DECISION MAKING SCENARIOLinda’ s boyfriend has been with her for about a year. He was originally very sweet to her but on

several occasions he has behaved aggressively and angrily after he seen her commenting on another boy’s Facebook pictures. It takes about a day for him to apologize for his behavior and he always buys her gifts to make up for it. Recently, her bf

pulled her arm vigorously at a football game when she tried to go say “hi” to one of her male friends

on the swim team. Linda believes that she is still in love with her boyfriend.

As a group walk through each step of the Decision Making Process (make sure everyone writes their part)

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Learning Target

I will: explain why it is important to recognizeyour emotions.

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So I can: distinguish helpful from harmful coping strategies.

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Myth It is always healthy to “let your feelings out.”

Opening Activity

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Myth It is always healthy to “let your feelings out.”

Fact Some ways of expressing your emotions are positive and constructive. Other ways of expressing emotions are negative and destructive.

Think of a time when you felt afraid and a time when you felt guilty. Describe how you behaved in response to each feeling.

Opening Activity

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• An emotion is a reaction to a situation that involves your mind, body, and behavior.

Primary Emotions

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• An emotion is a reaction to a situation that involves your mind, body, and behavior.

Primary Emotions

• Primary emotions are emotions that are expressed by people in all cultures.

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• An emotion is a reaction to a situation that involves your mind, body, and behavior.

Primary Emotions

• Primary emotions are emotions that are expressed by people in all cultures.

• Examples of primary emotions are• happiness• sadness• anger• fear

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• Happiness is a normal response to pleasant events in one’s life.

Happiness

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• Happiness is a normal response to pleasant events in one’s life.

Happiness

• Feeling happy helps you feel good about yourself.

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• Happiness is a normal response to pleasant events in one’s life.

Happiness

• Feeling happy helps you feel good about yourself.

• Make a list of the things you enjoy.

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• Sadness is a normal response to disappointing events in your life.*

Sadness

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• Sadness is a normal response to disappointing events in your life.*

Sadness

• If you are sad about the death of a loved one, you will likely experience a period of deep sorrow known as grief.

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• Sadness is a normal response to disappointing events in your life.*

Sadness

• If you are sad about the death of a loved one, you will likely experience a period of deep sorrow known as grief.

Can you think of anything that makes you sad that does not personally involve you?

Face someone and discuss.

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• Feelings of anger can range from mild resentment to intense rage.

Anger

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• Feelings of anger can range from mild resentment to intense rage.

Anger

• Anger is helpful when it provides you with the energy necessary to try to change things.*

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• Feelings of anger can range from mild resentment to intense rage.

Anger

• Anger is helpful when it provides you with the energy necessary to try to change things.*

• People who tend to express anger in negative ways may hurt themselves and others.

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• Feelings of anger can range from mild resentment to intense rage.

Anger

• Anger is helpful when it provides you with the energy necessary to try to change things.*

• People who tend to express anger in negative ways may hurt themselves and others.

List of examples of how anger can:

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• Feelings of anger can range from mild resentment to intense rage.

Anger

• Anger is helpful when it provides you with the energy necessary to try to change things.*

• People who tend to express anger in negative ways may hurt themselves and others.

List of examples of how anger can:

Hurt Ourselves:

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• Feelings of anger can range from mild resentment to intense rage.

Anger

• Anger is helpful when it provides you with the energy necessary to try to change things.*

• People who tend to express anger in negative ways may hurt themselves and others.

List of examples of how anger can:

Hurt Ourselves: Hurt Others:

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• Fear is the emotion you feel when you recognize a threat to your safety or security.

Fear

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• Fear is the emotion you feel when you recognize a threat to your safety or security.

Fear

• Fear can be a helpful emotion because it can lead you to run from life-threatening situations. (stress)

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• Fear is the emotion you feel when you recognize a threat to your safety or security.

Fear

• Fear can be a helpful emotion because it can lead you to run from life-threatening situations. (stress)

• Fear can be a harmful emotion when it is not based on a real threat or when it is an overreaction to a perceived threat.

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Learned Emotions

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Learned Emotions

• Examples of learned emotions are• love• guilt• shame

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• Some emotions are not expressed in the same way by all people. These emotions are called social emotions, or learned emotions.

Learned Emotions

• Examples of learned emotions are• love• guilt• shame

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Love

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• What does love between family members, love between friends, and romantic love have in common? Turn and face someone to discuss...

Love

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• What does love between family members, love between friends, and romantic love have in common? Turn and face someone to discuss...

Love

• All are marked by deep feelings of affection and concern.

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• What does love between family members, love between friends, and romantic love have in common? Turn and face someone to discuss...

Love

• All are marked by deep feelings of affection and concern.

• You can feel love toward places and things, as well as toward people.

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• What does love between family members, love between friends, and romantic love have in common? Turn and face someone to discuss...

Love

• All are marked by deep feelings of affection and concern.

• You can feel love toward places and things, as well as toward people.

• The capacity to give and receive love is essential for mental health.

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News Content and EmotionsWhat stories appear on the evening news and why?To attract viewers, news directors may select storiesthat are highly emotional. Can watching the newsincrease your level of fear or anxiety? Evaluate theevening news using this checklist.

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Two or more “Yes” answers indicate a program that could increase your level of fear or anxiety.

Were two or more stories about a crime or a trial?

Did you see a car crash, train wreck, or plane crash?

Were there reports about fires, floods, or other disasters?

Did most of the people who were interviewed express sadness, fear, or anger?

Did a majority of the reports show events with negative outcomes?

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• Guilt can be a helpful emotion. Guilt and Shame

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• Guilt can be a helpful emotion. Guilt and Shame

• Guilt can stop you from doing something you know is wrong, or it can make you take action to correct something you’ve done.

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• Guilt can be a helpful emotion. Guilt and Shame

• Guilt can stop you from doing something you know is wrong, or it can make you take action to correct something you’ve done.

• Shame is different from guilt because it focuses on the person rather than the action.

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• Guilt can be a helpful emotion. Guilt and Shame

• Guilt can stop you from doing something you know is wrong, or it can make you take action to correct something you’ve done.

• Shame is different from guilt because it focuses on the person rather than the action.

• Shame can be harmful because it lowersself-esteem.

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Recognizing your emotions is the important first step toward dealing with them in healthful ways.

Recognizing Your Emotions

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Recognizing your emotions is the important first step toward dealing with them in healthful ways.

Recognizing Your Emotions

• Name the emotion you are feeling.

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Recognizing your emotions is the important first step toward dealing with them in healthful ways.

Recognizing Your Emotions

• Name the emotion you are feeling.• Determine what triggered the emotion.

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Recognizing your emotions is the important first step toward dealing with them in healthful ways.

Recognizing Your Emotions

• Name the emotion you are feeling.• Determine what triggered the emotion.• Think back to past times that you felt the same

way.

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• A coping strategy is a way of dealing with an uncomfortable or unbearable feeling or situation.

Coping With Your Emotions

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• A coping strategy is a way of dealing with an uncomfortable or unbearable feeling or situation.

Coping With Your Emotions

• Coping strategies are helpful when they improve a situation or allow a person to handle a situation in a better way.

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• A coping strategy is a way of dealing with an uncomfortable or unbearable feeling or situation.

Coping With Your Emotions

• Coping strategies are helpful when they improve a situation or allow a person to handle a situation in a better way.

• Coping strategies are harmful when they make a situation worse or a person is less able to handle a situation.

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Defense mechanisms are coping strategies that help you to protect yourself from difficult feelings.

Defense Mechanisms

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Defense mechanisms are coping strategies that help you to protect yourself from difficult feelings.

Defense Mechanisms

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Defense mechanisms are coping strategies that help you to protect yourself from difficult feelings.

Defense Mechanisms

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• People react in many different ways to their own strong feelings.

Helpful Ways of Coping

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• People react in many different ways to their own strong feelings.

Helpful Ways of Coping

• Helpful coping strategies

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• People react in many different ways to their own strong feelings.

Helpful Ways of Coping

• Helpful coping strategies• Confront the situation head-on. If possible, take action to

improve the situation.

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• People react in many different ways to their own strong feelings.

Helpful Ways of Coping

• Helpful coping strategies• Confront the situation head-on. If possible, take action to

improve the situation.

• Release your built-up energy by exercising, cleaning your room, or being active in some other way.

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• People react in many different ways to their own strong feelings.

Helpful Ways of Coping

• Helpful coping strategies• Confront the situation head-on. If possible, take action to

improve the situation.

• Release your built-up energy by exercising, cleaning your room, or being active in some other way.

• Take a break by reading a book, listening to music, taking a walk,writing in your journal, or otherwise relaxing.

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• People react in many different ways to their own strong feelings.

Helpful Ways of Coping

• Helpful coping strategies• Confront the situation head-on. If possible, take action to

improve the situation.

• Release your built-up energy by exercising, cleaning your room, or being active in some other way.

• Take a break by reading a book, listening to music, taking a walk,writing in your journal, or otherwise relaxing.

• Talk through your feelings with a family member, friend, counselor, or other trusted person. Sometimes, just talking about your feelings will help you see things more clearly.

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• People may respond in unhealthy ways to intense emotions.

Harmful Ways of Coping

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• People may respond in unhealthy ways to intense emotions.

Harmful Ways of Coping

• Using alcohol or other drugs is an example of a harmful coping strategy.

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• People may respond in unhealthy ways to intense emotions.

Harmful Ways of Coping

• Using alcohol or other drugs is an example of a harmful coping strategy.

• Withdrawing from friends and family is another.

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Exit Slip

How can you positively deal with a person who is bad

mouthing you? Give me 3 different ways...

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Vocabulary

emotion

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

grief

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

grief A period of deep sorrow.

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

grief A period of deep sorrow.

learned emotion

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

grief A period of deep sorrow.

learned emotion An emotion whose expression depends on the social environment in which a person grows up.

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

grief A period of deep sorrow.

learned emotion An emotion whose expression depends on the social environment in which a person grows up.

coping strategy

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

grief A period of deep sorrow.

learned emotion An emotion whose expression depends on the social environment in which a person grows up.

coping strategy A way of dealing with an uncomfortable or unbearable feeling or situation.

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

grief A period of deep sorrow.

learned emotion An emotion whose expression depends on the social environment in which a person grows up.

coping strategy A way of dealing with an uncomfortable or unbearable feeling or situation.

defense mechanism

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Vocabulary

emotion A reaction to a situation that involves the mind, body, and behavior.

primary emotion An emotion that is expressed by people in all cultures.

grief A period of deep sorrow.

learned emotion An emotion whose expression depends on the social environment in which a person grows up.

coping strategy A way of dealing with an uncomfortable or unbearable feeling or situation.

defense mechanism

A coping strategy that helps protect a person from difficult feelings.