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    1. a feeling of self-reliance/boldness2. certainty of ones values &

    convictions3. boldness to execute onesconvictions

    4. feeling of surety of accomplishment

    Developing

    SELF CONFIDENCEDEFINITION

    1. BY $UMAT$INGHAL

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    Socrates

    First of all, youcatch me. Then

    you put me intothe grave.

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    SELF CONFIDENCE

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    SELF-CONFIDENCE is essential for

    SUCCESSWithout SELF-CONFIDENCE weare afraid to take risks and lack

    courage to explore higher horizonswithin our existing potential.

    IMPORTANCEDeveloping

    SELF CONFIDENCE

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    To be yourself in a world that is constantlytrying to make you something else is the

    greatest accomplishment.-Ralph Waldo Emerson

    Maintain stable identity in variety ofsituations over time.Erikson

    REAL SELF-CONFIDENCE

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    Not based on achievements and successesBased on fulfillment of: who we are, what our purposes

    are and what we represent to our families, society andthe world at large.

    Before we can know the world around us, andmake wise choices, we must first come to grips withwho we are and what we value.

    To safeguard and strengthen our character andintegrity despite reversing situations

    We either stand for something or fall foranything

    Not becoming absorbed in ourselves; rather learning to be selfless.

    REAL SELF-CONFIDENCE

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    HIGH SELF-ESTEEM

    Self-concept matches ideal selfLOW SELF-ESTEEM

    Self-concept more negative thanideal self

    HIGH & LOW SELF

    ESTEEM

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    LOW SELF ESTEEM

    1. like to gossip &criticize

    2. arrogant & proud3. blame others

    4. compromiseprinciples to gainacceptance

    5. jealous of others

    HIGH SELF ESTEEM

    Show respect and careto others

    1. Humble and prideless

    2. AssumeResponsibility for

    their actions3. Act with integrity

    4. Well wisher ofeveryone

    HIGH & LOW SELF

    ESTEEM

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    1. PLANNING

    2. PREPARATION3. POSITIVE ATTITUDE4. PERSISTENCE

    5. PRESERVE YOURVALUES

    6. PRAYER

    6 STEPS to BLOOMINGof SELF CONFIDENCE

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    1.PLANNINGA blind mans world is bounded by limits of his

    touch; an ignorant mans world by the limits of hisknowledge, and a great mans world by the limits of

    his vision.

    The VISION should be in consistency withPRINCIPLES.

    The Value is in the worth; not the numbers.

    6 STEPS to BLOOMINGof SELF CONFIDENCE

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    EDUCATION- a key for the future.

    If you sweat in peace times; youll bleedless in war

    Realizing Spiritual Values-

    Service To GOD

    2. PREPARATION

    6 STEPS to BLOOMINGof SELF CONFIDENCE

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    EDUCARY-To Bring fromwithin

    What lies before us and what lies behind us aresmall matters compared to what lies within us.

    And when we bring what is within us, out into theworld, miracles happen

    - Henry David Thoreau

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    3. POSITIVE ATTITUDE

    Nobody can make you feelinferior without yourpermission.

    ATTITUDE = 100HARD WORK =EFFORT =

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    "If you look at what you do not have in life, you don't haveanything"

    "If you look at what you have in life, you have everything"A Harvard study followed a group of graduates over anextended period of time and found that 85% of what theyachieved in the areas of wealth and position was the result of

    attitude while 15% was the result of aptitude.

    POSITIVE ATTITUDE

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    4. PERSISTENCE

    Persistence=Patience+Enthusiasm+

    Faith

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    One of the laws in The Science of Success is The Lawof Gender.

    Among other things, this law teaches us that there is agestation or incubation period for EVERYTHING tomaterialize into physical form.

    A carrot takes 7 weeksAn onion plant takes 9 weeksBamboo takes 7 years

    An olive tree -- one of the greatest and most magnificent trees inthe universe takes 100 YEARS!

    Patience

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    Success meansgoing from failureto failure without

    the loss ofenthusiasm.-

    Enthusiasm

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    There is no greater confidence than faith in the glory &grace of the Supreme.

    Faith is a source of discipline and power and meaning in thlives of the faithful of any major religious creed.

    It is a potent force in human experience.

    FAITH

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    5. PRESERVE YOUR VALUESWhen it comes to compromising principles

    JESUS CHRIST

    ARJUNA

    Protection is awarded to one who seeks themost.

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    6. PRAYER

    6 STEPS to BLOOMINGof SELF CONFIDENCE

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