Domestic Style DisciplineMiss ChrisA Little Mischief – October 2015

Domestic = of or relating to the home, the household, household affairs, or the family.

Discipline = the practice of training people to obey rules or a code of behavior, using punishment to correct disobedience.

Domestic Discipline = caring, consensual, consistently fair use of structure, accountability and discipline to enforce rules of behavior in the household.

Domestic Discipline Definition

•Having to do household chores•Having to go to bed or get up at a certain time•Maintaining an exercise program• Staying on a budget• Presenting yourself in a certain way• Adhering to a positive daily routine•Maintaining rules surrounding technology

Examples of Domestic Discipline

• Spanking / Corporal Punishment• Time out / Corner Time• Mouth soaping• Enemas• Line writing• Scolding / Lecturing• Early bedtime / Early morning• Taking away of privileges• Food restrictions• Household chores

Examples of Domestic Punishments

•Dominant spouse/submissive spouse•Dominant family member/submissive family member• Parent/child•Aunt-Uncle/child• Son-Daughter/grandparent

• Babysitter or Neighbor/kid•Housekeeper/messy house occupant

Domestic Discipline Role Plays

Head of Household (HoH) = the Dominant partner in a contractual domestic discipline relationship

Taken in Hand (TiH) = the submissive partner in a contractual domestic discipline relationship

Maintenance Spanking = is used to maintain focus, revisit and/or re-establish rules and behavior

Punishment Spanking = is used to punish for not adhering to

the rules of the household

Domestic Discipline Lifestyle – Terminology

• Contracts• Basic generic contract between HoH & TiH

•DomesticDisciplineExampleContract1.pdf*• Detailed generic contract between HoH & TiH

•DomesticDisciplineExampleContract2.pdf*

* taken from “Learning DD” http://learningdd.com

Domestic Discipline Lifestyle - Documents

Spencer Spanking Plan = no roles; one rule list; each partner holds the other accountable; men are whipped (implements), women are spanked (hand only); TiH must ask for their punishments

Disciplinary Wives Club or FLR = Women are HoH, men are TiH; (https://disciplinarywivesclub.wordpress.com/)

Christian Domestic Discipline (CDD) = Men are HoH, women are TiH; domestic discipline focusing on Christian values (http://www.christiandomesticdiscipline.com/)

Learning Domestic Discipline = modern day traditional role based domestic

discipline where the Man is HoH and the woman is TiH (http://learningdd.com/)

Domestic Discipline Lifestyle – History

• COMMISSION or The Crime• DETECTION or The authority figure finds out about crime• CONFRONTATION or The guilty party is faced with the

evidence of fault. Evidence is shown, judgment delivered and sentence is passed• APPREHENSION or Waiting for the sentence to be meted

out• PREPARATION or The culprit is ordered to prepare

themselves for punishment, mentally and physically• EXECUTION or The punishment itself• AFTERMATH or Forgiveness and aftercare

Domestic Discipline Rituals

Setting the Stage:• Miss Chris is the HoH and Emma is the TiH• According to the mutually agreed upon contract,

Emma is responsible for managing and paying bills out of the household fund (this is so that she may develop proficiency in money matters)• This morning, the cable TV service was cut off due to

non payment• The demo begins at the “Confrontation” stage, and

assumes the “Commission” and “Detection” stages have already occurred

Domestic Discipline Demo

Questions & Answers?

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