ljt hgh gx gf&8-

~`bx jm fi:

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e mh drjy~ i|~irgimbi-9-

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi% ` tiee `

qiro`eew iq`ey`xi xli

Fjhyei-

@ bjffjm drjymhu

g bri`xih fjmdx

~`rxgbg~`mx-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

gdmgb`mx `bxjr

jyxghi xli drjy~

xl`x bjyeh gmyimbi

xli drjy~ ~rjbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

xligr xljydlx `mh

iiegmd j drjy~&

`mh bjyri&rie`xih

i|~irgimbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx riibx jmu

xli Fjhyei `mh gx

gf~`bx jm xlif-

2> fgmyxi

Mjmi

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Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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^rgf`rw bjymieegmd cgeeFjhyei ?% mjxih gm xli gmxrjhybxgjm% g 8&h`w Fjhyei tlgbl gmxrjhybi gmhgqghy`e xj xli

fjhie j bjymieegmd `mh jbyi jm lie~gmd xli begimx xj xiee xligr xjrw% tlgbl gmqjeqi xli

o`gb bjymieegmd cgee j `xximhgmd% egximgmd% riibxgmd iiegmd% ri~lr`gmd% o`gb i|~ejrgmd

`mh yff`rggmd- Xli fjhie bljim g Id`m‗ fjhie% iimxg`eew ` ~irjm&bimxrih% ~rjoeif&

jeqgmd ~~rj`bl xj ~ij~ei tlj iic lie~- Gx g ~irjm&bimxrih gm xli imi xl`x xli bjymie&

ejr jbyi jm oygehgmd rie`xgjmlg~% bjmmibxgjm tgxl begimx% mh f`ci xlif iie q`eyih

`mh `~~ribg`xih tlgei bri`xgmd ` `i ~`bi jr xlif xj oi li`rh `mh `bcmjteihdih- Jxim

xlg g ybgimx xj myhdi xli begimx gmxj bl`mdi jr bbi~x`mbi oib`yi xliw ri dgqim m j~&

~jrxymgxw xj li`r xligr xljydlx `mh iiegmd riibxih o`bc gm ` xljydlxye `mh fi`mgmdye

t`w% f`cgmd gx ~jgoei jr xlif xj ii xlifieqi gm ` mit egdlx% ei`hgmd xj mit hgribxgjm-

 Xlg ~irjm&bimxrih `~ibx g xli bjri jby j xlg Fjhyei ` xli cgee lie~ xj oygeh `m ymhir&

x`mhgmd j xli begimx% ojxl jr xli bjymieejr mh xli begimx- Xlg Fjhyei xly bjqir ~rgf`rw

bjymieegmd cgee% e`wgmd xli jymh`xgjm jr xli mi|x Fjhyei-

 Xlg Fjhyei b`m oi yih jm gx jtm tgxl bjymieejr tlj l`qi oiim gm xli ieh jr ` tlgei

oyx tlj miih ` ririlir jm xli o`gb- G xlii o`gb cgee `ri mjx f`xirih% xli ~rjoeif&

jeqgmd `~ibx j Fjhyei 2 tgee oi hgbyex xj `xx`gm-

Fjhyei Xtj

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== 0?>

H`w xlrii; @ fjhie ja bjymieegmd @bxgqgxw ?-0

Tiebjfi% i|~ibx xgjm `mh drjy~ ryei

Gm xlii oejbc% wjy tgee mh q`rgjy lgmx% xg~ `mh mjxi% tlgbl dgqi fjri hi&

x`geih i|~e`m`xgjm j xli cgee `mh bjmbi~x oigmd ~riimxih

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw gmxrjhybi xlifieqi xj xli drjy~% `wgmd tlj0-

xliw `ri% tliri xliw tjrc% tl`x bjymieegmd i|~irgimbi xliw l`qi `mh tl`x

xliw lj~i xj `blgiqi gm xlg Fjhyei-

B`~xyri i|~ibx`xgjm jm g~bl`rx ~`~ir `mh hgby-?-

@c xli drjy~ xj or`gmxjrf drjymh ryei jr ` `i% l`rfjmgjy `mh ~rjhybxgqi2-

xr`gmgmd i|~irgimbi-

B`~xyri xlii mh hgby ‒ ii @bxgqgxw 0-? rjf Fjhyei 0 jr yrxlir i|~`mgjm8-

jm drjy~ ryei-

_jymh&rjogm gmxrjhyb&

xgjm mh hgbygjm j 

i|~ibx`xgjm mh drjy~

ryei

 

^`rxgbg~`mxØ

`ri oixxir `b&

py`gmxih tgxl

i`bl jxlir-

I|~ibx`xgjmØ

`mh drjy~

ryei j xliFjhyei ri

hgbyih-

 

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 0??

^ri * ^jx&Fjhyei Pyixgjmm`gri ‒ ?

^ei`i bgrbei xli eixxir xl`x wjy xlgmc fjx ~~rj~rg`xiew mtir xli pyixgjm-

 Xlrii riibxgjm ri~jmi gm bjymieegmd `ri;0-

_iibxgjm j iiegmd% bjmximx mh ~`r`~lr`gmd`-

_iibxgjm j iiegmd% bjmximx mh ~rjbio-

_iibxgjm j iiegmd% fi`mgmd `mh bjmximxb-

,o' `mh ,b'-h-

?- Tlim riibxgmd gm bjymieegmd% gx g gf~jrx`mx xj egmc iiegmd xj bjmximx;

Mj`-

Wi-o-

2- _iibxgjm j ~rjbi ,`ej cmjtm ` gffihg`bw';

`- G riibxgmd gyi rie`xih xj xli bjymieegmd bjmxi|x `mh*jr bjymieejr

G riibxgmd iiegmd rie`xih xj xli begimx jyxghi bjmxi|xb-

G riibxgjm j ~`x bjmximxh-

Mjmi j xli `ojqi-i-

8- @ bjffjm if~`xlgb ri~jmi ei`h g;

Wjy iie‡`-

Gx jymh egci‡o-

G G li`r wjy bjrribxew‡b-

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

9- I|~ejrgmd ` begimx‗ xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii g ` cgee xl`x `bgegx`xi ~rjoeif&jeq&

gmd gm bjymieegmd-

 Xryi`-

A`eio-

1- Ryff`rggmd mh ~`r`~lr`gmd ri;

 Xli `fi xlgmd`-

Hgirimx oyx bjmmibxih cgee-o-

     

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^ri * ^jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri ? ‒ fjhie `mtir

,o'0-

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 0?8

 @bxgqgxw ?-2

_iqggjm ja ciw ~jgmx jm bjymieegmd arjf Fjhyei 0

Ryddixih fixljh;

Egx igdlx bjri bjmbi~x j bjymieegmd ,ie&`t`rimi3 tjrcgmd tgxl hgqirgxw30-

`gf j bjymieegmd3 bjri q`eyi `mh ixlgb gm bjymieegmd3 cgee `mh py`egxgi j 

` bjymieejr% i~ibg`eew ri~ibx% ri~jmgqimi `mh ri`emi3 if~`xlw% wf~`&

xlw `mh ghimxgb`xgjm3 ixxgmd y~ xli bjymieegmd3 `mh RJEI_ F@^' jm g~bl`rx

~`~ir `mh hgqghi xli drjy~ gmxj igdlx% tgxl jmi bjmbi~x ~ir drjy~- I`bl drjy~

himi `mh i|~e`gm xli bjmbi~x-

G xli drjy~ t` mjx i|~jih xj Fjhyei 0% xli `bgegx`xjr b`m orgiw i|~e`gm tl`x?-

i`bl bjmbi~x hgbygjm ljyeh bjqir-

@xir i`bl drjy~‗ gm~yx% xli `bgegx`xjr ee gm xli d`~ `mh riir xj mjxi rjf2-

Fjhyei 0-

Rf`ee&drjy~ hgbygjm%

~riimx`xgjm jeejtih

ow gm~yx rjf `bgegx`xjr

Ei`rmir hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmdj xli ymh`fimx`e

bjmbi~x gm bjymie&

egmd rjf Fjhyei 0-

A`bgegx`xjr ghimxg&u

i d`~ gm ei`rmir

cmjteihdi-

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F j h y e i x t j ; ^ r g f ` r w b j y m i e e g m d c g e e I

 @bxgqgxw ?-8

Dgqgmd `mh ribigqgmd aiiho`bc 

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi m ymhirx`mh&

gmd j dgqgmd `mhribigqgmd iiho`bc 

,gm ~ri~`r`xgjm jr

xrg`h rjei&~e`w'-

2> fgmyxi

Mjmi

Yiye iiho`bc g hgribxih `x oil`qgjyr% tlgbl xli ribigqir b`m hj jfixlgmd

`ojyx-

Gx g gffihg`xi% bjmbgi `mh ~ibgb-

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc ojyx xli e`x xgfi xliw tiri dgqim iiho`bc ow imgjr0-

dyri ,eibxyrir% f`m`dir% ~`rimx' `mh ow ` ~iir-

Imbjyr`di iiho`bc `ojyx ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ i|~irgimbi- @c ~`rxgbg~`mx ljt xliw?-

iex `ojyx xli t`w xli iiho`bc t` dgqim% `mh tlixlir xliw xljydlx gx xj oi

iibxgqi jr mjx-

Mjt `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc `ojyx ` xgfi tlim xliw l`h xj dgqi iiho`bc xj2-

jfijmi xligr kymgjr `mh xj ` ~iir-

Imbjyr`di hgbygjm `ojyx ljt ~`rxgbg~`mx iex `ojyx dgqgmd iiho`bc `mh8-

tlixlir gx t` iibxgqi jr mjx-

Dgqi gm~yx ojyx iibxgqiew dgqgmd mh ribigqgmd iiho`bc mh riir ~`rxgbg~`mx9-

xj xli mjxi gm xligr f`my`e-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Dgqgmd `mh _ibigqgmd Aiiho`bc 

Dgqgmd `mh ribigqgmd iiho`bc iibxgqiew jbbyr tlim ~ij~ei gm gmxir`bxgjm eix i`bl jxlir

cmjt ljt xliw `ibx `mh gf~`bx jm i`bl jxlir- Xlg iiho`bc g hixirfgmih ow ri`egxgb jo&

irq`xgjm j xli ~irjm‗ oil`qgjyr mh ~irjrf`mbi- Gx f`w gmbeyhi ~r`gi% ie&hgbejyri jr

bjmxrybxgqi brgxgbgf j gmiibxgqi jr ie&hixrybxgqi xljydlx jr oil`qgjyr-

 Xlrjydljyx xlg bjyri% i~ibg`eew hyrgmd rjei&~e`w% wjy tgee oi ripygrih xj dgqi iiho`bc xj

wjyr ~iir% `mh ribigqi iiho`bc rjf wjyr ~iir `mh xr`gmir-

Tlim dgqgmd iiho`bc xj `mjxlir ~irjm% imyri xl`x gx g;

gffihg`xiØ ‒ iiho`bc ljyeh oi dgqim gm xli liri&`mh&mjt- Hie`wih iiho`bc 

jxim eji gx q`eyi `mh gf~jrx`mbi- Imyri xl`x iiho`bc g tiee xgfih ‒ `

djjh xgfi xj dgqi `mh ribigqi iiho`bc g hyrgmd xli hgbygjm xgfi `xir `

rjei&~e`w- Dgqi iiho`bc hyrgmd xli drjy~ igjm mh mjx `xir xli xr`gmgmd i&

gjm-

bjmxrybxgqiØ ‒ yiye iiho`bc ljyeh irqi ` ~yr~ji- Gx ljyeh oi hgribxih `x

oil`qgjyr% tlgbl xli ribigqir b`m hj jfixlgmd ojyx% i-d- xieegmd jfijmi

xl`x xligr lgdl&~gxblih qjgbi f`ci xlif iif jqirew tiix g mjx yiye% r`xlir

`c tl`x jxlir joirq`oei% mjm&qiro`e oil`qgjyr xl`x ~irjm g hg~e`wgmd xl`x

f`ci xlif iif jqirew tiix- Tlim dgqgmd bjmxrybxgqi brgxgbgf `w tl`x

bjyeh l`qi oiim hjmi hgirimxew `mh ljt gx fgdlx bl`mdi xli gf~`bx j xli

oil`qgjyr-

if~`xlgb`eew ljmixØ ‒ dgqgmd ~jgxgqi iiho`bc kyx xj f`ci xli ~irjm iie

oixxir jr oib`yi j rgimhlg~ l` ` xif~jr`rw iibx oyx hjim‗x l`qi `mw

ejmd&xirf q`eyi- Gx g xlrjydl iiho`bc xl`x ti ei`rm `mh drjt- Ljtiqir% xli

t`w ti dgqi iiho`bc g gf~jrx`mx- @ bjymieejr jfixgfi l` xj bl`eeimdi

xligr begimx‗ gmiibxgqi xljydlx mh oil`qgjyr% j dgqgmd ljmix oyx if~`xlgb

iiho`bc gm xlg drjy~ tgee oi djjh ~r`bxgbi jr bjymieegmd-

~ibgbØ ‒ qjgh q`dyi mh*jr kyhdifimx`e iiho`bc- Aiiho`bc ljyeh xly oi

o`ih jm joirq`xgjm j oil`qgjyr jr ~irjrf`mbi jmew- Cii~ xli iiho`bc 

orgi `mh x`ec `ojyx ljt  wjy tiri `ibxih ow xli ~irjm‗ oil`qgjyr-

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== 0?<

 @bxgqgxw ?-9

 @ fjhie ja bjymieegmd

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx mh drjy~

hgbygjm

 

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi ` dimir`e

ymhirx`mhgmd j xli

bjymieegmd fjhie

`mh bjymieegmd cgee-

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

 Xli q`rgjy cgee gm xlg fjhie bjf~rgi xli xjje j bjymieegmd-

 Xli fjx iibxgqi bjymieejr g xli ~irjm tlj mjx jmew l` f`mw xjje% oyx

cmjt tlgbl xjje tgee oix lie~ ` begimx `x hgirimx xgfi-

Rjfixgfi ti miih jfijmi xj ymhirx`mh ljt ti `ri i|~irgimbgmd jyr

tjreh% jr xj lie~ y rijeqi ~rjoeif ‒ mh jfixgfi ti kyx miih jfijmi

xj oi xliri-

Ryddixih fixljh;

Jm ` g~bl`rx oj`rh% hr`t xli “ljyi‗ bjymieegmd fjhie o`ih jm Id`m‗ lie~gmd0-

fjhie-

I|~e`gm xli q`rgjy x`di j bjymieegmd tgxlgm xli fjhie-?-

Lgdlegdlx xli rjei j xli bjymieejr% xli begimx mh xli bjffymgxw ,jxlir' gm xlg2-

fjhie-

Imbjyr`di xli drjy~ xj hgby xli ~jgmx ~riimxih-8-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @ Fjhie ja Bjymieegmd

O`ih jm Id`m‗ Lie~gmd Fjhie

 

^rgmbg~ei ja xli fjhie

“Oygehgmd xli ljyi‗ fi`m oygehgmd xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~% gm lie~gmd xli begimx hi`e tgxl

lg*lir ~rjoeif- @ xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi fjqi jrt`rh% ` xryxgmd tjrcgmd rie`xgjmlg~

g oygex oixtiim bjymieejr `mh begimx-

Begimx l`qi hgirimx miih tgxl rid`rh xj bjymieegmd- Rjfi begimx kyx miih lie~ xj xiee

xligr xjrw% gm jrhir xj lie~ xlif xj bjmxgmyi tgxl xli “ljyi oygehgmd‗ jm xligr jtm- Xli

begimx g ri~jmgoei jr oygehgmd lg*lir ljyi `mh bjymieegmd b`m imh `x `mw x`di gm xli

“ljyi oygehgmd‗ ~rjbi! Xli bjymieejr g ` `bgegx`xjr xj xli ~rjbi- Egximgmd xj% `mh i|~ejr&

gmd xli begimx‗ xjrw lie~ xj oygeh xryx mh ymhirx`mhgmd% tlgbl xlim eejt xli begimx mh

bjymieejr xj fjqi gmxj i|~ejrgmd jeyxgjm `mh f`cgmd ` ~e`m- _iqgitgmd xli bjymieegmd

~rjbi g hjmi ow ygmd xli yff`rggmd cgee% `mh g lie~ye xj ri&jby xli begimx `mh bjym&

ieejr jm tl`x l` oiim `blgiqih gm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi- Xli begimx‗ `fgew% rgimh `mh

bjffymgxw rijyrbi ri gmbeyhih gm xlg lie~gmd ~rjbi-

LIE^ BEGIMX F@CI @ ^E@M

^rjoeif jeqgmd% jeyxgjm&jbyih

LIE^ BEGIMX I\^EJ_I J^XGJMR

Ryff`rggmd% pyixgjmgmd% gffihg`bw

LIE^ BEGIMX XIEE RXJ_W

_iibxgmd iiegmd% if~`xlw% ~`r`~lr`i

EGRXIM XJ BEGIMX‗R RXJ_W

Egximgmd% RJEI_ F@^% 2 _‗

OYGEH @ AJYMH@XGJMRie&~ri~`r`xgjm% ~ri~`r`xgjm j bjmxi|x `mh bjmxr`bxgmd

_

I

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GI

T

G

M

D

BEGIMX‗R

I\XI_M@E

RY^^J_X

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^rjbi ja xli bjymieegmd fjhie

“Oygehgmd xli ljyi‗ g `ej ` bjee`ojr`xgqi ijrx% oixtiim xli begimx% bjymieejr `mh i|xirm`e

y~~jrx xrybxyri% tlgbl jeejt xli jeejtgmd i|goei ~rjbi;

Oygeh ` ajymh`xgjm

^ri~`r`xgjm jr bjymieegmd g gf~jrx`mx gm oygehgmd ` jegh jymh`xgjm jr iibxgqi bjym&

ieegmd xj x`ci ~e`bi- Agrxew% xli bjymieejr ~ri~`ri lgf*lirie xlrjydl ie&`t`rimi `mh

`t`rimi j hgqirgxw- Xli bjymieejr imyri xl`x li*li g `t`ri j xli o`gb ~rgmbg~ei j 

bjymieegmd ‒ oigmd ri~ibxye% ri`e mh ri~jmgqi-

^ri~`r`xgjm j xli bjymieegmd bjmxi|x jr imqgrjmfimx g `ej gf~jrx`mx gm xl`x ` `i% pygix

`mh bjfjrx`oei ~e`bi g ~ri~`rih- Rixxgmd y~ xli gmgxg`e `driifimx ,bjmxr`bx ' `ej jrf xli

drjymhtjrc j ` ybbiye bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~-

F`gm cgee yih; ie&riibxgjm% t`rimi j jxlir% bjmxr`bxgmd% xli 2 _‗-

Egxim xj begimx‗ xjrw 

Egximgmd g gmxidr`e gm oygehgmd xryx gm xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ mh dgqi xli begimx ~`bi

xj j~im y~- Gx `ej ~ri~`ri xli begimx `mh bjymieejr xj ri`bl ` eiqie tliri gx g ifjxgjm`eew

`i gm xli rie`xgjmlg~ xj lie~ xli begimx i|~ejri j~xgjm `mh f`ci ` ~e`m- Ti egxim jr `mh

joirqi;

Ti ljt xli begimx ti `ri egximgmd xj xlif ow fjmgxjrgmd jyr jtm mjm&qiro`e oil`qgjyr gm

bjymieegmd- Ti yi xli RJEI_ F@^ xiblmgpyi ‒ gx py`riew% `bgmd xli begimx `x ` bjfjrx&

`oei `mdei `mh hgx`mbi3 l`qi `m j~im ~jxyri3 ei`m xjt`rh xli begimx tlim ygx`oei3 f`ci

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`~~rj~rg`xi iwi bjmx`bx3 oi rie`|ih mh yi fgmgf`e imbjyr`dir mh `xximxgqi geimbi mh

`i xli begimx‗ ~riimx`xgjm-

F`gm cgee yih; egximgmd% xximhgmd ,RJEI_ F@^'

 Lie~ begimx xiee xligr xjrw 

Oighi egximgmd xj xli begimx% ti b`m lie~ xlif xiee xligr xjrw% ow `bbyr`xiew riibxgmd xligr

iiegmd ,gf~jrx`mx!' `mh bjmximx- Ow hjgmd xlg% ti ljt xli begimx xl`x ti `ri tgeegmd xj

ymhirx`mh xligr tjreh ` xliw i|~irgimbi gx- Xlg `ej lie~ xj oygeh xryx `mh imbjyr`di

ie&riibxgjm-

F`gm cgee yih; if~`xlgb ri~jmhgmd% riibxgmd iiegmd% ~`r`~lr`gmd

 Lie~ begimx i|~ejri xligr xjrw 

Gm lie~gmd xli begimx i|~ejri xligr xjrw% ti `xxif~x xj d`gm ` hii~ir ymhirx`mhgmd j xligr

i|~irgimbi- Ti `ej hj xlg xj lie~ xli begimx f`ci imi j lg*lir tjreh ow jbygmd xligr

xljydlx mh i|~ejrgmd mh ghimxgwgmd xlifi- Gm lie~gmd begimx i|~ejri xligr xjrgi% ti j&

xim l`qi xj hi`e tgxl gyi orjydlx y~ gm igjm% oixtiim begimx mh bjymieejr% i-d- begimxtlj `ri ligx`mx xj x`ec- Ti yi xli xirf “gffihg`bw‗ jr “riibxgjm j ~rjbi‗ xj riir xj xlg

~ibgb cgee- @ lgdl eiqie j xryx g ripygrih jr xlg cgee xj oi yih iibxgqiew-

Ryff`rggmd gmqjeqi egximgmd xximxgqiew mh jbygmd jm f`gm ghi` mh xlifi-

F`gm cgee yih; hii~ir if~`xlw% yff`rggmd% pyixgjmgmd% riibxgjm j ~rjbi% ym&

~`bcgmd ,hjm‗x jrdix ojyx wjyr o`gb cgee j egximgmd mh `xximhgmd liri xjj!'

 Lie~ begimx f`ci ` ~e`m

F`mw mjqgbi bjymieejr ,`mh iqim jfi imgjr bjymieejr!' xlgmc xl`x xlg ~`rx j xli bjym&

ieegmd ~rjbi g xli fjx gf~jrx`mx- Ljtiqir% ` ti l`qi iim% xli fjx  gf~jrx`mx ~`rx j 

bjymieegmd g oygehgmd xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ oixtiim begimx mh bjymieejr mh imyr&

gmd xl`x xli begimx iie li`rh gm xirf j lg*lir iiegmd `mh i|~irgimbi-

Gm ~rjoeif jeqgmd% xli bjymieejr g firiew ` dyghi% ei`qgmd xli ri~jmgogegxw jr hibggjm

f`cgmd xj xli begimx- @ ixlgb`e bjymieejr ti ri~ibx jyr begimx‗ hgdmgxw gm f`cgmd xligr jtm 

bljgbi-

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@ bjymieejr% ti dyghi begimx ow lie~gmd xlif ejjc `x q`rgjy j~xgjm jr jeyxgjm xj xligr

~rjoeif- Ti `ej `gx begimx xj f`ci ` ~e`m% ow lie~gmd xlif tigdl y~ xli ~rj `mh bjm

j xli j~xgjm- Rjeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm f`w ej gx begimx gm xlgmcgmd ojyx xligr ~rjo&

eif hgirimxew-

F`gm cgee yih; jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjmgmd% ~rjoeif&jeqgmd fjhie

_iqgitgmd

Imhgmd bjymieegmd ,`xir xli rx igjm jr `x xirfgm`xgjm' gmqjeqi riqgitgmd tliri xli

bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ l` ri`blih% `mh `bcmjteihdgmd xli hgirimx dj`e xl`x l`qi oiimri`egih riyex j xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~-

_iqgitgmd dgqi ojxl bjymieejr mh begimx imi j bejyri- Tlim riqgitgmd% gx g gf~jrx`mx

xj hi`e tgxl xli begimx‗ iiegmd j imhgmd bjymieegmd-

F`gm cgee yih; yff`rggmd

Begimx‗ i|xirm`e y~~jrx xrybxyri@ begimx‗ i|xirm`e y~~jrx xrybxyri% ybl ` `fgew% rgimh% riegdgjy ei`hir `mh bjffymgxw

fifoir% ljyeh `ej oi `bcmjteihdih gm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi- Begimx ljyeh oi im&

bjyr`dih xj yi xligr y~~jrx wxif gm lie~gmd xlif tgxl xligr ~rjoeif-

^rjoeif yy`eew jbbyr gm gmxir`bxgjm tgxl jxlir `mh xlirijri xli iibxgqi bjymieejr hji

mjx kyx jby jm xli gmhgqghy`e% oyx r`xlir jm xli gmhgqghy`e tgxlgm ` jbg`e wxif-

 XG^R JM XJJER

 Xli q`rgjy cgee gm xlg fjhie bjf~rgi xli xjje j bjymieegmd-

Gx g gf~jrx`mx xj mjxi xl`x cgee yih rjf xli oidgmmgmd j xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi

`ri yih xlrjydljyx% `mh y~ xj xli imh j xli bjymieegmd gmxir`bxgjm-

 Xli fjx iibxgqi bjymieejr g xli ~irjm tlj mjx jmew l` f`mw xjje% oyx cmjt tlgbl

xjje tgee oix lie~ ` begimx `x hgirimx xgfi gm xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi-

Rjfixgfi ti miih jfijmi xj ymhirx`mh ljt ti `ri i|~irgimbgmd jyr tjreh% jr xj lie~

y rijeqi ` ~rjoeif ‒ `mh jfixgfi ti kyx miih jfijmi xj oi xliri!

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 @bxgqgxw ?-1

Hgaairimbi oixtiim oigmd ` bjymieejr `mh ` argimh

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj gf`dgmi xl`x ` rgimh xiee xlif xl`x xligr ~`rxmir g bli`x&0-

gmd jm xlif `mh xliw hj mjx cmjt tl`x xj hj-

Mjt `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj gf`dgmi xl`x `m gmhgqghy`e% tlj xliw hj mjx cmjt% l`?-

bjfi xj iic lie~ rjf xlif ` ` bjymieejr% oib`yi xligr ~`rxmir g bli`xgmd

jm xlif-

Gm f`ee drjy~% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj hgby tl`x tjyeh oi hgirimx gm ljt xliw2-

tjyeh l`mhei xli xtj gxy`xgjm- Tl`x tjyeh xliw `w: Tl`x tjyeh xliw hj:

Ljt tjyeh xliw iie:

Gm e`rdi drjy~% imbjyr`di iiho`bc `mh rigxir`xi ~rjigjm`e `mh ixlgb`e oi&8-

l`qgjyr j ` bjymieejr-

Rf`ee drjy~ hgbygjm

 

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j ~rjigjm`e mh

ixlgb`e oil`qgjyr j `e`w&bjymieejr-

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗

f`xirg`e

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== 028

 @bxgqgxw ?-4

Rxi~~gmd xjmi

Ryddixih fixljh;

^`rxgbg~`mx ljyeh bljji 8&9 ciw gf~jrx`mx iqimx jr “xi~~gmd xjmi‗ gm xligr0-

egqi xl`x `ri gdmgb`mx gm orgmdgmd xlif xj xlg ~jgmx ,`mh xj xli tjrclj~'-

 Xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh dgqi i|`f~ei j xligr jtm xi~~gmd xjmi-?-

^`rxgbg~`mx ri xlim ripyixih xj hr`t ~gbxyri hi~gbxgmd xligr xi~~gmd xjmi2-

jm ` ~gibi j oe`mc g~bl`rx ~`~ir-

^`rxgbg~`mx b`m xlim dgqi iiho`bc jm xligr bljim xi~~gmd xjmi xj xli8-

drjy~-

 Xli `bgegx`xjr xlim dgqi gm~yx jm ciw fgeixjmi gm xli lyf`m egi bwbei rjf9-

ogrxl xj hi`xl `mh egmc xlii% tliri `~~rj~rg`xi% xj xli i|~irgimbi j ~`rxgbg&

~`mx-

Rie&`t`rimi% gmhgqghy&

`e i|irbgi

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi gmgdlx gmxj

lg*lir egi fgei&xjmi mh fjxgq`&

xgjm jr oibjfgmd `

bjymieejr-

Drjy~ ymhirx`mhgmdu

`mh bjligjm g oygex-

Ei`rmir hifjm&u

xr`xi o`gb ymhir&

x`mhgmd j x`di j 

lyf`m hiqiej~fimx

rjf blgehljjh xj

jeh `di `mh ciw

bjymieegmd xlifi

jr i`bl x`di-

49 fgmyxi

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Lyf`m Hiqiej~fimx,@h`~xih rjf Bjymieegmd Rcgee jr Hyffgi ow D`ge Iq`m% ~yoeglih ow Kjlm Tgeiw Rjm%

Blgblixir% ?>>4'

Q`rgjy hiqiej~fimx`e xlijrgi ow ~wbljejdgx ybl ` Ariyh% ^g`dix `mh Irgcjm `xxif~x

xj himi mjrf`e `mh `omjrf`e hiqiej~fimx gm ~`rxgbye`r `ri`% ybl ` xli hiqiej~fimx j 

gmxieeibx% i|y`egxw `mh ~irjm`egxw- Lyf`m hiqiej~fimx g ` bjf~ei| xj~gb oyx tl`x b`m oi

`gh `ojyx g xlg;

I`rew i|~irgimbi gm egi b`m l`qi gdmgb`mx iibx jm e`xir hiqiej~fimx oyx mid`&0-

xgqi iibx ri mjx gmiqgx`oei-

_gc `mh ~rjxibxgqi `bxjr% jr i|`f~ei li`exlw jr ymli`exlw bjmmibxgjm xj ` ~rg&?-

f`rw b`ridgqir% b`m l`qi gdmgb`mx gmyimbi jm gmhgqghy`e- Ribyri bjmmibxgjm gm

i`rew egi ,ybl ` ` ejqgmd `mh b`rgmd fjxlir jr `xlir tlj jir bjmgximx ~`rimx&

gmd' `ri egciew xj ei`h xj ~jgxgqi `hyex bjmmibxgjm% djjh ie&ixiif `mh `m `ogegxw

xj hi`e tgxl xri- ^jjr bjmmibxgjm `mh `fgew ~rjoeif ,ybl ` qgjeimbi `mh

`rdyfimx' ri jbg`xih tgxl ~jjr jbg`e hkyxfimx mh ie&ixiif- Blgehrim j 

hi~riih fjxlir jxim i|~irgimbi `hyex hi~rigjm ,xli ifjxgjm`e tgxlhr`t`ej xli fjxlir `ibx xli ie&ixiif gm xli blgeh'- ^iir bjmmibxgjm ‒ jr i|`f~ei

rie`xgjmlg~ tgxl rgimh ‒ b`m oi ~rjxibxgqi g xlii bjmmibxgjm `ri djjh `mh

xriye g xliw `ri o`h-

 Xli `di `mh f`xyrgxw ,~lwgb`e `mh ifjxgjm`e' j ` ~irjm tlim birx`gm iqimx `ri2-

i|~irgimbih gmyimbi ljt li ymhirx`mh `mh g `ibxih ow xli iqimx% gmbeyh&

gmd ljt li riibx jm xlif ` `m `hyex- Ajr i|`f~ei% `hyex tlj i|~irgimbih

xr`yf` gm blgehljjh% ybl ` xli ej j ` ~`rimx jr i|y`e `oyi% jxim bjmxgmyi

xj oe`fi xlifieqi hi~gxi ~jgoew cmjtgmd ,gmxieeibxy`eew' xl`x xliw tiri mjx

ri~jmgoei-

Mid`xgqi i|~irgimbi `mh xligr bjmipyimbi b`m ei`h xj ` bwbei j yrxlir rigm&8-

jrbgmd j mid`xgqi i|~irgimbi- Ajr i|`f~ei% ` blgeh tlj g lw f`w oi oyeegih

jr xi`ih% tlgbl ei`h xj yrxlir tgxlhr`t`e `mh gmbri`ih gje`xgjm- Dr`hy`eew xli

blgeh f`w d`gm bjmhimbi xlrjydl y~~jrxgqi i|~irgimbi- Ljtiqir ` e`xir xr`y&

f`xgb iqimx f`w yrxlir rigmjrbi xli ie oiegi j oigmd hgirimx `mh xl`x “jfi&

xlgmd fyx oi trjmd tgxl fi‗% tlgbl gmyimbi rgimhlg~ `mh ~`rxmir bljgbi gm

mid`xgqi% rigmjrbgmd t`w-

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A`fgew ~`xxirm mh wxif f`w bjmxgmyi xj rigmjrbi xrimdxl mh qyemir`ogegxgi9-gmxj `hyexljjh- @m gmhgqghy`e b`m oi ejbcih gmxj ` rjei jr ~`xxirm j oil`qgjyr% mjx

jmew gm rie`xgjm xj lir jrgdgm`e `fgew oyx `ej gm yoipyimx rie`xgjmlg~- Ajr i|&

`f~ei jfijmi tlj xjjc jm xli rjei j “fihg`xjr‗ gm ` qirw bjmgbxih `fgew f`w

oibjfi ` fihg`xjr gm `hyex rie`xgjmlg~% ~yxxgmd `ghi lir jtm miih jr higri

jr xli jxlir ~irjm-

I|~jyri xj% `mh ybbiye f`m`difimx j% fgmjr xrii hyrgmd blgehljjh `mh1-

`hjeibimbi b`m oygeh bj~gmd xr`xidgi ‒ xlii ybbii xi`bl ~ij~ei xliw b`m

bj~i mh xli bj~gmd xr`xidgi b`m oi xr`mirrih xj hgirimx egi bl`eeimdi-

@hjeibimbi g ` xgfi j ojxl qyemir`ogegxw `mh j~~jrxymgxw oib`yi dri`x ~lwg&4-

b`e `mh ifjxgjm`e bl`mdi x`ci ~e`bi- ^iir rie`xgjmlg~ `mh ~riyri `ri ~`rxgby&

e`rew gmyimxg`e- Fimx`e li`exl ~rjoeif ybl ` blg{j~lrimg` `mh hi~rigjm f`w

ifirdi jr xli rx xgfi gm xlg ~l`i-

 Xli fi`mgmd xl`x `m gmhgqghy`e `xx`bli xj iqimx `mh rie`xgjmlg~ g gf~jrx`mx<-

xj li`exlw ifjxgjm`e `hkyxfimx% j i|~ejr`xgjm j ~`x i|~irgimbi `gf b`m lie~

xli begimx xj f`ci imi j lir lgxjrw- Xlg cgmh j i|~ejr`xgjm ripygri `hq`mbih

bjymieegmd cgee `mh ljyeh jmew oi hjmi ow ` qirw i|~irgimbih bjymieejr gm y&

~irqggjm-

I|~irgimbi `mh gmyimbi rjf blgehljjh b`m oi jrf`xgqi `mh ejmd e`xgmd% oyx7-

`hyex i|~irgimbi bjmxgmyi xj l`~i mh gmyimbi xli ~irjm- Xli egximgmd lie~ir

b`m gx xli begimx xj ri`bl mit mh fjri ~jgxgqi ymhirx`mhgmd j xligr byrrimx

i|~irgimbi-

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Hiqiej~fimx`e Gyi xj Bjmghir gm Bjymieegmd

1&0? wi`r

Blgehrim gm xlg `di drjy~ `ri bjmbirmih tgxl oigmd ribjdmgih% oyw `mh ~rjhybxgqi-

@bbi~x`mbi ow rgimh g ej gf~jrx`mx- Blgehrim ei`rm ljt xj tjrc iibxgqiew gm drjy~%

` tiee ljt xj tjrc bjf~ixgxgqiew- rjoeif gm xlg hiqiej~fimx`e x`di jxim bimxri

jm mjx iiegmd `hipy`xi jr `bbi~xih- ,Mjxi; xlg bjyri hji mjx ipyg~ bjymieejr xj

hi`e tgxl xlg `di drjy~ ‒ ~ibg`e cgee `mh i|xr` xr`gmgmd g miihih xj tjrc tgxl wjymd

~ij~ei-'

 @hjeibimbi

 Xli ~rgf`rw bjmbirm gm xlg hiqiej~fimx`e x`di g `ojyx mhgmd jmi‗ ghimxgxw- @hjei&

bimx `ri bjmbirmih tgxl ljt jxlir qgit xlif% ` tiee ` ljt xliw iie `ojyx xlif&

ieqi- ^rjoeif gm xlg x`di `ri jxim `rjymh rjei bjmygjm% hjyox `ojyx i|y e

ghimxgxw mh gm`ogegxw xj hibghi jm b`riir ~`xl- ,Mjxi; xlg bjyri hji mjx ipyg~ bjym&

ieejr xj hi`e tgxl xlg `di drjy~ ‒ ~ibg`e cgee `mh i|xr` xr`gmgmd g miihih xj tjrc 

tgxl hjeibimx-'

 Wjymd `hyexljjh

Fjx ~ij~ei l`qi jrfih ` imi j ghimxgxw gm `hjeibimbi `mh xly xli mi|x x`c g xj

l`ri xlg ghimxgxw tgxl jfijmi iei- Agmhgmd gmxgf`bw `mh `qjghgmd gje`xgjm g ` bim&

xr`e bjmbirm gm xlg hiqiej~fimx`e x`di-

 @hyexljjh

Gm `hyexljjh% xli bjmbirm g `rjymh ~`gmd jm cmjteihdi xj xli mi|x dimir`xgjm ,gm&beyhgmd jmi‗ blgehrim' `mh ri`blgmd ybbi gm q`rgjy `~ibx j egi- ^rjoeif gm xlg

x`di `ri jxim `rjymh iiegmd xybc jr e`bcgmd gm `blgiqifimx-

Jeh `di

Gm jeh `di% xli f`gm bjmbirm g `ojyx d`gmgmd ` imi j xli fi`mgmd j jmi‗ egi% `mh

ejjcgmd o`bc jm tl`x jmi l` `blgiqih- Xliri g jxim ` i`r j hi`xl `mh ` imi j 

hi~`gr tlim jmi ri`egi xgfi g rymmgmd jyx xj hj xlgmd mh blgiqi dj`e- @ imi j 

`bbi~x`mbi `mh gmxidrgxw g gf~jrx`mx xj f`xir gm xlg egi x`di-

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== 02<

 @bxgqgxw ?-<

Egaioj`x i|irbgi

Ryddixih fixljh;

 Xli ixxgmd jr xlg i|irbgi g gmcgmd lg~ li`hgmd jr ` hiirxih ge`mh- Xgfi g0-

rymmgmd jyx- Gm f`ee drjy~ j xlrii% ~`rxgbg~`mx `ri gmxrybxih xj bljji jyr

~ij~ei ,mj fjri' tlj tgee jbby~w ` q`ey`oei ~e`bi gm xli egioj`x- Xliw l`qi 2>

fgmyxi xj f`ci xligr hibggjm ` ` drjy~-

L`qi xli jeejtgmd trgxxim jm xli g~bl`rx mh hg~e`wih xj xli drjy~;?-

wjyrie u

` riegdgjy LGQ&~jgxgqi wjymd fjxlir `mh lir o`owu

` xriix blgehu

` rixgrih ljfij~`xlgb li`eir gm ` tliiebl`gru

` wjymd @rgb`m f`m tlji ~`rimx ri ti`exlw hg~ejf`xu

` ogi|y`e xyhimx tlj g xlgmcgmd j hrj~~gmd jyx j bjeeidiu

` tlgxi rx&wi`r xyhimx tlj l` hgbjqirih xl`x li g ~ridm`mxu

` djjh&ejjcgmd% l`rh&tjrcgmd% ~j~ye`r f`ei m`e&wi`r xyhimxu

` ~jx&dr`hy`xi fihgb`e xyhimx rii`rblgmd ` byri jr b`mbir-u

Yi xli rif`gmgmd xgfi xj hgby xligr hibggjm- @c i`bl drjy~ xj l`ri xligr2-

jyr “`qih‗ ~`imdir `mh ~rjqghi ` r`xgjm`ei jr xligr hibggjm- @bcmjteihdi

xl`x jmbi ti l`qi gmgdlx gmxj jyr jtm ~irjm`e ~rikyhgbi% ti b`m mh t`w xj

~yx xlif `ghi xj oibjfi fjri dimygmi gm jyr rjei ` ~iir y~~jrxir-

Drjy~ tjrc 

 Xj bri`xi `m `t`ri&u

mi j xli m`xyri

`mh i|gximbi j 

~irjm`e% gmxgxy&xgjm`e mh jbgix`e

~rikyhgbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi m ymhir&

x`mhgmd j y~imh&

gmd kyhdifimx gm `

bjymieegmd bjmxi|x-

1> fgmyxi

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@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Egaioj`x I|irbgi

 Xli ixxgmd jr xlg i|irbgi g gmcgmd lg~ li`hgmd jr ` hiirxih ge`mh- Xgfi g rymmgmd jyx!

Bljji jyr ~ij~ei ,mj fjri' tlj tgee jbby~w ` q`ey`oei ~e`bi gm xli jmew egioj`x;

wjyrie Ø

` riegdgjy LGQ&~jgxgqi wjymd fjxlir `mh lir o`owØ

` ~jjr xriix blgehØ

` rixgrih ljfij~`xlgb li`eir gm tliiebl`grØ

` wjymd @rgb`m f`m tlji ~`rimx ri ti`exlw hg~ejf`xØ

` ogi|y`e xyhimx tlj‗ xlgmcgmd j hrj~~gmd jyx j bjeeidiØ

` tlgxi rx&wi`r xyhimx tlj l` hgbjqirih xl`x li g ~ridm`mxØ

` djjh&ejjcgmd% l`rh&tjrcgmd% ~j~ye`r f`ei m`e&wi`r xyhimxØ

` ~jx&dr`hy`xi fihgb`e xyhimx rii`rblgmd ` byri jr b`mbir-Ø

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2-

8-

Tlim ti rx fiix ~ij~ei% ti f`ci `yxjf`xgb kyhdifimx tgxlgm ` it ibjmh- Rjfi

j xlii kyhdifimx `ri f`hi jm xli o`g j ~rikyhgbi- ^rikyhgbi fi`m xl`x wjy l`qi `

~rihixirfgmih j~gmgjm jr og` xjt`rh jfijmi% o`ih jm wjyr ~`x ei`rmx i|~irgimbi jr

xirijxw~i% i-d- g wjy drit y~ xlgmcgmd xl`x ~ij~ei tgxl x`xxjj ri o`h% wjy fgdlx oi ~riky&

hgbih xjt`rh ` begimx tgxl x`xxjj!

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@ bjymieejr% gx g qirw gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti i|~ejri tl`x ~rikyhgbi i|gx gm jyr jbgixw% bjf&

fymgxw `mh `fgew- Jyr ~irjm`e xirijxw~i bjejyr xli t`w ti ii gmhgqghy`e% jfixgfitgxljyx y oigmd `t`ri- Xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm fgdlx oi lie~ye jr wjy xj ie&riibx jm

wjyr ~jgoei ~rikyhgbi;

Ljt hj G iie `ojyx ~ij~ei tlj `ri ` hgirimx r`bi * byexyri rjf fi:0-

Ljt hj G iie `ojyx ~ij~ei tlj ~r`bxgbi ` hgirimx riegdgjm xj fw jtm:2-

Ljt hj G iie `ojyx ~ij~ei tlj `ri fybl `ojqi * fybl oiejt fw m`mbg`e x`&8-

xy:

G xliri `mw xw~i j ~irjm xl`x f`ci fi iie ymbjfjrx`oei:9-

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 @bxgqgxw ?-7

I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi

Bl`eeimdi H`w 2

Ljfitjrc mh drjy~

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx ~~ewu

xlijrw ei`rmx xj `

b`i xyhw-

^`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjxiu

b`m oi yih jr

iq`ey`xgqi ~yr~ji-

9 fgmyxi

_i`h xli Fjhie j Bjymieegmd mjxi `mh `~~ew xlif xj xli b`i&xyhw-

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ri`h xli bjymieegmd fjhie mjxi d`gm tlim xliw dix ljfi0-

`mh xj `~~ew gx xj xli b`i xyhw j F`ddgi gm xligr bjyri f`my`e-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj i|~ejri xli bjymieegmd ~rjbi xliw tjyeh jeejt `mh xli?-

~jgoei cgee xliw tjyeh yi-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgmd xligr mjxi xjfjrrjt-2-

 Xli jeejtgmd h`w% bjeeibx ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjxi `mh f`rc `mtir `bbjrhgmd xj xli8-

jeejtgmd o`gb brgxirg`-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

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== 08?

B`i Rxyhw & F`ddgiYi xlg B`i Rxyhw jr xli Bl`eeimdi jm H`w 2-

_i`h xli Fjhie j bjymieegmd mjxi mh ~~ew gx xj xli jeejtgmd b`i xyhw- I|~ejri xli bjym&

ieegmd ~rjbi wjy tjyeh dimir`eew jeejt% g wjy tiri xli bjymieejr% `mh ejjc `x xli ~jgoei

bjymieegmd cgee wjy bjyeh yi-

     

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 @bxgqgxw ?-0>

Blibc jyx

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j xligr h`w‗ ~irjm`e0-

i|~irgimbi% i-d- ljt hj G iie% hgh xli h`w iie tjrxltlgei% hj G iie G t` ~ylih

jyx j fw bjfjrx {jmi:

@ej gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx j xli drjy~‗ i|~irgimbi% i-d-?-

hgh xli drjy~ iif xj oi ojmhgmd% t` iqirwjmi ~`rxgbg~`xgmd ipy`eew% tirixliri `mw ximgjm% ljt t` xli drjy~‗ imirdw% tiri xli drjy~ ryei oigmd je&

ejtih:

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew2-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi8-

i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih xjh`w-‖

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi

@ bjffjm drjymhu

g bri`xih fjmdx~`rxgbg~`mx-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

gdmgb`mx `bxjr

jyxghi xli drjy~

xl`x bjyeh gmyimbi

xli drjy~ ~rjbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

xligr xljydlx mh

iiegmd j drjy~&

`mh bjyri&rie`xih

i|~irgimbi-

?9 fgmyxi

Mjmi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== 088

H`w Ajyr; Lie~gmd begimx xiee xligr xjrgi ‒ egximgmd

 @bxgqgxw ?-00

Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j ~riqgjy h`w‗ `mh0-

iqimgmd‗ i|~irgimbi-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew?-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx `ojyx xli bl`eeimdi ‒ xli2- B`i&xyhw  

‒ `mh bjeeibx xligr `mtir liix jr f`rcgmd-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj ` drjy~ i|~irg&8-

imbi% g ~~rj~rg`xi-

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jmxli ~riqgjy iqimgmd

`mh xligr xljydlx

`ojyx xli ~riqgjy

h`w `xir jfi xgfi

l` ~`ih-

^`rxgbg~`mx orgiwu

hgby xli i|~irg&

imbi j hjgmd xli

bl`eeimdi-

2> fgmyxi

Bl`eeimdi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @bxgqgxw ?-0?

Dyigmd mjm&qiro`e aiiegmd

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi xli drjy~ gmxj xtj-0-

Dgqi i`bl fifoir j jmi l`e j xli drjy~ ` ~gibi j ~`~ir% tgxl ` iiegmd tjrh?-

jm gx ‒ ojrih% gmxirixih% `h% `mdrw% gf~`xgimx% l`~~w% ryxr`xih% byrgjy% hg&

xr`bxih% m|gjy% b`ef% ymbjfjrx`oei% xgrih- F`ci yri xl`x gmxirixih mh ojrih

`ri bljim-

@c xli `ojqi drjy~ j “bjymieejr‗ xj gx gm ` rjt `mh xj ~jrxr`w xligr “iiegmd‗2-

mjm&qiro`eew% xlgmcgmd ojyx ojhw e`mdy`di mh iwi bjmx`bx-

 Xli jxlir l`e j xli drjy~ `ri xj `bx egci ~jximxg`e begimx iicgmd ` bjymieejr-8-

 Xliw ljyeh t`ec `rjymh xli rjjf% joirqi mjm&qiro`e oil`qgjyr `mh hibghi

tlgbl “bjymieejr‗ xliw tjyeh t`mx xj ii `mh x`mh ow xl`x ~irjm-

 Xli drjy~ b`m xlim dyi xli mjm&qiro`e iiegmd j i`bl j xli “bjymieejr‗-9-

Gmqgxi bjffimx mh hgbygjm-

Aglojte “bl`r`hi‗

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

ojhw e`mdy`di mh

tl`x xliw b`m ei`rm`ojyx xligr begimx ow

joirqgmd mjm&qiro`e

iiegmd-

2> fgmyxi

Mjmi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== 081

 @bxgqgxw ?-02

 @bxgqi egximgmd

Li`rgmd; xli ~lwgjejdgb`e ~rjbi j jymh oigmd xr`mfgxxih xj xli or`gm-

Egximgmd; ` bjf~ei| ~rjbi j gmxir~rixgmd `mh ymhirx`mhgmd xli fi`mgmd

j tl`x xli ~irjm g `wgmd-

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc ojyx xli e`x xgfi jfijmi xryew0- egximih xj xlif- Dgqi

gm~yx jm bxgqi egximgmd-

Trgxi hjtm xli jeejtgmd ~jjr egximgmd l`ogx jm ` g~bl`rx; de`w&iwih3 rih?-

`d3 j~im i`r&bejih fgmh% mh orgiw i|~e`gm-

Hgqghi xli ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj f`ee drjy~ mh dgqi i`bl drjy~ ~gibi j g~bl`rx2-

~`~ir `mh ~im-

@c xli drjy~ xj xlgmc j `mh kjx hjtm xw~gb`e gxy`xgjm tlim xli `ojqi ~jjr8-

egximgmd l`ogx jbbyr-

@ej% imbjyr`di drjy~ xj xlgmc j t`w xj hi`e tgxl xli ~gx`ee xj egximgmd-9-

 Xlii ljyeh `ej oi trgxxim hjtm-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~ imbjyr`di iiho`bc-1-

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh f`ee

drjy~ hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

xli gf~jrx`mbi j egximgmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx ymhir&u

x`mh xli mid`xgqi

gf~`bx j ~jjr

egximgmd-

1> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @bxgqi Egximgmd

 Xlgmc `ojyx xli e`x xgfi jfijmi ri`eew egximih xj wjy yeew% tgxljyx dgqgmd wjy xligr jtm

j~gmgjm% i|~irgimbi jr `hqgbi- Xlgmc j xli e`x xgfi wjy ri`eew iex xl`x jfijmi t` dgq&

gmd wjy xligr yee `xximxgjm- Gx hjim‗x l`~~im jxim xl`x ~ij~ei `ri ri`eew dgqim xli bl`mbi xj

x`ec xj jfijmi tlj g yeew egximgmd xj xlif% i|bi~x gm m iibxgqi bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~-

Djjh egximgmd g xli bjrmirxjmi j iibxgqi bjymieegmd- Tgxljyx gx% jxlir bjymieegmd cgee

tjyeh oi yiei mh y~irbg`e- @bxgqi egximgmd gmqjeqi egximgmd;

Egximgmd g ` hgbyex cgee% tlgbl ripygri ` ejx j hgbg~egmi `mh ie&bjmxrje- Gx gmqjeqi cii~&

gmd jmi‗ jtm miih `ghi `mh ~`wgmd `xximxgjm xj `mjxlir‗ miih- Xli jeejtgmd `ri bjf&

fjm ~jjr egximgmd l`ogx xl`x ti miih xj oi `t`ri j;

De`w&iwih egximgmd

 Xlg l`~~im tlim ti ejjc `x xli ~irjm% mh ti iif xj oi egximgmd% `exljydl ti ri

xlgmcgmd j jxlir xlgmd- Ti dix “de`w&iwih‗ `mh jxim ` hri`fw i|~rigjm `~~i`r jm

jyr `bi- Xlg jxim l`~~im tlim ti‗ri xgrih jr ~rijbby~gih tgxl jxlir xlgmd-

_ih&`d egximgmd

 Xlg jbbyr tlim ti li`r ` tjrh xl`x f`ci y iie ymbjfjrx`oei jr `mdrw% `mh ti

xj~ egximgmd% i-d- tjrh ybl `; `ojrxgjm% R`x`mgx% i|% ixb- @ bjymieejr% gx g gf~jr&

x`mx xl`x ti `ri `t`ri j jyr “rih&`d‗ tjrh% j ti b`m jqirbjfi xlg egximgmd o`rrgir

gm bjymieegmd-

J~im&i`r% bejih&fgmh

 Xlg l`~~im tlim ti hibghi xl`x xli ~i`cir g ojrgmd jr xl`x xli yokibx f`ci mj

imi% `mh xl`x gx g mjx tjrxl egximgmd xj xlif- @ej% ti jfixgfi xlgmc ti b`m ~ri&

hgbx tl`x xli ~irjm g djgmd xj `w mi|x% j ti beji jyr fgmh xj yrxlir egximgmd-

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 @bxgqgxw ?-08

Oejbc xj egximgmd

 Xliri g ` hgirimbi oixtiim dgqgmd `hqgbi `mh dgqgmd gmjrf`xgjm-

Tlim ` begimx f`ci ` bei`r ripyix jr gmjrf`xgjm% gx g mi xj dgqi gx-

Gm LGQ jr xr`yf` bjymieegmd jr gmx`mbi% gmjrf`xgjm dgqgmd g mibi`rw!

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% dgqi gm~yx jm i`bl j xli oejbc xj egximgmd-0-

Ori`c xli drjy~ gmxj 4 f`eeir drjy~ `mh `gdm i`bl drjy~ jmi j xli oejbc-?-

Gmqgxi i`bl drjy~ xj xlgmc j ` ~irjm gm xligr egqi tlj l` ljtm xlg xwei j 2-

“mjm&egximgmd‗ `mh tl`x xli gf~`bx jm xlif t`-

Gmqgxi l`rgmd gm xli e`rdir drjy~ `mh x`ci iiho`bc jm i`bl oejbc xj egximgmd-8-

Hgby xli ~jgoei gf~`bx j xlii xwei gm bjymieegmd-9-

Imbjyr`di hgbygjm jm xli q`rgjy jox`bei xj egximgmd-1-

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh l

ojte rjei&~e`w

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

xli gf~jrx`mbi j egximgmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx ymhir&u

x`mh xli mid`xgqi

gf~`bx j ~jjr

egximgmd-

89 fgmyxi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

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Oejbc xj egximgmd

@f`xiyr ~wbljejdgx; Pyixgjm% m`ewi mh hg`dmji- R`w xlgmd egci;

Tl`x `ri xli blgehljjh b`yi j xlii ~rjoeif:Ø

Wjy l`qi xj jqirbjfi wjyr gyi tgxl wjyr fjxlir---Ø

Gx bei`rew jymh egci wjy `ri l`qgmd ~`mgb `xx`bc-Ø

Bjff`mhir&gm&blgi; Jrhir xli ~irjm xj dix rgh j xli mid`xgqi iiegmd- Xli “jrhir‗

f`w oi dgqim ~jegxiew% oyx xli xjmi bjmqiw tl`x xli ~irjm fyx hj- R`w xlgmd egci;

Wjy miih xj xj~ iiegmd xl`x t`w-Ø

Gx hjim‗x lie~ xj oi `h `ojyx gx-Ø

Wjy l`qi xj rie`| jr wjy `ri djgmd xj oyrm jyx-Ø

Bjmjeir; Hjim‗x ri`eew t`mx xj dix gmqjeqih% xly egdlxew hgfgi xli ~irjm‗ iiegmd jr

dimir`egi- Oiegiqi ` ~`x jm xli o`bc% jfi ri`yr`mbi jr ` by~ j xi` tgee x`ci b`ri

j xlgmd- R`w xlgmd egci;

Hjm‗x tjrrw- Gx‗ djgmd xj oi JC-Ø

Jmbi wjy xlgmc gx jqir wjy‗ee cmjt tl`x xj hj-Ø

Fjx xiim`dir l`qi xl`x ~rjoeif-Ø

Brgxgb; L` xj oi rgdlx- Yi rghgbyei% m`fi&b`eegmd% `rb`f `mh kjci- R`w xlgmd egci;

Gx jymh egci wjy `ri ` m`ddgmd tgi-Ø

Rli b`m‗x oi xl`x o`h-Ø

Wjy tiri ryhi% j tl`x hgh wjy i|~ibx:Ø

Kyhdi; Iq`ey`xi mh ~`i kyhdfimx jm ~ij~ei‗ iiegmd- Xliw ri gmxirixih gm ~rjq&

gmd xlifieqi rgdlx `mh xli jxlir ~irjm trjmd- R`w xlgmd egci;

G `drii tgxl ,`~~rjqi j:' tl`x wjy l`qi hjmi-Ø

Wjy fyx dj ljfi `mh xiee wjyr `fgew wjy `ri ~ridm`mx-Ø

Hj wjy ii xl`x gx t` wjyr `yex jr dixxgmd `mdrw:Ø

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Cmjt&gx&`ee; L` `ee xli `mtir- Eibxyri% `hqgi% ri`jm% `~~i`e xj ejdgb `mh dimir`eew`bx y~irgjr- R`w xlgmd egci;

 Xlgmc `ojyx gx jr fgmyxi% tlw hgh wjy l`qi xj hj xl`x:Ø

Yi wjyr li`h-Ø

Tlim G l`h xlg ~rjoeif% G hgh---Ø

Fjr`egx; Xiee xli y~ix ~irjm tl`x li jr li ljyeh jr ljyeh mjx iie `mh hj- R`w

xlgmd egci;

@ ` Blrgxg`m% wjy ljyehm‗x xlgmc `ojyx hgqjrbi-Ø

 Xl`x‗ mjx xli rgdlx t`w xj l`mhei gx-Ø

Wjy ljyehm‗x iie o`h `ojyx xlg-Ø

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Tl`x xj egxim ajr

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== 09?

 @bxgqgxw ?-09

Ygmd geimbi iaaibxgqiew

 Xjj egxxei geimbi dgqi xjj egxxei ~`bi jr xli begimx xj xlgmc- Oyx xjj ejmd `

geimbi fgdlx f`ci xli ~irjm iie qirw i~`r`xi rjf xli bjymieejr jr qirw

ie&bjmbgjy-

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c jmi j xli ~`rxgbg~`mx xj qjeymxiir xj oi bjymieejr gm l ojte rjei&~e`w0-tliri xliw tgee hifjmxr`xi djjh `xximhgmd cgee- Xli `bgegx`xjr tgee oi xli beg&

imx-

@xir oidgmmgmd xli igjm% x`ri geimxew gm xli hgx`mbi `mh xlim oidgm xj brw?-

jr ` tlgei ,jr ejjc qirw `h'% `mh xlim imh xli rjei&~e`w-

@c xli bjymieejr `mh joirqir jr iiho`bc-2-

Lgdlegdlx xli yi j geimbi gm `eejtgmd xli begimx ~`bi xj ribjeeibx lg*lir8-

xljydlx mh rid`gm bjf~jyri% i~ibg`eew tlim begimx ri brwgmd jr xlgmcgmd-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ~r`bxgi xlg cgee gm ~`grih rjei&~e`w-9-

Rie&`t`rimi bxgqgxw

`mh ~`grih rjei&~e`w

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

xli gf~jrx`mbi j egximgmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx ymhir&u

x`mh xli mid`xgqi

gf~`bx j ~jjr

egximgmd-

89 fgmyxi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

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Rgeimbi Gm Bjymieegmd

―Xryi geimbi g xli rix j xli fgmh3 gx g xj xli ~grgx tl`x eii~ g xj xli ojhw%

mjyrglfimx `mh ririlfimx-‖ 

Tgeeg`f imm

Oigmd geimx gm `m gmxir`bxgjm g jxim ymbjfjrx`oei `mh `qjghih- ^ij~ei `ri xif~xih

xj ee xli d`~ gm ` bjmqir`xgjm- Ljtiqir% gm bjymieegmd% gxxgmd tgxl ` ~irjm gm geimbi

jxim bjffymgb`xi hii~% if~`xlgb ymhirx`mhgmd-

Begimx `ri imbjyr`dih xj i|~ejri iiegmd gm bjymieegmd `mh jxim brwgmd% ljyxgmd

jr ejjcgmd `t`w `ri t`w gm tlgbl xlii iiegmd `ri i|~riih- Xli bjymieejr ljyeh

ri~ibx `mh `eejt jr rii i|~rigjm j iiegmd% ow dgqgmd xli begimx ~`bi `mh `~~rj&

~rg`xiew riibxgmd iiegmd-

 Xlrjydl ~r`bxgbi% ` bjymieejr tgee ei`rm xli hgirimbi oixtiim ` “xybc geimbi‗ `mh `

“riibxgqi geimbi‗- G wjy `ri ymyri `ojyx xli geimbi% gx g JC xj `c xli ~irjm xj be`rgw-

Jxlirtgi% ri~ibx xli geimbi `mh x`w tgxl gx

Rgeimbi b`m oi hgbyex% oib`yi ti `ri mjx yih xj gx- @ xg~ g xj x`w tgxl xli geimbi jr

` ejmd ` wjy `ri bjfjrx`oei% `mh xlim ejtew bjymx xj ?>-

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 @bxgqgxw ?-01

Bj~gmd cgee

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc `ojyx jmi j xli jeejtgmd irgjy egi bl`eeimdi;0-

hgqjrbi j ~`rimx% hgbyex li`exl ~rjoeif jr rikibxgjm gm ` rie`xgjmlg~-

 Xlim xliw ljyeh `mtir xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm;?-

Tl`x tjyeh xliw hj:u

Tlj tjyeh xliw xyrm xj:u

Ljt tjyeh xliw bj~i:u

 Xlim gmqgxi xlif xj l`ri gm ~`gr-2-

 Xlim gmqgxi hgbygjm gm ~eim`rw ‒ jby jm xli hgirimx bj~gmd xr`xidgi xliw8-

tjyeh `hj~x `mh ljt yiye xlii bjyeh oi-

Gmqgxi xli drjy~ xj orgiw hgby xli rjei j bj~gmd xr`xidgi `mh rigegimbi gm9-

bjymieegmd-

Rie&riibxgjm mh drjy~

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx i|~ejriu

xligr jtm bj~gmd

xr`xidgi mh xwei-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mh&

gmd j xli q`eyi j 

iegbgxgmd bj~gmd cgee

gm begimx-

Drjy~ ymhirx`mhgmdu

`mh bjligjm g oygex-

1> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Tl`x `ri bj~gmd cgee:Arjf ttt-`ojyx-bjf `mh ttt-oob-bj-yc  

Iqirwjmi bj~i% oyx jfi t`w ri oixxir xl`m jxlir- Ejjcgmd x ljt ti bj~i% mh tl`x ti

t`mx xli jyxbjfi xj oi `ri gf~jrx`mx xi~ xj gf~rjqgmd jqir`ee ymbxgjmgmd- Bj~gmd cgee

`ri `ogegxgi jr x`eimx if~ejwih xj iibxgqiew ri~jmh xj gyi xl`x riyex gm hg`hq`mx`di

jr hqirgxw- Bj~gmd cgee ri ~~egih iqirwh`w% jfi tgxl bjmbgjy xljydlx% jfi tgxljyx-

Bj~gmd g ` ri~jmi xj ~lwgb`e% bjdmgxgqi% `mh ~wbljejdgb`e xrijr- G jmi‗ bj~gmd cgee

`ri mjx `oei xj iibxgqiew `hhri xli xrijr% xliri b`m oi `m gmbri`i gm gf~`grih ymbxgjm&

gmd- Rjfi bj~gmd cgee `ri bei`rew ~jgxgqi% jfi `ri mjx j xr`gdlxjrt`rh- Rjfi bj~gmd

xiblmgpyi b`m oi ~rjoeif`xgb mh tjrim xli xri jr iqim b`yi l`rf- Rjfi bj~gmd xibl&

mgpyi ri mjx ~rjoeif`xgb gm fjhir`xgjm% oyx g hjmi xjj jxim oibjfi l`rfye-

^wbljejdgb`e xrijr

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ygmd ~jgxgqi ie&x`ec % wjy b`m x`rx xj li`r tjrh j imbjyr`difimx mh y~~jrx- Wjy

tgee oi yr~rgih `x ljt hgirimx xl`x iie- Xrw xlg tgxl hii~ ori`xlgmd `mh ii ljt

fybl oixxir wjy iie-

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gmd xj egxim `mh y~~jrx wjy- Oi `t`ri j tlj wjyr rgimh `ri- Ryrrjymh wjyrie tgxl

b`rgmd y~~jrxgqi ~ij~ei tlj ri pygbc xj kyf~ xj wjyr hiimbi mh t`mx xj ~rjxibx wjy

rjf lyrx ‒ mjx ~ij~ei tlj ximh xj ~yx wjy jm xli ~jx jr f`ci wjy iie hiimgqi-

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oyx `ej jr xli fgmh- Xliri g `f~ei rii`rbl xj yddix xl`x birx`gm jjh gf~rjqi

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iqimx tlgbl d`qi xlif fybl ~ei`yri-

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`m gmbghimx% gxy`xgjm jr iqimx tlgbl xliw i|~irgimbih ` qirw gf~jrx`mx `mh

fi`mgmdye-

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trgxi xligr m`fi jm xli ~`~ir-

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iiegmd `mh trgxi xlif jm xli ~`~ir-

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gmd xliw ghimxgih-

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Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi

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ieegmd-

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Oil`qgjyr bl`mdi ‒ ` gf~ei fjhieI|~irgimbi l` x`ydlx y xl`x kyx dgqgmd ~ij~ei gmjrf`xgjm `ojyx ` xj~gb g mjx imjydl xj

bl`mdi ~ij~ei‗ oil`qgjyr- @ bjymieejr ti miih xj ymhirx`mh xl`x oil`qgjyr bl`mdi%

dgqim gx ymh`fimx`e `mh ~rgq`xi m`xyri% g ~irl`~ jmi j xli fjx bjf~ei| f`xxir-

Tlim ti xlgmc ojyx xrwgmd xj lie~ ~ij~ei bl`mdi xligr oil`qgjyr% ti miih xj bjmghir xli

jeejtgmd pyixgjm;

Cmjteihdi;Ø Tl`x cmjteihdi hj xliw l`qi `ojyx xli oil`qgjyr xliw

t`mx xj bl`mdi:

Fjxgq`xgjm;Ø Tl`x fjxgq`xgjm hj xliw miih xj `bx jm xlg cmjte&

ihdi:

Rcgee;Ø Tl`x cgee hj xliw l`qi jr miih xj l`qi xj ~yx xlg fjxg&

q`xgjm gmxj ~r`bxgbi:

Fjhie;Ø Hj xliw l`qi `mw fjhie j oil`qgjyr bl`mdi:

If~jtirfimx;Ø Hj xliw iie xliw b`m b`rrw jyx xli bl`mdi ripygrih: Hj

xliw iie if~jtirih xj f`ci xli bl`mdi:

O`rrgir;Ø Tl`x `ri xli o`rrgir `mh bjx xj ybl ` bl`mdi: Tl`x

`ri xli gmbimxgqi:

Rjbg`e bjmxi|x;Ø Tl`x rjei hji xli jbg`e * byexyr`e `mh ibjmjfgb bjm&

xi|x ~e`w gm gmlgogxgmd jr ~rjfjxgmd oil`qgjyr bl`mdi:

Tl`x jbg`e bl`mdi g ripygrih xj orgmd `ojyx gmhgqghy`e

bl`mdi:

^e`mØ Tl`x xi~ `ri mibi`rw xj orgmd `ojyx xli bl`mdi `mh

ljt tgee xli begimx ix `ojyx x`cgmd xli rx xi~,':

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Ryddixih fixljh;

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gmxj ` l`x-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ~gbc ` b`rh% tgxljyx ljtgmd xli jxlir-?-

@c xlif xj xlgmc j ` xgfi tlim xliw iex xlg ifjxgjm-2-

Gm f`ee drjy~ j xlrii% `c xlif xj hgby ljt xliw iex% ljt xliw ri~jmhih8-

~lwgb`eew% `mh tl`x xliw iex egci hjgmd tgxljyx xieegmd xli drjy~ tl`x ifjxgjm

xliw tiri iiegmd- Xli jxlir ~`rxgbg~`mx fyx xrw `mh dyi xli ifjxgjm `bby&

r`xiew% o`ih jm xli iiho`bc-

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`ojyx iiegmd gm xlg i|irbgi-

I|~irgimxg`e `bxgqgxw `mh

drjy~ hgbygjm

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i|~rigjm j iiegmd

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`mh l`x jr oj|

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Ifjxgjm b`rh

 Xlgmc j xgfi tlim wjy iex xlg ifjxgjm- Tl`x hgh wjy iie gm wjyr ojhw: Tl`x tiri `ee xli

hgirimx iiegmd xl`x wjy l`h: Tl`x hgh wjy iie egci hjgmd: Tl`x l`~~imih:

Dygexw I|bgxih Rxriih

@bbi~xih Ejmiew Hg`~~jgmxih

Rljbcih @mdrw Ojrih

Aryxr`xih ^rjyh Ki`ejy

@m|gjy Bjmyih _iegiqih

      

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Aiiegmd rx

@ bjymieejr% ti ljyehm‗x ~yl jyr begimx xj i|~ri xligr iiegmd- Rxrjmd

ifjxgjm ri b`rw jr f`mw ~ij~ei mh i|~rigmd xlif b`m f`ci jfi ~ij&

~ei iie jyx j bjmxrje- _ififoir xl`x bjymieejr ljyeh jeejt begimx x xligr

jtm ~`bi-

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% i|~ejri xli q`eyi j iiegmd tjrc `mh imbjyr`di hgbygjm0-

`rjymh xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm;

Tlw g x`ecgmd `ojyx iiegmd gf~jrx`mx gm jyr egqi:u

Hj `ee ~ij~ei mh gx i`w xj x`ec `ojyx iiegmd `mh g j% tlw:u

Tlw hj ti miih xj x`ec `ojyx iiegmd gm bjymieegmd:u

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~im-

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xlif gmxj xligr ljfi e`mdy`di ,g gx g ` e`mdy`di bjffjmew ~jcim gm Rjyxl

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Tlim xli drjy~ l`qi mglih% xgbc ee xligr g~bl`rx ~`~ir jm xli t`ee gm rjmx8-

j xli be` jr yxyri riirimbi-

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gmd tjrc gm oygehgmd m if~`xlgb rie`xgjmlg~-

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh

hgbygjm

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xli gf~jrx`mbi j 

tjrcgmd tgxl iiegmdgm bjymieegmd-

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j xli hgbyexgi

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fymgxgi mh byexyri

l`qi tgxl ghimxgw&

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xligr jtm xjjecgx j 

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Gmhgqghy`e trgxxim `bxgqgxw

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

xli gf~jrx`mbi j 

if~`xlgb ri~jmh&gmd cgee `mh ljt

xj `~~ew xlif gm `

bjymieegmd bjmxi|x-

89 fgmyxi

Mjmi

_iibxgjm j bjmximx; xli `bx j tl`x xli begimx g `wgmd `ri riibxih ygmd `

xiblmgpyi b`eeih ~`r`~lr`gmd-

^`r`~lr`i; ljrx% bei`r ri~jmi gm tlgbl bjymieejr x`xi xli iimxg`e ~jgmx

j xli begimx‗ x`xifimx gm xli bjymieejr jtm tjrh-

_iibxgjm j iiegmd; ow bbyr`xiew riibxgmd xli iiegmd% tlgbl ~irjm g i|~i&

rgimbgmd% ti ~rjqghi ` hii~ir ymhirx`mhgmd j ljt `m iqimx l` `ibxih lgf* lir- Xlg bri`xi hii~ir xryx `mh iml`mbi r`~~jrx -

Bjffjm if~`xlgb ~lr`i3

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G tjyeh dyi wjy‗ri iiegmd‡

Gx jymh egci wjy iie‡

Ryddixih fixljh;

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riibxgmd cgee tgee oi ~r`bxgih dr`hy`eew jqir xli Fjhyei- _ifgmh ~`rxgbg~`mx

xl`x xlii cgee miih bjmx`mx `mh jmdjgmd ~r`bxgbi-

_iir ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xli?- _iibxgjm j iiegmd i|irbgi gm xligr tjrcojjc ,mjxgmd

xl`x jfi j xli fjri `hq`mbih cgee ybl ` hii~ir if~`xlw `mh tjrcgmd

tgxl ~rjbi tgee oi bjqirih gm fjri hix`ge gm Fjhyei 2 ‒ jr i|`f~ei% tlgei `

bjymieejr f`w riibx ~rjbi i`rew gm ` bjymieegmd igjm% xlg g `m `hq`mbih

cgee `mh j gx tgee jmew oi x`ydlx gm ` e`xir Fjhyei'-

@c i`bl ~irjm xj ri`h xlrjydl i`bl ~`r`dr`~l mh xj trgxi hjtm gm xli ~`bi2-

~rjqghih ` riibxgjm j xli bjmximx% `mh `m `bbyr`xi riibxgjm j iiegmd-

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@bx gq g xw

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ymx`oei% hi~ir`xi% jyx j 

bjmxrje% oyrhimih% i|l`yxih

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xr`wih% bli`xih% jyxb`x hi&

bigqih% ejmiew% eix&jyx% gje`xih%

lj~iei% rikibxih% tgxlhr`tm%

hgbjyr`dih

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 @ aiiegmd qjb`oye`rw

_iibxgjm

Tlim jfiojhw x`ci xli xgfi xj xiee y xligr xjrw% gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x ti ri~jmh gm ` t`w

tlgbl ri~ibx tl`x xliw l`qi `gh `mh ljt xlif ti l`qi dr`~ih tl`x xliw `ri xrwgmd

xj `w- _iibxgmd cgee ri xlji cgee tlgbl eejt xli bjymieejr xj ri~jmh hgribxew xj tl`x

begimx l` `gh xj x`ci xli bjmqir`xgjm yrxlir gm yiye hgribxgjm- Xliw ej ljt xli bjym&

ieejr l` oiim egximgmd jr% g xli ri~jmi fgi xli f`rc% dgqi ~irfggjm xj xli begimx xj

~yx xli bjymieejr o`bc jm xr`bc- Gx g `et`w gf~jrx`mx xj oidgm ` ri~jmi tgxl ` py`egir

ybl ` ―Gx iif xj fi ‡‖ jr ―Gx `~~i`r xl`x ‡‖ `mh xj yi ` xjmi j qjgbi tlgbl bjmqiw

ximx`xgqimi- Xlg g mjx oib`yi xli bjymieejr tgli xj `~~i`r ymbirx`gm oyx xj ljt ri&

~ibx jr xli begimx‗ rgdlx xj oi xli m`e kyhdi j xli “xryxl‗ j xligr yxxir`mbi% xljydlx `mh

iiegmd-

Ciw riibxgmd ri~jmi

I`bl xiblmgpyi tgee oi geeyxr`xih ygmd xli jeejtgmd begimx x`xifimx;

―Rj mjt fw ~`rxmir l` eix% `mh G‗f `ejmi xj hi`e tgxl xli ogd ljyi `mh `ee 

xli bljri- Li lie~ih fi ` ejx- G hjm‗x cmjt g G‗f djgmd xj bj~i mjt-‖ 

_iibxgjm ja bjmximx

 Xli `bx j tl`x xli begimx g `wgmd ri riibxih ygmd xiblmgpyi b`eeih ~`r`~lr`gmd- `r`&

~lr`i `ri ljrx% bei`r ri~jmi gm tlgbl bjymieejr x`xi xli iimxg`e ~jgmx j xli begimx‗

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tjrh jr tjrh tl`x xli begimx l` `gh% oyx r`xlir xli bjymieejr yi lg*lir jtm tjrh xj

rix`xi xli f`gm ~jgmx j xli begimx‗ x`xifimx-

@m i|`f~ei;

―Rj wjy‗ri `wgmd xl`x mjt xl`x wjyr ~`rxmir l` djmi% wjy‗ee l`qi xj x`ci jm

fjri x`c% `mh wjy‗ri mjx yri wjy b`m f`m`di-‖ 

_iibxgjm ja aiiegmd

Ow `bbyr`xiew riibxgmd xli iiegmd tlgbl ` ~irjm g i|~irgimbgmd ti ~rjqghi ` hii~ir ym&

hirx`mhgmd j ljt `m iqimx l` `ibxih xli ~irjm `mh bjmmibx tgxl xli begimx `x `m ifj&

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begimx g iiegmd- Ygmd fix`~ljr b`m oi yiye gm xlii gmx`mbi i-d- ―Wjyr li`rx iie jri‖ 

gmxi`h j ―Wjy iie hi~riih‖-

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―Gx jymh egci wjy‗ri iiegmd tjrrgih `mh jqirtliefih‖- ,Tgxl xlg ri~jmi%

ti ri xgee gm xli begimx‗ r`fi j riirimbi% mh xli begimx x`w jbyih jm lg* 

lir iiegmd mh i|~irgimbi-'-

G xli bjymieejr g mjx pygxi yri tl`x xli begimx g iiegmd li jr li b`m `c xli begimx ` iie&

gmd pyixgjm ,―Ljt hji gx iie mjt xl`x wjy‗qi l`h xj x`ci jm `ee j xlg jm wjyr jtm:‖ '- Mjxi xl`x

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jrfye`gb t`w xlg b`m gffjogegi xli begimx% `mh bl`mdi xli begimx rjf oigmd gm ` ―iiegmd

fjhi‖ xj ` ―xlgmcgmd fjhi‖% g-i- gmxi`h j iiegmd ymhirxjjh% xli begimx g xrwgmd xj tjrc jyx

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if~`xlw oib`yi gx x`rx xj orgmd hi~xl% fi`mgmd `mh xi|xyri xj xli bjymieegmd imbjym&

xir- Ow `jbg`xgmd xli iiegmd tgxl ` gxy`xgjm jr iqimx xli bjymieejr g lie~gmd xj xgi y~

xli xlri`h j xli bjmqir`xgjm `mh xj lie~ xli begimx ii tlw% gm ` birx`gm gxy`xgjm% xliwri~jmhih gm ` birx`gm t`w- Rjfixgfi g xli begimx l` `eri`hw ghimxgih ` ~`rxgbye`r iiegmd%

xli bjymieejr b`m i|~`mh `mh i|~ejri xl`x iiegmd ow `cgmd xli begimx xj `w fjri `ojyx

xli iiegmd jr xj hibrgoi gx gf~`bx- @ bjymieejr b`m `ej gf~ew ri~i`x xli iiegmd tjrh gm

ximx`xgqi `mh pyixgjmgmd t`w% imbjyr`dgmd xli begimx xj dj hii~ir `mh yrxlir-

@m i|`f~ei; 

―G G‗qi li`rh bjrribxew% wjy‗ri `wgmd xl`x wjy iie b`rih mh jqirtliefih% oi&

b`yi gx iif ` g wjyr ~`rxmir l` eix wjy xj bj~i jm wjyr jtm-‖ 

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―Rj wjyr ~`rxmir‗ hi~`rxyri l` r`gih ejx j iiegmd gm wjy; ~irl`~ m|gixw%

i`r% `mdir ‡‖ 

Ojxl xlii ri~jmi `eejt xli begimx xj bjmrf jr hgbjmrf tl`x xli bjymieejr g `wgmd-

_iibxgjm ja ~rjbi;

Rjfixgfi ti riibx xli begimx‗ iiegmd rie`xih xj bjymieegmd gxie jr xjt`rh xli bjymie&

ejr- Xlg g b`eeih riibxgjm j ~rjbi ,jr gffihg`bw'

@m i|`f~ei;

―Wjy iie ifo`rr`ih x`ecgmd xj fi ojyx ~irjm`e xlgmd‖% jr ―Tlim wjy `gh 

 wjyr ~`rxmir l`h eix wjy G mjxgbih xi`r b`fi gmxj wjyr iwi ‒ xlg iie qirw 

`h jr wjy-‖ 

Rj gffihg`bw cgee b`m riibx jm xli rie`xgjmlg~ oixtiim xli bjymieejr `mh begimx ,jr xli

“~rjbi‗ j tl`x g l`~~imgmd oixtiim xlif'- G% jr i|`f~ei% xli bjymieejr `c xli beg&

imx ` pyixgjm `ojyx lir rie`xgjmlg~ tgxl lir ~`rxmir ,―Ljt `ri xlgmd oixtiim wjy `mh wjyr 

 ~`rxmir:‖ ' `mh xli begimx oibjfi qirw `mdrw% xli bjymieejr f`w miih xj `hhri xli begimx‗

ri~jmi jjm ~jgoei- Xli bjymieejr bjyeh ri~jmh gm myfoir j hgirimx t`w;

―Ry`m G mjxgbih wjy djx `mdrw jr `m|gjy tlim G `cih wjy `ojyx wjyr ~`rx&

mir% tl`x t` djgmd jm jr wjy gm xl`x fjfimx:‖ 

―Ry`m xl`x iifih xj oi `m `tct`rh fjfimx oixtiim wjy `mh fi xliri%

 ~irl`~ ti ljyeh x`ec `ojyx gx:‖ 

―Ry`m gx iifih wjy djx qirw `mdrw jr `m|gjy xlim- Bjyeh wjy xiee fi tl`x 

`mdirih wjy jr f`hi wjy `m|gjy:‖ 

Ry`m‗ `mdrw ri~jmi fgdlx l`qi oiim oib`yi li iex lyfgeg`xih `ojyx lir xrjyoeih

rie`xgjmlg~ jr iex ~yx jm xli ~jx ow xli bjymieejr xjj i`rew gm xli bjymieegmd igjm- Rli

bjyeh l`qi imih ` ~`xxirm j bl`eeimdgmd pyixgjm rjf xli bjymieejr% jr li bjyeh l`qi

oiim hiimgqi oib`yi ~riqgjy bjymieejr l`h oiim pygxi kyhdifimx`e ojyx lir ~`rxmir-

Jmew ow ygmd xli cgee j gffihg`bw tgee xli bjymieejr dix xj xli rjjx j xli gyi `mh `eejt

xli gr xj oi bei`rih- Jmbi xli gyi g jyx gm xli j~im gx b`m oi `hhriih mh xli rie`xgjmlg~

oixtiim xli bjymieejr `mh begimx ~yx o`bc jm `m `fgb`oei `mh tjrc`oei jjxgmd-

Fix`&bjffymgb`xgjm ,bjffymgb`xgmd `ojyx ` bjffymgb`xgjm' g `ej ` riibxgjm j ~rj&

bi-

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@m i|`f~ei;

―Wjyr qjgbi iif xj dix fybl ejtir tlim wjy x`ec `ojyx wjyr gxir‡‖ 

_iibxgjm j ~rjbi g `m `hq`mbih cgee jmew xj oi yih ow `m i|~irgimbih bjymieejr `mh

`et`w xir djjh% xryxgmd rie`xgjmlg~ l` oiim hiqiej~ih-

_iibxgjm xg~

Tlim ` riibxgjm g `bbyr`xi xli begimx iie imbjyr`dih xj bjmxgmyi ~i`cgmd `mh xj l`ri

fjri ~irjm`e gmjrf`xgjm- Liri ri jfi xg~ xj lie~ wjy riibx iiegmd;

0> Bjffjm if~`xlgb ri~jmi ei`h ,t`w ja x`rxgmd ` riibxgjm'

Wjy iie‡

G d`xlir‡

Gx iif xj wjy‡

Gx jymh egci‡

G dyi wjy‗ri iiegmd‡

G G‗f li`rgmd wjy bjrribxew‡

G tjmhir g wjy `ri `wgmd‡

Gx iif egci wjy‗ri iiegmd‡

Egximgmd xj wjy% gx iif ` g‡

G gf`dgmi xl`x wjy f`w oi iiegmd‡

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_iibxgjm ja aiiegmd

Gf`dgmi wjyrie egximgmd xj i`bl j xli ~ij~ei pyjxih oiejt- Xrw xj bjffymgb`xi xj i`bl ~irjm

`m bbyr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd j lg*lir iiegmd% ygmd iiegmd tjrh-

Fjxlir ,88' x`ecgmd `ojyx lir 04&wi`r&jeh jm;

―G b`m‗x oiegiqi gx! ,Rl`cgmd lir li`h ' K`bjo xyhgih xli tljei h`w jr lg xix% tlim lg rgimh tiri

l`qgmd ` ~`rxw mi|x hjjr ,li fgei'- G miqir xljydlx li tjyeh `bxy`eew hj gx-‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

Rxyhimx ,??';

―G‗f djgmd xj lj~gx`e mi|x tiic jr jfi xix , x`ci ` hii~ ori`xl'- Xli hjbxjr y~ibx gx fgdlx

oi ` r`ri hgi`i- G `f mjx yri tl`x xj i|~ibx% , ~`yi' `mh G‗f xlgmcgmd f`woi G ljyehm‗x dj- G‗f

l`qgmd mgdlxf`ri `mh iie egci G b`m‗x i`x-‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

      

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== 04<

F`m ,1>';

―Xli cgh `ri `ee drjtm y~ `mh xli ljyi iie j if~xw ,ejjcgmd hjtm'- Mjt xl`x G‗f rixgrih% G hjm‗x

ri`eew cmjt tl`x xj hj tgxl fwie- G tgl fw tgi l`hm‗x hgih e`x wi`r ,jx qjgbi'-‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

A`xlir ,89' tgxl ` h`ydlxir ,07' tlj t` kyx lgx ow ` b`r;

―G ljyeh l`qi miqir eejtih lir xj dj jyx ,trgmdgmd lg l`mh'- Tl`x tgee fw tgi `w tlim li dix

ljfi ,x`mh y~ mh t`ec rjymh '- Gx efjx iie egci G f xli jmi tlj o`lih gmxj K`bcw `mh orjci

lir eid% mjx xli dyw gm xl`x b`r ,gx hjtm `mh x`ri `x jjr% x`~~gmd amdir jm x`oei'- G hjm‗x cmjt-‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

     

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Tjfim ,8>' x`ecgmd `ojyx lir kjo;

―Rjfixgfi gx iie egci G‗f egqgmd egi- G f mjx gmxirixih gm fw tjrc mwfjri- Gx g dixxgmd fjri mh

fjri hgbyex xj dix y~ gm xli fjrmgmd ,ryo lir jrili`h'- Oyx fw oj `w xl`x g G ei`qi% xli ~e`bi

tgee `ee ~`rx- G b`m‗x kyx ei`qi xir 0> wi`r ,gdl li`qgew'- Gx‗ j hgbyex-‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

Wjymd tjfim ,?0';

―G t` mjx ejjcgmd jrt`rh xj fw rx h`w `x tjrc- Mit ~ij~ei% mit ~e`bi--- Oyx tlim G djx xliri

xli ~ij~ei tiri ri`eew rgimhew ,fgei'% xliw iqim gmqgxih fi jr hrgmc `xirt`rh- Gx‗ ` ri`eew mgbi

`xfj~liri gm xli jbi-‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

      

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== 0<>

Tjfim ,8<';

, @qjgh iwi bjmx`bx% ejjc hjtm' ―G kyx--- , ~`yi% l`ci lir li`h ' G b`m‗x x`ci gx `ee `mwfjri‖ ,brgi tgxl

lir li`h gm lir l`mh'-

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

,+Tl`x tjyeh wjy `w g li ~jci gm ` ejyh qjgbi% xlrjydl drgxxih xiixl: Mjm&qiro`e `ri gf~jrx`mx!'

Wjymd f`m ,?7';

―G cii~ xlgmcgmd `ojyx jmi j fw djjh rgimh- Ti l`h ` xlgmd jmbi- Rli‗ mjx tiee--- G hjm‗x cmjt

tl`x g trjmd tgxl lir- Ti yih xj dj jyx jxim% oyx mjt li kyx cii~ xj lirie- Gx‗ xr`mdi ,ejjc

hjtm'- Tlw tjyeh li hj xlg:‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

     

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Wjymd f`m ,?7';

―G l`qi LGQ- G hgbjqirih xlg xtj wi`r `dj mh oib`fi ri`eew gbc- D`qi y~ fw xyhgi mh ejx fjx

j fw rgimh ,ejjc hjtm% ejt xjmi j qjgbi% gdl mh xlim ejjc y~'- E`x tiic G x`rxih @_Q xri`xfimx

`mh gx‗ djgmd tiee ,mjh `mh fgei'- G ri`eew oiegiqi xlgmd tgee dix oixxir rjf mjt jm- G‗f yri j gx!

Djh tgee lie~ fi xlrjydl gx% G cmjt Li tgee-‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

F`m ,8?' x`ecgmd `ojyx lg fjxlir;

―Gx‗ kyx dixxgmd xjj fybl ,ejyh qjgbi'- Fw fjxlir g `et`w jm fw o`bc `ojyx x`ecgmd xj fw tgi

`ojyx l`qgmd cgh- Ti‗qi hibghih mjx xj l`qi cgh% `mh fw fjxlir tjm‗x `bbi~x gx- Rli iqim ~yx

~ridm`mbw ~`f~leix `ee jqir jyr ljyi-‖

_iibxgjm j bjmximx;

_iibxgjm j iiegmd;

      

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== 0<?

 @bxgqgxw ?-?1

Aiiegmd rjei&~e`w

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj ~`gr-0-

Imbjyr`di xli “begimx‗ xj rjei&~e`w ~rjoeif xl`x `ee tgxlgm xli xlifi ‒?- Argimh&

lg~ `eejyx-

@c xli “bjymieejr‗ xj `bbyr`xiew riibx iiegmd-2-

@xir ` it fgmyxi xj~ xli rjei&~e`w `mh `c xli ~`rxgbg~`mx xj t`~ rjei-8-

Gm e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc- @c begimx ljt gx iex g xli bjymieejr riibxih9-

bjmximx `mh gdmjrih iiegmd- @c bjymieejr ljt xliw i|~irgimbih xli rjei&

~e`w-

^`grih rjei&~e`w

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi m ymhir&

x`mhgmd j riibxgmd

iiegmd-

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @bxgqgxw ?-?4

Ljt G f`ci bljgbi

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ee gm xli pyixgjmm`gri0- F`cgmd bljgbi `mh hgby gm f`ee

drjy~ xligr ri~jmi xj xli pyixgjmm`gri-

Hgby gm ~eim`rw-?-

Rf`ee drjy~ `mh ~eim`rw

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx xlgmc u

`ojyx xli “~rjbi‗ j 

f`cgmd bljgbi `mh

tlj gmyimbi xlg-

^`rxgbg~`mx dix `mu

gmgdlx gmxj xli q`rg&

ixw j bljgbi&f`cgmd

xiblmgpyi begimx

f`w yi-

2> fgmyxi

Pyixgjmm`gri jm F`cgmd

bljgbi% Aeg~&bl`rx-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== 0<8

F`cgmd bljgbi

^rjbi

Tlim G f`ci bljgbi G ,xgbc jmi jr fjri `mtir';

f`ci xli hibggjm pygbcew `mh gf~yegqiew

xlgmc xlgmd xlrjydl b`riyeew

tigdl y~ xli hq`mx`di mh hg`hq`mx`di

~i`c xj ` tljei ejx j ~ij~ei jr ghi`

`c jfijmi iei xj xiee fi tl`x xj hj

hj jfi ri`hgmd `mh rii`rbl

eii~ jm gx `mh xlim hibghi

f`ci xlif o`ih jm ljt G iie

f`ci xlif qirw ejdgb`eew `mh r`xgjm`eew

~r`w mh fihgx`xi

hj mjxlgmd `mh t`gx jr xlgmd xj ymjeh

Gmyimbi

Fjx j fw bljgbi `ri gmyimbih

ow ,xgbc jmi jr fjri `mtir';

fw `fgew

fw byexyr`e o`bcdrjymh

fw riegdgjm * ~grgxy`egxw

fw r`bi * ixlmgbgxw

fw i|y`e jrgimx`xgjm

fw dimhir

fw be`

fw jbg`e bgrbyfx`mbi

fw ihyb`xgjm`e eiqie

fw ~iir

fw `di

fw fjjh

fw ~irjm`egxw

fw ifjxgjm`e x`xi

fw ie&ixiif

fw bjmhimbi

     

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 @bxgqgxw ?-?<

Gmxidr`xgmd cgee ‒ `xximhgmd% egximgmd `mh riibxgmd

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj drjy~ j xlrii ‒ bjymieejr% begimx mh joirqir-0-

Imbjyr`di “begimx‗ xj f`ci y~ ~rjoeif xj rjei&~e`w `rjymh xli xlifi;?- F`cgmd

bljgbi-

Lgdlegdlx xl`x “bjymieejr‗ ~r`bxgi xligr `xximhgmd% egximgmd `mh riibxgmd cgee-2-

Imbjyr`di joirqir xj yi xli blibcegx xj iq`ey`xi xligr ~iir-8-

 Xrg`h rjei&~e`w tgxl jo&

irqir iiho`bc jrf

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi `m gmxidr`xgjm

j bjymieegmd cgeeei`rmx `mh `ri iq`ey&

`xih ow joirqir-

1> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== 0<1

Joirqir rjei&~e`w blibcegx

R@P@ YR GH- 0049>9

Joirqi xli bjymieejr gm xli rjei&~e`w `mh f`rc xli `bxjr xl`x wjy joirqih oiejt- @ej%

mjxi x tl`x ~jgmx gm bjymieegmd wjy joirqih * hghm‗x joirqi xli jeejtgmd;

Yi j RJEI_ F@^

Rix y~ gmgxg`e driifimx*bjmxr bx

If~`xlw

Dimygmi * ri`e

_i~ibx

B`ef

Mjx gmxirry~xgmd begimx

@~~rj~rg`xi iwi bjmx`bx

^`wgmd `xximxgjm xj begimx

@~~rj~rg`xi `bg`e i|~rigjm

@~~rj~rg`xi ojhw e`mdy`di

Imbjyr`dgmd

If~jtirgmd

Mjm&kyhdifimx`e

Egfgxih ie&hgbejyri

_iibxgmd iiegmd bbyr`xiew

_iibxgmd bjmximx * ~`r`~lr`gmd

@eejtgmd xli begimx xj xiee xligr xjrw

Ygmd imbjyr`dir% egci mjhhgmd jr

`wgmd “yl&lyl‗

Mjx cgmd xjj f`mw pyixgjm

_iqgitgmd * xirfgm`xgmd

     

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 @bxgqgxw ?-?7

I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi

Bl`eeimdi H`w 9

Bjf~eixi _iibxgjm j iiegmd trgxxim `bxgqgxw% `mh rjei&~e`w `x ljfi% g ~jg&

oei-

Ryddixih fixljh;

G ~`rxgbg~`mx hj mjx bjf~eixi xli0- _iibxgjm j iiegmd i|irbgi rjf @bxgqgxw ?-?9

tgxlgm xli xgfi&r`fi- @c xlif xj bjf~eixi gx `x ljfi-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ri`h xlrjydl xligr `mtir `mh xj blibc xligr `bbyr`bw ow?-

rjei&~e`wgmd xli bim`rgj tgxl ` rgimh jr `fgew fifoir `x ljfi-

Ljfitjrc mh drjy~

hgbygjm

 

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

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Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j xligr h`w‗ ~irjm`e0-

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ejtih:

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tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

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i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih xjh`w-‖

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

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g bri`xih fjmdx~`rxgbg~`mx-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

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xli drjy~ ~rjbi-

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Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi

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Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j ~riqgjy h`w‗ `mh0-

iqimgmd‗ i|~irgimbi-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew?-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx `ojyx xli bl`eeimdi ‒ xli riibxgjm2-

bim`rgj mh hgby xligr `mtir mh i|~ejri bl`eeimdi-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj ` drjy~ i|~irg&8-

imbi% g ~~rj~rg`xi-

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

xli ~riqgjy iqimgmd

`mh xligr xljydlx

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Drjy~ Cmjx

Ryddixih fixljh;

Rieibx jmi jr ` it ~`rxgbg~`mx xj oi “f`m`dir‗-0-

 Xli rif`gmgmd ~`rxgbg~`mx ljeh l`mh ,`mh fyx mjx eix dj' `mh xgee ljehgmd?-

l`mh tjrc xlifieqi gmxj ` bjf~egb`xih ` x`mdei ` xliw b`m-

@c xli “f`m`dir‗% l`mh oilgmh xligr o`bc `mh tgxljyx xjyblgmd% xj ymr`qie2-

xli cmjx ygmd qiro`e gmxrybxgjm jmew-

 Xiee ~`rxgbg~`mx xj hj jmew tl`x xliw `ri xjeh-8-

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I|~ejrgmd xlrjydl ~`r`~lr`gmd `mh be`rgawgmd

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Gm lojte rjei&~e`w xli `bgegx`xjr ljyeh hifjmxr`xi ~`r`~lr`gmd mh be`rg&?-

wgmd tgxl xli jeejtgmd bim`rgj; Wjymd ~irjm ‒ ―Xlg ~rjoeif G l`qi g ri`eew 

dixxgmd fi gmxj xrjyoei `ee xli xgfi‖% ygmd drjy~ fifoir xj rjei&~e`w xli begimx-

Lgdlegdlx xl`x pyixgjmgmd g `m `hq`mbih cgee tlgbl tgee oi bjqirih gm fjri2-

hix`ge gm xli mi|x i|irbgi `mh xlim `d`gm gm xli mi|x Fjhyei-

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`rjymh xli rjjf dgqgmd iiho`bc-

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`mh rjei&~e`w

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@ ~`r`~lr`i g ` orgi% ximx`xgqi% x`xifimx tlgbl riibx xli iimbi j tl`x xli ~ir&

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G bei`r mh bjmbgi- Wjyr ~`r`~lr`i ljyeh lie~ be`rgw xlgmd% mjx bjmyi xlif-8-

G ximx`xgqi- Ti t`mx xli begimx xj iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl hg`driigmd tgxl jr bjrribx&9-

gmd xli ~`r`~lr`i-

Ti yi ` ~`r`~lr`i;

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Hj wjy ymhirx`mh tl`x xli ~irjm l` `gh: Tlim wjy ~`r`~lr`i tl`x wjy xlgmc xli

~irjm l` `gh% xliw b`m ri`bx xj wjyr ~`r`~lr`i `mh xiee wjy tlixlir gx g `bbyr`xi

jr gm`bbyr`xi- Oi yri wjyr ~`r`~lr`i `ri ximx`xgqi imjydl j xl`x xli begimx tgee iie

bjfjrx`oei bjrribxgmd wjy g wjy‗ri trjmd-

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xlifieqi tl`x xliw `ri xlgmcgmd `mh iiegmd- Jxim ` ~`r`~lr`i tgee orgmd y~ mit

xljydlx mh iiegmd% bxgmd ~rjf~x xj yrxlir hgbygjm- @ djjh ~`r`~lr`i f`w

ei`h xj gmxirixgmd mit i|~ejr`xgjm oib`yi gx dgqi xli begimx `m j~~jrxymgxw xj ri&

jrhir xligr xljydlx-

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@m bbyr`xi ~`r`~lr`i hifjmxr`xi xj xli ~irjm xl`x wjy ri egximgmd% mh xl`x wjy

ymhirx`mh- Gm iibx% ` djjh ~`r`~lr`i `w% ―G‗f tgxl wjy‖-

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xlif xj f`ci bei`rir tl`x xliw l`qi kyx `gh- @ mjxih ojqi% xli gf~ei bx j ~`r`~lr`gmd

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xliw fi`m ow jfixlgmd `mh gx g mibi`rw xj `c ` pyixgjm `mh xj ~rjoi- ^rjogmd g ` ri`e

`rx mh g `m hq`mbih cgee tlgbl dix oixxir tgxl ~r`bxgbi- Be`rgwgmd g jrf j dimxei ~rjo&

gmd oib`yi gx hji mjx gmxrjhybi `mwxlgmd gmxj xli bjymieegmd tlgbl g mjx `eri`hw xliri

‒ xl`x g% gx x`rx rjf tl`x xli begimx l` `eri`hw `gh-

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gmd begimx x`xifimx tgxl ` pyixgjmgmd gmibxgjm- Ajr i|`f~ei g ` begimx `w ―G `et`w x`ci

fw li`rx ~gee oib`yi j xli blgehrim%‖ xli bjymieejr bjyeh ri~jmh gm `x ei`x xtj t`w;

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ixih gm dri`xir be`rgxw% r`xlir xl`m byrgjy `mh qjwiyrgxgb- Gx g lie~ye xj ~riimx jmiie `

ximx`xgqi% gmxirixih mh gmximx jm oygehgmd bjf~rilimgqi ~gbxyri j xli begimx% xligr xjrw%

xligr miih mh bl`eeimdi-

Gx b`m oi `ej lie~ye jr xli bjymieejr xj ~jgxgjm lirie jr lgfie ` ` “m`êqi‗ egximir% ciim

xj dix xj xli li`rx j tl`x xli begimx g `wgmd oyx `yfgmd mjxlgmd- G xli begimx ri`eew oi&

egiqi xliw ri xli i|~irx jm xligr jtm egqi% xliw tgee oi tgeegmd xj xiee wjy fjri ojyx xlif

j xl`x wjy xryew ymhirx`mh tliri xliw ri bjfgmd rjf-

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Rx`xifimx; ―Gx‗ mjx bei`r xj fi‡‖ 

_ipyix; ―Xiee fi fjri `ojyx‡‖ 

Rgmdei tjrh jr ~lr`i gm xli jrf j ` pyixgjm; ―dyw:‖ 

Rljrx yff`rw; ―Rj% gm jxlir tjrh‡‖ 

Hgribx oyx `~~rj~rg`xi pyixgjmgmd; ―Tl`x l`~~imih tlim wjy

ljyxih `x wjyr oj:‖ 

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gmd xlif pyixgjm rie`xih xj xli x`xifimx-

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Gm e`rdi drjy~% `c xli “begimx‗ ljt xliw i|~irgimbih xli igjm- Hgh xli pyi&9-

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Gm `mw bjffymgb`xgjm tgxl ` begimx gm tlgbl xli yexgf`xi `gf g xj ymhirx`mh xli begimx%

bjmqiw gmjrf`xgjm `mh ~rjfjxi ifjxgjm`e tieemi% xli bjymieejr tgee l`qi xj dj oiwjmh

riibxgmd tl`x l` oiim li`rh xj i|~ejri tl`x g mjx bei`r `mh xj hii~im ymhirx`mhgmd jm

ojxl ghi- Xli bjymieejr ljyeh yi i|~ejrgmd cgee `xir xli rx ~l`i j xli imbjymxir

l`qi oiim bjf~eixih ,fiixgmd% bjmxr`bxgmd `mh li`rgmd xli gmgxg`e bjmbirm% `bx `mh iie&

gmd'- Xlg i|~ejrgmd b`m oi hjmi gm ` myfoir j t`w-

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xj xlgmc `ojyx xli ~rjoeif gm ` hgirimx t`w- Oijri `cgmd ` pyixgjm% `c 

wjyrie;

― Tlji miih g gx jr fi xj `c xlg pyixgjm:‖ 

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gmd mh mtirgmd pyixgjm-

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jmi jr xtj ~jgoei `mtir-

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―Tl`x tjyeh wjy hj g wjyr lyo`mh hgh `drii xj dj xj bjy~ei

bjymieegmd:‖ 

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xgqi gm ` igjm tliri ` myfoir j gyi l`qi bjfi y~- Ajr i|`f~ei% xli

bjymieejr c;

―Tl`x% jr wjy% `ri xli f`gm ri`jm tlw wjy `mh wjyr ~`rxmir 

hjm‗x bjffymgb`xi tiee:‖ 

@cgmd iq`ey`xgqi pyixgjm; xlii `ri pyixgjm tlgbl x`ci ` ~ibgb gyiu

`mh ―iq`ey`xi‖ ` bjyri j `bxgjm- Ajr i|`f~ei g ` begimx t`mx xj rigdm `mh

x`rx ` f`ee oygmi rjf ljfi xli bjymieejr bjyeh `c 

―Ljt hj wjy xlgmc xlg tgee tjrc jqir xli mi|x g| fjmxl:‖ 

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 Xlg xw~i j pyixgjm ~riyfi xl`x xli pyixgjmir cmjt xli `mtir% `mh ~yx tjrh

gm xli jxlir ~irjm‗ fjyxl-

Tlw pyixgjm

Tlw pyixgjm b`m f`ci ~ij~ei hiimgqi% ` xliw b`m gf~ew xl`x xli ~irjm ljyeh

cmjt xli `mtir- Rybl pyixgjm b`m jymh brgxgb`e% ` xljydl wjy `ri pyixgjmgmd

xligr kyhdifimx-

Gmxgf`xi pyixgjm

Rjfi pyixgjm ri mjx ~~rj~rg`xi xj c oib`yi xliw f`w mjx oi rieiq`mx jr f`w oixjj ~irjm`e- @et`w xrw xj `c pyixgjm xl`x `ri q`ey`oei jr `hq`mbgmd ` ~ibgb bjm&

qir`xgjm- @et`w oi ri~ibxye mh xri`x jxlir ~ij~ei% wjy tjyeh t`mx xj oi xri`xih-

Pyixgjm `cih jyx j byrgjgxw ljyeh oi `qjghih-

^jjrew&xgfih pyixgjm

Pyixgjm xl`x `ri ~jjrew xgfih gmxirry~x xli jt j ` ~irjm rie`xgmd xligr xjrw-

Rjfi ~gxa`ee ja pyixgjmgmd

―Xl`x‗ l`rh jr wjy% gm‗x gx:‖  ―Tlim tgee wjy xiee wjyr ~`rimx:‖ 

Tlw gm‗x xlg tjrcgmd jr wjy:‖  ―Tlw hj wjy mjx ymhirx`mh xlg:‖ 

―@ri wjy d`w:‖  ―@mh xlim tl`x hgh wjy hj gm oih:‖ 

―Ljt ejmd l` xlg oiim djgmd jm jr:‖ 

,`cih gm xli fghx j jfijmi riqi`egmd xl`x li g bli`xgmd jm lg dgrergimh'

―Tiee% tl`x tgee wjy hj:‖ 

,`cih tlgei jfijmi g xgee rie`xgmd xli hix`ge j lir ~irjm`e brgg'

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Fw xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw ri`h xlrjydl `mh trgxi mjxi gm xli `bxgqgxw0-

liix Fw xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii- Xliw ljyeh xlim hibghi tlgbl xrimdxl xliw

tjyeh hr`t jm xli fjx i`gew g xliw miihih xj rijeqi ` hgbyex egi bl`eeimdi

,jr i|`f~ei% m oygqi ~`rxmir'-

 Xliw ljyeh l`ri xlg tgxl ` ~`rxmir gm xli rjjf-?-

Gm ~eim`rw x`ci orgi iiho`bc `mh `bcmjteihdi xl`x ti yy`eew `ee l`qi jfi2-

xrimdxl xj hr`t jm% i~ibg`eew g ti `ri gm ` `i `mh myrxyrgmd ~`bi tlgbl `

bjymieegmd imbjymxir bjyeh ~rjqghi-

^`grih `mh ~eim`rw

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ie&`t`rimi

j jfi j xligrxrimdxl mh ti`c&

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Fw ti`cmii

Fw xrimdxl ,@mtir xli ajeejtgmd pyixgjm'

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Jmi xlgmd jxlir egci `ojyx fi

Jmi xlgmd G hj qirw tiee g

 Xlji xl`x cmjt fi cmjt xl`x G b`m

@ bjf~egfimx xl`x l` oiim ~`gh xj fi ribimxew g

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Jmi dj`e G `f ~riimxew tjrcgmd xjt`rh g

     

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j oygehgmd xli

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ihdgmd mh tjrcgmd

jm xligr ti`cmii-

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xli gf~jrx`mbi j 

rigegimbi gm begimx-

89 fgmyxi

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lie~ lgf*lir xj ri`egi xl`x xliw b`m hj gx xlifieqi!

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ieegmd% mh jxim xligr xrimdxl% rijyrbi% ~`x ybbii mh fjx gf~jrx`mxew

dj`e `ri bejyhih ow xli ~rjoeif-

_iir ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xli?- Fw xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii `bxgqgxw tlgbl xliw l`qi

 kyx bjf~eixih-

Gm ~eim`rw hgby xli `hq`mx`di j ygmd xli gf~ei xrybxyri j ejjcgmd `x2-

xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii ` ` xjje gm lie~gmd begimx riibx jm `mh ymhirx`mh;

,`' xli gf~jrx`mbi j xligr jtm xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii3 `mh ,o' xli gf~jr&

x`mbi j oigmd `oei xj hr`t jm xligr jtm rijyrbi `mh egi i|~irgimbi-

Ori`c ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj ~`gr `mh gmqgxi xlif xj hj ` rjei&~e`w% hr`tgmd jm igxlir8-

` bxgjm`e xjrw jr ` ri`e egi xjrw ,tlgbl l` oiim rijeqih jr g mj ejmdir `m

ifjxgjm`e gyi jr xli ~`rxgbg~`mx!' `mh xlim ~r`bxgbi% `ejmd tgxl `ee xli cgee

bjqirih j `r% xli cgee j i|~ejrgmd xrimdxl `mh ti`cmii-

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@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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F j h y e i x t j ; ^ r g f ` r w b j y m i e e g m d c g e e I

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Ryff`rggmd cgee

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gm f`ee drjy~ j xlrii jr jyr-0-

Gm xligr drjy~ `c jmi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ribjymx gm hix`ge xligr fjx fifjr`oei?-

ljegh`w jr jyxgmd-

Jmi drjy~ fifoir ljyeh yff`rgi-2-

 Xli jxlir ~`rxgbg~`mx gm xli drjy~ ljyeh dgqi iiho`bc jm xli `bbyr`bw j xli8-

yff`rw-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~ hgby xli yi j yff`rggmd cgee gm bjymieegmd-9-

Ori`c ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj ~`gr `mh gmqgxi xlif xj bjmhybx ` bjymieegmd rjei&~e`w%1-

hr`tgmd jm `ee xli cgee yih j `r% oyx jbygmd jm yff`rggmd ` ` ciw cgee-

Eix xlif t`~ rjei-4-

Hgby xli rjei&~e`w gm ~eim`rw-<-

Rf`ee drjy~ `bxgqgxw `mh

rjei&~e`w

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi m ymhirx`mh&

gmd j yff`rggmdcgee-

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A`bgegx`xjr‗

f`xirg`e

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Ryff`rggmd cgee

Ryff`rgi `ri iimxg`eew ` irgi j ~`r`~lr`i j gyi rjf ` begimx- @ yff`rw ~rjqghi

jrhir `mh jby `mh jrx jyx rieiq`mx f`xirg`e xj i|~ejri gm `m imbjymxir- Djjh yff`rgi

`bx ` m`xyr`e “xj~~gmd `mh riibxgmd‗ ~jgmx gm ` bjmqir`xgjm `mh b`m `ej oi yih xj x`rx

igjm `mh orgmd xlif xj ` beji- Xj iibxgqiew yff`rgi% xli bjymieejr l` ri`eew egxim

`mh `xximh xj tl`x xli begimx g `wgmd `mh ljt xliw `ri `wgmd gx-

Jxlir yi ja yff`rgi gmbeyhi;

xj dgqi hgribxgjm xj bjymieegmd igjmØ

xj ~riqimx dixxgmd xybc jm ` ~`rxgbye`r gyiØ

xj blibc jyx g xli bjymieejr l` ri`eew ymhirxjjh tl`x xli begimx g xrwgmd xj `wØ

xj egmc hgirimx ~jgmx mh xlifi xjdixlirØ

xj lie~ xli begimx d`gm jfi ~ir~ibxgqi j lg*lir gxy`xgjmØ

xj lie~ xli begimx ii tliri xliw‗qi oiim `mh tliri xliw `ri djgmdØ

xj lie~ xli begimx xj ghimxgw ~jgoei ri` xj oi i|~ejrih yrxlir-Ø

Rjfi xg~ ajr yff`rggmd;

@ djjh yff`rw g orgi `mh gmbeyhi mjx jmew xli `bx `mh xli tjrh oyx `ejØ

xli iiegmd xli begimx l` i|~riih-

^yx xli ghi` `mh hibrg~xgjm `x ei`x ~`rxew gmxj wjyr jtm tjrh oyx xli e`m&Ø

dy`di ljyeh xgee oi ~rgf`rgew gm xli tjrh yih ow xli begimx-

Tlim xj yi ` yff`rw

Gx g ` djjh t`w xj oidgm jr imh xli igjm-Ø

Gx g ` yiye cgee `x ` ~jgmx tliri ` ~irjm `~~i`r xj oi xybc-Ø

Gx g lie~ye `x xli ~jgmx tliri xli ~irjm l` ~jcim jr ` ejmd xgfi% gm ` bjm&Ø

ygmd jr r`foegmd t`w-

Gx g yiye tlim lgxgmd fjhi% g-i- `xir wjy l`qi i|~ejrih `mh himih xliØ

~rjoeif% gx g yiye xj yff`rgi `mh xlim fjqi jm xj i|~ejrgmd j~xgjm-

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Gmxidr`xgmd `ee o`gb bjymieegmd cgee

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj drjy~ j xlrii ‒ bjymieejr% begimx mh joirqir-0-

Imbjyr`di “begimx‗ xj rjei&~e`w ~rjoeif xl`x xliw fgdlx imbjymxir ` bjymie&?-

ejr gm xligr ~`rxgbye`r jrd`mg`xgjm-

Lgdlegdlx xl`x “bjymieejr‗ ~r`bxgi xli bjymieegmd cgee xliw l`qi ei`rmx xly2-

`r-

Imbjyr`di joirqir xj yi xli blibcegx xj iq`ey`xi xligr ~iir-8-

 Xrg`h rjei&~e`w `mh ~iir

`ifimx

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j ee o`gb bjymie&

egmd cgee-

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iiho`bc jm xligr

bjymieegmd xwei

rjf ~iir-

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^jx&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri `mh bl`eeimdi

Bl`eeimdi H`w 1

Gm wjyr h`gew gmxir`bxgjm tgxl ~ij~ei% ~r`bxgi yff`rggmd cgee `mh cii~

mjxi-

Ryddixih fixljh;

^riimx xli bl`eeimdi xj oi hgbyih x xli x`rx j Fjhyei ?; c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj0-

~r`bxgi yff`rggmd cgee gm gmxir`bxgjm tgxl jxlir ~ij~ei jyxghi xli xr`gmgmd

bjmxi|x- @c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj cii~ mjxi jm xligr i|~irgimbi j yff`rggmd gm `

jbg`e bjmxi|x `mh xli gf~`bx jm ~ij~ei- @c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgmd xligr mjxi xj

xli x`rx j Fjhyei 2% g xliw `ri djgmd jm xj Fjhyei 2-

 Xlim gyi xli?- ^jx&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri `mh `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj bjf~eixi xlg-

Trgxxim i|irbgi% drjy~

hgbygjm mh ljfi&

tjrc 

 

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi tl`x xliw l`qiei`rmx gm Fjhyei ?-

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xr`xi `~~egb`xgjm j 

cgee ei`rmx% jyxghi

xli xr`gmgmd bjmxi|x-

^`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjxiu

b`m oi yih jr

iq`ey`xgqi ~yr~ji-

2> fgmyxi

Bl`eeimdi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Blibc jyx qiro`e iq`ey`xgjm

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i|~irgimbi-

@ej gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx j xli drjy~‗ i|~irgimbi-?-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew2-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi%8-

i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih xjh`w‖-

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Ribjmh`rw bjymieegmd cgeeFjhyei 2 g ` 8&h`w Fjhyei tlgbl `eejt jr riqggjm j xli o`gb bjymieegmd cgee% `mh

jbyi jm lie~gmd xli begimx xj i|~ejri j~xgjm `mh f`ci ` ~e`m- Xli bjymieegmd cgee j 

`hq`mbih if~`xlw% bl`eeimdgmd% gffihg`bw `mh riqgitgmd `ri i|~ejrih- Xli Fjhyei `ej

i|~ejri ~rjoeif jeqgmd ,gmbeyhgmd jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjmgmd'- Gm xlg t`w xli ibjmh

orj`h `~ibx j Id`m‗ fjhie g bjqirih% xl`x j jeqgmd ~rjoeif gm ` t`w gm tlgbl g `~~rj&

~rg`xi jr xli begimx mh xligr gxy`xgjm- Gx g brgxgb`e xl`x bjymieejr l`qi f`xirih xli ~rgf`rw

jr o`gb cgee oib`yi gm hjgmd j xliw `ri `oei xj hiqiej~ ` oixxir ymhirx`mhgmd j xli beg&

imx oijri ` jeyxgjm g xrgqih jr- F`mw oidgmmir bjymieejr kyf~ xj jeyxgjm oijri xliwri`eew ymhirx`mh xli begimx% xligr gxy`xgjm `mh xligr iiegmd-

Gm xlg fjhyei xliw ei`rm cgee tlgbl hii~im xligr ymhirx`mhgmd j xli begimx j xl`x xli

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xlif bjmhimbi% bjf~iximbi `mh rigegimbi-

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ieejr xj l`mhei bjf~ei| gxy`xgjm `mh egfgx bl`mbi xl`x xli begimx bjyeh oi l`rfih gm xli

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Fjhyei Xlrii

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H`w Riqim; Lie~gmd begimx xj i|&~ejri fjri hii~ew

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Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j xli ~riqgjy h`w%0-

xli ~riqgjy iqimgmd `mh xli ~riqgjy fjhyei-

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tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

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ygmd yff`rggmd cgee gm iqirwh`w gmxir`bxgjm-

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Ryddixih fixljh;

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Trgxxim bjf~eixgjm ja ^ri&Fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri ‒ 2

Ryddixih fixljh;

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 @ fjhie ja bjymieegmd

     

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08- Tlim g gx `hqg`oei xj riir begimx:

      

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 @hq`mbih if~`xlw

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bjymieegmd igjm- Ajbyi jm xli “liri&`mh&mjt‗-

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xliw b`m x`ci xli bjymieegmd jrt`rh-

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J~im qiry bejih pyixgjm

J~im&imhih pyixgjm ri xlji xl`x bjyeh ribigqi f`mw hgirimx cgmh j `m&

tir% i-d-

―Xiee fi `ojyx wjyr blgehrim-‖ 

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`mtir%

i-d- ―Ljt f`mw blgehrim hj wjy l`qi:‖ 

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gmd jm @bxgqgxw ?-28-

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xliw hj mjx tgl xj bjfi `brj ` jjegl-

Ryddixgjm ajr `cgmd j~im&imhih pyixgjm

Xj imbjyr`di hgbygjm yi “Tl`x‗ `mh “Ljt‗;

―Ljt t` xl`x jr wjy:‖

―Tl`x hgh wjy iie jr hj:‖

―Ljt b`m G lie~ wjy:‖

―Tl`x g jm wjyr fgmh:‖

J~im&imhih `mh bejih pyixgjm

―Xiee fi fjri `ojyx tl`x wjy xjeh lgf:‖ 

―Tl`x l`qi wjy xrgih:‖ ―Ljt hji oigmd xriih iie jr wjy:‖ 

―Hgh wjy xiee lgf: 

‖ L`qi wjy xrgih xlg:‖ 

@ri wjy xriih:‖ 

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== ??8

Xj ripyix hibrg~xgjm;

―Xiee fi `ojyx‡‖

―I|~e`gm xj fi‡‖

―Gm tl`x t`w hji‡:‖

Xj dgqi ` ~irjm `m j~~jrxymgxw xj i|~`mh jm tl`x g oigmd `gh;

―Tlim wjy `w li y~ix wjy% tl`x i|`bxew hji li `w jr hj:‖

―Tl`x fjri b`m wjy `w `ojyx xl`x:‖

Xj ajby jm aiiegmd;

―Ljt tjyeh wjy hibrgoi wjyr iiegmd:‖

―Ljt hj wjy iie `ojyx xl`x:‖

Xj ajby jm ~e`m;

―Tl`x tgee wjy hj‡:‖

―Ljt tgee wjy f`ci gx l`~~im:‖

―Ljt tgee xl`x lie~ wjy xj‡:‖

―Tl`x `ri wjyr bljgbi:‖

―Tl`x bjyeh wjy hj xl`x fgdlx bl`mdi xlgmd:‖

―Tl`x fgdlx oi xli hgbyexgi gm hjgmd‡:‖

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 @bxgqgxw 2-7

Oibjfgmd fjri ~ibgb

Jxim begimx bjfi xj bjymieegmd tgxl ` “yee o`d j ~rjoeif‗ `mh f`w miih

jfi lie~ “ym~`bcgmd‗ ` e`rdi jr ymhimih ~rjoeif gmxj fjri ~ibgb jby

`ri`-

Ryddixih fixljh;

Dgqi gm~yx jm ~ibgbgxw gm bjymieegmd-0-

Trgxi xli jeejtgmd q`dyi x`xifimx jm g~bl`rx oj`rh;?-

―^ij~ei ximh xj ojxlir fi xlii h`w-‖ u

―G‗f mjx iiegmd egci fwie xjh`w-‖ u

―G f ` hi~riih ~irjm-‖ u

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx;2-

Tlw `ri begimx jfixgfi q`dyi gm tl`x xliw `w:u

Tl`x xliw tjyeh `w xj imbjyr`di ~ibgbgxw gm xli `ojqi bim`rgj:u

Tl`x `ri jfi bl`eeimdi gm oibjfgmd xjj ~ibgb xjj jjm:u

Gm ~`gr% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj rjei&~e`w q`dyi begimx `mh xli bjymieejr ljyeh8-

imbjyr`di ~ibgbgxw- ,Bjymieejr ljyeh yi ee cgee bjqirih j `r-'

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh ~`grih

rjei&~e`w

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j bbyr`xi ~rjogmd

`mh ximx`xgqi pyi&

xgjmgmd-

1> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== ??1

 @bxgqgxw 2-0>

I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi

Bl`eeimdi H`w 4

Agee gm Pyixgjmgmd cgee gm bjymieegmd `bxgqgxw mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ee gm xli pyixgjmgmd `bxgqgxw gm xligr bjyri f`my`e jr0-

ljfitjrc-

I|~e`gm xl`x ~`rxgbg~`mx fyx xlgmc j `x ei`x 2 ~jgoei j~im&imhih pyixgjm?-

xliw bjyeh `c gm i`bl j xli bim`rgj-

Orgiw riqgi xli hgirimbi oixtiim j~im&imhih pyixgjm `mh bejih pyi&2-

xgjm-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgmd xligr mjxi xjfjrrjt-8-

Ljfitjrc mh drjy~

hgbygjm

 

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mh&

gmd j j~im&imhihpyixgjm-

^`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjxiu

b`m oi yih jr

iq`ey`xgqi ~yr~ji-

 

9 fgmyxi

Bl`eeimdi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Pyixgjmgmd

Gf`dgmi wjyrie egximgmd xj i`bl j xli ~ij~ei pyjxih oiejt- Ajrfye`xi `x ei`x 2 ~jgoei

j~im&imhih pyixgjm jr i`bl bim`rgj-

―G hjm‗x t`mx xj dj o`bc xj tjrc- G hjm‗x imkjw gx `mwfjri- @bxy`eew% mjt xl`x G xlgmc `ojyx gx% G

l`qi miqir imkjwih xli tjrc! Gx iie egci G l`qi kyx t`xih fw egi ow xyhwgmd ` bjyri xl`x‗

yiei `mh tjrcgmd jr xli trjmd bjf~`mgi-‖

_i~jmi;

―Fw fjxlir g jqir&~rjxibxgqi- Tlim G dj jyx tgxl ` dgre% li t`mx xj cmjt iqirwxlgmd `ojyx

lir- G‗f xirrgaih j orgmdgmd fw h`xi ljfi% gm b`i li b`ri xlif `t`w- Fw gxir `w G fyx

 kyx gdmjri fw fjxlir `mh fjqi jyx xli ljyi-‖

_i~jmi;

―Rgmbi G t` hg`dmjih LGQ ~jgxgqi% G b`m‗x `bi l`qgmd i| `mwfjri- G‗f mjx yri tl`x xj hj%

oib`yi fw ~`rxmir g x`rxgmd xj y~ibx jfixlgmd g trjmd-‖

_i~jmi;

―B`m wjy xiee fi tl`x G fyx hj g G `f ~ridm`mx `mh G t`mx xj l`qi `m `ojrxgjm:‖

_i~jmi;

      

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== ??<

 @bxgqgxw 2-00

Blibc jyx

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j xligr h`w‗ ~irjm`e0-

i|~irgimbi-

@ej gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx j xli drjy~‗ i|~irgimbi-?-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew2-tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj ` drjy~ i|~irg&8-

imbi% i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih

xjh`w-‖

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi

@ bjffjm drjymhu

g bri`xih fjmdx~`rxgbg~`mx-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

gdmgb`mx `bxjr

jyxghi xli drjy~

xl`x bjyeh gmyimbi

xli drjy~ ~rjbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

xligr xljydlx `mh

iiegmd j drjy~&

`mh bjyri&rie`xih

i|~irgimbi-

?9 fgmyxi

Mjmi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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H`w igdlx; Lie~gmd xli begimx f`ci `~e`m

 @bxgqgxw 2-0?

Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j ~riqgjy h`w‗ `mh0-

iqimgmd‗ i|~irgimbi-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew?-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx `ojyx xli bl`eeimdi ‒ pyixgjmgmd2-

cgee ‒ `mh hgby xligr `mtir `mh i|~ejri bl`eeimdi-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi%8-g ~~rj~rg`xi-

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

xli ~riqgjy iqimgmd

`mh xligr xljydlx

`ojyx xli ~riqgjy

h`w `xir jfi xgfi

l` ~`ih-

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi xligr dr`~

j xli bl`eeimdi jm

pyixgjmgmd cgee-

2> fgmyxi

Bl`eeimdi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== ?2>

 @bxgqgxw 2-02

 Xlgmc o`bc xj xgfi tlim bl`eeimdih ‡

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xlgmc j xtj jbb`gjm tlim xliw l`qi bl`eeimdih jxlir ~ij&0-

~ei- Jmi tliri xli bl`eeimdi t` ybbiye ,tliri xliw djx xligr ~jgmx `brj'

`mh jmi tliri xli bl`eeimdi t` ymybbiye-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `mtir xli pyixgjm ymhir xli?- Bl`eeimdgmd `bxgqgxw gm xligr

bjyri f`my`e-

Hgqghi xli drjy~ gmxj ~`gr xj hgby xligr i|~irgimbi-2-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby xli rjei j bl`eeimdgmd gm bjymieegmd-8-

Rie&`t`rimi mh

~`grih hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

iibxgqi bl`eeimdgmd-

2> fgmyxi

Bl`eeimdgmd bxgqgxw gm

bjyri f`my`e-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Bl`eeimdgmd

Rybbiye

Bl`eeimdi

Ymybbiye

Bl`eeimdi

0- Ljt tiee hgh wjy

cmjt xli ~irjm:

?- Tlim `mh tliri

hgh wjy bl`eeimdi

xli ~irjm:

2- Ljt gf~jrx`mx

t` gx jr xl`x ~ir&

jm xj bl`mdi:

8- Ljt hgh wjy dj

`ojyx bl`eeimdgmd

lgf*lir:

9- Ljt hgh xli ~irjm

ri`bx xj bl`eeimdi:

      

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== ?2?

Bl`eeimdgmd

^yr~ji ja bl`eeimdgmd cgee

 Xj lie~ xli begimx dix gm xjybl tgxl xligr “oegmh ~jx‗-0-

Gx gmqgxi xli jxlir ~irjm xj i|`fgmi lg*lir oil`qgjyr mh xxgxyhi-?-

Gx lie~ xli begimx xj hiqiej~ mit ~ir~ibxgqi jr gmgdlx xl`x `ri miihih xj be`rgw xli2-

~rjoeif`xgb gxy`xgjm mh xj fjqi jm xj hiqiej~gmd mit j~xgjm j xlgmcgmd mh oil`q&

gmd-

Bl`eeimdgmd cgee gmbeyhi

Rl`rgmd gmjrf`xgjmØ ‒ g mjx xli `fi ` dgqgmd `hqgbi jr ~ri`blgmd% oyx r`xlir

lie~ xli begimx xj ymhirx`mh xligr hgbyexgi oixxir `mh x`ci iibxgqi `bxgjm-

Ryff`rggmdØ ‒ gmqjeqi lie~gmd begimx ii xli ogddir ~gbxyri% ghimxgw xlifi mhii xlgmd xliw f`w oi jqirejjcgmd-

_iaibxgmd ~rjbiØ ,gffihg`bw' ‒ Wjyr ogegxw xj hi`e tgxl tl`x g l`~~imgmd

oixtiim wjy `mh wjyr begimx gm xli bjymieegmd igjm g `m gf~jrx`mx cgee- Gx g `

bjf~ei| cgee xl`x gmqjeqi;

riqi`egmd ljt wjy ri oigmd ibxih ow xli begimxu

i|~ejrgmd wjyr jtm oil`qgjyr xjt`rh xli begimxu

gmqgxgmd xli begimx xj i|~ejri xli bjymieegmd gmxir&u

`bxgjm

tgxl ` qgit xj hiqiej~gmd ` oixxir tjrcgmd rie`&u

xgjmlg~-

―@m LGQ&~jgxgqi hg`dmjg g mjx ` hi`xl imximbi% ` wjy xlgmc- Xliri

`ri f`mw ~ij~ei egqgmd yee `mh ~rjhybxgqi egqi tgxl xli qgry- Hj wjy

cmjt `ojyx xri`xfimx `q`ge`oei jr LGQ:‖ 

―Wjy l`qi fimxgjmih wjyr ymbei f`mw xgfi gm wjyr xjrw- Bjyeh li oi

` jyrbi j y~~jrx jr wjy:‖ 

―G l`qi mjxgbih xl`x  wjy‗qi oiim f`cgmd i|&

y`e yddixgjm xjt`rh

fi hyrgmd bjymieegmd-

Xlg g gm`~~rj~rg`xi

`mh f`ci fi iie 

ymbjfjrx`oei- Ljt hj

 wjy ii xlgmd:‖ 

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Bjmghir xli ajeejtgmd xg~ ajr iaaibxgqi bl`eeimdgmd

 Xli f`mmir gm tlgbl wjy bl`eeimdi g qirw gf~jrx`mx ‒ rififoir xj oi if~`xlgb0-

`mh imgxgqi- @qjgh ljyxgmd% ~ei`hgmd `mh xlri`ximgmd-

Q`dyi dimir`eg`xgjm `mh “~wbljejdgb`e‗ `m`ewi `ri mjx yiye- _`xlir yi hgribx%?-

bjmbrixi mh ~ibgb i|`f~ei tlim bjmrjmxgmd-

Bl`eeimdi fyx oi xgfih `~~rj~rg`xiew% `mh `ee xli ~jgoei bjmipyimbi j xli2-

bjmrjmx`xgjm ljyeh oi bjmghirih ow xli bjymieejr oijri bl`eeimdgmd-

@ lgdl eiqie j xryx `mh djjh rie`xgjmlg~ ri ripygrih gm xli bjymieegmd gmxir`b&8-

xgjm jr bl`eeimdgmd xj oi iibxgqi- Ljtiqir% bl`eeimdgmd g fjri hgbyex tlim wjy

`ri jqir&gmqjeqih gm xli gxy`xgjm-

Imyri xl`x wjyr fjxgqi jr bl`eeimdgmd g xj lie~ xli jxlir ~irjm% r`xlir xl`m xj9-

qimx wjyr ryxr`xgjm% mdir% m|gixw mh j~gmgjm jm xli jxlir ~irjm-

 Xli ~irjm fyx oi imbjyr`dih xj x`ci ri~jmgogegxw jr lg*lir jtm `bxgjm `mh1-

bljgbi-

G wjy `ri oigmd bjmrjmxih% `qjgh gffihg`xi ri`bxgjm gm tlgbl wjy hg`drii% hi&4-

imh jr `~jejdgi- _`xlir egxim b`riyeew `mh xrw xj ymhirx`mh tl`x xli ~irjm g

`wgmd% xlim ri~jmh gm hgribx mh j~im f`mmir-

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== ?28

 @bxgqgxw 2-08

Bl`eeimdgmd rjei&~e`w

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj xlrii ,begimx% bjymieejr `mh joirqir' `mh `eejt xlif0-

xj ~r`bxgi xli cgee j bl`eeimdgmd% oygehgmd jm `ee xli o`gb cgee bjqirih j `r-

Or`gmxjrf ` rjei&~e`w bim`rgj tgxl xli ~`rxgbg~`mx gm tlgbl wjy hiqiej~ `?-

xjrw f`mw ~`rxgbg~`mx b`m ghimxgw tgxl- Jr yi jmi j xli jeejtgmd bim`rgj

~ir drjy~;

@x wjyr byrrimx tjrc~e`bi% wjyr bj&tjrcir l` eix i`rew xlrii xgfi xlg`-

tiic tgxl q`dyi i|byi- Tlim li ei`qi i`rew% wjy l`qi xj hj `ee xli

~`~ir tjrc `mh wjy iie xl`x xlg g ym`gr-

@m jehir tjf`m `~~rj`bli wjyr jrd`mg`xgjm xj ii ` bjymieejr- Gmo-

xli fghhei j lir rx igjm tgxl wjy% li l`ci lir li`h `mh `w

xl`x wjy `ri `r xjj wjymd xj oi `oei xj lie~ lir-

@ wjymd f`m g iigmd wjy jr bjymieegmd oib`yi j ~rjoeif `xb-

tjrc- Gm igjm% li `qjgh iwi bjmx`bx tgxl wjy `mh ejjc hjtm `x xli

jjr- Li g ligx`mx xj x`ec- Tlim wjy riibx jm lg mjm&qiro`e oil`q&

gjyr% li `w li g mi xjh`w% `mh xl`x xliri g mjxlgmd trjmd-

2- Ryddix xliw x`ci xli rjei&~e`w ` ejtew ` mibi`rw-

 X ci iiho`bc `ojyx xli rjei&~e`w gm ~eim`rw-8-

Hiorgi xlji ~e`wgmd xli begimx-9-

 Xrg`h rjei&~e w

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mh&

gmd j xli cgee j 

bl`eeimdgmd mhgffihg`bw-

1> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗

f`xirg`e

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 @bxgqgxw 2-09

^rjoeif jeqgmd

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx ljt xliw tjyeh dj `ojyx jeqgmd xli jeejtgmd ~rjoeif ,ri`h0-

jyx xj drjy~';

―Wjy‗qi oiim l`qgmd `rdyfimx tgxl ` bjeei`dyi j wjyr% tlj wjy

l`qi tjrcih tgxl jr ? wi`r- Tlgei xli `rdyfimx l`qi oiim `ojyx 

tjrc gyi% xliw l`qi x`rxih xj dix qirw ~irjm`e- Wjy‗qi xrgih x`ecgmd

xj lgf*lir% oyx xliw hjm‗x iif xj egxim `mh dix `mdrw tgxl wjy- Wjy

xlim dix `mdrw o`bc `mh mjt wjy l`qi mjx ~jcim jr driixih i`bl

jxlir jr ` tiic-‖ 

Eix ~`rxgbg~`mx xlgmc ojyx xlg jr it fgmyxi mh trgxi hjtm jfi ghi` jm?-

` ~gibi j ~`~ir- Gmqgxi iiho`bc-

Hgby iiho`bc `mh trgxi hjtm xli hgirimx xr`xidgi ~`rxgbg~`mx yih xj2-

jeqi xlg ~rjoeif-

Drjy~ tjrc b`i xyhw

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

xli q`eyi j ~rjoeif

jeqgmd

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?21

 @bxgqgxw 2-01

 Xli xr`ab egdlx fjhie

RXJ^

XLGMC 

HJ

Ryddixih fixljh;

I|~e`gm xli xr`b egdlx fjhie j ~rjoeif jeqgmd xj ~`rxgbg~`mx% geeyxr`xgmd xli0-

q`rgjy xi~ jm xli g~bl`rx-

Lgdlegdlx xl`x xli bjymieejr fyx tjrc l`rh xj hr`t ghi` mh jeyxgjm rjf ?-

begimx r`xlir xl`m gf~ew gf~ji joqgjy bjymieejr&hrgqim jeyxgjm-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj riqgit xligr ~rjoeif xliw tjrcih jm gm xli ~riqgjy i|irbgi2-

gm xli egdlx j xlg fjhie-

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j ` ~ibgb ~rjoeif&jeqgmd fjhie mh gx

`~~egb`xgjm xj ` b`i

xyhw-

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx `mh fjhie

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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^rjoeif&jeqgmd

 Xli xr`b&egdlx ~rjoeif&jeqgmd fjhie g ` yiye t`w xj `~~rj`bl ~rjoeif`xgb gxy`xgjm-

Rjfixgfi ~ij~ei ryl gmxj “jeqgmd‗ ~rjoeif tgxljyx xlgmcgmd j xli ~rj `mh bjm j xligr

`bxgjm- Xlg fjhie imbjyr`di ~ij~ei xj xj~% xlgmc `mh xlim `bx3 xliriow xliw f`ci gm&

jrfih mh tiee xljydlx&jyx hibggjm gm jeqgmd xligr ~rjoeif-

Himi xli ~rjoeif

 Xlg g xli fjx gf~jrx`mx xi~ gm xli ~rjoeif&jeqgmd fjhie% `mh jxim ripygri xlifjx xgfi gm bjymieegmd- Xlg xi~ gmqjeqi d`xlirgmd gmjrf`xgjm `mh be`rgwgmd- Gx `ej

gmqjeqih ori cgmd tl`x iif xj oi ` lydi ~rjoeif gmxj gx q`rgjy ~`rx jr yo&~rjo&

eif ,jfixgfi b`eeih ~`rxg`eggmd'-

I|~ejri `ee j~xgjm

 Xlg xi~ gmqjeqi i|~ejrgmd `ee ~jgoei j~xgjm xj jeqi xli ~rjoeif ,jr% xj x`rx tgxl%

 kyx jmi ~`rx j xli ~rjoeif% ~irl`~ jfixlgmd xl`x g ri`jm`oew `blgiq`oei'- Imbjyr&

`di xli begimx xj or`gmxjrf ` f`mw jeyxgjm xj xligr ~rjoeif ` ~jgoei% iqim g xliw

iif geew- Bjmxgmyi ymxge `ee ghi` `ri i|l`yxih- Gx g gf~jrx`mx xl`x wjy ` bjymieejr

hj mjx l`qi ` ~ribjmbigqih ghi` jm tl`x xli jeyxgjm ljyeh oi-

Ejjc `x `exirm`xgqi `mh bjmghir xli bjmipyimbi j i`bl ghi` dimir`xih rjf xli

`ojqi or`gmxjrf- @c begimx xj ejjc `x xli  ~rj `mh bjm j i`bl jeyxgjm- Yy`eew xli

oix jeyxgjm g xli jmi tgxl xli fjx `hq`mx`di-

Rieibx `m j~xgjm% f`ci ` ~e`m `mh x`ci `bxgjm

Imbjyr`di xli begimx xj ieibx xli fjx iibxgqi j~xgjm% bbjrhgmd xj tlixlir gx g ~r`b&

xgb`e% `~~rj~rg`xi `mh ri`egxgb- Oi ~`xgimx `mh dimxew y~~jrx xli begimx xj f`ci xligr

bljgbi-

Hiqiej~ ~e`m ‒ c xli begimx xj xlgmc ojyx ljt xliw b`m ~yx xligr bljgbi gmxj bxgjm-

@c tlj% tl`x% tlim% ljt% `mh tliri pyixgjm j xl`x xli ~e`m g ~ibgb% `blgiq`oei%

ri`egxgb `mh tgxlgm ` xgfi&r`fi- Gx g jfixgfi lie~ye g xli begimx trgxi xligr ~e`m

hjtm-

Rxj~

Xlgmc 

Hj

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?2<

X`ci `bxgjm ‒ bcmjteihdi xl`x xlg xi~ g yy`eew xli fjx hgbyex jr ~ij~ei- Xj lie~

oygeh xli begimx‗ bjmhimbi% gx b`m oi lie~ye xj x`rx tgxl `m bxgjm tliri xli begimx l`

` rie`xgqiew djjh bl`mbi j ybbiihgmd- Ygmd rjei&~e`w xj “~r`bxgi‗ tl`x xli begimx tgee

hj `mh `w `mh xj `mxgbg~`xi ~jgoei ri`bxgjm b`m `ej oi lie~ye- _i`yri xli begimx

xl`x wjy tgee i|~ejri xli jyxbjfi gm xli mi|x igjm-

Iq`ey`xi ‒ xlg g `m gf~jrx`mx j~~jrxymgxw xj ii tl`x tjrcih% tl`x hghm‗x tjrc `mh

tlw- _i`yri begimx xl`x g xliw hjm‗x ybbiih% xj xrw% xrw d`gm!

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 @bxgqgxw 2-04

Rjeyxgjm mhgmd

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj ~`gr ‒ ` “bjymieejr‗ `mh ` “begimx‗-0-

Gmqgxi “begimx‗ xj xlgmc j ` ~rjoeif xj ~riimx gm ` rjei&~e`w- Xliw b`m xlgmc j `?-

~rjoeif xliw l`qi rijeqih `eri`hw gm xligr egqi jr xliw b`m yi xli ~rjoeif

rjf @bxgqgxw 2-09-

Gmxrybx xli “bjymieejr‗ xj tjrc tgxl xli ~rjoeif `mh xj xrw `mh mh ` jeyxgjm2-

ygmd xli xr`b egdlx fjhie-

Ori`c gmxj ~`gr `mh xlim rjei&~e`w ` bjymieejr `mh begimx-8-

@xir 0> fgmyxi% gmqgxi xli ~`gr xj bl`mdi rjei mh xj yi xli xr`b egdlx fjhie9-

jm ` mit ~rjoeif-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc mh imbjyr`di hio`xi jm xli fjhie mh gx1-

yiyemi mh `~~egb`ogegxw-

Hgby mh ~rjoeif&jeqi rjymh hgbyexgi mh fgbjmbi~xgjm-4-

^`grih rjei&~e`w

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j xli xr`b egdlx

fjhie `mh gx `~~eg&b`xgjm gm rjei&~e`w-

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?8>

 @bxgqgxw 2-0<

^rjoeif jeqgmd ! jeyxgjm&ajbyih pyixgjmgmd

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi `m `t`rimi

j jeyxgjm&jbyihpyixgjm `mh xligr

oimix tlim yih

gm ~rjoeif jeqgmd-

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

Rjeyxgjm&jbyih cgee ‒ o`ih jm xli tjrc j Ii `mh Ejti ,?>>9'

Rb`egmd&y~ pyixgjm

Pyixgjm rjymh bj~gmd

I|bi~xgjm xj xli ~rjoeif

 Xli fgr`bei pyixgjm

“Mjx cmjtgmd‗ pyixgjm

Egximgmd jr xrimdxl

Ryddixih fixljh;

I|~e`gm xli oimix j jeyxgjm&jbyih bjymieegmd gm dimir`e-0-

Trgxi xli q`rgjy jeyxgjm&jbyih xiblmgpyi jm xli g~bl`rx oj`rh mh i|~e`gm?-

xljrjydlew% tgxl ~ibgb riirimbi xj ljt xliw b`m oi yih gm xli ~rjoeif jeq&gmd ~l`i-

Imbjyr`di iiho`bc mh hgbygjm jm xli rieiq`mbi j xli xiblmgpyi-2-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Oigmd ~rjoeif&ajbyih qiry oigmd jeyxgjm&ajbyih

Tlgei `ee bjymieejr tgee `hhri ~rjoeif xl`x begimx ~riimx gm bjymieegmd% gx g gf~jrx`mx

jr xli bjymieejr xj riibx jm tlixlir xligr bjymieegmd xwei if~l`gi “tl`x g trjmd‗ mh

~rjoeif`xgb% ` j~~jih xj “tl`x g ~jgoei‗ `mh j~xgfgxgb- Xli mjxi oiejt jyxegmi xlii

xtj hgirimx `~~rj`bli `mh ljt xli jeyxgjm&jbyih `~~rj`bl bjyeh oi gf~eifimxih gm

xli ~rjoeif&jeqgmd ~l`i-

Oigmd ~rjoeif&ajbyih

Oigmd jeyxgjm&ajbyih

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?8?

Rjeyxgjm&ajbyih xiblmgpyi

Ygmd b`egmd y~ pyixgjm ,b`m yi gm xli Rxj~ ~l`i'

I|`f~ei;

―Jm ` b`ei j 0xj0> ljt gf~jrx`mx g gx xj wjy xj jeqi xlg ~rjoeif:‖ 

―Jm b`ei j 0 xj 0> ljt tjyeh wjy r`xi xli 2 ~rjoeif wjy l`qi ghimxgaih:‖ 

`mh xlim ―Tlgbl ~rjoeif tjyeh wjy egci xj tjrc jm arx% o`ih jm xlg r`x&

gmd:‖ 

,Mjxi jfi begimx fgdlx t`mx xj x`rx tgxl xli i`gix ~rjoeif rx xj d`gm ` imi j bjm&himbi% jr xliw f`w t`mx xj x`rx jm xli l`rhix jmi xj dix gx jyx j xli t`w-'

Pyixgjm jm bj~gmd ,b`m yi gm xli Xlgmc ~l`i'

I|`f~ei;

―G b`m ii xl`x xlg g ifjxgjm`eew hr`gmgmd jr wjy% oyx tl`x hj wjy xlgmc wjy

bjyeh hj xj bj~i tgxl xli ~riyri wjy `ri `bgmd:‖ 

―I`regir gm xli igjm wjy `gh wjy l`h bj~ih tgxl xli ej j wjyr `xlir 9

 wi`r `dj% tl`x bjyeh wjy orgmd rjf tl`x wjy ei`rmih xlim gmxj xli ej wjy

`ri i|~irgimbgmd mjt:‖ 

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I|bi~xgjm xj xli ~rjoeif ,b`m yi gm xli Rxj~ `mh Xlgmc ~l`i'

I|`f~ei;

―B`m wjy xlgmc j ` xgfi tlim wjy tiri mjx xriih ‒ ljt t` gx jr wjy

xlim:‖ 

―Wjy `gh wjyr rie`xgjmlg~ t` mjx `et`w o`h ‒ ljt g gx tlim xlgmd `ri

djgmd tiee oixtiim wjy:‖ 

 Xli ―fgr`bei‖ pyixgjm ,b`m yi gm xli Rxj~ `mh Xlgmc ~l`i'

I|`f~ei;

―G xlg ~rjoeif hgh mjx i|gx ‒ tl`x tjyeh oi hgirimx gm wjyr egi:‖ 

―G wjy l`h ` jeyxgjm xj xlg ~rjoeif ‒ tl`x tjyeh wjy egci xj `blgiqi gm xli

mi|x wi`r:‖ 

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?88

Mjx cmjtgmd pyixgjm ,b`m oi yih gm xli Rxj~ ~l`i'

I|`f~ei;

―Wjy fyx l`qi ` djjh ri`jm xj oi x`wgmd gm xlg rie`xgjmlg~ ‡‖ 

―G `f yri wjy‗qi xljydlx `ojyx tlw wjy djx xj xlg ~jgmx gm wjyr egi ‒ tl`x 

`ri wjyr xlijrgi:‖ 

―Ljt hj wjy ymhirx`mh tlw wjyr ~riqgjy jeyxgjm hgh mjx tjrc:‖ 

Egximgmd ajr xrimdxl ,b`m yi gm xli Rxj~ `mh Xlgmc `mh Hj ~l`i'

I|`f~ei;

―Wjy l`qi oiim xlrjydl ` ejx% `mh l`qi f`m`dih xj bj~i xgee mjt- Tl`x l`

ci~x wjy djgmd:‖ 

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―Wjy iif `m|gjy `ojyx tlixlir wjy xryx wjyr jeyxgjm oyx G l`qi li`rh 

ljt ~riqgjy jeyxgjm ri`eew tjrcih jr wjy-‖ 

―G‗f li`rgmd wjy hjyox tlixlir wjy b`m b`rrw jyx xli ~e`m% oyx rjf tl`x wjy

xjeh fi `ojyx wjyr kjo wjy l`qi f`hi jfi ri`eew gf~jrx`mx hibggjm jm

 wjyr jtm-‖ 

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Joirqir‗ rjei&~e`w blibcegx

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  6    >    '

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== ?8<

 @bxgqgxw 2-?>

 Xli rjei ja “jxlir‗ gm ~rjoeif jeqgmd

Imbjyr`di bjymieejr xj f`ci ` egx j `ee y~~jrx rijyrbi xliw b`m `bbi

`mh xj cii~ gx y~h`xih `mh l`mhw-

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj f`ee drjy~ j xlrii jr jyr-0-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj or`gmxjrf gm xligr drjy~ @EE xli rijyrbi `mh jrd`mg`&?-

xgjm xliw cmjt ,oighi bjymieegmd' xl`x xli jeejtgmd gmhgqghy`e fgdlx `b&

bi gm rijeqgmd xligr ~rjoeif ,trgxi jm g~bl`rx oj`rh';

` ~ridm`mx xiim`dir t`mxgmd `m `ojrxgjmu

` ~lwgb`eew `oyih tgiu

` i|y`eew&l`r`ih if~ejwiiu

` f`rrgih bjy~ei gm bjmgbxu

` hi~riih mh gee% LGQ&~jgxgqi f`mu

` m`mbg`eew&xrgbcim fjxlir tgxl ` hg`oeih blgehu

` wjymd tjf`m% bjmyih `ojyx lir i|y`egxwu

`m iehirew f`m gmqjeqih gm ` qgjeimx lgk`bcgmd-u

Gm ~eim`rw hgby iiho`bc `mh dgqi iiho`bc-2-

Rf`ee&drjy~ tjrc mh

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi `m `t`rimi

j xli rjei j ` r`mdij rijyrbi ,gmbeyh&

gmd bjffymgxw

rijyrbi' gm ~rjoeif

jeqgmd-

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @bxgqgxw 2-?0

I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi

Bl`eeimdi H`w <

_i`h xli b`i xyhw `mh jrfye`xi ~jgoei jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm xl`x

wjy bjyeh yi gm lie~gmd xli gmhgqghy`e hhri lg jr lir ~rjoeif-

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ri`h xli b`i&xyhw-0-

Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj jrfye`xi ~jgoei jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm% o`ih?-

jm xli g| jeyxgjm&jbyih xiblmgpyi%

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgmd xligr mjxi jm xli mi|x h`w-2-

Ljfitjrc mh drjy~

hgbygjm

 

^`rxgbg~`mx ~~ewu

jeyxgjm&jbyih

cgee gm ` trgxxim`bxgqgxw-

^`rxgbg~`mx‗ mjxiu

b`m oi yih jr

iq`ey`xgqi ~yr~ji-

9 fgmyxi

Bl`eeimdi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?9>

B`i&xyhw ‒ Kgffw

Kgffw g ` ?9&wi`r&jeh o`mc beirc% egqgmd gm ` bjffymi% tlj l` bjfi xj wjy jr bjymieegmd

oib`yi li iie xl`x li g mjx `irxgqi% `mh gx g `ibxgmd q`rgjy `~ibx j lg egi-

―G kyx b`m‗x x`mh y~ xj ~ij~ei- G egqi tgxl rgimh gm ` bjffymi% `mh xli jmi

dgre g ` ridye`r fjcir% oyx G dix xirrgoei `eeirdgi tgxl bgd`rixxi fjci- G l`qi

xjeh lir ~jegxiew mjx xj fjci gm fw rjjf `mh li hji gx `mwt`w- G hjm‗x cmjt 

tl`x xj `w xj lir- @ej% fw oj x`ci hq`mx`di j fw hihgb`xgjm ow f`cgmd

fi tjrc jqirxgfi tgxl mj i|xr` ~`w- G iie j yiei `mh ~`xlixgb-‖ 

^jgoei jeyxgjm&ajbyih pyixgjm;

Rb`egmd

,?'

Pyixgjm `rjymh bj~gmd

,?'

I|bi~xgjm xj xli ~rjoeif

,?'

Fgr`bei pyixgjm

,?'

     

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“Mjx cmjtgmd‗ pyixgjm

,?'

Egximgmd jr xrimdxl

,?'

      

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== ?9?

 @bxgqgxw 2-??

Blibc jyx

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri ―tliri xliw `ri‖ gm xirf j xligr h`w‗ ~irjm`e0-

i|~irgimbi-

@ej gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx j xli drjy~‗ i|~irgimbi-?-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew2-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi%8-

i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih xjh`w-‖

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi

@ bjffjm drjymhu

g bri`xih fjmdx~`rxgbg~`mx-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

gdmgb`mx `bxjr

jyxghi xli drjy~

xl`x bjyeh gmyimbi

xli drjy~ ~rjbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

xligr xljydlx `mhiiegmd j drjy~&

`mh bjyri&rie`xih

i|~irgimbi-

?9 fgmyxi

Mjmi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?98

 @bxgqgxw 2-?8

Bjmhimxg`egxw

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi xli be` gmxj f`ee drjy~ j xlrii xj qi-0-

Gyi l`mhjyx?- Bjmahimxg`egxw `mh wjyrie -

@c xli ~`rxgbg~`mx xj tjrc xlrjydl i`bl pyixgjm mh hgby xljrjydlew-2-

@xir `ojyx 2> fgmyxi% orgmd `ee xli drjy~ xjdixlir `mh tjrc xlrjydl i`bl8-

pyixgjm-

Rxgfye`xi hio`xi mh hgbygjm- Bl`eeimdi y~irbg`e mtir mh rjf xgfi xj9-

xgfi dgqi ~ibgb i|`f~ei jr bim`rgj xj hio`xi-

Rf`ee&drjy~ hgbygjm-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j xli gf~jrx`mbi j 

bjmhimxg`egxw-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j xli hgirimbi

oixtiim xi`f bjm&

himxg`egxw% l`rih

bjmhimxg`egxw% mh

bjmhimxg`egxw qiry

ibribw-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmdj xli egfgx`xgjm j 

bjmhimxg`egxw-

1> fgmyxi

Ixlgb`e gyi l`mhjyx

`mh g~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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Bjmhimxg`egxw `mh wjyriea 

F`ci jfi mjxi gm ri~jmi xj xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm;

Tl`x hj wjy hj g ` begimx hgbeji jfixlgmd

xj wjy tlgbl f`w imh`mdir jxlir% i-d- ` ~`rx&

mir:

Rljyeh wjy x`ci ri~jmgogegxw jr xli hgbejyri

begimx f`ci:

Ljt hj wjy cmjt tlixlir xli gmjrf`xgjm xl`x

` begimx dgqi wjy g xryi:

Tlj hj l`ri wjyr iiegmd tgxl `ojyx gyi xj

hj tgxl bjmhimxg`egxw:

Tl`x hj wjy hj g ` begimx xiee wjy jfixlgmd

tlgbl wjy mh hgx`xiye:

Tliri hji xli f`gm egmi j wjyr ri~jmgogegxw

egi; xj wjyr if~ejwir% wjyr begimx% wjyr x`% wjyr&ie% wjyr `fgew `mh jxlir:

      

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?91

Ojymh`rgi `mh bjmhimxg`egxw

,`h`~xih rjf Bjymieegmd Rcgee jr Hyffgi ow D`ge Iq`m'

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@ jjm wjy ri gm ` lie~gmd bjmqir`xgjm tgxl jfijmi% wjy miih xj mh ~`bi xj i|~e`gm

tl`x bjmhimxg`egxw fi`m j xl`x xli ~i`cir gm‗x ymhir `mw fg`~~rilimgjm- Ghi`eew hj

xlg `x xli x`rx j xli bjmqir`xgjm- G xli ~i`cir hgbeji xlgmd xj wjy oijri wjy‗qi oiim

bei`r `ojyx wjyr ri~jmgogegxgi xj hgbeji birx`gm xlgmd xj jxlir ~ij~ei% wjy b`m imh y~ gm

` hgbyex ~jgxgjm- Iqim g jfijmi g y~ix% dimxew gmxirqimi xj f`ci ` orgi x`xifimx-

Gx f`w `ej% gm jfi gxy`xgjm% oi gf~jrx`mx xj hgxgmdygl oixtiim ibribw `mh bjmhimxg&

`egxw- Ribribw tjyeh gf~ew xl`x jmbi l`rih% ` ~gibi j gmjrf`xgjm b`m miqir oi riqi`eih xj

`mwjmi iei- Tlgei ` bjymieejr xrgqi xj cii~ `ee gmjrf`xgjm ~rgq`xi% xliri `ri egfgx xj xlg

rgdlx xj ~rgq`bw `mh gm birx`gm% qirw ~ibgb% bgrbyfx`mbi% wjy f`w l`qi xj ~i`c xj ` xlgrh

~`rxw `ojyx wjyr begimx‗ hgbejyri- Wjy ljyeh `hqgi wjyr begimx xl`x ` fybl ` ~jgoei

wjy tgee t`rm xlif `ojyx ` ori`bl j bjmhimxg`egxw `mh cii~ xlif gmjrfih `ojyx bjmi&

pyimbi-

 Xlii `ri jfi ja xli ~jximxg`e egfgx xj bjmhimxg`egxw

R`ixw j blgehrim;Ø _ififoir xl`x xlg ~ibx `~~egi ipy`eew tlixlir wjy‗ri x`ec&

gmd xj ` blgeh jr `m `hyex% oib`yi xli `hyex f`w fimxgjm ` blgeh tlj g `x rgc jr `

gxy`xgjm tliri ` blgeh bjyeh oi ` rgc- I|`f~ei gmbeyhi; ~`rimx tlj `ri `rdygmd

i|bigqiew mh xlg bjyeh gmbeyhi hjfixgb qgjeimbi% m `eeidih blgeh oyir rjf xli

~irjm‗ ~`x tlj f`w xgee l`qi i`w `bbi xj blgehrim% `mh ` wjymd `hyex tlj l`

oiim `oyih `mh tlj l` wjymdir goegmd xgee `x ljfi-

R`ixw j ie `mh jxlir;Ø G xli lie~&iicir gmhgb`xi xliw tgl xj irgjyew l`rf

xlifieqi ,xlrjydl ygbghi' jr jxlir ,xlrjydl ljfgbghi' wjy ljyeh ri~jrx xlg

xj wjyr fimxjr * y~irqgjr gffihg`xiew- Xlg ljyeh oi i|~e`gmih y~rjmx tlim

hgbygmd bjmhimxg`egxw mh gx egfgx- Tliri xli lie~&iicir g tgxlljehgmd gm&

jrf`xgjm tlgbl bjyeh l`rf jfijmi iei ,jr i|`f~ei xliw l`qi mjx xjeh xligr

i|y`e ~`rxmir xliw `ri LGQ ~jgxgqi `mh xliw `ri l`qgmd ym~rjxibxih i|' wjy ljyeh

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== ?9<

imbjyr`di `mh `gx xli lie~&iicir xj hgbeji xlg gmjrf`xgjm ,jfixgfi xlg g

b`eeih l`rih bjmahimxg`egxw% ` xli ~rgq`xi gmjrf`xgjm l` mjt oiim l`rih tgxl xlibjymieejr% xli begimx `mh ` ~ibgb xlgrh ~`rxw jr ~`rxgi'-

Jrd`mg`xgjm`e ri~jmgogegxgi;Ø blibc xli ~jegbgi j wjyr jrd`mg`xgjm- Ajr i|&

`f~ei% `exljydl wjy f`w oiegiqi xl`x ` ~irjm l` xli rgdlx xj ie&hixrybxgqi

oil`qgjyr ,ybl byxxgmd oil`qgjyr' wjyr jrd`mg`xgjm f`w ripygri wjy xj hgbeji

ybl rgc- G xli ~irjm‗ kjo ri~jmgogegxgi ri xlri`ximih ow lir egixwei ,hryd&

x`cgmd% `ebjlje yi' wjy f`w l`qi ` hyxw xj hgbeji- Jxlir ~ij~ei f`w oi gmqjeqih

gm ` ~irjm‗ b`ri% j jfi jrd`mg`xgjm jir bjmhimxg`egxw tgxlgm xli jrd`mg`xgjm

,jfixgfi b`eeih xi`f bjmahimxg`egxw '-

Fimxjrgmd `mh y~irqggjm;Ø G wjy‗ri eybcw imjydl xj l`qi fimxjrlg~ * y~irqg&

gjm% hgbeji xlg gmjrf`xgjm xj xli lie~ iicir `mh i|~e`gm tl`x gx fi`m- Ajr

i|`f~ei% ―Gm fw y~irqggjm G hjm‗x hgbeji ghimxgwgmd gmjrf`xgjm ybl ` m`fi tlim G 

hgby fw tjrc‖-

_ibjrh;Ø  Wjyr jrd`mg`xgjm f`w ripygri wjy xj cii~ ribjrh- Wjy ljyeh hgbeji

xlg xj xli lie~&iicir `mh oi ~ri~`rih xj `mtir pyixgjm `ojyx xli ibyrgxw `mh

~rgq`bw j% `mh `bbi xj% ybl ribjrh-

Mjxi; gm xli b`i j y~ibxih blgeh `oyi jr `mw jxlir gyi xl`x ripygri xli bjymieejr xj

xi~ jyx j xli bjymieegmd r`fi% bjmyex fimxjr jr y~irqgjr jr hqgbi jm xli i|`bx xi~

xj jeejt-

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_iqgitgmd cgeeHgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh ~`grih

rjei&~e`w

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j riqgitgmd cgee gm`igmd xli yb&

bii% blgiqifimx

`mh bl`eeimdi j 

bjymieegmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j xli rjei j riqgit&

gmd gm x`cgmd xjbc%

iqim g bjymieegmd g

xj bjmxgmyi-

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

_iqgitgmd; iq`ey`xgmd tl`x l` oiim blgiqih xly `r gm bjymieegmd jr i&

gmd ~e`m xl`x xli begimx l` gf~eifimxih ` ` riyex j bjymieegmd-

Ryddixih fixljh;

Dgqi gm~yx jm xli oimix j riqgitgmd cgee-0-

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj ~`gr xj rjei&~e`w riqgitgmd cgee- @c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj?-

f`ci y~ ` bim`rgj j ` rx bjymieegmd igjm xl`x l` oiim rymmgmd jr 2>

fgmyxi- @c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ~r`bxgi riqgitgmd tl`x l` l`~~imih gm xli i&

gjm xly `r-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== ?1>

 @bxgqgxw 2-?1

Imhgmd cgee

Rx`dih rjei&~e`w `mh

hgh`bxgb gm~yx

^`rxgbg~`mx i|~ejriu

xli hwm`fgb j 

imhgmd bjymieegmdigjm jr bjymie&

egmd rie`xgjmlg~-

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

Egmc imhgmd xj xli gmgxg`e `driifimx ,bjmxr`bx' f`hi `x xli oidgmmgmd j 

bjymieegmd-

Gm Rjyxl @rgb`% gx g mjx ymbjffjm jr begimx xj xj~ bjfgmd oijri xli driih

myfoir j bjymieegmd igjm l` bjfi xj `m imh-

 Xlg f`w jbbyr jr q`rgjy ri`jm% tlgbl jxim l` egxxei xj hj tgxl xli py`egxw

j xli bjymieegmd-

Ryddixih fixljh;

I|~ejri tlim xirfgm`xgjm j xli bjymieegmd rie`xgjmlg~ g ~~rj~rg`xi-0-

Dgqi gm~yx jm xli hgirimbi oixtiim imhgmd i`bl igjm `mh imhgmd ` irgi?-

j igjm-

Hgby xli ifjxgjm j xli begimx `mh xli bjymieejr xl`x bjyeh oi iqjcih ow2-

imhgmd- ^ri~`rgmd jr xirfgm`xgjm g gmxidr`e-

Or`gmxjrf tgxl xli be`% jm xli g~bl`rx oj`rh% xli q`rgjy cgee xl`x bjyeh oi8-

yih gm imhgmd ` bjymieegmd igjm,'-

Gm drjy~ j xlrii% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj rjei&~e`w cgee egmcih xj imhgmd-9-

Gm ~eim`rw% hgby iiho`bc-1-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== ?1?

_iqgitgmd `mh imhgmd ` igjm jr ` irgi ja igjm ja bjymieegmd

,`h`~xih rjf Bjymieegmd Rcgee jr Hyffgi ow D`ge Iq`m'

 Xli bjymieejr miih xj oi `oei xj iq`ey`xi ljt xli igjm timx gm xirf j xli jeyxgjm,'

hiqiej~ih mh tlixlir xli begimx * bjymieejr rie`xgjmlg~ t` `fgb`oei mh ~rjhybxgqi- Xlg

~rjbi j riqgitgmd `mh iq`ey`xgmd orgmd jmi igjm xj ` beji jr bjyeh orgmd ` irgi j 

igjm xj ` beji% `mh ljyeh yy`eew oi egmcih xj xli bjmxr`bx-

Xli bjymieejr bjyeh `w xj xli begimx;

―Ti miih xj orgmd xlg igjm xj `m imh% eix‗ ~imh jfi xgfi x`cgmd xjbc-‖ Ø

―G ii ti l`qi aqi fgmyxi eix% ~irl`~ xlg tjyeh oi ` djjh xgfi xj orgmd xlgmd xj `Ø

beji-‖ 

―Ljt hgh wjy amh xli igjm:‖ Ø

―Tl`x t` lie~ye jr ymlie~ye jr wjy:‖ Ø

―Tl`x b`m wjy x`ci rjf xlg igjm:‖ Ø

―Ljt hj wjy iie `ojyx xl`x gyi ti hgh mjx rijeqi:‖ Ø

―Ljt hj wjy iie `ojyx xli `bx xl`x xlg g jyr e`x igjm:‖ Ø

―Tl`x gdm bjyeh wjy ejjc jyx jr gm xli yxyri xj cmjt tlim xj x`ci `bxgjm:‖ Ø

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Xli bjymieejr miih xj xlgmc `ojyx

Tl`x g wjy jtm xxgxyhi xj bieior`xgmd imhgmd mh dgqgmd ~r`gi:Ø

Ljt bjyeh xlg `ibx ljt wjy tjrc tgxl begimx:Ø

G gx `~~rj~rg`xi xj f`rc xli imhgmd j bjymieegmd gm `mw t`w:Ø

Tl`x g wjyr `~~rj`bl xj lyd `mh l`mhl`ci: ,Rii mjxi jm xjybl i`regir gm xlgØ

f`my`e-'

Tl`x g wjyr `~~rj`bl xj dgx tlgbl begimx f`w orgmd xj xl`mc wjy jr wjyr `g&Ø

x`mbi: Rjfi pyixgjm xj bjmghir liri gmbeyhi;

G gx JC xj ribigqi dgx `x `ee ‒ jr i|`f~ei% hji wjyr jrd`mg`xgjm l`qi ` ~jegbwu

jm dgx:

Tl`x cgmh j dgx tjyeh gx oi `bbi~x`oei xj ribigqi ‒ fjmiw% jfixlgmd l`mh&u

f`hi% `m i|~imgqi gxif:

Ljt tgee xli begimx ri`bx g wjy riyi xli dgx:u

Hj wjy bjmghir xli dgx ~irjm`e jr jfixlgmd wjy ljyeh hjm`xi xj wjyr jr&u

d`mg`xgjm:

Rljyeh wjy hgby xli ribig~x j xli dgx tgxl wjyr fimxjr * y~irqgjr:u

G xli dgx g tr`~~ih% ljyeh wjy ymtr`~ gx gm rjmx j xli begimx jr j~im gx e`xir:u

Tl`x gf~`bx bjyeh wjyr ri`bxgjm xj xli dgx l`qi jm xli begimx:u

Rljyeh wjy dgqi begimx dgx ‒ jfi bjymieejr egci xj dgqi ` begimx jfixlgmdu

egci ` ~jif jr ~gbxyri xj gm~gri xlif:

Mjxi ‒ xliri g mj jmi gmdei bjrribx `mtir xj xlii pyixgjm `mh wjy ljyeh hgby xlg

tgxl fimxjr mh wjyr jrd`mg`xgjm-

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== ?18

Yiaye xr`xidgi ajr xli bjymieejrTlim ~jgoei% ~e`m jr imhgmd; wjy miih xj xlgmc `ojyx; ~ri~`rgmd wjyrie `mh

wjyr begimx jr xli imhgmd- _ibjdmgi tliri xli begimx g `x ,~jgxgqi% miyxr`e% mid`xgqi'-

F`ci ` hibggjm `ojyx tlixlir `m gffihg`xi jr ~l`ih imhgmd g `~~rj~rg`xi- Tl`x

cgmh j djjhowi tjyeh oi ~~rj~rg`xi:

Ryff`rgi xli igjm;  yff`rgi jr xli begimx xli f`gm ~jgmx xl`x l`qi ifirdih gm

xli igjm,' ‒ jr `c xli begimx xj hj j- Wjy b`m ej riir o`bc xj xli jqir`ee dj`e j xli

bjymieegmd hgbyih gm xli bjmxr`bx jr xli ~ibgb dj`e j xlg igjm% g ix`oeglih-

_iqgit jr rifgmh `ojyx xli `bxgjm ~e`m; `x xlg ~jgmx gx f`w oi yiye xj hgby xli

t`w jrt`rh ‒ hj begimx l`qi “ljfitjrc‗ xj hj: Tliri ~jgoei% xlii x`c jr xli beg&

imx fyx oi ~ibgb% fi`yr`oei% blgiq`oei% ri`egxgb mh xgfi ojymh-

If~l`gi `blgiqifimx; G xli begimx l` f`hi djjh ~rjdri gx b`m jfixgfi oi

`~~rj~rg`xi xj jir tjrh j bcmjteihdfimx mh imbjyr`difimx- Rxri ~ibgb jyx&

bjfi tlgbl wjy xlgmc l`qi oiim lie~ye- Wjy b`m ej gmqgxi xli begimx xj fimxgjm xli

lgdl ~jgmx j xli igjm,'-

Mjrf`egi fg|ih iiegmd;  Xli begimx f`w oi i|bgxih `mh riegiqih `ojyx imhgmd bjym&

ieegmd oyx f`w `ej iie `hmi `ojyx imhgmd ` rie`xgjmlg~% i~ibg`eew g gx t` rygxye

`mh beji- Gx g yiye xj rifgmh begimx xl`x `ee xlii iiegmd `ri mjrf`e `mh `~~rj~rg`xi-

Bjmbeyhi jm ` lgdl mjxi; g ~jgoei% dgqi xli begimx ` fi`mgmdye pyjxi jr x`xifimx

xj xlgmc `ojyx- Xl`mc xlif jr xligr gmqjeqifimx `mh tgl xlif djjh eybc tgxl xli

gf~eifimx`xgjm j `mw ~e`m jr xi~ driih y~jm- _ifgmh xlif j wjyr jmdjgmd q`ge&

`ogegxw ow xiei~ljmi jr `~~jgmxfimx% tlgbliqir g rieiq`mx-

Oyx hj mjx `qjgh bl`eeimdi `mh d`~; Mjx `ee igjm `ri ybbiye jr hiqjgh j 

~rjoeif `mh d`~- Gx tjyeh oi fjri ljmix xj `bcmjteihdi bl`eeimdi g xliw l`qi

jbbyrrih- Xli begimx tgee q`eyi xlg ljmixw g x`bxyeew l`mheih% mh oi ei egciew xj ei`qi

bjymieegmd tgxl ymrijeqih iiegmd-

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^l`ih qiry gffihg`xi imhgmd

@ ~l`ih imhgmd b`m x`ci hgirimx jrf; ~e`mmih “ti`mgmd‗ ~rjbi tgxl dr`hy`eew ejmdir

ori`c oixtiim igjm% l`qgmd jeejt&y~ igjm gm ` it tiic% jr ei`qgmd xli hjjr j~im

jr yxyri fiixgmd- @m gffihg`xi imhgmd bjyeh jbbyr g xli begimx `mmjymbi xliw `ri mjx

bjfgmd o`bc- Xliw f`w `bi i|xirm`e bgrbyfx`mbi tlgbl ~riqimx xlif rjf bjfgmd jr wjy

f`w l`qi ` ri`jm ,ybl ` geemi jr yhhim tjrc `gdmfimx' tlgbl x`ci wjy `t`w rjf

xli jbi-

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== ?11

 Xg~ xj `qjgh ei`qgmd xli begimx gm ` hgabyex ifjxgjm`e x`xi;

@x xli imh hjm‗x `c xjj f`mw j~im pyixgjm `ojyx ifjxgjm-Ø

Hjm‗x j~im y~ ifjxgjm`eew hgbyex `ri`-Ø

@qjgh djgmd gmxj mit ~ibx-Ø

Hjm‗x i|~ejri “ojfoliee‗ oyx `bcmjteihdi xlif-Ø

@eejt imjydl xgfi xj i|~ejri iiegmd xljrjydlew-Ø

@bcmjteihdi begimx hg`~~jgmxfimx gm wjy oyx xri tl`x wjy b`m jir% jr l`qiØ

jirih xlif-

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 @bxgqgxw 2-?4

Rgfye`xih bjymieegmd igjm `mh ~iir iq`ey`xgjm

Ryddixih fixljh;

Hgqghi ~`rxgbg~`mx gmxj drjy~ j xlrii ‒ begimx% bjymieejr mh joirqir-0-

@c xli “begimx‗ xj f`ci y~ ` ~rjoeif `rjymh xli xlifi j ?- bjmgbx-

@c bjymieejr xj xrw xj yi ee xli bjymieegmd cgee xliw l`qi ei`rmx j `r gm xli2-

bjyri- _ifgmh ~`rxgbg~`mx j xli fjhie j bjymieegmd; oygehgmd ` jymh`xgjm

,bjmxr`bxgmd g gf~jrx`mx'% lie~gmd xli begimx xiee xligr xjrw% lie~gmd xli begimx i|~ejri

j~xgjm% lie~gmd xli begimx f`ci ` ~e`m `mh riqgitgmd-

Geeyxr`xi xl`x gm ri`egxw% `ee xlii bjymieegmd cgee tjyeh mjx yy`eew oi yih gm8-

xli rx igjm% oyx r`xlir ~ri`h jyx xlrjydl igjm ` xli bjymieegmd rie`&

xgjmlg~ g oygex-

@c joirqir xj yi xli blibcegx ~rjqghih gm xligr f`my`e-9-

^`rxgbg~`mx ljyeh t`~ rjei% g xgfi ~irfgx-1-

 Xrg`h rjei&~e`w mh ~iir

`ifimx

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi m ymhirx`mh&

gmd j bjymieegmd-

1> fgmyxi

Joirqir‗ blibcegx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @bxgqgxw 2-?<

Brgg f`m`difimx `mh `igmd ygbghi rgc 

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx mh drjy~

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mh&

gmd j o`gb brggf`m`difimx-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j ygbghi rgc `i&

fimx-

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

G xli begimx `mtir ―Wi‖ xj `mw j xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm% wjy fyx x`ci gx irg&

jyew mh jeejt y~;

L`qi wjy xljydlx j ljt xj bjffgx ygbghi:

Hj wjy l`qi ` ~e`m:

L`qi wjy hibghih tlim:

L`qi wjy iqir xrgih gx oijri:

L`qi wjy f`hi `rr`mdifimx `ojyx tl`x ljyeh l`~~im `xirt`rh: ,Ajr i|&

`f~ei% ribimx tgee% ~e`m jr blgehrim':

Kyx `ojyx iqirwjmi l` bjmghirih ygbghi% ljtiqir iixgmdew% `x jmi xgfi jr

`mjxlir- Ljtiqir% g xli begimx l` ` ~e`m j ygbghi% xli rgc g qirw lgdl-

Ryddixih fixljh;

Dgqi gm~yx jm brgg f`m`difimx0-

Lgdlegdlx xl`x xli fjx gf~jrx`mx cgee gm lie~gmd begimx djgmd xlrjydl brgg?-

g xj bri`xi ` xryxgmd rie`xgjmlg~ `mh lie~ xlif xiee xligr xjrw -

Dgqi gm~yx jm o`gb ygbghi `ifimx-2-

Hgby `mh i|~ejri q`rgjy j~xgjm jm ljt xj f`m`di ` begimx tlj g irgjyew8-

bjmghirgmd ygbghi-

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Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

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Brgg f`m`difimx

Gx g ribjffimhih xl`x ` bjymieejr tlj gm‗x xr`gmih gm brgg f`m`difimx ljyeh riir beg&

imx gm brgg xj xr`yf` bjymieegmd bimxri- Ljtiqir% gx g gmiqgx`oei xl`x x jfi x`di hyrgmd

bjymieegmd% ` bjymieejr tgee l`qi xj bjymie ` begimx gm brgg-

Jmi j xli xlgmd xl`x xr`yf`xgih ~ij~ei mh fjx lie~ye g xj oi `oei xj xiee xli yee xjrw

j tl`x l`~~imih xj xlif xj m if~`xlgb egximir- _ififoir xj ~i`c xj fimxjr xir xli

igjm% j wjy b`m hiorgi ` tiee!

 @igmd ygbghi rgc 

G xli begimx `mtir ―Wi‖ xj `mw j xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm% wjy fyx x`ci gx irgjyew `mh

jeejt gx y~;

Hjm‗x oi b`rih xj `c ‒ wjy tjm‗x dgqi xli begimx `mw ghi`% oyx r`xlir xliw tgee iie riegiqih

xl`x jfijmi l` `cih! Kyx `ojyx iqirwjmi l` bjmghirih ygbghi% ljtiqir iixgmdew% `x

jmi xgfi jr `mjxlir- Ljtiqir% g xli begimx l` ` ~e`m j ygbghi% xli rgc g qirw lgdl-

G wjy iie xli begimx g gm `mw t`w  ` ~jgoei ygbghi rgc% xrw mjx xj ei`qi xlif jm xligr jtm

`xir xli bjymieegmd igjm- Imbjyr`di xli begimx xj ~i`c xj ` ~wbljejdgx jr hjbxjr% `mh

t`ec tgxl xlif xj xli li`exl b`ri ~rjigjm`e% g ~jgoei- @c xli begimx g wjy b`m b`ee xryx&

ih rgimh jr `fgew fifoir xj bjfi `mh ixbl xlif% iqim g xliw l`qi xligr jtm xr`m~jrx-

G ~jgoei% xiee wjyr fimxjr `xir xli igjm- G `ee iei `ge `mh gx g ` irgjy rgc% imbjyr`di

xli begimx xj ojjc xlifieqi gmxj ` ejb`e lj~gx`e jr begmgb jr xli mgdlx% `mh imyri xliw dix

xliri-

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 @bxgqgxw 2-?7

Tlim xj riairHgh`bxgb gm~yx mh drjy~

hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

xli gdm `mh wf~&

xjf j m|gixw% xri

`mh hi~rigjm-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

tlim xj riir begimx-

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@ l`mhw ryei jr riirrgmd begimx xj ~wbljejdgx g tlim xli begimx‗ oil`qgjyr

jr ifjxgjm ei`h xj gdmgb`mx hwymbxgjm gm xtj jr fjri bjmxi|x j xl`x ~ir&

jm‗ egi i-d- ljfi% tjrc 

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% i|~ejri gmx`mbi jr bim`rgj tlim bjymieejr ljyeh riir0-begimx xj fjri i|~irgimbih ~rjigjm`e-

Trgxi xli yddixgjm jm xli g~bl`rx oj`rh-?-

Dgqi gm~yx jm jxlir gmx`mbi tlim bjymieejr ljyeh riir-2-

Lgdlegdlx xl`x gx g ymixlgb`e jr bjymieejr ,`mh ym`gr xjt`rh begimx' xj tjrc 8-

tgxl ~rjoeif jyxghi j xligr bj~i j ~r`bxgbi `mh bjf~iximbi-

Imbjyr`di hgbygjm mh hio`xi-9-

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Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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_iairrgmd

^rjoeif xl`x `et`w b`ee ajr ~rjaigjm`e lie~;

hi~rigjm mh*jr ygbgh`e xljydlxØ

i|xrifi xri% m|gixw jr ~`mgbØ

ymrijeqih drgi Ø

`ebjljegf * hryd `oyiØ

irgjy fihgb`e ~rjoeifØ

i`xgmd hgjrhirØ

eid`e ~rjoeifØ

`fgew hgbyexgi-Ø

 @ej% bjmghir riairrgmd begimx tlim wjy ri gm xli `mw ja aje&

ejtgmd gxy`xgjm;

brgg gm wjyr jtm egi ‒ `fgew% rie`xgjmlg~% tjrc% ixb-Ø

jeejtgmd gdmgb`mx ejØ

bjffgxfimx xj jxlir joegd`xgjmØ

~lwgb`e jr ifjxgjm`e li`exl ~rjoeifØ

`m|gjy jr xriihØ

jqirtjrcih `x kjo jr xyhgi-Ø

A`bxjr xj bjmghir tlim riairrgmd ` begimx

Dix ` bei`r ghi` j tl`x xli ~rjoeif g oijri riirrgmd-Ø

Cmjt wjyr egfgx`xgjm `mh hj mjx dix jyx j wjyr hi~xl gm xirf j bjf~iximbi-Ø

Bljji wjyr tjrh b`riyeew- jgoei ~lr`i gmbeyhi;Ø

Wjy fgdlx mh gx lie~ye xj‡u

Wjy fgdlx egci xj x`ec tgxl‡u

Tjyeh wjy bjmghir x`ecgmd tgxl‡ :u

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== ?41

G xlgmc gx fgdlx oi yiye jr wjy xj‡u

Hj mjx `w% ―Wjyu miih xj ii‖‡ jr ―Wjy fyx x`ec ‡‖

Oi ljmix- Xiee xli ~irjm tlw wjy `ri mjx xli oix ~irjm jr tlw jfijmi ieiØ

fgdlx oi oixxir lie~ `x xl`x fjfimx-

Hj mjx iie jqirtliefih jr dygexw g wjy b`mmjx lie~-Ø

_iibx xli begimx‗ iiegmd `rjymh oigmd riirrih% if~`xlgb`eew-Ø

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Ymhirx`mhgmd `m|gixw

G begimx g `m|gjy jr bjf~e`gm j m|gixw% bjymieejr bjyeh c xli jeejtgmd pyi&

xgjm xj ymhirx`mh tl`x xli begimx g iiegmd;

Wjy `w wjy `ri mirqjy * `m|gjy-Ø

Tl`x hji xl`x iie egci ifjxgjm`eew:Ø

Ljt hji gx f`ci wjyr ojhw iie:Ø

Ljt ejmd l` xlg oiim djgmd jm:Ø

,G xlg g yhhim jr iqiri% riir xli begimx xj ` li`exl tjrcir-'

Tl`x g b`ygmd wjyr mirqjy iiegmd:Ø

@ri wjy b`rih j birx`gm gxy`xgjm jr xlgmd:Ø

Hj wjy qjgh xlii gxy`xgjm jr xlgmd% jr imhyri xlif:Ø

,Gmhgb`xi wf~xjf j ~ljog`- G iqghimx riir xj li`exl tjrcir-'

Hj wjy tjrrw ` ejx:Ø

Hj wjy iie wjyr tjrrgi `ri ymri`jm`oei:Ø

B`m wjy bjmxrje xli tjrrgi:Ø

Tlim wjy `ri tjrrgih% hj wjy i|~irgimbi `mw j xlii;Ø

rixeimiu

hgbyexw bjmbimxr`xgmd jr yhhimew “djgmd oe`mc‗u

iiegmd grrgx`oei jr ximiu

l`qgmd hgbyexw eii~gmdu

oibjfgmd xgrih i`gew-u

Hj xlii iiegmd f`ci jfi ~`rx j wjyr egi qirw hgbyex:Ø

,Rwf~xjf j dimir`egih `m|gixw hgjrhir- _iir xj li`exl tjrcir-'

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== ?4<

Wjy bjyeh impygri `ojyx xli wf~xjf j ~jgoei ~`mgb hgjrhir ow `cgmd xli je&

ejtgmd pyixgjm;

@ri xliri xgfi tlim jfi j xli jeejtgmd l`~~im:

Wjyr li`rx ~jymh-Ø

Wjy ti`x% xrifoei% jr l`ci-Ø

Wjy iie wjy b`m‗x ori`xli ~rj~irew-Ø

Wjy iie ` g wjy `ri bljcgmd-Ø

Wjyr blix lyrx jr g ymbjfjrx`oei-Ø

Wjy iie gbc xj wjyr xjf`bl-Ø

Wjy iie hg{{w% egdlx&li`hih% jr ` g wjy `ri djgmd xj `gmx-Ø

Wjy iie ` g xli gxy`xgjm g ymri`e% jr xl`x wjy `ri jyxghi wjyrie% hix`blihØ

jfiljt-

Wjy `ri `r`gh j ejgmd bjmxrje jr djgmd br`{w-Ø

Wjy iie ` g wjy `ri hwgmd-Ø

Wjyr ojhw iie myfo gm ~e`bi% jr xliri g ` xgmdegmd iiegmd-Ø

Wjy lgqir jr yhhimew iie ljx-Ø

,Gmhgb`xi wf~xjf j ~`mgb hgjrhir- _iir xj li`exl tjrcir'

Riqiri `m|gixw% tlgbl l`f~ir `m gmhgqghy`e‗ dimir`e egi ymbxgjmgmd% b`m `mh ljyeh

oi xri`xih tgxl fihgb`xgjm mh*jr tgxl ~wbljxlir`~w-

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Hi~rigjm

@ hi~rigqi hgjrhir g `m geemi xl`x gmqjeqi ~lwgb`e ri`bxgjm% fjjh `mh xljydlx- Gx

gmyimbi ~irjm‗ i`xgmd mh eii~gmd l`ogx% xli t`w jmi iie ojyx jmiie mh xli t`w

jmi xlgmc ojyx xlgmd- @ hi~rigqi hgjrhir g mjx xli `fi ~`gmd oeyi fjjh- Gx g mjx

` gdm j ~irjm`e ti`cmi jr ` bjmhgxgjm xl`x b`m oi tgeeih jr tglih `t`w- Tgxljyx xri`x&

fimx% wf~xjf b`m e`x jr tiic% fjmxl% jr wi`r- @~~rj~rg`xi xri`xfimx b`m lie~ fjx

~ij~ei tlj yir rjf hi~rigjm-

_jei ja xli bjymieejr

Gx g mjx y~ xj bjymieejr xj hg`dmji jr xri`x hi~rigjm% oyx xj r`xlir ribjdmgi xli gdm- G 

xli begimx l` jfi j xli wf~xjf hibrgoih jm xli egx ojqi% xli bjymieejr ljyeh riir

xli ~irjm xj ` hjbxjr jr fimx`e li`exl ~rjigjm`e-

G xli hi~rigjm jr iiegmd j `hmi `ri mjx b`ygmd f`kjr hwymbxgjm gm q`rgjy wxif

j xli gmhgqghy`e‗ egi tjreh% bjymieegmd f`w oi oimibg`e oib`yi gx l` lie~ih xli begimx

xj xiee xligr xjrw xj `m ymgmqjeqih egximir% xligr iiegmd l`qi oiim ribjdmgih `mh xliw l`qi

oiim lie~ih xj i|~ejri t`w xj hi`e tgxl xligr ~rjoeif-

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== ?<>

 @bxgqgxw 2-2>

Fw ifjxgjm`e oyxxjm

Ryddixih fixljh;

I|~e`gm xl`x bjffjm xlifi gm xli Rjyxl @rgb`m bjymieegmd bjmxi|x `ri; LGQ* 0-

@GHR3 xr`yf`3 i| mh i|y`egxw3 oiri`qifimx3 ~grgxy`egxw mh riegdgjm-

I|~ejri ljt ~`rxgbg~`mx iie tjrcgmd tgxl begimx hi`egmd tgxl xli `ojqi ~rjo&?-

eif-

Gm drjy~ j xlrii% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj i|~ejri “begimx tlj tjyeh ~yl fw oyx&2-

xjm‗ jr “fw rih&`d xj~gb‗-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% hgby iiho`bc `mh rifgmh ~`rxgbg~`mx j xli gf~jrx`mbi8-

j y~irqggjm mh ~jgoew riirr`e gm ybl bgrbyfx`mbi-

Rie&`t`rimi mh

drjy~ hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

xligr ~irjm`e egfgxgm bjymieegmd-

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @bxgqgxw 2-20

I|~e`gm bl`eeimdi

Bl`eeimdi H`w 7

Ljfitjrc mh drjy~

hgbygjm

 

^`rxgbg~`mx riibxu

jm xligr i|~irgimbi

j xli gfye`xih

bjymieegmd igjm

ow fi`m j ` ei`rm&

gmd ejd-

^`rxgbg~`mx riu

`t`ri j bjffymgxw

y~~jrx rijyrbi-

9 fgmyxi

Ei`rmgmd ejd

Agee jyx xli ei`rmgmd ejd o`ih jm wjyr i|~irgimbi gm xli gfye`xih bjymieegmd

igjm

Ajrfye`xi ` egx j ejb`e y~~jrx rijyrbi `mh riirr`e jrd`mg`xgjm% tgxl bjm&

x`bx hix`ge mh orgmd xjfjrrjt-

Ryddixih fixljh;

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj riibx jm xligr i|~irgimbi j xli gfye`xih bjymieegmd i&0-

gjm xjh`w-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj yi xli ei`rmgmd ejd ~rjqghih gm xligr bjyri f`my`e-?-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `ej jrfye`xi ` egx j ejb`e y~~jrx rijyrbi `mh riirr`e2-

jrd`mg`xgjm% `mh xj orgmd gx xjfjrrjt-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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== ?<?

Ei`rmgmd ejd 

@mtir xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm o`ih jm xli gfye`xih bjymieegmd igjm wjy hgh xjh`w-

Joirqi wjyr iiegmd `mh xljydlx- @c wjyrie xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm ` wjy bjf~eixi

xli ejd-

Ei`rmgmd ~jgmx;

Tl`x hgh wjy ei`rm:Ø

Tlw g gx gf~jrx`mx:Ø

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Ljt tgee xlg oi yiye gm xli yxyri:Ø

 @ fjhie ja bjymieegmd

 

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?<8

 @bxgqgxw 2-2?

Blibc jyx

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j xligr h`w‗ ~irjm`e0-

i|~irgimbi-

@ej gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx j xli drjy~‗ i|~irgimbi-?-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew2-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi8-

i-d- ―‡gx iif egci xli f`kjrgxw j xli drjy~ iie i|bgxih `mh imirdgih xjh`w-‖

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi

@ bjffjm drjymhu

g bri`xih fjmdx

~`rxgbg~`mx-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

gdmgb`mx `bxjr

jyxghi xli drjy~

xl`x bjyeh gmyimbi

xli drjy~ ~rjbi-

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~`bi xj riibx jm

xligr xljydlx `mhiiegmd j drjy~&

`mh bjyri&rie`xih

i|~irgimbi-

?9 fgmyxi

Mjmi

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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H`w xim; Imhgmd

 @bxgqgxw 2-22

Blibc gm `mh riqgit bl`eeimdi

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw l`ri “tliri xliw `ri‗ gm xirf j ~riqgjy h`w‗ `mh0-

iqimgmd‗ i|~irgimbi-

_igxir`xi xl`x xlg `bxgqgxw g qjeymx`rw `mh imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri jmew?-

tl`x xliw iie bjfjrx`oei tgxl-

Gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj l`ri xligr xljydlx `ojyx xli bl`eeimdi ‒ cmjteihdi2-

`ojyx rijyrbi ‒ mh hgby xligr mtir-

Orgiw riibx * yff`rgi gfge`r gmhgqghy`e i|~irgimbi gmxj drjy~ i|~irgimbi%8-

g ~~rj~rg`xi-

^`rxgbg~`mx riqgit byr&

rimx ~irjm`e mh drjy~

i|~irgimbi-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `u

~`bi xj riibx jm

xli ~riqgjy iqimgmd

`mh xligr xljydlx

`ojyx xli ~riqgjy

h`w `xir jfi xgfi

l` ~`ih-

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi xligr dr`~

j xli bl`eeimdi jm

rijyrbi-

2> fgmyxi

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@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?<1

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Bjymieegmd ~jxir

Ryddixih fixljh;

Orgmd jeh f`d`{gmi% br`wjm jr bjejyrih ~im% xrgmd `mh jxlir f`xirg`e xl`x0-

bjyeh oi yih gm `m `rxgxgb t`w-

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~`~ir-

@c drjy~ xj f`ci ~jxir hi~gbxgmd ee xliw l`qi ei`rmih ojyx bjymieegmd gm2-

xlg tjrclj~% ygmd ~gbxyri% tjrh% f`d`{gmi ~gbxyri% ixb-

Imbjyr`di xlif xj gmbjr~jr`xi xli bjymieegmd fjhie% ` tiee ` cgee% ixlgb8-

`mh q`eyi gm xligr ~jxir-

@eejt 2> fgmyxi jr ~jxir bjf~eixgjm-9-

Gm ` e`rdi drjy~% l`qi i`bl drjy~ ~riimx `mh xlim orgiw i|~e`gm xligr ~jxir-1-

^yx y~ jm xli t`ee jr qgitgmd-

@rxgxgb f`ee drjy~ tjrc 

`mh hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j xli `oxr`bx `&~ibx j bjymieegmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi tl`x xliw l`qi

ei`rmx gm xlg bjyri-

89 fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx ~`~ir% ~im%

jeh f`d`{gmi% xrgmd

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @bxgqgxw 2-29

_iqggjm ja bjymieegmd fjhie `mh `~~rj`bli

Ryddixih fixljh;

^yx y~ ` g~&bl`rx j ` oe`mc Id`m‗ fjhie `mh gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj orgiw ee gm0-

`mh i|~e`gm i`bl bjmbi~x j xli fjhie-

Agee gm xli d`~ gm xligr cmjteihdi-?-

Hgby ljt ~`rxgbg~`mx iie `ojyx xli fjhie-2-

Eibxyri mh hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j bjymieegmd fjhie-

A`bgegx`xjr `iiu

~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ymhir&

x`mhgmd-

2> fgmyxi

Id`m‗ fjhie

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A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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 @ Fjhie ja Bjymieegmd

 

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 @bxgqgxw 2-21

 X cgmd b`ri ja wjyriea `mh ~riqimxgmd oyrmjyx

Oyrmjyx; ^lwgb`e `mh * jr ifjxgjm`e i|l`yxgjm `xir ejmd&xirf jr gmximi

xri-

Rf`ee&drjy~ hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j xli gf~jrx`mbi j 

ie&b`ri `mh xli ~ri&qimxgjm j oyrmjyx-

89 fgmyxi

Rie&b`ri tjrcliix% g~&

bl`rx

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gm f`ee drjy~% `c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj or`gmxjrf `ee xli xrijr xliw fgdlx im&0-

bjymxir bjymieejr mh xr`xidgi xj hhri xlii xrijr-

Gm xli e`rdi drjy~% x`ci iiho`bc `mh trgxi xlii jyx jm xli g~bl`rx oj`rh-?-

Orgiw hgby oyrmjyx mh riir ~`rxgbg~`mx xj xli2- Oyrmjyx pyixgjmm`gri gm xligr

f`my`e jr yrxlir gmjrf`xgjm-

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f`xirg`e

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Oyrmjyx pyixgjmm`gri

 Xli fjri “wi‗ mtir wjy dgqi xj xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm% xli fjri egciew wjy `ri xj i|~irg&

imbi oyrmjyx- @ bjri jqir 0> ~yx wjy gm ` lgdl&rgc drjy~-

Wi Mj

G `f gf~`xgimx jr grrgx`oei tgxl jxlir-0-

E`xiew% G jby fjri jm x`c xl`m jm ~ij~ei-?-

G tjrrw ` ejx% `mh mh gx hgbyex xj eix dj j iqim fgmjr xlgmd-2-

G `f qirw ~irjrf`mbi&hrgqim-8-

G f bjf~ixgxgqi mh ddrigqi gm fw bxgjm-9-

Gx‗ hgbyex jr fi xj `bbi~x jr `c lie~ rjf jxlir-1-

G ~riir xj tjrc `ejmi-4-

G l`qi hgbyexw hieid`xgmd x`c-<-

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G jxim l`qi xrjyoei tgxl bj&tjrcir * begimx * `fgew fifoir-0<-

Jxlir xlgmc G fjci `mh*jr hrgmc i|bigqiew-07-

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Riea&b`ri

Jmi j xli fjx iibxgqi t`w xj fgmgfgi xri g xj x`ci b`ri j wjyrie-

Xgbc xli jeejtgmd x`xifimx g xliw ri~riimx wjyr egixwei-

G i`x `x ei`x jmi o`e`mbih fi`e ` h`w-

G dix iqim xj igdlx ljyr j eii~ `x ei`x jyr mgdlx ` tiic-

G dgqi `mh ribigqi `ibxgjm ridye`rew-

G l`qi `x ei`x jmi rie`xgqi beji ow jm tljf G b`m riew-

G i|irbgi `x ei`x xtgbi ` tiic-

G hj mjx fjci-

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G f xli `~~rj~rg`xi tigdlx jr fw ligdlx-

G l`qi `m gmbjfi `hipy`xi xj fiix o`gb i|~imi-

G dix xrimdxl rjf fw oiegi `mh q`eyi-

G ridye`rew xximh beyo jr jbg`e bxgqgxgi-

G l`qi ` mixtjrc j rgimh `mh `bpy`gmx`mbi-

G l`qi jmi jr fjri rgimh xj bjmhi gm `ojyx ~irjm`e f`xxir-

G `f `oei xj ~i`c j~imew `ojyx fw iiegmd tlim `mdrw jr tjrrgih-

G hj jfixlgmd jr ym `x ei`x jmbi ` tiic-

G `f `oei xj jrd`mgi fw xgfi iibxgqiew-

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G x`ci pygix xgfi jr fwie hyrgmd xli h`w-

Ljt f`mw xgbc hj wjy l`qi:

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bjymieejr- B`m bl`mdi oi f`hi xj gf~rjqi wjyr egixwei:

_ixrgiqih rjf lxx~;**ttt-egiegmi?>>>-jrd*irqgbi

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Ryddixih fixljh;

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f`my`e-

Tlim mglih imbjyr`di iiho`bc jm ljt gmhgqghy`e hgir gm xligr ri~jmi xj?-

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`ebjlje g gmiibxgqi mh hixrybxgqi-'

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imbjyr`di iiho`bc gm xli e`rdi drjy~-

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^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi t`rimi j 

xli `bx xl`x gmhgqghy&`e bj~i tgxl xri

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I|irbgih fjri9-

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Ci~x fw iiegmd xj fwie 4-

@xi fjri% fjcih bgd`rixxi% yih `ebjlje<-

_iyih xj `bcmjteihdi xli ~rjoeif7-

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Tl`x lie~ wjy xj hi&xri:

Miqir Rjfixgfi Jxim

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hi`egmd tgxl xrijr- Liri ri jfi ghi` jr bjymieejr mh begimx;

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Ry~irqggjm `mh fimxjrgmd

Fimxjrgmd g mjx xlir`~w% oyx gf xj imbjyr`di ie&`t`rimi gm xli bjymieejr-

Ryddixih fixljh;

I|~e`gm xli ~rgmbg~ei j y~irqggjm `mh fimxjrgmd-0-

Lgdlegdlx xl`x fimxjrgmd g gmxidr`e gm ~rjqghgmd jmdjgmd?- xr`gmgmd% ihyb`xgjm `mh

ifjxgjm`e y~~jrx-

Hgxgmdygl oixtiim drjy~% gmhgqghy`e `mh ~iir fimxjrgmd `mh xli oimix j 2-

i`bl xw~i-

_igxir`xi xli gf~jrx`mbi j ribjrh cii~gmd% ojxl jr bbjymx`ogegxw mh ` t`w8-

xj hiorgi-

Hgby bjmhimxg`egxw j ribjrh mh t`w xj f`gmx`gm xlg-9-

Hgby xli bjymieejr‗ b`i ~riimx`xgjm jrf`x gm jfi hix`ge-1-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj hgby ljt xliw tgee mh fimxjrgmd gm xligr jrd`mg`xgjm-4-

Hgh`bxgb gm~yx `mh or`gm&

xjrf

^`rxgbg~`mx ri t`riu

j xli hgirimbi

oixtiim y~irqggjm`mh fimxjrgmd-

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j hgirimx `~&

~rj`bli xj fimxjr&

gmd-

1> fgmyxi

Fimxjrgmd mjxi-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?71

Rf`ee&drjy~ hgbygjm

^`rxgbg~`mx hif&u

jmxr`xi t`rimi

j ljt xligr mitew

ei`rmx cgee b`m oi`~~egih tgxlgm xligr

jrd`mg`xgjm jr yxyri

b`riir-

2> fgmyxi

Aeg~&bl`rx

 @bxgqgxw 2-27

Gmxidr`xgmd mit cgee gm xli jrd`mg`xgjm

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gm f`ee drjy~% imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj or`gmxjrf ghi` j 0- ljt xliw tgee `~&

~ew `mh gmxidr`xi xli cgee xliw l`qi ei`rmx gm xligr jrd`mg`xgjm * gmhgqghy`e b`&

~`bgxw-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj geeyxr`xi xligr ghi` jm ` ~gibi j g~bl`rx ~`~ir `mh xj ~ri&?-

imx gx xj xli e`rdir drjy~-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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F j h y e i x l r i i ; R i b j m h ` r w b j y m i e e g m d c g e e A

 Xi`f oygehgmd gm xli

drjy~

^`rxgbg~`mx hifjm&u

xr`xi ymhirx`mhgmd

j dgqgmd `mh ribigq&gmd ~jgxgqi iiho`bc 

`mh gx q`eyi gm `

bjymieegmd bjmxi|x-

1> fgmyxi

@8 egmih ~`~ir jr i`bl

~`rxgbg~`mx

 @bxgqgxw 2-8>

^jgxgqi aiiho`bc a`m

Ryddixih fixljh;

L`mh jyx ` ~gibi j egmih @8 ~`~ir xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx ,`mh x`ci jmi jr wjyr&0-

ie'-

@c i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx xj trgxi xligr m`fi jm xli ojxxjf j xli ~`~ir-?-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ~` xli ~`di xj xli ~irjm jm xligr rgdlx-2-

I`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx trgxi ` ~jgxgqi bjffimx `ojyx xli ~irjm jm xli xj~ j xli8-

~`di% jeh gx jqir `mh ~`i gx jm-

@x xli imh% xli ~`di ljyeh riifoei ` `m-9-

Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj ri`h jmi j xligr ~jgxgqi bjffimx `mh `c ljt xli1-

`bxgqgxw iex jr xlif-

Egmc gx xj dgqgmd begimx ~jgxgqi iiho`bc gm bjymieegmd-4-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== ?7<

Trgxxim bjf~eixgjm j 

^jx&fjhyei pyixgjm&

m`gri ‒ 2

Ei`rmir hifjm&u

xr`xi tl`x ei`rmgmdl` x`cim ~e`bi-

A`bgegx`xjr d`gm gm&u

gdlx gmxj ljt fybl

ei`rmgmd l` x`cim

~e`bi-

2> fgmyxi

Bj~gi j ^jx&fjhyei

pyixgjmm`gri 2

 @bxgqgxw 2-80

^jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri ‒ 2

Ryddixih fixljh;

L`mh jyx jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri 2 xj i`bl ~`rxgbg~`mx-0-

@c ~`rxgbg~`mx xj `mtir xli fyexg~ei&bljgbi pyixgjmm`gri o`ih jm xligr?-

ei`rmgmd xlrjydl xlg fjhyei-

^`rxgbg~`mx ljyeh mjx riir xj xligr f`my`e xj `mtir pyixgjm jr hgby2-

xlif tgxl jxlir ~`rxgbg~`mx-

Bjeeibx pyixgjmm`gri mh cii~ gm ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj-8-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

A`bgegx`xjr‗f`xirg`e

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^ri * ~jx&fjhyei pyixgjmm`gri ‒ 2

^ei`i bgrbei xli eixxir xl`x wjy xlgmc fjx ~~rj~rg`xiew mtir xli pyixgjm-

@hq`mbih if~`xlw g i|lgogxih tlim;0-

@ bjymieejr l`ri lg jr lir jtm i|~irgimbi tgxl ` begimx`-

@ bjymieejr b`m dyi tl`x xli begimx g iiegmd tgxljyx li`rgmd xli beg&o-

imx‗ xjrw

 Xli bjymieejr egmc iiegmd `mh bjmximx xj dj oiwjmh yr`bi eiqie ri&b-

ibxgjm j iiegmd

Mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-

?- Bjyeh bjymieejr tlj gm‗x xr`gmih gm xr`yf` bjymieegmd ii begimx gm brgg:

Mj`-

Wi-o-

 Xli jeejtgmd pyixgjm `ri gf~jrx`mx xj `c gm `igmd ygbghi rgc;2-

Hj wjy l`qi ` ~e`m j ljt xj bjffgx ygbghi:`-

L`qi wjy xljydlx `ojyx tlim% tliri `mh ljt wjy tgee hj gx:o-

,`' `mh ,o'b-

Mjmi- @ bjymieejr ljyehm‗x dgqi xli begimx ghi` ow `cgmd pyixgjm-h-

8- Xli f`gm dj`e j brgg f`m`difimx gm bjymieegmd g xj;

Dgqi xli begimx rijyrbi jm ljt xj f`m`di xligr brgg`-

@c jeyxgjm&jbyih pyixgjm xj dyghi xli begimx jyx j xligr brggo-

Egxim xj xli begimx xiee lg yee xjrwb-

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

Riqiri `m|gixw% tlgbl% `ibx `m gmhgqghy`e‗ egi ymbxgjmgmd b`m `mh ljyeh oi9-

xri`xih tgxl ~wbljxlir`~w mh*jr `~~rj~rg`xi fihgb`xgjm-

 Xryi`-

A`ei-o-

      

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 2>>

1- @ gdm `mh wf~xjf j hi~rigjm g;

E`bc j imirdw `mh fjxgq`xgjm xj hj mjrf`e egi `bxgqgxgi`-

Aiiegmd `h `mh if~xw fjx j xli xgfio-

T`mxgmd xj x`ec xj jfijmi ojyx ~rjoeifb-

,`' `mh ,o'-h-

4- Oyrmjyx b`m oi ~riqimxih ow;

I`xgmd ` o`e`mbih hgix`-

Djgmd jr ridye`r fimxjrgmd igjmo-

I|irbggmdb-

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

<- Xli hgirimx bj~gmd ri~jmi xj xri `ri dimir`eew;

Ymhir&xri mh jqirxri`-

Hgirimx fjmdx ~ij~eio-

@bxgqi bjdmgxgqi fixljh% bxgqi oil`qgjyr`e fixljh mh `qjgh`mbib-

Mjmi j xli `ojqi-h-

7- Fimxjrgmd g;

 Xli `fi ` ~wbljxlir`~w`-

 Xli ~rjbi j y~~jrxgmd `mh oygehgmd bjymieejro-

Oigmd y~irqgihb-

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

0>- Fimxjrgmd gmqjeqi;

@ gmdei bjymieejr hgbygmd gyi tgxl ` fjri cgeeih fimxjr`-

`@ drjy~ j bjymieejr x`ecgmd tgxl i`bl jxliro-

@ drjy~ j bjymieejr fiixgmd xjdixlir ymhir xli dygh`mbi j ` fim&b-

xjr

@ee j xli `ojqi-h-

     

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00- Hibrgoi 2 ~irjm`egxw xr`gx j ` djjh bjymieejr;

0?- Hibrgoi 2 ~rgmbg~ei j bjymieegmd

02- Hibrgoi xli x`di `mh cgee j xli fjhie j bjymieegmd% gmbeyhgmd xli rjei j xli

begimx `mh bjymieejr `x i`bl x`di- Yi xli `xx`blih hr`tgmd j xli ljyi-

 @ fjhie ja bjymieegmd

      

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 2>?

08- Hibrgoi 2 ciw ieifimx j xli ghi`e ~lwgb`e ixxgmd jr bjymieegmd-

09- Tlim g gx hqg`oei xj riir begimx:

     

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 @bxgqgxw 2-8?

Blibc jyx% iq`ey`xgjm `mh bl`eeimdi

Bl`eeimdi H`w 0>

Ayrxlir wjyr bjymieegmd cmjteihdi ow ri`hgmd ojjc mh rxgbei-

Trgxxim i|irbgi mh

drjy~ hgbygjm

 

A`bgegx`xjr ymhir&u

x`mh ljt ~`rxgbg&

~`mx iie `ojyx xlibjyri * fjhyei-

^`rxgbg~`mx l`qi `mu

j~~jrxymgxw xj dgqi

iiho`bc-

^`rxgbg~`mx ymhir&u

x`mh xli oimix j 

bjmxgmyih bjymie&

egmd xr`gmgmd `mh

ri`hgmd-

 

2> fgmyxi

Ryddixih fixljh;

Gyi ~`rxgbg~`mx iiho`bc jrf `mh gmqgxi ~`rxgbg~`mx xj bjf~eixi gx- Bjeeibx0-

`mh `hh xj ~`rxgbg~`mx‗ ~jrxjegj-

 X`ci orgi bjmbeyhgmd qiro`e bjffimx rjf xli drjy~% xl`mc xlif jr xligr?-

~`rxgbg~`xgjm `mh tgl xlif tiee jr xli yxyri-

Imbjyr`di ~`rxgbg~`mx xj yrxlir xligr bjymieegmd cmjteihdi ow ri`hgmd ojjc2-

`mh `rxgbei% `mh `xximhgmd yrxlir bjyri jm ~ibgb bjymieegmd cgee-

Rl`ri bjymieegmd ojjc riirimbi% egxih oiejt-8-

@bx gq g xw

Jyxbjfi

 X gfi

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 2>8

^`rxgbg~`mx aiiho`bc ajrf

M`fi; H`xi;

Tl`x ~ibx j xli bjyri l`qi wjy jymh lie~ye:

Tl`x ~ibx j xli bjyri l`qi wjy jymh ymlie~ye:

Ljt tjyeh wjy egci xj hiqiej~ yrxlir ` bjymieejr:

Ljt tjyeh wjy r`xi xli `bgegx`xjr:

Ljt hj wjy iie ojyx xli xr`gmgmd fixljh mh i|irbgi yih:

Ljt hj wjy iie ojyx xli jrd`mg`xgjm j xli bjyri:

@mw jxlir bjffimx:

     

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Rblñm% K-% Djtir% E- Cjx{i% Q- ,?>>9'0- Ieifimx j Bjymieegmd- Tixljqim; _JBR-

Id`m% D- ,?>>?'?- Xli Rcgeeih Lie~ir- ^`bgb Drjqi% B@; Orjjc*Bjei-

_jdir% B-_- ,0790'2- Begimx&bimxrih Xlir`~w- Ojxjm% Ljydlxjm% Fgagm-

Cõoeir&_j- I- ,0717'8- Jm Hi`xl `mh Hwgmd- Mit Wjrc; F`bfgee`m-

L`fgexjm% _- Hgm`x% M- ,?>>1'9-  Kyx`‗ Bjymieegmd L`mhojjc jr Li`exlb`ri ^rjigjm`e-

^``re; Kyx`

 Xje`m% K- ,?>>1'1- Rcgee gm ^irjm&bimxrih Bjymieegmd `mh ^wbljxlir`~w- Ejmhjm; R`di ^yoeg&

b`xgjm-

Egmhjm% K- Egmhjm% E- ,?>>>'4- F`xirgmd bjymieegmd cgee- Ejmhjm; F`bfgee`m-

Iq`m% D- ,?>>4'<- Bjymieegmd cgee jr hyffgi- Blgblixir; Kjlm Tgeiw Rjm-

Ii% A- Ejti% _- ,?>>9'7- Rjeyxgjm Oygehgmd @~~rj`bl xj Xiei~ljmi Bjymieegmd; Gf~egb`xgjm mh Gmxidr`xgjm ,rixrgiqih qg` xli gmxirmix rjf xli Pyiime`mh Ymgqirgxw j Xiblmjejdw'

Bimxri jr xli Rxyhw j @GHR ,ymh`xih'0>- LGQ*@GHR Bjymieegmd Bjyri; A`bgegx`xjr‗ F`my`e-

^rixjrg`; Ymgqirgxw j ^rixjrg`-

Lj~i% @- Xgffie% R- ,0778'00- Xr`gmgmd jr Xr`mjrf`xgjm- Dtiry% [gfo`oti; F`foj

^ri-

Q`m Hwc% @- ,?>>9'0?- LGQ*@GHR B`ri `mh Bjymieegmd; @ Fyexghgbg~egm`rw @~~rj`bl- B`~i Xjtm;

^i`rjm

_iairimbi ! rijyrbi

^`rx D;

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b j y m i e e g m d x l i j r w ` m h ~ r ` b x g b i g m j y x l ` r g b ` ` b g e g x ` x j r ‗ f ` m y ` e  

== 2>1

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