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Family Support Group Workbook 1 in 3 households are impacted by substance use disorder. Addiction often stresses families to breaking points, impacts the stability of the home, the family's unity, mental health, physical health, finances, and overall family dynamics. Yet, family members have not benefit from the 21st century recovery movement in the same way that peers have. Today, there is a glaring gap in family recovery support. “It is time—no, past time—that the basic unit of service within recovery support service settings shifted from the individual to families and kinship networks. Making that shift will require substantive changes across the addiction treatment and recovery support service continuum.” -- William White (2017)

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Family Support Group 

Workbook 

1 in 3 households are impacted by substance use disorder. Addiction often stresses families to breaking points, impacts the stability of the home, the family's unity, mental health, physical health, finances, and overall family dynamics. Yet, family members have not benefit from the 21st century recovery movement in the same way that peers have. Today, there is a glaring gap in family recovery support.

“It is time—no, past time—that the basic unit of service within recovery support service settings shifted from the individual to families and kinship networks. Making that shift will require substantive changes across the addiction treatment and recovery support service continuum.” -- William White (2017)

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February 6, 2019 Family Members, Welcome to the CRAFT Family Support Group. Many find CRAFT effective at reducing a loved-one’s harmful substance use and engaging them into services as well as improving you and your family functioning. RecoveryPeople is a peer- and family-led nonprofit that promotes recovery from substance use issues. Recovery is a process of change through which people improve their health and wellness, live self-directed lives, and strive to reach their full potential (SAMHSA 2012). Given this broad definition of “recovery”, we believe that family members have the right to their own recovery journey, regardless of whether a loved one is in active addiction, is in long-term recovery or has deceased. Through a Substance Abuse and Mental Health Service Administration (SAMSHA) grant, RecoveryPeople was able to invite the Utah Support Advocates for Recovery Awareness (USARA) to Texas in February 2019. USARA has developed a family-to-family recovery support networks across Utah, which we aim to replicate in Texas. To achieve this statewide family recovery support goal, RecoveryPeople partners with local recovery support service providers and CRAFT Facilitators. We encourage you to work with these service providers and facilitators, growing the family-to-family support network in your community. Your CRAFT Facilitator will ask you to complete surveys. Collectively, the results will document the effectiveness of the support service, which is key to securing future funding. Please visit, www.recoverypeople.org, to learn more about us and our services. Sincerely

Pace Lawson Program Coordinator RecoveryPeople [email protected]

Jason Howell Executive Director RecoveryPeople [email protected]

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CRAFT Family Support Group Workbook

Developed by:

John Garbett, USARA Family Coach, Certified in CRAFT Jan Lovett, USARA Family Support Coach, Trainer

Darlene Schultz, USARA Family Support Coach, Trainer

This workbook is based on the Community Reinforcement and Family Training (CRAFT) model that follows the book;

Get Your Loved One Sober Alternatives to Nagging, Pleading, and Threatening

Authored by:

Robert J. Meyers, Ph.D. Brenda L. Wolfe, Ph.D.

Published by: Hazelden Publishing

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