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Jason Crews
Essay #4
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Over the past few years I have decided not to allow fear to dictate my choices. That is a
key value in my life. I believe that we unconsciously allow our fears to guide our lives and
influence our choices. Once I realized this was happening to me I was able to recognize my
inability to accomplish anything significant in my life was largely due to fear. This allowed me
to see all of my educational options and allowed me to finally decide to become a music
teacher. Previously I was held back by the fear of dedicating my life to teaching and music.
Mostly because everyone knows teachers don’t make very much money. My family also
contributed to that fear, though not directly. They often lead me to believe that I was “too
smart” to teach, or “those who can’t do teach”.
When faced with a difficult decision I try to look at the all of my options objectively then
determine the best course of action. I also like to ask myself if the decision I am about to make
is based at all on fear, and if that fear is justified. I believe that most people make no attempt
at objectivity when making important decisions in their life. They allow fear and emotion to
dictate, often to their detriment, their course of action. I could give any number of examples,
some more significant than others, where try to objectively make decisions. The most recent
was my decision to attend Ottawa University rather than Northern Arizona University. I was
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accepted into both, and even offered a partial scholarship to NAU. I talked to several people to
help gain an objective perspective, and then I considered all the pros and cons of attending
each university, and settled on Ottawa. One of my primary concerns was to determine if not
attending NAU was based on my fear of moving to a completely different city far away from my
friends and family.
Religion was once played a much more import role in my life and decision making
processes than they do today. I was raised very conservatively as a Baptist. In fact, two of my
grandparents were Baptist missioners to Japan before they recently retired. I believe most
religions offer good guide lines for living good, socially responsible life, when those guidelines
are not interoperated to literally and placed into a contemporary context. For example, “be ye
kind to one another” or “thou salt not kill”. I believe the LDS has very good teachings about
family and how family should spend time together. To that extent religious principles, most of
which I think are universal, do influence my life. I do not identify myself with any particular
doctrine.
I believe that there is, wither people admit it or not, a universal set of rules that dictate
basic human decency. I believe in applying those universal rules constantly to all people,
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places, and things. I try to do to others as I would like them to do to me. I try to treat them
with courtesy and respect, despite who they might be. In return I expect to be treated in the
same manner. Businesses are no different. For example, when I was a cashier I always did my
best to be professional and courteous to every customer, and simultaneously respect the needs
of the business. That means that I always did my job as best I could. I refuse to take things to
do not belong to me, such as money. In return I expect that my supervisors and management
treat me with respect. I expect them to realize that I am a human and should be given the
same respect I give them.
If asked do define the purpose of life, I would be unable to clearly respond. At times I
take a more scientific view and say life really has no purpose. We are simply here because we
were lucky enough to be conceived and born. Other times I might say that the purpose of life is
to pursue ones dreams to the best of your ability, while trying to help others pursue their own
dreams along the way. It’s the second part of the former statement that I believe many people
falter. They pursue their wants and needs so single mindedly that they ignore the others in
their direct sphere of influence. In the end most of them end up with what they want, but
aren’t happy when they get it. I believe that if we help other reach their goals along the way to
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reaching ours we will end up happy and surrounded by other happy people, and in the process
we will not only help improve our quality of life, but the quality of life of society as a whole.
I wouldn’t want my obituary to say much. I hope that my actions throughout the course
of my life would define me better than any set of eloquent words written. I hope that my
legacy will be one of success, generosity, and kindness. I hope that those I leave behind will be
better off as humans and members of society than had I never met them. I hope that my estate
will continue to work to that ends even after I die. I would also like to write the obituary
because it is their perception of me that is more important that my preoccupation of myself. I
hope that they would write something about how I influenced them positively and tried to
influence everyone around me positively. Hopefully that legacy will continue long after I die.